I know❤

I'm the opposite. As a little boy in the Vietnamese community, I got bullied and picked on a lot (because I was only half Vietnamese and my other half is New Zealand, Maori) So it's been installed deep in my mind to not like other little boys or young boys as I see them as little c-nts lol. I have a girl now, she's 21months old and I love her to death. I have a second baby on the way, and If it's another girl I'll be so happy. If it's a boy, I'll do my best to raise that boy to be respectful. And they will both matter to me ❤

​@@sleepy1171"I'm the opposite-"??? You don't care that boys often are picked over their sisters just because they're boys?? Do you hear yourself?? And you were picked on because you were mixed not because you were a boy. ☠️

​@@sleepy1171 It's horrible that children are treated like this. I'm so happy that you are living healthy and happy now! Congrats on your first child and I wish nothing but happiness and well-being to your future child. You seem like an awesome father and that's really rare, I hope you know how much you're doing for your children ❤

No this is literally every mom(not my mom ima girl btw) For daughter: U BETTER REPAINT THE HOUSE AND REBUILD IT AND CLEAN THE CARS AND HOUSE AND ALSO U BETTER CLEAN EVERY BEDROOM BY THE TIME I GET BACK for son: oh, honey, are you ok? Did you eat, oh, I feel so sorry, ok, you know what I'm gonna give you 1000 million dollars. So you can go buy your self something to eat like uhhh helllo WHAT ABOUT ME!?

I feel like with some moms, once the father figure isnt around anymore they start to put that responsibility on their sons, so much so that they (on)consciously see them as their new husbands. Because i just KNOOOW if cece did all of this to her brother the mom would’ve looked at this way differently

It's crazy what boy moms do for their own sons. It's s fucking disgusting

Oh I guarantee the dishes his wife ate were FULL of Cece

​@@hujanohhujan???? Addicted to what? You don't really get an addiction to murder. You can't even be actually addicted to sex.

⁠​wat would u call serial killers then I think u can can be addicted to anything really

Exactly! I became interested in True Crime books, and shows as a teen back in the late 80's. Nothing surprises me anymore. My mom worked with the local DA's office for 25 years, and some of her cases still haunt me. The depravity of humans knows no bounds.

Exactly… I watched too much true crime that I can’t even want to procreate, I won’t even trust my own egg cells 😅

I’m not surprised anymore about the evil in this world. Im from the Mid West (America) and a man cut off his mother’s head and buried it in the backyard. He did it because she wouldn’t give him money for drugs.

Nah fr some people just don’t give a shit about anyone but themselves

Agreed

This is why I don't think I could marry someone from a culture that treats their kids like that. Absolutely not. If I have a daughter, I will love her with all my being and she won't ever feel like she's 'less than'. And if I have a son some day? He'll learn that women aren't to be treated as lesser. It's not women's responsibilities to take care of him his whole life. He has to take care of himself and if he wanted to share a life with a lady, he would learn to pitch in to do 50% of the work at minimum. If his lady needs him, he does it out of love, not debt.

My grandmother and mother favoured males... England!

Cults to consciousness did an interview with girls that had escaped Amish life and its the same there too. They never condemn the men doing something wrong instead they force the women to apologize to their rapist and that's so messed up

@@carolinecarter6874Germany does it too.

@@ebifuon6776 That is messed up. What's the "logic", that they tempted them by showing ankle skin, or bending over to pick up firewood? That's such BS.

Is he in jail????

I pr, ay that God heals you, if you havent tried Jesus, he works ! Bless you

I hate to say it but its the same for me, but it was not only my brother but also my uncle's adopted son. My mother stood by my brother, and threatened me with foster care, a place she chalked up to be the most scary place ever, convincing me that I would basically die if I were to go, if I didn't lie to police and say that what I said was all a lie. Even to this day several years later, almost in my 30's, thanks to her manipulation, I still second guess myself on if I deserved what happened to me. Was the SA just a lie I made up, like my mother essentially hammered in? I know that it isn't, but some nights I can't used logic to convince myself otherwise. It's even worse that when it was my uncle's adopted son, she was all over that, defending me like a mother should, raging like a momma bear, ready to kill him for what he did to me. But no, when it came to her son, I her youngest daughter who she claimed to love so dearly meant less to her. Having such a comparison is so utterly disorienting. It kills me that as much as I love my mother, I can't stand being around her cause of the reminder and the visceral nausea of hearing her casually saying I remembered wrong, saying in "Great" detail that it was your uncle's son who did those things, reminding me of "exactly" what "he" did over what my brother "didn't" do, convincing me my memory was wrong, or at least trying to. The worst part about all that is, right now, she is in the hospital dying, and I physically and emotionally can't be there. I feel so bad for Cece but I also feel relieved she didn't have to hear that, for it may have been the final nail in her coffin even before her body were to lay inside it.

I’m so sorry that happened to you … childhood trauma is so intense

@@mewcatss I'm so sorry for you, as a girl I can't even imagine your situation. I pray pray and pray for your healing and never ever loose your hope of living. Remember what ever happened there is a person in a country named sri lanka waiting for your success .

I just feel so bad for her, she is not in the right state of mind. I hope she got help

The son is very manipulative and calculating, so God knows what he's told her about the sister. She probably believed whatever he told her.

Most mothers side with their sons..many girls i know have mothers that are jealous of them..a mother jealous of her daughter is real

@@ma.chariza9590 ive heard this from my asian girl friends about their own mothers...always siding with and favoring their brothers...its very sad and very messed up

​@@ma.chariza9590Nope.

:(((

😢😢gf

Her family don't Care!

Bro her mom dont care

Cece's mum is terrible for siding with Cece's brother

Right? Like straight out of American Psycho

Lucky she got away and didn’t have a child with that killer . The trauma they both have to live with

I want to look into this case more. Do you know what the woman and her husband are called or the murder case name?

​@@unicorngamer7462rotten mango has their full case details on their website.

And being dragged around life insurance companies to be priced up for your future murder…

🤗

That sounds like a sweet relationship to maintain with your siblings! I wish I was like this with my siblings!😂❤

I'm glad I don't have siblings

I'm sayinggg 😭

Very lucky to have such sibling, my sibling thinks it is okay to raise their voice and be rude because we’re siblings and I should just “get used to it” and “that’s how siblings act”

Hope you're doing alright bae ;(

She’s wrong and less of a mother for that. God bless you ❤

Im so sorry…my sister was molested by a grandfather I never knew(because she’s older and my parents left after) but she was 4 and all of our cousins called her a liar, even his wife(our grandmother) and she had a Hard time always feeling like she was “wrong” always feeling blamed for things her entire life, it’s sucks seeing trauma trickle through many things but after she practiced just really loving and accepting herself, seeing ger grow has been so beautiful 🫶🏼 becoming such an amazing human…that I’m sure you are aalso!!!

It was probably a phenomenon where the mother favors the son for no reason other than being born a boy instead of a girl. Regardless, it’s not an excuse and utterly unacceptable. I hope your mother realizes she was callous, absurd, and wrong yet can’t bring herself to apologize and is stuck with the regret because that’s what she deserves.

I'm so sorry to hear so, its not your fault, none of it. You deserve a family who love and support you and i hope youre building your own because your mom and brother dont deserve you 🩷

My parents didn't protect me and I learned what not to do as a parent myself. My brother and I literally said that about my dad at his funeral. The way you described your mom sounds just like me as a mother ❤

Half the family doesn’t talk to me, my mom or my sister, especially since our matriarch my grandma passed away. They have done some truly evil things, and I pray for their souls all the time.

You're disappointed and blame her for not advocating to execute her own child? You need a reality check lmao

No matter how horrible his actions were, he is still her son and there will always be that love for him, no matter how much she is hurt by his actions. You can’t blame her for not wanting to lose him too.

@@phython124advocate? Unless it was an accident kill , it was premeditated so yeah I feel sorry that she lost two children and my heart goes for her but she should have let the judge handle whatever decision for her daughter and grandchild sake

@@POG-ist I’m aware of that parent love. She’s a mother at the end of the day. if it was an accidental kill then the mum should stand by the son and sympathise with him but he intentionally killed her own sister for insurance. That’s the difference

@@benedicta4898 The thing is that he is facing consequences. She didn’t defend what he did, she just asked for him to not get the death penalty. The kill was intentional, and that horrifying to think of, but she wasn’t ready to let go of both her son and her daughter. I’m not saying she was entirely correct in the situation, I can just understand where she comes from and why she made that choice.

They weren’t really raised. You throw kids of similar age together without supervision & sexual abuse, or at least inappropriate exploration between siblings, becomes likely. But that’s normally a phase in neglected households, as children are forced to figure out puberty on their own. 14 years isn’t a phase. I doubt he saw her as a sister in the way most of us think of sibling bonds. She was just someone he had power over & could abuse, Partially because he wasn’t taught otherwise. I wonder if the mom’s forgiveness is out of guilt. She failed all her children. A lot of that was out of her control but she knows where she could have been better. Her daughter is gone, and while most of us would want to make amends to those who’ve suffered most from our mistakes, she might just be focusing on what’s left. I’d really like to hear from the other four siblings.

My brother hate me since I was born (5y after him) and tried to kill me by drowning in our dad's pool but my cousin saved me. Everyone enabled him while we were growing up, he was and still is the golden child and I'm less than a doormat for the family. Abusive homes create monsters.

Not all siblings are close as they get older they become distant some have a good relationship some don't,but also sibling abuse is more common than you think it's horrific but its unfortunately a reality and a heinous crime that happens. And if you see weird or suspicious behaviour or a sibling is uncomfortable with the other _take it seriously_

What happened to his mom afterwards?

@@jisungpark8284 I’m not sure what you mean considering in my comment I said he SA’d and killed her.

@@jisungpark8284I think the son SAed the mom n killed her

@@TransmutedCuppyCakeuh, the way your comment read was that he murdered the cousin, not the mother

@@TransmutedCuppyCake ohhh, I thought you were saying that his cousin was the one who was killed, so I wanted to know what his mom’s reaction was.

my own mother never loved me so reading this comment really did something to my heart. thanks mom from the Internet 💓

@dessy87 Thanks for your kind words, every child needs a mother like you 💗

Thank you

Thanks mom. I needed this today. My boss and my coworker are harassing me and this helps.

@tomadumas2939 Sweetie, jealous is an ugly thing, but you have something they don't, and they don't like it and are jealous of you. Continue to walk tall. Don't let them bend or break you in any way. You cry if you need to, but only at home. Everyone needs to shed some tears cause we are human, but we will get through this, and they will continue to be bitter and jealous at the next person. You will make it, and I believe in you. Please believe in yourself as well. Your smile, while in the midst of their foolish behavior, will confuse them, shine and shine bright with the love and kindness you have within you. Watch how you Shiney beautiful butterfly. Moms got your back! Remember, I love you!

I wonder that too. It scary that there are humans like that.

+ canabalism(?) + parental neglect/abuse

THERES JUST SO MANY THINGD WRONG WITH THID CASE 😭

Hey are you okay now? This society is like this patriarchy is still there nothing has changed 😣 I stand as a true feminist because I know things haven't still gotten better

... But it's somehow okay for your life to be ruined by him. I freaking hate those who protect perpetrators. They just make my blood boil. Some things are so vile there's no way to make it go away. Once a monster always a monster.

@@payal91000 I’m working on it but it’s a battle I’m in trauma therapy for childhood survivors and I’m just trying to advocate for myself and piece myself back together. I’ve have had to look out for myself for a long time but I can’t wait for the day I can finally relax and be present in my body and this world consistently again

@@sciopathic would you believe he’s with someone I was in high school with That he met on her 18th birthday (that I was invited to not him) I had to get to my 20s to realize how many of my friends he’s hit on and my parents were around. To this day I get messages about forgiving him for the sake of family peace and that I’ll give someone a heart attack of make them self delete. Thank God for therapy because I use to believe it and who knows where I could have ended up in cycles of self destruction

​@Rosemallow this is so fucked up :( I am sorry you have to go through all this... wish you all the best!!

I am so sorry. Blessings and peace.

Thank you for sharing this with us and getting your story out. More people need to be made aware of how dangerous ( on purpose or not) and mentally ill people are and can be. Hearing more and more of situations like or similar to this and yours......maybe could save someone to pay attention to signs and to the mentally ill that this is not a good thing. Seek help. Be honest But again I am so sorry you had that happen to you and I hope and pray you continue to let out and share and most importantly, continue to be the beautiful human being that you are ❤ I wish you nothing but greatness, protection and positivity!

My mom had the same experince as you, I see her affected by it almost everyday but she is so strong. I'm increbliy sorry what happened to you and I hope you find peace, if any in your life. My heart and prayers go out to you

The victim was the murderers sister ..not the poor wife. Wife just found the body and ran back to China... murderer killed his sister. And assaulted her ..then the victim/ murderers mom sided with her son

Me trying to get my essay longer

Agreed

Me too 🥹

I agree One of the best story tellers on You Tube

same

True

Same here😅

What's the case called? ... I wanna do more research

We think he ate her? Right ? Why else would he have bothered to cook the body ???

@@chuckthecuck4414 chiayi pickled head case

​@@outlawJosieFox prolly thrown her remains else where

@@outlawJosieFoxI thought so too. At the same time, he could have cooked her so no one would think twice about it. Like finding cooked meat. It’s so horrifying

So true, he had already told her he owned her.

I understand the wife’s reaction though, she was scared that the same thing would happen to her (and/or her family), and it must be very disturbing to see smth like that. Yes from our POV of course we think that she should’ve done that (and it’s crazy how if he didn’t put her head in the bathroom for his fucking life insurance the case probably wouldn’t have existed 😐 or he would’ve taken way way longer to get caught) but if we were in this situation we would probably be scared shitless and try to run away like she did too instead of reporting it to the police

@@annabethsmith29303 I disagree. I currently live in a country as a foreigner, where foreigners have little to no rights as compared to citizens. Nevertheless, I would still immediately go to the police. From my POV, it's far more likely this person would harm me AND get away with it if I stay silent. At least if I report it, I can deter one of those outcomes.

Yeah and when she said that nobody knows what he did to Cece's body I immediately thought "what if he had cut her up and turned her body into food and fed her to the wife or something?" because it is a possibility if he had never wanted the wife to be in the kitchen when he was cooking

OMG. So gross and devastating

Holy shiii this. But wasn't she actually 17 or something?

@@lifeissoupiamfork6030 Oh my lord yes, she was born in 2006, only 17 years old. That made it even darker! The girl was the runner-up in a beauty pageant

there's way too much detail left out of this case to tell tbh

From what I understand... it wasn't her boyfriend... She and her friend were sleeping with men for money. It was her sugar daddy and it been going on for years... She was only 17 when she was killed which mean she and her friend were having sex with grown men at a VERY YOUNG age.

now when u mentioned this trashbag.. his parents DEFENDED him???? wtf?!

That’s exactly who I thought of as well.

literally same!!

Watts killed their grandchildren as well- and tried to blame his wife for that.

This grief-stricken mother is nothing like Chris Watts’ absolutely disgusting parents (and his dad is just as vile as his mom)

THIS!!!! If she was just told that her son killed her sister, I would understand why she would be in denial. But after physically seeing her own daughter's rotting, decapitated head, you'd think she'd go as far as to kill her son herself for it.

I am happy for you. ❤ and also, you're a beautiful soul. 😊❤

You are very sweet. Thank you for your general kindness to others :)

This is so kind. I wish you have more days like this one

GIRL SAME I WAS DRIVING AND MY JAW WAS ON THE FLOOR

Why tf are you listening to this while driving? That's dangerous!

Ooooo what was his name again? Paris bennet or something similar sounding right

@@stephanietodd3254 Yep!

It's lack of education. Less educated moms will defend their evil offspring, more educated moms won't. Also less educated women tend to produce many offspring, as this mom did.

Right? Is it just me or does it seem more common for parents to react like this, especially if it's a male child. Absolutely disgusting.

For real. 😮

For real.

I'm sorry, you didn't deserve any of that. The abuse is one thing but people choosing not to believe is a whole other pain.

Your mom should of believed you and supported you. I do however agree he was young too. Based on what you said he was 11 when it started. Child on child SA usually is caused by a child who was SAed too then went on to SA because either thought it was now an okay/normal thing or they were taught that if they didnt they get abused as well. There is some child on child SA where the abuser wasnt SAed to begin with but more often then not they were SAed as well. I dont know what happened and its terrible what you went through i hope you have been able to heal a lot. In a way i hope its just that your brother is a terrible person and that it wasnt caused by another kid being SAed.

​​@@FriendsDontLieI disagree. Kids are naturally curious, yes . But being almost a teenager, you're old enough to know that no means no. You're disgusting for trying to reason him out.

I hope you get the help and support you need. You deserve people who cares and protects you.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I believe you.

Holy shit, that's crazy.

This doesn't feel like a relaxing bath listen lol

This doesn't feel like a relaxing bath listen lol

Uhm what.

Are you being sarcastic or???

@@user-kx7er2uu1p sarcasm

@@nadarmohamed8058 yes

it’s ok he’s just a man!! boys are gonna be boys lol 🥺 his life doesn’t deserve to be ruined over something so tiny! not like he ruined anyone else’s lives hahaha right?

For real her son killed her daughter / his sister.

I’m concerned for the people who care about the evil people in these cases. Fuck that evil witch she didn’t even care her own daughter had been assaulted and killed, who fucking cares how she’s doing, probably still trying to defend and apologise for that monster if anything idk does it matter? No