15 Best Questions To Ask On A First Date

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Courtney Ryan

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Article: www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a28141816/questions-to-ask-on-first-date/
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@RobinJohnstonphotography
@RobinJohnstonphotography 6 місяців тому
‘Any history of Nazism in the family?’ ‘Who’s your favourite serial killer?’ ‘Do you know much about knives?’
@gir3009
@gir3009 6 місяців тому
My personal favorite question is asking my date if they know the starting year of significant wars the United States was involved in.
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
@@gir3009 In other words, you’ve never had a second date!! RIGHT 😂
@RobinJohnstonphotography
@RobinJohnstonphotography 6 місяців тому
@@gir3009’Did you know the US fought a war with Spain? You don’t? Let me tell you all about it!’
@cniht
@cniht 6 місяців тому
When you hear the word Yandere what do you think of?
@TheWhisperCorner
@TheWhisperCorner 6 місяців тому
Have you ever been to Amsterdam with your dad?
@DanE-ew1yt
@DanE-ew1yt 6 місяців тому
Holy cow. I didn't realize how unready for a relationship I am until I thought about having to answer these questions.
@LG-bv5op
@LG-bv5op Місяць тому
I don’t know what to do with myself anymore I just want to be 😊WWWWWWWWWWWWWW
@LG-bv5op
@LG-bv5op Місяць тому
A
@ultravioletpisces3666
@ultravioletpisces3666 15 днів тому
I don’t want to ask or answer any of these questions
@ultravioletpisces3666
@ultravioletpisces3666 15 днів тому
I hate most of these questions. These are great thing to find out, but asking the questions are often not the best way to find out. I think it might be better to make a list that you leave at home of what you want to know and then, go, observe and have conversations and then make notes when you come home. I don’t want to ask someone how they handle conflict. I’d rather just wait and see how they handle conflict… like for example, if he orders mashed potato’s and they say they are out of mashed and he needs to substitute a side, how does he respond. Don’t agree with everything he says and you’ll find out! Etc. how does he act if the parking lot is full.. etc.
@watchdog6619
@watchdog6619 4 дні тому
Yeah same, this made me literally from an incel to a vocel. Dating feels so strange, like a job interview, kinda unnatural, how do someone fall in love with someone, without having a crush at first at all. Duck, my touch starvation is gonna my bane 😖
@DanTuber
@DanTuber 6 місяців тому
The best way to get to know someone is not asking questions. But seeing how they react to things. Activity dates tells you a lot more.
@drudude7093
@drudude7093 6 місяців тому
Exactly, don't ask how people handle conflict, after you get to know them maybe politely disagree when appropriate and see how they handle it
@Coolman1985
@Coolman1985 4 місяці тому
I agree def, but then again going thru this route might uncover some things too late, when you could have asked before, just a thought
@crimestoppers1877
@crimestoppers1877 4 місяці тому
Activity dates like the gym, swimming, mountain climbing, visit the beach when it is hot! ( swim suit time).
@verb0ze
@verb0ze 4 місяці тому
Yeah I find it cringe if I'm being asked or have to ask that many questions on a date. Rather, share stories, see how they can relate, and these questions will naturally be answered. Also, agree with activities. I'm an active person, if I suggest a second/third date that includes an activity and she's not down, that could be reveal things
@John-78
@John-78 4 місяці тому
Exactly. One of the best things you can do is say no to a woman very early on and see how she handles it. You can eliminate a lot of women who would make your life miserable right off the bat.
@amitten
@amitten 6 місяців тому
The problem I have with some of this is the questions are being formulated by experts, who haven't been on a first date in probably 20 years.
@lightryu33
@lightryu33 6 місяців тому
Spot on
@darinsyverson9177
@darinsyverson9177 6 місяців тому
Great ideology
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 2 місяці тому
Or ever.
@damienbell3155
@damienbell3155 Місяць тому
lol,lol. 😂. We think alike bro
@Muhluri
@Muhluri 13 днів тому
Damn
@10oneluv10
@10oneluv10 6 місяців тому
I think the first date should be fun...no pressure, just have a good time. There were a couple of fun questions on this list, and those are the only ones I would ask. Save the judgy questions for the second date. It's important to show them that a good and fun time is a possibility with you.
@leisiyox
@leisiyox 6 місяців тому
That feeling when you don't get 2nd dates at all 😢
@daniellehotsky1776
@daniellehotsky1776 6 місяців тому
That feeling when you don't get any first dates 🫡🤢🤧🍺🤦
@oneminutedaily6394
@oneminutedaily6394 6 місяців тому
what are the fun ones?
@smithn.wesson495
@smithn.wesson495 6 місяців тому
Wow....wow....wow......Ok, two questions really stand out. "When you think of current political events, is there something that stands out to you?" and "What is something in past relationships you needed to work on?" If this is a true, first time, first meeting first date.....you are really playing with fire bringing up politics and her ex-boyfriend. Everyone knows it's a cardinal sin to talk about your ex or last relationship on a first date. Then, and with how hot politics is, how separated out society is becoming and how divided our world is right now, I would rather ask her "How often do you douche?" on a first date.
@tavrincallas3218
@tavrincallas3218 6 місяців тому
@@smithn.wesson495 so would you rather find out later if she and you have radically different political views that would make it hard for you to be in a happy relationship? Why waste both people's time and wait until a second date? First date: *goes very well* Second date: One of the two people: "I've been voting for the people who want to bring Mussolini back to life and give him control of the world my whole life" I would rather know something like that beforehand
@ejays99
@ejays99 6 місяців тому
Totally agree on the conflict question. Asking someone "How do you handle conflict?" most times they're going to give an inaccurate representation of what they actually do in conflict.
@edricleclercq5008
@edricleclercq5008 6 місяців тому
I went on a date with a girl a few days ago and I had no idea what to ask her, for whatever reason could not get into the flow of the conversation and we ended up talking about menial things like school and rent. Safe to say, I completely blew it and she ended up leaving mid-convo to "get back home". Honestly, my ego took a pretty big hit 🥲 This video is a good jumping-off point I think, and hopefully I'll run into less blockage during future date conversations 😅
@Ace-tu2is
@Ace-tu2is 6 місяців тому
I would not be too hard on yourself. I used to beat myself up for stuff like that but perhaps they are the ones that blew it. They walked away from you and I.
@edricleclercq5008
@edricleclercq5008 6 місяців тому
@@Ace-tu2is Thanks for the kind words. I suppose you do also bring up a good point. It takes "two to tango" and you can't accept responsibility for everything. I sure hope it was a case of incompatibility at the end of the day but I did feel bummed out that I messed up this seemingly amazing opportunity to get to know this girl. But hey... trial and error. I'll get it right next time :)
@superfark5914
@superfark5914 6 місяців тому
Remember conversation has to ebb and flow...seems to me she wasn't giving you much to ebb back to her.
@Spike2276
@Spike2276 Місяць тому
Stick to simple questions, but not questions that can be answered with "yes" or "no". But honestly, if my dating experience is anything to go by then you probably didn't blow it, because women nowadays seem averse to giving open answers that lead to interesting conversations. And it's not your sole responsability to make conversation flow. You can't talk to a brick wall.
@franzelias5368
@franzelias5368 27 днів тому
If I have to carry the convo by myself I'm simply the unpaid entertainiment. No thanks. Be happy you dodged a bullet.
@banginbadger75
@banginbadger75 6 місяців тому
The best gift question is an easy one for me. When I was a senior in highschool I dated this girl for a brief period, about 4 months. On Valentines day I took her to dinner & she ended up giving me a great gift. It was a blanket that she knitted specifically for me. I'm 6'3 so she knitted it for a tall skinny guy. She even knitted in a "made with love" badge onto it. I loved it & I think she really liked the fact that I liked it so much myself. I still have it, it's one of my most valuable possesions. I personally struggle with low emotional intelligence & social anxiety and some antisocial behavior tendecies, but that blanket that my highschool girlfriend made for me acts as a reminder of how good I can really make someone feel despite all of my shortcomings. It motivates me to fix my problems & become a better person so that I can one day have something like that again & make someone feel that good again.
@APiccolo
@APiccolo 2 місяці тому
Reading your thing reminds me of this relationship I had almost 10 years ago when I was 18. The relationship itself was a spectacular trainwreck, but there was this one "gift" that really hit home and remembering it still feels good. So, she liked to draw all kinds of stuff on her iPad. One day she sent me this drawing of us two hugging, with hearts around us and her writing saying how she felt so comfortable with me. It felt like such a pure demonstration of care and love. I deleted the file for the sake of my sanity but I still remember how it looks. It was definitely one of the most awesome gestures I ever got from someone who wasn't my parents
@brandonleibel9348
@brandonleibel9348 6 місяців тому
I really haven't been on to dates, but when the date is going well one of my favorite questions is "what is your most embarrassing moment." It typically ends with everyone laughing, and you can learn so much about a person based on how they answer it. How they deal with conflict, abit about there past, alot of times it can even lead to the things that they are very interested in.
@gao2737
@gao2737 2 місяці тому
those questions just make me feel like I am having an interview.
@jamesrangelov8774
@jamesrangelov8774 Місяць тому
Same dont do this.. so boring my god. 🤣…
@ejays99
@ejays99 6 місяців тому
I used to ask the "What are you looking for?" question but it backfired a few times, made the girl think I was too intense on a first date. Men are very direct and think questions like this are fine, but a lot of women are not wired that way.
@davellii6309
@davellii6309 5 місяців тому
I personally think asking the question with potential answers is easier and less loaded, for example "Are you in a stage of life right now where you're looking for something longterm or are you just going with the flow, and meeting new people?"
@Leonardo_No_Cardio
@Leonardo_No_Cardio 6 місяців тому
The quality of your consulting in your videos is beyond my expectations 🎉 bravo Courtney
@ClellBiggs
@ClellBiggs 6 місяців тому
I know first dates are basically job interviews but you don't want to make it feel that way. Be careful what questions you ask, how you ask them, and how many. I'd pick 4 or 5 that are most important and work them into the conversation organically so it doesn't feel like an interrogation.
@toraso842
@toraso842 6 місяців тому
But how do u do this I suck at conversations with someone I don’t know
@ClellBiggs
@ClellBiggs 6 місяців тому
@@toraso842 Unfortunately it takes practice. Every person that's good at conversation got there by having conversations.
@DarkVeghetta
@DarkVeghetta 5 місяців тому
@@toraso842 The easiest path would be to find some common interests and work from there. It's incredibly easy for me to talk to WoW veterans, for example, and gamers in general. These days I could burn the midnight oil with a lot of topics, as my interests have expanded as I've gotten older.
@antoinedesjardins9605
@antoinedesjardins9605 6 місяців тому
Hi Courtney, A lot of the healthiest relationships among my friends are from people that knew each other for months or years before starting to date. So for me, a big problem with online dating is that I feel that girls are looking for a really fast fusional connection that is really hard to get from 3-4 dates and if you don’t, it’s friendzone. I know that you already did, but would like to see videos on how to create really flirting dates to create that quick spark to not be friendzoned. You videos helped me a lot in the last 2 years, ty!!!
@potatogirlcultist19
@potatogirlcultist19 6 місяців тому
Best advice I can give is just start hanging out with ladies more. Not for dates, but just as friends. That way you will be able to see what their character is like. I would never, ever go out on a date with someone I've just met. It's just way too abrupt. The worst thing that can possibly happen is that you end up living with someone you despise for the rest of your life.
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
@@potatogirlcultist19 What is an example of hanging out (sorry but I get the idea of being on a date if I am hanging out). ❤. I would love to have a real casual date (hanging out, but I don’t have a clue what I would do besides taking a walk and talking maybe?) 😊
@potatogirlcultist19
@potatogirlcultist19 6 місяців тому
@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb Well, a lot of people see a woman who attracts them to the eye and immediately come to the conclusion that they want a relationship with her. This is a terrible mistake, as having someone who you can connect to on an emotional level as well as a physical one is arguably way more important. Don't get me wrong, physical attractiveness is valuable. But it is extremely overrated and some guys (and girls even) might not bother to try and get to know them better because "They're not my type" or "they don't have (feature) I'm looking for". When I say hang out, I mean the end goal is not to start a relationship with them but to bond with them and spend quality time with them, like you would with a guy friend (be aware that women do have a different approach and mentality to males). It can take many months or maybe even years to decide if this person is for you or not. If you think a woman would add value to your life and be as a faithful, loving and compassionate person as you are, then think about starting a relationship with them.
@englandhall5316
@englandhall5316 6 місяців тому
These women only friendzone guys they are not attracted to
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 6 місяців тому
@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb A walk is not a bad idea most of the time. A shoreline, or nice park walk can be an outstanding first date BUT, only if she's open to it. Some women would really be comfortable with that (providing not isolated), some may think you are going cheap. If you know a place to take her for lunch that has a nice view may be a good plan "B". Then maybe a walk if it goes well. But here is your real dilemma: " I would never, ever go out on a date with someone I've just met. It's just way too abrupt." I don't know why you think this, but this notion will do nothing but hold you back. Sorry Juan, that's a fact. The way you state it so adamantly, makes it "stink'n think'n". It makes the way forward for you much more difficult. It's a literal road block you placed in your own way.
@pabloramos369
@pabloramos369 6 місяців тому
As "best gift"... the first and likely the only that came to mind is "my whole education" ... from my parents. They paid for the best school and college they could afford , and supported me through my whole career (doctor in medicine). Hard to beat that.
@Ezilla82
@Ezilla82 6 місяців тому
"How do you handle conflict?" My answer is, "Well we'll talk about it to find solutions to what cause this situation and find compromise that both of us will be happy with." Still I'm looking forward to Courtney's take on this question. Now, these questions were interesting, but some were kind of repeating themselves a bit. Well the questions I will ask will be more fun and not you're in a interrogation room.
@frenchfan3368
@frenchfan3368 6 місяців тому
Excellent video as always Courtney! On another note, I would avoid overusing the verb "to like" with attraction and dating. Rather than saying "Do you like this person?" or "Does this person like you?," I would personally be more clear with expressions like "I am interested in this person" or "I find this person attractive." I "like" a lot of women in my life but there are only a few that I am interested in dating.
@1zen1ben
@1zen1ben 4 місяці тому
Love your content. I've been recommending you to friends because you're videos are just full gems for dating etc. thanks.
@ErikPierreR
@ErikPierreR Місяць тому
Doing things alone! After a major relationship ended years ago, I decided to learn how to be happy on my own before any serious dating. Knowing I’d be happy in any case was a totally different mindset. The confidence that came from this was LIFE CHANGING. Thanks again Courtney!
@janisvaro4949
@janisvaro4949 6 місяців тому
I agree with you on so many of these questions--it feels VERY much like a job interview. All my best first dates were just FUN! Just be curious about the other person. Don't be so heavy.
@Drikkerbadevand
@Drikkerbadevand 10 днів тому
exactly lol.. This is too crazy I don't think I would ever ask any of these questions especially out of context lol.. Maybe the gift one if the subject happens to come up... Just talk about each other and what you do in your free time.. If someone is bored by talking about what they literally do in their pastime they're not worth it in the first place :)
@ronaldoalberto3510
@ronaldoalberto3510 Місяць тому
I'm glad I'm not the only one who found some of these questions odd Thank you for expanding on them and reframing them to sound more natural
@ajtaylor8750
@ajtaylor8750 6 місяців тому
#2 is a question that really isn't that effective because people aren't always 100% sure or honest about what they're looking for when dating. They'll say they're only looking for something short-term or casual, but in reality they actually want a long-term relationship and end up hurting themselves for not being truthful.
@johnsnow04
@johnsnow04 6 місяців тому
I think, for example, that a lot of women get duped by men who are outright lying about what they want. Almost no men is going to tell them that they are only looking for sex. They would always say how they are looking for a relationship, have sex and dump them after. Hence why the question isnt really effective and could be replaced by "Where do you see yourself in x time". As it gives a better look at wishes of somebody and you would need to date for some time to see if they want long term commitment or just casual.
@badrequest5596
@badrequest5596 6 місяців тому
Or say something very vague like "we'll see where it goes"
@SpoonHurler
@SpoonHurler 6 місяців тому
So, I shouldn't answer it with "if I knew what I wanted I should've found it by now." 😂
@elijahschnake3863
@elijahschnake3863 6 місяців тому
Those people should consider telling the truth
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 2 місяці тому
Ever bought a car? 'What are you looking for?' is the first question a salesman will ask. Do you like car salesmen? Are people cars? Is this a good date question? No.
@shantideva30
@shantideva30 6 місяців тому
much more important than what you ask is "how" you ask things. imo. my goal is not to collect massive amount of data, it is to create connection. so keep it playful and friendly.
@TurnOntheBrightLights.
@TurnOntheBrightLights. 6 місяців тому
Correct! 💯
@AliMalik-yt5ex
@AliMalik-yt5ex 5 місяців тому
I'd also add in asking them if they have a boyfriend. I went on a date with a girl and if i hadn't asked, she would have never told me that she has a boyfriend. We're sitting down eating dinner and i find out she has a boyfriend.
@shanea9613
@shanea9613 5 місяців тому
Hope you didn't pay
@AliMalik-yt5ex
@AliMalik-yt5ex 5 місяців тому
@@shanea9613 HAHA well I did. It's my fault not asking earlier. Lesson learned!!
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 2 місяці тому
Ehhh, bf's come & go. When she told you, she must've decided she didn't wanna shag you after all.
@khukri_wielderxxx1962
@khukri_wielderxxx1962 6 місяців тому
1) 3:19 What made you interested in going out with me? 2) 4:27 What are you looking for? 3) 6:32 What matters to you? 4) 8:31 When you think of current political events, is there something that stands out to you? 5) 10:22 What does your work-life balance look like? 6) 13:51 What would you do if you had a week off? 7) 14:54 When you spend time with people, how often are you the one making the plans? 8) 16:46 How well do you feel like you compromise with others? 9) 18:35 What do you think is important for a healthy relationship? 11) 22:50 What is something in past relationships you needed to work on? 12) 24:29 Who is the person you talk to the most? 13) 25:26 What is the best gift you've ever received? 14) 26:58 What was your first impression of me? 15) 28:03 What made you most excited about going on a date with me?
@sullybully
@sullybully 6 місяців тому
Thank you for that sacrifice 💀
@khukri_wielderxxx1962
@khukri_wielderxxx1962 6 місяців тому
@@sullybully I do it for the people! :)
@smithn.wesson495
@smithn.wesson495 6 місяців тому
Wow....wow....wow......Ok, two questions really stand out. "When you think of current political events, is there something that stands out to you?" and "What is something in past relationships you needed to work on?" If this is a true, first time, first meeting first date.....you are really playing with fire bringing up politics and her ex-boyfriend. Everyone knows it's a cardinal sin to talk about your ex or last relationship on a first date. Then, and with how hot politics is, how separated out society is becoming and how divided our world is right now, I would rather ask her "How often do you douche?" on a first date.
@games4us132
@games4us132 6 місяців тому
This should be pinned
@games4us132
@games4us132 6 місяців тому
Also you forgot 10) 20:11 How do you handle conflicts?
@user-tw8ut2zn2v
@user-tw8ut2zn2v 6 місяців тому
I think, that the the first thing you need to do is to guide the conversation into the direction of the question you want to ask, so it feels natural asking that question. I often start with I like to do X in my time or If i want to relax I do Y, then ask "How about you?". In this way you reveal part of you and the person who you are talking to will be more inclined to answer this question knowing that you've already answered the same question a second ago. Equally important is to not over do it. If you ask all the questions in this way, on the second or third question your date will see the pattern and this will surely annoy him/her. Ask a question, try to keep the conversation on this topic for a few minutes, then jump to the next topic/question. There's an app called Big Talk, which has a million open ended questions which are great conversation starters and the greatest part is that those questions are divided by categories. Keep in mind that the most important thing is to have fun with your date, because if you both have fun, there's a great chance that there will be a next date. I would be happy if this helps someone. Happy hunting ;)
@Leo-yn5fx
@Leo-yn5fx 5 місяців тому
The problem for a lot of people is they can't maintain an optimal ration of questions to statements so they just stick to whats safe and not risky.
@danielizquierdo113
@danielizquierdo113 5 місяців тому
Ty for the app suggestion
@elvishuff1267
@elvishuff1267 6 місяців тому
Watching Courtney’s initial reaction to these questions was a great barometer to see how women are going to react to these. Thanks Courtney!
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
I do enjoy her eyes and facial expressions.
@Windmill360
@Windmill360 6 місяців тому
These are mostly job interview questions and rather intense for a first date. Might be good for finding a "match" but not necessarily for getting a second date, which is the real struggle for guys. I would scatter these type of questions across several dates if anything, and just focus on fun questions for the first date or two integrated into
@redsox4life
@redsox4life 6 місяців тому
I think some of these questions are worth asking. And, some of these questions are worth waiting until later to ask or not ask at all. I would avoid politics on a first date. Now, asking them what they would do if they had a week off would be a fun question to ask.
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
God, by all means stay away from politics in all relationships for this year it is going to be crazy!! 😮
@redsox4life
@redsox4life 6 місяців тому
@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb , I agree with you, unless you already know that they're on the same side you're on.
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
I've never been in a relationship where politics made a difference in whether I liked them or not. Nor religion.
@hannahberlinpetry450
@hannahberlinpetry450 5 місяців тому
I think keeping it pretty casual on the first date is best, no need to dig into personal topics if you don’t even get a good vibe being in the same room as them for an hour 😂
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 2 місяці тому
Yeah these folks need to relax.
@VeganHorseman
@VeganHorseman 6 місяців тому
Best gift is easy for me. My deep and abiding friendship with my best friend from college. He was always there for me no matter what the situation. He loved me for who I was as a person and the feeling was mutual. Unfortunately he passed away from liver cancer in 1995 and it was a great loss for the world since he was such an outgoing and loving individual who everyone saw as an asset to society. We met the first day of college in 1972 when we were people watching together sitting on a wall at the student union building. It was a blessing that was meant to be. His love and friendship for the next 23 years transformed my life and it was a tragic loss for me personally as well as for the world at large. It was a once in a lifetime gift that I reflect on regularly knowing what a true friendship looks like.
@Spike2276
@Spike2276 Місяць тому
One of my favorite questions to ask my dates (although usually for 2nd or 3rd dates) is along the lines of: "what is your unrealistic dream?" In a playful manner, and usually giving examples of stuff such as going to space, or meeting dead celebrities or historical figures. It usually gets a nice conversation rolling by sparking an interest in something that person deeply likes.
@sebastienporsenna8616
@sebastienporsenna8616 6 місяців тому
You could always start by telling a story. I know we all have a story about buying something and either being excited to read the instructions on how to assemble it or just start by not reading and trying to assemble. Then you could ask are you somebody that reads instructions on things or just start trying to figure it out. And you can sure proceed with asking her to share an experience she can remember 😉.
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
Nope!! You are falling into a trap of judging her! You are setting the stage to judge her if you know it or not, it’s going to backfire!
@seth_piano
@seth_piano 6 місяців тому
These videos about "best questions" have given me clarity on myself. I feel like a lot of people are looking for a "spark" on a first date and they want the date to ignite some kind of passionate chemistry and that's just...not. what I'm looking for. And it's not what I feel like I bring to the table either. I think that what I'm looking for in someone else, and also what I bring to the table best, is a sense of calm, comfort, warmth, safety - what other people seem to think is boring seems to be right up my alley. I'd rather go in that direction and lead with my best foot forward than try to play a character that I'm not. I think that's why all of these questions seem appealing to me, even the more interview-ish ones or the more farfetched. Something that helps get right into opening up is something that I'm going to value. Every question that makes me go "ooh I love that" is a question that makes Courtney's eyes bug out of her head. And that's okay :)
@juliaskagfjord6207
@juliaskagfjord6207 День тому
Hahaha. Well Courtenay says she isnt one for confrontation. Personally I find the life juice in confronting stuff, and then weighing things out against what comes up, like an exploration. Not to pin someone and hang them out to dry for their answer. It should be more fun and lighthearted, but my style is direct on dates which sometimes leads to blank faced looks, and an inability to respond much at all to my what should be thought provoking questions. So we are all different. I also agree with you on the spark thing...besides that research apparently says it should be showing up by the 5th date. We live in a time where for most its online dating and a one and done mentality...
@seth_piano
@seth_piano День тому
@@juliaskagfjord6207 I love this response :) I think it's great to ask big thought-provoking questions, and I also think it's fine if the other person just doesn't have an answer at the moment. I wish we had an easier time stumbling through the process of getting to know the other person - because the question we want to ask says something about ourselves too. But so many people are looking for red flags about EVERYTHING ("he asked me [insert off-kilter unusual question] , how dare he!"). For theoretical purposes only: What's a question YOU'd like to ask on a first date, but doesn't get the positive response you wish it did?
@siullkallig9757
@siullkallig9757 6 місяців тому
A lot of these questions really reinforce that experience is where you find wisdom and not a PhD. Your insight, as always, is greatly valued, Courtney! Thank you.
@quinceywynn-mitchell6085
@quinceywynn-mitchell6085 2 місяці тому
These questions were very helpful and opened up ideas for my own questions. Thank you.🌺
@stephenmantovani8789
@stephenmantovani8789 6 місяців тому
Given me a lot of background knowledge. Many thanks.
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 6 місяців тому
Skip the standard questions/answers game. This list is as good as any but not really avoiding the interview. You want the 1st date to be FUN!, not a survey. Not a mundane psychological exercise. First dates purpose is to create an idea in her head that you are fun to be with. You must produce 'energy'. Humor is good, but excitement is even better. The first thing I want to know is if she's 'merry go round' or 'extreme roller coaster'. You want to know what sort of fire resides inside her, not how many brothers and sisters she has and how old (it's not harmful, but not now). The best question ever, to produce an energetic discussion, create automatic back and forth, make laughter and adrenaline is: "Tell me of a super scary, weird, funny, uber extraordinary thing that you've seen or where part of." Have a few of your own ready. Tell her you'll go first if she's hesitant. Then in an animated way, tell your weird, funny or scary story. Car wreak, seen a UFO (I have), other supernatural phenomena, was in a tornado, almost drown. Any story that is scary, weird, funny or exciting. Everyone has had WTF moments. When you first meet you concentrate on FUN, not mundane. Plenty of time to share metrics, they have almost no importance at all on the first date, but that's where people go...yawn. " I", would NEVER ask the question "what made you want to go out with me?". What if I don't like the answer to a question I don't really care about? Your purpose is NOT to put your date on the spot. It isn't an inquisition and that's not fun.
@JohnnyinCLE
@JohnnyinCLE 6 місяців тому
Courtney, you hit the nail on the head, regarding success and workload. My better half is fine with my workload, but she's also a workaholic. I've dated women who liked what I made, but hated my lack of free time. There is an opportunity cost to everything.
@ArthursAtman
@ArthursAtman 5 місяців тому
You are very kind Courtney, thanks for your thoughts--they are helpful to this poor bastard of a man who needs such advice
@ivantheteribul
@ivantheteribul 6 місяців тому
One question I've thought of that can gauge someone's interests/desires: "If you could eat dinner with any three famous people, living or dead, who would they be and why?"
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
That is a good question. Hopefully I would have some idea as to who they were, lol.
@popofilipo7114
@popofilipo7114 6 місяців тому
If I go on a first date with somebody I won't bring up any questions to make her feel uncomfortable like it's an interview I don't want her to feel like I'm being judging her. Just wanted to have a good time with her enjoying the scenery having great conversations about anything but not making her questioning herself in any form of ways. 2nd date same thing ain't bring up any questions like I'm doing an investigation. On the 3rd date. That tells me she's still interested that's were I'm asking my favorite question of all time. What are you seeking for in a relationship and what are your plans, goals for the future? So by that time she's already felt comfortable with me answering those questions truthfully. Reveal there true self// What is my favorite gift someone gave me? My answer to that comes from my heart, is being there with me in good time and bad. That's all it matters to me, sharing those magical moments that I call it real friendship real love.Those memories I will never forget till I die. Yes that's my answer to that question ( real friendship) Off course no one is perfect but we 10:57 need to keep those memories alive. Those moments are special.
@ArthursAtman
@ArthursAtman 5 місяців тому
the best gift I've ever gotten was a book: these people knew me so well they sent me home after a dinner party with an incredible book--absolute gems these folks. The only gifts I received from girlfriends were clothes that made me look more presentable, for HER to stand next to...really had nothing to do with me per se
@abkeener81
@abkeener81 6 місяців тому
Hi, Courtney! Andrew Keener here. The best gift I ever got ... likely when my brother (only sibling), sister-in-law (in-law for documentation only), niece, and nephew came to visit me the day before Father's Day (in the United States) 2021. My sister-in-law, niece, and nephew brought chalk (there's a chalkboard placard outside each apartment in the building where I live. They drew on it. I still have that artwork up. Not really a gift, but. I also probably call my Momma and Dad a lot. So, likely talk to them for sure. I also have a Filipina aunt (widow of one of my Momma's brothers) in Indiana. She and I text and talk sometimes. My Momma's remaining brother (retired California Highway Patrol) and I text and talk sometimes too. I also text my brother and sister-in-law too. But definitely my parents. My brother and I share the same parents. Momma and Dad are still married to each other. Since May of 1980. If that makes me a momma's boy ... I'm cool with it. When was on dating apps ... sometimes I would ask tell me something about you that I wouldn't be able to find out by looking at your profile.
@Dseated
@Dseated 6 місяців тому
Best present: bristolboard presentation of our dates over the last year and all the things my partner appreciates about me.
@bigal_5585
@bigal_5585 5 місяців тому
About question 7. I guess that is one of my red flags because I don't plan things with others. But, in my defense, I don't expect others to plan things for me either. I do have friends and we do get together frequently (we are all active in our church so we see each other often) amd I am pretty preoccupied with working on my future goals whenever I am free. I am introvert at heart so I am very fine being by myself and not planning random get togethers, but if I were in a relationship I would totally plan stuff since I am a dude and I want to lead my future partner. Maybe I'm wrong 🤷
@davidstein9129
@davidstein9129 2 дні тому
Thanks for posting this video Courtney. I got a lot out if it.
@sennaxisanselin3569
@sennaxisanselin3569 22 дні тому
I like the "what are you looking for?" question, but that's about it. I mean I can completely understand trying to learn more about your date, but you need to be mindful of how you come across too, and it's definitely not like a fun person to be around if you ask all these questions. Plus with a lot of these it feels like you're almost trying to look for what could go wrong instead of focussing on what's right or unique about the person you're with.
@jaredmeyers1662
@jaredmeyers1662 6 місяців тому
I think the best questions are ones with verifiable answers. Most of these questions you can't tell if they are being honest or not, and they may not know the answers themselves. If you ask what book has had the biggest impact on them, you can read the book in a few days and discuss it with them. If they have a good grasp of the themes of the book then you know they really read it and you learn a lot about them by the types of books they like. Hypotheticals like "what would you do with a week off" don't seem useful unless they have a week off coming up. 1. they can lie and you wouldn't know 2. they may not know They really can't think about that question very long on the date or the pause would be awkward. And if they don't have a week off in the near future, they may not have spent much time planning it. So their 30 second off the cuff answer probably doesn't isn't what they would really do when they take time to plan a real week off.
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
Yes, I could let her read my last Bassmaster Magazine and we could discuss the latest trends in electronic equipment. Even ask her to bring a picture of her boat.
@dougmccampbell1525
@dougmccampbell1525 6 місяців тому
I cherish my education as the most valuable gift I have ever received. It provided me with the freedom to explore my interests, entertain my talents and define my ambitions through nine years of college, Biology/Economics B.A. Econ. and Pharm.D. in Clinical Pharmacy, without a financial burden.
@SmokeyThemadscientist
@SmokeyThemadscientist 6 місяців тому
There are different ways to handle conflict and one way I know is this tell them this mantra. " I'm sorry I have cause you pain, which made me suffer but I am here for you."
@gooseberristic
@gooseberristic 6 місяців тому
I'm not sure... to me many of these questions are quite heavy for the first date. Or they still feel like a job interview. There are some good ones (e.g. if you had a week off - how would you spend it etc.) but on the whole.... I would spread these questions across 2-3 dates + added a few more light-hearted ones.
@amperesclaw9203
@amperesclaw9203 6 місяців тому
I love the 5 years question as a goal oriented person. Also the week off question as I get 9 weeks off a year as well as lots of vacation due to being a shift worker
@raldom75
@raldom75 4 місяці тому
@amperesclaw9203 what kind of shift work do you do if you don't mind me asking?
@amperesclaw9203
@amperesclaw9203 4 місяці тому
@@raldom75 Power grid engineer
@Razear
@Razear 6 місяців тому
"Do you like me?" is a socially heedless question for a myriad of obvious reasons. If a girl is going out with you, she probably does have at least a surface-level interest since she decided to spend time with you unless it was a blind date. And the whole purpose of a first date is to get to know the other person, so the answer might not be clear until the end of the date. I can understand why you would want to gauge a potential partner's political/religious views on a first date to determine if you share similar values, but I feel like this can cause a lot of unnecessary tension and ruin the vibe because discussing contentious topics can rapidly escalate and cause the dynamic to become incredibly awkward.
@joekrozel6137
@joekrozel6137 6 місяців тому
Argggh! These questions are so transactional in nature they'll just drain all the fun out of a date! How about this approach: "Hi, very nice to meet you. More than anything else I just wanted to come out tonight and have a really good time and for YOU to have a really good time too. So, for the first couple of hours, why don't we try to have a nice meal, in good company, with fun conversation. So, if you'd like to talk about hobbies, travel excursions, amusing stories about family and friends, I'd really love to hear about all that! There'll be plenty of time for more serious questions later, but for the first two hours why don't we see if we can both just relax and have some fun?"
@simontmn
@simontmn 6 місяців тому
Good attitude but I wouldn't say all that in one take 😅
@TheBanjoShowOfficial
@TheBanjoShowOfficial 6 місяців тому
I've had more casual conversation with my bank teller. What is this, a job interview for a fortune 500?
@budabk
@budabk 6 місяців тому
The best gift I have received was an institution size can of pork and beans. This was from my college roommate'sfiancé who also gave me the second and third best gifts -- embroidery scissors for fine trimming of my beard and an antique Burgie Man bottle opener. After 40 years, I still have the 2nd and 3rd. She lost her marriage after 23 years.
@ayeshak6822
@ayeshak6822 2 місяці тому
She lost her marriage? Are you saying that she's with you now?
@budabk
@budabk 2 місяці тому
@@ayeshak6822, No. They divorced, he remarried the woman with whom he was cheating, The wife was unmarried for several years, then remarried with a maintenance worker at the university where she was a professor of math. I continue to be S/NM.
@smoothlyrough512
@smoothlyrough512 4 місяці тому
The way you dress matters. I went with the Ronald McDonald look once, her grandma magically got into a skydiving accident with a horse and she had to cut the date short. Still waiting on her to call back though. Don't know how the horse is doing.
@alexandrafialkovskaya8064
@alexandrafialkovskaya8064 3 місяці тому
These are all good and reasonable questions, but they should definitely be spread over several dates. I think the purpose of the first date is to understand whether you would like to go on a second date, and a good question to ask yourself would be "how much information from this person can I handle, supposed we might never see each other again?" I think the conversation on the first date should really revolve just around the person in front of you, what they are doing at the moment, what are their hobbies, what is their education. Questions about family and their relationships with other could really be saved for later dates
@josephstevens9888
@josephstevens9888 6 місяців тому
I agree completely... BELIEVE someone when they state what they are looking for!
@rjmamula
@rjmamula 5 місяців тому
These are never questions I would have imagined asking on a first date. Or honestly questions I will want asked. To me they all sound like job interview questions.
@yutzybiz
@yutzybiz 4 місяці тому
Thanks for this amazing video wish I watched 10 years ago !
@gfrerking
@gfrerking 6 місяців тому
Several questions I've asked recently that were fun - and I intentionally asked them in a playful manner - things that were contrasty and controversial - "iPhone or Android"... "toilet paper over or under"... with my most recent (and current) date, we agreed on these, but I was ready to tease and banter a bit if we didn't. I asked her how many pumpkin spice products were in her house right now (it's that time of year) - again, a question that can spur on a ton of fun conversation no matter how she answers... and I asked her (this was mid-October) "do you have ANY Christmas decorations up yet?" (she didn't) - again, fun stuff that could be the basis of ongoing banter and/or a private "inside joke" between the two of us that could continue for weeks, months or even years. She caught on to what I was doing and came back to me with a "OK... here's one... and this could seriously be a deal breaker... does pineapple belong on pizza?" - and I responded "I don't know if I'd use the word 'belong' but I can tell you that I've had some damn good pizza with pineapple on it"... and she teasingly made a big deal out of it (so she's anti-pineapple)... so I responded with "well, look at it this way, that gives you a free pass to like something that I don't... like pickles... you probably like pickles, don't you? you are free to have my pickle any time" (honestly this was *not* a pre-planned double entendre, but we both laughed and it worked). Great conversation, and we're off to a great start.
@Jasemathison
@Jasemathison 2 місяці тому
I asked all of them throughout a date or over multiple dates. The questions should reflect what you are looking for in someone. As for changing them don't try, no matter how long in a relationship if she originally said she doesn't want a relationship and you do walk away.
@jaybron697
@jaybron697 6 місяців тому
Hi Christine. Good video. Informative. Content wise, very great. However, visually after watching this for so long, there video is very bright that it was messing with my eyes. Especially on a big screen OLED tv.
@galas455
@galas455 5 місяців тому
I really appreciate you, Courtney, thank you.
@bittersweetindustryexecutive
@bittersweetindustryexecutive 6 місяців тому
Maybe a better way to go about asking 'How do you handle conflict?' - and most of the 'formal' questions on this list - is to simply give your own perspective first and then bounce the ball back to them. Like, "I'm the type of guy who would throw a tantrum over you even suggesting something that I absolutely don't like., like what ice cream I should try, for example." "If you were to suggest a certain flavour and I DON'T like it, I would totally lose it." Then say, "Just kidding". And then continue by saying, "but seriously though, have you ever experienced a man behave like this?" "And how would you react if I were to really do this?" This a way more casual and fun way of 'adressing' the same topic. Cheers!✌
@TheProtonSpinner
@TheProtonSpinner 6 місяців тому
My grandfather once told me that first dates are a "tiptoe through the tulips", a military euphemism for walking through a minefield; one wrong step, and there will be consequences. 😅
@sagemattp
@sagemattp 5 місяців тому
Courtney, as always appreciate your content, but some of these ?s are awkward & come off as needy imo. Agreed with your comment on the gift from her ex, lol. I think it's best to stick to simple things like someone's passions, goals, dreams, fears, insecurities, then try to emotionally bond from there. Celebrity crush, binging on Netflix, things like that can really add some laughter & light heartedness too.
@svtben
@svtben 6 місяців тому
Yeah, a lot of these questions are too job-interview-like. My best question to ask is about their travels. Where they've been, the farthest they've been to, their last destination, their favorite places, etc. There's always stories behind people's travels and sweet spot moments to share.
@steveh.7664
@steveh.7664 3 місяці тому
Ask about what fun activities they do when with friends or family, or questions like this, keep it light-hearted. Generally questions like this, has given me the red flag moments without directly asking some of the questions listed above in video. Some of these questions are too formal and may turn off a potential great partner who just wants a relaxing conversation.
@joegrande4848
@joegrande4848 6 місяців тому
I feel personally asking 2 or 3 of these questions before even dates will save a lot of wasted time. Engadge with the person your interested in. Everyone is either looking for a long term relationship or just fun.i have interest in a woman and not going to ask her out yet until I see if something long term can come of this. So far so good soon I'll give this a go. I want to make sure I don't jump the gun so I'm not wasting time. I see she's interested I'm just making sure if pursuing her is worth it. So far it seems so but as stated I'm making sure. I'm getting to old wasting my time.
@maryf5337
@maryf5337 2 місяці тому
"How do you handle conflict?" and eluding to political interests are probably the single best predictors of relationship satisfaction.
@RonaldGibson699
@RonaldGibson699 6 місяців тому
Hi Courtney,! I don't like to feel I am being interrogated either on a first date or texting. I think most people probably feel that way. So, I prefer to keep things very casual. I did a little Halloween video for my Instagram this morning. I used my PC camera and I had only a handful of lines. It gave me a new appreciation for the hard work that you must do to produce these videos. Thanks for all that do, Courtney! Hope that you & your husband have a great week ahead!
@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee
@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee 6 місяців тому
When you meet somebody for the first time, you're not meeting them, you're meeting their representative. Chris Rock
@fredrikbergquist5734
@fredrikbergquist5734 6 місяців тому
It depends on where you live: in NYC it is natural to work weekends, in LA it is not. Maybe you should select city before starting to date?
@paularbear4796
@paularbear4796 6 місяців тому
well it wasnt so much of a gift as me taking it in the beginning. it was this little red panda stuffed animal that belonged to one of my brothers. i dont know why i grew so attached to it but eventually my brother gave in and stopped trying to get it back. that little guy has seen me through some of the toughest times in my life and i still have him around today.
@seandoherty8858
@seandoherty8858 6 місяців тому
Real love is my best gift I'd want to know if the person is open minded (I tend to be quite imaginative and want to see if they would jive with me: so to speak) While I can value down to Earth thinking for practical reasons, I value openness to possibilities even more (like outside the box thinking) because I like creative energy and innovation
@salvadorw.empent2778
@salvadorw.empent2778 Місяць тому
The best way to get to know what a person is about is not what they say about themselves but more so what they say about others! I just broke up with a girl I was seeing for a short period of time she was a covert narcissist and would've skated through most of these questions with flying colors!😅
@ponokunishima1
@ponokunishima1 6 місяців тому
Awesome video and great questions, definitely another must watch again to learn from, especially if it’s been months or years since you’ve been on a date before.
@Michel-ov1sv
@Michel-ov1sv 2 місяці тому
In my love languages I like to give gifts. However, I fo not know what receiving gifts does not f do obit for me. Although over time I get up appreciate some gifts. Meanwhile, the best gifts that touch me is the care, attention, love, thoughtfulness that somebody expresses to mdd we through their gift. I am not including such drawing or ‘l love you dad’ written by my kids when they were little. These papers and drawings are more precious to me than jerkers or other gifts I received.
@vargasgaming1112
@vargasgaming1112 5 місяців тому
I think instead of asking if they can compromise a better question would be to ask if they have siblings and see how they react if they do. How well someone gets along with their siblings can tell you everything you need to know about how well they compromise
@danielizquierdo113
@danielizquierdo113 5 місяців тому
This is good advice
@jordanj.2886
@jordanj.2886 6 місяців тому
Sweet…always wanted to go on a job interview for a first date.
@elifinan6630
@elifinan6630 6 місяців тому
Hi, I'm new here! And I just wanted to say that you look so beautiful. And of course, thanks for the video :)
@robdaly3915
@robdaly3915 Місяць тому
The question: how do you handle conflict?--- is an important one; but more important is that "I don't know" does not always lead us to think that they cant handle it-- just that they may recognise that not every conflict demand a particular response. in other words, not every conflict require the same measured response.
@Yvs8962
@Yvs8962 6 місяців тому
Thanks for the video Courtney, I have a first date on Wednesday with a girl I am majorly crushing on
@aaronsholar8067
@aaronsholar8067 3 місяці тому
planning.... i think that depends on the type of work they do. I've had a lifetime of military so constant long hours at work, suddenly working weekends or shift changes, deployments, so over 30 years of plans not happening you learn to do things on a whim, travel, go to the beach, find a place for dinner, grab drinks with friends.....also why there is such a high divorce rate in the military. After retirement though, at least when not working i'll have months at a time off to do anything and no one to do it with.
@davidstein9129
@davidstein9129 2 дні тому
Courtney is probably the best overall dating question on UKposts.
@brianthesnail3815
@brianthesnail3815 6 місяців тому
The every best job interview I had was being asked to tell my life story from birth. Every detail. Its impossible to make up or fake your life story. It so easy to do and it prompts easy natural questions on the way. I got the job. I am 40 years beyond dating but I got to know my wife and she got to know me in that level of detail before we even went on a date.
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
Sorry but there is not enough time left in my life to tell my life story in detail! That would be boring for most anyone with a conscious and I wouldn’t want to make anyone suffer! I would rather just make something up which is short and interesting! ❤
@svtben
@svtben 6 місяців тому
HAHAHA!! Really? I would just say, "Buy my memoir in Barnes and Noble. I'll let you know when it's out." ;)
@kristijan8518
@kristijan8518 6 місяців тому
Can you make a video about how to get the date in the first place? Like how to approach, what things to talk about
@hop2thetop382
@hop2thetop382 10 днів тому
I could see asking one or two of these in a casual way. But. More than a couple is going to make it definitely sound like a job interview.
@drummercam1
@drummercam1 6 місяців тому
One I like to ask: If you didn’t have to work for a living… what would you do with your time?
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
If you get an honest answer is will sound like this: Eat, sleep, watch tv, tictok and some UKpostsrs and not shower everyday. ❤
@drummercam1
@drummercam1 6 місяців тому
@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb Well, my answer is I would play music every day, make art, and travel the world. But if somebody gave me your answer I would know they aren’t the one for me.
@soichirohonda267
@soichirohonda267 2 місяці тому
Only one of Beethoven's sonatas (especially later ones) is enough for years to work on. Or to prepare complete Das Wohltemperierte Klavier...whole life!
@abogado84
@abogado84 6 місяців тому
On one first date I went on, I got asked about how long my longest relationship was, my political beliefs, nationality/ethnicity, if I had kids, etc. Frankly, it felt very much like a job interview and was a bit off-putting. I’m there looking to just get to know someone and have fun, not their life story and overtly personal questions.
@angelacosta466
@angelacosta466 6 місяців тому
Hey Courtney, as for me I’m looking for something serious for the end goal to be marriage. The question I would ask is what are you looking for when it’s appropriate to see if they want the same thing as me to save time. Great question.
@zaiah9252
@zaiah9252 4 місяці тому
Very fascinating video. Godspeed on your UKposts channel. Me personally I would never ask political questions on a first date. That can sick the air out of what can be a chill good mood. Religion, relationships, or spiritual beliefs I can understand though.
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
Simply ask if they lean right, left or somewhere in the middle. Or just ask if they like Trump, etc.
@zaiah9252
@zaiah9252 3 місяці тому
@@TheFishdoctor1952 tbh honest, not trynna know about someone’s political affiliations on a first date, especially if it's a blind date. We can learn that down the road. Just like I'm not trying to know how many men you slept with. If you make your political affiliations known from the jump then that means you take that as an identity. If not I know there is more to you than who you bite for or what rallies you go to.
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 3 місяці тому
@@zaiah9252 I think most people will be honest about whether they are left, right or middle of the road. It is a simple question. An explanation of why is not necessary. Just mention the name Trump will get a more defined answer as to their feelings politically. If you think it is taboo to ask, why wait for another date to find out that you just wasted another date if that is a big issue to either of you..
@zaiah9252
@zaiah9252 3 місяці тому
@@TheFishdoctor1952 I understand. And I respect your opinion. But I think it's great to get to know a person but things are revealed. Take for someone who's rich. I would want someone to like me for me and not for something that's a part of me but not my identity. Or blow me off because they think I'm too good for them cause of my money or I'm some rich money-hungry guy. What if you blow someone off because they're a moderate and you're a left-leaning person but you realize the two of you could've been compatible if you had given them a chance? Sometimes it's best not to know everything because if you did, it could make you too quick to judge.
@TheFishdoctor1952
@TheFishdoctor1952 2 місяці тому
@@zaiah9252 I guess it depends on how much you value you put on politics, religion, etc. I'm strong conservative, but have been with mostly liberal women. I am Roman Catholic, but all the women were Christians of different religions. I put more value on people that care about their beliefs than those that could care less. If someone blows you off after the first date, do you really want a second date if they are that judgemental?
@pacmanfanable
@pacmanfanable 6 місяців тому
Just went on a first date last week. I’ll add some of these to the second date soon!
@iam_midnight
@iam_midnight 6 місяців тому
Yeah do a video the 36 questions of love please
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb
@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 6 місяців тому
Love or sex? Because 90 some percent of people DO NOT know the difference anymore!! ❤
@miker4430
@miker4430 6 місяців тому
Thank you as been awhile
@Ace-tu2is
@Ace-tu2is 6 місяців тому
I am going to have all these questions on index cards and ask in rapid fire succession within a five minute speed dating period. Whomever can answer the most questions "correctly" wins.
@pj20050
@pj20050 6 місяців тому
For 2, men looking for something casual will wait on the woman to answer first and adjust their answer accordingly i.e. if a woman wants a relationship the man will reply with the same even though he's looking for sex, one for women to be wary of
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому
wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 6 місяців тому
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
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