How to cope with anxiety | Olivia Remes | TEDxUHasselt

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Anxiety is one of most prevalent mental health disorders, with 1 out of 14 people around the world being likely affected. Leading up to conditions such as depression, increased risk for suicide, disability and requirement of high health services, very few people who often need treatment actually receive it. In her talk “How to cope with anxiety”, Olivia Remes of the University of Cambridge will share her vision on anxiety and will unravel ways to treat and manage this health disorder. Arguing that treatments such as psychotherapy and medication exist and often result in poor outcome and high rates of relapses, she will emphasise the importance of harnessing strength in ourselves as we modify our problem-coping mechanisms. Olivia will stress that by allowing ourselves to believe that what happens in life is comprehensive, meaningful, and manageable, one can significantly improve their risk of developing anxiety disorders.
Anxiety is one of most prevalent mental health disorders, with 1 out of 14 people around the world being likely affected. Leading up to conditions such as depression, increased risk for suicide, disability and requirement of high health services, very few people who often need treatment actually receive it. In her talk “How to cope with anxiety”, Olivia Remes of the University of Cambridge will share her vision on anxiety and will unravel ways to treat and manage this health disorder. Arguing that treatments such as psychotherapy and medication exist and often result in poor outcome and high rates of relapses, she will emphasise the importance of harnessing strength in ourselves as we modify our problem-coping mechanisms. At TEDxUHasselt 2017, Olivia will stress that by allowing ourselves to believe that what happens in life is comprehensive, meaningful, and manageable, one can significantly improve their risk of developing anxiety disorders.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@claudiadrake56
@claudiadrake56 6 років тому
who else is here procrastinating because they're anxious
@ME-ol9gk
@ME-ol9gk 6 років тому
Claudia Drake definitely. I keep saying once I feel better I will do this and do that. But it has been twenty years I’ve been putting of stuff due to anxiety and feel I’m getting worse as I get older
@anganarendra3044
@anganarendra3044 6 років тому
I am. Really this talk helped me
@sumit8769
@sumit8769 6 років тому
What about you ?
@thisisntallowed9560
@thisisntallowed9560 6 років тому
My mom keep saying I'm not responsible and badly organized, and I believe her, and it brings me down, I have a very low self estime when it comes to doing someting productive.. I compare myself to others and I think I can't make it like them, because I might be too emotional. I can't do it badly, because I would have low grade, and I wouldn't be able to have a job that I like
@bigbreadeaterellis
@bigbreadeaterellis 5 років тому
Procrastinating is the easiest thing to do when anxiety has a strong hold on you.
@virtualethan_1531
@virtualethan_1531 3 роки тому
My anxiety is causing depression. And it makes me think of my past and how happy I was.
@frumpty_cumpty
@frumpty_cumpty 3 роки тому
you can get through it. be strong.
@justinanthonysitjar1983
@justinanthonysitjar1983 3 роки тому
I feel you bud, i wake up everyday feeling anxious for no reason, and when i hear like a peaceful song or melody i always remember the past me playing with my friends on a joyful day, nowadays i feel like im imprisoned in my own mind.
@virtualethan_1531
@virtualethan_1531 3 роки тому
Justin Anthony Sitjar it’s okay bro. Ever since I wrote this comment I am well better now, one thing I tried is walking throughout the day it makes me feel happier and reduces cortisol. I hope you feel better my man, stay strong🖤
@justinanthonysitjar1983
@justinanthonysitjar1983 3 роки тому
@@virtualethan_1531 thank you man
@virtualethan_1531
@virtualethan_1531 3 роки тому
Ms. Boombalati stay strong, I no longer have anxiety, what I did was life more in the presence. Don’t think of what you have to do later and what happened in the past. Instead think of ways you can help yourself in a better way by doing things you enjoy, take care. 🖤
@ahmetberat7357
@ahmetberat7357 Рік тому
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once . Breathe . You're strong . You got this . Take it day by day .
@denizkok6711
@denizkok6711 Рік тому
I have been having constant and unbearable anxiety because of university. dr.jeromespores is life saver. Thank you
@denizkok6711
@denizkok6711 Рік тому
@Aaron Millers Yes, he ships discreet and anonymous
@denizkok6711
@denizkok6711 Рік тому
@Aaron Millers @ dr.jeromespores
@vincentgiovanni1963
@vincentgiovanni1963 Рік тому
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot , I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well.
@tomrandell2979
@tomrandell2979 Рік тому
Came across the comments about dr.jeromespores and I must say he's a genuis.
@AlcrownShaElf
@AlcrownShaElf Рік тому
1) Take control of your life, start something by doing it badly. 2) Forgive yourself, be kind to yourself. 3) Having a purpose and meaning in life.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@mzsweetshoes3261
@mzsweetshoes3261 Рік тому
God, please help me with my anxiety issues 🙏
@sunnymann1998
@sunnymann1998 Рік тому
Thanks may god bless you❤️
@devinwatkins8953
@devinwatkins8953 Рік тому
@@kerdskipa1101 eh I don't think it's worthless at all. What you looking for? The meaning on life? Get over yourself and stop being a d!ck. Also therapy for me is only 30$ lol does insurance not cover it for you?
@NewandForgiven
@NewandForgiven Рік тому
@jazzyj2182 We can forgive ourselves, because we ourselves forgiven, and we can have purpose and meaning, because we are children of God, and are sent to tell others the good news. How blessed are we?
@fparadise1979
@fparadise1979 5 років тому
i really have a problem forgiving myself... i'm embarrassed about so many past mistakes, i'm always afraid people still judge me for them. it's terrible.
@brokebum3914
@brokebum3914 5 років тому
Omg same, I over think what other people think of me because I embarrassed myself so much last year
@MJ-cc6yv
@MJ-cc6yv 5 років тому
Feel the same way!
@ambikashevade6776
@ambikashevade6776 5 років тому
I feel the same way!! And this feeling is so inhibiting. Trying to change my self :)
@sabrinakasimova7654
@sabrinakasimova7654 5 років тому
OMG ME TOO, we need to set up the club of people with this problem:)
@fearitself125
@fearitself125 5 років тому
You are not defined by your mistakes, but rather how you move on from them. Love to you.
@jeannepauwels8067
@jeannepauwels8067 2 роки тому
When she said "people with anxiety are not kind to themselves" it made me cry
@Believerfearless
@Believerfearless 2 роки тому
Same because it’s true
@rakshashetty5089
@rakshashetty5089 2 роки тому
Yup
@syedimranh.sprofessoremeri6678
@syedimranh.sprofessoremeri6678 2 роки тому
Very true
@elinavoronina3185
@elinavoronina3185 2 роки тому
I felt a surge of tears when she said about the benefits for others
@utkarshshrestha
@utkarshshrestha 2 роки тому
So true
@emilias34
@emilias34 Рік тому
I watched this with my mom 6 months ago when I was paralyzed with anxiety, I am 34 but I was so sad that she had to take a day off work just to sit with me and hold me and I was so scared and screaming crying from anxiety. I watched this and it helped me so much. Now six months later I am happy, I have a job, I’ve turned my life around. I was so far gone, I’d been so depressed since I was 15. But now I wake up and feel happy. No longer afraid to be out in public. Tapered out my meds I’ve been on for 14 years. I sleep at night and wake up refreshed in the morning. If my life can be this good then so can yours. I was so poor I never knew how to pay rent and now I’m independent and have the nicest colleagues. Hold on, life will be beautiful. Just hold on
@artyomalekseyevichchyornyj2855
@artyomalekseyevichchyornyj2855 Рік тому
Thats beautiful...happy for u!
@pretty-eyes
@pretty-eyes 10 місяців тому
How did you do it? I am exactly as you described, but alone :(
@emilias34
@emilias34 10 місяців тому
@@pretty-eyes I don’t know, everybody is different :( for me, I got a job as a cleaning lady. It’s very stressful and physically demanding so I am forced to get up and use my body the whole day, afterwards I’m too tired to feel stuff, so I just eat and sleep. It makes me feel very useful but I also made many friends that way, and am learning spanish to be able to communicate with my new friends. I’m sorry you’re alone :(
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
Fear Be one with fear and you master it. Fear Is Not Wanting Fear is ultimately rooted in not wanting things, like thoughts and or feelings, to be the way they are. The inner "no." We think fear is something to be condemned and overcome without even knowing what fear really is. But in reality, we don't want many of the things we think we need to overcome. In reality, we need to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting and realize that fear is what we don't want, and that the goal of overcoming fear is not necessarily to overcome fear, but to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting in order to ultimately find peace. Everything unwanted is fear. So being against everything is the ultimate fear. The way to make peace with fear is to acknowledge and integrate what we don't want. To want what we don't want. That is the path we must take to find peace. I hope you can gain understanding from this. It really helps me. I used to think I was weak or not good enough because I hadn't overcome certain fears in my past. But now I know that I didn't want those things and that's why I hadn't done them. So the fear is not necessarily there to be overcome. Because we don't want a lot of those things and that's okay.
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
The Courage To Be Strong The courage to be strong is the shield to protect oneself against the manipulating fears that attack one. To be strong in spite of this and not to let oneself be manipulated is the courage to be strong. The Courage And The Fear Courage is knowing what you want and doing it. Fear is knowing what you don't want and not doing it. Courage Is An Art Courage is an art. Overcoming fears is difficult when fear has the upper hand. When manipulative fears have the upper hand, we even make fools of ourselves and do things we don't even really want to do. Only when we unite with fear, do we have the upper hand with fear, and so at the same time the courage arises to do what we really decide to do.
@janberkylmz5115
@janberkylmz5115 Рік тому
I don't know should I be happy or sad for finding people like me. But I believe in my deep heart we will deal with this.
@jennypareno7871
@jennypareno7871 Рік тому
Fighting ❤️
@badralnamie7131
@badralnamie7131 Рік тому
that's right . just keep going and try to do your best . we can do it . I believe in that too !
@lorennmetz3134
@lorennmetz3134 Рік тому
🙏🏼
@lorennmetz3134
@lorennmetz3134 Рік тому
I recommend The Anxiety Guy recovery program my anxiety was a debilitating 10 before, it is extremely helpful
@infowazz
@infowazz Рік тому
@@lorennmetz3134 thx for the tip!
@sabrinadeloera9574
@sabrinadeloera9574 2 роки тому
As someone who deals with anxiety/panic daily, reading these comments makes me feel nothing but comfort. We are so much stronger than we think
@TherapyToThePoint
@TherapyToThePoint 2 роки тому
Yes! it's okay to not be okay!
@iego5984
@iego5984 2 роки тому
Im with you 100% i have GAD and chronic panicking
@Banker01111
@Banker01111 2 роки тому
@@iego5984 FIGHTTT THE ANXIETY FIGHT IT
@florenceso8338
@florenceso8338 2 роки тому
P
@Banker01111
@Banker01111 2 роки тому
@@minarii2169 trick ur brain , question ur brain , ur brain is currently feeding over you and you need to reverse that .
@michaelcollins1507
@michaelcollins1507 2 роки тому
To all those watching this video for their mental health, in case no one tells you today, just know you’re not alone (a lot of us are here for the same reasons) and you’re doing an amazing job getting on top of your mental health. And you should be proud of yourself for doing so. I hope you have an amazing day, and know we’re all here with you :)
@sidlove5798
@sidlove5798 2 роки тому
@Michael Collins I am wishing you peace and respectful blessings of abundance along with your loved ones or family. Your words of inspiration hit my heart in a positive manner. Keep being a light because you have a divine soul. Have a great weekend. Stay positive and never give in or up to thoughts of fears, doubts, and anxiety. Do not pay any heed to negativity. You are worth more than what you feel or think.
@Peace-zi9vk
@Peace-zi9vk 2 роки тому
Thank you
@amigomichael3566
@amigomichael3566 2 роки тому
Yeah what I do is i just stop giving a f about what others think. I just say to myself, whats the worst thats going to happen? If they laugh, then I laugh back
@amigomichael3566
@amigomichael3566 2 роки тому
@Derone Cerrone naw dude dont think of that. Just laugh at them and you gotta know that they are just laughing at you, nothing going to happen :)
@amigomichael3566
@amigomichael3566 2 роки тому
@Derone Cerrone my tip is to just stop giving a s*** about what others think.
@thomasmoon983
@thomasmoon983 2 роки тому
To all those reading the comments.. Please note that you are not alone, and that there is nothing wrong with you. You can make it through this. With love, An anxious person too
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@jessicamerced9116
@jessicamerced9116 Рік тому
@@jazzyj2182 Thankyou❤❤
@maryjoymapagdalita7133
@maryjoymapagdalita7133 Рік тому
I wanna be fine
@boozy1
@boozy1 Рік тому
@@jazzyj2182Amen
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 Рік тому
me too
@giarosas9658
@giarosas9658 Рік тому
i liked how she mentioned it can be like an "out of body experience" like you'll be in the middle of a conversation yet it feels like your just hearing your own words.
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
Fear Be one with fear and you master it. Fear Is Not Wanting Fear is ultimately rooted in not wanting things, like thoughts and or feelings, to be the way they are. The inner "no." We think fear is something to be condemned and overcome without even knowing what fear really is. But in reality, we don't want many of the things we think we need to overcome. In reality, we need to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting and realize that fear is what we don't want, and that the goal of overcoming fear is not necessarily to overcome fear, but to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting in order to ultimately find peace. Everything unwanted is fear. So being against everything is the ultimate fear. The way to make peace with fear is to acknowledge and integrate what we don't want. To want what we don't want. That is the path we must take to find peace. I hope you can gain understanding from this. It really helps me. I used to think I was weak or not good enough because I hadn't overcome certain fears in my past. But now I know that I didn't want those things and that's why I hadn't done them. So the fear is not necessarily there to be overcome. Because we don't want a lot of those things and that's okay.
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
The Courage To Be Strong The courage to be strong is the shield to protect oneself against the manipulating fears that attack one. To be strong in spite of this and not to let oneself be manipulated is the courage to be strong. The Courage And The Fear Courage is knowing what you want and doing it. Fear is knowing what you don't want and not doing it. Courage Is An Art Courage is an art. Overcoming fears is difficult when fear has the upper hand. When manipulative fears have the upper hand, we even make fools of ourselves and do things we don't even really want to do. Only when we unite with fear, do we have the upper hand with fear, and so at the same time the courage arises to do what we really decide to do.
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 2 роки тому
Anxious people avoid making mistakes, embarrassments..and seeks perfection. Thats where you go wrong. You can't please everyone ✊🏿♥️
@josiahflores4429
@josiahflores4429 2 роки тому
Thank you for that comment homie
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 2 роки тому
@@josiahflores4429 ❤️🙏🏼
@amadeus4438
@amadeus4438 2 роки тому
My brain overthinks everything I do so much that I cant even sleep at night
@flpf
@flpf 2 роки тому
I always get so anxious about online classes im scared if i will be called to answer and i will answer wrong and what if everybody in the class will laugh at me..
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 2 роки тому
@@flpf I also experienced that, my first time attending Online classes. But I slowly got confident answering questions that I'm not even sure im correct.
@troyciardelli-zaryckyj3929
@troyciardelli-zaryckyj3929 2 роки тому
The feeling in the stomach that won’t leave is awful and when my legs shake and my hands won’t stop moving because of how bad it gets I genuinely feel broken.
@ngee4925
@ngee4925 2 роки тому
@@susanbarrera2073 hang in there, I know the feeling.
@lolapippa92
@lolapippa92 2 роки тому
Exactly how I feel to
@rfkqueen6426
@rfkqueen6426 2 роки тому
Same .. but how to get rid of it ? That’s the question?🤦🏻‍♀️
@k1ller._8unny62
@k1ller._8unny62 2 роки тому
@@rfkqueen6426 RIGHT
@cogtager
@cogtager 2 роки тому
You’re not alone 😔
@KaptainKabui
@KaptainKabui Рік тому
My biggest anxiety trigger is loneliness, but it triggers every day. Olivia did a great job here, I genuinely smiled when she hit the ball on so many points.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@smackedinthejaw
@smackedinthejaw Рік тому
I have lived alone for 10 years...and experienced anxiety/depression multiple times. Being alone for most of the time has been great overall, but has had it's moments.
@Bubblesandcandyfloss
@Bubblesandcandyfloss Рік тому
I am the opposite. I crave being alone. Which makes me sad. But we’re all together in this scary time. If that makes sense x
@KaptainKabui
@KaptainKabui Рік тому
@@smackedinthejaw I can imagine, I have been learning since writing that comment that contentment with oneself is the ultimate solution
@PLAYAGrim5166
@PLAYAGrim5166 Рік тому
@@Bubblesandcandyfloss used to be the same always liked keeping to myself I still do but I just don't stay in my room all day now or I start feeling alone and anxious so I find ways to cope with the feelings they come and go wish it would stay away God Bless me🙏
@evaninboots
@evaninboots Рік тому
I’ve struggled with anxiety for many years. But lately I’ve tried to adopt this mentality of “I’m feeling anxious but i’m just going to accept it and keep moving forward”. It has helped me immensely. (Obviously easier said than done)
@jenniferhart6136
@jenniferhart6136 Рік тому
A few years ago, a therapist suggested that I imagine that I’m relaxed and floating above everything: all my negative thoughts and anxiety and “what if’s” - and just picture looking down and seeing those feelings as I fly above and over them. She said I should picture that I see my fears and I know they’re there, but since I’m coasting along high above all my fears - they can’t hurt me. She was a very calming person, and it sounded great when she said it, but I’ve still not quite mastered it.
@jessicaras4540
@jessicaras4540 Рік тому
“When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul.” Psalm 94:19 "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." Philippians 4:6 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34 "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " Isaiah 35:4 "And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?" Matthew 6:27 "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30
@pretty-eyes
@pretty-eyes 10 місяців тому
Trying too cos i.m fed up of this feeling and taking medications for years for depression too, which keeps coming back. This is not living, its existing. Not easy just yest had a severe panic attack just cos i had to go out with my cousin!!! Ended up in bed instead crying trembling etc
@bunnuy
@bunnuy 10 місяців тому
@@melf5283 same thing happens to me. it's so draining
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
Fear Be one with fear and you master it. Fear Is Not Wanting Fear is ultimately rooted in not wanting things, like thoughts and or feelings, to be the way they are. The inner "no." We think fear is something to be condemned and overcome without even knowing what fear really is. But in reality, we don't want many of the things we think we need to overcome. In reality, we need to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting and realize that fear is what we don't want, and that the goal of overcoming fear is not necessarily to overcome fear, but to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting in order to ultimately find peace. Everything unwanted is fear. So being against everything is the ultimate fear. The way to make peace with fear is to acknowledge and integrate what we don't want. To want what we don't want. That is the path we must take to find peace. I hope you can gain understanding from this. It really helps me. I used to think I was weak or not good enough because I hadn't overcome certain fears in my past. But now I know that I didn't want those things and that's why I hadn't done them. So the fear is not necessarily there to be overcome. Because we don't want a lot of those things and that's okay.
@vikerino777
@vikerino777 3 роки тому
Because of my anxiety i cant go outside do my school work, meet up with friends i literally cant do anything but be on my phone watching others living happy lives.
@michaelkoback4525
@michaelkoback4525 3 роки тому
Just saying you spend to many hours on your phone is toxic for your health. Seeing people live there lifes means your not trying to go out and live yours
@MG-qm8if
@MG-qm8if 3 роки тому
We cannot do anything on our own. Only Jesus can and he will. Just repent and ask him into your life. He will take it away. He took my fear of covid during this lockdown when I was home alone for months facing great anxiety and heaviness in my heart but cry out to Jesus when you are drowning in pain and he will deliver you. He took it away overnight which I know full well I coudnt have done on my own. But whats impossible with man is possible with Jesus. He is the way, the truth and the life. You will find life in him in this world ruled by death.
@Ahiya2.0asscracker
@Ahiya2.0asscracker 3 роки тому
Sameeee
@chancoo2896
@chancoo2896 3 роки тому
Same it's literally exhausting
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 3 роки тому
Then go out of your comfort zone and create the life you wanted to.
@dulceanael1468
@dulceanael1468 7 років тому
her explaining anxiety gave me anxiety
@krystlassan5499
@krystlassan5499 6 років тому
I'm sure she's very smart, and she's certainly pretty, but she has the worst delivery I think I've ever heard.
@kitten_purrrs73
@kitten_purrrs73 6 років тому
hmm funny...I understood her completly ...
@AB0VETHALAW
@AB0VETHALAW 6 років тому
Kittenpurrrs whenLoved same and i actually got quite emotional as she clearly understands this illness. This video really spoke to me
@gtiming7490
@gtiming7490 6 років тому
+Alma Avendad I'm studying treating anxiety at home and found a fantastic website at Aghy Magic Method (look it up on google)
@dorotttta
@dorotttta 6 років тому
maybe it's because you cope with anxiety in the way that you deny it sometimes. I had like this and when somebody was talking about anxiety siriously I was filling my hide anxiety growing
@plume_de_chat
@plume_de_chat 2 роки тому
I cried... Living with anxiety is so difficult. She analyzed it perfectly and the advices are PERFECT. I don't have any control on my life because of a health issue and my anxiety is living is best life because of my lack of actions and sense of living. When I do, just one thing, that makes me feel I'm in control, I'm someone else ! The thing is to never stop making choices,/actions because anxiety come back very quick. It works. If you really wanna do something, breathe and do it without thinking. It's terrifying at first but so much fun when you're doing it, and even after because you're so proud of yourself and so impressed how good and easy it was.
@zonunsanga7046
@zonunsanga7046 2 роки тому
You know I had also started worrying a lot from yesterday it is a very uncertain feeling I had yesterday it was like I am scared worried about everything because you know I had almost a fight yesterday but I had control myself on not to yesterday it was like I was very worried on what is about to happen because he is like a thug here and knows lot of people if I had fight with him I could have beaten him but after that I will have lot of problems and that's why I am having a lot of panic attacks but now I am little better hopes nothing bad happens today
@mankind2393
@mankind2393 Рік тому
true, momentum is key. If you can socialize or speak infront of a crowd without feeling very anxious, make it your routine. Your brain realizes that socializing is not a do or die situation, and it actually becomes fun. I guess the speaker has undergone this desensitization therapy, no wonder she's very calm.
@mohammedd270
@mohammedd270 Рік тому
I need someone that have anxiety we can talk in watsapp or facebook
@kimayasharma2918
@kimayasharma2918 Рік тому
Sameeee
@zaahidahfadil1971
@zaahidahfadil1971 Рік тому
Trueee
@tessymitch
@tessymitch 11 місяців тому
Psychedelics saved me from years of uncontrollable depression, anxiety and illicit pill addiction.imagine carrving heavy chains for over a decade and then all of a sudden that burden is gone.Believe it or not in a couple years they'll be all over for treatment of mental health related issues
@evanssmith5566
@evanssmith5566 11 місяців тому
I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol
@JoanPatterson-pv1sg
@JoanPatterson-pv1sg 11 місяців тому
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
@GeorgeWillis-xh4uj
@GeorgeWillis-xh4uj 11 місяців тому
@@JoanPatterson-pv1sg yes...Myco.spore
@morrisivy6726
@morrisivy6726 11 місяців тому
@@GeorgeWillis-xh4uj is he on Instagram?
@andersonjemma
@andersonjemma 11 місяців тому
Psychedelic is the answer to most severe anxiety and depression...The use of magic mushrooms completely helps one get over depression and makes you feel like yourself...I used antidepressants for some years but it only made me feel like a zombie but with immediate use of mushroom 🍄 in few months I feel like I'm living a whole new Life.
@studyigcse
@studyigcse 2 роки тому
Imagine how brave she is, to show up here with anxiety, to talk in-front of such a large audience.
@studyigcse
@studyigcse 2 роки тому
@fatima I know right, it really is!
@studyigcse
@studyigcse 2 роки тому
​@@renata4211 Narcissistic much?
@sophia-jp7eq
@sophia-jp7eq 2 роки тому
exactly
@studyigcse
@studyigcse 2 роки тому
@@sophia-jp7eq for real though.
@samyray2k851
@samyray2k851 2 роки тому
People have different types of anxieties and different things trigger it
@MNMNT_OG
@MNMNT_OG 2 роки тому
What I hate so much about anxiety is that constant feeling in your guts that something is so wrong, and that you need to act but you don't know how or if it makes the situation even worse. It's that feeling of a void, which makes me avoid.
@j.j8955
@j.j8955 2 роки тому
yeah, you are right, i feel the same
@janhavineware6116
@janhavineware6116 2 роки тому
Firstly just try to act on it, avoiding act on that feeling will make it even more worse than you think I'm not trying to scare you but I'm telling you is act on it
@Believerfearless
@Believerfearless 2 роки тому
Every day I wake up I figure out what I should worry about. There isn’t a day I don’t obsess or worry.
@atharvakale8220
@atharvakale8220 2 роки тому
Yes
@kyliepereiradepina1557
@kyliepereiradepina1557 2 роки тому
I always feel like I have to do things perfectly or go through a situation perfectly but when I feel like that I always mess up afterwards. You know what has been helping me with this? "Put yourself in uncomfortable situations where people may laugh at you" this makes you not to put too much pressure on yourself or feel like you should do things perfectly. Of course you shouldn't literally have to put yourself in situations where people will laugh at you but it helps to not put too much pressure on yourself because you'll be ok with making mistakes. Being ok with making mistakes can even be very attractive as well.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 11 місяців тому
She's actually a really good speaker, never once said "umm" or "hmm" and she spoke very calmly and clearly like she didn't have a single ounce of anxiety in her.
@nicksmith9
@nicksmith9 2 місяці тому
Imo she is one of the worst public speakers on ted lol. Sounds like she's about to cry
@onlyfacts1239
@onlyfacts1239 Місяць тому
​@@nicksmith9 That's why she's here. To prove that a person with anxiety can do public speaking.
@rosarichter4687
@rosarichter4687 Місяць тому
​@@nicksmith9Her points were made very clear for a non-native English speaker like me, and her calm way of speaking also gives me sufficient time to process what she just said
@nicksmith9
@nicksmith9 Місяць тому
doing it and doing it well are very two different things. My 8 year old can drive a car but I wouldn't let him @@onlyfacts1239
@sherrimandel6983
@sherrimandel6983 Рік тому
Psychedelic's definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source here.
@jefferyscott8148
@jefferyscott8148 Рік тому
@@brendacollins-kw3sm I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of work stress. Not until I came across liberty_capss , a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly
@jefferyscott8148
@jefferyscott8148 Рік тому
@@corbanobregon3898 Liberty_capss
@jefferyscott8148
@jefferyscott8148 Рік тому
On IG
@allybee342
@allybee342 Рік тому
@@karinamendez2065 Thank you, I really needed to hear this. Something terrible has happened suddenly in my life. I am very vulnerable have not control. I'm also very affraid.
@TransformationwithEdward
@TransformationwithEdward Рік тому
Hey there! If you're dealing with anxiousness, I want you to know that hypnotherapy can really help. It works by accessing your subconscious mind to address the negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to anxious feelings. As a hypnotherapist, I help clients with hypnotherapy as an effective and natural treatment option that can give you back a sense of control and confidence. So if you're struggling with anxiousness, consider giving hypnotherapy a try. It might just be the breakthrough you've been looking for.
@ActiveAdultsFitness77
@ActiveAdultsFitness77 3 роки тому
Coping Strategies 1. Don't try to be perfect 2. Forgive yourself 3. Purpose - People need you in their lives
@saradeen3984
@saradeen3984 3 роки тому
Thank u
@AtreyeeBhattacharjee24
@AtreyeeBhattacharjee24 3 роки тому
I was searching for this comment 😂
@pastelsunset6419
@pastelsunset6419 3 роки тому
@@AtreyeeBhattacharjee24 why is it funny?
@MG-qm8if
@MG-qm8if 3 роки тому
We cannot do anything on our own. Only Jesus can and he will. Just repent and ask him into your life. He will take it away. He took my fear of covid during this lockdown when I was home alone for months facing great anxiety and heaviness in my heart but cry out to Jesus when you are drowning in pain and he will deliver you. He took it away overnight which I know full well I coudnt have done on my own. But whats impossible with man is possible with Jesus. He is the way, the truth and the life. You will find life in him in this world ruled by death.
@useraccount7052
@useraccount7052 3 роки тому
No one needs anyone in this selfish world. The world keeps spinning with or without you. Life goes on. People will need you only till they can get something from you.
@tesajosi
@tesajosi 6 років тому
To all people saying that this does not help; seriously, there is no magic trick you've never heard of that will suddenly cure your anxiety. Almost everything she said, I've heard from my therapist before. Overcoming anxiety means DOING something, thinking less and training, practicing to being positive. You've probably practiced thinking negative for a very long time, this is not natural. So you have to practice again to think otherwise.
@sakik3661
@sakik3661 5 років тому
i agree!
@alexandrugheorghe5610
@alexandrugheorghe5610 5 років тому
true; one must develop skills to be more resilient for example: get a coin and toss it just before you want to do something you like -> heads you can go ahead, tails you cannot this will generate A LOT of frustration in your life (anxiety) which will force you to seek other ways of doing things in your life point is: nothing in life is guaranteed and there is little control over what you have so, bother only with the control YOU can have and less about external factors -> this will train your somatic and stress response system to be more resilient do this exercise daily for a month, continue for another if you are not letting go this is an excerpt from Dr Harry Barry's book: "emotional resilience", there are many other such skills he teaches you in his book i'm working through them with CBT approach while with my therapist we're doing psychotherapy; they seem to benefit each other also, you must teach yourself to accept yourself unconditionally and decouple who you are from what your behaviours are, you will then seize on how you behave (what you do in various situations) from who you are (and thus, stop nagging on yourself) good luck :)
@ramzykaram296
@ramzykaram296 5 років тому
yet hard to watch when you cannot breath because of anxiety while watching, that time you wish there is a magic wand that disperses anxiety :(
@alexandrugheorghe5610
@alexandrugheorghe5610 5 років тому
@@ramzykaram296 don't block it, acknowledge it and let it pass through you, focus on your breathing
@felipeblanco3402
@felipeblanco3402 5 років тому
I totally agree with you. Get rid off the anxiety is almost like reprogramming the brain from years of bad thoughts that bring us down, and fight again them in a daily basis. Is like to "teach ourselfs" how to be positive, think the best of us. Is hard to do this in a Anxity Attack, but is totally worthful - however you only notice this after a few days. There's no anxiety turn off buttom.
@DreamSurferRelaxation
@DreamSurferRelaxation Рік тому
Hey you. Yes, you. You're probably scrolling through the comments, like I am, reading all these motivational comments. If you are reading this at night, you should get some sleep, and don't stress about everything going on in the world, or what you are going through. Don't dwell on things from the past, don't stress on your future. Just live your life, because you only get one. Do whatever makes you happy, not what other people want from you. For me, I'm gonna wake up tomorrow morning, get hit the gym, and cherish life for the amazing blessing that it is. I hope you do the same and have an amazing day as well!
@justaukesinger5739
@justaukesinger5739 Рік тому
thank you
@atishramsundra1683
@atishramsundra1683 Рік тому
Wow thanx for this😊
@adriannnuh
@adriannnuh Рік тому
thank you so much.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@pradeep9474
@pradeep9474 Рік тому
Thanx a tonn for this❤️✨
@Amy-hn5jt
@Amy-hn5jt 2 роки тому
40 seconds in and I’m already crying because I’m really at my breaking point with anxiety recently. Hope this helps by the time I’m finished it.
@Jenzy79
@Jenzy79 2 роки тому
I hear ya
@user-il4ex4ge4y
@user-il4ex4ge4y 2 роки тому
I feel you 🥺
@faithaustin3711
@faithaustin3711 2 роки тому
Ill refer you to this mate online who helped me with psychedelics..
@faithaustin3711
@faithaustin3711 2 роки тому
Mycodree
@faithaustin3711
@faithaustin3711 2 роки тому
He's on telegram,
@lili4933
@lili4933 3 роки тому
The physical anxiety is unbearable like the constant adrenaline that I feel for no reason I hate it
@lotusbeckmeyer2482
@lotusbeckmeyer2482 3 роки тому
i felt like that intensely for a while but talked to a doctor and they gave me hydroxyzine pills which i take whenever i physically feel that way, and it just calms me down so so much. i really recommend it if ur having trouble dealing with problems like that, it worked and made a huge impact for me, so u could always give it a shot ! :)
@sanggre2517
@sanggre2517 3 роки тому
Its easy to cure it when it happens in the body, but if that includes negative thoughts and worries then it's almost really hard.
@Death88758
@Death88758 3 роки тому
Try natural remedies..like saffron pills and rhodiola rosea
@Therealhershey
@Therealhershey 3 роки тому
Same
@MegaAlan83
@MegaAlan83 3 роки тому
@@sanggre2517 I know you're trying to help people but im sorry to say that anxiety is always with you. You just need to ignore it. It doesn't magicly disappear (sadly)
@cringefest7351
@cringefest7351 3 роки тому
I feel like I’m always wasting my life away, but at the same time I feel like I’m stuck
@Ahiya2.0asscracker
@Ahiya2.0asscracker 3 роки тому
I thought you talking about me but.yeah samee 😩and I'm just stuck i wanna do something but i can't really start ...
@gaurinagpure6432
@gaurinagpure6432 3 роки тому
Same here bro
@pridy-belle2632
@pridy-belle2632 3 роки тому
I felt this
@mikerayco
@mikerayco 3 роки тому
Same mate
@warray58851
@warray58851 3 роки тому
Yeah man pretty much the same. Depression plus anxiety is a dark place
@miraculously.obsessed
@miraculously.obsessed Рік тому
I go to a lot of parties, and I never talk to people because I feel anxious. I feel light headed, my stomach churning and my mind racing in circles, only second after the other. I want you to know, yes, it’s hard. Yes, it’s difficult, and yes, it can sometimes be scary. I’m not going to lie, I’m at a party right now and my friend sent me this after I asked them for help because I was shaking so much. But what I want everyone watching this to know is that you are not alone. You will think of things that you do want to, overthink, or talk to yourself and that is totally ok. But you need to know that this is totally okay! I do that every goddamn day, and I want you to feel good about it. I want you to feel good about yourself, and instead of trying to feel good about others, feel good about yourself. One step at a time, and you will push through this, and this will stay with you for the rest of your life and I want you to feel proud of it because no one is perfect. And you will never be who you want to be because you are you and you are unique and I want you to feel good about it. One step at a time, and I hope everything gets better for whoever is reading this. Have a great day/night!
@brendaacosta7710
@brendaacosta7710 Рік тому
thank you, this made my day. sending love.
@livingmy2.0
@livingmy2.0 Рік тому
Beautifully said!
@TransformationwithEdward
@TransformationwithEdward Рік тому
Hey there! If you're dealing with anxiousness, I want you to know that hypnotherapy can really help. It works by accessing your subconscious mind to address the negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to anxious feelings. As a hypnotherapist, I help clients with hypnotherapy as an effective and natural treatment option that can give you back a sense of control and confidence. So if you're struggling with anxiousness, consider giving hypnotherapy a try. It might just be the breakthrough you've been looking for.
@urdad2346
@urdad2346 5 років тому
My anxiety is so damn hard at the moment. I have anxiety attacks every few minutes. I just want u to know that u are not alone and that a lot of people can relate to this. It's not easy but it helps me to know that I'm not alone. I hope this helps u too. If u wanna share what u are worrying about just tell me ❣️❤️❤️
@o_6501
@o_6501 5 років тому
Me2 i can't controll myself in bad situations . Even if a classmate wants to ask me something, i will travel. Jesusss i can't handle this anymore.. I can keep going for like hours, but no ons cares.. I hope at least you're okay ❤
@cheyschroll4092
@cheyschroll4092 5 років тому
Cookie Emmi i always feel unreal and disconnected it’s horrible your not alone
@guinyasmr566
@guinyasmr566 4 роки тому
I have anxiety too, but believe me when you have anxiety you ALWAYS see the worst outcomes and you can become defensive which causes you to mistake peoples emotions for being negative when they aren't. Your life is important so make friends. It may be hard at first and some people won't want to be friends.. Don't give up! I'm no doctor but hopefully this UKposts comment will help you :)
@o_6501
@o_6501 4 роки тому
Benjamin Drake, Thank you sm ❤️
@donnetdawkins4951
@donnetdawkins4951 4 роки тому
Am finding it hard to know what is bothering me....
@smail123321
@smail123321 3 роки тому
Does anyone have very bad chest pain with their anxiety ??
@cristianasantos5732
@cristianasantos5732 3 роки тому
Every day since the moment I wake up til I go to sleep...
@AK_00015
@AK_00015 3 роки тому
I do
@xenini111
@xenini111 3 роки тому
YES unfortunately
@deanab5286
@deanab5286 3 роки тому
YES ITS THE WORST!! Makes me overthink everything
@markokkare
@markokkare 3 роки тому
Yes!
@Brenno99
@Brenno99 Рік тому
She's so right about changing the way we cope to lower anxiety , because we're so focused ...on what's causing our anxiety we forget how to make it stop... but by thinking about what's causing our anxiety and then distracting ourselves by doing something that needs our full concentration like riding a bike or driving our anxiety over time gets better .
@pluto8369
@pluto8369 Рік тому
I'm 7th grader dealing with really bad panic attacks. I really invested myself into this. Thank you!
@sonabiju6099
@sonabiju6099 Рік тому
I wish You'll get better....
@bread_papi
@bread_papi Рік тому
It gets better. Panic Attacks make you feel as though you’re at a dead end and can’t ever get out. You feel hopeless. Without pushing too hard get yourself to face what makes you scared allow yourself to slowly get more comfortable and the anxiety gets easier. I wish I could say there is a way to permanently ride of anxiety but there isn’t, but it most definitely can be something you can lessen to where life is livable and enjoyable again. I wish you the very best of healing you can do it 🤍
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
Fear Be one with fear and you master it. Fear Is Not Wanting Fear is ultimately rooted in not wanting things, like thoughts and or feelings, to be the way they are. The inner "no." We think fear is something to be condemned and overcome without even knowing what fear really is. But in reality, we don't want many of the things we think we need to overcome. In reality, we need to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting and realize that fear is what we don't want, and that the goal of overcoming fear is not necessarily to overcome fear, but to lovingly acknowledge and integrate the not wanting in order to ultimately find peace. Everything unwanted is fear. So being against everything is the ultimate fear. The way to make peace with fear is to acknowledge and integrate what we don't want. To want what we don't want. That is the path we must take to find peace. I hope you can gain understanding from this. It really helps me. I used to think I was weak or not good enough because I hadn't overcome certain fears in my past. But now I know that I didn't want those things and that's why I hadn't done them. So the fear is not necessarily there to be overcome. Because we don't want a lot of those things and that's okay.
@RyuShinto
@RyuShinto 8 місяців тому
The Courage To Be Strong The courage to be strong is the shield to protect oneself against the manipulating fears that attack one. To be strong in spite of this and not to let oneself be manipulated is the courage to be strong. The Courage And The Fear Courage is knowing what you want and doing it. Fear is knowing what you don't want and not doing it. Courage Is An Art Courage is an art. Overcoming fears is difficult when fear has the upper hand. When manipulative fears have the upper hand, we even make fools of ourselves and do things we don't even really want to do. Only when we unite with fear, do we have the upper hand with fear, and so at the same time the courage arises to do what we really decide to do.
@NadiaStAmand
@NadiaStAmand 8 місяців тому
keep investing
@jeddy_bravo
@jeddy_bravo 4 роки тому
Does anyone else go on their phone to distract themselves??.
@alaatarek9463
@alaatarek9463 4 роки тому
K9Addict ;3 Me and I have a exam after 2 days 😞
@karamiracle4039
@karamiracle4039 4 роки тому
All the time
@kieranmac7594
@kieranmac7594 4 роки тому
Definitely
@fay3ri
@fay3ri 3 роки тому
always on my phone walking down the halls @ school bc i think everyone is looking at me
@kermittfrog480
@kermittfrog480 3 роки тому
All the time
@zee2690
@zee2690 3 роки тому
I feel so alone with my anxiety, I feel like I don’t have control over it. I miss opportunities, I feel my anxiety physically and it really messes with me. I honestly don’t know what to do or how to live my life and love myself.
@zee2690
@zee2690 3 роки тому
@Monday, Tuesday Is My Weekend thank you, wish I was a fan of teas 😅
@dipanshuchauhan4479
@dipanshuchauhan4479 3 роки тому
@Monday, Tuesday Is My Weekend 2 capsules a day?
@marydi367
@marydi367 2 роки тому
@@femmei.9109 that app has rescued me so many times!!
@charliclips6395
@charliclips6395 2 роки тому
just be grateful and remember you are here for a reason
@aayushibhasin2204
@aayushibhasin2204 2 роки тому
@@femmei.9109 Thanks a lot for sharing this. I needed something like this.❤️
@Dhruviii952
@Dhruviii952 6 місяців тому
Praying to God for that one day where I'm free from this anxiety which is killing me day by day
@jessicaras4540
@jessicaras4540 3 місяці тому
Ask God to help you and heal you, there is nothing that can’t be done by God, if you have faith: “Cast All Your anxiety on HIM because He cares for you” _Peter 5:7 "For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” _ Isaiah 41:13 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” _Matthew 11:28-30 The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? The LORD is with me; he is my helper. I look in triumph on my enemies. _Psalm 118:6
@glavislohzh
@glavislohzh Рік тому
Some takeaways from this sharing: 1) Anything worth doing is worth doing badly the first time. Realise more often than not it's not that bad. 2) Forgive yourself for your mistakes. 3) Have a purpose or meaning in life. Think of someone you're benefitting and the work that will benefit the future generations. It doesn't matter if they will know because you will know, and this is will make you realise the uniqueness and importance of your life.
@y.d1272
@y.d1272 5 років тому
I cried.. Im always so mean to myself. I also point out everything im doing wrong.
@diaelot6872
@diaelot6872 4 роки тому
i do that to myself as well !! never fully realised it until she said it ! we need to start being kinder to ourselves
@Me-bu3cw
@Me-bu3cw 4 роки тому
Same
@megastar3740
@megastar3740 4 роки тому
💜💜⭐️ Me 2.
@y.d1272
@y.d1272 4 роки тому
@@diaelot6872 Yes we do♥️
@y.d1272
@y.d1272 4 роки тому
@@megastar3740 ♥️
@1anarquista.sensato
@1anarquista.sensato 6 років тому
The worst part about anxiety is the impossibility of getting help because people will always think of it as weakness... especially people who have it.
@joshrankert811
@joshrankert811 5 років тому
KKDragonLord cut those people off. They’re toxic. They’re a cancer. It’s not an impossibility to get help. Anxiety is NOT a sign of weakness, but what IS a sign of weakness is not doing anything about it. Help yourself. Love yourself.
@irunuki297
@irunuki297 4 роки тому
Josh Rankert it’s not like you can just cut off your boss no one understands anxiety unless you experience it yourself that’s the hard part :(
@lorelynalaska9015
@lorelynalaska9015 4 роки тому
It’s hard for me to get help because at home I’m so social and loud so it feels like no one would believe me if I ever talked about
@grmpEqweer
@grmpEqweer 4 роки тому
You know...If you have to live life with an anxiety disorder, it makes ordinary actions acts of pure heroism. Dead serious here. Our misfiring neurons are acting like our lives are at risk, and it takes us a tremendous amount of courage just to overcome that terror and do that ordinary stuff that irrationally terrifies us _as if it were a deadly danger._ So we're actually courageous people, since we're terrified and we do it anyway. Terror is life's way of telling you you're alive.
@JohnM0rris
@JohnM0rris 4 роки тому
I feeeel you. I have periods of bad anxiety and I always blame myself for being weak. Although I believe I handle myself pretty decent, I always tell myself I'm weak for having anxiety.
@Brenno99
@Brenno99 Рік тому
I write this as a message of hope . As the great Bob Marley once said don't worry... be happy , I hope whatever is causing you anxiety right now whoever you are , I hope it gets better and from the bottom of my heart I'm sorry your going through it because it ...sucks! I know because for the last two months I've had it bad but its gotten better and I hope it does for you too🙂
@baluchito1131
@baluchito1131 4 місяці тому
I cried over the whole episode. People you are amazing and not alone here in this world. Let’s all just wake up tomorrow morning and forgive ourselves for the whole damn past and give a chance to the bright future . I’ve been suffering with anxiety for so long and only now started to understand how it works and how to cope with it. I know it’s going to take time and effort but I am not going to die on the vine.💪
@jessicaras4540
@jessicaras4540 3 місяці тому
“Cast All Your anxiety on HIM because He cares for you” _Peter 5:7 "For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” _ Isaiah 41:13 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” _Matthew 11:28-30 The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? The LORD is with me; he is my helper. I look in triumph on my enemies. _Psalm 118:6 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _Matthew 17:20-21.
@lavanyatripathi9516
@lavanyatripathi9516 3 роки тому
I feel like social media gives me anxiety, but it is the only way for me to stay connected, especially during this time
@Aeroxima
@Aeroxima 3 роки тому
You can talk to people online without it being on facebook, twitter, etc. Social media is not the only way. I think it's having a very detrimental effect on society and on people individually.
@haleliyawilson278
@haleliyawilson278 3 роки тому
Yea it’s really hard to figure out which to do
@evangeliaanastasopoulou1266
@evangeliaanastasopoulou1266 3 роки тому
Hi lavanya , I have overcome my anxiety and PA's I've recently opened an instagram personal blog called the @flourishing.mindset it's all about positivity and mindset change . I hope to see you on there 😉☺️
@1peanut
@1peanut 3 роки тому
i stopped all social media for just 1 week and it really helped.
@gouri4843
@gouri4843 3 роки тому
I am also going through severe anxiety issues. My board exams are nearing and I can't even concentrete for 5 min in my studies. It makes me feel terrible because I used to study hard. It feels like I am in a prison were no one could get me out including myself.
@SerenaLoveL
@SerenaLoveL 6 років тому
Her description of the situations people with anxiety encounter is so accurate.
@iDarkFilterz
@iDarkFilterz 6 років тому
yeah
@ShadeofmySoul5768
@ShadeofmySoul5768 6 років тому
Yep
@bigbreadeaterellis
@bigbreadeaterellis 5 років тому
I agree especially when she drew the comparison between the natural anxiety people feel when they are facing a big bear. I feel that kind of anxiety every day and all night. Even trying to 'relax' makes me feel more anxious. However, I am starting to face my anxiety more than I used to. I'm currently taking little steps such as going out at busy times of the day and putting myself in situations I would normally avoid. I don't feel comfortable 'yet' but the key thing is that I'm trying to cope in spite of having a severe anxiety disorder.
@alexandrugheorghe5610
@alexandrugheorghe5610 5 років тому
I recommend the book "emotional resilience" by Dr Harry Barry
@teacherfromthejungles6671
@teacherfromthejungles6671 5 років тому
it's like she was nearby all along
@sadiabintenoor2257
@sadiabintenoor2257 2 місяці тому
The way out is- To focus on working process instead of what might be the outcome Forgiving oneself for past mistakes and move on Setting a purpose ❤ I got this points from the video
@anubhutigupta9541
@anubhutigupta9541 Рік тому
I was always a happy kid. One mistake and it made me question all my life. Taking therapy and trying to get better. To anyone else who has been feeling the same way, I hope you get better.
@kamilla2941
@kamilla2941 5 років тому
The fact that nobody laughed at her joke about bear gave me anxiety
@Sara-cf8xf
@Sara-cf8xf 4 роки тому
Kamilla Latipova lol you're just like me.. a high level of my anxiety is thinking that people are embarrassed and stressing for that instead of them😂😭 we really need to think positively.
@mr.rogues4145
@mr.rogues4145 4 роки тому
Me too a bit, lol...
@hannahclara7929
@hannahclara7929 4 роки тому
Me too!
@langtryvlogme
@langtryvlogme 4 роки тому
that room is full of anxious ppl
@m.m7732
@m.m7732 4 роки тому
Kamilla LOOL
@dennisgarcia3215
@dennisgarcia3215 5 років тому
someone who has dealt with anxiety & depression, i just want to let you guys know, you can get better!
@yawarali4986
@yawarali4986 3 роки тому
Thank you so much for your kind words brother 😞😢
@itb8155
@itb8155 3 роки тому
How did you help it go I’m physically sick everyday from my anxiety and panick constantly
@GrilledcheeseLVR
@GrilledcheeseLVR 3 роки тому
Really?
@itb8155
@itb8155 3 роки тому
Eglaf Person is this a replt to me bro
@GrilledcheeseLVR
@GrilledcheeseLVR 3 роки тому
@@itb8155 idk
@VenusEnrique57
@VenusEnrique57 Рік тому
A helpful TedTalk. Olivia Remes is such a good and patient speaker. She got my attention this way. Her suggestions for coping with anxiety are helpful 1) Do it...badly...Do it! Because it gives you a sense of control and eventually an avenue to accomplishing things. 2) Forgive yourself. Big for me. I don't think I lack self-forgiveness - but I (probably do) because it keeps me stuck on the wrong choices I made millions of years ago - like never finishing graduate school. I feel such shame and anger and unforgiveness because it trickled into other problems and got me "stuck" and afraid to make other choices. Yes, I will work to forgive myself. 3) Purpose. Find YOUR purpose. This is the least encouraging to me...because the heavy thoughts leave me feeling empty. Nothing - these last 10 years matters to me. Try as I may - I do start (Do it). I do forgive myself - sometimes. Yet, my mind is a big blank...try as I might - I am not able to connect. The fear, the anxiety, the unforgiveness (perhaps) makes me "think" - feel nothing matters. Still what Olivia Remes said reminds to "I must" find purpose. I'm glad this talk will help others. peace.
@GhostedPerona
@GhostedPerona Рік тому
These comments are genuinely so kind. I worry about so many things and it’s weighing me down. I feel so much relief reading them
@ryanolsen384
@ryanolsen384 Рік тому
I highly suggest not watching the news, That helped me alot. TheAnxietyGuy on UKposts has lots of content to deal with almost every situation of anxiety. It helped me alot.
@elenasalvatore3224
@elenasalvatore3224 3 роки тому
I can't even text my teacher for a question without crying and panicking because of my anxiety
@_iam1533
@_iam1533 3 роки тому
Me too and my mom doesnot get it
@kemmy1792
@kemmy1792 3 роки тому
@@_iam1533 same 😭
@bunglebee8630
@bunglebee8630 3 роки тому
I had to ask my classmate to write a script so I can send it to my professor. 😢
@basmayaseer2888
@basmayaseer2888 3 роки тому
OMG😓
@xylophone3764
@xylophone3764 3 роки тому
U start crying?! omds
@remo221
@remo221 2 роки тому
when she said "forgive yourself" I couldn't hold my tears
@soobinsolos
@soobinsolos 2 роки тому
i cried when she said : '' people with anxiety can't be kind to themselves '' because i genuinely relate to that :,)
@samuelgrayson3202
@samuelgrayson3202 2 роки тому
*Dr. John can bring your ex back for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore my 5 year broken relationship by bringing my ex back. Also, Dr. John always keeps up with his words. I highly recommend that you seek his help from him from now on and the most interesting of all is that you do all kinds of spiritual work, you can read it.*
@samuelgrayson3202
@samuelgrayson3202 2 роки тому
*✝2349047246470⏭⏭⏹️⏹️⏺️⏹️*
@samuelgrayson3202
@samuelgrayson3202 2 роки тому
*WhatsApp√ € ¥ √.*
@amigomichael3566
@amigomichael3566 2 роки тому
Yeah what I do is i just stop giving a f about what others think. I just say to myself, whats the worst thats going to happen? If they laugh, then I laugh back
@alfredosolari7597
@alfredosolari7597 Рік тому
You deserved a standing ovation. Your quote by G.K.Chesterton “If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.” comes from his wonderful book What’s Wrong with the World. However, you presented this TED talks very well indeed. It was crystal clear and inspiring. I am an English teacher in a high-school in Italy and I see a lot of anxiety, and am always trying to find ways to help my students get over this fear of making mistakes. I completely understand it. I will definitely show this video to them when school starts in September. Thank you so much.
@elenasbaragli4091
@elenasbaragli4091 Рік тому
Hi Alfredo, it is lovely to hear teachers caring for their teenage students. Thank you, happy summer
@lauraadams2882
@lauraadams2882 Рік тому
What a great comment
@alfredosolari7597
@alfredosolari7597 Рік тому
@@lauraadams2882 Thank you.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? ____(Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " ____ (Isaiah 35:4)
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 Рік тому
Thanks for this information
@alexgutierrez8178
@alexgutierrez8178 Рік тому
Have been dealing with anxiety primarily all my life and can say that it sucks, I hate having these panic attacks, I hate feeling nauseous, I hate that I experience all these feelings but at the end of the day I remember to just do things that distract me and make me happy, like playing video games or simply going to the boxing gym. I just wanna say to those who are watching you are not alone ! I hope all the best when dealing with your anxiety and keep going because you are so much stronger 🙏
@jessicaras4540
@jessicaras4540 Рік тому
I hope this will help: “When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul.” Psalm 94:19 "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34 Ask God for help.. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." Philippians 4:6 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34 "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " Isaiah 35:4 "And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?" Matthew 6:27 "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30
@lisepham4311
@lisepham4311 3 роки тому
Im litterally crying wen she started talkin about the symptoms
@Sweetcakeyum
@Sweetcakeyum 3 роки тому
People who have the symptoms are going to cry on that part.
@anaorduna4307
@anaorduna4307 3 роки тому
Me too :(
@ivanalachova7859
@ivanalachova7859 3 роки тому
SAME
@keylareyess
@keylareyess 3 роки тому
Me too
@yummysoup
@yummysoup 3 роки тому
Same too
@benjamindelahoya5150
@benjamindelahoya5150 3 роки тому
Me : clicks on video Anxiety: increases 500%
@iranyaweeden6900
@iranyaweeden6900 3 роки тому
Me : clicks on video Me : reads this comment Anxiety : increases 1000%
@marymcgarry160
@marymcgarry160 3 роки тому
🤣 Literally!
@DEEPAKKUMAR-xr7ne
@DEEPAKKUMAR-xr7ne 3 роки тому
@@iranyaweeden6900 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@wormonastring849
@wormonastring849 3 роки тому
her describing the scenarios made it go 📈📈
@somdattachakraborty2739
@somdattachakraborty2739 3 роки тому
@@wormonastring849 damn, yes! I thought this'd be helpful but its the opposite. I stopped in the middle :/
@arestaquilla
@arestaquilla Місяць тому
I almost cry while watching this, idk but after watching this it heals some part of me. thank u sm
@emre-simplify
@emre-simplify Місяць тому
Her speech and voice tone healed me so I wanna greatly thank her.
@itrains1841
@itrains1841 4 роки тому
It feels like phones are causing anxiety but it also distracts me most times.
@valentine2411
@valentine2411 4 роки тому
Right????
@k31ra77
@k31ra77 3 роки тому
yea
@chicken7610
@chicken7610 3 роки тому
I like to watch UKposts videos that make me laugh to distract me.
@bluelionwarriordreams_1740
@bluelionwarriordreams_1740 3 роки тому
Yea
@mvnyoongiix
@mvnyoongiix 3 роки тому
not all phones cause anxiety, it depends what you are doing on your phone, if it distracts you, that's good. let it distract you, if it helps why not do it? if anything phones are used even during social anxiety, sometimes when walking past strangers i need to have my phone just to look at something other then them. it sucks when i don't have my phone cause i can't use anything to distract myself, especially if i'm walking alone and can't chat to my friends, i'd rather have something as a distraction then walking past them all awkwardly.
@andyxiong9898
@andyxiong9898 4 роки тому
Main points: 1) Feel in control of your own life. 2) Forgive yourself, be kind to yourself, and support yourself. 3) Have a purpose or meaning in life. - "Doing something with someone else in mind can carry you through the toughest times." - Olivia Remes (speaker) - "For people who think there's nothing to live for and nothing more to expect from life, the question is getting these people to realize that life is still expecting something from them." - Dr. Victor Frankel
@satina860
@satina860 3 роки тому
Thank you
@Channn55
@Channn55 3 роки тому
Thanks a lot. I actually screencaptured all the main points so there's like 10 of them but I saw your comment and you summed up all the main points very well so deleting the rest and screencapturing yours 🤭
@eggy60
@eggy60 3 роки тому
My man!
@kylebender1351
@kylebender1351 3 роки тому
Easier said then done though 😩
@jadem3934
@jadem3934 3 роки тому
Eh too much work 😭
@TheHighVibrationStation
@TheHighVibrationStation Рік тому
It is challenging living with anxiety. Olivia summed it up beautifully.
@abdiazizmohamed2603
@abdiazizmohamed2603 8 місяців тому
I like the part that she says "anything worth doing is worth doing badly the first time"...I suffer from this decision making.
@owenjc9132
@owenjc9132 2 роки тому
I literally get anxiety when doing the simplest tasks. It is so annoying and frustrating, hopefully this video will help
@zaidi684
@zaidi684 2 роки тому
Same with me How can we cure it ?
@owenjc9132
@owenjc9132 2 роки тому
@@zaidi684 I haven't the slightest clue
@anokhishambharkar2648
@anokhishambharkar2648 2 роки тому
Same pal
@charliclips6395
@charliclips6395 2 роки тому
just be grateful and remember you are here for a reason
@ojtiv
@ojtiv 2 роки тому
same i had a panic attack over going to the orthodontist, literally couldnt stop thinking about it, i was scared about what to say and i was scared about calling them on the phone, and now my school is building a new one and all i can think about is that all day long, cus when something changes my routine i literally cant stop having anxiety attacks
@shawnpowell9506
@shawnpowell9506 3 роки тому
32 years of battling anxiety. It's a fight that never seems to end. It can lead into depression and unwanted phobias. Don't be afraid to talk about it. There is no shame in not being perfect. It can get better.
@voutoo7899
@voutoo7899 2 роки тому
It leads to anxiety panics, OCD, Pure O etc pretty bad.
@bendarbyjones172
@bendarbyjones172 2 роки тому
It sure is a recurring battle. Ive had roughly yearly episodes of depression that last from 1-3 months for 20 yrs and now it has manifested as anxiety and i get it not as often but still every couple of years or so. My biggest problem is that work is always the trigger for me but i work on my own in construction and doing it badly the first time is not an option for me.
@litosoltow7729
@litosoltow7729 2 роки тому
@@bendarbyjones172 read what i sent you brother master it and help others. I was on your shoes less than a month ago. Then a kind stranger helped me out by letting me read that. If you got any question ask away man
@n81mobile
@n81mobile 2 роки тому
How u feeling now
@bendarbyjones172
@bendarbyjones172 2 роки тому
@@litosoltow7729 where did you send me something mate? I cant find it
@franceskadeda2544
@franceskadeda2544 Рік тому
My anxiety makes my relationship harder for the both of us. thank you for this video i can’t wait to here more than once in my free time. This is helping me.
@ryanolsen384
@ryanolsen384 Рік тому
I have had this issue in my relationships too, anxiety is horrible. TheAnxietyGuy on UKposts has lots of content to help you deal with anxiety. Helped me alot.
@TransformationwithEdward
@TransformationwithEdward Рік тому
Hey there! If you're dealing with anxiousness, I want you to know that hypnotherapy can really help. It works by accessing your subconscious mind to address the negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to anxious feelings. As a hypnotherapist, I help clients with hypnotherapy as an effective and natural treatment option that can give you back a sense of control and confidence. So if you're struggling with anxiousness, consider giving hypnotherapy a try. It might just be the breakthrough you've been looking for.
@emotionist6646
@emotionist6646 Рік тому
I find that what Olivia has said is very true in my case about the way we cope or handle things has a direct impact on how much anxiety we experiences. I find that one of the the things that has gotten me through the years has been building trust in my own ability to cope in various situations and that it has helped reduce the feeling of helplessness that accompanies anxiety.
@totalliferelax
@totalliferelax 3 роки тому
If you come across my comment, I hope that you know that the world needs you. You are a beautiful person no matter what you are going through right now! Have an amazing and blessed day. May life bring you the best. 💗
@_pathak
@_pathak 3 роки тому
Thanks 😇
@youareabaddream1716
@youareabaddream1716 3 роки тому
thank you so much 😇.💗
@trex6230
@trex6230 3 роки тому
Thank you so much, you're amazing !😇
@totalliferelax
@totalliferelax 3 роки тому
@@_pathak you are most welcome
@totalliferelax
@totalliferelax 3 роки тому
@@youareabaddream1716 ❤️
@elenachartouni3739
@elenachartouni3739 3 роки тому
Am i the only one having anxiety and trying to hide it from my parents or anyone?
@user-rg6ks4py5q
@user-rg6ks4py5q 3 роки тому
I’m with u on this one
@katelyn4954
@katelyn4954 3 роки тому
i tried to tell my parents because i had such a out of nowhere attack. and was in the ER and then i tried to talk to my mom ab it more and she just told me to grip my balls and go with it
@emory4407
@emory4407 3 роки тому
I told my mom but no one else know because I feel like they won’t care
@revan2831
@revan2831 3 роки тому
@@katelyn4954 my god. Do not do that, think you already know but you keep going to get rid of it. Im about to start so i can do everything i desire. But look at yourself in the mirror first and forgive yourself for everything. There is another comment in here of how they cured their anxiety. Along side everything they said, do what you love, play an instrument, unlock your inner artists. Also stay away from caffiene. Much support friend 🙂✌
@wassupg5272
@wassupg5272 3 роки тому
I have badd anxiety and I told my mom and I’m getting help finally
@Ry-xk2oh
@Ry-xk2oh Рік тому
Some tips ❤ Be kind to yourself Don't dwell on things from the past Don't focus on the future stop comparing yourself with others Stay strong and love yourself .. you can defeat the anxiety ❤
@lauhui6516
@lauhui6516 Рік тому
I wish I can be that strong
@akenatenofficial2203
@akenatenofficial2203 Рік тому
I don't think so, my anxiety is on another level 😞
@soundsandsights3908
@soundsandsights3908 Рік тому
I recently started making videos for anxiety- Relaxing noises and videos to help you. It works for me all the time.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? ____(Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " ____ (Isaiah 35:4)
@thexlonewolf1485
@thexlonewolf1485 Рік тому
My heart goes to those people who suffering from anxiety but couldn't afford therapy 💔
@mclevelandkent
@mclevelandkent Рік тому
This is actually funny
@Amogus-bq2ig
@Amogus-bq2ig Рік тому
@@mclevelandkent STOP STOP STOP
@Amogus-bq2ig
@Amogus-bq2ig Рік тому
@@mclevelandkent STOP IT
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@heartrose6088
@heartrose6088 Рік тому
@@jazzyj2182 amen 🙏
@anafernandes1019
@anafernandes1019 4 роки тому
I feel like I'm stuck
@groundzer0248
@groundzer0248 4 роки тому
Search for wonderbro
@subashgrg4666
@subashgrg4666 4 роки тому
in your mind, just put yourself in the worst position you could ever be like think about surviving in a war torn country (think yourself as a hungry Syrian kid without food and warm clothes) and what would you be doing to get out of that situation and to make most of your life as you don't know how many days you have to live.
@kishorsahu4271
@kishorsahu4271 4 роки тому
Do it what they said it really works
@salpal30
@salpal30 3 роки тому
Try moving
@peanxut7311
@peanxut7311 3 роки тому
Ana Fernandes same, but don’t worry. It’s going to be okay. You got this
@zeeshan0987
@zeeshan0987 4 роки тому
I fear other people's judgement. I think that's the source of all my worries.
@heyafro1
@heyafro1 3 роки тому
dont fear there judgement, only fear Gods judgment, he is very kind if you're trying to better yourself and fix the things we do wrong.
@Natalie-gj8sg
@Natalie-gj8sg 3 роки тому
I wish I wouldn’t care about them but I do and I hate myself for it
@sachikuwahara5460
@sachikuwahara5460 3 роки тому
Zeeshan Khan I totally understand. I’m very fearful of rejection and other people’s judgement. People tell me not to care, but I cannot stop myself from thinking about being judged.
@nanitesema7524
@nanitesema7524 3 роки тому
The same thing goes to me,, i wish everything will be fine with time
@bingusslingus7020
@bingusslingus7020 3 роки тому
Me too. Its ruining my life
@paulbrown7875
@paulbrown7875 Рік тому
I must say, she speaks beautifully. I've had anxiety for 13 years or so. At the moment I'm really suffering with it. I cant go anywhere without a family member accompanying me. I've lost all my independence. Its crushing me. It takes over every aspect of my life. I just wish I could feel normal instead of being hyper aware. It's like I know something that no one else does. I'm afraid too often. No one should have to live like this.
@TransformationwithEdward
@TransformationwithEdward Рік тому
Hey there Paul, I agree! If you're dealing with anxiousness, I want you to know that hypnotherapy can really help. It works by accessing your subconscious mind to address the negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to anxious feelings. As a hypnotherapist, I help clients with hypnotherapy as an effective and natural treatment option that can give you back a sense of control and confidence. So if you're struggling with anxiousness, consider giving hypnotherapy a try. It might just be the breakthrough you've been looking for.
@julienmakesstuff9920
@julienmakesstuff9920 Рік тому
One problem I've noticed from having anxiety is the constant dread makes it difficult to discern between actual problems and that everyday doom-ish feeling. So if I'm acting ok all the time, then that's how I'll act when there's a serious issue. Yes I'm calm and level headed, but I also might not show up with the appropriate level of urgency for the situation. It becomes very difficult to prioritise - even outside of my adhd
@meg4380
@meg4380 3 роки тому
I used to not have anxiety. I used to be so care free and so happy with myself. Before all of this I struggled with self love and I still do/did but not as much. I was so happy a month ago but then my anxiety was triggered. I’m not gonna say what started it since it’s a long story but I feel that I am not fully in control of my life anymore and I feel as if someone else is controlling it for me. My mind tells me to do and not to do certain things and it’s hard to forgive myself for the smallest little things that don’t even matter. I overthink most things that I say and do. It’s almost as if I have a second voice in my head and not just one anymore. I miss being happy and I miss feeling like myself. I miss being carefree and confident about myself in life. I’ve had friends and family with similar problems who have gotten over their anxiety and they tell me this feeling will pass. It really doesn’t feel like it though I know I’ll recover.
@karlarios5567
@karlarios5567 3 роки тому
Hi I am currently going thru the same thing but in my case I don’t know what triggered it, has your anxiety gotten any better I would love any ways to be better and go back to my self I am so scared and I hate feeling this way it’s been almost a week of these panic attacks everyday I don’t know what to do I am so sad I am trying to be more positive but when it happens it just brings me back down again :(
@makslavilla607
@makslavilla607 3 роки тому
I totally relate to everything u said. I used to be carefree too, and just plain happy. But something triggered my anxiety a month ago, and I've been stuck here since then. I am so much in pain because I don't know what to do to get back to my old self, i wanna feel better and I've been trying so hard to be better but nothing is working. I hope you'd feel better soon luv :) and if u did, pls tell me how u did it.
@parjitkhakh6970
@parjitkhakh6970 3 роки тому
Same boat here. I was fine and not a care in the world but idek for the past couple of months I can relate to exactly what you said.
@1peanut
@1peanut 3 роки тому
25 mg Hydroxyzine will make you feel 100x better. A prescription antihistamine, been around since the 1950s. it is great medicine. Ask a Doctor for a script. its non addicting and has very low side effects.
@meg4380
@meg4380 3 роки тому
@@karlarios5567 I’m so sry you’re also going through bad anxiety :( it’s been 6 months now and I feel so so so much better. It’s gotten a lot better and a lot of the time I feel like I’m cured and 100% again. It still bothers me here and there but if it does I can move on from it pretty fast. Some things that have helped me is grounding myself and telling myself that I am safe in the present moment, telling myself thoughts are just thoughts and they mean nothing bc they aren’t real and aren’t always true, I am the one who gives power to my thoughts and I decided not to, meditating, setting goals and focusing on important hobbies, and hanging out with friends. But that’s how I did it and I’m still doing those things. I hope you’re feeling better, it does take time though and I’m still healing!!
@AhmedBahubaishi
@AhmedBahubaishi 6 років тому
coping with anxiety no 1 do it badly no 2 Forgive yourself no 3 wait to worry no 4 Find purpose in life by helping others
@travassosvaldez
@travassosvaldez 4 роки тому
Forgive yourself. Very well said.
@RickJ916
@RickJ916 4 роки тому
Thanks. Her slow way of speaking gave me anxiety.
@srinivasmunuswamy667
@srinivasmunuswamy667 4 роки тому
no 3 have a purpose in your life
@richiek8066
@richiek8066 Рік тому
So true, and life changing! and you pointed out the key, anxiety is deeply connected to procrastinations, so taking action is the way to cure it. Thank you.
@sulin2279
@sulin2279 2 роки тому
The pace she talks really made me listen. And I really love her composure and grace.
@AndrewSmith_1984
@AndrewSmith_1984 5 років тому
Does anybody think smart phones and social media has something to do with anxiety?
@codemin2339
@codemin2339 5 років тому
Andrew Smith Definitely. It results in people developing anxiety because they don’t have to talk to people face to face, so it becomes more difficult to do that. Also I have a friend that I used to talk to but he moved away. He recently followed me on Instagram and nothing else, hasn’t even tried to reach out, and I have.. nothing back. So there’s an example. It makes it unnecessary to even reach out, cuz you don’t have to. A follow is the same! 😐
@Heidilambach
@Heidilambach 4 роки тому
Yes! Absolutely! it is harder to be "in the now" with all the distractions from the devices. But they can also help us, like with this video :) It depends on how we choose to use them, I suppose. If we are not conscious about it, i think we can easily get "trapped", and that is very stressful.
@death__ray
@death__ray 4 роки тому
Yes. I think that with the internet, we have so much information getting thrown at us at an alarmingly high rate. We consume so many news and fake news from all around the world, that we fill our brain with unnecessary stuff, making us hard to concentrate.
@d7oo.m996
@d7oo.m996 4 роки тому
sometimes
@karenwambui9777
@karenwambui9777 4 роки тому
Me ✋✋
@PauloNideck
@PauloNideck 4 роки тому
Coping With Anxiety Disorder from what I understood: 1 - Everything worth doing is worth doing badly. 2 - Do something with someone else's in mind. 3 - Have a purpose for your life.
@LP-bf9oe
@LP-bf9oe 3 роки тому
and forgive yourself
@nadiraarjuman
@nadiraarjuman 3 роки тому
Can u explain me abt 2nd point
@kermthegerm240
@kermthegerm240 3 роки тому
i get anxiety just thinking about my purpose in life
@andydownham
@andydownham 3 роки тому
1. Giving anything a go and doing it badly is not a bad thing, you need to start somewhere. Don't ever think that your first bad experience is how it will remain. You have the power and the will to give it another go and improve
@sureshreddy8590
@sureshreddy8590 3 роки тому
@@nadiraarjuman means or connected to point 3 what u r doing has a purpose🙏
@supratipmajhi6940
@supratipmajhi6940 2 роки тому
Thank You! The speech made me free from anxiety. I will start doing the points she made and comment here after 1 year later what happened to me.
@sergio3521
@sergio3521 11 місяців тому
Honestly thank you so much for this. I have been dealing with severe anxiety after a bad walk through the storm, this helped me relieve so much emotions, thank you 🙏🏼
@korneliussen2891
@korneliussen2891 5 років тому
I am an introvert and i have anxiety about being too quiet.
@alyssamia3651
@alyssamia3651 4 роки тому
Me too, you’re always thinking of what to say and when you say it you hope it doesn’t come out as awkward. Has it gotten better fro you?
@diegobarbosa3404
@diegobarbosa3404 4 роки тому
Same, but im star dealing whit that, think the worst scenario, what could happen?, you can’t die; so just do it, star being the most riddiculous person, domirt badly, but enjoy it; Sorry for wrong gramar, is not my native languaje 😀
@lorelynalaska9015
@lorelynalaska9015 4 роки тому
Ikr it’s like I don’t want people to judge my lisp so I don’t talk but I feel like people hate me for being quiet
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 4 роки тому
@@lorelynalaska9015 Think of it like this, because this is how it is. They don't hate you for being quiet, they want to hear you talk.
@simirank.5579
@simirank.5579 4 роки тому
Been there. The more you accept yourself though the lesser rips u give about other people's opinions. The lesser the rips, the lesser the anxiety. You have to realize that "being quiet" is not at all a bad thing. Also believe in yourself, always. :))
@valerievee123
@valerievee123 4 роки тому
She is so right, who’s still watching her in 2020’ right now especially with COVID19 🙏🏼
@fabriziomorris5320
@fabriziomorris5320 4 роки тому
I am...she didnt say anything I didnt know already, and none of that has ever helped me out...Im forever lost
@natassiagodfrey2067
@natassiagodfrey2067 4 роки тому
Fabrizio Morris hey I’m going through it too if you need someone to talk to I’m here 786-607-3982
@fabriziomorris5320
@fabriziomorris5320 4 роки тому
@@natassiagodfrey2067 thats incredibly kind of you but I would never want to bother you, Im quite of a burden
@random-accessmemory9201
@random-accessmemory9201 4 роки тому
Fabrizio Morris I can see myself to you. I think I’m really depressed right now.
@fabriziomorris5320
@fabriziomorris5320 4 роки тому
@@random-accessmemory9201 Im sorry to hear that
@datboii7162
@datboii7162 2 роки тому
Watching her speak, I started wondering: how can anyone so admirable suffer from anxiety? Then it struck me that that's probably how my friends that know about my anxiety look at me. I excel in many areas, such as university, sports and social stuff, like giving speeches. What few people know is that I'm super anxious about everything. Just getting up and going to work is a challenge for my every day. My problem is that, deep down, I think that it's my skills that make people like me, that I HAVE to be extraordinary to be loveable. What I'm slowly beggining to understand, however, is that it's not me being good at something that makes my friends like me. It is way more subtle than that. I learned that people who are good at, seemingly, everything intimidate me - I always think: there HAS to be some fault with them. Why? Because everyone has faults and flaws. In contrast, people that openly express their "weird" traits and are okay with them are often extraordinarily pleasant to be around and likeable. Seeing the imperfections in someone, and realizing that they are okay with it, gives us the feeling that it's okay to be imperfect ourselves. I need to get to know myself, I want to learn about my strengths and weaknesses. And I want to be kind to myself. I'm working on myself, yes, but it's okay with how I am. I bring something to this world that no one else does, and people need me. Tell this to yourself, empower yourself everytime you suffer from anxiety. We are strong and we will not allow this to control us forever.
@annaceciliaolgado365
@annaceciliaolgado365 Рік тому
Many thanks
@mankind2393
@mankind2393 Рік тому
i thought i was the only person in the whole world with anxiety. its true that i judge myself harshly
@TheDarkstar3601
@TheDarkstar3601 Рік тому
I'm a pretty sociable guy, I can mingle with pretty much any type of people. An extroverted introvert, as how I would perceive myself as. I still am anxious about how people view me or think of me. I think ahead of time how to present myself if ever they happen to meet me. It's tiring. And it's not like I'm putting on a mask or anything, I'm just scared of being ignored or left alone.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? _ (Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " _ (Isaiah 35:4)
@livingmy2.0
@livingmy2.0 Рік тому
High functioning anxiety is real. I had it, too. In front of other people very few people knew I struggled. I suppressed negative emotions and put on a front for so many years just to try and seem normal. Anxiety is a lonely and invisible disease.
@akiwong1071
@akiwong1071 Рік тому
I listened to Olivia's talk a few times and it gives me so much motivation! The coping skills are very evidence-based as well and I love them really much.
@spiritualscholar5906
@spiritualscholar5906 3 роки тому
If you have anxiety just know it’s ok, I had super bad anxiety my freshman year I was popular I had friends but still I had these bad attacks in the morning before school, this anxiety you feel are demons in your head, you gotta fight those demons and tell yourself your ok and you can do this, a cold shower helps a lot and also splash cold water on your face when you feel anxious, take deep breaths, it took me a few weeks Ik it won’t fix right away but you guys can do this you gotta fight your demons and show them your ok and they will never return.
@spiritualscholar5906
@spiritualscholar5906 3 роки тому
Uu Ty Why do you feel that way? What are your triggers?
@spiritualscholar5906
@spiritualscholar5906 3 роки тому
Uu Ty yeah I see it was like that for me, Does your heart rate start going up and you start having in panic attack in those moments?
@spiritualscholar5906
@spiritualscholar5906 3 роки тому
Uu Ty Yeah I understand, What helped me is setting the tone, when you walk into class walk in with a laugh maybe crack a few jokes at some freinds and then when the tracher calls you up just walk on up there, Also try a breathing technique where you Breath in 5 seconds then hold your breath for 10 then breath out for 5
@Jasperswitzer
@Jasperswitzer 3 роки тому
I feel like this right now and I’m a freshman
@spiritualscholar5906
@spiritualscholar5906 3 роки тому
Maddy XOXO What are your triggers? What causes your anxiety?
@lapluieici
@lapluieici 3 роки тому
I always have these muscle tension everytime anxiety kicking in me. My heart pounding, i can't even breathe well, having an intense fear for no reasons, having lack of sleeps, thinking out loud, crying a lot, and so on. And its still happens until now. I'm still on my way to dealing and forgive myself. To always validate my feelings. Its gonna be a loooong way to go there, but we still gotta try those. Hang in there everyone. Best of luck to all of you too.
@poushalisaha8602
@poushalisaha8602 3 роки тому
I cry for anything without reason...Iam suffering from anxiety since Iam so young I thought that I will become fine but everytime a hard situation come in front of me I started to over think about it and I started suffering from anxiety and panic attacks I feel so anxious in my own room I fear everything at that time don't know when I will be free from this situation ..?
@lapluieici
@lapluieici 3 роки тому
@@poushalisaha8602 im sorry to hear this. but you gotta be strong. we gotta be strong so we'll get through this. and i know you will.
@poushalisaha8602
@poushalisaha8602 3 роки тому
@@lapluieici thanks alot hope we will👍👍👍
@badguybeats
@badguybeats 2 роки тому
@@lapluieici You doing good now?
@lapluieici
@lapluieici 2 роки тому
@@badguybeats hey im still on my way to be good, thx u for asking!☺️
@mrhow2712
@mrhow2712 2 роки тому
This is really comforting to hear someone explain exactly what I've been going through and know that I'm not alone. Thanks for posting this
@powpowpow9743
@powpowpow9743 Рік тому
I struggle with anxiety on a daily basis. Some days it's not too bad/doesnt really affect me and some days I completely feel like I'm in distress or I got this never-ending worry that keeps hauning me and sometimes I just cry as a result from bottled emotions. I'm not medically diagnosed or anything but I have pretty much all symptoms of anxiety and I never thought of going to the doctor as I'm 15 and I don't wanna tell anyone. I hate feeling lonely even tho usually I just don't like talking to anyone (in reality I want to but I feel nervous if I do) I also have exams as I'm in year 11 which is also causing me even more stress but I'm trying to get into good terms with my mental health. Just remember if you are watching this video too, you aren't alone and many people including me, are going through the same thing so we will get through it and believe in yourself because you will do well in life. (Also telling myself this lol)
@mckensiedavis801
@mckensiedavis801 3 роки тому
Me: has anxiety Also me: convinces myself I don’t have anxiety because others have it far worse than me and I need to stop feeling sorry for myself I want to add that I spent 8 hours trying to pick out an outfit for a lunch date tomorrow. Did I figure out what I’m going to wear? Yaaaa - no. No I did not. /:
@EliseHeartManlutac
@EliseHeartManlutac 3 роки тому
same it feels like I am caring for others
@MG-qm8if
@MG-qm8if 3 роки тому
We cannot do anything on our own. Only Jesus can and he will. Just repent and ask him into your life. He will take it away. He took my fear of covid during this lockdown when I was home alone for months facing great anxiety and heaviness in my heart but cry out to Jesus when you are drowning in pain and he will deliver you. He took it away overnight which I know full well I coudnt have done on my own. But whats impossible with man is possible with Jesus. He is the way, the truth and the life. You will find life in him in this world ruled by death.
@gerjerwal
@gerjerwal 2 роки тому
I’m the exact same way!
@lolijesus3795
@lolijesus3795 2 роки тому
@@MG-qm8if repent???what is there to repent about?
@MG-qm8if
@MG-qm8if 2 роки тому
@Solomon Odonkoh he is God
@brettjamz3
@brettjamz3 2 роки тому
My anxiety is so bad. I would say it's like having a constant panic attack. All day all week
@rhondapope4361
@rhondapope4361 2 роки тому
I feel u uhg it’s horrible
@Sunnydayz5656
@Sunnydayz5656 2 роки тому
That really sucks,I hope you feel better soon
@annleah7005
@annleah7005 2 роки тому
Same😕
@brettjamz3
@brettjamz3 2 роки тому
@@annleah7005 so sorry to hear that. It's soooo hard... Ugh 😣
@Believerfearless
@Believerfearless 2 роки тому
Yep
@dimplewraich7257
@dimplewraich7257 Рік тому
This video literally made me cry especially when she did: be kind to yourself and have a purpose in life with keeping someone in mind. Someone that depends on you and needs you❤️
@CFlifestyleFoundation
@CFlifestyleFoundation Рік тому
Anxiety is truly a persistent problem that is a by-product of our stressful environments. Talks like these are so important in raising the issue to the spotlight on how we can deal with our mental health.
@aidankelly190
@aidankelly190 2 роки тому
I’m struggling daily , I feel anxious for no reason even though I know I’m fine but it still is a battle. I’m getting better but it’s a long road much longer than I could have ever imagined. I really overlooked anxiety and depression when I was fine and now that an event pushed me into developing anxiety I can see how crushing and crippling it is.
@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395
@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 2 роки тому
Just smoke weed
@Alisha-zj8yf
@Alisha-zj8yf 2 роки тому
Omg we're on the same page I'm only 18 obviously when I was younger little things bother me a sit should but it has gotten so much worse I feel like I'm going crazy I HATE the anxious feeling its irritating 😭😭😭
@bin2hellnbak
@bin2hellnbak Рік тому
@@Alisha-zj8yf It passed though right? You calmed down and regained rational thought? Rest is super important and can change the way you think immediately, it's kinda magical. Anxiety on the other hand is terrible but temporary
@robbieanderson227
@robbieanderson227 Рік тому
@@izuk_btw4009 seek help, please
@sxfia2411
@sxfia2411 Рік тому
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 bro i’ve tried and it makes anxiety worse 💀 makes u feel like ur trapped, everything gets rlly loud and it’s basically a bigger version of an anxiety attack. And now everytime i have an anxiety attack it’s worse than it used to be because of it
@balin71
@balin71 3 роки тому
I suffered with severe anxiety and panic attacks in my early 20’s. it was the worst thing I have ever gone through. Absolutely debilitating! I overcome it within 12 months by doing the following: Ditching anything with caffeine, ie: chocolate, & coffee. Ditching alcohol and smoking. Went to hypnotherapy sessions and learnt also how to relax my body. Understanding the trigger point of what was causing my anxiety in the first instance. Getting out of house and being around positive people, people who can lift you up and not bring you down. Going for walks, and enjoying a laugh again. Turn your anxiety from your damnation into your salvation. Using self cognitive therapy you can fight it yourself without drugs or medications. You fight this war and you can do anything in life.
@nicoleguymer2370
@nicoleguymer2370 3 роки тому
I'm at the point where I'm done I don't feel a way out. I can't heal myself I don't know how I hate myself so much I just feel invisible as if I don't exist x
@salmanalmannai3009
@salmanalmannai3009 3 роки тому
@@nicoleguymer2370 I know what ur feeling I experience this everyday. Ur not alone and u will get through this ❤️🙏
@balin71
@balin71 3 роки тому
@@nicoleguymer2370 life is full of ups and downs. We are all not perfect. You need a change, a fresh start. Engage with good honest people who can support you and are interested in you and your life. Goods things will happen always when you least expect them too..Just when you think life has got you down the only way is up. Be the strong woman you were born to be. Be you.
@poushalisaha8602
@poushalisaha8602 3 роки тому
That's true if we all can win this battle we can do anything and everything in life...
@matthewpostle3783
@matthewpostle3783 Рік тому
Comments on videos like this really make me feel not alone and gives me the motivation to keep going. I wish everyone the best, good luck everyone we will get through this together
@prachilata472
@prachilata472 Рік тому
I don't know why but, this video is surprisingly able to understand me more than anyone else till now. Unexpectedly calming video to see when you get anxiety. There are someone out there who is feeling exactly same as you. Also there are people who do understand what exactly it is.
@jazzyj2182
@jazzyj2182 Рік тому
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? ____(Psalm 118: 6) "Say to those who have an anxious heart, 'Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.' " ____ (Isaiah 35:4)
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