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Warmth you give, not the warmth you feel. Never judge by appearances.

I agree. I think the title was click bait for bitter knuckleheads like me. A 🥄 Spoonful of Sugar to Help the Medicine Go Down, Medicine Go Down! It worked 😮 Trying to be self aware over here 🌿 Thx for your comment Bless Up!¡!♡ ❤️💚💛🇯🇲

Your insight is refreshing and powerful.

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In today's society, many people take advantage of our kindness to scam us, and I understand why many people become so insensitive, perhaps they have lost faith in life.

I found your comment really helpful with what I'm going through.

@@PaulaW-wq1kh thank you! It’s just a shame that we have to deal with such pettiness in other adults. Bless you.

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I agree with your critique on the Machiavellian-like household upbringing, and I appreciate your fresh perspective on recovery aligning with Stoic thinking. Your emphasis on mindfulness and setting boundaries is spot-on. It's great to see how you've found positivity in setting aside toxic relationships and focusing on genuine connections. Your insights are valuable. Thanks for sharing!

I have a few degrees in psych, and I was bullied a lot as a young man, so Im happy to lend some advice, and it must be that much harder w/the digital age for kids. Work on your children's self esteem, self worth (they have to find balance within themselves, nobody can give it to them). They need room to breath, and have independence from parents, but they also need parents who are consistent, and there to teach them how the world works. Severe bullies are what is known as conduct disorders in children (they cannot be diagnosed with other issues until they are over 18 years of age). Most bullies were abused in childhood by a caretaker, so the saying the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, is kind of true in some respects, as abuse is often generational. I cannot emphasise personal boundaries enough, and that comes with self esteem, and learning to say NO, without escalating a situation. Bullies tend to want emotional gasoline, they are sadistic, violent, vindictive, often not afraid of punishments, and they are BORED by nature, and they by nature are weak (hence why they gang up, and look for bully support). So they look for emotional supply from their targets, in the form of torturing, to stimulate their own fragile sense of self-esteem/fragile egos (they may lack identity, or be living a stunted abused identity as the bully, either way, it's not the bullies authentic self in most cases. I would tell your kids, learn what a poker face is, learn a method known as grey rocking. It means being as boring as possible to the bully, in otherwords, don't feed the trolls the emotional attention they are craving. People like that go for people who are emotional vulnerable, like sensitive empathic people who are easy to get a reaction from. Adult children, are just the physically grown up versions of the bully (they are developmentally stunted!). Everything is about healthy human development, the stages are all correct. We self-realize, and individutate as toddlers, and again as teenagers, they are critical times in our development, that we must learn autonomy from our parents. I hope this helps :D

Show them you have control over yourself and maintain your boundaries, communicate them and then if all else fails threaten them and be convincing. It works.

Your point is interesting. It suggests that being aware allows us to control our emotions, turning emotional insensitivity into a conscious choice. It's a different way to look at it, highlighting the power of mindfulness. Thanks for sharing!

We should tolerate zero abuse.

Your reflection on trust and influence is insightful. Setting strong boundaries is crucial for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling life. Recognizing our human fallibility and knowing when to draw the line against abuse are essential aspects of self-care. Your reminder to do good but avoid being taken advantage of is a valuable lesson in navigating relationships. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

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God being you?

That's beautiful ❤

This is a meaningful idea.

Are there any good UKposts channels for meditation that you can recommend?

Remaining conscious may be your best effort.

War is opportunity