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As a retired divorce attorney, fewer than five minutes into this video, I would advise getting a restraining order against both your mother and your sister.

These two ladies should be in prison. Period.

The reason mom got $1,000 was a way to legal recognize that she potentially had a claim to his assets and show the court that he had not forgotten about her. Keeps her less likely to sue his estate as well. Smart dad.

Why is she not giving up her house to her daughter if she is that concerned

This guy is def not a jerk, he wasn't close with that side of the family and didn't really know them after he started living with his dad, its his house and he was defending it

this guy is honestly so strong for standing up for himself like that. he has such an awful family with the exception of his father

My condolences to you for the loss of your dad, he done a fine job bringing you up and teaching you the value of life, money and hard work. Hopefully you and your girlfriend live a long and happy life together

“Mommy it’s perfect” 😭😭had me rolling

As someone that grew up in an extremely abusive household; when I heard the part where she slapped him and he backhanded her in return I practically jumped up cheering.

He definitely is not a jerk. He is an inspiration for all who have delt with family like this. He is a HERO in my book.

When talking about how much the sister inherited we don't know their family dynamic we don't know how she acted towards her father but from what the brother described their situation i definitely understand why the father gave most of what he had to his son and not to her

I don't know why but the him slapping his mother was satisfying to read

I’m glad that his girlfriend wasn’t just standing there doing nothing and actually helped the situation.

I got so pissed at the part where the mother is like "I bought you into this world and I have control of you" that's by far I remember her saying it and I got so satisfied when he slapped her back 😌

Mum: I am a GOD!!!! "Slaps OP" OP: "Slaps back back-handed"

I can remember sitting with my ex, her mom, sister and 18 year old niece. They're all terribly self centered, and were talking about the mother's BF making good money but not spreading it around enough. These were adults, three of which had ZERO justification for receiving anything from him, and yet you'd think he was downright evil. I was horrified, and probably looked as much. The mom looked at me and said "Don't worry, we'd never talk about you like this" with a mischievous smile. I've never felt the presence of evil so strong in my life. They were a coven, manipulating and using men for their pleasure to be discarded once their use wore out. Thank God I got the hell away from them. My stomach and heart thanked me the moment I left...

Damn! What a legend dad. The best example of raising a child even after getting betrayed by spouse. Hats off to the dad.

Imagine having a dad as cool as that, bruh giving his son almost everything he had, showed a lot of trust and faith in the guy

This story hit hard, thanks for sharing and affirming what I have learned through difficult experiences - toxic relatives need very firm boundaries. I have a very toxic sister who is still waging a campaign to move into the house my father left me and my mom. I don't know she believed that she could show such pure hatred for her relatives and still feel we owe her something. Narcissistic lunacy can be so draining, you have to keep your distance from them even if they're family.

The voices he makes are top tier 😮‍💨

"My kids didn't choose to be born, I chose to have kids. They own me nothing. " -Elon Musk

The dad trained his son for this and then on his way out set his plan in motion to cause complete Chaos. Absolute legend

I totally get the crazy Mother thing. My mom was off the rails for most of my life. Difference was that my mom loved Men, and she went from one to the next while my older sister and I were growing up. She treated us both this way, like yours, but it was over her men. Married 6 times and countless guys on the side for most of those. Mom was found dead, along with her husband, in 2016. They were both raging drunks by then and my sister and I had cut off any communication with her long before. After trying for 2 years to get her help and get her away from step-dad, who had money and bought all the wine she could want for, we gave up. Then they were found dead in their home. Mom had borderline personality disorder and was a narcissist on top of that. She was nuts and used to make us brush our teeth with Comet. My heart hurts for you because I understand a horrible mama more than most. Keep your chin up. You can do this...... and know this, some women are not meant to be mothers, although they are. Some mother's shouldn't raise children, yet they do. We consider ourselves lucky that we lived through our raising and it actually made us both Good Mothers. The trick is to always do the opposite of what Mama would have done and show love everyday. It made up both smart and strong and loving. You got this.

Sis cant live in mommys air b n b but they can take over bros house? 😂

I’m so glad my family isn’t entitled or narcissistic

I gotta say the girlfriend was the MVP here. She got records of their conversations (yeah not sure if its true, but even if its a bluff she's smart for playing along) and got screenshots of their facebook to use as evidence. Well done.

The voice of the mother is perfect 10/10

So sorry to hear about your Dad😢. He sounds like the only family that you had. Law is on your side.

This guy backhanded his mom....although I normally wouldnt approve of this but given the bizarre circumstances... Legend

When OP slapped his mom, I felt so happy. I'm so proud of OP. He is an example for all victims of narcissists.

Best voice acting for his mother🎉

This should be a movie of the week.

I can’t hold my laugh when he starts voicing other people

The brother/son in this story did the right thing. He and his girlfriend handles the situation really well. Good on him for standing up to his mother and his sister. He is not JERK. His mother and sister are the JERKS!

Their mother made my eyes roll so far back into my head that I could practically see my brain

This brother, this man, has gone through a lot in life. I’m glad he had a great relationship with his father and worked hard to get where he is today. I’m also happy he’s got such a great girlfriend supporting him.

This man literally said “imma end your whole career” to his “mother” and I love it

If you've ever experienced the pain of dealing with a narcissist, you'll know the pain this dude had to go through. It's like talking to a crazy person. A narcissist could look you in the eye, tell you the year was 3000, insult you for disagreeing, then turn around and say the year was 5000 and insult you even more. For those types of people, just walk away - trust.

“STHOP!!1! I AM YOHR MOETHR!!1!” That had me crapping toasters •’-‘•

YES! Thank you! That backhand slap was 100% deserved and it took everything in me not to audibly cheer when I heard that.

Tbh the voice acting for the mother and sister are top notch

He isn't a jerk he's a hero a person who won't be taken advantage of we need more people like you

I think the only jerks in this situation are the mother and sister. Basically entitled Karen’s with not a shred of common sense between them and are trying to steal a house

Big mistake calling her Mom after all this. Use her name...

Am I the only one who thinks that the 'Moms' voice sounds like a witch that had been smoking for 2 decades.

I am sure that your dad smiled up there when he saw you stand up for yourself

I have a mother who is like this but got away with a lot of stuff I was setup and was abused I'm glad you are able to get this delt with parents need to be held more accountable if they abuse there kids or other family members

Tries to steal his house, picks faviourates, falsefully accuses him "you are being unreasonable"

People like that are frustrating. They have a fantasy mentality. OP was definitely on the right here.

I can’t believe the mother just ordered him around in his HOUSE! The Mom got off lucky, he could’ve pressed charges.

I have watched this video hundreds of times but I have to say in my opinion this is one of your best stories that you have ever made Keep up the great work.❤❤❤❤❤

The mother probably told the sister "I am god, so I can decide. I promise you you'll have your own house now" it would explain many things.

The mother had already received the marital house in the divorce plus alimony and child support and the majority of what was in the house. The fact that their father gave her ANYTHING is amazing in and of itself. I understand why their father gave so little to the daughter… she didn’t have much of a relationship with her father and she only cared about him for his money. OP, his son, moved in with him as soon as he possibly could. He worked with him and spent as much time with him as he could. He truly loved his father. He didn’t care about what he had. He cared about the man, the Dad, the mentor. They all got what they deserved.

Frankly, the story is so ‘well written’ to a point it’s just a mere story lol

If the sister is still like this after the child is born, then they need to be taken from the sister, no child should ever be raised by someone like that.

I fricking loved it when the mom had to drag the daughter away from the house, what a baby. I hope you and your girlfriend have a such a good relationship you become one of those sweet old couples the neighbors love

This story's wild and that mother deserves nothing but the worst but his impression of her has me dead 🤣🤣🤣

The heartless mother: “all that was his is rightfully mine” The devil: 😈 “you sure about that, you lying adulterer?”

I love his voice when he does impressions😂

You know someone’s entitled when they say “As far as you’re concerned, I’m god” 💀

Guessing the mother took stuff from him without a fuss all throughout his childhood and was shocked her son is an adult

I love how the mother goes from the narrator using their normal voice to sounding like something out of Monty Python

It's sad to have a mother act this way.

My mom used to do that to me and always said “as long as you’re under my roof….” At 17 I got a job and moved out. About 20 years ago my mom showed up to my place unannounced and started nitpicking it and myself and I said “don’t disrespect me in my own house where I own everything and pay all the bills.” She kept talking sh!t so I kicked her out! I’m now 45 and my mom respects my time, my place, and myself! I’ve also just walked away in the middle of conversations when I feel she’s making judgements or being the slightest bit disrespectful. Now she wont say sh!t nor offer her advice or opinions and LIFE IS GREAT!!

The mom thinks her son doesn’t need a house that was rightfully his? Now that’s the definition of stupid and ignorant.

They basically went up to a strangers house and said “ this is my hpuse now!”

The fact that this is part 1 of this story is absolutly insane. After watching this I really need to be more careful of how I handle my life now

As someone who has lived in the almost same atmosphere, i loved the part where he slapped back at her mom😌

my mother used to say the "im god, when i say jump you ask how high" thing all the time with me, she was a very abusive person, after my parents separated i was forced to live with her for 3 years and it really messed me up mentally and physically. so if was him i would've called the cops or removed them myself.

Honestly, the story of the mother trying to steal the house is so much more interesting than the plot of A Dog’s Journey

Tell them to kick rocks and file a restraining order against them.

Stay strong. Live your life. My mom sued me for moving out of her house claiming it's my fault for things.

"Me and my GF read enough reddit stories to know where this was going" Aaand just like that I could no longer suspend my disbeleif. His mother and sister being absolute karens? Sure I can buy that Karen mom spouting a Disney villain speech? A tad dramatacised maybe but ok. A redditor having a GF? Now you've lost me.

I love these stories because it makes me feel better about my family

The mom impression was so funny lol

This is why you tread VERY carefully when planning to get married. Guys, cover yourselves and create a prenuptual agreement. And if she don't sign it, to the streets she shall return !

His dad would be proud for you standing up to your mom and sister

I would get a restraining order for your Mother and Sister.

I was raised so differently! Personally, I wouldn't have answered the freakin door, but I'm not a drama llama.

even though the dad was very business oriented he still showed a great deal of love and affection for his son in his own way *that* is a gigachad father right there

That mom voice he makes always gets me lol. "HOW DARE YOU?!"

“I am god.” Got me laughing for some reason help

I’m the kind of guy who, when I see a boy with a little sister, wants them to be treated equally and have the two get along well. Well, this video taught me that can go a little TOO well

Honestly much respect to your father, May he rest in peace now, he did a hell of job

From my personal experience, cutting off the narcissist is the only way you'll ever find peace.

This dudes range of voice and emotion is flawless

My older brother is dealing with an ex-girlfriend, who he had two kids with. She cheated on him, and was caught defrauding the Benefit system (We live in the UK), she tried to blame it on him. He moved *far* away, when he went to pick his kids up, and she threw hot soup over him, and got her new Boyfriend to assault him. I'll spare you the rest, but to say the Police are next to useless if you're a guy in the UK.

6:23 Mother used Slap! Big brother use Counter! It's super effective!

I was raised a scapegoat myself by a narc. My younger brother was the golden child. I escaped the clutches of my witch mother and spent my life healing from the abusive neglect I suffered as a child. My brother, meanwhile, has become a full blown narc himself. What passed for my mother's love was demonstrably more damaging than her indifference; much like this story.

Lol good voice impression for the mother 10/10 😂❤🎉

When I heard that there was a PART 2, my heart skipped a beat 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

His sister is another level of spoiled like who snoops around your house then say “mommy it’s perfect” like she already owns the house that isn’t her like wtf

All I can say is I am so sorry you had a Mother like this.

My Mom slapped my Sister one time for being out "late" and going to her BF's house (Mom hated him) against her orders not to. My Sister slapped her back harder (like we taught to do...always hit back harder to reinforce the message that you're not going to do it again). She cried and demanded my Dad do something. He did. He told her "stop hitting your daughter". LMAO!!!

I have toxic adopted parents also so I feel your pain and stress. My adopted parents treat me horrible and I have mental disabilities. So man keep strong and stay positive.

File under: Things that definitely absolutely 100% happened for sure and are definitely not completely made-up.

I bet the sister couldn’t even pay rent

This story could be made into a movie, amazing! Unless you impregnated your sister you don’t owe her your house. These two women are ridiculous, you could be in danger, they seem desperate to get what they came for. Protect yourself.

dont people realize you can just break all connections with obnoxious family members and move on with their own life? when i was 8 I dumped my mother and called my dad begging to live with him. Haven't seen my or heard from my mother in over 20 years. its bliss.