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Any man or woman who has a truly loving relationship is blessed indeed.

“They fall in love with the feeling of being desired. That’s why they fall prey to gold diggers bc they know what they are doing.” This made me even think of dancers who tell men what they want to hear and get the man to keep pulling out more money. I remember my ex (going through mid-life crisis) said he wanted to know if he still had it. It’s important we communicate our needs.

It’s not rocket science Love and respect yourself and your body If you respect yourself you won’t let anyone treat you badly Respect your body Look after it Don’t let just anyone use it, if you don’t value it nobody else will. Be kind to yourself and others who respect and care for you, and don’t waste your time with people that don’t.

*It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is.*

I could never cheat on my husband. He puts me first in every decision and contains my heart and soul as his most precious treasure. There is also just no other man reaching up to him. But I am starting to realize how unfair and hard it is for men in general in this society. Because of a few narcissists, they are put down, misjudged, and outcast easier than women, not being better or even worse! Very interesting talk. Lovely women those two. Could listen for hours. Thank you❤

Sadia is extremely gifted on this stuff. But personally as a man if a woman cheated on me No 1 I'd be gutted. 2 The humiliation and betrayal would be depressing. 3 I could not look at that woman the same way again as in my feelings for her I just couldn't. 4 I could forgive maybe eventually but it just could not ever be the same again, because that thought will always be there 'She went off with another fella'.... It is what it is there's no other way around it... So man or woman think before you do something stupid...

13:48 If you don't have the ability to walk away & the relationship breaks, you leave confused if you didn't give enough or were incompatible. This just opened up my brain!

Holy.. This lady actually cares about us men. Not only that, she does know what she is talking about.

We need to accept no one is perfect...when we accept that life gets alot easier....

Right off the bat you nailed it, we too need to feel loved and appreciated

Very very true if a woman complains, ignores and shows no interest in being with you then someone else shows attention and concern for you sincere or not, it will look very appealing. So a wife can provide that.

Sadia. My wife and I would like to show appreciation for the work you do. You are doing a great thing for humanity, even if you do not see it. In life what goes around, comes around. Karma is real. Expect something good, you deserve it.

Cheating is unforgivable, end of story, you can't forgive someone who's share the body with someone else, no mater what is the circumstances.

Sadia should be the only person allowed to write relationship books. I can’t tell you how much it would have changed my life had I heard her earlier.

3:19 Attraction is emotional connection and live. It’s not about physical only, or novelty. Both partners need to take care of themselves and stay fit, healthy and put together. But love and emotional intimacy is what creates desire.

2:00 Physical vs intellectual attraction 3:00 Stay curious about each other 6:00 Women can’t reverse sexually 9:40 Public and private info 12:40 Love and surrender 14:10 Multicultural dating in Dubai

Sadia is #1 in the world. For sure there is no better person for solving and explaining this kind of problems.She answer every question fast ,without any delay.

I love Sadia's honesty. Thank you!

A big no, because you can also communicate with your partner instead of “analyzing” why someone cheated..no one has the right to cheat. If you are not ready for a true relationship..stay single and don’t mess with someone’s heart.

This was pretty spot on !❤

I like Sadia because she is an actual psychologist not a woman speaking out of trauma or generational curses passed down to them by narcissistic mothers, or broken dysfunctional environments they were raised up in. I enjoy advice from those who give it in a wholesome way, not in a toxic agressive passive manner. Sex is human nature thats how i see it. But if one has low libido for you get a hormone lab test panel, many medical professionals fail to check testosterone levels starting in our 30's. Testosterone starts to decrease at 30's. Perimenopausel women or endropausel men also suffer from low libido. Get those hormones things in check fast because this leads to insecurity. A woman or man should be healthy psychologically and psychologically, especially spiritually.

Men are visual creatures! That’s it… they like to look at beautiful things. Besides taking care of your health (mind, body & spirit) is a sign of self love ❤️

i really respect this woman, she always supports us

I’m 25 and been single for a year now. I’m sorry, but no man has approached me that I feel is worthy enough. In that case I much rather stay single for longer and grow as a person and mentally till the right one comes around.

I'm glad I found you through TikTok I really enjoy how to talk about human behavior 😊❤

Love the topic of surrender & autonomy

As a man. I was in a relationship where I was cheated on. I was immediately turned off by her, time nor sex could mend the relationship. Loyalty is very high on my list.

Hey Sadia, I'm 21 and you have helped me a lot when it comes to relationship advice and where to look for the signs.

This works both ways. Women wants to feel desired too.

Goed werk Marleen, super dat je jouw ervaring van je proceswerk kan delen, taboes eraf, nu de maskers nog

MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AMEN

Amazing speech and clarity

Stay curious about each other ❤ and serve each other.

Great points …love is great guys ..

I don't know the men she knows but must men I know including myself, don't want a woman who's cheated. Once another man has had you, stay with him

I’m sorry, but it's not about how you look or think sometimes. Men often lose attraction to their partners over time due to a lack of curiosity. Even if you are the prettiest or smartest, it may not work in this moment.and its not that easy to keep curiosity while you live with someone already :)

I have found in the many arenas of life, prioritizing what one can put on the table rather than what one wants to take off the table works really well IF both parties are friends and both parties contribute. Otherwise ....

Thank You Sadia As Salaam Olaykum 🤲

How I would love to be in a strong, respectful relationship with someone. I feel like I have so much love to give, but the dating world these days is wild! I’ve been single for a year and before that was in a 4 year relationship… dating was soo different even just 4 years ago. I’m trying not to lose hope.

Being all that to my partner and he still listens to interest in me after 4 years in our relationship.

Be curious about each other learn something new about each other

My ex wife stopped desiring me , stopped making me her #1 priority Hence she became my ex! I couldn’t continue in the marriage. I pleaded her with two years to have a realization and make some changes and amends but she took it for granted till the day i ended it!

Outstanding communication skills

Love between lovers is conditional love between a parent and child is unconditional

Hello ladies, Amazing interview! 😊

thank you sadia,

Ma’m, you are so good at your craft.

Body game is always an important factor for attraction. Shout out to Uncle Willis.

thanx alot for your advice sister

Good questions important lessons

I don’t think men are more forgiving with cheating

life hurts so much trauma so much suffering heartache and despair rage and grief I can no longer bear the darkness

The truth was spoken here

very informative

This isn’t Dubai. You sound far too sympathetic on cheaters. If a person cheats on you ONCE -there is a 350 per cent chance HE will do it again; serial cheaters.

I'm just freshly separated and we were together for 13 years I have always wanted and desired my partner even after 2 children, we love each other etc. Then one day she told me I don't love you any more, blame me for things that I did to her 10 years ago with exes, but then at the same time tells me I'm a great dad, but we cant be with each other any more.

I learned so mucg

Fascinating

In short: BE A GODDESS!!!

Problem with women nowadays is taking advice from their friends who don’t know anything about real relationships.. it’s best that both couples talk this through together

Beloved child, I see the pain and the hurt that you carry within your heart. I see the tears that you have shed, and I am moved with compassion for you. I want to heal your broken heart and to bind up all your wounds. I want to restore the joy of your salvation and to give you a garment of praise, instead of a spirit of despair. I want to comfort you and bring you peace in the midst of your storms. I understand the struggles and the challenges that you face in this life. I know the temptations and the trials that you endure. I will never leave you nor forsake you. I am your refuge and your strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble. I want you to know that I have great plans for your life. I want to use you to touch the lives of others, to bring healing and hope to the brokenhearted, and to set the captives free. I want to use you to bring light into the darkness, and to be a beacon of hope to a lost and dying world. My child, I want you to know that My love for you is unconditional and unchanging. I want you to know that you are My beloved child, and that I delight in you. I want you to know that you are precious in My sight, and that you are more valuable to Me than the finest gold and the most precious jewels... I want you to know that I rejoice over you with singing. I want you to know that I am always with you, and that I will never leave you nor forsake you. I want you to know that I am your constant companion, and that I will guide you and direct your steps. I want you to know that I will give you the wisdom and the understanding that you need to navigate the challenges of this life. I want you to know that I am the God of all comfort, and that I will comfort you in all your troubles. I want you to know that I am the God who heals you, who binds up your wounds, and who sets you free from the bondage of sin and its consequences. I want you to know that I am the God who restores you when you have gone astray, and who brings you back into the fold of My love. I want you to know that I am the God who gives you the desires of your heart when they are in alignment with My will and My purposes. I want you to know that I am the God who blesses you abundantly, and that I am a God of more than enough. My child, I want you to trust in Me with all your heart, and to lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Me, and I will make your paths straight. I will guide you with My eye, and I will lead you to the place I have prepared for you... I will never leave you nor forsake you. With all My love, God.

This goes both ways.

Given stats showing that marital therapists and psychologists have equally or higher rates of divorce, I’d like to also see more successfully married psychologists and therapists sharing advice and insights

With all these losers giving dating advice online (that target those with traumatic upbringings) we really needed her ❤

Thank you for your wisdom, Sadia

It is absolutely true about infidelity. If a man or woman are missing something in their marriage, they will seek to find it elsewhere. They both need attention and both need to feel desired. If the woman finds what she needs from another man she will begin developing emotional attachment to him and will reluctantly go back to her husband. If the other man is willing to take her, she will never go back. The man, on the other hand, will stay in his marriage unless/until his wife finds out. In either case, it is extremely hard to forgive and get past it. I have been cheated on twice by my husband and we are now heading for divorce.

Look up patrice o neal.... legend on this subject.

All done no kids but she’ll preach what good woman is

The best way is to watch videos on UKposts.

The equating sexuality with a great meal is everything. But, honestly, sometimes all you want is a quick sandwich. I feel the secret is in the connection. And when I'm hungry, I'm gonna connect to that sandwich tooth, gum, and tongue 👅

Wishing you all true happiness in 2024 and beyond ❤

Danke!

Awwww I desire my man to take out garbage in time😂

What frustrated me about my last relationship was that my girlfriend would get dressed up to go to the office but then immediately take it all off as soon as she got home. Thanks.

I have a question for you: if a woman has a child and then puts aside everything for in order to raise her child, which many women have to do, what are the effects of that child leaving once they are grown up? I began thinking about this after watching Season 35 Episode 2 of the simpsons, which has a similar question. how would you deal with depression and a lack of purpose that comes from that? also this does happen to men as well, but women are typically much more attached to their child resulting in a greater feeling of loss

"Men need more friends" - thanks. We are not women. If your partner is your best friend and they betray you then it's even more trauma.

There are so many women who stay looking gorgeous even after kids. I love makeup and fashion and I love gym but I can’t imagine not trying to look great for m my man all the time. I want his compliments and I want him to want me and if I look like a rat died in my hair and like I was buried in my pajamas who’s gins be happy with that. He wasn’t attracted to that and I wasn’t attracted to a man who lives in pajamas and slides. It’s just not attractive to me. I was raised traditionally where u funny leave the house without getting ready properly or do things during the day.

It will be very difficult for most people to consider advice from the two ridiculously gorgeous world class women in this video . Sorry ladies, reality is a little different for the rest of us 98% who don’t have your god given grace and beauty. Walk a mile in our shoes for a week. Either way you both are beautiful and may god bless you . We would wish you good luck but you don’t need it. You give the world hope

"They can't be attracted to her back" BARS!

Always their is some one i only make eye contact also i think about him always what you think guysssss

I’d love to hear the rest of the answer of the last question.

that ending lol

She gives a lot to the world but i just can't stop wondering if she's really happy? if by beeing so smart and right in many ways she has managed to find someone on the same level. Just by analysing the way she looks and talks, even though she gets so much attention i believe that at the end of the day she is single and she is channeling all the energy in what she does.

I would like to see this lady be married successfully for over 10 years. Then what she says will have some value coming out of her mouth

She describes exactly male friends that pop up out of nowhere trying to flirt and actually making you sick to your core with their desierstion and report them to police for sexual harassment

Why does betrayal always refers to cheating. Betrayal can be other forms.

Loving relationship is possible only between a nice guy and a traditional average woman. A bad boy or a hot model who has access to dozens of other options would most probably explore or wanna explore his/her options. A healthy relationship is only possible between two individuals who lack options and attractiveness.

When selfish to be loved by a women is simply cause we scared that we can't dare to break there heart.. ❤😢

I love that blue dress, can you post a link to your dress?

. Once upon a time there was an capital a s s. That was me. Running a business a u k guy in california. I failed to take care of my wife But my young self had help from a young filipino guy.. I didn't appreciate the help at the😂 Many years later after my regrets have reformed my learning. Desires. I was hit with a intervention. From french and a church..😂 I would not take her back. Years later again. I mean the population scheme. Short version. I said hi and smiled. I'm just not on the same plane or planet . So on we must learn as men offer every day voice

Anwsering to the question in the title: I think it's almost impossible to get a loving relationships nawadays because there are very few people mature enough to understand the idea of two people being together for one another.

Step 1: have Sadia's look

That was too cropped. The last and most interesting question wasn’t answered.

Well unless he has always been a chester ans u didnt know.... story of my life.... i did everything without realising he married me for convenience, and definitely not love.... It gets frustrating when u r showing interest & love in every way but its not reciprocated....

The ending was brilliant! That was my favorite phrase is the entire video! I am not even joking! 15:45

2:25 = that’s a problem of not living interdependently. People mesh way too much together. A man should love himself enough to always eat healthy, exercise, and dress well, whether he’s single or married for years. It should be to where she’s still jealous because he always looks sexy. And she in turn, will also be on her p’s and q’s because she doesn’t want to lose her man. You can really blame most outcomes on men. What women should be blamed for is not keeping their side of the bargain

Hi Sadia, of this topic, you have mentioned in many clips that you feel women who come from families that are divorce, have daddy issues, will eventually have dysfunctional relationship. People come to you for advice and labeling women that way separates them… and will feel not good enough… please explain?

I wish you were around to give me advice in my 20s

yes but our desire is seen as clingy and insecure