So true

I was at home everyday by myself. It was a lot and I was scared I would get too deep in PPD so I returned back to work after 5 weeks and my retired aunt kept him during the day. May sound selfish to some but I felt it coming and got ahead of it.

That’s why people need to listen and pay attention to the mothers after having a baby. I don’t know why they don’t have free therapy for women who can’t afford it for a year after having a baby. It’s a lot that women go through when we have a baby. More men need to be more understanding of this as well, but we need to start making sure women are ok after having a baby and ONCE AGAIN LISTEN TO US WHEN WE SAY WE DON’T FEEL RIGHT!!!! It’s sad that we get ignored if we talk about what’s going while being pregnant, but also get ignored after having the baby. People need to listen to women because we risk our lives to have children. I’m fortunate to have a fiancé that cares about my well being and listens to me on anything that’s going on with me, whether it be my Sickle Cell Anemia (pain crisis) or different symptoms along with different types of pain that may come from something else. Also, he listens when I feel like I have depression even before I was pregnant with our son. I went through Breast Cancer and every thing I was getting treated for (because I went through hell and back before cancer treatment) came and went so fast and I wasn’t able to really process everything that happened in those moments that everything was being done. After surgery, I had to cope with all the emotions after everything while coping with losing a breast and that was soooooooo fucking hard. I hit a really bad depression after everything and it was hard to get out of it. But yes, women deserves better when it comes down to some family and in the medical field because we still have OBGYNs that ignore their pregnant patients that needs help. We need to demand respect and a doctor listening to us. Even if we have to change our doctor, DO IT!!!! Always get a 2nd opinion when you know something isn’t right because you’ll never know, you might save your life.

@@angeleyes3396 that’s not selfish. If you’re not good, then the baby won’t be good. We have to always make the right decision not just for our baby, but for ourselves too. As long as you take care of yourself 1st, you’ll be able to take good care of your baby(ies).

Chloe doesn’t have postpartum depression! I always thought it’s when you reject the baby not love them. 😂😂😂 I dunno maybe I’m wrong I just always thought it’s when the mother rejects the baby and sometimes even in some cases hurts the child

He had and got another woman lol that’s why they lived separately. He still has her now. Jus don’t show her

​@@BE_you2024eyyyy tea where can I research this?😊

He egged her with false security and constantly put her down

@@Thelma-hn7nm it’s been removed offline. I had the screen shot when it got posted of them laying in bed together lol but it’s been completely swiped on all platforms

@@Thelma-hn7nm may be the UKposts video is still up tho

I’m grateful you posted this! I hate when they pump out misinformation for vulnerable populations. I also always recommend Peer Support services or centers, it’s usually free and good place to not be judged or shamed while recovering from mental health challenges.

Thank you! They are un- knowledgeable about a lot of topics, it’s embarrassing at this point.

Resight the hippocratic oath

You don't need no damn medication!

Right. She is so uneducated. Did she make past grade 10. Medication can 100 percent help postpartum.

Exactly. It’s amazing how they can just spew misinformation.

​@@matrepharaoh8260 The breakfast club has a vast audience, and I personally find it disappointing that they would spread false information. There is a clear difference between postpartum blues, depression, anxiety, and even psychosis. If they were not sure, they could have easily mentioned to their viewers the importance of getting assessed if they feel that they are experiencing symptoms that they think are related to postpartum depression. I understand that it is impossible to be an expert in everything, which is why resources are available.

Yes!! I'm like, what?? she refuses to research her topics.. yet will comment incorrect information.. she did the same with the Haley Berry story...

@@nicoleh.6352 Yes, and had all the energy for that British royal Kate!

I did too, but moreso the other way around …. It last a long time its no joke.

Same I felt like my body was not my own for a WHILE

Yea I had it with all 3 children but didn’t feel ok talking to the doctor about it until my 3rd child. I didn’t want them thinking I was crazy or take my child so I suffered through the first 2 times

Isn’t postpartum depression when you reject the baby? I even googled it just to make sure I was correct

@javiruiz8365 It is almost like a severe case of depression. I think she may deal with separation anxiety when u never want the baby out of ur sight. The mother has a hard time separating from the baby after they are used to them technically being one person while they are carrying them for the nine months. I dont know if those two things fall in the same category or not.

Girl i used to hear my baby cry in my sleep

Not speaking for these weird celebrities but if you speak to the common everyday man we are not attracted to BBL’s at all. Tbh I’ll rather date a woman with a little butt like Coi Leray before dating someone with a refrigerator on their back 😂😂😂 It’s time we all start being brutally honest so this mess can stop. As men we gotta start pouring into our women in a healthy way. Letting our queens know we love them and are attracted to them just the way they are 💯

To us girls with big butts they are highly overrated.

Girl me either I don't see the fascination

💯

And as a man I love a NATURAL woman I literally look away when I see those women with them ant 🐜 looking bodies lol

Yesss I think Jennifer Holiday sang background.

That song still gives me chills listening to it. Same with Phil Collins song, soon as that base drop, you feel it. Grew up listening to them both.

@@stephaniejames4940 Yes me too. About a month ago I listened to Foreigner about 10 times in a row after hearing it somewhere. OMG now you're about to have me listening to Phil Collins and I know exactly the song you're talking about. 😄

@@Renee_nf094e Yes, just the start of it is awesome. My uncle used to wake us up 6am loud every morning. You could hear him driving in his red corvette. Lo

That song is awesome until I heard their other song I’ve been waiting for a girl like you OMG that song is literally everything

Yeesss!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾LOVE that song!!

I love that one and some of their old classics. Cold as Ice is edgy but a good one.

No one in the panel knew of them. I guess the band isn’t controversial enough for the culture.

Yeah, Yee would have remembered and had something to add.

Omg that's the song 🤘🏽😎

Good luck convincing moms to do that

Most celebrities do that to stay young!! 👀

So does adrenachrome.

Apparently for Jess pronouncing it too 😅

@@UserOfGassomg lol! I’m glad not the only one

“Cold As Ice” is that SONG. And when M.O.P. used it as their sample? Wow.

I loved their classics ... all the ones you listed and remember Urgent. I appreciate the bands of the past especially the ones that had strong vocals--- Journey too

Yes there is. I hope she educates herself just in case she goes through it.

And therapy

The medication for post partum is identical to what is prescribed for regular depression so not post partum specific. And in some instances the medication makes it worst!

@@toyita4431 that's debatable but the facts is, there is meds.

@@honeyb8733 it's not debatable as it's proven by research. But as a Dr. I'm not going to argue with you. Carry on 🤷🏾‍♀️

the three are showing their limitations. If it's not ratchet and about our culture only these three don't listen to it

Yea that was crazy for her to say that and then say she has never even experienced it lol

They just keep spreading misinformation

EXACTLY. They maybe jokes but they're rooted in something for the comedian and it takes root in the person at the receiving end of the joke.

U dont think DC has heard that hes ugly aahh, is he changing his body because of what somebody says? She was gonna do it anyway cmon, I thought women didnt get surgery because of MEN like yall love to shout like yall really believe dat shit delusional aah

He definitely plaued a big part to her insecurities, hence surgery... Hence death.

Taking the easy way out by shifting the blame on someone else?​@@felicous

​@@felicousThat may be true, but Jackie was having too much surgeries. Plus she had just had a baby and went under the knife again. Too much surgeries. As a mother she should've been more careful.

Not to mention she died getting a bbl. Sound like he guilty, hope never attacked her looks😕 jokes can feel personal even if they are jokes...jus sayin there was some truth in his words like he regret saying some ish

​@@Scantronaconhe definitely was making her feel that she wasn't enough for him. Knocked her up with 3 kids but never married her and was sleeping with other women. Oh well no black woman was harmed

There was no pain in that man’s voice. Yall really need to look and read between the lines. Listen to what he’s saying. There is no pain, he seems very disconnected to me. From day one he has always treated that girl crazy. Dc was not committed to her and that’s why he said what he said in this clip about “even if you are messing with other girls that …” do have bbl’s was what he was trying to say. 😂 y’all really think this dude is heartbroken. I’m sure he’s pissed and sad at times, but he bounced back way too fast. None of his posts ever seems heartfelt like she was his love.

He did alot ​@@Scantronacon

Young Fly never should have let her be alone after that surgery.

You sound stupid. It’s absolutely correct to uplift people. Not everything is about you.

She wasn’t even reading she was just tryna think of the word she said earlier … stop hating

@@loganglover4320 EADk

Lmao. I caught that too. I wonder if she’s letting the comments get to her head. 😂😂

You do not know what she thought so STOP projecting.. you don’t know what made her insecure.

@@TheIcemanthomas the same goes for you to you don’t know either if the truth hurts you simply ignore my comment I’m not projecting on anything in her videos you could see how he’d treat her hence why he never married her he just seen her as his babymama nothing more until AFTER she died inform yourself

He didn't seem to care about her as a person, just cared that she looks good and that she played her Mom role really well

They probably never heard of Sting or the band Police neither

Congratulations on motherhood

Working out definitely helped me I think it saved my life still not 100% but I feel like living again I can breathe again

@brittanycrawl7858 it does help with hormone regulation and so glad you were able to get back to your healthy state. It matters but most importantly you matter

that wasn't Foreigner

Lady in Red was by de burgh

Why you mad stop listening then why you think God haven’t blessed you to be more cause how you hate on people

​@robertnutalljr8268 you need to take the same course as Jess. Education is fundamental.

No. She got a heavy tongue

I feel more for the kids... DC used to make fun of her physical features... Her insecurities had some influence by her

Bro, Angela Yee was that person with wider view, she knew a little bit of everything. Now we stuck with Jess😂

Yeah, and songs like "Feels Like The First Time" or "Hot Blooded", plus "I Want To Know What Love Is" was played every damn where...including the hood.

I was just listening to “Cold As Ice”. That sh!t slaps yo.

Learn the definition of postpartum before teasing someone's literacy.

​@@kmjones5right 😂

@@kmjones5 Learn how to comprehend sentences, I clearly said Jess can’t READ The word postpartum. Not that she’s actually going through it herself as a pregnant woman Einstein. TF 😂 😂😂😂

She read it just fine. You reaching. Yall so lame constantly talking about how she can't read, yet be on here everyday still watching.

@@kmjones5 I haven’t been on here in a minute but I’m glad that you’re keeping track of comments & if 1:27 is just fine to you then you just as slow 😂