I am going to write it down

I tried that, no results. Do I need to meet with some first?

And master the art of bring Craig ferguson

How chafed are ur palms? Pffft 🤣🤣🤣

Instructions unclear. Men are now obsessed with me.

Good insightful comment... the idea of no agenda is key, even though there may be an agenda... maybe it's more about no specific outcome... just fun... that keeps it from being too formulaic and cliché-like. No obvious fallback jokes... overused pickup lines. Real chemistry between two people is something unique and original.

Graham Norton is amazing too.

@@billybanter9573 Perhaps he's good at what he does, but I wouldn't be able to relax around that guy, plus he's too needy, which I find tiring.

Bingo!

Love this comment as much as the video. Yeah, no outcome dependency is actually BIG!

Compliment - tease? Ha-ha good luck

the only correct answer

Haha how many girlfriends do you have

Thanks!

@@tookyu Then get better...

Turu hai

True, but you it's perfectly possible that you're boring. These are *habits* , not tricks

Weirdly enough, I've done exactly what you described andin the process broke every rule in this video and it worked. To be fair, I have interesting interests so my serious answers were inherently interesting, and I'm a sort of puppy dog like personality naturally regardless of attraction to the person, so my example is sort of the exemption that proves the rule

I use to get girls left and right just thinking about Jerry Seinfeld lines and making the subtle face and motion gestures it worked a lot then I got into a long and boring 7 year relationship so I’m getting back into it. You have to play actor and let yourself go, not worry about scoring a goal or getting blocked just keep it rolling and practice makes perfect. I use to obsess over breaking someone’s heart idk why but I’m not like that anymore.

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Great point. I can think of a million ways to do that NOW ….lol. (1) Also, the best way to attract women is with power. You know, just be rich, famous, or the head of a company or organization. Being their boss works too (sadly). One college roommate I had was the most disagreeable and unattractive person in every way possible, but then ran and won the (unpaid) presidency of our housing Co-op. Suddenly his attitude improved and he was drowning in p*ssy. No joke man. He had his first girlfriend who was an attractive Egyptian girl, and I just recently thought to ask him how he even got her. “She worked in the office” was the reply. He was “the boss”. (2) Watch the the Arnold movie “True Lies”. Worth the watch but also note the Skeezeball “detective” character Jamie Lee Curtis hooks up with. It’s a caricature, but He is using the technique of meeting her under a false premise. No one likes being “stalked”, but if, as in Craig Ferguson’s case, you approach them under a different premise then wanting to “date” them (or whatever), more likely to be successful. But let’s be honest, at the end of the day, unless you have one of the power characteristics above, you will end up in relationship with a person who is your same attractiveness and social class (or as a man, below yours more likely). Funny, the thing that is hilarious about women is how they love the fairytale (and that’s all it is) of rich dudes marrying the maid or the like as in the movie “Pretty Woman”. Maybe, if she’s Julia Roberts. The power dynamic for women is their attractiveness of course. Same concept applies. “Like” bonds to “like” (same to same). It’s basic chemistry. What’s the point of all that you say? “Stay in your lane” :)

That's why you set the mood from the get go.

Definitely harder, but certainly do-able. I've actually done a lot of that naturally, but I suspect it's not something you can just tack onto your existing personality. My view on self-improvement and psychology generally... is that no-one really changes much, but you can make some 'tweaks'. If nothing about you is innately playful, then you ain't gonna turn into Craig Ferguson. But you can possibly keep in mind just a little of his approach.

@@BWater-yq3jx Frankly, that comes across as saying, "I'm pretty cool and it's pointless to try for those of you who aren't."

​@@kiralycsavo0 He's trying to convince himself that is the case 😂

So...a first date?

wish he'd come back

he is the best of all late night hosts. many guys wish they would have half the charisma he has with the ladies.

@megamcea Love Craig. Definitely the best -late night- show host.

That's the key - just have fun!

Just perfect!

I definately try that out in my next life when I get dates!

@@Skall-ex😂😂

Yeah same.

LIke a Woody Allen movie.

WHEN it works ?? I think for SIX hunded dollars You would want it to work all the time !!

Yes, relax.. aka "get drunk"

Honestly if you are yourself and cute that’s less intimidating and there will be many who prefer that

@@hayati6374 now I gotta be cute too? 😥 I need a new playlist for how to be happy alone.

@@GrinderMagee embrace you, there are people out there who appreciate you, even your quirks. It ain't worth going out there to be someone you aren't, be you my friend.

Also be famous, 6'+, Rich, and have a team of people dressing you and doing your hair.

@@JD2jr. Don’t forget the late night show and a band and team of writers! ✍️

also hes famous

yep

True but you would be surprise how witty whatever comes to ur mind first can be. We often filter our thoughts. Try to not filter too much and say it instead (Unless it's potentially offensive). You don't want to scare away the other person.

@@Neofire60 Yeah i def run into that issue. thanks for the tip

A witty person doesn’t know he’s witty if he doesn’t try to be

Yeah, it really doesn't hurt to have some memorized teases, jokes or memorized short stories. So if you run out of things to say you can pull out one of them, it takes less mental effort to say something you already know - so it'll also help you to have more bandwith to think up the next thing ( there is nothing wrong with using the same jokes and stories, all actors, tv personalities, networkers do it)

Being an introvert is like having a hidden world inside your head, but not being able to handle people in the real world. From the cashier who asked you some unexpected question, to the colleagues you see every day... and after all those people, theres 1 person whose presence makes your brain boil, your hands sweat, who makes you feel a surge of happiness. Like you knew this person your whole life, but the "start" has been so far, that you dont remember it and now you have to back to start again.

Track down a couple of clips from the Norman Gunston Show from the 70's, he became a cult figure in Australia for his didn't care who you are approach. His interview with Frank Zappa is a gem, Frank quickly understands his schtick and what he is up to and tags along

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actually what does that gesture mean? oral s*x?

@@andyng5321 Si, senor!

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The art is doing both or taking what you said and exaggerating it in such a way it shows you were listening actually pretty carefully. Or reverse it and exaggerate it the other way... you get to be contrary while also showing you were paying attention. AND after you do that put the conversation back onto the other person right away so they can continue. Too many people just keep running with the joke and it over rides the other persons conversation instead of injecting something that shows you are interested in listening. Active listening is doing things that encourage a person to keep talking and any humor or joke you make should also put the focus back on the subject or person again.

You're actually agreeing.

Why do you think guys should jump through hoops to impress you in conversation? What are YOU doing to be effective for HIM in conversation? Or do you expect to just be entertained by men you view as court jesters who have to work to deserve being in your presence?

@@torachan23 Here is a slap of reality for you: guys are far more likely to approach women and in hugely disproportionate numbers. If a man is approaching a woman, then the onus is on the conversation initiator to keep the interaction going and engaging. Also, if a woman is repeatedly being approached by men who want to engage them in conversation, those men need to find a way to stand out from one another. But i think you know that already and reality pisses you off.

@@TJ-bu9zk no one’s mad even though that’s what you enjoy being a woman, get lost, no one needs your toxic advice from a fake woman on the internet trying to spread their BS

Can't agree on everything.

Exactly. It doesn’t work with everyone

They’re the same thing.

Well that ain't a complaint tho lol

He's a taller Richard Hammond.

Be the BEST version of yourself!

Very very true!

Great answer

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I know, what you mean. Some people always want to be the clown in the circus. Its like to sugarcoating the sugarcake. The secret is to have and show a genuine interest in the person or people and find the right spot to put everyone in an easy laid back mood.

It's a fine line! You want to genuinely get to know the girl but also not joke about everything and be a clown.

Ah but then you need to remember the main purpose of flirting is to make them feel good, not to get them to like you

Literally none of them want that. This video explained all of that. Your comment ends with your own assumption (exaggerated at that) that isn't even remotely true. If you watched the video, you misinterpreted the intention of the video, and the information given in this literal video...

So clearly you missed the fact that the video was telling you "don't talk to her/behave with the sole intention of going to bed with them"...

Of course not everyone of these women is ready to go home with Craig. Why would you think that's the case. Nor is Craig ready to go home with most of these women. Craig is happily married in most of these clips, and many of the ladies are too, the whole thing is a public, filmed interaction - noone is actually expecting to get some out of the situation. That's not in the cards and, hear me out, that is also not the point. Flirting is a fun conversation with someone you appreciate as an attractive human being and who reciprocates that impression of you - nothing more, nothing less. If you go into every interaction with a woman with the mindset that maybe this time you'll score, you'll come off as desperate and impersonal. Craig doesn't do that. He doesn't try to catch a woman in showing attraction to him, nor does he mistake it for desire, nor would he mistake that for openness to sleeping together. He doesn't try to get women to go home with him. The conversation being fun is the goal for him, not it leading somewhere. And that's why the women feel comfortable having that type of interaction with him. Whether or not that strategy has resulted in him successfully seducing women in his life is another question entirely.

True they are playing the piper but realistically if you had his demenour you would have good success.

Depends on the delivery

ok

meh, weak

Then practice with milfs first

Craig is prob out of your league.

Agreed. This video is spot on! I'm a talk show host too, and have always found that the best conversations are with women, as I constantly undress them with my eyes the way Craig does his lady guests, often touching their boobs to ask what kind of dress they're wearing, the way Craig does as well. Men however, are intimidated by the same things women obsess over me; my money, my striking good looks, my popularity, my lightning wit, and my physique - I'm 5' 9" and 158 pounds of Grade A Beefsteak. I've even had to call security a few times when some of my male guests, or my lady guests' husbands or boyfriends would get mouthy and up in my face during a commercial break. Now I'm just hoping the next video might be called, "How to make men NOT be jealous of you". That could definitely be super helpful 🙂

Well that means a lot of nothing, now doesn't it.

You clearly haven’t watched him then 😂