Are Women Cooking Less Nowadays?
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@Dear9812 Місяць тому
I’ve seen women do it all. Cook, clean, shop, work. It is physically demanding. And then the man is working as well and wants to come home, eat and relax alone. We need to build deeper emotional bonds in our relationships so that resentment doesn’t grow.
@Leydo773 Місяць тому
THIS
@loveyourfitnessevolution9166 Місяць тому
Well said🙏🏾
@VirgilHawkinsIs Місяць тому
I hate posts like this cause y’all act like guys don’t have responsibilities at the house as well and then you position it like it’s men vs women. That mentality isn’t even conducive to a strong household to begin with…but go off, I guess.
@leroilapue15 Місяць тому
The man isnt doing nothing when he comes home he is resting becauee his life is way fucking harder than any woman can imagine. Women shouldnt be working they should be raising kids
@TitiTAH Місяць тому
You are RIGHT
@sonyap8253 Місяць тому
Cooking is not a wife skill, it's a life skill. It aint about a man. It's about taking care of yourself and your budget.
@Myt229 Місяць тому
You sound crazy and it’s only women who liked this comment
@jorge9142011 Місяць тому
I've been saying that since since i was even 12 years old. Back in 2010. Isnt a gender thing. It a life skill. Ppl always want to throw other under bus. No its LIFE SKILL!
@Pauliesha Місяць тому
Well put💯
@chriswilliams6896 Місяць тому
Traditionally it is a gender thing, which is why it’s a topic for discussion.
@VicTor-ho9dd Місяць тому
You probably single.
@jaywashington7225 Місяць тому
I cook more than my wife. She cooks maybe twice a week I don’t mind because she’s up every morning at 530 getting our kids ready for school.
@kellysnyclife663 Місяць тому
Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 a husband helping out!! This is marriage
@YaNa-xq4ll Місяць тому
Cool, but to me, this entire conversation and debate is silly because men can throw down too!! Most chefs are men...People need to stop this foolishness because it's not one person's duty...Whatever works for people is what they should do!
@VanessaElizabeta Місяць тому
That’s great, it’s all about balance. You guys are a team!
@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 Місяць тому
@@YaNa-xq4llyou copping out sucka😂
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
@@YaNa-xq4llwomen can go 50/50 but spend time crying about it too so whats your point? 😅
@TommyThaGreat Місяць тому
Everyone should learn how to cook. It’s a common skill.
@theresonlyonejd 29 днів тому
It’s the females primary responsibility!
@save_sudan_and_palestine 13 днів тому
why I would when I'm living with my parents and when I marry, my wife would cook? It's just a wasted skill that you would take time to gain while not benefit from it much? I just need to know the basics, to cook egg and rice and minced meat for emergency situations.
@IAMGROOT4EVA Місяць тому
If you can't cook and clean as an adult, idk what to tell you. There's no way I'm relying on another human being as a grown adult to cook and clean for me. Utterly ridiculous 😒
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
I mean folks out here crying for ppl to spend all their hard earned money on them. So in reverse you can ask for cooked meals
@RicardoOdum Місяць тому
As a man, from the south, I like to cook. So I don't care if a woman can't, I'll handle it if she doesn't. It's a bonus, but NOT a requirement. As long we eating, that's all that matters. Idgaf honestly.
@HJCOD Місяць тому
U aint from the south if you aint wantcha lady cooking for you, u lost boy, so u gone cook 7 days a week the whole relationship? Get real bruh, its about give and take
@AyeDeDi Місяць тому
Charlamagne definitely said it. Something had to be sacrificed. My mom was dedicated to her family, and she didn't really have an outside life. Being solely a parent and not have an identity outside of that is mentally taxing. I applaud my mom and all the others because working full time, school full time, toddler and trying to keep my mental and physical in tact is something serious! Men too!
@TXLennyS Місяць тому
Envy is spot on ...that's the answer the women back then had no life and didn't really go out and they were always at home when off...women now are hitting happy hour on weekdays
@Dear9812 Місяць тому
I’m glad he said that. And Charlamagne too made a great point. A lot of people are doing noble things (cooking all the meals, rearing kids, working 70 hours a week) and are miserable.
@enlightenedbeauty7836 Місяць тому
Cooking is work. Child rearing is work. Cleaning is work. Employment is work. Being expected to offer unlimited emotional support is work. Women are constantly working and not all men are worthy of all this labor. Men need to learn how to do all of the above if they aren’t going to provide 100%.
@chanson8508 Місяць тому
This 💯 I'll never take a goofy dusty seriously if he can't understand these basic facts. At a minimum, get a high paying job or bring your 50% overall, not just money... or find a "pick me" type dummy lady lol
@Mzmamacita87 Місяць тому
Does it feel to win the internet?
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
Everyone dont got kids. The ones who aint cooking why didnt they spend their childless life span learning to cook? We all went to school &/or worked & cleaned but yet some still are able to cook. The level of excuses the moderners make is hilarious. Loving watching the future cat ladies walk themsleves into owning 20 cats & eating cat food when things potentially get rough.
@kazmir_ Місяць тому
A lot of dudes do this for themselves now anyways, nobody trying to eat stuff that aint giving gains anyway, said all those things to do and didnt say "workout" we already know what meals most of yall be cooking anyways😂
@HJCOD Місяць тому
And you dont think men cook or clean? DAMN WE ALL EQUAL NOW SIS, now if u actually want a man why would he want u if he can do everything?
@theresalor Місяць тому
This kind of conversation is stupid. Man or woman, you have to know how to cook in order to survive. There's no gender to it. These discussions are weird.
@lemonpepper853 Місяць тому
Very much so
@icantwiththis Місяць тому
I can't cook and I'm alive
@save_sudan_and_palestine 13 днів тому
why I would when I'm living with my parents and when I marry, my wife would cook? It's just a wasted skill that you would take time to gain while not benefit from it much? I just need to know the basics, to cook egg and rice and minced meat for emergency situation
@save_sudan_and_palestine 13 днів тому
@@icantwiththis Simply because we are living in a society where not everyone should do everything. shouldn't everyone be a farmer to survive, the farmers will give others. similarly, not everyone should know cooking, just some cookers (housewives or housemaids) would feed others.
@quannifer Місяць тому
My wife and I both work and split cooking duty. I definitely cook a little more but it's because I'm the better cook.
@jaygreene8476 Місяць тому
Aw man sending my prayers brother
@erikaervin9817 Місяць тому
Why is the responsibility on the woman to cook?
@Erniepotts Місяць тому
Why is it the responsibility of the man to protect his family????
@CMG810 Місяць тому
Why is it man’s responsibility to pay rent/mortgage
@IAMGROOT4EVA Місяць тому
Women provide for and protect their children EVERYDAY. This is 2024. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN??? @@Erniepotts
@SmooveTV718 Місяць тому
@@Erniepotts Thank you smh
@taj6048 Місяць тому
Exactly! Who said that was strictly a women’s duty?
@kmjones5 Місяць тому
I like cooking, but I don't do it often. I work too much.
@Ms.YeauxJuan Місяць тому
I'm a true New Orleans woman!! I will ALWAYS cook!!! ALOT!!!!
@fleurdiva Місяць тому
I work 9 hours a day. When I get home we gotta do homework and baths and story time and bedtime for 8:30pm. I only cook on weekends!
@JezzyChristakathrilla Місяць тому
I think people forget the context of why women did cook, it was a preservation act. If you cook I’ll cut the grass, wash the car, fill the gas, get the kids in the after school if you dropped them off in the morning. Hell I know how to cook and my wife does too but she doesn’t have any issues or undermine the things I do for the house
@bluebirdredrobin6827 Місяць тому
Women are in the workforce just as much as men. Why would anyone want to sign up for a second job as a nanny, chef and maid?
@jas1565 Місяць тому
Lol exactly. If we both work, why are we both not doing the cooking, cleaning, childcare?
@maskedman5657 Місяць тому
Because we the breadwinners.
@enlightenedbeauty7836 Місяць тому
@@maskedman5657not in the black community.
@idontarguewithpeasants Місяць тому
@@maskedman5657lol where most of us make more than men
@missynnifer Місяць тому
@@maskedman5657 breadwinner means you are the only one bringing money in to provide for the family. That’s not the case, most families need 2 incomes and the women work as much as the men. The question is, in those households where both the woman and man are women, pretty much the same amount, why should women be the only one to cook?
@aoleongabriel7197 Місяць тому
My husband enjoys cooking so I let him🤷🏾♀️
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
Love that for you! Some of these men thinks it’s a sin for them to help in the kitchen
@andren8788 Місяць тому
Honestly, I can't cook. But I always clean so that's our trade off
@Dailynewsandtruth Місяць тому
But you will cook and go to work as a sing mother make it make sense
@Dailynewsandtruth Місяць тому
@@Kandy6903yall think its a sin to pay majority of the bills 😂😂😂😂hypocrite
@msarmstrong410 Місяць тому
Love me a man that can cook!
@tejaynem2292 Місяць тому
U save more money when u cook. Eating out everyday is very expensive. I had to cut back from eating out because inflation is high.
@francettedelorme9188 Місяць тому
That’s not true no more because of inflation now the price of groceries is the same as getting food out, but I would still opt to cook instead of buying out.
@javiruiz8365 Місяць тому
@@francettedelorme9188 not here in NYC! It’s ten times cheaper to cook at home than order out. Was going to order 2 large one topping pizzas from Pizza Hut because I haven’t had it in over a year. It was almost 100 dollars because of delivery was 30 bucks. I canceled my order and made my own pizza for the fraction on the cost. I guess it depends in what city you live.
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
Not only do you save money, but you know what's in your food... and less people to tamper.
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
@@javiruiz8365 That's crazy. For $40 you can pick up 2 pies from a local family pizzeria and it's way more healthier, larger pie, better cheese and less chance of a gluten allergy.
@autumnrichelle1097 Місяць тому
@@javiruiz8365you’re in nyc an eating at Pizza Hut?
@Darrius8946 Місяць тому
Everybody needs to cook, tf is yall talking about? If it’s a relationship, the one with more time or the better cook, should cook, regardless of gender.
@rastagyaljenjenn Місяць тому
Massive Truth.
@lemonpepper853 Місяць тому
Exactly! What are these people talking about? They still acting like we're still in the 1940s when rent was $50 and women were able to stay home.
@taj6048 Місяць тому
Stop trying to make it seem like cooking is strictly for women only. We work too.
@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 Місяць тому
But are you single tho…?
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
Ummm yall def put money spending in relationships on men, so why cant cooking be put on women? What can be put on women?
@HJCOD Місяць тому
What do i need u for if i can do everything myself
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
@@HJCOD they dont want you to want anything bro. They are dreaming for a man to do for the consistently while they are held to 0 expectations. They want what russell wilson shows & not have to show anything like Ciara. In 2024 you better off paying them to leave than paying for them to stay because they want to be lil sex workers
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
@@HJCOD pay them to leave & not stay bc they just want to be lil *ex workers
@ebhill8577 Місяць тому
I have no choice but to cook every day... i have kids...and they are spoiled and prefer it that way outside of pizza and McDonald's.....i ask my daughter what she wanted me to cook for her birthday...she said meatloaf, cabbage, cornbread and mac and cheese....shes 11😂😂😂😂😂
@crystalj3617 Місяць тому
I’m hollering 😂😂😂😂 but I love it!!!!
@loveyourfitnessevolution9166 Місяць тому
Great Job mom❤️. Love this!!!
@TheodoreBakes Місяць тому
😂😂 love it!! She's gonna be asking for that for years to come 😅
@FoougieTV Місяць тому
😂😂😂😂😂
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
There are women still cooking. Some just also have careers so you ain’t gonna get the big breakfast and dinners that ya mama who didn’t work can do. Also men can cook. I know plenty of men who cooks for their woman.
@iiiMUNiiiQUE Місяць тому
A man who enjoys cooking, like actually wouldn’t mind being the main cook and is good at it sounds like a rare 🦄. It would be a dream lol
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
@@iiiMUNiiiQUE it does sound rare but I promise they are out there 😂 they’re just not in comment sections like this one saying “all women don’t know how or don’t want to cook” 😂😂
@FLA813BMO Місяць тому
@@iiiMUNiiiQUEit’s not rare at all, most of the best chefs In The world are and have been men.
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
@@iiiMUNiiiQUE Eh.... It's alright. There's pros & cons. The pro: Cooks better soul food than I do. (I don't fry). The con: Timing and mess. I'm rigid and clean as I cook. He's busy tasting, dancing, and lose track of time. I just let him take over... and I eat a snack prior.
@ramonafortson Місяць тому
I agree with Jess, I actually like cooking. It’s therapeutic for me and cooking is my love language. I’ve actually had an ex try to get back with me because of my cooking
@msarmstrong410 Місяць тому
That must be some fine cooking, lol! I know they're mad.
@luwamalem9537 Місяць тому
Same, I enjoy cooking too! 😊
@ninabella9300 Місяць тому
Any of these men put a ring on it ?
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
Baking is therapeutic for me.
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
Bless you.
@lesliemarvin160 Місяць тому
Not in my house. Mom cooks. Dad doesn't know too much. Partly my fault since weve been together 22 years but my 14 year old son can cook. Breaking the cycle. We should all know how to take care of ourselves.
@Gunnatello Місяць тому
My sister in law throws down in the kitchen, my ex threw down in the kitchen. All my aunt throw down. The world is big guys
@a-tre8798 Місяць тому
They throw down…. but do they cook?
@andren8788 Місяць тому
@@a-tre8798 😅😅😂😂😂
@I-Know-it-All-sc3jz Місяць тому
@@a-tre8798right 2 different things no a lol
@TheSlycooper102 Місяць тому
How old are they though? Difference between the older generations and the newer ones we got now.
@jamesbriggs6364 Місяць тому
If you don't cook or clean you don't have a place to stay at my spot every man and woman should know how to cook it's called being an adult
@tjenkins301 Місяць тому
Imagine men saying “ I’m tired of protecting and providing for my family”.
@Pou1gie1 Місяць тому
Statistically, Black women in the US are the breadwinners and oftentimes the sole consistent parent of the household. So, your comment doesn't hold factual weight.
@Kris_Si2 Місяць тому
Do you fight off intruders everyday? You hunting bears or what?
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
@@Kris_Si2they act like they going to war everyday. Women actually need to be protected FROM them 😂😂
@TheodoreBakes Місяць тому
@@Kandy6903THISSS!!!
@VirgilHawkinsIs Місяць тому
@@Pou1gie1And they don’t do it successfully…what’s your point? I’m a product of a single mother household and my mom didn’t cook 9/10 times. She couldn’t. She wasn’t home. Ever. She essentially kept the lights on and I had to cook, clean, go to school, and work on my own. And I was doing all of that except working since I was 7. This convo isn’t even about single parent homes because they are ALWAYS lacking in one department or another.
@lisas6740 Місяць тому
Mothers need to teach their SONS how to cook. My husband never learned how to growing up like I did. So I’ve had to cook for us. Now with my son he’s learned how to cook at least his favorite dishes to make for himself for when the time comes and moved out of the house he’s good, and saving money bc shits even more expensive or when he’s dating and wants cook something for her.
@YEP_THATS_IT11 Місяць тому
Cooking and feeding my family and ppl I love is part of how I show my love. Nothing like watching your loved ones enjoy what Ive prepared in love!
@slangtang6671 Місяць тому
Bless your heart.
@UnicornEmpress Місяць тому
Men these days demand more, but offer less.
@thagrandpubah Місяць тому
As a man, i agree, but as a woman -you will never tell the truth about even suggesting any woman can do any wrong or be lacking! Pure hubris!!
@johnbush137 Місяць тому
Mmmm, u can say the same for women
@hueyfreeman5509 Місяць тому
Says the woman who won't go on a first date unless the man spends $200? Cut the bs
@alexdewayne9392 Місяць тому
You spelled women wrong
@alexdewayne9392 Місяць тому
You spelled women wrong.
@samoxford5268 Місяць тому
I make all our breads, soft cheeses, yogurt, butter, etc. from scratch. I kill and process our meat, and I prepare all the family's meals. I'm a full-grown woman. I think that this subject mostly refers to younger women, and I didn't do any of my current kitchen work when I was younger. People come into cooking when they're ready, and not everyone is ready at the same time/age.
@JaneDoe-ef3mx Місяць тому
Are you a SAHM?
@samoxford5268 Місяць тому
@@JaneDoe-ef3mx I work from home more hours per week than when I had a brick and mortar job. I remain very occupied.
@Durermac Місяць тому
I clean as I go along while cooking. Cooking is a life skill not a chore.
@Coreyckg12 Місяць тому
I think no one is cooking me anymore bc we all work long hours just to keep a roof over our head so when we otw home we stopping at places to get food
@WiseAilbhean 26 днів тому
Time management and meal prep is key. What you do is buy the meat in bulk, clean it all at once and marinade/season it and put it in a freezer bags. I'll write out my list and quantities before grocery shopping. All you have to do is take it out the morning off, let it defrost and marinade at the same time. By the time you get home it's ready to cook. The key is cleaning, chopping, preparing... make the mess all at once. For a single person, I managed to prep meat and fish to supply me for over a month. I was barely tempted to order take out.
@YuhasLol Місяць тому
Women these days demand more, but offer less.
@travisgreen940 Місяць тому
Facts!
@tejaynem2292 Місяць тому
Exactly they expect the man to do everything but what are u bringing to the table.
@szn1580 Місяць тому
They gonna come for you lmao
@samoxford5268 Місяць тому
All women, or just "your" women?
@MaxicTosculinity Місяць тому
Ok Mr Redpill
@Channel-lj1zx Місяць тому
Envy talking like his 🐕 has a job or something lol
@user-kc1sy1km9y Місяць тому
Lol the fact that this is a convo is sad.
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
Jess and that caller is right! I don’t wanna work from 5:30am-7pm, cook and then clean up afterward. That’s a lot. Offer to help and then maybe you’ll get more. Y’all love to tell a woman go “50/50” housework is included in that 🤷🏾♀️
@Drediggy Місяць тому
That's dumb because you have to do it for yourself. And if it's 50/50 then I would do it just as much as you and we have the same schedule. So if I had that take it would be equally dumb.
@AaronLewis06 Місяць тому
You do realize when you go 50/50 on things, that's you actually receiving help right??? Sounds like you don't like being a responsible adult....
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
@@AaronLewis06 exactly receiving help…. You need help to pay the bills cool, women need help around the house which some men don’t want to do because that’s considered “a woman job”….. did I break that down enough for you or you still need help comprehending
@Kandy6903 Місяць тому
@@Drediggy I don’t think you’re old enough or mentally well enough to have this conversation. I am talking about a partnership. Some men say they want “50/50” in a relationship meaning helping with the bills which is cool for a working woman to help at. Women want help with house work… cooking and cleaning. Please keep up
@kamile88 Місяць тому
@@Drediggycooking and cleaning (and any other tasks that adult humans do) for yourself is completely different from doing it for your family. I speak from experience with two little ones and a husband and a parent with dementia.
@user-nz9be1yq2q Місяць тому
Cook for a man he will stop taking you out. Only cook for your husband
@lordraynation6178 Місяць тому
Wtf...😂
@thaneros Місяць тому
You better be on par with Gordon Ramsey for that to happen.
@mykeynotyours8724 Місяць тому
Crazy take lol
@user-nz9be1yq2q Місяць тому
@James_Willow I been in a 2yr relationship currently you just an angry dusty women don't want your dust
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
Some won't gain a husband unless they demonstrate some skill.
@VirgilHawkinsIs Місяць тому
I don’t think women cook less tbh. I think the ones who don’t want to cook end up in relationships where it works for them (or single) and the same goes for the ones that do. My wife told me she didn’t want to cook all the time so I told her I’d cook on the weekdays and she can cook on the weekends. Plus y’all act like cooking is mandatory. We both get tired of it occasionally and we just go out to eat or order something and the one responsible for providing the food that day is the one who picks it up.
@BattleTalk123 Місяць тому
Waking up at 3 is hilarious 😂😂
@DB.64 Місяць тому
Maybe because women aren’t confined to the kitchen and home anymore.
@belle_bagay3849 Місяць тому
point is every abled bodied adult that requires food for sustenance should know how to cook. This basic life skill should be known by everyone.
@icantwiththis Місяць тому
I don't know how to and I'm fine with that
@fquint6468 Місяць тому
I'm so tired of the "women don't do this, women don't do that" stuff. Like this is annoying, if a woman wants to cook, then good for her. If she doesn't want to that's also fine. There isn't an issue with it either way, it's just up to who you are and what you like to do.
@sincerlymonica Місяць тому
I always make breakfast on the weekends. It’s honestly my favorite food to cook! Love pancakes, waffles, bacon, sausage, eggs and grits.❤
@ezekiellove6853 Місяць тому
Why not cook during the week
@scorpiothoughtsny Місяць тому
I work 70 hours a week, I clean, I take care of my only son and I make breakfast lunch and dinner... I choose to stay single. 😂 My former partners never knew how to contribute the thing I wanted most..honesty. I'm a living lie detector...it never worked out.❤
@TheodoreBakes Місяць тому
I relate to this so much 😅😂
@ssjavier Місяць тому
My gf heard this and got offended lmfao wow
@reaverofhearts7657 Місяць тому
Leave her
@avalanche9263 Місяць тому
Leave her gang
@anasseYM Місяць тому
Red flag 🚩
@frederickifill3107 Місяць тому
Good now leave her
@giffondhall9214 Місяць тому
Sucks for her
@jeanghrey Місяць тому
This is such a stupid question, we have post after post on how people are working 2-3 jobs just to pay basic bills, people in general are probably cooking less overall due to time constraints they're probably leaning on more ready made items, and the cost of groceries is insane. That's not to say people don't cook at all, but why the onus is one sex versus another these days is ludicrous
@shanagmitchel8418 Місяць тому
How many EMPLOYED women with children, wake up at 3pm?! I bet this was posted by some of those "red pill, manosphere" dudes. Any woman who has stuff to do won't be in bed at 3pm. At the end of the day cooking is a LIFE SKILL that both men and women should have!
@Allthequeenzhorses 27 днів тому
It’s toxic as hell. Nobody cares if their mothers cooked every night. They are looking for mothers
@thaneros Місяць тому
I don't understand how anyone doesn't know how to cook?
@idontarguewithpeasants Місяць тому
there’s a difference between knowing and choosing not to.
@thaneros Місяць тому
@@idontarguewithpeasants That's ok but not really the same thing.
@icantwiththis Місяць тому
What's to understand...some people don't know how to do things...other people don't know how to do other things
@AaronLewis06 Місяць тому
Yall just lazy AF! 😂 It doesn't take long to cook a meal. I can easily work 8-9 hrs w/ 30+ students, workout 1 hr, prep grades/notes, and still cook a meal within an hour or less for my family! These ladies just need to manage their times better and step their game up 💯
@robbyb.8905 25 днів тому
Every single adult, male female and everything in between should know how to cook, clean, do laundry and iron
@BusinessBox13 Місяць тому
Not the mental health advocate vilifying waking up late/struggling to get out of bed! Not like depression doesn’t exist!
@petronacisneros5195 Місяць тому
Yesssss it's a trigger!!! The headline is a trigger!!
@VanessaElizabeta Місяць тому
Jess, the woman who makes everything from scratch lives “a soft life.” She does not work outside the home. It’s beautiful, but the average woman does not live that way; most couples today cannot solely depend on one person to be the provider.
@YouCantHaveEmCauseImPraying4Em Місяць тому
Charla bringing up how much your parents gave up before having you is something I’ve always been curious about and ask about which made me super grateful but for Envy it’s like the light bulb still didn’t click on Envy:If I go to my moms right now she’ll cook for me/ My mom didn’t have an outside life and he’s actually smiling while saying that and it’s sad because he’s not realizing that Many parents not just mothers but they get lost in the parent role so much that even once their kid is legally grown they have lost their selves in motherhood or parenthood kinda mimicks when a woman loses herself in a relationship
@gwendolynjones5627 Місяць тому
Mom worked long hours monday-fri and still cooked. We had leftovers too!! But she did sacrifice herself and life
@kamile88 Місяць тому
Exactly. People say their moms worked, cooked, clean, shopped, reared children but leave out the stress and non existent life. I saw my mom struggle and get fed up and get stressed and still pushed through. My parents never went on a vacation. Never traveled. The nicest restaurant we probably ever went to us Sizzlers. We never went on family outings. I was fortunate enough that my parents would save up to send me to Jamaica often. With everyone talking about mental health, I believe some of this generation just wants a healthy balance of work/chores and enjoying life and while figuring it out, some things are sacrificed, like cooking everyday. I refuse to cook everyday because there is so much to do. My parents never cooked everyday either. My parents cooked enough to have 1 or 2 days of leftovers and I do the same.
@gwendolynjones5627 Місяць тому
I don't like cooking either. I do it because of having a family. I'm in my 60's and never like it.
@TheodoreBakes Місяць тому
Thank you for your honesty! People these days act like every woman that cooked and cleaned on a regular, loved to do it smh
@icantwiththis Місяць тому
Cooking is my most hated chore I completely despise cooking.
@ltetobago Місяць тому
I love cooking for myself, my kids and my man, especially on Sundays. That's the big meal and rest day. I love to break bread with my family ❤
@mrscarolcoby5591 Місяць тому
Meal prep it save so much time!
@skoobydawn Місяць тому
I cook every morning for my son before school and work. Like that’s not a challenging task to complete whatsoever.
@VicCarnage Місяць тому
I hate cooking but when I was a step mom I did it every night despite also being the breadwinner so now I just prefer to wine & dine myself lol
@driafibromyalgiafighter9342 Місяць тому
I actually love cooking. Its definitely therapeutic for me 😂
@msarmstrong410 Місяць тому
I love to cook. You can experiment with so many recipes and try new things. I grew up watching hella Food Network. Cleaning afterwards is annoying but just clean as you go or make a one pot dish, it'll save you so much time and the stresses of cleaning hella dishes at the end.
@drummondstephanie82 Місяць тому
Married, Mom, Registered Nurse. I cook and it’s very normal I love cooking for my family. It’s honestly my love language. I cook 3-4 days out the week. And I meal prep leftovers. I’m also 41 so not this generation.
@idontarguewithpeasants Місяць тому
good for you.
@nnedichristian6706 Місяць тому
I don't cook as much anymore. My kids cook for themselves ( teaching them to be self-sufficient).
@kazmir_ Місяць тому
People acting like they dont have time, its the same excuse of finding time to excerise lmao
@drblazePrIMe Місяць тому
Ya just now having this conversation, when this was an expressed sentiment for an entire decade
@MrColdwilliam Місяць тому
Tons of women cook. It's just that jewels are rarely in dumpsters. Gotta change your environment of search to find different.
@jkseraphim4 26 днів тому
I work for a caterer who's from the south and she's a great cook! I never had southern food since my family is caribbean. I love her red velvet and 7-up cake and she loves when my mother's oxtail pepperpot when I brought it to her last year.
@VictoriaWyman Місяць тому
It depends on the structure of the relationship. If both people work. Both should contribute to cooking
@ashleyjones3494 Місяць тому
I cook, i dont like it, but I like to eat. My man never cleans up anything, probably why it's such a pain.
@ronnieh7925 Місяць тому
My boyfriend wakes up at 4 or 5am sometimes I don't so he cooks his own breakfast. I dont like breakfast food so i dont ask him to cook. Sometimes hell still make me something in the morning. When in working and he's working we swap cooking days or we order in. When I'm off I'll cook 2 or 3 different meals so I don't get overwhelmed later during the week. But it is taxing if you have a job, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, taking out the trash, budgeting, and doing it all by yourself. That's why there has to be a balance. I don't do one sided relationships anymore 🤷🏾♀️
@MrsJones-oj3cp Місяць тому
Good conversation
@Bigghaze Місяць тому
I love cooking but my man loves it more so he ends up taking over and does the cooking and I do the cleaning
@brandonbrown6918 Місяць тому
How that young lady came in just to prove the statement true😂😂
@AthenaAthena Місяць тому
Nara Smith also has super bad eczema & apparently started making her food from scratch because she was having bad reactions to pre-made food.
@malaikar18 Місяць тому
I don't cook at 28, my husband enjoys cooking and I wake late because I code through the night. I only wake early now because of my baby. I can cook if I need to but I don't. Maybe special occasion.
@JamisonTurner-vp4ev Місяць тому
I noticed nobody called in and talked about meal prepping. My wife and I actually split the cooking in most cases and prep meals so for dinner the only person's food that has to be prepared is the toddler's. There are sometimes my wife chooses to cook random meals, but that's bc she genuinely loves cooking!
@osa9354 Місяць тому
That was an excellent question in the end c tha god
@Eshaper Місяць тому
There is nothing better than your beloved woman taking her precious time out of the day to prepare you a delicious meal. And when you take the first bite and she looks at you to get your confirmation. That’s love indeed. Thankfully I love to cook also, so my wife appreciates that wholeheartedly.
@jiujitsu344 Місяць тому
I'm an expat in France, and its so much different here. Because everyone can cook here, and seem to enjoy doing it. Both me and my cook.
@johnbush137 Місяць тому
If u sleeping till 3 p.m., u better be working the night shift
@a-tre8798 Місяць тому
“There’s no such thing as female with good looks who cooks and cleans” -Eminem
@loveyourfitnessevolution9166 Місяць тому
Guess you’re on a another planet
@msarmstrong410 Місяць тому
Yes it is, lol just rare as hell!
@TheSlycooper102 Місяць тому
Just reminded me of Cardi B when she said she don't cook or clean
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
He don't know of any... but they exist.
@Leydo773 Місяць тому
Um no. Im married with a kid and cook most days of the week. Eating out is so expensive. But men can cook too. And I work full time so don’t want to hear anything about providing as an excuse not to cook.
@madison346 Місяць тому
Most household require 2 people working full time. So the woman is supposed to work, take care of the kids, clean and cook and the men what? Just work. Get outta here. I think woman are just putting their foot down more.
@aking1196 26 днів тому
That lady said that my mom didn't have to work. This is a generational thing. Envy said his mom had no life, but her family was her life. I love my family, but I am also an individual outside of my family. I cook because we have to eat, but it's not my ministry in life and my husband understands that.
@vanessahodge3627 21 день тому
Tuh, cant relate. Due to inflation, I cook at home more than ever
@alexpeets7118 Місяць тому
What women is sleeping to 3PM? You better be fine as hell to have some sucker pay ya bills while ya not cooking and sleeping till 3PM
@janedough6410 Місяць тому
Most don't unless she's working the graveyard shift. Definitely not with kids.
@TGreen89 Місяць тому
Yes, and? Y'all want women to work and come home and cook while men work and come home and do what?
@Coolness18304 Місяць тому
Don't do it for a man, do it for yourself. It's unhealthy and fiscally irresponsible not to cook
@dright9547 Місяць тому
You can’t be this ignorant
@icantwiththis Місяць тому
Play video games
@trinabell2793 29 днів тому
Great topic fam cooking less
@sadeakinniyi6806 Місяць тому
Cooking is a survival skill Everyone should learn to cook
@save_sudan_and_palestine 13 днів тому
farming is a survival skill everyone should learn to farm building is a survival skill everyone should learn to build sewing is a survival skill everyone should learn to sew Carpentry is a survival skill everyone should learn to carpenter Blacksmithing is a survival skill everyone should learn to blacksmith teaching is a survival skill everyone should learn to teach mining is a survival skill everyone should learn to mine guarding is a survival skill everyone should learn to guard
@VineVitumEt5 24 дні тому
My father and my mother both cooked, while working 40 plus hours a week and raising four children. Men and women should cook. It is a skill that needs to be taught and learned, just like doing laundry and the dishes, cleaning, sewing, dusting, etc.
@jkseraphim4 6 днів тому
Excatly.😊
@JaeSwift10JamellaSwift Місяць тому
I love to cook and love it when men are great cooks. I can always tell if a person loves to cook based on how the food tastes.
@crimsonrosegold5082 Місяць тому
I love breakfast and have no problem cooking it at anytime. I love cooking for my boyfriend and family
@alexdewayne9392 Місяць тому
Short answer: Yes
@bosslady83 Місяць тому
Cook and clean! Prepping beforehand helps out a lot. Also having a supportive partner helps like mind would shred the cheese or cut the onions and peppers. Make it fun and include the kids. I was cooking at 12 because my mom worked a lot.
@frankjones5770 Місяць тому
Shout out to the folks that grew up only eating out on Fridays. Now we just eat out everyday
@1079nona Місяць тому
Bro I fuckin love Jess hilarious 😂😂😂
@Sugar_TrappER Місяць тому
I cook breakfast while I’m cooking dinner & put it up to take to work the next day for me & my man ❤
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