So you must don’t know who he was before going to jail! Dude was a kingpin so he probably more than likely put her on before she was on ! All of New York knew him before she was a star

I think maybe she did actually cheat then and they keeping it low key

I think yendi would do better without him

@@SweetSixteen-xw9fythank you

Basically, while he was in the slammer she held him down and he was fine with that while he was in the jail but the minute he comes out, he wants her to go back to the wife position and given back the power, he had prior to going to jail and I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t want to give him back power she had while he was in jail. She don’t want to be like that when he was in jail, always grinding always trying to get that next couple book you know make sure her bills were paid because Lord knows she don’t put another baby in somebody else’s belly and that she’s gonna have to take care of because he was unfaithful to her. Why does she think she’s gonna be faithful now so she’s kind of probably just you know seeing how he do before she make a decision on giving him back she right now. He probably gave her some so she can actually deal with the businesses. He was actually dealing with prior, so that was some money in his absence so of course, probably a lot of stuff got put on a wayside on her personal and her professional things she wanted to do and he when he came out now it was time for her to kinda you know do a little stuff that you know she wanted to do and think she wanted to accomplish personally that she had to put on the wayside because she had to deal with his stuff

Yeah and she emasculating that brotha … he’s sweet guy but strong

Yandy a smart business woman we seen it for years that’s sad they were happy and in love

She held that man down took care of his other children. Put up with his mother, and the other bm's she worked hard for him and the family. His selfish he even said if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn't have held her down.He basically let her know she isn't worthy of him she needs to let him know he's not worthy of her.😊

Exactly... how he feels about the situation should be taken seriously

Agreed and what’s worse is that she takes no accountability and doesn’t seem to even care about his feelings. If she does, something is wrong with her capacity to truly SHOW that. She is a selfish person. He should leave.

And yandy been messing around with a dude 😎

She did a oops not telling

I believe she wanted yandy eggs.

She definitely do make single decisions

Period

She not carrying a child for her sister. She is donating some of her eggs and she can do that if she want to. Mendecee just want to control everything about Yandy

Because she work have business wtf

​@@shannajoywoodard8209 Exactly, she was a manager for many ppl since day 1 on love and hip hop, so I'm not sure why it's a problem that she's still working smh. If she went off the radar for 6 months to 1 year will he be able to provide the lifestyle without any of her money included?

Right traveling leads to new eggplants lol

100

Absolutely. Yandy has the reasoning skills of a well intentioned 13 year old.

thank you frfr

Because of work he a fucking baby wtf baby momma s and more plz

And he made a commitment for better or worse so all that bs you just said means nothing

@downbad2874, EXACTLY! If she was moving as a single woman it’s PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE HAD NO OTHER CHOICE. Between, jail, baby mommas, have to take care of ALL the kids, running businesses, AND the household, WITH HIM NOT AROUND OR HELPING. So of course she needs some “ME” time to get back to taking care of herself. Just because you get married DOES NOT MEAN YOU STOP BEING AND INDIVIDUAL. Who takes are of her when she needs to taken care of? Clearly he wasn’t.

I've been watching the show for years and that's exactly how she operates. Like wanting to get pregnant for a family member Without consulting with your husband first. She treats him like a child. Most men are not gonna be okay with that. Thank you for your comment. I was looking for one that was gonna make some sense.

I wonder does she still pay or ever did pay for his child support

Wo!😮 Your absolutely right!😊 I forgot about that! She was 💯!👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊

😢 It's sad and really deep!😳 I can't imagine being in a situation like that!😮 Thanku Jesus!🙏🏾🙌🏾🥺 I'm not 🥹 I truly feel sorry for both of them 😔 Wow!😮😢

Is everyone going to keep bringing up she was there for him as an excuse for her incompetence as his WIFE🔥 RESPONSIBILITIES CHANGE when you are married because your titles changed. She needs to STEP UP IN HER ROLE or prepare to lose him. Smh

No Man is going to want a wife still dabbling in that single life with her homegirls... And we not gonna condemn Mendeecees when yall cheered for Remy Ma

Guess what while her husband was locked up she still did what she wanted to do as a single woman. The question is once he got out she should have slowed down instead she is busy and now she leaves him with the kids .

Yeah with a man

Exactly!!!

Was she happy when he was locked up for all of those years??? Now he here trying to give ultimatums. Now that he’s made a little money because of her he’s trying to control her. If it wasn’t for her putting him on with love and hip hop he would have no job and wouldn’t have a job. Mendecees need to grow up and be grateful!!!

A man's happiness shouldn't be based on a woman putting down her dreams. If a man never have happiness in him, it's not a woman's duty to build happiness in a broken unhappy man's life. This man is jealous of this woman's achievements

He does but she isn’t the one stopping that wat else he want her soul

You are so right I did it and I will never in my life do it again

Facts

they always do that so called self improvement jail talk when all they really want is in house booty and a woman to take care of them.😂😂.

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He is a former dope dealer and should be grateful for a woman who was strong enough to pull him out of that life. Mendeeces is being selfish. Everything except the egg thing now I don't agree with that because that would be Yandy's and whoever the donor is baby, Kesha would be the carrier. That just the truth.

EXACTLY

That’s all it is because she out here making money moves he wanna cheat anyway

​@@delainerollie8351exactly

you are missing the point everyone not worrying over money you must single

@@gregorymcbride3503 no I'm not missing the point she's doing the same thing she was doing when he was in prison he's mad because she's still holding it down and he's still trying to find himself

Yeah I think we all getting tore of he sayin that and throwing it in his face in the wry argument 🤭🤭🤭

Exactly my point

That was her choice. I'd rather you leave than to stay out of obligation. That does not work eventually it could turn to hate or regret.

@@therealsongstressbecause it was a huge part of their relationship………

When a man says he is unhappy the next move he will make is leaving, women will stay but an unhappy man will leave or cheat

not her eggs for her cousin to have baby that's not his yall sound crazy as hell move on from her go get something new

I digress.. That man has said more than once that they needed to discuss it further so that they can have a clear understanding and make a rational decision as husband and wife.. She continues to tell him that it's her body and that her and Kesha had already decided.. She even started taking the shots.. All against wishes, without his knowledge and without having the clarifying conversation that he asked for.. They're on national TV.. That is blatant disrespect and can be determined as neglect.. She talks over him a lot and she has gotten used to him being so soft spoken, that when he finally spoke up about something, she immediately disregarded it.. Yandy out here moving like a single woman.. State to state, country to country, and not once have I seen the entire family.. Granted, she held him down during his bid in prison, but that was a choice she made.. He's doing what he absolutely should as a husband and father.. He's trying to understand things.. Kesha doesn't even have money for the treatment, so Yandy is paying for that.. Plus, her dad just moved, and Yandy is paying for that as well.. He's trying to find out if she can't afford the treatment for the baby. How will she be able to take care of it.. Yandy and Mendecees is paying all of her big bills, and a baby isn't cheap.. Whether Yandy chasing her bag or not, him going to prison and her out here acting single and disrespecting her husband are two different crosses..

Agreed....And Ashley is so mean. She's the reason why I don't tune in for that show.

Totally agree it’s him not her

Hell no she shouldn’t. Filming is a job. He shouldn’t have gotten into trouble.

So stop working for him even though he admitted he wouldn’t do the same for her. Got it 😂😂😂

@@LoveyB90exactly

She have to work look at they life style

You bugging. Nobody putting they life on hold because he wanted to be a criminal and commit felonies. That's a him problem. He should of stayed outta jail

They weren't married when he went to prison.

She knew he was a drug dealer..his name was heavy in the streets of Harlem

she has benefited from that nyc drug money too

Amen

Leave the evil Lord out of it

@@elroco4827 Bye.

@@andriataylor4758 just keeping it real. Maybe you’ll find out when you do some research about the god(s) of the Bible. Pure EVIL

She would be a fool to stay with this dusty after who he proven that b. If this isn’t an act it’s embarrassing 4 her

Stfu you dont know them an U don't know shit and mendecees is disposable tampon. He's useless . And these options ur referring to are probably dudes. No spiritually healed 1woman wants that garbage..maybe u but not me..he's useless

I'm inclined to agree with this comment. If she wants to stay married, then she has to let go of her thoughts about the past. Meaning, yes she held him down when he was away....which helped keep them together, but that's what they both wanted right? She can't now think that her not being present in the marriage because she wants to travel and do this and that because it's "her turn to be free" is the solution. That doesn't make sense. If the goal is to stay together, then she's got to listen to what he's saying to her. If not, then go be free. I guarantee you, if she chooses the latter, she"ll end up with regrets. Especially if she loves her family. Then again, this could all be for a storyline. She does at times sound like a dramatic actress in her scenes.

I agree with both these comments

@calvthomas6153 Haaaaaa Haaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YES, Yandy is addicted to attention and will do anything for it, clearly. Smh She just recently posted a selfie video of herself in church praising GOD🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I rebuked her and unfollowed. That was my LAST straw with her. Now that I see how DEEP her issue goes, I won't feed it. The girl needs deliverance fast. She looks pathetic to me at this point. LMBO 😭 But you for sure nailed your perception of her. She better tred lightly because Mandecee is fine and looks 100 times better in real life than he does on TV, so he won't be single long. He and I physically bumped into each other really hard to where I almost fell, and he grabbed me to break my fall and to say parten me and sorry. Neither one of us was looking where we were going, so I apologized, too. Then I took a double look 👀 like oh okay. 😍 Let me look away from that married man. LOL. ALL of the guys with him were fine as well, so she better KEEP her HUSBAND and LEARN how to be a GODLY wife because that is clearly what he is looking for.

If she stop working how tf go they go eat. Stop the bs. Love don't pay bills

Not once do you hear any conversation about the need to pay bills. This woman is smart and extremely enterprising. She can carry out her career anywhere and still be okay. She's talking about being "free". When you have a family, sacrifices have to be made. The same would be thought if this were a husband/father, who spends time away from their family because they want to be "free".Rich or poor.

💯💯💯

God is the answer to all this

And your Mom is single and can't keep A Man ..I'm sure

I experienced this 1st hand...I did bids & waited...throughout my waiting period I was working on BIGGER plans for us & KEPT saying be patient I'm working on it...He came home to someone else stringing me along throughout his incarceration, he wasn't patient & my dream came to fruition NOW he's living with regrets & ALWAYS reminds me of them. Now he's singing the shoulda, coulda, woulda song, & he's living a nightmare & reminds me of this EVERY chance he gets & how he WISHES with every moment of his life & every breath how he should've JUST waited. I remind him EVERY chance I get that he made his bed, & so now he has to lay in it & face the music & cold hard FACTS. ✌️

💯💯💯 He’s Ungrateful, Insecure & Controlling…Why Females Do This Is Bothersome!

What duties she has a right to be happy too

Believe me when he was in there...he was financially supporting her n their children, she was being STRONG holding it down, but he is home, he wants his children to have a different life than he had....Yandy needs to fall back n re group n have to balance for her husband, family and business

​@@missjenny6674how was he supporting anything when Yandy was still working and helping take care of his kids he got with other women

What’s a Keisha?

@@lmiller6675 a ratchet out of order BW

A lot of today's women want to be single/married... move like a single woman but have a husband

​@@m.o.bmindonbusiness5584just like yall men been doing for decades and still doing. I wish u men stop playing like yall good guys when yall not. Yall are Demon seeds

They both have made sacrifices in the relationship, and keeping tabs won't help anything. It takes both partners for it to work and not just Mendeecee. Change and effort will need to come from both of them. I'm praying they work things out and weather the storm. I respect Mendeecees honesty because it does be like that. So many other people will cheat or file for divorce claiming because they're not in love with their spouse.

Well … she need to start saying no and put her husband above all other gets period

Totally ….she gaslighting him …..you don’t love me anymore 🙄🙄🙄

It's her egg. Her body. But it was cool for Mendecee to have a break baby on Yandy before he went to jail and she helping him raise that break baby but he got a problem with her donating a egg to her sister FOH if yall don't see he trying to control everything she do

Yea cause who is he and what does he do😂

He has his own money. He was making money while he was locked up. Have you been watching the show over all the years?

Multiple baby mommas only means he doesn't like condoms and his pullout game is week...Bro has his own money and he's doing big things in real estate

@LoveyB90 dude went to jail for fraudulent activities and she has way more money than him again what does he do

@@Andrea-ju7to Ok you clearly haven’t been watching the show. Wow, successful black man being degraded and his past being used against him as usual. Crazy thing is he is doing better than everyone in these comments talking 💩 about him.

Yancy has put too much time and money into a nobody who wants or loves her. She wasted her time