Please come to Ireland !!💞

Im so happy for you ❤️❤️

I would love to go but my parents won't let me!

See u in Berlin ♡

I'd love to come but can't! Love ur songs, Dear Parents describes my life!!

Haylie Chauvin me too🖤

Yep....

Yeh

Haylie Chauvin Yeah...it hits a little to hard 💔

I agree, the whole thing hit me... Like a bus... But in a good way 😊😁😄

Riley Strussenberg the entire song did for me

Riley Strussenberg did it really tho

Lewis Turbill Exactly lol

Maryan Mohamed my real name is maryan

I get this I hate when people see ur upset and go tell me what’s wrong that’s why whenever someone is upset I just say do u wanna tell me about or do u just want me to be here

all of her song do no matter how old they are.

@@HaydenRaine yess!!

fr before i didn’t understand 😢

Ikr

Even now.... after 4 yrs

Relatable ❤️

Remember people... When it feels like no one cares, remember that I care.

@@Rat-dk6xn I'm sorry that that happened

@@kaylynnpearce9765 thanks

I am going through the same thing...this is my dads account

exactly but they still take it and its makes your anxiety higher its great

Same

all my friends are on my phone... it makes me happier knowing that people actually care there 🥺

Bold of you to assume that most parents want their kids to be happy :/

@@kalslavnes4880 most do tho? since it's their kid... i know for sure i'd want mine to be.

yes, preach it girl !!!!!!!!

I love that ❤

THANK YOUU THESE ARE TRUE FACTS

Some ppl just don’t understand and don’t even try to

True

I am proud of u, I am 16 as well ILY 💞

Thank you!

Hey. How you doing

this is literally me rn, and it feels like no one understands

I’m so proud of you❤️

I cried just reading it 😔

@@maddie603 I cried too while writing it😔

Cool Girl why is this so true and every time you try to explain why your crying you can’t and you fall apart more then you were already. and then they say it’s all for attention but they don’t know what you are going through. You try to explain to them that your not okay, but they don’t believe you because you’ve been “okay” all the time

@@emjuarez5177 that's so true, they don't know what is happening to tell anything to us...

When we cry its so hard to explain why and then our parents dont get it. they think its for the attention or that were being dramatic. its so hard for parents to understand but it doesnt seem that hard. i always wanted to hear a song that explains so amazing the things we go through. tate is such an amazing artist. i hope one day our parents will understand it one day

exactly

I mean not all of them they just want the best for you- Tough love sometimes :/

The problem comes when they believe that not only act.

:( to good to be true

they made me

So true they say they can feel what we feel but they don't know what they say can hurt more

Appreciate it

OI YOU- Yes you, I though i'd tell you something..... I love your smile I love your laugh I love your personality I love your hair (or lack thereof) I love your insecurities I love your accomplishments I love your failures I love your eyes I love your beauty I love your handwriting (or the way you communicate) I love the way you dance I love you on your happy days I love you on your sad days I love you on the days you feel lonely I love you on the days you feel helpless I love you on the days you feel like no one cares I love you on the days you feel forgotten I love you on the days you feel unmotivated I love you on the days you feel loved I love you on the days you feel sick I love you on the days you feel motivated I love you on the days you feel depressed I love you on the days you feel stresses I love you on the days you feel crazy I love you on the days you feel hopeful I love you on the days you feel cuddly I love you on the days you feel clingy I love you on the days you feel amazing I love you on the days you feel beautiful I love you on the days you feel like a failure I love you on the days you feel angry I love you on the days you feel aggressive I love you on the days you feel horrible I love you on the days you feel safe I love you on the days you feel unsafe I love you on the days you feel vulnerable I love you on the days you feel weird I love you on the days you feel ok I love you when you're healthy I love how you sing (or hum or feel the music) I love your taste in music I love your taste in movies I love your taste in tv shows I love the way you move I love the way you act I love you when you cry I love you when you're kind I love you when you're mean I love you when you're alone I love you when you can't feel I love you when you feel too much I love you when you can't take life anymore I love you when you feel like it's too much I love you when you're asleep I love you when you have nightmares I love you when you have dreams I love how you believe I love you when you believe in yourself I love you when you don't believe in yourself I love you when you hate yourself I love you when you love yourself I love the way you think I love you problems I love your solutions I love how you support I love you when you're in pain I love you when you're hurt I love your promises I love your secrets I love your attitude I love you sass I love your creativity I love your voice (or lack thereof) I love you hand gestures I love your stories I love your wounds I love your scars I love your face I love your past I love your future I love your present I love your outfits I love your style I love your art I love your honesty I love you when you lie I love you when you're tired I love you when you're energetic I love how you look I love how you cook I love you when you're adventurous I love you when you're scared I love your imperfections I love your perfections I love you when you worry I love you when you talk (or communicate) I love your opinions I love you when you have a headache I love you when you have a stomach ache I love you when you help others I love you when you need help I love you when you're mature I love you when you're immature I love you in the hard times I love you in the easy times I love you when life is meh I love you when you're responsible I love you when you're irresponsible I love you when you fight I love you in your darkest moments I love you in your brightest moments I love your heart I love you in the day I love you in the night I love you at midnight I love you at 3 am I love you at all times I love you at your best I love you at your worst I love the little things you do I love all of you I love you when you're you I love 𝙮𝙤𝙪. From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)

Yesss

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSss

sadly yes..

Same....sadly yes too....

Sadly that is the truth......TvT

😔

Yes PREACH this is so true

Boring Person Here why does this not have slit of likes like I understand

I entirely understand and agree😕

relateable..

Kim Insert Last Name holo fello holo lover🤪

They don't understand that the words they say hurt

Why the number 16 is so unlucky or it's just us? 😭

@@taeiya5918 yeah 😭😭

Ikr this has probably been one of the worst years of my life. Actually tbh it’s also kind of been the best as I’m starting to realise how toxic my mum is.

I'm not even 16 yet but I relate to much to this

not just 16 year old mostly like the ages 12-19

Ik how it feels

area 51 Yes

I agree. #cuttingfixsproblems

For real!!! I am 12 and my mom is kicking me out o the house and forcing me to live with my dad and leave the people I have been around my whole life!!!! I have cried all day because of it

area 51 please 😭

@@cheapcosplay5736 Um.. No

Vicious Viviene 100% agree. Plus,it's THEIR responsibility to take care of their child(ren) and be their during their worst. But if he/she/their parents aren't there for their worst,then they DON'T deserve to be there at your success.

Lunar Roses yeah. Whenever my parents catch me cry they say boys don’t cry and I can walk it off. But then whenever im successful they’re out there posting and telling our whole family.

SOOOOO TRUEEEEE

@@ejgumapac927 Hey Bro. I, I don't know what to say. It's my first time to get Hit cause of Someone Thoughts...

Vicious Viviene YAsSsSsS

Fr

Ikr! ❤

literallyyy

Frr

Thank you this helped a lot ❤❤

Thank you

Ack yesss. I feel so bad about all the things that I don’t tell my parents, but I just can’t figure out how to say it all.

as i read this she sang it

@@dewdrop101 omg exactly, even little things like dramas at school

Ikr. You WANT to tell them more but the words just gets caught up with that gigantic clog in your throat. When me and my mom fights, I just hate the way she acts as if I messed everything up. I messed up our relationship. But she seems to forget about all the things SHE did wrong. See, its always me. Kinda one of the reasons why i dont even try putting up a fight when I get into an argument.

@@lilyjurcic1249 I mean, it IS reasonable since WERE the kids but the hypocricy is just...frustrating

Yeah...

FACTS

exactly and then when they tel them how they feel the litreally attack them for feeling that type away because most the time they think theyre doing it for attention.

True :)

I think most of them just refuse to accept it

Same almost forgot about this piece. Now that I’m listening actually understand it and all the nostalgia from listening to this. Always been my favorite Tate💗

limitless every time I try tell my mum anything she just tells me to grow up and stop being so stupid 😭

limitless yeah🤧

So true

Guys can you be my friends?:(( reply your name in your accounts please? i really need a friend who can understand me..:((

@@gachamimi1735 same.. can we be friends? i really need a friend to talk to..:((

I feel very called out by this fun fact-

true

true

I’m one of those kids 😞

this is me i dont feel comfortable with them

I love ur user Me and my frnd had a good laugh

@@shianne2659 I feel you guys... My mom says everything is all good... but I would hear her crying at night sometimes... It hurts, ya know.

I hope my life ends by my dad bc he gets drunk and I’m not sleeping now bc I’m scared that he will kill me and my loving mom....😓😩😩😩☹️😞😞😞😞😞😞😔😔😔😔😣😣😣😣😣😥😥😥😥 hope you see this I just need someone to make me calm

The Weirdo I suffered from depression for a few years without realising because whenever I would that stuff up my parents would say “you can tell us anything” and when I talked about it, they said “you’re fine”. And when I came out as being bisexual my mum said “it’s just a phase” and she didn’t realise how much those words hurt because I had cried myself to sleep that night thinking my parents didn’t support me.

Melannie Paasa I hope your life improves massively!

vintaqe it’s ok my was just drunk

Exactly 😭😭

They need to stop comparing us with themselves 😔 they dont know what we are going through

How to describe them how ours different from theirs?

exactly. yesterday i was trying to have a mature chat with my dad abt my screen time limits and he is now limiting how much time i have to talk with my friends. what am i supposed to do. i can’t talk to them bc they say i’m being stupid and overreacting. usually i could talk to them at school but i feel so trapped here at home:(

Bar Avraham im really sorry for you

Yeah :c

@FeS FeO2 they don’t understand.they never do

@FeS FeO2 Ah, yes. I would agree.

that's so relatable. :')

ture

Ikr , life's not always beautiful ; it just can be changed by you!

I have asthma,deprssion,ADHD,and anxiety so I get what you mean..

True it’s like asking a dead person why are you dead or somebody with cancer why do you have no hair

Being autistic, I get “Everyone’s a boy autistic.”

@@maisym831 😥

Wow it hurt uhhhh

I fell you lol I'm always grounded for having a "attitude"

My mom says I have a additive after she yells at me like what am I supposed to be? Happy bc u yelled at me? Yea no.

@@keymirxh8386 exactlyyy

@@madisonyea3668 same

So true

abbey xo that’s a fact

So true mine in another persons reply’s I sounded depressed

Read coffee_bot

Agreed

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Right 😭😌

It really is

That's the so true!

They always restrict teenager do.

This is true :)

that is sooo freaking true

Yea basically

Yesss- It does i dont cry because I want attention, its because youre frickin yelling at me

@@personafreak4158 I relate

It does

@@personafreak4158 facts

@Hannah Moran Aww i am so sorry, but i can relate...

girl...GIRL..... thats what my parents say "because of what you watch on tv." or "because of your friends and they are telling you that there sad and you think your sad to." Me: No i am really this way on my own I-- Parents: Where not stupid we know its just in your head. You better than this...

@@sourlemon3496 i feel. u

@@roseashley8602 yep feel u too

Bookworm EXACTLY!!!!!! Uughhhhh THIS IS THE DAILY ROUTINE!!!!

@@rra2356 YEEESSS and then you come to them right for help. And they seem to want to help you but then, idk if this happens to you but it does to me, they get mad at you for some reason and they use everything you said against you and you regret being alive or saying anything at all!!!

Same, my parents do the exact same thing

You stop caring about your Self

Yeah, I was raised to think of others before I do something and its good to do that but I took things a little to far about it and now I only think about others and I don't care what happens to me

My parents r the same way

My parents try to support me but it doesn't help

Yes...why is this true, and something stupid parents say is "stand up for urself!" And when they do to their parents, the parents act like the victims.

How do you say someting soo true

@Bluekittymoon EXACTLY

True.

is this why i listen to dea and cold all the time? i guess that would make sense...

#parent problems/i have those alot

the true reasons behind these for me _____________________________________ “stop being so lazy” mom, you forget i have a disorder that makes it hard for me to move somedays “stop being so dramatic” i’m not being dramatic, it’s called i don’t want to talk, and it’s been there for a long time “your life is so easy, why are you even stressed” it’s not easy, everyday is so hard and painful, I breakdown everyday on the bus, my stomach feels like someone’s hitting it with a bat, and so much more did you forget my medical “you’ve never experienced pressure” ohh I have, and trying to make the right decisions ----------------------- thanks for coming to my ted talk

@@jadynbabb4626 ik how you feel. Truly I do.

Potato UwU is you moving disorder arthritis?

Ikr they think we all live in this happy beautiful world where no ones ever sad

Yes your words made me brust into tears

same...

hit me2

Yeah and we still know when it’s broken 🥺💔

My mom abbused my sister to death

thx

the part you told do ur chores; stop u r doing ur chores wrong, soo true....

@@aditi8137 I know. I moved out and now I live with my dad.

@@aditi8137 :D

I'm so sorry for you...

It hurts!!

Itsgalaxy Gamer same. they fight everyday for as long as I can remember. And it really hurts me and i cant get used to it

..My parents have been together for 13 years (im 12) .. They've stayed together for my siblings and I...but I dont think they'll make it further together.

This comment hit me hard😣

Ikr..It kinda helped tho bc I thought I was the only one who actually got that mad..I’m glad others go through it too

@@Robloxx-pc1jw yeah i was under the impression that I'm messed up

@@Robloxx-pc1jw the good thing is that we are all going through.the same and so but the thing that hurts more is that some parents these days can get a bit overreacting at these kind of things......

@@j.ust_jo.2986 exactly..like they don’t give a shot for our mental health. like they say he grateful for what u have while screaming at me...like no shit I’m grateful but does it take that long for them to realize how much pain we’re in..like I love them sm but can they just take a second to care for my mental health.and yes I love that abt social media that we get to communicate with others that are going through the same

@@j.ust_jo.2986 shit*

Yes thats why we dont talk to our parents

I just cried reading this

@@sadiereylen4399 i'm sorry...i didn't mean to make anyone cry

@@ihavedisappeared nah it's fine. I cried because it hit me so deeply and no one is ever able to understand like that. It was helpful. :)

@@sadiereylen4399 thats great then- at least someone feels the same

True my mom wants me to work hard and be the smartest person in the famil6 but I don’t want to I want do a lot of new things like people but no she wants me to stay home and work hard with school

No that not how things or life work

Explains my life so much

I wanna be a singer But my mom wants me to be a make up artist my dad wants me to own the family company And all my family but i wanna be a singer

@@Abbyyyy1213 Do what YOU want to do.

Yeah me too

Me too

sunshine same

Yeah same.. we get called dramatic when really that’s the only way to get out how you feel or try to say and they look at us and say “your just being dramatic”

I relate sis

We’re dramatic for showing how we feel. If the don’t want us to show how we feel then they shouldn’t claim that they’re for us if when we tell them how we feel they call us dramatic. And that made no sense

Same, I can’t express my emotions without being called immature, a baby, and dramatic.

IKR!!!

Sad truth but ya it's really ture..

scrt Dolan that hit hard

Same I did the same thing

where are the ninjas with the onions? 😢

scrt Dolan me too

YoUr CrYiNg. Lol that line hit ne hard too

Felt this :(

@@officialy_sunflower1376 hey ur parents would do anything for u if u are just in an arguement think ur mum would kill herself if it depended on ur life and the same with same with ur dad just rember u need to go through tough times to make YOU stronger xx

ur amazing keep that in ur mind

Dont apologize god made everyone perfect and you are MORE THAN PERFECT

i felt this. i was told what i was doing wasn't enough but what i heard was you aren't good enough

T_T

I thought of that the whole time when i first heard it

AnyGood username? Im singing this with my mum beside me..

I could never play this around my parents😂☹

Ishh😂😂❤️

💔

Her song really hearts like a bullet in the heart

💔💔

Really. Its always "what are you crying about now"

Alyssa Graham I feel you ;(

this comment might just make me emotional. time to turn on WAP.

our generation are going to be the best. we all know what depression and anxiety feels like

Ikr .. when they were younger things were easier , they didn’t deal with the amount of bullying we deal with now..yet they don’t understand

I hear that all the time and it’s just so frustrating

Yes, like.. This is the 21st century now. Things are different

. . . Relatable

@@tarasturdevant4849 yeah,...

I have no hormones. AT ALL, like literally. Im trans and on hormone blockers so my estrogen is at zero. IM HORMONELESS.

Cubing Doctor oh wow didn’t even know that was a thing! (Hormone blockers) that’s cool tho

@@ailuj_neslein ofc they are alive. I'm not trans myself but there is a drug you can take that stops/delays your puberty which prevents/minimizes your body from getting hormones😁. But correct me if I'm wrong I think they are talking about the puberty delay drug so they probably have some hormones but a very ity bit amount😁 have a nice day

sarah exactly. they think we’re robots or sum

Exactly

I know. Why don’t they understand? Shouldn’t they? They were a kid once..

@@spiralingismiserable They should, but I mean mine never seem to get that stuff

Theresa Soraire Ikr. My parents don’t understand either.

i felt that

This is my life

they think im a bot and they can just shout at me and insult me like i have no feelings and no consequences :)

I just cried because of this Comment, I thought its just me. My parents tell me these things every day and I am so hurt. They dont understand, that they hurt me and I am lost. Im depressed but they dont understand me. Im so alone. This comment made me cry because so many other people feel exactly the same. All I want to say is, if you read this Elaine Onemiye, thank u for this comment.

Me at my parents in my head: "you want me to get my grades up then why don't you shut up like you'll ever do that"

Same here 💔

Ashley's World Omg sameeee

lauren espinoza I was literally listening to that exact verse when I read this.

Taylor Mcknight Sameeeeeee

lauren espinoza people ask why I cry when no ones looking they don’t know what happens they don’t get bullied. It’s really sucks

Hooo

Same

Yea me too girly..

Exactly. Parents can be so close minded.

And they wonder why we always feel and look so emotionless. They wonder why we always ignore them. They wonder why are we always so rude to them. They wonder why we struggle not just in school but in life too. They wonder why we always stare at our phones. That’s just the thing. Parents don’t understand us. They don’t remember what it’s like when they were once a teen too. They’re always saying our phones are controlling us now but them themself can’t stop using your phones either. For my mum, I sometimes feel she does ‘I can do this to you but you don’t do that to me’ ‘What is yours is mine and what is mine is mine’ They don’t understand and that’s fine. Maybe that’s how life works.

Kyrzo Ho parents are just like that. My parents do the exact same thing, I'm sick of it. If it wasn't illegal here they would hurt me constantly, and I mean physically.

AccidxntsHappen my mum since young could hit and cane me. Last time, I had to learn spelling for Chinese. I wasn’t really good in Chinese and she forced me to learn. My bedtime was 10 but I was forced to stay up to 12 to learn. Every time I get one word wrong, she would hit me. At the end of the day, I got caned on the same hands for about 25 times if I remember correctly. I was only 9

One day we might actually become our parent ....if we are still alive

Why is it though ......

Same😫😫

Same

My family thinks I'm a drama queen when I am crying

@@amritagurung5141 same

@@diaellee we will be fine lets stay strong 😓

@@amritagurung5141 litarally everytime thats what my mom says

@@0fficialx421 ohh I'm sorry

This is true I try to tell my mom about my problems because she said I could tell her anything and after I told her she just yells at me and says “ your not depressed! You don't even know the definition of it! “ I don't understand.

@@trusfratedkook830 i told my mom I wanted to kill myself and that I was having suicidal thoughts and she pretended that I didn't say anything. A few months later we got into another big fight and I reminded her about it, and what she told me was this:"I just thought you were having a bad day". And what I said was:" you could've asked me! I have been having suicidal for months now and you don't even care!" Like bruh, I'm telling you I have been having suicidal thoughts for months and you've done nothing to help me with that. She has been in a toxic relationship before, and I get that but don't you make me feel like sh** because of it. I have been having all simptoms of PTSD. There was another night where her current boyfriend got drunk and went crazy. I had to wake up at 1am because they were screaming at each other. I was shaking, scared for my life because of the way he was talking that night. I couldn't go to school the next day. Now everytime I hear a loud noise I'm literally scared to death.

so true

@@eliza4923 Oh my gosh iḿ so sorry...i just wish parents understood. I wish that they understood that some kids are depressed and try to open up. They shouldn't yell at us saying “stop it! stop crying! you don't get to be sad!“ When i become a parent i'm gonna let my child tell me all their problems and talk them through this. But still iḿ really sorry about you and your mom you shouldn't be put through this. You deserve way more.

@@trusfratedkook830 thank you! I'm sure you'll be an amazing parent :)

One day, our kids would think this to us

La Vonne Peduca yeah true but we would try to be better parents to them then our parents ever were 😔

Shreya Gopalakrishnan my parents can confirm this

and they say we hate them and just saying that they dont understand out of hate

Sadly yes I get bullied at school 24/7 and they say “just ignore them” like luv that don’t work like that