Dr. K Becomes the Incel

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КОМЕНТАРІ: 853
@dinofrog926
@dinofrog926 2 роки тому
Paxton: *trying his best* Dr. K: ”it’s ok, I get laughed at a lot” 😀
@gitprophet
@gitprophet 2 роки тому
Finish him!
@zer0her048
@zer0her048 2 роки тому
Dude that made me physically hurt. This felt like this Test noone in class was prepared for.
@Ven-zg3fj
@Ven-zg3fj Рік тому
Bro i couldnt take the vid seriously after that 😂
@suides4810
@suides4810 11 місяців тому
But people are like that xD
@HexCypherr
@HexCypherr 2 роки тому
Mad respect to pax takes some steel balls to essentially be audited by your boss in front of a few thousand twitch viewers
@soulblade8963
@soulblade8963 2 місяці тому
100 per fucking cent
@Saronite
@Saronite 2 місяці тому
dude's been doing this for a year before this, am sure it's somewhat automatic by now
@parm_is_creative7731
@parm_is_creative7731 2 роки тому
this video will fuel thousands of doctor k out of context's, and dr k talking to him self for decades to come.
@schnoz2372
@schnoz2372 2 роки тому
can’t wait
@MrPokeboy8
@MrPokeboy8 2 роки тому
I shall patiently wait for those absolutely golden videos.
@stendaalcartography3436
@stendaalcartography3436 2 роки тому
Ammo for life.
@khyati7733
@khyati7733 2 роки тому
Hell yeaaa🤟🤟🤟
@3v068
@3v068 2 роки тому
and i am here for all of it
@havcola6983
@havcola6983 2 роки тому
_"I've watched to a lot of Jordan Peterson's stuff..."_ Dr K throwing some *shade*
@greentoken3783
@greentoken3783 2 роки тому
@@cristianaraujo9293 I don't think you're a snakeoil salesman if you study for 10 years becoming a medical professional... Ofcourse I know it hurts for some people if someone makes a joke about Jordon Peterson...
@theyfukenwmesubliminally
@theyfukenwmesubliminally 2 роки тому
@@cristianaraujo9293 those emojis gave me cancer
@TasX
@TasX 2 роки тому
@@theyfukenwmesubliminally nah don’t give him any response. He’s trying to trigger people here to get attention, otherwise there would be no reason he’s here
@ITR
@ITR 2 роки тому
@@cristianaraujo9293 Out of interest, what makes you feel like Dr. K is a snake oil salesman?
@YangSunWoo
@YangSunWoo 2 роки тому
I like both Dr K and Jordan Peterson.
@nameless473
@nameless473 2 роки тому
"To destroy the incel, one must become the incel!" - Dr. K, probably
@gabrieldorta5050
@gabrieldorta5050 2 роки тому
To help the incel, you must meet the incel where (s)he's at more like
@153ridzzzz
@153ridzzzz 2 роки тому
He already is a betabux. Hes very close to an incel.
@tbys1416
@tbys1416 2 роки тому
@@153ridzzzz 🤡
@avien9068
@avien9068 2 роки тому
@@153ridzzzz okay bud
@woopygoman
@woopygoman 2 роки тому
@@153ridzzzz You are the only one who posted a based comment so far. The truth hurts sometimes. Well said.
@Trogdor390
@Trogdor390 2 роки тому
Dr. K: "Alphachad Dr. K isn't real, he can't hurt you." UKposts thumbnail:
@sadface7457
@sadface7457 2 роки тому
Dr K vs Giga K
@erreh_
@erreh_ 2 роки тому
Dr Chad Thundercock
@username172
@username172 2 роки тому
@@erreh_ Dr. ChadThunder(K)ock
@3v068
@3v068 2 роки тому
this needs top comment.
@vasarat1
@vasarat1 2 роки тому
The technically correct term is Gigachad.
@spaceshuttle8332
@spaceshuttle8332 2 роки тому
These thumbnails are top class lmao
@harmoen
@harmoen 2 роки тому
I couldn't tell where the psychiatrist is though
@kirklandcig5513
@kirklandcig5513 2 роки тому
I thought it was a video from some clip channel
@Slawsers
@Slawsers 2 роки тому
I guess incels are chads loool
@spaceshuttle8332
@spaceshuttle8332 2 роки тому
@@Slawsers they’re average enjoyers lol
@pm-rj7ef
@pm-rj7ef 2 роки тому
certified hood classic
@jonern91
@jonern91 2 роки тому
I hope Dr K gets better, so brave of him to share
@alejrandom6592
@alejrandom6592 11 місяців тому
Alok is a doctor?
@victorhristov9497
@victorhristov9497 5 місяців тому
Agree, Pax seems to be helping him a lot but also confusing him. Pray for Incel K
@laptopstudy3279
@laptopstudy3279 4 місяці тому
He didn't have to try he is an incel by definition. The incel definition in the incel community is basically ANY male whether he is married or not....who is PHYSICALLY unattractive to woman and HAS to make up for it with MONEY , POWER etc...why does that make sense? Because whatever woman they end up with IS NOT attracted to him....she is with him because SHES using HIM...and he doesn't have the SEX life of someone who's attractive to her. This ends up usually in divorce or sexless marriages. While incels CAN get a relationship and KNOW they can do it...MOST choose NOT to due to the simple reason such woman is ONLY after the man for reasons other than love. The incel definition by those outside of the incel community is VASTLY different....and its usually exagerated or CHANGED to fit their agenda or to HIDE the truth about human nature. Its much easier to insult someone and discard their reasoning (which is backed up by studies & research papers and evidence from everyday life) .
@filiplaubert5001
@filiplaubert5001 2 роки тому
Parallel universe where Dr. K didnt stop playing video games.
@finneganmcbride6224
@finneganmcbride6224 2 роки тому
He still plays these days just not as much
@agamersdiary1622
@agamersdiary1622 2 роки тому
🤣
@fgqgqlfqsfsffeff
@fgqgqlfqsfsffeff 2 роки тому
Underrated comment lmao
@DevyanshBahri
@DevyanshBahri 2 роки тому
Lol
@Krawna
@Krawna Рік тому
Love this comment
@nikolaikester
@nikolaikester 2 роки тому
Alternative video title: *Dr K trying to make Pax laugh for half an hour*
@SezenSever
@SezenSever 2 роки тому
the moment he said "i don't have the jawline."......i dropped dead
@soab24
@soab24 2 роки тому
@@SezenSever I was listening to this part in public and still couldn't help but laugh out loud
@liviousgameplay1755
@liviousgameplay1755 2 роки тому
Reminds me of ROTC bearing questions. Just let me be a statue in peace.
@jerrysizzler1863
@jerrysizzler1863 2 роки тому
@@SezenSever "... so i don't get the signals" that had me rollin too.
@jpjaye
@jpjaye 2 роки тому
The virgin psychiatrist vs the chad coach
@joediditde
@joediditde 2 роки тому
who is who though?
@amateruss
@amateruss 2 роки тому
@@joediditde yes
@ses147
@ses147 8 місяців тому
You call that a Chad?
@grantelbart477
@grantelbart477 3 місяці тому
Why was the coach so bad though? He didn't challenge the incel's perceptions at all.
@jpjaye
@jpjaye 3 місяці тому
@@grantelbart477 he a coach not ben shapiro lol
@stzu07rel
@stzu07rel 2 роки тому
"I'm kind of realizing that I'm asking a question, but I'm setting myself up for a logical fallacy where it doesn't matter what you say I'm going to think the same thing" -said no incel ever
@havcola6983
@havcola6983 2 роки тому
Yeah, I think you have to imagine that this is the cliff notes version of like at least a few months of coaching or therapy
@marzipancutter8144
@marzipancutter8144 2 роки тому
Yeah, even if he's trying to act incel himself he can't shake the Dr. K habit of calling out the untestable hypothesis fallacy when it comes up.
@manuelsilva6244
@manuelsilva6244 2 роки тому
It's not just incels, people on Twitter do this constantly. That's why it's impossible to argue with them, they will never change their mind no matter what you say or prove.
@marzipancutter8144
@marzipancutter8144 2 роки тому
​@@manuelsilva6244 Well, it's a common bias, of course it's gonna show up.
@stzu07rel
@stzu07rel 2 роки тому
@@manuelsilva6244 Yes, I agree
@CatONineCheese
@CatONineCheese 2 роки тому
Honestly, this really helps with my anxiety, knowing what to expect. I’d still be extremely nervous signing up for coaching, but I appreciate this
@korypucker5102
@korypucker5102 2 роки тому
Do it, what do you have to lose?
@CaptCozy
@CaptCozy 2 роки тому
Happy for you for making an effort in improving your wellbeing!
@EelEyeDotCom
@EelEyeDotCom 2 роки тому
@@korypucker5102 literal money at the least
@poopingducks
@poopingducks 2 роки тому
It has been great for me, personally. I was super anxious before my first session and within the first ten minutes it all melted away and it's something I highly look forward to weekly.
@CatONineCheese
@CatONineCheese 2 роки тому
@@poopingducks That’s really good to hear!
@chdata
@chdata 2 роки тому
HAHAHAHA The moment he said "I think I understand myself too well" was literally as I was thinking to myself, "Hmm, I'm the kinda person who already understands himself, so would their coaching be all that useful for me?"
@winter666madness
@winter666madness 2 роки тому
Catching strays from Dr K!
@tuningsnow
@tuningsnow 2 роки тому
Also someone created a thread at reddit about that
@sjoerdglaser2794
@sjoerdglaser2794 2 роки тому
I don't know if you want to hear of other people's experiences, but I felt the same before going into therapy. Like 'I am pretty smart, I am self reflective, I already know what my deal is'. But over the years, I've learned that I get stuck in thought loops that are sometimes correct, but not always. So talking about it with someone else (can be a therapist, but can also be a friend) can really help seeing things in a new way.
@Balloonbot
@Balloonbot 2 роки тому
Yeah its knowing ourselves intellectually vs emotionally. We know what we are i.e "lazy, unmotivated, lost" however we tend to avoid the emotion underneath.
@bdstudios6088
@bdstudios6088 2 роки тому
@@ryno4ever433 yep, they need a change in perspective
@emmahorgan3462
@emmahorgan3462 2 роки тому
"Because I don't have the jawline" "r i g h t"
@mark95172
@mark95172 2 роки тому
7:05 Dr. K is the biggest troll ever LOL
@saber8560
@saber8560 2 роки тому
LMAO
@dezsber81
@dezsber81 2 роки тому
Dr K didint gave a break for that poor guy😂😂
@__-bk6mm
@__-bk6mm 2 роки тому
True, but tough love out of respect I’m sure!
@toastygaming7964
@toastygaming7964 2 роки тому
@@__-bk6mm its his buissness dood
@Finkeldinken
@Finkeldinken 2 роки тому
I’m about halfway and Pax is doing really well. Takes some courage to come on stream like that, that has to feel like an exam! Good job!
@abdullapankhawala3814
@abdullapankhawala3814 2 роки тому
Idk Im also half way and I feel Dr K is making it kinda easy by bieng so insanely articulate about his feelings and his problems and whenever questioned on these feelings is readily able to introspect and give a more deeper explanation instead of like going on a wild tangent or just repeating what he said. Basically what I mean is pax is getting his answers that he needs way too easily from Dr K.
@jacobmorres9817
@jacobmorres9817 2 роки тому
@@abdullapankhawala3814 yeah. Might be to help him out on stream cuz its his first time . Might also be to make coaching look better
@WeebJail
@WeebJail 2 роки тому
@@abdullapankhawala3814 i think so. but i also think pax is definitely asking the right questions in the right way and even if he has to dig more it seems like he's patient and definitely got the right idea. edit: also i just reached the end and as dr k explains the reason he was trying to be so articulate is that he was trying to throw him off deliberately, just exaggerating a lot to see if he'd fall for any of it. i think pax did a great job overall
@ShaunJS
@ShaunJS 2 роки тому
@@abdullapankhawala3814 It's quite hard to authentically fake an entire human being though and I think he's doing his best to make it hard in the ways he can
@JohnSmith-us9fv
@JohnSmith-us9fv 2 роки тому
​@@abdullapankhawala3814 you reassured me that he is not a good coach, not good enough to help me change. it would be a waste of time and I will feel even more hurt from it, nothing can help me.
@dukiwave
@dukiwave 2 роки тому
"so when do I get to meet him" bro are you trying to get him fired
@adammartin1507
@adammartin1507 2 роки тому
Damn. That was impressive. I would've fallen for all those traps. At the beginning when Dr K. was like "I'm just undisciplined" I was waiting for Pax to go into some meditations or address his discipline but he just kept questioning.
@elisee9935
@elisee9935 11 місяців тому
@@keewayne3not true. People hate an onslaught of closed ended questions. They don't mind open ended questions where they can answer freely.
@elisee9935
@elisee9935 11 місяців тому
@@keewayne3 as long as you stay open ended, hell yes! Instead of asking "did you have a fun day?", ask "tell me about your day" and people will just taaaaaaaaaaaalk. But you must be willing to hear the question. Don't ask questions if you don't want to hear the answer from them. I find it a lot easier to ask question to people I like versus people I don't like and whom Im just friendly with.
@elisee9935
@elisee9935 11 місяців тому
@@keewayne3 It's absolutely not weird to not answer to questions you don't want to answer to. It's called - setting your boundaries - and people will only respect you more because of it. A simple "I don't feel comfortable answering that question" is enough!
@StarPlatinum3000
@StarPlatinum3000 10 місяців тому
@@keewayne3 Therapy is not "in real life". Most people are not "aware" of conversations in the way that therapists are. No one naturally says "Okay, we've gone as deep as we needed to in this branch of our discussion, let's return to what we were talking about 15 minutes ago and get back into that topic." As someone taking therapy, you've paid for sessions with a professional to help you introspect and understand yourself, and maybe even "fix you". That takes a certain degree of faith that the questions they're asking are meant to produce introspection and allow the therapist to get to the heart of the issue rather than treating symptoms. But yes, I do agree that sometimes, the questions do become overwhelming, and a bad therapist would just bulldoze over the discomfort to try and produce an epiphany without actually allowing for any introspection.
@PBMS123
@PBMS123 7 місяців тому
​@@elisee9935 closed ended questions are sometimes necessary, and for particular questions its important they're not. They may also need to be implemented if/when the client (person answering) either becomes hostile (like court) and doesn't answer very well, closed off or struggles to keep on topic. Its context dpeendent
@georginaydenov6470
@georginaydenov6470 2 роки тому
Can't wait for Dr. K to evolve into the Yogurt Male archetype.
@avien9068
@avien9068 2 роки тому
Yogurt Male > Sigma Male
@thesaddestdude3575
@thesaddestdude3575 2 роки тому
Whats a yogurt male xD
@Draber2b
@Draber2b Рік тому
@@thesaddestdude3575 Seems like the next stage of evolution.. It everyone will be on their Yogurt grindset
@branmuffinyogurt9368
@branmuffinyogurt9368 2 роки тому
This is his version of the Batman that Laughs
@joed9514
@joed9514 2 роки тому
😂😂😂
@tender0828
@tender0828 2 роки тому
underrated
@sanselva9761
@sanselva9761 2 роки тому
i'm DCeased 🤣
@schnoz2372
@schnoz2372 2 роки тому
@@sanselva9761 damn that’s a good one too lmaooo
@Nassit-Gnuoy
@Nassit-Gnuoy 2 роки тому
Happy Batman Day. 😂
@finneganmcbride6224
@finneganmcbride6224 2 роки тому
Paxton is both literally and figuratively a 5head
@akfi96
@akfi96 2 роки тому
what does that mean ? is it an insult to injury?
@deadlyfemboy4289
@deadlyfemboy4289 2 роки тому
they are saying that he is smart and bald as well... idk why everyone is dodging the other thing... there are bald people in this world, its not a taboo, im pretty sure he is aware of it
@inventiveowl395
@inventiveowl395 2 місяці тому
​​@@deadlyfemboy4289It's not just being bald, he's got an unusually large cranium.
@liambecker558
@liambecker558 2 роки тому
“Sure, like, theoretically I could be wrong” I’m using this from now on
@Balloonbot
@Balloonbot 2 роки тому
I calculate a 0.04% of me being wrong...sure
@nudibranch8659
@nudibranch8659 2 роки тому
The analysis at the end is pretty impressive. I couldn't imagine any of those topics being approached the way they were with any of my past therapists.
@TurbinationE
@TurbinationE 2 роки тому
Damn, your therapists must have sucked then :(
@TheKarret
@TheKarret 2 роки тому
But... isn't there a difference or something between coaches and therapists? Perhaps their methods are different or something???? :Va idk. idk the difference that much... :Va
@nudibranch8659
@nudibranch8659 2 роки тому
@@TheKarret You're right, I'm just highlighting that since therapists go through tons more training than HG coaches do, you'd expect them to be of high quality. However, it's all about *what* you're trained on and *how* it's done that really matters, and the coaching program is a testimony to that principal. FWIW, I've entered into personal coaching since I originally left the comment.
@nudibranch8659
@nudibranch8659 2 роки тому
@@TurbinationE My last therapist cared a *lot* and went far beyond the bare minimum she could've done for me, so I can't fault her all the way, but I've definitely been more comfortable in the coaching program than in therapy.
@sarahd.2418
@sarahd.2418 2 роки тому
The fact that someone sought out coaching shows that at least, to some degree, they aren't 100% certain about being hopeless, even when they're overall very attached to that schema. There's always some hope if you're willing to reach out.
@petkofuchalski9809
@petkofuchalski9809 2 роки тому
i don't see how embarassing yourself infront of thousands of people actually helps.
@sarahd.2418
@sarahd.2418 2 роки тому
@@petkofuchalski9809 Who is being embarrassed in this context?
@hayd3n98
@hayd3n98 2 роки тому
@@petkofuchalski9809 Some people have empathy or something like it, and don't think it is embarrasing to be vulnerable.
@HotMonkeyDik
@HotMonkeyDik 2 роки тому
Thats why I dont try it
@crimsonbladewielder1975
@crimsonbladewielder1975 Рік тому
Hope is a dangerous drug
@JaxsonGalaxy
@JaxsonGalaxy 2 роки тому
This shows how well Dr. K knows his audience. This is fascinating, for so many different reasons.
@user-xd9nr4wq5h
@user-xd9nr4wq5h 2 роки тому
Absolute banger of a thumbnail
@istokipsy6289
@istokipsy6289 2 роки тому
"It's seems like you've sought out a lot of those rules and nothing has really come of it," more like the story of my life. Pax, keep up the good work, dude. I'm sure I'm not the only one who needed to hear that.
@lararys7765
@lararys7765 2 роки тому
I'm going to need therapy after seeing that thumbnail. Edit: Jokes aside, this was really insightful
@YoshiM
@YoshiM 2 роки тому
Well, good thing you're already at the right place then!
@f3rnando_440
@f3rnando_440 2 роки тому
@@YoshiM this isn't therapy
@YoshiM
@YoshiM 2 роки тому
@@f3rnando_440 this isn't not a joke
@illusorybucket5703
@illusorybucket5703 2 роки тому
My god I want more of these, coaches facing the final boss
@alexrandall8557
@alexrandall8557 2 роки тому
Man I can relate with Dr K's character here a lot. I used to fall into that trap of unfasifiability, where every compliment I got was just them trying to not hurt my feelings, and every joke made at my expense was absolutely true and I was a horrible person. It took a lot of self reflection and a little study of logical fallacies to realise where I had it wrong
@AnEnemyAnemone1
@AnEnemyAnemone1 2 роки тому
The thumbnail is an issue because it implies the real Dr. K isn’t already a gigachad.
@ivanesparza9246
@ivanesparza9246 10 місяців тому
the “i think i understand myself too well” set the tone beautifully
@Nathanael_Forlorn
@Nathanael_Forlorn 2 роки тому
This was eye opening though. In others, it seems so obvious. Fo example where the thinking goes wrong. But still it's hard to see in myself. Maybe seeing others obviously avoiding the obvious, can help me notice when I do this. Thanks for sharing these Coach instructions!
@janold0808
@janold0808 2 роки тому
Dr K really farmed for some clips in this one 😂
@nbdxSkywalker
@nbdxSkywalker 2 роки тому
Gamers gonna game 🤣
@neckbeardo1233
@neckbeardo1233 2 роки тому
lmao the Jordan Peterson room cleaning bit was funny loool
@jom_and_terry
@jom_and_terry 2 роки тому
@Jennifer Wang most of JP's views are really problematic 💀
@OMAR-vk9pi
@OMAR-vk9pi 2 роки тому
@@jom_and_terry how so?
@arraikcruor6407
@arraikcruor6407 2 роки тому
@@jom_and_terry Not as problematic as it is made out to be by the media but do not like how sure he is of himself.
@jom_and_terry
@jom_and_terry 2 роки тому
@@OMAR-vk9pi he thinks that workplace sexual harassment is caused by women wearing makeup, for starters. And he always throws vague word salads to make it seem that he's intelligent but he can't get straight to the point
@Mebble
@Mebble 2 роки тому
@@jom_and_terry are you being ironic or…
@MegaAlfredosauce
@MegaAlfredosauce 2 роки тому
Dr. K takes control of the whole conversation effortlessly.
@rexila
@rexila 11 місяців тому
Well i mean obvs
@Yojimbo711
@Yojimbo711 2 роки тому
Super props to both of you this was entertaining and educative at the same time, thank yall. Also, confusion is the first step towards progress people, never forget!
@nintendoninjanews
@nintendoninjanews 2 роки тому
Dr Incel went hard on this one
@PhuPhillipTrinh
@PhuPhillipTrinh 2 роки тому
wow great video! I'm super grateful Dr.K was able to accept my son who is a very bright kid but just needs a good point in the right direction. The group coaching is awesome as I wanted to show him that there are others just like him and he's not alone in this journey. Just funny though that he is the youngest of all the people there as he's still in high school and everyone else is in college/uni! Regardless this video is very well done, Dr. K has a great team that's making a huge difference!
@aaliyajakir1761
@aaliyajakir1761 2 роки тому
It's sooo cool of you that you're supportive of your son getting group coaching and of him getting help to direct him towards a good future. You're a good father! :)
@bdstudios6088
@bdstudios6088 2 роки тому
I would benefit from coaching/therapy back in high school. The advisors I had did not understand my problems and neither did I. It’s important to teach kids about mental health!
@thebuttgoo
@thebuttgoo 2 роки тому
Eeeyy I needed this. About to start training as a social work intern. So thanks!
@rulinggodsidly3217
@rulinggodsidly3217 2 роки тому
This was great,you roleplay exceptionally well Dr K. Good Job to Pax as well,must have been tough being under the spotlight to put your skills to work on the Master himself.
@arirejtman
@arirejtman 10 місяців тому
The editing and premise of this vid is incredible and very enjoyable to watch. Well-done for many reasons!
@Idarece
@Idarece 2 роки тому
dr k has gone from helping gamers, to training gamers. We salute you Dr.Chad
@Lizardcomplex
@Lizardcomplex 8 місяців тому
Thanks for this interview. I'm dealing with depression and watching this gave me a few laughs. I'd love to see more of Dr K's humor.
@pcvsk8
@pcvsk8 2 роки тому
Dr. K really coming at Pax with the expert level questions
@daniberzethy6652
@daniberzethy6652 2 роки тому
For some reason Pax's high energy body language paired with his face showing very little emotions made me super anxious just watching him.
@kevinchenny
@kevinchenny 2 роки тому
Idk how Dr. K hasn't blown up the whole internet yet. Watching his videos has helped me get out of my own thoughts
@josephcoon5809
@josephcoon5809 2 роки тому
People are nothing more than a collection of their own thoughts. How did you “get out of” your own thoughts?
@adult93
@adult93 2 роки тому
To those commenting that this "went absolutely nowhere" and expressing a hopelessness towards the concept of therapy: Therapy. Takes. Time. A fuck ton. And you can only do so much at once. Expect to feel like you and your therapist are getting to know each other for the first few months. Know tho that THEY are actually getting to know you for the first couple years. If you have a lifetime of unaddressed trauma (if you think you don't, prepare to be frequently surprised), if you raise an eyebrow at the concept of somatic identification of the location of emotion within the physical body, and if your inner-critic is the only introspective force you have... Seriously expect real break thrus (and REAL frustration) somewhere like the 2 year mark. You aren't done. 5 years is the LOW end for healing. I was crushed when I realized my short in-patient psych ward stay was only the the first of a thousand stair steps. A friend consoled me with some of the darkest advice in response to my dismay. "Yeah, it takes a lifetime. But imagine NOT doing the work. Most people go their whole lives refusing to turn a single stone. And they spread their woe. And then they die. Seems a less desirable path to me, tho the one you've chosen IS so much harder."
@adult93
@adult93 2 роки тому
@Zero One Which is more to my point I think. The comments I noted were claiming this to be a disparaging display of therapy.
@arraikcruor6407
@arraikcruor6407 2 роки тому
Thank you! It takes time. People think therapy is magic.
@mirkovintar4050
@mirkovintar4050 2 роки тому
Thank younger sharing. I really liked the way your friend put it!
@HotMonkeyDik
@HotMonkeyDik 2 роки тому
Real therapy is expensive who can afford it for years
@adult93
@adult93 2 роки тому
@@HotMonkeyDik so is healthy food. Vitamins. Find a sliding scale practitioner. If you live in a major city, find free services. The quality drops, but it's literally better than nothing.
@n0tbryce102
@n0tbryce102 2 роки тому
Dr. Ks first take into acting. Excited to see more!
@ty-xq7bl
@ty-xq7bl 2 роки тому
He doesnt need to act he was a legitimate incel ( could not get laid) before he met his wife overseas.
@garmisra7841
@garmisra7841 Рік тому
This is like making me want to be a coach, haha. Pax is doing a good job.
@recon441
@recon441 2 роки тому
Kudos to Pax for staying cool under fire and on live stream! I was feeling frustrated thinking from the client's perspective which made me really nervous for Pax 😅 but he really started pulling through and I understood what was happening towards the end. Also the person who makes the thumbnails needs a raise 😂🤣😂🤣
@BluetheRaccoon
@BluetheRaccoon 2 роки тому
Watching this, I was reminded of early in my own mental health journey when I first had a peer support session. I was very much in a bad place then, yet after that first visit my peer support person told me that I should sincerely consider doing this myself when I'm feeling better. Well, here I am! Do you anticipate hiring further coaches in the future? I looked on the website and there aren't any currently available. I would not only love this job, I have a very large pool of life experiences from which to draw. I'll keep looking elsewhere in the mean time, but coaching for your team would be my dream, Dr. K!
@christopherholfeld8137
@christopherholfeld8137 2 роки тому
Every time dr. K does the thinning face it’s like he’s deciding if pax asked the right question and if he should reward that. Or punish the wrong question by being more resistant lol.
@AC-fi8ge
@AC-fi8ge 2 роки тому
I want to have more confidence in the coaching program... but the inability to unambiguously define the "difference between therapy and coaching" doesn't exactly instill that confidence... And I would strongly suggest that coaches need to deliver clear cut distinctions from the beginning so coach and client have clear expectations of their goals and responsibilities.
@Imsanthisismychannnelhi
@Imsanthisismychannnelhi 2 роки тому
Take the hint dude, this IS therapy. But for legal reasons they cant say it.
@Mebble
@Mebble 2 роки тому
@@Imsanthisismychannnelhi ^^^^
@rain596
@rain596 2 роки тому
@@Imsanthisismychannnelhi what are the legal reasons?
@Mijolite
@Mijolite 2 роки тому
@@Imsanthisismychannnelhi The legal reasons are there for a reason... training for therapists is much bigger than for coaches. They use manu of the same tools, but therapy is more equipped to deal with deeper stuff coming up when using them, while for coaches there is a limit where they have to say "I am not equipped to work with that, for that you need to go to therapy, but I can help with this aspect of it instead" and lead the client back to what they can work on.
@ginogonzalez9798
@ginogonzalez9798 Рік тому
The type of coaching people can expect is what I imagine internal dialogues would be if we allowed ourselves the space to think more, but we often don’t. Props to Pax that must have been a stressful and empowering learning experience!
@OllegN
@OllegN 2 роки тому
man, i would love to see k in session with his own patient impression
@joediditde
@joediditde 2 роки тому
this man has an endless head i feel like must be a smart man
@ripple.music_
@ripple.music_ 2 роки тому
dude the way they put music in was rreally refreshing and fun and im so glad they left the rest with no backgrround music and only had it at the start so i can use my own music if i want :) great job editor
@electricblade5
@electricblade5 2 роки тому
Hey, guys. Please do more of these! They are very entertaining.
@honkhonk5181
@honkhonk5181 2 роки тому
*Sometimes I just feel worthless, like everything is my fault. But then my dad told me...*
@crackededge9351
@crackededge9351 2 роки тому
When you take a shit, KRAKATOA. You will be more confident and want to smile more.
@honkhonk5181
@honkhonk5181 2 роки тому
@Muslimcel Can’t be if it never began
@blahybris608
@blahybris608 2 роки тому
The acting is SOOO top notch omw
@JohnDoe-tt4fm
@JohnDoe-tt4fm 2 роки тому
He even adopted Dr. K's habit of inserting "like" between every other word.
@Zerophoenix1
@Zerophoenix1 2 роки тому
this character of pretty sharp yet with large blindspots is pretty relatable besides the jordan peterson stuff lmao. on another note ive been doing like a 5 minute meditation everyday after i wake up while i lie in bed and after about a week of this i already feel like something is changing. i can control my focus better already and feel more even or something, in a good way. was having panic attacks lmao. but i feel myself overcoming it. meditation is kinda lit.
@polarbearbowl6102
@polarbearbowl6102 11 місяців тому
Legit bs 😂😂😂, stop trying to push meditation as some kinda cure all miracle treatment
@Zerophoenix1
@Zerophoenix1 11 місяців тому
@@polarbearbowl6102 i was having hella panic attacks where i thought i was having a heart attack. then i was getting them out of being scared to get them which was a ridiculous cycle. the main thing with panic attacks is you gotta understand your triggers and train your mind against them. you cant avoid them you have to slowly confront them. meditation wasnt the only thing i did to further this goal but it helped me stay a bit more relaxed and catch my triggers before they got out of hand. nobody said it was a cure all and honestly im sorry but in your case i dont think it would help at all, youre going to need something a bit stronger. XD
@christian_kansas
@christian_kansas 9 місяців тому
24:04 "let me think for a second" Dr K: You dare use my own spells against me, Potter?
@yul7004
@yul7004 2 роки тому
Good sessions . feeling as coach and feeling as client .
@jamesonly4835
@jamesonly4835 2 роки тому
I loved this. I feel like I lack HUGE in self-discipline.
@sudak9150
@sudak9150 Рік тому
watching it becomes 150% better when you turn on silly nintendo music playlist in another tab, highly recommend
@BlueJGilbert
@BlueJGilbert 11 місяців тому
No wonder coaches get so much training! I don't know if I could have done that
@Bramandin
@Bramandin 2 роки тому
I really wish I had the Twitch chat on screen in this type of videos. I can tell Dr.K farmed hella OMEGALULs with his expert roleplay.
@indigo4740
@indigo4740 2 роки тому
i cant wait for a dr.k talks to dr.k video from this
@1Haze1
@1Haze1 2 роки тому
This feels like the opposite of an ad for coaching, I hope it's actually better than this for people.
@arraikcruor6407
@arraikcruor6407 2 роки тому
Dr K said he made it really difficult for Pax and Pax said that this not what he typically deals with. I think this is a great ad! It weeds people.
@dolores111
@dolores111 2 роки тому
Dr K has waaay too much fun with this
@MrMctastics
@MrMctastics 2 роки тому
This was so fun to watch
@evanhariadi3241
@evanhariadi3241 2 роки тому
This feels like a Dr K Out of Context video
@kennylim4764
@kennylim4764 Місяць тому
I am a professional counsellor and Dr K's videos have brought me to a whole new level to how I phrase my questions.
@beatrixmoran6564
@beatrixmoran6564 2 роки тому
Whoever the editor for the video was, absolutely nailed it XD
@WeebJail
@WeebJail 2 роки тому
pax is great yo if i needed coaching i'd get him
@Sandlund93
@Sandlund93 9 місяців тому
I really hope this Alok fella gets to meet Dr. K one day so that he can get the help he needs.
@IamNster
@IamNster Рік тому
Dr. K: "Sometimes I think I I understand myself too well." *Why do I here boss music?*
@kailinsun6182
@kailinsun6182 2 роки тому
I feel like Dr. K. is personally attacking me. This was exactly me in the first 3 sessions of HG Group Coaching :O
@doot7725
@doot7725 2 роки тому
laughed my ass off at the thumbnail and had to watch
@kushchakraborty8013
@kushchakraborty8013 2 роки тому
Dr K really got into the UKposts Algo's mind with that Title and Thumbnail 🤣🤣 Love to see it
@stealthy9156
@stealthy9156 Рік тому
I can't take the word "unstuck" from Dr k anymore after watching the code Miko interview
@jvolc
@jvolc 2 місяці тому
27:24 Good points from coaching 27:57 Asking open ended questions and dodging traps
@nightmare-nightmarenightma1147
@nightmare-nightmarenightma1147 8 місяців тому
That thumbnail is insane lmao
@KbIPbIL0
@KbIPbIL0 7 місяців тому
This is word for word what my first session (both k and pax) went with them 😂😂😂😂
@evelynrobinson3573
@evelynrobinson3573 2 роки тому
We're here before breakfast is on the plate boissss
@les471
@les471 2 роки тому
This is so funny, I can't stop smiling
@Dlazybeatbox
@Dlazybeatbox 2 роки тому
"I just hear the words coming out of my mouth" .... This is me. Any tricks to actually become quiet? Usually i'm saying i'm aware of me not being able to shut up. And yet my mouth keep saying stuff before it goes through my filter. Not to forget those awkward moments u just heard words coming out of your mouth, and hoping you didnt said it out loud. But the facial expression from others says it all...
@clonerstive
@clonerstive 2 роки тому
I found getting comfortable with silence helped me a lot, and making the conscious decision to speak a little more slowly. Also, listening, REALLY listening, rather than being so eager for my chance to speak .
@Dlazybeatbox
@Dlazybeatbox 2 роки тому
​@@clonerstive Thanks for replying! "The conscious decision," is actually the end goal. I'm wondering how to take that step back, and think before I talk? Because now it feels like my subconscious is just talking. Like I'm in the, "passenger seat." And even when I'm aware of it, I'm still not able to drive. My understanding of this is having a, "Immature Frontal lobe." I'm just wondering if there is a way to break this thoughtless process? Because it feels like you do have a choice/thought before you open your mouth.
@clonerstive
@clonerstive 2 роки тому
@@Dlazybeatbox I'm not a pro by any means, but starting with noticing and paying attention to when that impulse hits would be the first step. That part of your brain can be developed with practice. Try it with friends either online or in person. Also, I find trying to think of questions to ask, rather than simply being ready with an answer helps. If you've got audible, I personally found the book "How to win friends and influence people" helped train my brain to be more able to make conscious decisions. (I'm a fan of audio books)
@clydefroglol
@clydefroglol 2 роки тому
the VG music in the background is great!!!
@bdstudios6088
@bdstudios6088 2 роки тому
Do you know what it’s called?
@mtwata
@mtwata 11 місяців тому
From the thumbnail I thought Paul became a coach hahaha I hope that guy is doing well.
@aqslayer19
@aqslayer19 2 роки тому
Insert "How do you do, fellow kids?" meme into Dr.K trying to act stuck in life
@mrtwism
@mrtwism 7 місяців тому
If this is supposed to be an advertisement for the coaching program, its a fail in my book.
@stephenseger19
@stephenseger19 2 роки тому
This just looks like a beginner therapist with no training with what he’s doing being framed as not therapy while doing his best impression of his supervisor. Just like me when I started as a therapist!
@PapaJefePKMN
@PapaJefePKMN 2 роки тому
Dr K: "I think sometimes I understand myself too well" Me: "That's Bait."
@ddtang1vb
@ddtang1vb 2 роки тому
anyone else just say to themselves “what did I watch?!?”
@annak3325
@annak3325 2 роки тому
reverse uno
@kentaro2121
@kentaro2121 2 роки тому
I keep coming back seeing this thumbnail image and I laugh every single time. lol GOLD.
@aerion4077
@aerion4077 2 роки тому
*me, unshowered and unshaven, eating leftover pizza for breakfast at 4pm, watching @11:00 * ....shit.
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