My nanna always said never get too friendly with your neighbours. Keep it to civil pleasantries, because if you ever fall out you’re stuck living next door.

Hazel is 42 ? Gosh ! She looks so much older, like 52 ! She must have had a hard life.

Hazel is a narcissistic psychopath. The colonel needs to stop feeding her hunger for chaos. Her husband is damaged she has destroyed him. You can not deal with narcissists. She is a happy camper. She was friends long enough to learn the Gray's weaknesses and what will set them each off. NEVER EVER APOLOGIZE TO A NARCISSIST

Hazel is a raging narcissist. Best way to deal with them is to get the hell away from her and her enabler husband! You cannot negotiate with a narcissist!

He's a teacher ? She's a Mother who is afraid for her children but places their playhouse as close to him as possible, even overlooking his garden. Yeah, that makes sense.

It's apparent that Jamie has anger issues regardless. Hazel is the main problem with her arrogance and conceit.

Hazel her partner ,kids and home looks filthy maybe spend more time getting her own house in order instead of worrying about her neighbours business ,she enjoys the drama

Hazel 1000% made the situation worse, everytime they were getting somewere she kept damanding more and more. do not believe she is innocent in the dispute she defo played more in that part than shes letting on, shes a nightmare.

He slapped me once to calm me down but he has never beat me 😂 13:15 - 13:40 classic line.

Hazel is a troublemaker!

I love how seriously the Colonel takes the situation, like a true military operation

They make me embarrassed to be Canadian. Sorry Kent.

The Jacobson home is a mess and looks like some drinking going on

Sad part is, the children from both families were stuck in the middle of this battle of wills. Hazel was a peice of work, constantly moving the end result she wanted to see, along with Zoe's husband who ended up having to admit he has an anger issue problem. Two stubborn people that just would not give up a little ground between each other.

Two Narcissist find themselves neighbours only people losing are the children who could be good friends. So childish….Hazel should put some of that energy into cleaning her yard looks like a hazard…

Hazel looks 65

Dudes faking that back injury Was nothing wrong with him jumping up out of that chair and table 😂

Looks like the Canadian family have also fallen out with their hairdresser/ barber.

Jamie is probably the main reason for the conflict, but Hazel seems to be the greatest hindrance to its resolution.

Those Canadians are pond life.

What a nightmare! I am pleased they have now resolved the problem. I thought straight away that Hazel was a difficult person as she kept moving the goal posts and would not budge an inch.

Don’t get too friendly with your neighbors… just say hello and have a light conversation…that’s it!

I'm over 70 year's old and after two problems with neighbours when my children were young ( one was loud music all night.. the other was visitors blocking my drive ) I check out the potential neighbours garden . Then ask other residents and finally I spend two week ends sleeping in my car a small distance away . Husband and I have been living in the same house for 25yrs happily . Bad neighbours cause serious mental health issues .

Oh go have a bath 😂😂😂😂 that got me 😂

"My husband is a nice man. To calm me down he assaulted me" She is delusional. Apparently, he slapped her but that's different to beating her. He only hit her for her own good...............

'He's a danger to my kids' So I'm putting my kids raised playhouse right next to,and overlooking,his privacy fence,because it's just so important that my kids get to see the view from that specific angle,rather than from the opposite side of the garden,where there's no risk of them coming into contact with him whatsoever..Sure thing Hazel,nothing to do with being vindictive at all,and using your kids as an excuse,This fact alone,makes me take anything she says with a pinch of salt.

I was in this exact same position… a Hazel in Kent believe it or not! It was horrendous and the neighbour was also a narcissist… I ended up with major anxiety and my children hated living there 🤮 WORST TIME OF MY LIFE Sold the house because of it, best thing we ever did!

That hazel and husband are terrible people she needs to clean her house instead of fighting with neighbour

Go home Hazel

What a shame. It’s looks a beautiful place to live. I’d love to live in a rural place like that.

Hazel is horrible and a bully.

Without even meeting them, you only have to look at the properties to see where the chaos is...

“He just gave me a slap to calm me down” “ I don’t have a temper”. (Then shows his temper). I know the body of this show is about neighbours but I am worried for Zoe.

Im Canadian, and I would like to say we don't claim her as one of us. 🇨🇦

How could this Mom possibly be 42 years old..... she looks ancient.

I will never be in and out of my neighbours houses because one argument can cause all hell to break loose. One woman who lived opposite used to be with her neighbour all the time until they fell out so she moved (council exchange) and same again... she lived in 4 houses in 15 years in our tiny east midlands village, only moving due to falling out with her 'besties' next door. A couple of years ago she moved to Devon. I wouldn't imagine she has learned a lesson. tbh I don't have anyone i'm extremely close to. Id rather keep it this way. i get on with everyone but thats as far as it goes.

Can't believe that grown-ups can be like school children. Never in 59 years have been in such a position. Childish. Greetings from South Africa

What catastrophic examples of parents. Behavior worse than children!

1:16 Did I just hear that right??? SHE is 42???? That can't be right. She looks at least 60!

OMG! That Hazel!! ...Jaimie has been pushed to his limit. Hazel won't change. If people could only understand the fragility of life and how valuable it is to live a good one. Just move...Hazel will keep on living as a domineering control freak. .../ Live in peace ..your children deserve it. .. That platform...passive aggressive.. actually not so passive. It'll be fine with the kids till something happens...* He pushed me ..* she did this or that! Good Luck!!

as a Canadian myself.. I have to say that Hazel is sad ambassador for our nation.. self righteous.. ungiving.. female bully.. without an ounce of forgiveness in her. her and her husband.. I don't particularly care for Zoe's husband either.. but he was man enough to apologize for something he should have never said in the first place. great job though Colonel.. didn't think you could pull that off.

- The platform is a problem, Will you move it? - No lol..that's the issue I think, someone deliberately causing problems and not wanting to solve them at all.

Perhaps the crux of the issue was Zoe sharing her troubles with Hazel about being hit by Jamie.

Zoe didn't want to participate because she would have to admit that her husband beat her. She's afraid of her husband and she's willing to throw someone else under the train. Her husband is pissed because his wife told someone.

It's a pity,the kids probably get along fine

Me thinks Hazel enjoys the situation 😀😀😀

I think the moral of the story is, do you not ever tell your neighbour that you are a victim of domestic violence, unless you are completely prepared for your neighbour to sit on their hands, and do nothing.

I am English and my family and I have lived in Thailand for the last 20 years. Over here we have our house land with lots of space and although we do have neighbours there is lots of space between us and them, our homes are completely detached from each other. The British system of joined homes does not work whereas neighbours that are strangers are literally sharing each others space with just a wooden fence between them. In those circumstances there are guaranteed to be conflicts. Back in England we lived mostly in terrace houses and could literally hear our neighbours peeing in their toilets and even having s*x as their bedroom walls backed onto ours. I can remember when a kid my parents were often having arguments with their neighbours. I could never go back to that style of living again.

Well, I’m not a negotiator, but I would say when the situation reaches a no resolve, then the only resolve would be to have the landlord tell them when their lease is up they are both done so now they can live somewhere else separately.

The Canadian yard is a mess. Hazel and Jamie have anger issues. Zoe needs to find her voice. Hazel left North America for a reason, curious...

Jamie is manipulative & the narcissism is scary to Zoe.. Clear to see!

The children always suffer in these situations. Both sets of parents were setting a very bad example for them. As far as that man smacking his wife to calm her down That is unacceptable. She is tearful and seems quite frightened of him. Just awful. A decent man would hug his wife and gently reassure her. Good men never hit their children or their wives.

Such a nice backyard..and houses ..how silly ,to fight for nothing …

They all behave like children. Zoe crying and acting like a baby at the prospect of being in the same room as Hazel seems over the top considering there’s a mediator present. The fact that Jamie slapped his wife across the face to “make her calm down” is a huge red flag. Hazel seems like the kind of woman who is controlling, stubborn and tends to cut off her nose to spite her face….nobody wins but she prefers to live without her nose to having to give an inch. I mean, if you aren’t guilty of inappropriate gestures what’s the problem with agreeing to never do it in the future? And moving that elevated playhouse to the opposite side of the property would still give the kids a view of the countryside without them being able to look down into the other garden….at least I think it would work that way. In my opinion, Hazel and Jamie both have the same temperament and are like oil and water. Nasty people. I feel sorry for the children.

Hazel looks like a witch...both literally and figuratively😊

What lovely big gardens

Hazel has made herself judge and executioner

Bob meets Martin in a field..... classic😂

"I don't lose my temper, I only slapped my wife across the face once" 😂😂😂

The sad thing is, it’s the kids that suffer out of all of this, as they’ve lost friends.

"I'm picking up Martin 'cos he owns a lot of guns and, depending on how this all goes, we might need 'em."

Alrhough there are always two sides to a story Hazel appears to be the main problem. Rude, arrogant, inflexible and demanding. I imagine she creates problems wherever she goes...but it will always be the other persons fault.

Hazel 42 zoe 32 ! JESUS

Instead of spending so much time worrying about her neighbors, Hazel could try cleaning her house. A much better use of her time, I would think!

Never in my life have I seen and heard 2 grown up couples act like a bunch of kids !!!! What example are they setting for their kids 😮

Kids were better behaved than the parents. Parents aren’t setting a very good example for them. Teaching them to be hateful. The places are attached. Always live in your own separate detached house. Don’t even share a driveway or any property. Have a good fence but realize people can use their own property how they like. If the neighbor works or doesnt work is none of your business. Ignore each other if you can’t get along. Fighting just hurts everybody.

Those poor children deserved better.

It's pretty obvious what's gone on here. Jamie is a doorman which means he is violent (simple). Zoe is in an abusive relationship. She is terrified of Jamie. One night, after Jamie had hit Zoe (again), she confided in Hazel. Next thing, Hazel has confronted Jamie because she is not afraid of him. Jamie has exploded because he doesn't like the fact that Zoe has told the neighbours. Jamie tells Zoe never to speak to the neighbours again or else. The feud continues to escalate because Hazel knows exactly what Jamie is, and he hates it. Oh, and by the way. The builder that they interviewed about the drilling was clearly your stereotypical bouncer, and I would bet my house that he was Jamie's friend and ex work colleague.

Zoe grab your children and run as fast as you can, away from your partner. And be grateful for your next-door neighbours. That has shone a light on domestic violence.

“Shut uuuuup, go and have a bath.” 😂 😂😂that’s brilliant

The landlord should get some T&C,s in place..sorted.

@ meeting Martin….. in a field….. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was so funny how the narrator said that and why are we meeting Martin in a field? 😂😂😂😂 I have so many questions.

Thank god I live alone and neighbours are ok.

The ex army blokes up in a chopper doing a recce cracked me up, also him driving with his beret on 😂

Well done Col. Bob. Back in the NAAFI sorting the welfare issues on the patch. I wish people could appreciate what they have more, beautiful homes with great gardens.

The Canadians need to go back to Canada were they can buy a house out in the wilds with no neighbours at all.

Hazel is full of bitterness terrible place to be

That treehouse was put by the fence on purpose. They still have plenty of room in the backyard they could’ve put that treehouse more towards the centre of their backyard.

I feel for Zoe she looks at the end of her tether.

As a Canadian, I wish the Canadiand would have behaved far better than they did!!

Glad they did a follow up and hope both neighbors keep the peace.

Well done for sorting this out- not easy when one side always thinks they’re right 😮

I had the same problem with a neighbor like that years ago. The irony of it all is both husband and wife were as bad as each other. They're no longer together bit he still lives in the house and actually apologized to me. Took it with a grain of salt and keep at a safe distance but keep it civil at the same time. It is what it is...

Hazel needs to stop being like a child in the play ground Jamie apologises and put his hand out hazel stat in doors clean your self and the house you will feel better and leave Zoe and Jamie alone

Hazel is driving me crazy!!! (And I don’t have to live next to her!!!

It seemed like Hazel wasn't budging a bit!! The landlord needs to find new residents!

Bob meets Martin.....in a field 😂😂 well where else would you meet!? 😂

The children playing together made my day

I do not favour either party, but Hazel and her husband appear more inflexible than the other couple. Furthermore, what kind of a person would have the bad sense to invite a camera team into such a pigsty of a home?

The size of the garden fantastic

Both rental properties.. surely it was up to the landlord to try to resolve genuine complaints ..he could have threatened to evict them. Looks like he couldn't be bothered.

I think Jamie met his match in Hazel

I'm from the UK 🇬🇧 and I have a similar problem. It's my neighbour, but the dispute is actually with my partner in anti-social behaviour matters. Having the council and police involvement has helped to take the fusion out... but with toxic people, they don't stop because of the narcissistic trait of seeing themselves as right and above others. It's more an attack on personal characters due to slander and one triggering the other. It's when anger meets with fusion that is usually the start... if that helps others to see. The difference with the interpretation of anti-social behaviour to others and the anti-social behaviour as the council acts on. Some aren't classed to be anti-social, although annoying, like drilling! Abusive, verbal abuse, and noise pollution are top of the list the UK council deem to be anti-social behaviour. There is a difference in anti-social behaviour that the council has the powers to deal with. Anti-social disorders in people are harder as there are no real boundaries to beliefs until incitement or affliction. It's harder to detect, and unless anyone has been through that, it's difficult to define. I'm in favour of that while renting or buying any property. These problems should be identified within the contracts.

Hazel love to cause problems to add drama. Maybe she's just bored living out there.

Kids have more sense than the lot of them - Frisbee over the fence at the end was a slap in all their faces.

That Canadian woman is the troublemaker

We & another neighbour moved because of bad neighbours. It was horrendous

How is Hazel 42?! She looks about 70!!

Anyone else got a headache from these two arguing and constantly bickering back and forth? What kind of example are you both setting for your children or do you completely not care? How do you explain this when your own children become bullies or are found in jail for being physically and verbally ab**$*v£? 🤦🏼‍♀️

“He’s not angry man, he’s only slapped me in the face once.” WTF?!?