the fact that fraser said: “we never gonna kiss” 👀💓

this is no way platonic, i think luca was trying to show is how caitlin and fraser were still trying to discover their sexualities and realised labels doesn't matter. that kiss was them finally realizing their feelings for eachother since the beginning.

At first I thought it was cliche to put them together in the end because as the series was wrapping up I already accepted them as friends because in the very beginning of the season they each had a moment of attraction for each other, but then they were pushed into stereotypes of being gay and being transgender. When everyone looks at Fraser, they automatically assume he's gay from the way he looks and that sets him on a sexually confusing journey. When Caitlin and Fraser first meet, Fraser puts the idea in Caitlin's head that she might be transgender, but in reality she just likes to do what boys normally like to do. The message of the show is we shouldn't let society put labels on us. We Are Who We Are.

The passion in this kiss is just a chefs kiss

This is the most original, relevant and powerful love story i have seen in a long time. Relevant, cause it's made for this generation. Luca is the best in creating love stories .

This is one of the best endings I’ve ever seen. In a world where everyone is trying to figure out who they are. He truly loved her for who she actually was. Not who she was trying so hard to be or figure out to be. This is so poetic.

In the whole series their relationship was platonic, i didn't expect it this at all, i thought it'll stay platonic, i didn't expect much of a plot development or twist in this episode, kept my expectations low and just wanted to enjoy the concert tbh , i believe Luca's works are more characters and settings driven, this ending was very unexpected, and i think it is perfect . Love this, I cried in this scene, i don't even know why, something about being young and confused is the most beautiful thing ever.

Harper realized she didn't want to be a boy, she did it to make Fraser like her. In fact in the whole series they are getting to know each other and the point of the series is that sometimes we are wrong about our identity and that's fine ❤ He thought he was searching for a boy and she tought she was searching to be a boy but in actuality they were just searching for each other✨

That kiss had so much love understanding and happiness in it, I didn't even think it was possible. Imagine being understanding and loving of someone so complexed as either of these characters Caitlin saw Fraiser apathy to other people's grief his hate towards his mother she never judged him and Fraser saw Cate's gender dysphoria and was just there to accept her and love her..I just it was beautiful

By the end of the show, I wasn't rooting for Fraser and Caitlin to be together; I was just rooting for them to be happy, even if only for a moment. So to see her smile after he kisses her, to see genuine happiness etched on her face after she spent so much of the season wandering around lost and confused, that was something really lovely.

The title of the show is one of the most accurately executed titles I’ve came across. Us viewers trying to depict this scene and these characters, wanting to label their sexuality, preferred pronouns, love interest etc. While leaving a lot of those things up in the air. But this scene I believe tells you, it doesn’t matter what “you” think because to them “we are who we are” and that’s all that matters.

I Was Waiting for this Moment , i ship Fraser and Caitling so Much , They kiss was What i needed , i Love Happy Endings

when i first started watching i thought the show would basically help caitlin thru her trans journey and fraser realize hes gay, but throughout the episodes you could see that the only people there for them were each other. all this time i thought "we are who we are" meant caitlin was trans and fraser is gay but in reality its destroying those stereotypes and loving each other, regardless of what society thinks.

We need another season with them I don’t want it to end 😫

This brought me so much joy I didn’t know I needed

this scene living in my head rent free 24/7

THIS IS MY FAVORITE SCENE

this ending was perfect in my opinion. i believed it was clique to put them together at first but as the show went it was so unexpected for this scene to happen but it was perfect. people automatically assumed fraser was gay because of the way he carried himself but i truly don't believe it is that. gender anr sexuality are a spectrum and fraser and caitlin really showed that. i see some people saying that caitlin and fraser's relationship is platonic and i just can't agree with that. i say this because fraser always knew that their was tension between them. never have i had to clarify to a friend of mine "we won't kiss," fraser knew something was going to end up happening between them, but at the time he couldn't fathom it. a lot of people are confused by fraser and caitlin's characters, as well, but i believe fraser is on the autism spectrum and caitlin isn't transgender, but was finding herself. episode 8 is when you can finally see that the two characters realized they have feelings for each other. the whole season they tried to distract themselves with other people and things, and it was those last ten moments in episode ten where fraser and caitlin realized they don't need anyone else, but each other, and they didn't have much time left together because caitlin was leaving. their kiss was intimate, was nothing platonic, there was so much passion behind it compared to other kisses that they shared with separate characters on the shows. that is just my perspective on episode 8. :)

the way fraser keeps pulling caitlin to him 🥺🥺

I really loved this show. Specifically, Caitlin and Fraser's journey individually and together. From episode 1, I just kept trying to define things and to pin point what was happening (i'm an overthinker) but then it hit me that this show literally depicts life. And life can be whatever it wants to be. We label things to try and understand them to our limited knowledge but what's the point if life will just do it's own thing? Caitlin and Fraser's journey depict that. When they kissed, it was like a moment of letting go of labels and expectations but just allowing the love ,they have for each other, to lead them. It's brave how they unapologetically show themselves to the other but at the same time they're still figuring out who they are. It's a beautiful and hard thing, to just be whoever or whatever we are with the person or people we love. The possibilities for their relationship are endless. And I love that. Not everything in life has to be just one thing. This really was a coming of age series. The way Luca filmed this, I literally felt like I was walking alongside with them throughout it all.

This had me all in my emotions. Such a beautiful scene.

This scene was so powerful, i mean, it shows that the kiss wasn’t something sexual but an expression of tenderness, like when you got so many feelings for someone and it kinda overflows, only words or hugs or even kisses wouldn’t be enough to demonstrate how you love that person, how you appreciate that person in your life, how you glad to have that person. I love Guadagnino and really hope for an second season cause there’s so many subjects to continue and discuss, and would worth it

Since ep 1 I was rooting for them because when Fraser saw her he really "saw" her if you know what I mean, then they became friends and accepted, supported and love each other like no one else in their lives did. Sam told Caitlin, Craig said "they are soulmates" he was so damn right. When they kissed it wasn't a surprise for me bc I knew they had to realize by themselves after all those adventures they had with other people, they couldn't feel the same with them bc they were in love with each other. This is the best "best friends to lovers" storyline I've ever seen, their kiss was so passionate, sweet, pure & full of joy. ✨Masterpiece✨

What I love about this show is the fact that everyone has its own way of seeing it.Some see their realationship as platonic, some as romantic, but the point is : It is what it is...No less,no more... They are who they are

Perfect ending! I didn't think the kiss was sexual at all, more of just showing each other how much they mean to one another. So sweet.

Luca is a genius and knows how to hit the spot.

daaaaaamnnnnn that kiss was intense and so full of emotions

I’m so upset that we won’t be getting a season 2 😭😭😭😭 this show had so much potential

i could watch this for eternity, the way he kisses her head and all over face literally fills my heart w joy. such a young actor but he knows exactly how to make the entire room feel the love

I'm still not sure if I like this show but this was perfect

When I watched this the night it aired I was sobbing so badly my husband was like did someone die? "I was like no they kissed I'm so happy" LOL. I feel like my response was really weird, but so many emotions hit me at once the whole season built-up to that moment (The Kiss). They thought they were looking for other people to love them and something in themselves but they didn't have to change at all at the end they accepted themselves and fell in love with each other that was beautiful to me 😍😭.

I was waiting for this ever since the first trailer dropped 😭 btw, dang, this song was playing when fraser saw Caitlin at the beach Side note, dang Eddie from IT really knows how to kiss. O.o brilliant actor

This scene made me so happy. The way she started smiling after he kissed her as if she was waiting for it.

they really are soulmates they connection is totally there and i'm happy they ended up together

Saw this in a review from Ben Travers for IndieWire, where he articulated my exact thoughts and I quote "Fraser and Caitlin will not be dictated to; their actions aren’t determined by anyone else, and their choices are their own. They didn’t kiss for our benefit. They kissed for theirs. Whether you read the title as a defiant declaration (“We are who we are, damn it!”) or a shrugging catch-all…it’s unapologetic and honest, open-minded and well-intentioned." I want to praise Luca Guadagino for making this tender moment that made me cry and listen to Prince's "The Love We Make" for days. Also according to the article, Guadagino's writing team already wrote an outline for Season 2, and they’d very much like to continue these characters’ stories.

I watched this today and absolutely freaked out!! I was shocked that Fraser even kissed Caitlyn bc he made a deal that they wouldn’t ever kiss and then boom they did

we saw them kiss other people without any passion for 8 episodes and then they accepted that they like each other and they kissed and aaaah! AAAAH! IT'S LIKE THERE ARE FIREWORKS EXPLODING IN MY HEART!!!

My heart literally stopped at this scene😭❤

The way he kissed his forheaddd

I am so here for this ship!

promise never kept but what fueled the fire to begin with

So, this seems very nice, if I'm perceiving it correctly, is that Caitlin doesn't have to be defined as trasgender. She doesn't have to present herself as a feminine standard in society and is able to like "guy things." She can still be a girl, and it feels reassuring

This was the perfect ending imo. The way the kids was portrayed really showed what we were looking for throughout the whole series. I don’t think it was platonic; but I also don’t believe it was “sexual” yk? I think it was just where they truly found the answer, and they were grateful for that.

I don’t think the kiss was platonic in any way because the whole series and episode was both Caitlin and Fraser realising they’ aren’t who they’ thought they were. She realises she doesn’t wanna be a trans and Fraser realising he isn’t gay that’s why they both walked out on who they kissed in the episode. Their stories mirrored each other perfectly. The kiss was both of them accepting their feelings for each other imo

This is romantic as heck, don't know if they are together. Still can't wait for season 2

That forehead kiss felt so intimate

they made each to each other 🥺

I NEED A SEASON 2!!!!

I'm going to cry 😭

They truly love each other unconditionally and accept each other just as they are, like can you blame them for wanting to kiss? kissing it's a way of expressing the emotions that you feel that are going to burst out of your chest, we can all see the love in the kiss it's not passion it's pure love and excitement, yes It was unexpected but it wasn't wrong, because I don't think anyone it's surprised that they love each other (if we take away the labels and judgements that we made about them during the movie) that's exactly the point of the movie, let people be who they are, feel what they want to feel, without having to label them or them having to explain themselves. they don't have to explain to us why they suddenly realized they love each other and why they were confused and clueless of what's going on. we all are clueless most of the time, but we don't try to discover ourselves to the extend that they both did, they are young and they are in their self discovery journey, and they are unapologetic about not following guide lines, the whole series made us expect just a platonic relationship, but if they feel romantic about each other who are we to tell them what they feel or not based on behavior, there is not certain way people should behave to fulfill expectations, they are characters but they represent so many people, based on the negative comments I wonder how many people in real life have suppress their feelings just they were against "expectations" like dude let people live, even if it's random, like the fact that you don't understand them, doesn't invalidate their feelings or who they are. so yeah I don't think this movie is about trans or bi representation, it's just about people embracing who they are even if they don't know who they are. like read the the title of the series and try to understand the message that they were trying to give with the ending, they were just honoring the tittle.

It’s crazy how you can finish a Luca masterpiece feeling so full of cathartic emotions. I remembered feeling so alive after watching this series.

I love this show sm it's a masterpiece

I love this show so much. When i was growing up I felt confused about my identity, sexuality and gender. But growing up in a dominican household i was always told to hide my feelings or "Man up". I remembered as a kid i would asign different genders to house hold items like washers and dryers. I feel like if I had the freedom to explore my stuff like Frasier did. I wouldn't be Bipolar with General anxiety. This show does alot with letting people know that these things should be allowed to be explored without judgement. Its the minds and feelings of people needing that.

Why am I smiling like their proud mamma🤣😍

Fraser still has a lot to figure out, but at least he figured this one thing out.

Was Lucas real right before Fraser ran off to get Caitlin? Did anyone else notice he disappeared like a ghost after Fraser hugged him? Also I think Caitlin realized that she didn’t want to be a he/him. I felt she was jealous of the attention Fraser gave Lucas when they were in the car. Also in the earlier episode where they were looking at each other through iPads. I knew some feelings were goin on there.

The sounds lol but I SUPPORT ittttt!!!!

I’ve never seen this show before, but this scene alone-without context makes me wanna cry, in a good way😊it makes me feel warm.

LMAOOOOOO I HAVENT EVEN WATCHED THE SHOW I CANT STOP LAUGHING AT THIS OMFGGGG 💀

This show is sick

The fact they they agreed they were “never gonna kiss” and then this scene. I thought it was so cute

I honestly adored this show but I can't help the fact that I wasn't a huge fan of the ending and it makes me feel sad, because I thoroughly enjoyed this show. I think it may be because I saw a spoiler online. I think I really enjoyed their friendship and that I wanted it to remain platonic and not turn sexual and once they kissed, I thought their amazing friendship would turn into something more. I would like to think that the kiss was more symbolic of how much they both mean to each other and that they truly do love each other and it doesn't have to be sexual. I prefer having a show of a boy and girl becoming best friends than lovers. I think they are soul mates, but it doesn't necessarily have to be anything sexual. But otherwise, I loved this show and I'm definitely going to re-watch it soon and I feel like I will really enjoy it double the amount. ❤️ P.S. I also wanted to see all the other characters in the last episode and what they are up to. But I suppose it's left for the imagination. There is honestly so many questions I still have about.. Well, everything and everyone. 😂

Euphoria is overhyped while this is so underrated

I need a season 2 of them dating

Ok but just imagine how this feels behind the scenes xD

i read a comment say that this show is so good because everyone interprets it in their own way and i think that is so true! to me, this show doesn’t necessarily have a storyline, it is so natural like how life actually is. realistically, you don’t have a beginning, middle and end during your lifetime, you just let things happen naturally, and this is what the show captures. there are so many bumps, so many things that leave the audience confused or sad about, but it all happens so smoothly and naturally that you can be mad, you just roll with it too. and that’s why i love this show after watching it, because when i was actually watching it i didn’t understand it at all, but now i do after watching intervenes and reading comments like these. my absolute dream is to be in a movie/show like this, and to be one of these people you you can just realate to do much. ugh, this show is just so incredibly perfect.

this may just be my interpretation (and maybe i need to go back and rewatch the show) but i remember this ending seeming mildly platonic to me. after everything that happened fraser and caitlin were celebrating the state of authenticity and autonomy that they had both reached in their lives. and they celebrated by kissing each other because it was just the ultimate way to express their feelings; happiness and pride in themselves and for each other. we’re no longer meant to question what their sexualities are or whether or not caitlin is trans (or questioning or fluid) we’re just supposed to celebrate the calm they’ve reached.

cylia is typing..........................................................................................................................................................................................

*shivers in covid-19*

i hope we will get season 2

I wish I could find a relationship like this 🥺

Fraser has a lot left to figure out. But he does care for Caitlin.

this was beautiful and unexpected. WHOLESOME AHH i can cry happy

Who allowed this level of chemistry in one scene? I'm *dying* over here

yeah i definitely don’t come back to this video because i want someone to kiss me the way fraser kisses caitlin no way not me....

I waited for this part the entire show and when it finally arrived I had some feeling of happiness as they kissed but then slight sadness as I’m not sure that this kiss was meant to be passionate/sexual I’m guessing it’s just a thankful kiss of knowing each other and finally feeling as though they know themselves but I’m happy either way🤎

I’m lovin how I’m seein all these detail paragraphs about how wasn’t sexual it was just passionate be me, I’m just thinking “that boy WENT FOR IT!”

My favorite serie

Yeah it was clear to me. From the very beginning Fraser would stare at Caitlin / Harper at school and at home. He took pictures of her and later m--------ed to them if I remember correctly. And then the promise that they would never kiss and how defensive he was about people thinking they were dating, but they would watch each other fall asleep via video call while Caitlin was grounded. That seems more intimate than something you'd do with platonic friends. And Caitlin / Harper seemed passive about their relationships. But they texted Fraser the entire time they were hunting with their dad. And their dad seems to hate that they're growing up and becoming more distant from him and closer to Fraser. The passion that Fraser kisses Caitlin / Harper with and in the second kiss Caitlin / Harper pulls Fraser in for a kiss, reciprocating. He said before he didn't have the nerve with Mark but he actively went for Harper, followed him to the bar, accommodated his transness even though he felt conflicted at times about it, told him about trans stuff, used he / him pronouns for Harper in the car, cut Harper's hair (a big deal for trans men) gave Harper his clothes, which clothes are pretty important to Fraser. I think there is a message of it doesn't matter your sexuality or gender identity so much as long as you connect and love that person for who they are now. (But gay trans men exist, I am one and I think I wanted to see that. )

I LOVE THAT SCENE ITS SO CUTEE

I love this ending

Didn’t he say they weren’t gonna kiss 💀 oh well it was cute 🥺

essa série é incrível e mais incrível ainda é o prince tocar na cena final 🥹

this made me tear up and i haven’t even watched it yet

This may be a minor opinion, but for me, this kiss was a surprise that I haven't expected...ever. I mean, I've always seen Caitlin and Fraser as friends with different desires and even different spectrums of sexuality. I think they never showed any interest towards each other (if I'm wrong and there was a hint then I'm open to know what it was :)) and for me, it was kinda a random ending for a show. I expected Jonathan and Fraiser's relationship to go deeper...but it wasn't totally a real thing for me too (many people were talking about the age difference). Anyway, I realised that Caitlin's third kiss was the one that was finally good for her...well, third time lucky. But, on the other hand...is there anybody better for Fraiser here in Italy & for Caitlin too? They know each other well and they're connected because of music. But wasn't Caitlin supposed to leave the base? Or maybe it was just a kiss, without any further consequences? I like to discuss and this seemed like a great opportunity to talk about things. Any thoughts?

i hope they picked up their hats

Ohhhhh, I love it!

this seems so passionate, now I wanna watch it

i miss this show so very much

THIS WAD SUCH A PLOT TWIST

UGHHHHHHH THIS IS WHY IM SO IN LOVE WITH HIM🥺

Oh my God, they're so cute 😩😍😍

Please bring this back 😢😢

they kissed for 1:13 minutes 🤣!!

Siempre fueron ellos, siempre se buscaron ellos, todo se trató de ellos, no dios mío, amo.

I used to watch the episode when they first came out I used to count down the days and when the last episode came out and when they kissed I was so surprised but I somehow knew it was going to happen they had chemistry all throughout the show so

Why was this so cute 😩✌🏾

Watching this made me fell so single

The Meloncello in Bologna! Great location, love the place and the stairway up to san luca

I think Fraser is definitely attracted to guys but still trying to find out if his also attracted to girls. Caitlin/Harper is the only “girl” he feels drawn to in the entire series, and since the beginning they (Cate/Harper) were not very feminine. Unlike Britney and Sole who were clearly feminine and do things a girl is supposed to do, Fraser wasn’t attracted to them when they try something. As for Caitlin/Harper, they might be trans or non binary, it was clear that they were not comfortable being seen as a girl, but felt confuse because they like guys (they def felt something for Fraser through the series) and was trying to like girls as a man is supposed to. At the end I think bot realised that, as the title says, We are who we are, Fraser and Cate/Harper are still trying to find themselves but that’s okay. They don’t need to rush.