I just want to live alone in the forest without humans. Their are all loud af

I've experienced this a lot. So many bully Narcissist nowadays.

I moved out of an apartment that had loud upstair neighbors who would go at it 1 am while I was working in the morning. I thought 'nothing can be worse than this.' Oh boy, was I wrong. Now it's not only the guy above, but the guy next to me too. One yawns obnoxiously loudly every 10 seconds right next to my bed when it's late, and the other likes to loudly bang on the wall or the floor for no freaking reason in the middle of the night and it wakes me up. Seriously...Why are some people so freaking inconsiderate?

it’s just the worst bc i just want my home to be quiet. id genuinely want to live if i knew my home was quiet. i’m okay with the public being loud, that’s their right, i can leave. but the fact that my home is loud too? there literally no escape? there’s no cure to misophonia? i feel like ive been cursed. i always think i’d be such a nice and better person if i didn’t have misophonia. it’s the worst ever. i have hurt myself so many times over it. ive been to a therapist. they just tell me things. words can only go so far. ive been having this for 10 years. ive heard it all. ive tried it all. i need a cure or i know for a fact i’m going to get so triggered one day and end it all. it’s so hard to calm down for me and one day i won’t be able to bc there’s no quiet to even calm down in. constant state of suffering. always suffering. never a day i’m not suffering. no one understands. it is the most lonely miserable suicidal experience ever. and i don’t just have misophonia so this is really the worst. life is really hard to enjoy. i don’t want to hurt anyone either. i just hurt myself bc i know i’m the problem. this is the worst. why can’t home be quiet?

Noisy neighbors are people who shit where they eat.

I’ve been struggling with this for years and didn’t know there was a word for it. It’s awful!

It's 07:56 and the couple [beneath my flat who have a toddler have been up since 06:45. Everyday, I hear door slams, the running of footsteps and loud conversations. Even as I watched this video with headphones on, I could hear them. While I do have misophonia, those people ARE noisy and even my other neighbour agrees. As I am housebound due to health problems and the Mom is at home all day with the child, I am being tortured by their constant noise. There is no escape for me

I've become almost out of control with rage at neighbors. I'm in Canada and suffer with alot of physical pain and my only refuge is sleep when I can get it. I'm such a light sleeper unfortunately that once woken I can't get back to sleep unless I take another pain pill which I can't take over my quota. This has cost me alot of money in moving expenses. Apts costs so much that I was always in basement suites and finally got a flat on the top. I just am so much more at peace, I still have problems outside in public by diverting noises that afflict me but don't feel suicidal anymore.

My new nextdoor neighbour is using his apartment as a workshop, hammering, banging day and night. The upstairs women rides her computer chair all over the floor at 3 in the morning. I hurt my hand hammering back and have now resorted to super loud music everytime he hammers. I am swear alot at him. Landlord does nothing.

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Oh wow! I finally know what I called "sensitive hearing" has been ongoing since I was about 4 or 5 years old. I can't stand noise. Earplugs hurt my ears and I am sick and tired of using headphones all the time at all times. I have gone as far as adding wall insulation...I still hear everything!!!! Thank you so much for this video!!!!!!!

I've decided to move out when my lease is up. I can't tolerate it any longer.

I have been struggling with this for over 3 years. I bought a new construction stacked townhome, which means there are scumbags living above me with wood floors and no rugs and no soundproof whatsoever. I hear stomping all day, washers, him urinating echoes thru my unit. They do not work and are home 24/7. It is horrifying. I am angry every day. I have exactly what you explained. I did not sleep for a year. It is pure torture. I cannot afford to move anywhere.

Misophonia is debillitating. I've had it for 4 years.

I need HELP and dont even know where to start 😢.My neighbor has an autistic child. He has never been sent to school and is very hyper active when his father is at home. I don't have any problems with the parents, it's just that their child really makes the situation difficult. Shouting, throwing things, kicking walls and other things that I can't explain because I'm so damn angry already.

I was just thinking about trauma and you have just mentioned it, this is what has happened to me as well. Neighbors who would be even more aggressive when I’ve tried to tell them to stop making so much noise. The anxiety that came with those circumstances have been very difficult to deal with. I have been constantly moving houses with no success and I have been very tired of it. As you said my nervous system is very sensitive, I’ve actually learned a lot about it and how to use breath to calm down but even with that, sometimes I want to yell at them ! How inconsiderate some people are, it’s unbelievable. I had a pianist playing and partying every day for over a year, it drove me crazy, could not sleep. Sleep deprivation is not helping with calming down the nervous system. I have been living with earplugs and music since.

We have found a house but it's so far away and I don't want to move. I'm currently in a lovely apartment close to family, but this misophonia is just driving me crazy😢

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I deal with this and sometimes there's no escape. I will say though that the best purchase I ever made was some high quality noise cancelling headphones. You need to spend 300-400 to get sufficient noise cancellation, so I understand if that's not realistic for everyone. But if you can, it is so worth it. With the noise cancellation plus my music or shows, I rarely hear a thing outside or upstairs. I've got the Bose QuietComfort 45's. Hope this helps anyone reading.

I want to leave these stupid noisy apartment neighbors. I want a home, …a quiet home.

So I have a problem... I travel everyday to my workplace. I have been trying to find a solution for this. I can bear all the sounds except the people's chattering. Now I am using Sony's noise cancelling earphones and feeling better. Thank you for the video.

Landlords are filthy hypocrites. Critical tenants cost money. In principle, no sound should come through.. 0.0 In the past, soft floor coverings were mandatory. All laminate and hard floors create noise. Should be banned worldwide in apartments, flats, upstairs houses. 90 percent of apartments are noisy and cause nervous breakdowns in people. Serious health problems. That in turn causes aggression, unemployment and healthcare costs. etc. good housing is important. National authorities require homes to be properly insulated.

Your voice is so soothing omg. You should make guided meditation videos.

I’ve been living for 2 years in a multi-unit house with a neighbor right next to my door. It was a mistake to move in here, but even if at the time I knew I had misophonia, I was less familiar with it and just never thought it would be this bad. Almost every morning I hear a metal slamming door that echoes all throughout my apartment, or voices from visits or conversations / podcasts on speakerphone. My bedroom is the only place where I feel safe, where I can turn on the TV and the air conditioner and be protected from all nose. Noise cancelling headphones and music / brown noise are a blessing, but it is exhausting to use them all the time, plus I want to protect my hearing and not become overly dependent on headphones. I’m fine with using them in public, but it sucks to use them at home. I feel extremely depressed every time I walk past my unfurnished living room, since I see no point in investing and installing a TV, sofa… etc. while others my age (late 20s) are settled down in their nicer places. I pay rent but I don’t feel like I have a home. I’ve lived in 5 different places and have had to deal with construction noise, furniture being dragged, and the worst of them all: barking and howling dogs. Needless to say I feel angry and hopeless every day, isolated, no one in my life can empathize at a deeper level, I don’t know where my life is headed anymore.

I love human beings, but i despise my neighbours . 10 years, of noise, daughters parties on weeknights from 2013 to 2018, not every week, but frequent and never on, i don't know, a friday? 😃. Then they get a dog, a beagle actually, who barked incessantly from xmas 2016 to 2022 when i lost my shit. in September 2020 i was going out right?, and the dog was barking when i left, i got back over 4 hours later and its still outside, and we already had 3 years of it, i noticed the guys wife was out so i decided to confront this fake tough guy, he was shocked and could barely speak..this guy smirked at me in my teens when i was nervous and in recent years would still smirk at me and even make jives at me, all while continuing to destroy my life, now he's scared of me - its all about fear with these cowards. After confronting him, i thought, fuck, finally...about 3 days later, i'm about to start a new job, its about 10 am, the dogs out again, so i got so fucking upset, and i slammed my door and i can hear the idiot saying ''good girl'' to his dog. Ever since that incident, himself and his wife have barraged us with slamming for 3 years, day, night, middle of the night. They have DESTROYED my mental health, my dad licks up to them, and ignores my pain, tells me to leave him alone. I have had numerous days of headaches and sleep lethargy, just sitting alone in the countryside in my car. Just last tuesday, they put their dog outside at 12:30 am, and brought it back inside at 02:09 am, i was in a very dark place the next day, 10 years folks. If i owned the house, not my dad, they'd be fucked. I even have a photo of the guy throwing a plastic bottle at the end of our drive and moving it back every day, what a sad bastard!. And why all this? just because i kindly asked them to keep the noise down..they have such a pathology that they think people are afraid to even speak to them 😀

I've lived in a residential hotel for 30 years and within the last six months my next door neighbor started drinking and spends 95 percent of his time trying to terrorize me with loud noises around the clock. Dropping boards and metal objects on the floor at 4 am. He bangs hammers against the wall. He will spend an hour or more scrapping his chair across the floor. It's easy to figure this guy out. He had no life and decided that terrorizing me is his life. The weird thing is, I love music and he flips out when I play my music. I explained to him that what I'm doing is legal but his response to it is illegal. This won't last much longer. We're both going to be transferred to other hotels so they can renovate this place. He's going to have a hard time adjusting when he realizes he'll have to deal with his own problems.

Thank you so much 😘😘😘

Not only noises. My door is 1st when you enter the building. Neighbours keep stepping on my little doormat, although there are two big ones at the entrance. I find it so disrespectful, violation of my private space and property. I decided to move. Some of us like good manners and we need more respect to our privacy than others.

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I learnt to cope with it over the years, I’m very sensitive to noises that I’m unaware of, but I confront myself with them and explain it not acceptable to make noises after 11pm -7am , i coping better with new neighbour upstairs on the flat 4 in middle , and I know when he plays Darts, it does make hell of noise even when in flat, I’m coping better and even i have to be conscious of my sound as sing DJ/ on Live stream and create trance songs etc, i have sound proof my flat not annoying down stairs or anyone, people near me are aware of what I do, I’m starting to function better but early days, it takes few weeks to get use to people, I’m glad I’m not alone in this situation, feel sorry people, who are going through this

Somebody help me understand is this misophonia?.. I have insomnia for most days of the week . So I game alot at late hours , am home alot but I have been hearing a thudding bang sometimes when I game , and I presume it's my neighbour hinting to me it's late at night and he is trying to sleep. And when they wake up , they stomp around to get ready to start their day sometimes even purposely drop things to create a disturbance .. I am becoming extremely affected now everytime I hear them above me, almost freezing to a point and try to not even move while in my seat . now I know , I could be irritating my neighbour but its a hand held controller not a keyboard on a desk . Am not clumsy and very self aware, I probably move around at odd hours which is my right!. Why do neighbours feel entitled to bang walls and control their neighbours in ways that can heighten one's anxiety... their needs to be better building designs and codes because we all deserve our privacy. So is this misophonia?

Can't deep breathing bring on heightened anxiety if you're already in anxiety attack mode?

I live in a split appartment into two studios. In the other studio lives neighbour that often invites friends thwt shout loudly, ge also got a dog that barks at them really loudly, so irritating and also anxiety driving, i dont know when he bans his door will he be alone or with noisy friends

I know my neighbors slam their shoes on purpose at this point because what are you dropping daily! I’m so annoyed at this point I wish school stayed on break!

7.20 I am sorry what word did you say? Like rou? Can you let me know please.

I torture my neighbors they don't get to stalk me .... listen in through the walls they don't get to tell me not one thing ... I have won they are humbled by almost 100 percent

I can’t get away from it.

Is there any scientific way like using the power of yr subconscious mind to move these bad creatures who happen to b yr neighbors?

I live below an autistic brat who never goes out and stays in his room all the time in order to avoid his Uncle, who he lives with. He is always trolling me. When he hears me doing something downstairs he either game bombs me, moves his chair on the bare floor, or lately, dropping bowling balls or something really heavy on my head. I HAVE been using fans to mask it, but he has gotten used to the sound and can still hear me and harass me. So I ingeniously thought of another solution, I simply put a radio near my ceiling, i.e. his floor, and turn it on when I don't want to be harassed and trolled. I find that the radio works much better at "chopping up", the noise I make when I am moving around or when I want to get things done down here. So far it is working much better than the fan noise. They also used to "hide" behind a door sized piece of thick wood that I had stuck there to give them some privacy. But today I took the board away and now they have to have me looking at them all the time when they enter and exit. All in all it has been a rather good day today.

Tip: watch on silent with captions if you’re triggered by the start and end ends of words being too loud and tinny against the rest of the voice.

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Speak we can't hear you.

OMG…That was disturbinGLY….AROUSING! The sound of your Angelic voice and your mannerisms. Oh what a sweet pleasant presence. My heart wants you to know that you deserve all the love jn the world.. And only you have mine.

Take long slow deep breaths as you go directly to law enforcement to file a noise/nuisance complaint, and if that doesn't work, get a pro bono attorney to take them to court. The nuisance is NOT on you, it's on the perpetrator! You are full of BS. I am a property and homeowner and I WILL NOT put an obligation on MYSELF for "dealing" with the offensive acts of other people against my PEACE and my right to it as such!!!

Misophonia... your voice though

Why is she whispering?

Your tone of voice and pacing of words is Everything Thank you so much for helping us through this I really would like to learn New Sub I'm immensely grateful 🤍