How Can I Stop My Parents from Selling My Childhood Home?!

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How Can I Stop My Parents from Selling My Childhood Home?!
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@chrisose4585 2 роки тому

Watch the Step Brothers movie and you will know how to stop potential buyers

@Tigersfan829 2 роки тому

"Hey fuckers! Welcome to the neighborhood!"

@charlesg7926 2 роки тому

ITS THE ASBESTOS 😫

@trich103 2 роки тому

This will get a ton of likes lol 👍🏾

@HitmanChase 2 роки тому

HHAHA YES

@tylerk7577 2 роки тому

Need some fertilizer? I have a LOT of it!

@MJKT95 2 роки тому

You can buy it from them, but unless your name is on the deed, you don’t really get a choice here. Sentiment is not a right.

@terriesmith2616 2 роки тому

100% agreed with you. ☑️ If she's not the owner, she has no say in the property. If she truly wants to save her childhood home, then buy it from her parents. She's not entitled to the house.

@henryklassen3362 2 роки тому

I couldn’t agree more.

@OCDTraci 2 роки тому

Ouch. Harsh.

@riverdaletales8457 2 роки тому

Yeah or try to convince your parents to keep it.

@DemonTime08 2 роки тому

Ummm... well it has been passed down correct and brought into the marriage so why not continue to do so her mom will be old as dirt too so why sell it for her you know like it's a generational home you gotta keep it in the family her mom is the selfish one here don't put her down and say she has no right to speak on something I'd go to my dad and say let me have that property in the will I will take great care of it and our family will have that valuable asset that if absolutely necessary can be sold but for the betterment of the whole family not just because y'all are married and she doesn't have a job that's stupid your kids should take care of you when you are old and as you heard she offered to do so I don't get the disrespect of your children you have assets now that should continue to be passed down that's how it works don't be selfish like that

@Jake-go8pz 2 роки тому

"It means a lot to the family" ....code for....."I want the cottage"

@garrett21 2 роки тому

She said it was in their family for generations. It was probably handed down for custodial reasons with the expectation the property would be maintained for future generations

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

Exactly

@BlueHaze7024 2 роки тому

Since her father inherited the property that has been in the family for generations she feels it should be passed down to her instead of sold upon her father's death. Her father didn't earn this wealth but now it is to be selfishly spent. I understand her mindset as if I ever inherit money I would pass it down to my heirs instead of just blowing it. In all endeavors, try to leave things better than you found them.

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

Exactly

@mikekeenanphd 2 роки тому

Kind of shocking to me that Dave and Anthony didn't even discuss this. Maybe it is the caller's fault for not emphasizing it, but maybe Dave doesn't think it matters. Which is strange since he is always saying "change the family tree" and here her mother is preparing to chop down the family tree and spend it.

@jaysmith9938 2 роки тому

bingo!!

@Idiotsincarshere 2 роки тому

My dad just sold my childhood home without telling me after mom died and my attitude is ok, sad to see it go but it's his and I hope he's happy with his new living conditions.

@Idiotsincarshere 2 роки тому

@Vlad Ivanov Spammer

@josephcoatofmanycolors 2 роки тому

It’s not yours it’s theirs, you grew up in it doesn’t make it yours, Go ahead and purchase it of them.

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 2 роки тому

Right, but it from them.

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

I owned my house. I got married. My wife had to accept community property ownership. She could have quit claimed and refused ownership. Did the Step mom accept ownership? Property could be in Trust, and she could not be added. My mother's family home is over 700 years old. Why would you take a chance that some descendant could sell?

@DavidRamseyIII 2 роки тому

Congratulations on having parents that actually own something

@MP-nj1qy 2 роки тому

You’re so right, I speechless. My parents actually depend on me for everything: living expenses, food etc.

@DavidRamseyIII 2 роки тому

@@MP-nj1qy haha me too. Could you imagine actually inheriting something. What a world :D

@fearless6947 2 роки тому

I'm so grateful my parents can take care of themselves. They did really well. None of the kids have to worry about anything for them. I really thought about this, I seen some parent have absolutely no planning and no pension and the burden goes to the kids. If the kids are doing well, it's fine but what if they are not. I seen kids that don't make much and are struggling. Poor countries in the Philippeans are like this. The kid makes $200 a month and have to give to parents, if not they will stave. If I have a chance to be parents, I would not want this for my kids. Lucky I'm learning from Dave

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

Yeah my retired parents have four pieces of real estate. Belong to them not me and my three brothers

@babyhuggz 2 роки тому

Takes pics of the house and landcape and frame it. Do not underestimate the power of a photograph and keeping all that money in your pocket lol.

@Jajaky 2 роки тому

Always keep the family farm. One of the best things to own right now is farmland. Don't sell your soul for rock and roll

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

Exactly

@almi2232 2 роки тому

She offered to support her parents financially if needed? She can support them but buying it. If she can’t afford it she has no say, period.

@StudentLoanChitChat 2 роки тому

Exactly Alex!!!

@fede1h334 2 роки тому

I guess emotions and attachment mean nothing, only money...

@hannanorborg1190 2 роки тому

@@fede1h334 No, but it is not ok to use emotions and attachment arguments to try to make others keep things they don't want/can. That is manipulative and not ok at all.

@phukyew14 2 роки тому

@@hannanorborg1190 It's greedy to not keep it in the family.

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

You're absolutely right Alex

@bettysmith4527 2 роки тому

Grow up, it's your parents home (asset), not yours! The other family members want it, buy it, and if you cannot it's not your place. I am in aww that she thought she is entitled to it, while her parents are still alive.

@oldbloke204 2 роки тому

@@Austenfan177 May as well face the reality that none of what you think about the situation will matter if it is passed on in the will. You sound bitter.

@oldbloke204 2 роки тому

@@Austenfan177 My pleasure and hopefully you can work out how a will etc works in spite of the fact that you think that she is not fit to get the property.

@abemartinez9623 2 роки тому

Crazyness I would never ask my mom to keep the house based on sentiment . I want the best for her. Nothing is forever

@macloverxo1 2 роки тому

Exactly!! It’s the memories not the property.

@melanieb2132 2 роки тому

I mean, speaking from experience, there is a *different* emotion tied to a property that has been in the family for generations, vs a property your parents lived in. It didn't bother me to sell my grandma's house on the one side, but the thought of our century farm being broke up was a shot to the heart. Fortunately, my brother owns that now... so we are going on 135 years.

@abemartinez9623 2 роки тому

@@melanieb2132 sorry 135years? It’s just imaginary lines made up by people. The land don’t belong you to an you should not be forever in debt to it

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

The bottom line is it's not your house not your money it belongs to mom and dad. After they raised you and you become adults that's it. They don't owe you anything

@Cheerleader644860 11 місяців тому

@@Nighthawk-8050 we know but its good to think of your children sometimes. And I think parents and children do owe their children and patents something. I feel like I owe my mother to take care of her when she old.

@dr.bradshaw 2 роки тому

She’s mad because she wants to inherit it when they die and when it’s sold she won’t

@vladamirkb1 2 роки тому

Yup

@samekid273 2 роки тому

Yup

@fearless6947 2 роки тому

so she could sell it herself I guess and pocket the money

@dr.bradshaw 2 роки тому

@@fearless6947 she can’t afford to buy it

@fearless6947 2 роки тому

@@dr.bradshaw i mean she want to inherit it herself and when the parents pass away, then sell it

@grayandgray 2 роки тому

It's common in my area too. The waterfront cottages grandparents bought for $2000 in the 60s are $1.5mil today. The kids don't have the cash to buy it and the parents don't have enough other cash to gift the legacy forward. We lack the English estate mindset where you're the custodian, not the owner, of the generational home and it's simply not for sale.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 2 роки тому

I honestly think that is how it should be. No one should be able to inherit anything, it should be earned. It gives an unfair advantage to those who could not inherit the same value as others.

@Ria24Ria 2 роки тому

@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 so if your parents or grandparents worked hard for a piece of land or house then you don’t think they should let the kids or grandkids inherit them just cause you think it’s unfair?? That makes no sense the parents or grandparents can’t take it with them , you might as well help your kids to have them a head start in life.

@christinebutler7630 2 роки тому

So, if you aren't intending to pass down a legacy, why have children?

@Ria24Ria 2 роки тому

@@christinebutler7630 exactly Christine! If I ever have children I would absolutely have everything handed down to them. My parents are going to do that with my brother and I and my grandparents did it for my parents!

@fusionreaper 2 роки тому

@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 sounds like something a poor person would say

@thistles 2 роки тому

It's easy to criticize her for feeling entitled to her parents' property, but it sounds like this is property that has been in the family for generations and her parents inherited it from their parents. I don't blame her for being upset that her parents are prepared to end a generational resource. If I inherited family land, I would feel responsible for making sure it could stay in the family in the future rather than selling it to fund a retirement I should have planned better for.

@Picca65 2 роки тому

Yes but no. It's just not hers. I can see why she feels sad, but that's it.

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

@@Picca65 The question is: How Can I Stop My Parents from Selling My Childhood Home? The question should be rephrased: How Can I Stop My Step mom from Selling My Childhood Home? Probably dozens of ways, with or without father's blessings before or after his death

@smittycity42 2 роки тому

💯 But people don't care about the future anymore.

@Cheerleader644860 11 місяців тому

@@smittycity42 ikr

@Cheerleader644860 11 місяців тому

Yes. Why would I want generations of family owned property to go to another family. I'd give people money food and all but your not having this property. Like with God. You can get whatever you'd like down there in earth but none of y'all not even my children israel are getting their butts to sit on this throne.

@MichaelAnderson-wk1no 2 роки тому

We all have homes in the family in which we have lots of memories. But eventually they get sold if that's what the owner wants to do. It's just part of life. You buy your own home / a new home and make memories there. It's just a house.

@user-do9vo7zz4y 2 роки тому

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@benjaminhartman4488 2 роки тому

How can I stop my parents? Lol 40 going on 14.

@michaelvan6675 2 роки тому

She’s 26

@raallen1468 2 роки тому

@@michaelvan6675 40-going-on-14 is a metaphor.

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

Have the Father do a beneficiary title. Upon my death, the title will become a joint tenancy title. In my State (community property State) each person may assign their share of ownership as they see fit and not tell the spouse. Just buy out her half.

@babe8917 2 роки тому

That was a good one

@LifeofKairo 2 роки тому

Buy it from them 😜

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@mustangthings 2 роки тому

You can hear it in her voice: she doesn’t want to be financially invested in it. She wants to have access to it for free like she did six months ago when she was in her second year of high school.

@talyahr3302 2 роки тому

Exactly what I was going to say

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

She's full of BS

@hidingzebrablocks5661 2 роки тому

She said it had been in the family for generations, its probably expected of each 'inheritor' that its kept in the family and passed down. I agree with the caller. The mom is wrong here, selling a generation piece of wealth because she won't work and by the sounds of it married a rich older man.

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

Exactly

@trkadirkucuk 2 роки тому

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@Sunbear415 2 роки тому

Take a photo and save your money

@BlessedbytheKingofKings 2 роки тому

You can’t but ask them if they will sell it to you.

@siegfriedbraun5447 2 роки тому

Why should "buy the darned thing YOURSELF" take five minutes to express?

@ClaxtonBay123 2 роки тому

Because she definitely can't afford it making 70K

@siegfriedbraun5447 2 роки тому

@@ClaxtonBay123 Yup. "Tough beans", as we used to say.

@jaqueitch 2 роки тому

Buy the house from them. Or, mind your own business. It's not your house.

@fkillah 2 роки тому

This society has created this entitlement mentality

@philipgerry5228 2 роки тому

Second homes are a financial drain. If her mom needs money, she has the right to sell it.

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

Stop pressuring mom it's her house if she decides to sell it for financial reasons so be it. Let it go

@unlisted8042 2 роки тому

“God forbid the passing of your father” Sweetie, he’s going to eventually pass that’s called life.

@ThePeterDislikeShow 2 роки тому

Is this even a serious question?

@johnallen3497 2 роки тому

They need to screen these callers better.

@betruetoyourself7162 2 роки тому

I think it is to showcase entitlement

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

Does the daughter have blood relatives buried on site (family graveyards)? does the father own the property or just a trustee? Did the step mom accept ownership? Is she of sound mind? What if they both DIE? I could list so many possibilities to the question: How Can I Stop My Parents from Selling My Childhood Home? Before or after dad dies? A lawyer could help Poison the title enough, to make the title unmarketable.

@ThePeterDislikeShow 2 роки тому

@@aolvaar8792 So a stupid sentimental value is more valuable than family?

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

@@ThePeterDislikeShow My mother's home is 700 years old, 20+ generation have their bones interned there. Sell off my final resting place?

@miriamstrauss 2 роки тому

*To those reading this - I hope you all have lots of wealth, success, and happiness coming your way soon!!*

@14elvira14 2 роки тому

After a difficult and ridiculously long divorce, I bought my childhood home from my parents. I love my home and now it's mine😎

@kristymarie6065 2 роки тому

What kind of loan did you have to get? Did you just take over payments?

@johnSmith-uz8nl 2 роки тому

Prices in Quebec for Real Estate is just as bad as the US. The thing is, in Canada you don't have to worry about going bankrupt with paying health insurance and doctors. I do miss my summers having a country house in the Laurentians (just north of Montreal)... those were good time and I am looking forward to retiring their and perhaps getting a condo in Montreal. Currently living in the US. But I guess there are no grand kids... cause I bet if the parents take their grandkids up north every weekend for lake fun and skiing... I can't imagine the grandparents wanting to sell this home. Country homes are the BEST.

@nls8520 2 роки тому

In a perfect world, it would be great to have something like that passed down in the family. Sounds like financially that is not feasible in this case. I would say get with family members and purchase the property in order to keep it in the family.

@James-vj5hz 2 роки тому

I know so many sheltered Canadians that think this way. This is what a nanny state culture brings you.

@jamesl.a.n6394 2 роки тому

Yeah the only culture more entitled are us Americans.

@hikerhobby1204 2 роки тому

@@jamesl.a.n6394 : Amen!

@Knyght100 2 роки тому

Some of these callers blow my mind.

@MillionaireMindsetClub 2 роки тому

Buy it from them. Simple!

@user-hh5qh4jb8x 2 роки тому

@bettysmith4527 2 роки тому

Oh, yes, so simple, she can definitely buy a half million dollar house making 70K. 😳

@fkillah 2 роки тому

@@bettysmith4527 so her parents should just hand it over to her for next to nothing when they could make over a million on this transaction? She has no right to someone else’s property. Simple!!

@YummyFood454 2 роки тому

I can understand her perspective. Sounds like a good kid that wants to hold onto the good memories.

@kebinyo 2 роки тому

No, it’s selfish. It’s not her house, it’s her parents’.

@fkillah 2 роки тому

No, it’s entitlement. She’s a selfish brat

@NickStratulat 2 роки тому

Just cry and say that you won't leave, act like when you was a little boy and wanted something, same principle applies here :))

@bettysmith4527 2 роки тому

Perfect example of "Generation Entitlement".

@blackworldtraveler3711 2 роки тому

That is a very bad case of entitlement.

@ellencox8415 2 роки тому

It's not entitlement if it has been in the family for generations, it's tradition. This is how generational wealth is made. The parents got the luxury of living in the house without a mortgage, but are selfishly not paying it forward to the next generation.

@blackworldtraveler3711 2 роки тому

@@ellencox8415 Entitlement is family tradition for some....on a legal document. Just not going to happen in this case and Dave can’t help.

@chargermaster586 2 роки тому

@@ellencox8415 All beginings Have a End

@Lon1001 2 роки тому

It was a weird assumption of Dave to think the land is large enough to subdivide and piece out. More than likely it's a smallish (~1/2acre) private lot on a popular lake. I think if it's been in the family for several generations that the family members should have some rights of first refusal when it comes to the mother selling it for the proceeds. If it's important enough to the other family members as Laura claims it is then they could all buy a share and put the money where their mouth is. Or it could just be that it's more important to Laura than it is everyone else and she is the only one that doesn't want it sold - if so hopefully she can work out a resolution with her parents whatever they end up deciding they need to do.

@graysonk363 2 роки тому

At 1:43 she says it’s on a big piece of land

@Lon1001 2 роки тому

@@graysonk363 ah, missed that. I thought she said it was on a really "good" piece of land... Need my hearing checked. I guess she also agreed with Dave it might be a good idea to sell a piece of the land

@Gibb591 2 роки тому

@@Lon1001 I still heard good haha I don't know which she said. But I think it's more she wants to inherit this house and land without buying it or deserving it and she doesn't realize that's not how life works

@christinebutler7630 2 роки тому

Need the land for privacy

@melanieb2132 2 роки тому

The land value may be limited, and most of the value may be tied up in the lake access and view. That's Typically true for lake property..

@VenomKen 2 роки тому

Buy the farm if you want it. You want the farm as an inheritance instead of having to pay for it. Too bad so sad...

@donaldcake1 2 роки тому

This shows the entitlement of many canadians, btw i am canadian

@SherryEllesson 2 роки тому

I don't think it's just Canadians. I think it's people of this age group.

@iSkateFast 2 роки тому

She really called 20 years too early too

@ErinWilke 2 роки тому

@@iSkateFast I mean, it depends a lot on his current health status. I mean, is he 300lbs / drinker / smoker / diabetic / heart disease, or is he health weight / works out / never smoker / etc.

@jumperjunior804 2 роки тому

Haha, I get the feeling she wants to inherit it instead of buying it! Doesn’t her mother need to support herself and maintain her pride?

@hikerhobby1204 2 роки тому

Mom has to eat!

@Mr_Martz_Mc 2 роки тому

Mom needs to get a job and stop being a bum

@SherryEllesson 2 роки тому

@@Mr_Martz_Mc You don't know that she doesn't have a job. No need to be so harsh.

@GITAHxgCoo 2 роки тому

No she needs to be an elder and let the next generation support her. That's the problem with baby boomers generation they never accepted the role of elder and act like they are 25 forever, never passing on the role of leader so their adult children have a chance to grow up.

@hikerhobby1204 2 роки тому

@@GITAHxgCoo I’m an elder, that’s bologna. Do you want us in a wheel chair at 60 so we can depend on our children? People need to work and save to set themselves up for retirement. It’s not our children’s responsibility!

@Mike-uo2gg Рік тому

Is there a way to stop the sale so you can bid?

@ThatCho 2 роки тому

First right of refusal is the best option. Also, does she have siblings? If so, they can go in together so that it’s kept in the family.

@shawnmccroskey447 6 місяців тому

I'm having this same issue, my father passed, my brother passed, and mom's been making some very questionable decisions since getting a boyfriend. I don't want the house sold nor am I in a position to buy it now, I asked her to wait, and she did offer it to me, but a few hours after she did, she got a contract that later fell through. Is there a form I can file or something since she's making these poor/terrible decisions? I did offer to pay to keep the house up, utilities and taxes since it's about the same price as to renting a storage unit for 40 years worth of stuff. I'm trying to protect her asset as well as save the family home.

@briellejacobs1045 2 роки тому

It should say parent’s cottage lol they made it sound like they were selling their house

@susieblanco2722 2 роки тому

I’m kinda in the same situation

@umairahmad4711 2 роки тому

Then buy it from them lol 😆

@user-hh5qh4jb8x 2 роки тому

@kashfortheking 2 роки тому

She should buy it if they are selling and she wants to keep it.

@ryant2568 2 роки тому

Not your property, not your choice. If you love it so much then buy it, I am sure your mum would rather sell it to you than a stranger.

@mph5896 2 роки тому

Yikes!

@user-ku4ms7lk4b 2 роки тому

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

The house has been in the Family for Generations. How is it TITLED? Who owned the house at marriage? The mother may think, she can sell It could have been made an unmarketable Title.

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

Good point

@Anonyme67 2 роки тому

Lol was your name on the deed?

@hamzamberu6207 2 роки тому

Oh Dave has just used a 'we' in 'Better than I deserve' :)

@ENCwwe 2 роки тому

Talk to them and tell them how you feel and ask if you can buy a portion of it if you can afford it.

@babe8917 2 роки тому

I get that the caller had fond memories of that place and she really likes the idea of it staying the way it is but life changes and it is her parents home. She cannot tell them what to do with it. She either needs to buy it or make her house an amazing childhood home for her kids.

@DemonTime08 2 роки тому

It was passed down to her parents also I'm assuming she said it's been in the family for generations

@babe8917 2 роки тому

Jamal Otero I get that but they inherited it so it’s up to them what they do with it.

@babe8917 2 роки тому

@@Austenfan177 doesn’t matter. It is his. So it is her parents decision. She wouldn’t like it if her parents were to say to her. We don’t want you to move away. You have to stay close to us. Don’t sell your house and stay in our vicinity. She probably would be like I am a grown up and this is my life. So why does she think she can dictate what they do with their property. I get the sentiment and that she has nostalgic feelings and she can talk to them about it but they don’t have to do what she wants.

@babe8917 2 роки тому

@@Austenfan177 I get it now. Well then that is a very hard pill to swallow for the kids.

@ultra91790 2 роки тому

I don't think she felt entitled. Not sure where everyone is getting that idea. She was asking if she, as the daughter of the owner, has any right in asking them to consider NOT selling the property when the dad dies. According to you guys in the comments, she has absolutely no say at all. Dude dies. Sell the house. No discussion. That she should just shut up and watch the house go.

@christophercarrigg3775 2 роки тому

I felt the air of entitlement in that call. You can't go always go by the tone. Sometimes you gotta pay attention to the words spoken. She blatantly says what is there I can do to stop it... And she acts as if the idea of her purchasing it herself had ever occured to her which is definitely. If she came right out and said she would love to buy it but can't afford it that would be one thing. She literally just has no intention of actually buying it not even 20 years from now.

@runningdebate2670 2 роки тому

She just wants to inherit it and sell it for herself.

@cherylnielson4710 2 роки тому

I think Dave’s point was that she has no legal or moral right to the property. I don’t think he says she can’t ask them to not sell the property. It’s just that she has no right to expect them do what she wants. Besides she has plenty of time to save up money to buy all or part of the property herself.

@murderofcrows7738 2 роки тому

She made a little dig about her mom not working. I think it’s safe to argue she feels entitled to the cottage and blames her mom for not working harder. She’s also planning out what she’s going to get if her dad (who isn’t even that old) dies.

@Grigsy 2 роки тому

Why isn’t Dave pointing out that her mom’s financial security is the most important thing in this equation not the childhood memories. She was a stay at home wife/mom and it’s her decision what to do with that property and her husband would want to make sure she is taken care of.

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@kCI251 2 роки тому

If you want it enough, work hard and buy it, then sell of some of the land to defray the overall cost. Can you put enough down to get a mortgage on the whole thing?

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@fhuber7507 2 роки тому

You can buy it if you want to keep it. If you don't buy it, then you have no control over whether they sell their property.

@ralegade7710 2 роки тому

Father probably worked hard so the mother never had to work a single day. She’s in her mid forties and has no plans for her own retirement. Just wants to sell off assets and extract the wealth from her family. Smdh.

@SherryEllesson 2 роки тому

You don't know ANY of that! You're making assumptions with no facts.

@marciabrown2418 2 роки тому

Sherry Ellesson yes, the women hating comments on this channel are getting out of hand.

@DoctorSmartyPants 2 роки тому

So the mom is actually the stepmom. Swell. Good luck.

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

Why do you assume she has rights to The house has been in the Family for Generations. My house was TITLED: Married Man, sole and Separate property

@nls8520 2 роки тому

Oh step mom. Makes a bit more sense now. I see why she does not want this woman who is not her mom to sell something of familial significance. Fact is sounds like step mom profits from this. That's the problem with divorce, some lady who does not have your best interest has control of your families assets...

@nomadshomestead4009 2 роки тому

How I you know? He was about 40 when had her, mom could have been 20 then and she is the mom. If it is step mom it changes things. But I didnt here that anywhere

@johniii8147 2 роки тому

And how would you draw that conclusion? She said mom. Sounds like her dad was just 18 years older when they met. He's in his 60's mom is in her mid to late 40's. Nothing unusual. Probably his second marriage.

@SoManyRandomRamblings 2 роки тому

@@nomadshomestead4009 she said dad was 62, correct?? So that means unless her dad was 36 married to this 18 year old giving birth....pretty sure that it is a stepmom

@DoctorSmartyPants 2 роки тому

It really doesnt matter what her Dad puts in his will today. Unless he wills the cottage to the caller, the cottage will pass to the young stepmother (who doesn't work), and the stepmother will do whatever she wants. Both dad and stepmom would need this first right of refusal clause in their respective wills and it would need to be unchangeable.

@agjios 2 роки тому

Karen, I don't understand your comment. "It doesn't matter what he puts in his will, because unless he puts it in the will it won't happen." If he puts this provision in the will today, then that's what happens. Plus, the father could put it in a trust.

@aolvaar8792 2 роки тому

Houses pass first by title not wills. The step mom may have no share in the house.

@benw1726 2 роки тому

You can buy it

@mr.culturefreedom2073 2 роки тому

Buy it.

@ellencox8415 2 роки тому

Why would the step mom not want to keep it in the family? If it's paid off, why wouldn't she live their until she died and give it to the kids? I don't understand the step mom wanting to sell it. It's not "entitlement" to think a house that has been in the family for generations should stay in the family. Tradition apparently means nothing to the people on this show. You can't take the house with you when you pass, but it is nice knowing your kids and grandkids can still make memories on the property you, your parents, grandparents, grew up on.

@NoaNoir 2 роки тому

Thank you!

@Ria24Ria 2 роки тому

Agree with you 100%!

@BetYouHateMeNow 2 роки тому

maybe they live in a state where whatever was made before the marriage is not accounted for in the case of divorce there by doing this she can get a house in her name or maybe even divorce the poor sap later on and milk him. unless there are other issues with the property or even maintenance of the property, taxes, they should proceed with caution.

@AC-ly6tg 2 роки тому

Laura let me tell you, my grandparents sold my childhood home without telling me, I lived with them ( my dad was born and raised there and my great grandpa lived there) there but was back with my mom at the time of the sale. That was 16 years ago and I still have NIGHTMARES . I dream about it EVERY WEEK, it’s awful, I wish I had the house or a chance to say good buy.

@fkillah 2 роки тому

Oh geez, like they were obligated to tell you. And even if they did, you still would complain about it. Did you pay the mortgage?

@CarnivoreStork 2 роки тому

New listener.

@onyx9857 2 роки тому

Buy it on seller financing.

@Jane5720 2 роки тому

You can buy it if you want.

@christophercarrigg3775 2 роки тому

She wanted a free million dollar cottage

@miriamstrauss 2 роки тому

*Uhhh, this should be a short video... because the answer is you can't* 🙄

@USNavyVet_STG 2 роки тому

In business, "feelings" amount to ZERO. Get over it.

@grantguy8933 2 роки тому

Anthony is crying 😂

@jimroscovius 2 роки тому

Let it go. You still have the memories. My childhood home is gone, and my parents are moving from my hometown. It's life. Move on.

@markhemmerle 2 роки тому

Please somebody answer this question for me can you not inherit property and houses?

@melanieb2132 2 роки тому

You can inherit land and houses. Often when multiple people inherit a land or houses, they sell.

@markhemmerle 2 роки тому

@@melanieb2132 I was always told that yes you can inherit but you still have to pay for the value of the property

@melanieb2132 2 роки тому

@@markhemmerle only to the other heirs. You can inherit a property all yourself if you are the only heir.. which is rare.

@ingramwifey2016 2 роки тому

I love Dave Rasmey, but people down here in the comment section are verrrrrrrrry judgemental 🙄🙄🙄

@flippatheshippa 2 роки тому

Just park a suspicious looking van in front of the house, pay homeless people on the street to walk around acting crazy when there is an open house

@knaudi86 2 роки тому

It is THEIR property. Not yours. End of story. This generation truly has zero concept of ownership or property.

@lexboy84 2 роки тому

Compared to all the baby boomers documetaries that planned/killed their families for the insurance money?

@chargermaster586 2 роки тому

You dont actually cant own property When you pay taxes on it

@LaMaiStyle 2 роки тому

Only way is to buy it

@davidguga9959 2 роки тому

Go buy it....

@diggernash1 2 роки тому

Buy it?

@janetcross2797 2 роки тому

None

@antoniofunnyguy 2 роки тому

If it meant so much to you. You can always buy it if your parents, and let them ride of into the sunset.

@fkillah 2 роки тому

She wants it handed over. Entitled

@9liveslisa 2 роки тому

I would buy it if it was that important to me. I'm sure she would like her mother to just give it to her, but life isn't that easy most of the time.

@Gibb591 2 роки тому

Go all in on GameStop??

@robedmund9948 2 роки тому

Listen closely to her voice at 3:00. She doesn't want to buy it. She wants them to GIVE it to her.

@ricarellan 2 роки тому

You have to move on!

@richricogranada9647 Рік тому

What a nosy and entitled creature this little woman is. The parents do whatever they desire with their property/belongings and they don’t even need to give satisfaction to anyone. This person must to come from another culture.

@imhuy95 2 роки тому

Ask to be first buyer..... That's all the right u got to this property...

@youtubeaddicted8215 2 роки тому

Pretty sure she is unaware of property taxes. Wonder how she will provide financial support to her mom and pay taxes on a property worth over 1M by her estimates...on 70k a year..

@Nighthawk-8050 Рік тому

I can understand where she's coming from but it's not her house. If my mom decides to sell the family home I would be crushed but it's her house not mine