A key that can open a lot of locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by a lot of keys is a shitty lock.

Social conditioning doesn’t make it easier for women to have sex with multiple people and the reverse is true of men. That males are prepared to lie about having sex just to gain status amongst their peer group and females are expected to “protect their reputation” is just one example of the differences between them. The failure to properly teach the importance of consent in sex, the most important aspect of sex, is only too obvious in too many places.

@@Sumonekool01 are males shitty locks?

@@stevenredpath9332 Who have ever given you respect for fucking some gross slag? Where I'm from guys try to hide it if they as much as kissed an ugly woman. I honestly think your ideas aren't your own and not based on your own experiences.

Another thing to consider about the double standard is that it's largely caused by attitudes to mate selection. Men don't want to have a long term relationship with a promiscuous woman because they suspect (accurately) that they are more likely to lose her. Whereas most women are okay with forming a long term relationship with a promiscuous man. They might complain about the double standard, but when it comes down to choosing a mate, it's not much of a factor. Even religious women who are determined to stay virgins until marriage admit that they don't really expect their future husband to also be a virgin until marriage, if anything, they want him to not be, because it shows that he's desired by other women and is able to score. So the double standard is caused by women's choices.

Got me choking on the water I was drinking lmao

It was quite amusing! Since males are visually stimulated we aren't exactly looking for high intelligence when it comes to a purely sexual standpoint.

It really do be like that XD

Me too, so I won't post it, but I will add, it is mostly the case however, I love to piss off girls who think they are hot shit and all guys want to be with her even tho the arrogance the lady has.. I am of the type that when you are super pretty but either dumb or clumsy with your body language, then I know you do not know yourself and that's a HUGE turn off for me, while most men just want that P. It's silly how low the standards of most men are.

@@number1nick123 I think that plays into the objectification theory since men don't view women as humans rather than objects, s£xual objects to be specific. I guess this is why they wouldn't have any standard outside of physical, and this isn't just on a s£xual level because we have seen successful men having no problem with marrying a really dummb woman just as long as she is pretty.

Exactly. The title is so demeaning to men

Underrated comment

So true

I'm a woman, and I agree. As a conservative Christian, guys of all walks of life try to match with me on dating apps. Some have confirmed they don't see gals like me there

@@lorenavilla6703 christians girls are the worst

SHE seeks a Father for her children who is worth a shit long haul. What's the fucking mystery?

Haha you've got us on the edge of our seat, how did the story unfold?

It’s interesting how differently intelligence is seen as valuable in men vs women. Being good looking is important across the board, but in women intelligence actually inhibits your desirability lol. If the girl in this situation had been clever but not as beautiful, I’m sure your old roommates would not have been as interested in her 😉

That's because males tend not to think of long-term values of relationships outside of "segz". We know from studies that; the mother's intelligence is the most momentous component to the intelligence and success of her children. In contrast, the intelligence of the father does not impact his children. But he thinks the person who will be the most significant influence on shaping his child's mind doesn't have to be intelligent 🤔 but would he send his child to a lousy school?? No, he won't! So when it comes to mate selection, men don't care just how much it will affect their children's success just as long as he enjoys having s£x with her.

Very funny. I can say that having a partner that can off set your insane work habits is very benifical. Likewise having somone to display incredible work ethic is very benifical.

i wonder morality of dating 10 iq woman when 200 iq "ill take care of us". emotional bond and 0 intelectual or discussion.. "me you baby now , love lvoe respect long time"

Lol genius

Comment of the day

😂🤣🤣😂

The joke has a point but if you read it properly you'll realise it's worded asymmetrically to favour guys yet ends up making us look equally bad in comparison. It breaks down into 'women want financial security and additional benefits' vs 'men want physical attractiveness and additional benefits'. Women start on the first floor with 'men with jobs' ie: the baseline acceptable category for women on the financial security scale. But the men start out on the first floor with women that are 'quite pretty' who are by definition at least 2 steps above average given that 'pretty' would probably be one step higher than average and 'quite' would be a step up again. So the joke's actual message is that women will always go for the better available guy yet will potentially settle for average because it's still within their building, whereas men don't let average women into their building which means our broad standards for what is acceptable in what we value is actually higher than women. So both sexes look either equally shit or equally understandable in that example. Putting that aside, it's also ridiculous to assume we wouldn't also escalate. If the first floor was quite pretty, the 2nd was quite pretty who love sex, the 3rd was Scarlett Johansson who loves sex and the 4th was prime Salma Hayek who wants to have sex 3 times a day, then you can bet your savings that I'd be exiting on the 5th floor for being so stupid as to think it was gonna get better than the 4th floor. And if you adjust the women I named to your own taste I'm pretty sure many guys would fail on the 5th floor just like the women did; our escalation would most probably be something equally dumb and unrealistic like hoping that there's a threesome up there with Aphrodite and her clone. If you present anyone with a test that shows improvement and doesn't reveal there's a risk I'm pretty sure most people would fail. This isn't a pro-feminist argument, I just think stupidity is genderless and most of us are moronic animals subject to base urges.

Naw my Dog. If on the second floor there wasn't a single woman who would challenge me and make me see things differently I'd head on up and if the 3rd floor was our exit I'd be ok with that. Better to do something worthwhile alone than be stuck with a vapid sex fiend. Then again, I'm part of a significant minority who's not interested in unattached sex, so I'd be applying partner level standards.

Good to know that you have practical expectations. When speaking for the larger society, it boils down to access. In particular, to avenues in which men find women. Online dating scene is a joke due to the inherent bias that leads to women filtering out someone at their level and aiming straight for the 1%. The 'village' scene where everyone knows each other was productive, but it no longer exists now. Basically, this is an unsolved problem at the moment.

Love this ^

Agree! When a woman is confident in her own abilities, herself worth, & cab be self sufficient and confident in herself - She is no longer bound by these lower evolutionary tendencies to finding mate who can support & protect her. This enables her to look for compatibility, mutual emotional support, partnership, & romance. Those who are looking for financial support and physical protection are those that set themselves up for a transactional relationship, and honestly are putting themselves in a position to be trapped In a possibly toxic relationship later because they have no confidence or means to be on their own. I understand many women would like to be home with their children still, as I did, but these views of toxic masculinity foster an imbalance of power in relationships which ultimately cause them to fail or be perpetually miserable.

@@aimforthemiddleeq both sounds toxic, for most women today just chase good looks. not many actually want compatibility

"Women will learn bullies aren't strong men" Hmm very interesting why would u say something like that? To me it seems like women find bullying attractive "I do not blame all men for the sins of few" Let me ask u this who do u think created these men? Also Women don't grow out anything they just know that after some time they can no longer attract the men they wanted It also due to the fact that women during their non fertile period look for kind timid men this is because they want resources and security after securing good genes

Sorry to hear that my guy, appreciated your comment🙏

Thanks you for your wisdom!

great comment.

Yep , I was Lied to about how to treat women to date and get sex , what they like and actually what they want . After watching two years of men's channels I now finally understand them . I surer wish I knew this years ago

@@stevephillips3541 can you breakdown what you've learned into a paragraph? I'd appreciate that alot

and maybe even not mumble. Hilarious.

That was hilarious lol

lolll amazing comment

@Brett M she's got garbage all over her, she looks so cute with garbage all over her...

@Brett M RIP PATRICE 🙏

Were you asking the customers for dates?

@@redroger3637 and those days I asked any woman on two legs for a date

Sorry to hear that. Although it's possible that they picked up on your confidence soaring. Or you met people more aligned with your true interests. Is there still a stereotype that male waiters are not heterosexual?

@@tim71pos That was your first mistake. A lot of women want to feel like you have a reason to pursue them other than their looks, based on an instant feeling. Most women don't want an instant hook up and when men treat them like prey the costs to mating is too high and they reject. They also like to feel drawn to you first as well. When a person randomly comes up to and wants to date you it can be offputting. Like he said, women are choosier than men and our mating costs are higher. Glad you're having an easier time asking people out now but maybe you've matured and grown. But the reasons you might want to date someone vs the woman you're in pursuit of's reasons are could be totally opposite, not because of how much money is in your bank account.

We had a strong case of blank slate-ism which made a lot of people forget or lie to themselves about the fact that we are not all the same.

This is an example of a strong case made in favor of traditionalism. When you come to a fence before you tear it down you must first pause and figure out why it was put there in the first place.

Ten years ago, I never recall anyone acknowledging this. If they did, it was social taboo.

yep. precisely right!

I think this debate has been raging for generations, some people don’t like a cold objective analysis of human behavior. This blank slate idea has been pushed for the sake of sparring peoples feelings, they seem to forget life is hard and it’s not fair. They want it to be fair and full of gum drops and fairies.

haha awesome comment

what is there to talk about anyway, right?

The weather and stuff..

@@LarsTragel-zh7ei Jordan didn't say it.

@@LarsTragel-zh7ei So women are 75% less likely to have sex if you would ask them on the spot. That means that men will have to put at least 75% more effort into it before a girl might say 'yes'. To reach that 75% effort level you would need to; 1. Open the door for her 2. Pay for dinner 3. Pretend to be a considerate person That's it! This to me explains the dating process 😂

Ppññ

That's awesome! Glad you know how good you have it and aren't one of the idiots who think they missed something. A good family is a beautiful thing to see!

Simp lord has spoken

Only people who use terms like 'simp' are the ones who can't get laid and have a personal vendetta against females for being "too picky". I'd rather be a simp than a lonely loser who thinks he's better than everybody.

ThirdGen yeah youd rather loose self respect to get laid, thats exactly what a simp is

Watch the F out because she is now in her epiphany phase. If she starts working out more or doing better makup etc get a lawyer retained.

So progressive we're regressive

@@bradbecker8982 lol okay pal, whatever you say.

The Mayor of London does not seem to intuitively know this. He has gone off the deepend Gillette style and now we have an aggressive campaign against men, young boys and women. It's a bit dystopian imo. Really worried the U.K will just stiff upper lip this one as usual.

Progress is merely the illusion of trade-offs

@@bradbecker8982 Lots of things we intuitively know is hard-wired in our brains.

Omg describes my babe Not only is he gentleman and respectful But he can b dangerous to d outside world He's khilji ( conquerer ) in my heart He's younger than my so i can't ever marry him

Like finding a new dada

@@stringbender3 more like "together we can get through anything "

And for men like finding a new mother. Respect husband like you respect your father and respect wife like you respect your mother

@@lynnkowalla1315 true

Precisely.

Well put

Well that just sounds smart to me 🤣

likes comment...then notices the name of poster, lol what lol

This is a perfect summation

😂😂😂😂😂😂

You don't say "Yes", but rather: "What's the catch?"

This is how Elliot Rodgers was made.

Being an incel if a woman did that too me it'll send red flags. I don't even get a smile these days, must be an undercover fed.

Haha me too, I’d be like: OK mom where are you.

I presume you're speaking from experience

@@vickjr98 Yes. I tend to observe mistakes made by those around me to minimize ones I need to experience firsthand.

Yeah, were appaently evolved and advanced 😂

It attacks the delusions that they've been mentally relying upon, creating cognitive dissonance.

Reality is often disappointing...

Big time...everybody understand this conversation, its reality....but reality / human nature is now controverial !!...it just shows how far our societies have slipped

Its because for the last hundred or so years, secular humanists have been trying desperately to turn humanity into Vulcans from star trek and turn the earth into a paradise. They'll deny it up and down but they'll always say we should "be better" or "evolve as a species" and other Rousseaun phrases.

i think its kinda implied with the first study mentioned

Possibly. But women will go after even ugly men if their status and wealth is high enough. The number one physical trait women go after whether for short term or long term sexual partnership is male height. you could make 6 figures a year, have a genius IQ, spend 3 hours a day at the gym... But if you're under 6ft tall, you're invisible to them.

@@mikhaelis dude I’m sorry, you’re nailing life but not getting laid. That’s rough

I doubt that’s true. Height seems to be an indication of status. But it remains an indication. Ask Bruno Mars… Status is one of the most important things for females.

Look up studies on R selection and K selection. R selection is based in pure reproduction as a survival mechanism against hostile conditions (ie "We'll be dead tomorrow os lets screw right now). K selection is rooted in long term investment in child rearing, where danger is distant enough so as to not impact decision making (ie "I can support a family for decades to come")

BIG difference between “selection” & “real love”

I found Dr Seuss more helpful.🤣

Dr Buss is great for men with a high school education or less...lol

@@guysumpthin2974 Well, you will find that real love does not constitute long term marriage. It is a feeling and feelings change like the weather. My grandparents were together for 68 years. They 'loved' each other but were really more like compatible great friends - a partnership. My parents have been married for over 55 years - they say the same thing.

@@guysumpthin2974 tf is real love

You left out money and be discreet. They would have said yes if they knew nobody knows of this and they will get 5000$.

The question is... If only 6% women have sex on early encounters and Men have 75%... either Men are banging men or Women are lying on there tests.... After alcohol I would say 75% both sexes, by observation.

Sucks to be you. Attention from women isn't that great.

As told by an insecure mommy's boy. You are sad

@@mutemaids lust definitely set me back , but I’d say it’s easier to focus in my 30s knowing that I had my fun in my teens and 20s

Cool story bro

That is why the Modern Wisdom podcast is good for such topics.

Not true. The nightclub is a set stage. Then there is the element of loud noise and substance abuse to further make the whole thing highly unreliable as a location for study. There really are only artificial environments in modern society. You'll never coax any general knowledge from a domesticated human frolicking around in profoundly artificial circumstance Look, if you want to know anything about the human condition and make a study of male vs female behavior you could simply study the playground at pre-school - that's it. After that human behavior descents into an increasingly warped, neurotic and overly conditioned stage play These academics are deluding themselves.

The dark allows the primal nature to overtake the domesticated self

@Special Ed lmao sucks to be you

@@jondough3339 well the subject is not about studying simply some primal nature is it? It is far more complex than that. Well, at least I hope it is..

My husband and I were a set up blind date. We talked on the phone for the first week or so and I don't know why or how but I swear I fell in love with him then. He later admitted he felt the same before he met me. When we met, sparks flew and we both knew we were "the one". I could just feel it in my gut that he was the man I was supposed to be with. going on 17 years and still happy. I know so many people who are married 20 or 30+ years and are toxic and miserable. People always ask us how do we stay happy but I think our personalities and core values just click and it works. I think that's difficult for people to find in a partner.

you're right. utterly true

Geez, you guys make it look so easy. Very happy for u.

Love that!

Ah you romanticized the mumble everyone's laughing at into a love song. A wink and a nod. "You say it best when you say nothing at all". And it is true too. The heart is of the body. It doesn't need words for others to know what it is saying.

Evolution psychology is not based on "clinical" evidence, it is based the racial prejudice of old white men...

@@msp5138 You talked about prejudice and used race a pejorative in the same sentence. Very funny joke. Good job making fun of non-sensical things confused people sometimes say. Although you laid it on a little thick. I don't think anyone is REALLY as dense as you are pretending to be

We all have our own 'truths' in life and it still is very much socially acceptable to give unsolicited advice. Take any random conversion and a lot of the time it is about people complaining about other people, so I guess everybody has their conclusions about the opposite sex.

I think they want to want what they say they want. They want to be judged well, and they adjust their responses based on that. But I think they also answer not only based on their expectation of what would make the interviewer view her most favorably, but how she would like to view herself. I think they’re often less dishonest with interlocutors than they are with themselves.

@@jamescostello2257 I think you could easily apply that analysis to humanity in general regardless of gender.

Definitely. Women can go to the grave and never revealed alot of personal stuff.

Yeah because she lies to you lol

That for sure

Yes

Probably, and IMO men 15 years older or more have been nicer to me than guys my age. They're experienced and confident enough to be polite, initiate good conversation, and treat me well, which is very different to other more typical guys my age

Honestly it might be the maturity level. They're hoping he's done his glory days & will have matured into a decent person with women & interested in having a family. Income is part of that willing to invest but sort of comes with the older people have more money & more financial stability in general so there's that. Being that much younger means you'll be the last hottest piece he can get...unless he has ridiculous money & then you might not be lmao.

YES. 100%

Mature young men are very rare nowadays.

No pop

The societal aspect is quite simply dictated by the evolution of selective mating. What you think is "societal" is simply a manifestation of that evolution viewed through the lens of different cultures. Put another way, societal influence is just the way in which the same selective mating behaviors show themselves. It's a veneer. Thus, it would appear you're missing the forest for the trees.

@@Chris-es3wf That is complete nonsense. Cultures diffier greatly not only across the planet but in the US idiot...

Funny how this clown can't explain the dropping birth rates across industrialized societies...

What kind of red flags please ? Looking for avoiding mistakes here

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. I met my wife on a blind date in '72. She still looks like a french model and because she was a hair stylist, I still look 39. 😉

Easy to say till Megan the Stallion winks at u 🤭😁🏃

Focus on yourself king 👑

Men can't be friends with women... it's makes them dry up downstairs...

Women are counterintuative. checkout rollo tomassi the rational and the unplugged alpha by rich cooper

I've heard actually intelligent women dumbing themselves down in conversations to be attractive to men. But it's a self defeating strategy (if it even works, which I doubt) as the women wouldn't be content with a guy that's dumber than them anyway. Apparently they failed to consider that the only dumb men (if any) might be "intimidated" by intelligent women.

as a woman who is genuinely disheartened and disgusted by this entire comment section, I actually respect this comment the most.

@@ApparentlyNott to be in a feel good mood, go watch Steve Harvey's shows. Only stay here if you have the mental fortitude to listen to the truth.

@@ApparentlyNott no need to hurt yourself by listening the bitter truth

@@WoodenWizard I understand what you are saying. There is a big difference between informing and teaching about our culture and bias society without being bias. Or just promoting your own agenda without any research "bias".

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Peterson just an misoginyst fool that's it

How you get halfway through when it was only posted 9 minutes ago?

Oh dear, a new Religion, Jordanism

@@bradbecker8982 It's not like UKposts always gives correct information. He has no reason to lie. Now go suckle Karl Marx.

agreed dude. unequivocally correct man

whats dr buss's specialist subject?

I am curious on what you wrote about? If you can share the essay or essentially just share some points here

That's disgusting.

The most weird thing about sexual selection that I have read is in one of Richard Dawkins' book. It's called the handicapped theory. In the book, Dawkins said when he first heard of it, he thought it was rubbish, but then, he became to think sort of like, "Well, it may be true." The theory is that females choose the males that have features that can hinder his surviving ability, like the long and large tail of a male peacock. The logic is that, if the male have survived after spending a lot of his nutrition on that useless thing and successfully escaped from predators with that heavy thing attached to him, he must really be good at surviving.

@@baswold7979 hahah

@@typingcat This is an interesting theory. However this only goes for certain type of species. Most do not have a disadvantage and they are chosen BECAUSE of it, most are chosen because of their strength´s.

And isn't it interesting how, historically, feminists find those places offensive? Sure, they can call men pigs, but consider that a man has access to places where he knows he'll be treated well by women. Alternatively, it's a bar, club, etc., where women withhold attention and selfishly determine his value. Such women hate that men have an alternative to their control schemes and don't need to line up for evaluation and promises of benefits.

@@apostate2730 I remember the 2000s when they first came into school. I can't imagine young guys trying to date nowadays with the way women are with their phones.

@@bobsondugnutt9914 Wow you just blew my mind with that. I dated a feminist for years and everything you said was so true. For feminists, they claim that it's just about women's rights but what they don't admit is that it's also about control.

Yes, the average loser guy

Hypergamy ensures high quality gene selection.

Humor is so high key it’s insane. I can’t date a bore, shouldn’t imagine spending the rest of my life with a funny-less man

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v humor is important only if you find the man you are talking to attractive in the first place. If you're short and ugly no amount of humor will save you

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v I audibly chuckled at funny-less. Thanks!

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Male resspect for women is clearly going out the door this day and age.

@@Sacrilege83 I really don’t think men started it though tbh

Except when chastity isn't demanded from men.

Yes, there's an old saying "Momma's Baby, Poppa's Maybe" lol And FYI, it doesn't matter if a girl is very promiscuous (sleeps with a lot of men), as long we're very attracted to them. Most, if not all, men will still have kids with and be in a long-term relationship with a girl they are very attracted to, even if she's promiscuous. And just to clarify, Beauty is subjective, what I find attractive in a woman won't necessarily be what my younger brother finds attractive etc. The reason we dislike promiscuity in women is because we have the fear that she'll be promiscuous with us, that she'll cheat on us because she already sleeps around with a lot of men to begin with. So it's not the past acts that bother us but the fear that she'll do it to us. That's it, that's why we don't like it. That's why men avoid promiscuous women, out of fear that it'll happen to them. But ask any man who his dream girl is (every guy has one lmaoo) and tell them: She'll fall in love with you, have your kids, marry you and be completely loyal to you (never be unfaithful), but the catch is, she slept with one hundred men before she met you. Most men would forgive his dream girl's promiscuity if those were the terms: 100% faithful, madly in love with you, and eager to have your kids (we love creampies lmaooo). Any man who denies this is likely not being honest tbh lol

Not having sex until marriage only made sense before contraception was invented.

now tell us the truth

probably he just knows what you like to hear.

@@Vitek9326 absolutely, but he’s still with me

@@mak7587 Nonsense, all part of life! Congratulations.

You left out the part about him being white...lol

translation: I didn't actually listen to this video at all...

that's Disney for you. Corrupting little girls since WW2 :) I don't let my daughter watch frozen and all the princess bullshit. Life is not binary

Disney propaganda

not only Disney, the music industry, hollywood, tv ads, social media. They are so damaging to our society.

Every woman’s dream? Care to cite any studies that proves 3.5 billion people have the same dream? And if it is every woman’s dream doesn’t it follow its every mans dream as well. In fact, can it not be further concluded that every social species member wants status and security?

That’s soo true. I grew up in the 60s, heavily influenced by tv’s portrayal of what a relationship should look like. I was always looking for Prince Charming, and it took many failed relationships to realize I was brainwashed. Meanwhile men are now raised on porn and are looking for a porn star.

It's not quite true. Self esteem has nothing to do with outer things as career or something.

Women are counterintuative. checkout rollo tomassi the rational and the unplugged alpha by rich cooper

I saw him in Texas in January. Before the talk he greeted people in line. Missed that opportunity to meet him and never had another….

Nice one!

Ooooo! Let us know how it goes!!

Im jealous I think the world of him enjoy your time!

Oh I’m jelly, have a great time

That's like saying pornography is a good way to learn about sex.

@@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 Perhaps it's useful in learning what not to do by identifying the elements that are grossely absurd as well.

@@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 So I found this movie, it's called "When Harry Ate Sally"

@@jpn8959 That escalated quickly lol

I actually found that movie to be quite misleading. I learned to understand women by reading NON-fiction. I recomended The Red Queen, it’s also by an evolutionary biologist, so it has similar insights to the ones in this video.

Thats what you got wrong Women can choose you, but relationship depends entirely on men

Women dictate access to sex, men dictate access to marriage.

As a man I've felt this myself as well. I choose who to apporach, yet since I'm apporaching her in the first place it means I have some interest already, she doesn't and can accept/reject me at the spot.

@ zoidberg if You let them

@@anabolicchicken4115 it's a double edge sword Women are the selectors, however, they only choose from their social circle and only from the men aproaching them Men, on the other hand, since they are the ones aproaching, they can select outside their close social circle Women hold the power to the acces of íntimacy, but men hold all the power about relationship/marriage But men need to open their eyes to this very fact

Sadly, most men will ignore all this and want to try it out for themselves smh "Counsel and advice them, if they resist, let adversity teach them."

Too scared to live. A bit of discernment will get you through. Life is risky if you choose to engage with it. Or you can hide under a blanket and become a MGTOW guy.

Oh, you were sent your own way. I gotcha

@@arisenryan You have to acknowledge that there are some people who are not willing to take significant amount of risks.

@@Saad72Shahriar Ur Currect Sir

Epigenetics. Trauma activates the epigenomic trait.

Yeah this is actually hilarious “men don’t care, as long as you can mumble, or not even” then Jordan exhales air from his nose because he thinks it’s funny, but he’s trying not to laugh because it’s politically incorrect to laugh at such a disrespectful comment, even tho it’s actually the funniest thing I’ve heard today. Also hearing a man with a doctorate degree say something so relatable is just amazing. We men don’t give a shit if she can mumble or not. Funny

when young boys get told to listen and agree with women just bc they're women. and young girls get told to do whatever they want bc they're free, strong and independent yet men in society somehow are patriarchs that owe them... what can you expect!

Biology: dominance, food (money), reproduction. That is it.

I disagree I think real women like men who are responsible … I know some world famous leaders who are real men for their wife …

Any woman who responds to an ad with that negative in it is bound to have low self-esteem to begin with, and as such, will be a bad partner. If you phrase your ad positively (and keep the negative in your mind), you'll get women who are emotionally healthier. If I saw an ad like that, I would intuit that the man has had other bad relationships and is referring back to them instead of being firm in a new resolve to be emotionally healthy. It's not recommended to talk about feelings from bad experiences in the first part of dating, let alone even before the first date.

@@kjames5682 you have to be very careful dating as not all is as it seems. There are some really trouble makers out there and many that are dishonest. It can be too late if you commit to one and God forbid have kids. That will become one of the worst nightmares of your life. Woman like confidence too. But I don't like the game.

The only reason the men were more willing to have sex, is because it is considered ok for men to be promiscuous. For women, they will be sex shamed. In truth, a woman masturbates just as much as men at night when it is dark. Just that it is in the dark and so you don't know that they do. Trust me, those women that said no, only said it because it is frowned upon. If you wait 10 years, and somehow the world accepts women to be promiscuous, believe me, there will be a 75 percent shift in favor of yes to sex, in women

It isnt helping, we already know women are the choosers and go for tall good looking men, nothing new.

Don't listen to videos like this. They severely underplay men

Only if your a clown or black pill do you think that these videos “under play men” clown

Same. Life is better now.

We are evolving beyond sex 🤯

Preach brother, and Amen.

I think that comes with age. Its biology. Teens and 20's men are raging with sex hormones and preoccupies almost every thought and action. In the 30's they start to settle down and can focus better.

Women never had power over you , it was your drive for sex that had power over you . Once you stopped letting sex have power over you the better your life became . you were the cause and you were the cure .

Yeah… they gotta be attractive for a woman to want them. But men also want to be attracted to the woman. I guess people need to stay in their lanes. 😂

Passing that test. 😂 like if women bring a lot of value to the table

There are a lot of ugly grooms. And brides.

The only reason the men were more willing to have sex, is because it is considered ok for men to be promiscuous. For women, they will be sex shamed. In truth, a woman masturbates just as much as men at night when it is dark. Just that it is in the dark and so you don't know that they do. Trust me, those women that said no, only said it because it is frowned upon. If you wait 10 years, and somehow the world accepts women to be promiscuous, believe me, there will be a 75 percent shift in favor of yes to sex, in women

@@stactionsmedia3318 Men have to bring so much more to the table to have multiple options. A woman is born with that value. Also when a woman gets pregnant she always knows that the kids are hers, the men don't. That's because is okay socially for a man to be promiscuous but not for a women

cant wait to have 3 hour discussion for why exploiting sentient being is acceptable moraly if we can find complete essential nutriment in plants :D hes so bright and yet so closed on that topic of "unessential suffering for sentient being" cause hes a bit masochist in "finding god in suffering life is fuferign". thefore slaughterhouses by the billions so cattle can transcend their ego trough facing essential head cutting suffering, and force impregnating and kidnaping their babies for veals and milk. "i mean a less cruel future is possible and actualy trying to happen but...|" *start ranting philosophical reason to exploit unnessesarily sentient beings

Women are counterintuative. checkout rollo tomassi the rational and the unplugged alpha by rich cooper

Not to mention its from 1982

Women are counterintuative. checkout rollo tomassi the rational and the unplugged alpha by rich cooper

Weren't the Kinsey experiments redone a few years ago? They had thousands of participants.

Speaking for myself im definitely choosy who I have sex with bc of that social conditioning that women are labeled sluts for having sex

Or is what society expects of them a product of innate differences in how they choose partners? Biological differences are nature and nurture, not just nurture and not just nature.

Well that’s simply one of the reasons, among others, that constitutes exactly WHY women ARE picky. Due to evolutionary necessity for women’s safety, The picky-ness was never just about physical attraction for women. For men it actually is just that simple. That’s the reason women are more picky.

Well said 🙏🏻 I was thinking the same

@@seankearney-mcmanus4486 I don't interpret a woman being concerned for her safety as being picky though, especially if the desire to have sex with the stranger is still there. In this context I interpreted 'picky' to mean assessing the quality of a potential mate and if he doesnt meet a certain standard based on a variety of factors then the woman feels the man is inadequate. Women hold men to a much higher standard in that regard (for casual sex), which is separate from their concern for their own physical safety. They may look at the guy and think he is an absolute catch and sex with him would be great, but still say no because of the safety risk. I dont think that is the same as looking at a guy and thinking he is way below my standard because of his clothes, his looks, his job or his height ect. Also the stranger danger factor is not a trait of that male person per se. It's just a standard yes or no thing which has nothing to do with the womans assessment of how desirable the man himself is. It's more situational rather than an assessment of the man. To me, that is not what is meant by picky in this context, but I could be wrong.

That explains why women are increasingly hooking up with complete strangers on sites like Tinder. lol

@LOWKEY COMM I'm not concerned with the reasons why this is so. The fact is if more and more women are hooking up online, then they are not as concerned with their personal safety, which contradicts a post written that women view their safety as paramount.

They get stupid women who happen to be pretty...lol.

Women are counterintuative. checkout rollo tomassi the rational and the unplugged alpha by rich cooper

It's not really that difficult. When culture or regions matter then those are simply a few exceptions but the rule still stands.

AMEN ... women absolutely cannot handle rejection. They also don't like being held accountable for their actions.

Women are viper