all of this isnt taken in one shot scenes like this mostly are taken in two to three shots

Savage 9X9 that is true but both actors came to set fully memorized regardless

@@tkokflux6322 Adam Driver is a theatre actor, he knows the whole scene word for word

It's not that hard to learn a scene it just takes repetition

@@kadrianenyia_ yeah of course every time when i go on the set i am always ready its just that i told him thats this isnt all shot in one take

Nick Maxwell yep!

“Oh boy can I” -Adam

He’s such an amazing actor

The dark side is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be... unnatural

Without any tears too. Now that’s acting

one of the truest things ive ever read

I'm experiencing this rn

i love that

Damn. That hit.

Most importantly: Never guilt the kids by saying the reason they are or aren't divorced is because of them

The problem was they never communicated. Their connection was broken as human beings. If they managed to stay... Idk man. There's a lot of people that stay through thick and thin and remain married till death. I guess marriage story is just a story where the marriage fails. Because of so many things.

69th like ayy. But true.

@@nickname8619 Everything is easier when you sit down and have a clear communications on the problem, the thing is, us humans, most of the times let our emotion and ego rein instead.. I respect those who can control their emotions and express themselves clearly when it comes to serious case like marriage.. because my parents sure fucking don't.

@@hiunaut2833 we learn from their mistakes and come forth to do better. That's my belief at least. So not everything is bad; people suffer so they can improve their situation.

Alisky this is why you should choose who your baby daddy or baby mama is carefully because they could be in your life forever

@Tobyy I could of never guessed smh

Fabio wow! Dude... that totally never would’ve crossed my mind! A true intellectual right there

@@Itsezyyyy__ Really???? Are you sure???????

Holy shit I guess I should have thought about that before getting a girlfriend 😔

best comment lmao

😢

Trauma

Cheer up yo

well that’s kinda dark

I mean, my abusive parents were like this without divorcing, I remember wishing they did, so that I had to endure living with just one at a time. Abusing families are just like this and worse. It'd be amazing to be on the "wow this is exaggerated" side tbh

@@cecilialovalvo5709 Was just about to say this.

Literally no one said that this was an over exaggerated performance, everyone is saying that it's awesome

Honestly this happens other relationships as well. They don't have to break apart because of arguments like these

I mean, this is how my parents were. I grew numb to it by like, 10 years old.

lmao no. It's a profession with an enormous glut of people trying to get in and talent is not the rate limiting step. There is a small pool of people with the traits needed to be a navy seal or neurosurgeon.

​@@axt2What's even the correlation? She never said that being an actor is the hardest job out there.

⁠​⁠​⁠@@axt2they said acting is hard, not acting is harder than being a navy seal or a neurosurgeon. I mean seriously what neuron fired in your mega brain to make you comment that shit, next time don’t say anything

@@axt2 but, those professions don't contribute to the soul. People who use arguments like you forgot that at the end of the day, it is entertainment that we turn to, to soothe the shitness that is life. All the people who had hard professions are also nerds in some way, they need entertainment too. Being entertained is an absolute necessity for humanity.

It can be, but in films, it's usually easier because of time and editing. This also has great writing, which does a lot of the work for an experienced actor.

Director with kylo ren voice : MORE!

I know its a joke but it would not be a big deal since there are multiple shots in this scene

@@saveriodave that's a lot

😭😭💀

😂

If only "V.O." meant voice over. Imagine having some rando stumble into narration unaptly, "Hey! Try the chair by that window..." followed by "Yeeeaaaah that looks wicked. Nice nice nice. Symbolis--err something, hell yeah! Thanks a ton writer guy!"

Just trying to be usefull

🤣🤣🤣

@@SameGProds I'm pretty sure it means voice offscreen

My contributing to the group project after doing none of the work

Yeah, a lot of the people trying to pick a side are actively missing the point this film is making.

@@waxsaw5352 I think everyone understands they're both bad people, but the way Nicole fucked Charlie over with the lawyers despite them agreeing on how to handle it makes her the worse person to me

@Harry Armes idk dude, he cheated on her so in my opinion he's worse. Mf cheated but still wanted an award for not cheating on her sooner lmao.

he cheated but then got mad that she didn’t appreciate how he didn’t cheat on her sooner. Are you fucking joking?

​@@iamshakuriHe's a narciassist 😅

Or being able to start crying in the middle of the line exactly when it says to. Not just once for one take either. Over and over and over. That was truly amazing to witness

now can we get a movie from henry's perspective

Why would kids be divorced

You mean kids of divorce?

YEP. Real life >> movies. And we oscar winning performances each day in our own lives, including us.

@@micahkohn LOL

Virtual Warp nearly.

@@finnthefinn Right, some words are left out. But not much. Which is remarkable.

Facts. So it must really be a testament to Noah Baumbach as a writer that he was able to pen something so organic and heartfelt that it hardly needed any improvisation because it really just rolled off the tongue once the actors got into the headspace of the scene... Fantastic work.

Yes, I keep hearing the director really wanted them to stick to script bc he hears it perfectly in his head and that's how he wants it on film... Hats off to him, and the actors.

Scarlett said in an actors on actors interview with Chris Evans that Noah Baumbach never allowed his actors to deviate/improvise from the script, that it had to be word for word

Do a double backflip off a cliff, pretty please, with a cherry on top.

@@junebug2325 Kid what 🤨❓

@@junebug2325 Death threats are not funny.

Pfp check out

@@junebug2325 double pfp check out

I'm glad to have experienced it young. It still horrified me how much I reminded myself of what I'd seen. So much I promised myself I wouldn't do, only to go to wayside when trust is broken 1 too many times

I had a relationship like this, and it was much worse than this when I was 18 and with a 35yo man. It can happen when you're younger too

I liked neopets

Sad about your parents. But funny comment. 😂

And they did specials on holidays!

You made my day 😂😂

same 😍

lol this is the one. all the other comments can leave

It’s been a WHILE since I’ve seen a scene so human before.

You’re the problem

@@21stcenturyanimation81 ?

@@21stcenturyanimation81 Elaborate

@@21stcenturyanimation81 I, shrimp, don't comprehend your communication. Please, elaborate your statements a bit more clearly

THIS COMMENT TOOK ME OUT LMAO

Poor neighbours:/

Plus the crying and all ? :)))))) uhhhhh boiiii

lmaoooo they filming a short film

.🤔😑.

Exactly why Noah Baumbach deserves to win an Oscar. his writing in this movie is so gut wrenching, and his directing, like THE TALENT!!

roxylove honestly liked what they were saying more than how they said it. definitely not a fan on the performance aspect of this film.

I replied it twice when he said "You shouldn't be upset that I fucked her you should be upset that I had a laugh with her" Good writing.

@@rwyr72finally! thank you

"I can't believe I have to know you forever" such good writing

deep right??

I don't get it... Can you explain me???

@@aizuaizu5073 So I think what it means is that Scarlett Johanson's character wanted to get married but by getting a divorce she's loosing. So it doesn't matter if the odds are in her favour during the divorce process (so she's "winning") because by divorcing in the first place, she already lost. That's what I understood and sorry if I didn't explain myself properly, English isn't my first language 😅

@Madi Hermosa When I first watched it I inmediatly thought that when she says, that she reffers that she wanted to get marry when he didn't. She already lost because their relationship wasn't as good as she thinks, and she delivered herself to someone that didn't love her as much as she did.

Aaa I see thank you guys now I understand about that... Now I really afraid for getting married or falling in love when I grow up... My parents always fight each other too... Thank you guys for your explanation

D E E P

YO SAME

The improvisasor😎

you didn’t need a script either when you left your wife and daughter back in florida

that's a lot coming from Jotaro himself

Max right!! how could nobody talks about this line in the comments🥺🥺 that line was strong af

Didn't ask

@@sabus1265 i did

Yet if a woman slept with someone else, it's not met with this same logic. Smh.

@@sakotsuku as a man, I can tell youb it is, but a man gets labeled as insecure if he were to be that keen on the connection his womn is making with a man. His point rubg to me, that he was a taunch monogimist for her that she was so entitled to, she's more focused on the end game as opposed to how it even got to thT point.

Fan fact:Kylo ren and black widow died in same year

@@tvalokibatman6563 TRUE hahahaha

These performances are examples of how great these actors really are. Remember when people thought you couldn't be a real actor and still do those lame ass type of roles?

Loki 2012 Batman black widow died 2023

@@Sh1ryyu Kylo Ren died a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away....

Oh wow. Adam Driver did add the "and i kinda did" after he said he was afraid to loose his 20s

@@sarahs6712 Scarlett missed the “how could you” line too

@@kittylouvex and adam the second "you're welcome" too

@@kittylouvex I'd say that the changes were deliberate ones done in a later version or on the day. Because they did something like 50 takes of the scene. They would have had takes with those lines. Also, on a set you have someone watching every single line. Because every single change in a line, or movement or different delivery can ruin the continuity and pace. There's no way they accidentally left out parts of the script.

She added the word "so" I heard. Take the Oscar way.

R.J Ley Said haha it’s funny you say that, because it’s this kind of intense stuff that would make me want to be an actor

@@selenacasanova5227 dew it

Selena Casanova lol same

@@selenacasanova5227 same

But it’s worth it

Elise Langseth YOOOO SAME the whole time i was watching i was like mm yes wow reminds me of my purely traumatic childhood 😫😫

Same

It reminded so much of my parents that I cried a lot

Elise Langseth same

My parents ain't getting a divorce and it's been years. They do this everyday.

Ah yes, now this here is what we call an “underrated comment”

Well, that's sad

I'm so sorry about that! But your comment made me laugh. Hope you're okay ❤️

that’s why they’re such great actors. they (probably) hardly know each other and made it feel like your parents fighting lmfao

😂😂😂

I am so sorry about that though

the only thing that isn't realistic is the woman would probably blame him more about how anwful her life has been because of him she would try to tell herself that she was a complete victim, and they would also both talk over each other

@@Fbitypeshit who hurt you

spaghettibolognese no one lol i’m just being realistic my friend

No it’s not lol

Body language is a gamechanger.

And you see Nicole aint even flinching, she knows he did not meant to say those words.

Rahul Mondal-tbf I noticed in Star Wars The Force Awakens that I was finding his character more interesting than anyone else, more than the heroes. More or less the same for The Last Jedi...until they made him into ‘angry screaming man’ by the end. The guy has got ability, sign of a very observant person and knows how to express emotion without doing the text book approach. Scarlett does really well too, but I feel like this scene was Adams

I think it's also meant to communicate the intensity of his emotions. Just a second ago it seemed like he hadn't loved her, but afterwards it's this outburst and you know, he did. He did, he's just at the end of the line.

domino2515 thing is too is the dialogue, it’d be considered ‘bad writing’ by some people...but those people have never had an argument like this before. whether it be a teenager to a parent, a partner to a partner, it’s all the same. That kind of row where you both get lost in your anger for each other that you almost stop making sense. Where there isn’t a well constructed argument but just a bucket of feelings and emotions come pouring out and when it’s over you just feel distraught or confused. Just bottled up emotions that come from past neglect, ego, selfishness or pain and it all bubbles to the surface. This just felt so real. As a dude, I know what Adams character is trying to say, and at its core it’s like deflection. He fucked someone else so he’s attempting to dampen the significance of it by saying that laughing with her was more important xD it’s almost laughable to an extent but it’s so real too. That’s what real arguments are like and I’m shocked it was portrayed so well. Script, acting, everything. Great scene. Although I did enjoy that joker film, I feel like this movie should have been up there for an award imo. It really hits close to home for anyone who has experienced this kind of thing. Definitely gonna be a movie that’s appreciated more over time

@@TheArsenalgunner28 I don't know who'd think thiswas badly written. The writing in this is amazing. It's the kind of stuff I love in good books, when the characters come alive, instead of being like little figurines of plastic.

Tells you how sad some childhoods are

@@gagefulmer6375 and that too 😕

@@gagefulmer6375 Honestly. It’s really heartbreaking hearing parents talk about how their marriage was already on the outs before having a kid, but they stuck with it thinking having said kid would fix all their problems, but in actuality all it did was cause them more grief.

@@gagefulmer6375 your acting like 70% of marriages don't end in divorce lol

@@xtracheezyy9173 That was the case for my parents. LOL, I guess...

I felt that the majority of the movie was monologs. It was so unique.

Yea it’s so real. It was too real that it made me emotional so I had to stop watching

Fun fact: In a TED Talk, Adam Driver said he actually used to perform at plays and made a foundation for vets who want to get into acting.

There are movies like that. They are called "european films".

@@JasminTheDreamer I've seen European films, I'm from there and I can agree and disagree with you on this. Yes European films are a lot less sensationalized than American movies. This movie was just like that. But the sheer amount of playwriting and focus on just two people and the amount of monologues they had was just something I had NEVER seen.

felt this ...

This video made me cry.........

Childhood nostalgia???

"Nostalgia"

Wow slow down there cowboy

No kidding. That's the worst part to me. Once it's out there you can never take it back. And no matter how much the other person says they forgive you, they'll never forget it.

This is the most emotional scene of this film. Just like in most arguments...there's no way out bcs both of them already had some principle. They're not solving problems..they're just venting. And having problem that hasn't solved is indeed exhausting...mentally and physically. :"(((

No, it's so forced and unnatural and they're not even fighting about anything. They're just fighting for the sake of fighting. Embarrassing.

​@@thatsalt1560 yeah, maybe they are fighting out of nothing. But have you ever live in an abusive household? Did your parents divorce? Have you ever been on a toxic romantic relationship? If you ansered no to the three questions, then you would never understand why people say that this is so realistic.

@@thatsalt1560If you had parents like this, you’d no it’s not even remotely unrealistic

I have similar feelings by my parents at home :) Or is it home ?

I feel like I'm the neighbor watching my neighbors fight

exactly

@Brick Films Adam is one of the best actors of this generation.

@Brick Films A little man called Martin Scorsese described him as one of the best actors of his generation so you know, even if you don't agree, there's some merit to that statement. And last I checked, crying is part of acting.

@Brick Films Lol Scorsese can make a better film in his 'senile' state than any of the Marvel films you worship

Brick Films Lol, you don’t even know his opinion on marvel movies either. He said multiple times he doesn’t hate them or thinks they’re bad, all he said is that he doesn’t believe it’s cinema and their like amusement rides. Scorsese could give less of a shot if marvel is successful, he’s perfectly fine with his art.

@Brick Films You are aware, that Adam Driver, is like, an amazing actor, right? Star Wars arguably held him back.

Fr

Like when someone tell you something shocking or shout at you and you only are able to think " oh shit what's happening. Make it stop. Do I have to do something. I don't want to. I just want to leave. But I can't "

pure oscar worthiness

Right! Exactly the reason why he's one of my favorite actors. Pure gold

Shits happened to me with my girlfriend, I’d be in a rage and say something I didn’t mean and instantly regret it. Worst feeling ever.

@@aidenral4532 I know pal. I know :( it feels the worst

Thats not acting i think he straight up became the character LOL

She's very selfish after the divorce too though

saeta I think she deserves to be selfish after years of molding herself to fit his lifestyle and to sweep his selfishness under the rug so he could prosper. She said no to big roles in tv just for him. I think she has a right to be selfish after this

I have ears too

@@saeta well, yeah. The whole point is that they're both imperfect people. There's no real "winner" in this scene or movie. Taking sides misses the point.

@@printthelegends very very true.

I'm witnessing this conversation in my life for so long now ( probably everyday ) that's why it didn't make me sad.

truth

Infinity Frost yes.

Infinity Frost watch joker that will make you happy.

🥺

gaslighting perfection

Yes but it's the "you're such a d*ck?" for me😭

@@360.Tapestry what gaslighting? She was right.. he fucked a woman doesnt he? And he didnt think he was wrong wth.

@@xtianchen7977 everyone is selfish. It’s human nature. If you watched the movie she did some things that weren’t the best to him too

@@xtianchen7977 Gaslighting is when someone tells you that you did something you didnt often enough that you begin to doubt your own actions. Its a disgusting form of non physical abuse.

Exactly the same, but my mom fell asleep while watching

Ok boomer

Yes I bet your dad said that, because you know say random shit that would be really weird to say to your kid.

@@sick4652 Ok doomer

Hanzade Erdoğan ok coomer

Irvine Brooks Agree!

ehh its okay it s a bit overdone

true, like from scent of a woman. or Shawshank redemption, there is so much.

You're a genius i want this

bad idea

This. THIS is the part that kills me, because I've said it before, and know that feeling

There wasn't really anything he could say to that though. What do you say? "No?" Soometimes it's just easier to go back to a different point in an argument. Not good communication, but that goes out of the window in a heated argument.

tsuyoi_hikari easily the best AND worst thing about the film is in a sense you empathize/sympathize with both of them.

@@Tharrel you really thought that your comment was smart ? To say something like this in a heated argument. It take a lot of guts, so no change the subject wont help. She was asking for answers, and he just ignore that part. You can see how much it affected her through her eyes. If you really love and care for that person, you cant just let itt go

@@lune5289 it seems like *someone* emphasized with one of the characters only lol

I think he just lost breath from all the other lines but other than that 👏

@@larsmars2180 Yes, and that happens when you are so angry that you wanna continue fighting although you end up out of breath, more real it couldn't be!

dang i never noticed this subtlety until u pointed it out, but his delivery is really heartbreaking

I am sure that they are having a little disagreement

Watch Blue Valentine

Those two weren't ready to be married

Same here...I want to but then I don't want too. It's complicated feeling.

Literally my parents marriage did the same to me.

a relationship is less permanent. marriage you have to deal with money, credit, place of residence, ownership and like the movie- kids so a lot more anxiety down that route

Fancy seeing you here

🥰🥰 I loved seeing your comment on here!

omg i’m shocked to just stumble upon a comment of his

Lovely seeing you here Damon D 🇫🇷

Practice

Talitha Sabrina Right, it‘s not about how much you love the person when you love them, but how much you love them when you hate them.

It did really exist in real life i think

Yuki yuka yes it did exist. I myself do the same thing to someone i love. It’s just you can relate so much when you see this scene. Beautifully convinced us that this scene really feels like a real life, not a movie. Dont u think?

Came to realise that liking someone is much more important than loving them

Lol 😂

What? Lol

@@antieverything at the end of the script

I like my chairs with hot sauce and a side of french fries with honey mustard.

1000th like 😁

they both killed it

They're talking about him because he has most of the lines ... count them.

idk why but some of her delivery kinda made me laugh, the "you didnt love me as much as I love you" especially, like I dont think it was due to bad acting I think it was just the way she said it.

@@shady8045 fair point, but it's also kind of true to life. When folks are arguing, not everything comes out perfect. No guarantee they'd planned that at all, since it could have just been a bad read, but I think it's one of those slips that makes a conversation sound more natural

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Oh yes, I can totally understand where you're coming from.

Me too dude

You can as well be happily married. I know only one couple that argued like this, they broke up after 6 years.

I feel ya. Still better to risk it. Living forever in the shadow of something is rarely better. Having totally fucked up marriage, and gone through 4 terrible divorce years, I learned more about myself than I ever knew. But it’s also true that many fail to integrate their shadow and are scarred for life. But never risking everything for love is its own invisible wound for life, isn’t it?

So it’s only will make you unhappy for other reasons…

Same

Same

well that's what adam did

Congrats on never being in a horrible relationship lol. This was me from the age of 20 to 24 with my childhood sweetheart.

@Mabe 1220 I am much better now, thanks. My advice to anyone younger is to know your worth and not be tied down so young!! If you’re twenty and dealing with someone’s crap you don’t have to be!!! Focus on you! And if they put their hands on you once, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN!

Yep, this gives me flashbacks to my step dad

@@rachel-df1jp ouch much?

@@brunosalsero38 lol wdym. Yes ouch indeed

@@rachel-df1jp well i lost my dad at the of 13, now that im 25 i almost lost my mom from covid but everything its alright, we must be positive at all times even tho i know its kind difficult, be safe

@@brunosalsero38 I’m sorry to hear that, I hope your mom makes a full recovery. I lost my dad myself, except at 16. Which is how old am rn, but yeah your right we have to stay positive

wise dog

Steph Go Hate in fact is love. You don’t hate those you don’t love, you hmjust dont care and become indifferent to them. They cared a lot and they loved a lot which is why the hate comes. Hate isn’t but love’s pain.

@@groverkiinmuppetborn714 indeed , that is a clever dog

*@Nerdy Snailie* That is definitely not true. You can definitely hate someone you don’t love by not having any kind of attachment for them and just having nothing but bad thoughts about them. If someone killed your parents, you wouldn’t just be “indifferent” about them. No. You’d hate them. Hate comes in different forms.

Steph Go Me (the "man") and my Ex fought *exactly exactly like this ... damn ... so freaking relatable that give me chills* !!!

SAMEEEE

Same

Same here

Big F

Well holy shit

me 💀

😂😂😂😂😂😂

If they paid you millions of dollars and daily put you on a cover of a magazine gushing over how beautiful and amazing you are...you would study for your exam too.

they can do a few takes until they get the best version, in between which they can review the script again. and they can focus on the lines of one scene at a time. unlike us students, we have to cram the whole textbook/entire semester's worth of content for a single test, clueless as to which part we wil be tested on

These*

Fatih Sapanoglu honestly Adam should’ve gotten it

Jeff Rahmon Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah Joaquin Phoenix brokes ass to Adam Driver, NOW AND FOREVER!!!

@@plus3938 haha what an innocent creature

@@jeffrahmon7892 idk man, starving to the point that you feel like you completely lost it and still do a great performance as a very difficult character seems oscar worthy to me

*would have

I never recognized this! Such a little detail that changes the whole dynamic of this argument

could you say he didnt "get what he fucking deserved"

Adam still got robbed.

Who is Joaquin, and for what movie were they nominated for?

@@heetucola1087 he played the Joker. In the movie Joker.

Scarlett got ripped off twice that year for best actress and supporting actress.