l live in Dnipro city, very close to the fighting, who wants to come, I’ll host you with me, get to know my cats)

Your work is "real" yeah...........so is everyone else's work,.......their work is real. Stacking shelves......real.....call centre....real....uber bike delivery ...real.....middle manager in a wholesale......real.................how dear you have the ordesity/territory to make claim to the word "real".............you muppet............

I’ve read her book and it’s utterly fantastic.

I won't be purchasing her book.

I'd really love to hear more from her and people with her job

She's not healing them, tahts a little beyond her professional abilities.

Love this analogy!

Yes in some sense: she's part of the solution that is breaking the cycle of abuse/retribution. Kind of a badass imho.

Why give care to people who cared so little for their victims.

@@thomasschiuma8105 ... I'm sorry, are you saying you think that serial killers can be "cured" from their wickedness?

Not compassion for these animals

Yes 🙌🏼 I try to live this no matter how dark my heart might get day to day.

If you believe that liberal bullshit then you live in fantasy land partner

Compassion? Wonder how much compassion their victims felt as they breathed their last breath? Shame on you

​@@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733you're a reactionary. like the Nazis. hopefully some day you'll realize that the prison system creates recidivism and only saps money away from taxpayers, meanwhile in Nordic countries such as Denmark, Sweden, and Norway, they have some of the lowest recidivism rates in the entire world because of the fact that they focus on rehabilitation, job training, and acclimating prisoners to productive civilian life

Hopefully one day she will focus her gift on people that really need it, who have a future and whose lives are worth investing in.........

@@ThatTaRaGiRLI suspect that she would tell you that the work she does is worth it to her

⁠@@ThatTaRaGiRLI’m pretty sure she thinks her job is worth it

@ThatTaRaGiRL what an ignorant comment. If you “care” about people you don’t even know that much, whose lives are “actually worth investing in”, I would think you’d be grateful for a forensic psychiatrist doing the good work she does. Because God only knows-some of these British prison sentences are frighteningly short & not at ALL adequate… many criminals will eventually be released… a “life sentence” or a “whole life tariff” in the UK usually has fine print attached to it, like “life in prison…with a minimum of 30 years served before parole consideration”. So if they don’t get this sort of help at some point, before they’re released, they could go on to do it again! I mean, it’s well publicized & known that certain horrific British killers are now free, served less than 20-30 years, now living under new identities. Meanwhile the paparazzi & news end up finding them shopping and their picture gets plastered all over every newsstand and magazine. So we can only hope they got some good therapy while locked up… So be glad she’s helping counsel these people AT ALL…

@@erikm8372 Sorry, but you clearly weren't paying attention to ALL my comments. I said it is a waste of tax dollars to waste the time on these monsters that are spending their LIFE in prison.... LIFERS 🙄 Tax dollars should be going towards people that are actually acting like human beings out here in the real world, who actually need the help! I don't pity a murderer, I don't care a out a murderer, and as far as I'm concerned, they're not on the same level as regular, every day humans who have this thing called EMPATHY, and a moral compass! Nobody is perfect, sure, but we're not all going around hacking people up when we don't get out way, either!! Including CHILDREN 🤬🔥 So save your pity party for someone that cares. Anyone that commits crimes as heinous as serial killers, child predators/murderers etc ARE NOT GETTING OUT before they're freaking dead, anyway! And I was pretty sure this show was based in Australia...I could be wrong about that one, though, and if I am then I will stand corrected.. but that little piece of info pales in comparison to the larger topic at hand here. Would you have all this sympathy and a buttery melted heart for someone that brutally murdered one of YOUR family members? Yeah... I'm sure you will skate around that one just for the sake of argument. There's no point in even responding, because I'M NOT CHANGING MY MIND. Unless you're just trying to look "better" in front of everyone else, there's no point in talking to ME.... and which opinion is "better" is COMPLETELY SUBJECTIVE... I see MANY people here that share my opinion- are you going to start fighting with them ALL? 😅 Well good luck with that👍🏻 Take care!

@i.am.heather You have my deepest respect. I'm a psychiatric NP, formerly RN, and I know what it takes to be kind and professional in a harsh environment. It's a balancing act. Sadly, what people often don't understand is that people in our position don't have time or the inclination to judge our patients' mistakes. One simply can't work that way.

@@MissNurseNoirthank you for your kind words. 🩷 It’s very difficult to care for people that may or may not have sexually assaulted a child, murdered their spouse, beaten their wife, etc. I try not to look at charges but sometimes the inmates committed something so heinous, they’re in the news. I’ve seen it. I’ve seen some of the worst humans to walk the planet, but they’re still my patients and even though many would disagree - they still have basic human rights to food, water, shelter, clothing, *healthcare*. Sometimes these folks have been framed (especially the women), but at the point I’m caring for these folks, they haven’t been tried yet. It’s essentially a hold, so everytbjng is alleged even if they robbed the bank in broad daylight and the entire incident was caught on camera. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I did my absolute best to take care of these people. I am a Christian and did my best to emulate Christ’s love and compassion for absolutely everyone. There were some bad seeds, but I’d like to think the good outweigh the bad. ETA… while the inmates are awaiting trial, they receive therapy services. Many of these inmates are victims themselves. I can’t tell you a percentage of them that were abused in every way possible as a child by multiple adults in their lives. They were failed. I’d say 99/100 of them experienced some form of abuse and/or severe trauma. I feel there’s both a psychological and biological trigger for them to where they’re predispositioned to commit violent acts. Just my opinion…

Your job is important and very difficult as well. ❤ I was a nurse for 20 yrs and now have a MA in Forensic Psychology. Corrections takes a lot of cajones

It reminded me of summertime book club. Do people even go to physical libraries anymore?

@@katrinat.3032 i live in New Zealand, in a small country town and our library is still used. My son loves going

@@mumsie8578fellow kiwi here and I regularly visit the library and it is always packed! Such a special place

Yes. When she had Peter Sutcliffe pointed out to her she was like, "And?" She's hard as nails.

I rewatched a couple of times, the only time she broke character

​@@Chase_Your_PassionI don't think she was actually breaking character. It is real and you can't read someone's mind based on their physical appearance.

i agree, what an interesting person. I hope to find a podcast with her in

me too

Me too !

She's very warm and intriguing

Literal fascists running half the country and people pretend like it's normal.

How do Americans nod? 😂

​@@cortneybass5714 Fentanyl is a big one.

@@cortneybass5714 With a Big Mac stuffed in their mouth 😁 (jk)

@@gsomethingsomething2658 Big Macs are disgusting. 🤢

could be! sometimes interviewers ask from the audience’s perspective who are likely biased, so those preconceived notions can be addressed

@@niadavis7171exactly my thoughts. These are questions that most people would have. It makes sense to ask the expert so she can debunk any misinformation

@@young__blacksmithyes, and an ethical psychiatrist wouldn’t go down that road. It’s nice to see her keep her ethics in tact and stick to her job.

yeah, that's pretty pathetic of the interviewer.

which answers in particular did you find 'meticulous' ? what is your opinion on said answers ?

yes she has such a calm energy about her and soo empathetic ( like all psychiatrists should be )

@justletmesigninokthx She's very careful not to downplay any emotions of either side, whether it be victim or attacker. You're being annoying for reasons I don't understand.

​@@Trident_Gaming03don't downplay the emotion............that way.........muppets won't focus...........on ACTUAL loss of life, loss of father, loss of a mother, loss of a brother or sister or a son or daughter...............I wonder how far your compassion will extend when it's one of your family (mother, father, brother, sister, son, daughter)..........yeah let's see your YT comment Compassion then.

@@markjones1337 You could've put a third of the ellipses you did and still get your point across lol So what are you upset about exactly? Me complimenting the forensic psychiatrist for respecting her clients?

When you are counseling people you yourself have to have supervision counseling

@india1422 yes, I know. I used to work in a DD drug and alcohol residential therapeutic community. I have met therapists with some really weird vibes though. I like the feel of this lady.

@@apt5044 I know what you mean. There’s great psych health care providers out there, but in the mental health arena there is a certain amount who were drawn into d/t their own unresolved issues

Yes. There are very real barriers to receiving mental health care. Especially financial barriers. Imagine being mentally unwell and poor. You’ll likely continue to spiral downward until something awful happens and the system pulls you in

No, it's that these people know how to hide, never trust a psychopath.

No, it is very hard to prevent those things. It Seems to you that it was easy because you Know what happened, so everything before that moment seems logical to you. But, in reality, there is an endless list of risky people with risky minds and in delicate situations. Some, or even many, of those examples never escalate and everything stays in their minds, but some of them do. Law sistems are full of flaws everywhere, but even in case of trying to do the best, it is impossible to make perfect selections of "fatal ones" and "problematic but not fatal ones". And you can't just put everybody in institutions and prisons before having really solid arguments. Sad,tragic, but unfortunately that's how it is. Human mind is very complex.

@@iks9120majority of people who murder, don’t have mental health problems. 😳😳

I don’t think it’s all that “preventable” tbh.

How would you name the actions of serial killer??

​@lolapapa5297 in psychology they don't reference their actions as evil. Because it prevents them from getting better.

​@@lolapapa5297sadistic maybe? Depends on why they did what they did

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@@UwUImShio it is more professional osychoanalitical speaking🙏

Not always but in some cases I'm sure, if compassion had been shown to the criminal earlier, maybe things would be different. Maybe not.

People that paint people as good/evil are generally a bit thick.

She’s like a earth angel. Most could never have compassion for such crimes but none judgement and compassion for everyone is key.

Some people are evil, not sad.

When you say "bright light" did you actually mean "dingy puddle"?

I'm sorry for what happened to you, Friend. Wishing you healing and success! 💰 ❤️

I don’t know what comments you’re reading

I don't know why people find it hard to understand that you can have compassion for both serial killers AND their victims...

And it will only continue more and more until your group gets more proactive to prevent unnecessary harm. Your job of waiting for something bad to happen will never work in a trillion years. You have to PREVENT the seed and roots of the problem. Only the philosophy of antinatalism can do that.

Was this new for you? Jesus christ........

@@vivienm2037 It might look obvious on the surface and be obvious to you but people gain perspective on seemingly obvious things all the time. For example, me and a friend often tell each other about various experiences and our feedback often exposes to each other things that seem obvious to us both when said, but actually it took each of us to reveal that to the other. That's us giving each other perspective that we alone hadn't yet seen and I think videos like this can give similar perspective to people too

Well, sorry to say, it doesn’t make me feel better to know how people commit horrible things. Reality, there is evil and good in this world and we make choices.

@@annmarie4794 There's good and evil within all of us you could say, light and dark. If you are able to experience empathy and understanding for others who do bad things then it's easier to give that to the darker parts of yourself too. It doesn't mean you yourself will become a monster or that you don't care about the damage bad deeds can cause or that we shouldn't be responsible for our actions, just means you won't judge yourself and others as hard

@@annmarie4794the world is far too big for things to only exist in black and white. we shouldnt look at everything in absolutes.

As a mother of a chronically ill child I just want to tell you: You are a very brave woman. Your life must be so hard. For me it was helpful to find out what are my resources that can actually make me feel better and to focus on them when times are especially hard. (Reading fiction novels for escape, having various animals, even exotic ones, meditation/meditative prayer, early Christian faith in a not all powerful but only good god that awaits me at the end of my life, "positive" crime movies where everything ends well for the heroes and some more). I wish you all the best and hope that your child gets the right medication to improve in health. I once met a young man with schizophrenia who had been through all sorts of treatment and hospitals. After years of useless treatment doctors finally found out that his lithium level was too low. For unknown reasons his body couldn´t uphold a normal lithium level. When he got lithium pills his mental problems vanished. He was so happy and grateful for this medication! So never give up - there might be a solution/improvement just round the corner (easy to say I know, I have to tell it to myself very often....) The all-loving God bless and help you!

It is empathy and compassion that prevents us from harming or killing others,

incredible

It's great you express your self!🥰😊 I think it's a shame there aren't standard classes that teach emotional balance. Maybe someday people in general will understand the importance of that. ❤🌍🌎🌏🌐

This is so well written and I couldn’t agree more, I’m sorry for your loss I hope you’re doing well 🤍

Interesting. Now I think back on it, I had a similar experience when one of my best friend's passed away due to suicide. Also, focusing on who might potentially fall victim to the "domino effect" took up almost all my energy as well. A difficult experience.

I'm trying to quit and this hits hards damn. Glad you're okay❤❤

Weed is indeed doing brain damage, toxic to the body, thus brain. So many plants are toxic to your body. People laugh when i say that, because they use it or want to try it. You where lucky to survive this all. You did the right thing and probably you feel guilt, but you had no choice, because your instinct kicked in for survial.

FYI, the job of a forensic psychiatrist/psychologist is NOT primarily to help these people.

@@chickenlover657 what is it?

@@teamLewis44 Analysis for court.

@@chickenlover657 oh, I didn't know

@@teamLewis44 Well now you do: the main task of a forensic psychiatrist/psychologist is to assess the mental state/condition of the "patient" in regards to the accusation made by prosecution, or by claim of the defense. To put it bluntly, your job is not to help them, but to diagnose and evaluate them.

I have schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. My therapist is incredible and I love her, but I chose to admit myself to a hospital after a delusion induced suicide attempt like 6 years ago and I felt like I was treated like an animal. I was not allowed to say no or ask questions even though I was there voluntarily, when nurses touched me it felt like they were trying to throw me around (I was also not a threat and quite visibly underweight at the time). There was more but I don’t need to share. I honestly left worse and I don’t know what choice I would make about admitting myself again if the circumstances would be appropriate. More people like this woman need to go into this field instead of most of the folks who do instead.

And sliding/scale payment

There are, in a sense, but anosognosia is a hell of a thing. (Originally used in reference to stroke patients it's an inability to perceive your own illness or neurological deficits as a result of brain injury.) More broadly as it refers to Mental Health it means people unable to perceive their own illness. The number of people who have severe disassociative episodes or beliefs as a by product of bipolar disorder or schizophrenia means they can become extremely violent till such a time as there delusions end OR they kill themselves, as a the paradigm of reality shifts eith some real world stimuli which can include blood, screaming from their victims (which feeds into the delusion) and other sensations ect. By the time they regain some amount of stability, if they've never had an assessment for mental illness or worse, has one but refused to seek or continue with treatment, then cases of psychosis induced murders can happen. You can't treat what people cannot percieve (even though the rest of the world can usually tell as the prodromal phase of mwntap illness includes recognizable signs if you have a baseline for that persons "normal") They are criminally responsible and yet there's very little families or bystanders can do UNLESS they're publicly assulting another member of the public. Andrea Yates is one of the most prominent sufferers of psychosis as a result of under treated either bipolar OR schizophrenia or bipolar with schizo-affective tendencies that has, at least, some hint of a sympathetic edge, depending on your worldview. Most of what this Doctor deals with are the criminally insane rather than a social or truly antisocial personality disorders (as it's a rough to say almost impossible task to convince a court of law).

@@katydid5088 I think this is too short term a view. It's true that psychotic patients aren't the most compliant with treatment but that's partly because the treatment offered to them is minimal and/or inappropriate. I used to live with someone with BPD who sometimes experienced psychotic episodes and it took her well over a year just to get diagnosed (all the time working/doing chores/trying to maintain a social life). After she got diagnosed she was offered CBT, even though it's actually contra-indicated for people with BPD. It's the only thing they had available in our area so that's what she was offered. If DBT or some other type of therapy had been funded in our area she might have been helped. As it was, the therapy further damaged her hold on reality and she lost everything. I've heard she's living on the streets in another country now - this is a woman who had a degree and a career. Funding mental health services and breaking down the stigma of reaching out for help is the long-term preventative solution. Yes, it won't help some, but it will help most.

They are called Crisis Stabilization Units or CSU for short

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i would love a coffee and a chat with this person, i could pass the time of day listening to her

Having had to sit through listening to two psychiatrists being cross examined ( my son was murdered by a paranoid schizophenic conveniently diagnosed after the killing) I have lost any faith I had in the pursuit of forensic psychiatry. It is unscientific nonsense promoted by 'doctors' with the gift of the gab. Time and time again these 'experts' let these killers out and the pattern repeats itself resulting in loss of life and a lifetime of neverending, perpetual pain for the people the victim(s) leave behind. The psychiatrists are never held accountable. These killers should never be let out. But that would be against their human rights and it would be proven that forensic psychiatry does not work.

Whats her book

did she say that? i don't recall

@@gregdahlen4375 She said that 1. revenge isn't good for the soul and 2. practically, it's expensive

perhaps she's learned how to conserve her energy

@@gregdahlen4375 if she did that's marvellous but I just cannot seem to do it.. I suffer with ibs and walking up the stairs effects me. I also worked with dementia patience for almost 8 years and it's extreamly taxing on the body and mind which is why family's can't do it.. deep down if family's spreaded all of their wealth evenly then they could all support their loved one for years in their own home but people don't put that much thought into it plus having children and tryito make memories make it that way which is understandable Anyway her job would make her stressed about 10 times a day because no matter what she does she's a witch and a bad person to the people she looks after so that's why I admire her I gave it up I hadn't the health to continue on I was constantly sick and the negative behaviour and travelling and paying taxes and ending up with living the same lifestyle as someone who doesn't work got the better of me

Nice to see, but she says the worst is a case of denying reality, I find her opinion useless. This is written from the USA and I find her opinion uneducated. She is out of touch with psychopathology, and needs to look at another country to see serious horrors.

Calm down

how so?

I would think it would be a balanced mix of fascinating, harrowing, and heartbreaking.

@@gregdahlen4375 so much to say. You quickly become accustomed to meeting people who are at the extremist end of mental illness, who have carried out extreme acts of violence whilst severely unwell. Like the doctor here says, it doesn't show up in a person's body or face, what they've done isn't written all over them. You could know they have killed someone with their bare hands, but in-front of you is a polite, calm and good-natured person. Not always as straightforward but its one i find myself contemplating often, how someone can be so incredibly lovely, and have done something so unthinkable. They have to live with it themselves. Its a complex environment, but i see that there is a lot of compassion, care and hope. It has its challenges, reading medical notes that contain some of the most disturbing realities. Also its clear to me, most people have been subject to extremely traumatic events in life.