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Keep or sell me that coin!👍🏼

Anything shiny does it for you ... !!!

Where are you selling these things?

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So heartbreaking! 😥😥😥

​@Angie Cardwell or hoarder and kids were just fed up and distanced themselves from the chaos.

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@Angie Cardwell I hope not but it's a possibility. Either way, very sad.

I think she had a store

So sorry to hear that.

Oh that's so sad to hear. 😟

I hear this all the time. It's a shame cause life isn't about what they have going on.

My daughter from 17 preferred to be with her dad .same left alone till this day I'm losing my eyesight.i did buy gifts the first yr ,then I got sent a tenner for Xmas 2020 ,not even a phonecall. Where is the love?

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's awful.

Some people can be so cold. I agree 💯 with your sentiments. I can't imagine being left with only one photo of my mother ON PURPOSE, but it is almost exactly what I have. I feel for you & I'm sorry that you were denied the few sentimental items your mother held onto for you. Thank god they can't steal our memories & the love in our hearts. Many blessings to you. ❤️🧡💜

What your father did was cruel and selfish 😢

I need to do a major purge of my “stuff” it is valuable to me, but not to my nephew or his kids. I don’t want it to go to the dump when I am gone.

One man's garbage is another man's treasure.

Yes, all those little baubles and trinkets were the consolation prize. I agree with you.

@@MrRusty145 I have Precious things I held onto for my sons (future wives & "grandchildren ". My Mom passed adding to the antiques treasures. Only 1 son is married, no children nor will that happen. The ither son has never married, doesn't plan on it ever, and no, no kids either. I find myself in a quandry. I've had plans all my adult life. Now 70, single.. no grandchildren, ever 😭😤 How/what to do with my life's treasures. Selling is too painful, giving away is impossible. Throwing away is emotional suicide. I am in pure panic with a full garage and a storage unit I can't afford due to our inflation. I am literally sick to my stomach. Can't move/retrieve anything by myself. This life did not turn out as planned. I just want to run away, but can't afford to. God Help us all🙏

Donate things to a local good cause. We have a humane society Thrift Store in our town. The proceeds help animals . Someone will collect your donations. Reach out. Help our animal friends. ♥

@@kathysiebert6654 Maybe find one friend or confidant to help you pick out stuff your kids definitely won't want. Donate those things there are lots of options depending on where you live, some thrift stores will come to pick your stuff up. Then try again on your kids without getting your hopes up too high. Then , pick just a few things, polish them up and keep them with you. With what's left, yard sale it. Just my suggestion, I was thinking it might be easier than hustling all the stuff at once, hurting your back, etc. Plus maybe the thrift store guy can give helpful advice. But please don't hurry or stress, it'll get done in good time.

@@MrRusty145 Truly, I thank and welcome your input. What you suggested is spot on! I wished someone like you were my friend and were close! All of us have a story, mine is long. Much trauma, abandonment & abuse since childhood. Rhuematic fever as preschooler in early 1950's... found out age 55 how bad it hurt my heart. An ex damaged my kidneys, eyes/vision and left me in financial ruin. I gave up on love and 2 faced friends. Very isolated now and struggling, with UC causing deep depression agoraphobia. My home used to be spotless! I don't have a pickup or trailer. Nor can I afford to rent + laborers. I stay curled up on the couch froze with panic & anxiety. My kidneys are at a GFR of 30! With current inflation (SSI) it's pay ck to pay ck and I'm not making it! I believe in my Faith. God is great every day. I pray for answers, miracles. I need to find some happy before my time comes. The clock is ticking. I'm overwhelmed with no relief in sight. If you pray, please include me. I need an Earth Angel. 😥😪🙏

Bless you - my sister, brother, and I did the same with love.

I was thinking gold digger. He is treating her stuff like crap. I would be respectful but all he wants is money money

My sister and I did the same thing. Lots of treasures from times gone by.

@@ces3634 he seen the loose change and just mention money money

@@ncg5560 It’s nice for you both to share. Some sisters DON’T.😪

True

I live in Florida, and Storage is big business here. I came to the conclusion a long time ago that if I moved to a different house or apartment, and "stuff" just doesn't work in the new place for whatever reason, donate it to one of the charity thrifts (also very big here). I'm not even willing to put up a table outside and have a yard sale. It's just not worth it.

It just gets to be too much. I have kept things just because it was new and you never know when you can use one. After years of keeping crap I have decided that I'd rather throw it away and buy it years later if I really need to. Chances are, I won't need to and I'd rather have the space.

I hear you there. Just be careful what you get rid off . I made that mistake. Cost me several thousand dollars in Civil War stuff. Make sure you inventory meticulously.

If she loved her stuff, paying yo rent aunit is no problem.

Yes, thank you. I have a mother that doesn't give a damn about me having to sort out her stuff and she just keeps buying more. I looks like she is obsessed or has an addiction to buying stuff. No matter what i say or do...she just keeps on. I get told all the shit, but never the nice stuff. I am so tired being ym mother's mum ! The one I never had.....

Yes, my parents stuff after all 3 of us siblings had been through the big house and my father's carers had after (we let them) and then the people buying the house did, still had 7 tonnes left - about 2.5 times a normal house the house clearance company said. They recycle and resell what they can and tip the rest. They found a medical skeleton from the 19840s a real one of my father's. We thought we had been through every single cupboard in a very big house but this was in the loft of the garage. Anyway they threw it out as apparently if they had notified the authorities it can hold up a house sale for 3 months (it was definitely from his medical school days, not a murder). These days young doctors work on plastic ones.

Well done. What you describe is known as Swedish Death Cleaning. Give away things to your kids, that they want, now and sell or donate the rest.

so true- the items were not soiled or garbage- the deceased probably had a large house originally

Perfectly said! You said everything I had been trying to say :) Historic Preservationist is the word! Hoarder is just hoarder of a lot of useless grotty junk, definitely huge difference. I have kept a lot of stuff of value that I hope people will realise is valuable in the future and forms part of the more recent history (I'm from the later generation, born in 1979) and I have discovered things I have that still work, are no longer made or no longer made in good quality and it made me realise how glad I was to have kept these things like some art materials/equipment for my art studio. I'm so glad to read your comment and that you are grateful to those who preserved things no longer made :) exactly what I have been thinking for awhile! :)

I like your point. I also like valuable things (but not hoarding useless things) And it is funny how you said the homes of the minimalists are sterile and lifeless. When I look at their videos, they have nothing of value, just store decor that is so lame. Looking at the exteme minimalists reminds me of Claus Shwab and his "by 2030 you will own nothing and you will be happy about it". When I travel, I live with 1 suitcase and trust me, the walls are bare, everything is cheap décor, and I want to go home! I can't imagine living in a home that loos like a hotel. And minimalism is not about saving money either because 1) they get rid of useful thigs; 2) they need to replace them and the replacement cost is always more that what the item was originally purchased for.

Yup I knew one what ever he felt he would throw out weekends I would dumpster dive well finally one weekend there were two dumpsters started going through thinking wow all this stuff neighbor came out told me he had become part of cycle ..had a stroke..end of game

OMG you said exactly what I was thinking. Millennials don't care about history. In fact, anything before 1970 is "ancient" history to them! Their houses don't even looked lived in -- so sterile.

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I know the feelings..🙏

Though grieving is the hardest just assuming stuff was junk or useless is what makes lots of money fore this sort of guy. My dad had boxes and boxes and more boxes of what appears to be 1000s of toy model car kits. It turned out to be just over $200,000 of model cars and accessories that took a year to sell off but well worth the frustrations and a break from the grieving. Sorry for your loss

Donating all the stuff, which gives it all the possibility of another home, isn't disrespectful. Tossing it.all out would be. I'm speaking as a person very much like your mother. However, I tell my friends (we're in our late 50s) that when my time comes, I promise that wherever I am, I truly am not going to care! 😉

...and I am sorry for your loss. My mom will be 92 in November, and when she moved to a condo a few years ago, I had a hard enough time going through her stuff and watching her chuck most of it with a definitive, "Out it goes!" That was with her here...I can't imagine what this must be like for you.❤

@@luvmyrecords I would rather it be done when I am dead and gone. My son and oldest daughter went through my stuff and threw things away and sold some things. Instead they could have helped me organize and decorate (I have nothing hanging on the walls) and could have made me feel alive and loved. But didn't...I felt dead and a bother.

I hated hearing she was called a hoarder. We don't know if her house was just too small but was nice and tidy and this was her normal storage. The kids may not live in the area so they couldn't take it over or afford it. Assume = Ass (out of) u & me

Can't watch now, mom passed and we re getting older...shame that noone cares at the end....it doesn't pay to be sentimental

I was looking at the pearls too wondering if they were real cultured pearls.

my mom had all the family photos from her aunt and uncle. A huge suitcase filled with old pictures , a lifetime . Mom held onto them for many years, not knowing what to do with them. She passed leaving them with me. I contacted my cousin who was able to find their granddaughter who indeed wanted the pictures. I can only imagine how happy she was to have all those moments in time.

My mom was starting to have dementia and we had three storage units full of stuff and her problem was that she would take my stuff and mix it in with her stuff and I just couldn't afford the stages because I just got married I lost my original birth certificate home videos family pictures I lost it all. Items that you cannot replace family heirlooms everything and I cried for months it's been over a 22 years ago

@@leolakimbler4514 it must be so painful ... sending love 💜💙❤

My Mom gave me a family photo album for Christmas once. I told her it was cool and could add it to my other albums. She was confused and I showed her my other 5 albums, all including the pictures I removed from hers. She was confused as to how I already had so many albums at only 20. She found out I had been making and keeping albums since I was a child b

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Wow, that's great, the storage manager said if he gets any more signed over units he will just give them to me

That was sad for them😢, awesome for you 👀💭my friend 👏❤️👏💯❣️

Don't tell the IRS

I inherited my best friend's house (was his parents) after he died. No hoarding here but it was a treasure trove of life from the 30s and 40s. Lots of collectables. The advantage that I had at the time was the TIME to go through it all. The house was slated to be razed by the state for a new bridge so I had plenty of time to get through the stuff - keep or sell what had value.

Although when my parents died we cleared their house of 50 years or what we wanted of it and just about nothing had any value. It became a joke with me in the end - even the fairly new electric stair lift had been built around corners so it could only go for scrap. Even 1970s lava lamp just about no value. A few things might have made £5 on Ebay but not enough to justify selling. My parents were just not into possessions or jewellery or paintings. My sibilings did let me have my father's car as I spent 100 hours winding up the estate

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Yes I started when my youngest 2 went away to college - scanning old photos and papers, throwing some out etc etc.... Then they returned with all their stuff and more but at least I have been through many many boxes of old stuff and culled it hugely. I also made the family tree part of it as my parents did one in the 1970s too and got that uploaded and distributed along with the most precious old family papers so if anyone wants those details in the future they are there.

I always find those albums

Thanks, for your comments, we always have a blast hanging out

Thank you, I keep telling this to my siblings, but they don’t listen and keep buying my mom junk.

I was thinking the same thing too. It seems like the lady must have been some sort of seller.

oh i bet you're right! well that makes me feel better for her. But her kids missed out on the family photos

You’re one of the few people here who seem to be able to look past the tearjerking title and figure out what probably was going on here.

Sorry for your loss

One of my siblings “ took it all”, so didn’t have to deal with it.

...everything you said... Perfect 🥰 Thank you.

Swannsong It gave her something to “ look forward to “, it sounds like. ♥️

Sounds like she was bitter and selfish. To spend money on things that didn't mean much to her was her way of stopping anyone else getting that money, even her own close relatives. That's why money exposes the true nature of someone's heart. She is in hell now because she chose to live for herself and not be kind to others. She received it through inheritance so why did she feel she couldn't pass on that same blessing to her own family? Because bitterness and selfishness filled her life. She is in hell now. Let her example be warning to everyone who seeks their own sake rather than that of God's or even relatives. She withheld because she was judgemental and when we judge wrongly we act wrongly. Rather than anyone saying I'm judgemental by writing this, know that your actions speak louder than words, and people need to learn to zip it and look at situations with righteous judgement lest you let your own life fall into same pitiful end.

@@RAPTUREATTWILIGHT It is a very unchristian thing to say someone is in hell 🔥. Only JESUS CHRIST LORD of ALL, and her know. JESUS CHRIST SHED HIS PRECIOUS BLOOD 🩸 for all who have accepted HIM. 🩸🩸🩸✝️🙏🏼

Was your mom Eric Cartman?

@@hummingbird275 what a religious and self-righteous thing to say! There's nothing 'unchristian' about referring to those whose selfish characters will take them to hell, even Jesus spoke more of hell (where the worm does not die and the fire is not quenched) than he did of heaven, also it's scriptural that there's more in hell than in heaven because broad is the way that leads to destruction and many find it. Your ignorance and people-pleasing attitude is why people think they can ignore God all their life then when they die he gonna let them go to heaven.

I try to sell it all, however, it comes in faster than it goes sometimes 😁

I agree

Probably her kids, which is why they did not want that junk.

That's terrible. I never understood why some people suck. I jad a great grandmother that died when I was younger. She didn't have much. There was a suitcase full of pictures. These were pictures that went wayyy back. Everything just sort of disappeared.

@@letsdothis9063 my brother did it out of spite b4 he kicked me out of his house tho. He showed me the stuff. Yeah he more than sucks.

Yep, I can understand that happening; my sister (not blood related) n I were also adopted and after our adopted dad passed, she went through the family pictures without our mom knowing about it and took all of our childhood pictures.... long story short, she burnt all of my pictures, so like you, I don't have any of my childhood pictures 🥺

@@tandiparent1906 He77 🔥 will be a LOT hotter than the one that burned the pictures! Just sayin’!

So sorry he's being evil. Sorry for your loss

Townview Excellent idea ♥️

Can you talk to my siblings? I keep telling them to stop giving gifts to my mother, who has plenty and needs nothing. She’s one magazine away from being a hoarder.

@@spankynater4242 My family is scattered around Australia. When my father started failing, we would have a "Family Lunch" in their city. We would all fly in to Brisbane on a Saturday morning, have lunch at a great restaurant and then fly home in the afternoon. Our gift was ourselves and maybe a little something. Dad has gone and now Sydney is the meeting place for "Family Picnic" because the grandchildren have children of their own and it's logistically easier. Take photos.

There are services (like this guy) who will go through the house with you, and you can tell them what you want to keep and what you want gone. They will take everything you want gone for a flat fee. Then you can stage the house for selling and get top dollar.

So sad n cruel ppl are , no love or compassion left n wonder , wats wrong in the world 😢💭💯❣️

Wow! Dummy not interested in selling it?

@@tvcat3665 Nope...he saw it all as junk. I was in tears

I can't imagine!!! 😟 I am so sorry!!! Not only was he burning the items physically, he was burning three generations of three full lives which were well-lived. It is so tragic, and I am sure very traumatizing for you!!

@@VintageRose75 It was...to see it all go up in smoke, when someone could have bought it, cleaned and polished it and preserved it. I offered him good money too. Out in one of the big barns was what was left of an old covered wagon, oxen yokes, wheels...just so much history. By the wagon in the dirt was an old cork type bottle. (without the cork of course) I picked it up and embossed in the glass it read "swamp chill and tonic" back then they didn't use paper labels)..by golly I kept it...and still have it right here on my shelf. Have had several tell me it was from the mid to late 1800"s. In another old barn was 2 old pick-ups from the 50's...body still in pretty good shape. Under the hood was a mess...rats nests, etc, wires eaten, lot of rotted stuff...but someone could have taken it and restored it. Her son was a real jerk

Unfortunately, the family didn't want any of the personal items. I usually give personal items to the facility manager to return to owner.

That is a great idea, I plan on purging after kids graduate college or to pay for college 😁

@@2ndCentsIncAuctionsCleveland We're in the process of paring down now. We won't be living in a van but we will be living in a much smaller house with little in the way of storage. I have old photo albums and some other family treasures that I've picked out for each of my kids. When they get settled I'll give those boxes to them. They can easily fit in the trunk of their car with room to spare. You can hand things down to your kids, just be selective and purposeful about it.

Did they move away from you or the other way around? If its the later, shame on you; they gave you life

@@Brandi6666 Asinine remark.⬇️

@@hummingbird275 ahhh haaa. Guilt got ya. Sorry cat, thats gonna follow you till you cease to exist 🤣

@@Brandi6666 You have a twisted mind, posting asinine comments.

I’d gladly take you’re stuff ❤

They act like 8 year old children too! No respect!

Better to get family together. Those that help get a cut and those that did not their lost.

Somehow your comment reminded me of Clive Barker. Well spoken.

It’s all crap. I doubt that any of that garbage had any sentimental value.

I don't think she was a hoarder, just someone that collected stuff that was GIVEN to her from companies that she worked for. I think she was a BUYER for a neighborhood store like Woolworth.

@@passion777able That’s an interesting observation.😊

I occasionally buy units. It breaks my heart when I come across units with such personal belongings that you know people have invested huge amounts of time into organizing and/or collecting. To have nobody care about your valuable time and care put into keepsakes or collections and hobbies is very disheartening. Many times I'll try to give belongings (photos, albums, urns of ashes) back to the people running the facility to contact the family for a return. Sometimes they will, other times they refuse, stating they have the family or person multiple discounts, offers, and second chances and they no longer care. Other times you come across information and you just know the person either went to jail or passed away from the way their stuff was hurriedly packed as if drawers were just dumped into boxes. (Food, mail, etc) from family or friends and for whatever reason payments stopped. A couple of years ago, my boyfriend bought a couple in a neighboring county outside the city and i could tell this stuff had been so cared for and tons of time had been invested organizing it all. I'll bet she had 5 boxes or more of photo albums and framed pictures. Tons of boxes full of files and certificates and lessons from being a retired teacher. Yearbooks and scrapbooks. Old furniture and knick knacks. It's hard for me to throw any of that out. As a matter of fact, I believe I have a few boxes in my personal shed at home with the hopes of someday returning them to families. I just haven't made the time. You are totally correct though! I've learned from these experiences to stop wasting my life away organizing thinks I find value in that others won't. And the things I really care for like my coin collection or especially my costume jewelry collection needs time spent labeling, documenting, and pricing value because I recognize the the majority of society just sees a nickel as a 5 cent nickel or jewelry as worthless unless it's stamped with 14K. It would really be discarded for nothing at a yard sale or spent on a bag of chips!

@@lisaorth3255 I plan to digitize every slide and photo I have, including huge numbers I 'inherited' and then get rid of the originals. Nobody wants a mountain of physical copies.

Yes I’ve started asking family members if there is anything they would really like. I’d rather give it to them now or make a list of who gets what.

I agree with you. These guys are disrespectful. Saddens me very much.

Sad yes but also on a deep level one realizes life must be lived forward and not backwards. Hanging on to so much past can be like a noose around the neck and enslave you from having the life you wish to have. Life is short.

I was thinking the exact same thing. Pretty disrespectful guy's.

This stuff isn’t valuable to everyone

I'm not appalled by it. Family didnt want anything to do with it. He bought it...it's his to do whatever!

Her kids knew what was here because they had to box it all up when she moved to assisted living. Just my theory.

Me too. Not interested in watching this crapm

I agree with this comment!

That's what a hoarder is buys and holds on to everything. if she had to rent a storage unit for this stuff then she is a hoarder alot of that stuff isn't worth much or would she Eva use it she just couldn't bring her self to sell or give away or throw out. Why pay $300 a month to store this stuff and what did her house look like if the kids didn't wanna go through this stuff. If your doing the same then sorry your a hoarder. Hoarders don't think they are hoarders they say it's all good stuff I can't throw it out when realy it's not stuff you will never use so why keep it. It's different if your holding onto some of your kids old stuff for memory's but ya can't hold onto it all or you holding stuff that's worth abit of money or collector stuff. But alot of stuff we seen so far isn't worth paying money each mth to store for years you be paying more than it's worth if it's been there for years should of sold most of it in a garage sale not hoard it. So if your holding onto same sort of stuff and alot of it your a hoarder

Im not gonna watch then.

The star wars stuff is worth aa fortune, it is good you kept it

The star wars stuff is worth a fortune, it's good you kept it

How NEAT 😊👍🏼❗️

Very cool

1945 Silver Dollar is probably worth about $20-$30.

@@spankynater4242 The three I was paid for babysitting with were only worth cigarettes - my mother took all three, no idea what year they were. I had not planned to spend them at all. The parents had won the in Reno and had saved them to pay me with them. Sadly, it was not the only time she took what little money I had.

@@GlennaVan not cool.

Or they were sick of her hoard 🤷🏼‍♀️ I know someone who said when their parent dies, they are just renting a dumpster and throwing everything out without going through anything.... the parent is 💯 a hoarder with a shopping addiction (not as bad as the hoarders show, but not great- I’ve seen it- helped them move some stuff from the storage room in their basement- a huge storage room btw, and there were racks full of brand new clothes- with tags, never worn... some had receipts from 20+ years ago attached... also many other new items in boxes 😬 they were telling me they try to get rid of the junk from time to time but one day, usually within a week, the hoarder will wake up and the hoarder spidey senses will say those specific items are missing - so odd )... and like pretty much every hoarder won’t admit there’s a problem or seek psychological help 🤦‍♀️

@@candicemorgan979 I have a neighbor that is a hoarder. You can only walk from his front door, roughly four feet into the house, to the right is what used to be a little den or home office. That is where his mattress is. The power has been turned off for quite some time. The entire house is packed from the first floor all the way to the ceiling in the upstairs. Racoons have moved in, garage in same condition. The township has condemned the house, yet he is still there. Sad thing is, he is quite wealthy, but yet he will not face the reality of his situation. He is a regular at goodwill and SA, he buys clothes, wears them, and throws them in suitcases when they are dirty. That is how he does his laundry, he doesn't. I could go on, but you get the drift.

Agreed.