Before You Break Up Watch This - Motivation with Jay Shetty

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Jay Shetty

Jay Shetty

7 років тому

This video is based on the true stories of so many people I know. It was important for me to make because it's the solution for so many of our challenges in life. Watch & Share with the people you know will connect.
Inspired by Gary Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages.
Excerpt from an article from Lifehacker:
Psychology studies show that, in the long term, the most important thing in your life is your personal relationships. More important than your circumstances, hardships or successes, stuff you own or places you go, good quality relationships increase your resilience, your happiness and protect you from depression and other related “afflictions”.
This can only be said about mature, fulfilling relationships, which we define based on one principle: “win-win”. In “win-win” relationships (be it friendships or romantic ones), all parties bring their best and leave out the worst. They focus on increasing the value of the partnership, the time spent together, the amount of sharing and avoid, conscientiously, pointing fingers and turning each interaction into a competition.

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@carpediem8279
@carpediem8279 5 років тому
This man deserves 1 billion subscribers.
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@masha9528
@masha9528 Рік тому
It's 4.39 millions now
@wahiba3494
@wahiba3494 5 років тому
"LOVE is not something that you do for yourself, it's what you do to serve others" 😍😍👏🏻👌🏻
@Loadinger
@Loadinger 3 роки тому
"if everyone thought the same way you think, no one would love anyone "
@farihamohamedhilmy4700
@farihamohamedhilmy4700 3 роки тому
Best advice I have ever heard. "Love is not something you do for yourself but it's what you do to serve others"
@Hrustii
@Hrustii 5 років тому
Expectation is bad habit and often leads to disappointment. :(
@s.m6605
@s.m6605 3 роки тому
Definitely
@mydoooom
@mydoooom 6 років тому
Thank you Jay. You've really enlighten me. Gave me whole new perspective to think about my past relationships and why they didn't last.
@johnnyquast1
@johnnyquast1 5 років тому
One of the best UKposts channels!!! I love your content bro ❤️
@NGlitchesFTW
@NGlitchesFTW 5 років тому
Damn, i felt that😭
@cleanhustle8607
@cleanhustle8607 6 років тому
Right as I heard that last part I bursted into tears.
@anuruby240
@anuruby240 6 років тому
amazing jay!! it's really true...wat i expect from the one I love is also the same... his company ie to spare his time with me!!.......very much true from both the sides!! true relationship requires understanding,giving up so called ego,attitude and being you!!
@lomia4195
@lomia4195 5 років тому
Was just about to call it quits with my boyfriend, and of course this video popped up. I watched it and i feel a reassurance that everything is going to work out. I love him and he makes me happy (for the most part lol) Thanks for the video. All of them.
@dibn1308
@dibn1308 5 років тому
Oh! Quite true ......some relations are not in the same wavelengths...thank you for the outlook!
@gratefulsoul1661
@gratefulsoul1661 4 роки тому
Thank you Jay for your Awesome wisdom and your also an Awesome communicator. God bless you man. Your channel is Awesome!!!!!
@zulevo
@zulevo 4 роки тому
Your a legend man I love ur videos and it has made me look at my life so different means a lot thank you you are a great person!!
@graymcgoldrick8388
@graymcgoldrick8388 5 років тому
Very simple and completely obvious and missed so much. Thank you
@garimapriya6521
@garimapriya6521 3 роки тому
as if always god is watching and giving you directions in all possible manner... i have been thinking about this continuously till date and now I got the solution..Thanks
@vasilikiraja
@vasilikiraja 6 років тому
I haven't words to express how bliss it was this video for me 😘💗 thank your dear Jay from the bottom of my heart. I love you
@shivangimishra4773
@shivangimishra4773 5 років тому
Jay u r the only person who makes me feel better with these videos Ur each and every video shows my life ......I cannot explain it thanks a lot for making these videos all the best !!!!
@flashmills8928
@flashmills8928 4 роки тому
True.many times all we need to do is talk to each other.
@kriscyber
@kriscyber 6 років тому
true! will share this video to my younger brother. Thanks Jay.
@nicholesamuels571
@nicholesamuels571 7 років тому
Hi Jay, love it! I will be using this as part of my 5 Love Language workshops that I facilitate. We should talk, I have an idea for another video you can do.🙂
@navalkumarshukla9447
@navalkumarshukla9447 3 роки тому
Wow, such a lovely message - People often communicate in different forms of love, and end up being in miscommunication.
@lorrainstacy1720
@lorrainstacy1720 6 років тому
So much sense in a 2 minute video. Thank you
@rsarkar2130
@rsarkar2130 4 роки тому
You reveal the cause of break up in relationship ... thank s a lot Sir
@myjourneytothegoddesswithi2596
@myjourneytothegoddesswithi2596 2 роки тому
Beautiful message! Love you Jay Shetty!
@atulkumar-pk8dk
@atulkumar-pk8dk 5 років тому
Wow now that's a beautiful emotion to live by, thanks Jay ✌
@munavarmusthafackv4516
@munavarmusthafackv4516 2 роки тому
Mind bogling ..... Jay 1000 percentage true 👍 words ...
@FeelGoodWithin
@FeelGoodWithin 5 років тому
You are Love Guru who understand everyone so well😇
@bunchie9703
@bunchie9703 6 років тому
I agree with the last word: love is not something you do for yourself, but what you do to serve others..
@ilhammohamed1939
@ilhammohamed1939 4 роки тому
Indeed Jay shetty have beautiful eyes and beautiful mind. You doing good job Jay. we need alot people like you to inspire human kind. Well done.
@mamanchristian719
@mamanchristian719 5 років тому
Love is the most beautiful thing but sometimes it can be dangerous.
@thebuffchannel1979
@thebuffchannel1979 4 роки тому
when does it become so?
@timewithestherotipo4268
@timewithestherotipo4268 5 років тому
Why is this soooo true 😰😰😰,,,,,It’s really true,, ‘Love is not sth that you do for yourself,it’s sth you do to serve others’
@justvlogs04
@justvlogs04 4 роки тому
Right...when each one does what they want for their partner and not what their partner wants...it will lead to misunderstanding and end up losing each other.
@mohdriyas3308
@mohdriyas3308 4 роки тому
Motivation and insporation at the peek......You jay just nailing each and every video and winning million hearts....
@JKNat9004
@JKNat9004 Рік тому
Love this. Thank you Jay
@aarchanaa
@aarchanaa 5 років тому
I watched this before but didn't understand anything because my relationship was perfect at that time. Now I got what this video means actually because this is exactly our relationship going through now
@realisticvibes5322
@realisticvibes5322 6 років тому
You're amazing Jay please never stop doing this 😍
@andyctzh
@andyctzh 7 років тому
literally wanna meet u in person and your words change my life in these two years.
@rihaparmar5428
@rihaparmar5428 5 років тому
hey me frm india ..that dsnt mater bt jay i just wana say you one thng u change my life ssly u r my mentor ..i was ssly so neg nd i see chnges in me now i m super cool enough i dnt cre fr d stupid thngs happening with me ..!tx u r ssly a miracle in my life keep doing ..thanxx alt ...
@praloychoudhury502
@praloychoudhury502 4 роки тому
What a great explanation. I really enjoyed
@haniabukar4131
@haniabukar4131 5 років тому
Very amazing advice jey keep to support the people to stay longer and love each other
@ishratrahman6714
@ishratrahman6714 5 років тому
Well I understand this . In college, We were 3 friends and other two used to fight each and every time . It's because their thoughts were somewhat different but still they had some kind of understanding. Plus I used to act as pacifier and used to the patching work for hell 3 years ( no wonder I had to do all this several times in just one month). But later I got fed up and stopped helping them out as I just kind of depressed then for some reason. And just during that they both destroyed the whole trio friendship. I never thought it could happen. Among them one is rude in her behaviour a bit, egoistic a bit and is kind of selfish ( not much) but kind also , will support u . Another one is never forget what happened and will keep the grudge forever ( anger issue), but lots nice, helps out everyone. Now they don't talk and I , myself don't know to who I should go. Both my friend. I tried patch them again but it's real worse this time. Still I went to first one and she was like " I'm fine u can go to her( actually she wants me to be by her side but her ego won't let utter this. So I must beg her to stay with me ) and the second one can't tolerate her a sec even ( gets angry a bit when I go to another but down at say). Then , my so called grades dropped and I focussed on study strongly ( acted selfish right? )......I used to sit alne those days as idk what to do...But the second one came to me when I was depressed cuz of bad marks and helped me out :D . First one kept her distance. She used to be sad though but she never accepted anything....her ego ruled her mind so much that it's only me who tried to talk to her to end this but she hardly showed efforts. At one point , I left all on time. But issues were never solved and me , my second friend are on good terms. Another one became distanced one ( who used to be so close to me ). I'm again trying to fix matters as I don't wanna regret but I know things won't turn like back. But it pains me as we , three not together anymore. Now we , three talk among us on occasion but that two not so close like before . I failed to keep things right : D . Not a good friend I accept ;-;
@soheenimukherjee5964
@soheenimukherjee5964 6 років тому
I wish I had watched this 1 year ago! Things would have been sorted then! Any way thanks for this video too! I will follow this advice of yours in days to come! Thankkk youuuu!!
@muthumaharaja657
@muthumaharaja657 4 роки тому
Its want everyone needs. You are awesome AJ
@haroonrasheed2071
@haroonrasheed2071 7 років тому
awesomely said. hats off Jay .
@amitthakur8162
@amitthakur8162 6 років тому
How enlightening, man !!
@javierfileiv4758
@javierfileiv4758 5 років тому
The 5 languages of love... Nice to read!
@anescario864
@anescario864 5 років тому
Really appreciate reading the book 5 love languages =) now I understand. Nice one ❤
@chorusmz
@chorusmz 6 років тому
5 love languages I've read the book before but this video makes a difference because its a practical example
@vickydv5698
@vickydv5698 4 роки тому
Yes u r correct most of the true loves break up due to some mis understandings
@sushmitasanasam1862
@sushmitasanasam1862 4 роки тому
I'm glad to hear that ur advise Jay.... I wish sm1 would see ur video.... Love has different expressions
@he4tstr3ak
@he4tstr3ak 6 років тому
Very well said and right on point :)
@narayanprasad8641
@narayanprasad8641 4 роки тому
I'm watching your video it's help me to keep motivated and also keep improving in myself So thanks a lot for your motivated words
@jencieleemarose9779
@jencieleemarose9779 5 років тому
tq bro for the fantastic message I inspired the most 😀😀😇😇 legend bro u r😇😇 keep it up bro 😊😊 more videos plz bro😊☺
@mihilpatel4724
@mihilpatel4724 6 років тому
U r doing a great job Jay Shetty. It's a lovely thing which can't understand u tell them what to do...
@SoloSzn
@SoloSzn 5 років тому
*Wow man* Thanks for the best advice of the year-
@YapaWijeratne
@YapaWijeratne 5 років тому
Thank you Jay Shetty.
@chrislupangco7313
@chrislupangco7313 5 років тому
Damn jay, you got me there!!!
@makosaruth7620
@makosaruth7620 6 років тому
Wow..... This is just opened my eyes.
@kudzaimusariri5431
@kudzaimusariri5431 5 років тому
Thanks Jay Shetty, gold advice
@reshmaderiya7666
@reshmaderiya7666 6 років тому
I just love the way you talk😍
@TheArdienta
@TheArdienta 4 роки тому
Best ever motivator and a person to encourage! Thank you, Jay Shetty!!!
@hongduong456
@hongduong456 5 років тому
Thanks a lot, Jay.
@troyhagen587
@troyhagen587 6 років тому
Young Love just talk. Give what they need not want You want to give. Be Peaceful and Happy Environment. THANKS
@naufilh4530
@naufilh4530 7 років тому
Beautifully depicted!👌
@shikhachaursia
@shikhachaursia 5 років тому
We are proud of you Jay 😘 love from India 😊
@LupiZweier
@LupiZweier 5 років тому
You opened my eyes...
@rishikeshbharat9859
@rishikeshbharat9859 6 років тому
Absolutely Right Awesome
@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому
My favourite speaker Jay genius.
@LengdonSaikia
@LengdonSaikia 5 років тому
Hey jay bro... my blessings are always wid you man...
@apurwaranathunga2865
@apurwaranathunga2865 4 роки тому
Jay shetty....u r such an awesome man...u do a great job!surely...those who watch ur videos will bless u heartly.😘😘😘👍
@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 Рік тому
My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much
@shalakachhajed2005
@shalakachhajed2005 7 років тому
Amazing !!! I really hope that one day I get to attend your seminar!!!
@salmamahmood7340
@salmamahmood7340 5 років тому
I really love ur videos it makes me feel so good
@bacsterbacx4110
@bacsterbacx4110 5 років тому
I can see that the idea regarding the 5 love languages is widely-accepted
@dianaespinoza1997
@dianaespinoza1997 5 років тому
This really helped me a lot 🙂
@ishaqkhankhan7906
@ishaqkhankhan7906 4 роки тому
Wow tears going down
@yashdebbarma9107
@yashdebbarma9107 6 років тому
I really touch my heart.
@augustayarteh7524
@augustayarteh7524 5 років тому
is so amazing is very touching. in my heart.
@tahmeedmazumder6877
@tahmeedmazumder6877 5 років тому
2 minutes of pure wisdom
@christinebelinda3498
@christinebelinda3498 5 років тому
Great message l wish my boyfriend he could see this😢he always busy with his work no time to talk to each other but sometimes he try his best to take off once in a month to go out!I feel tired somehow😢😢😢😢
@nyabacns26
@nyabacns26 4 роки тому
All your videos is very motivated video. Keep it up
@varunkumar396
@varunkumar396 4 роки тому
What an advise..!!! Hats off!!
@kartikthakur5561
@kartikthakur5561 5 років тому
Just what I needed at the right time
@jackfavvv0280
@jackfavvv0280 2 роки тому
...Why?
@joseystrauss3861
@joseystrauss3861 7 років тому
Jay. what would it cost for a 5 minute conversation with you?
@nicholaskong1673
@nicholaskong1673 6 років тому
1 million dollars *dr evil laugh*
@area1725
@area1725 6 років тому
Nicholas Kong hahahahah
@khushbuluhar11
@khushbuluhar11 5 років тому
Exactly
@hinathaj5328
@hinathaj5328 5 років тому
Everything
@lilsneakpeek2021
@lilsneakpeek2021 4 роки тому
Same..😞😞😞
@sergioguevara3217
@sergioguevara3217 4 роки тому
Love you're channel Bro
@ayushbanerjee611
@ayushbanerjee611 5 років тому
Hey Jay ur the best philosopher who understands everyone
@Yukosera
@Yukosera 7 років тому
I wish this video was made last year, this could've saved my relationship with my ex husband
@someone-ou3ht
@someone-ou3ht 6 років тому
Vanessa Rusinko wish you all the best
@dianaespinoza1997
@dianaespinoza1997 5 років тому
Wish you good
@watchingrain1621
@watchingrain1621 5 років тому
go back to him.. maybe he want you still now but can't tell about his feel
@ariabianes1082
@ariabianes1082 5 років тому
sorry about this 😞
@cjanecej8959
@cjanecej8959 4 роки тому
A good advicer is the One who can't solve he's/her own problem..
@smhart6517
@smhart6517 2 роки тому
Love your videos, so freaking helpful
@joyemmyi1414
@joyemmyi1414 2 роки тому
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@joyemmyi1414
@joyemmyi1414 2 роки тому
ViawhatsApp
@joyemmyi1414
@joyemmyi1414 2 роки тому
±²³⁴⁸¹⁴⁵⁸²⁷⁶⁴⁷
@elledarling5562
@elledarling5562 6 років тому
Beautifully said
@ogbeideitua8289
@ogbeideitua8289 5 років тому
All I need is love someone to give me time and make me feel like am a super hero
@priyankapulugupriyanka291
@priyankapulugupriyanka291 4 роки тому
U r perfect.... nd ur eyes I can’t explain
@AttiWRiTEs
@AttiWRiTEs 4 роки тому
wtf who the hell is disliking such a gr8 video ???😬
@soniaakter4151
@soniaakter4151 5 років тому
Wow.... Man... U r such an inspiration
@mickaeldabydeen9364
@mickaeldabydeen9364 4 роки тому
I give my love and my time to someone who wasn't cared about me😓😞😖 it's so sad to see that
@MrBeautiful2908
@MrBeautiful2908 5 років тому
Jay Shetty, you're a God vessel of relationships
@LifeHacks-ot5vb
@LifeHacks-ot5vb 6 років тому
thank you ❤
@shazynyoni1958
@shazynyoni1958 5 років тому
wow...i really understand wat iz lov now thanks
@Veggiegerechten
@Veggiegerechten 4 роки тому
I'm in love with my boyfriend and I did not consider breaking up, but I was just interesting in this video. And it is a really good video and I think it is good too see it when you don't even want to break up:)
@margaretkaruga1491
@margaretkaruga1491 6 років тому
Make a decision and move on with your life there are many people who are waiting you give them chance but you keep holding on a toxic relationship move on and let go.
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