How To Not Give a F*ck What Others Think and Still Be Nice About It | Raising The Bar Podcast

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GaryVee

GaryVee

2 роки тому

Today's episode is an interview from the "Raising The Bar Podcast" with host Alli Webb. We talk about how to really get to know yourself, measuring how much positive influence you can bring to the world, understanding and sympathizing with haters, and how to politely not care about people's negative opinions of you.
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Gary Vaynerchuk is one of the world’s leading marketing experts, a New York Times bestselling author, and the chairman of VaynerX, a modern day communications company and the active CEO of VaynerMedia, a contemporary global creative and media agency built to drive business outcomes for their partners. He is a highly popular public speaker, and a prolific investor with investments in companies such as Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Venmo, Coinbase, Slack, and Uber. Gary is a board/advisory member of Bojangles’ Restaurants, MikMak, Pencils of Promise, and is a longtime Well Member of Charity:Water. He’s also an avid sports card investor and collector. He lives in New York City.

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@AustinWestbro
@AustinWestbro 2 роки тому
FINALLY some long form content from my dude. I’m sick of these little sound bites. I crave the context and bigger picture. More of this please
@kourtneyfountain658
@kourtneyfountain658 2 роки тому
Same! I really miss Tea with Garyvee for this reason
@_agapedaily
@_agapedaily 2 роки тому
No 🧢
@Shadowz2X
@Shadowz2X 2 роки тому
Yes please
@rebeccacasey9419
@rebeccacasey9419 2 роки тому
Don't do things because people are doing it, do it because it gives you joy doing so , . Since I learnt this my life has changed drastically. Thank you 💖
@David_garner9
@David_garner9 2 роки тому
Doing things that make me happy have been an essential part of me that's what took me into cry,p,to today.
@rebeccacasey9419
@rebeccacasey9419 2 роки тому
@@David_garner9 I m nervous, Bitcoin has dropped to 34k. Can't just take my eyes off the fluctuations.... but I believe its going to bounce back.
@petersonkahlid7679
@petersonkahlid7679 2 роки тому
@@rebeccacasey9419 You're absolutely right, only bitcoin investors will understand how nervous I am, but I get strong knowing fully well that it will still bounce back.
@hottutu1161
@hottutu1161 2 роки тому
I love to invest in bitcoin and other crypto currencies but it's difficult to understand the market with all this fluctuations.
@lucasparker6250
@lucasparker6250 2 роки тому
@@hottutu1161 as a beginner I will advise you to get a service of a professional to manage your acct and for good and huge with,dra,wals ...
@AmberDawnLee
@AmberDawnLee 2 роки тому
I heard that I was "sexy" and that was my validation and then I started getting older and the accustomed compliment goes out the door and the rug gets pulled. I am so glad I found Gary and joined the right cult. Team Gary.
@MindNow
@MindNow 2 роки тому
So now how do u cope with it? Do people still call u sexy from time to time? Do u actually need it?
@HawaiiReal
@HawaiiReal 2 роки тому
I'm sure you're still "sexy".
@derekmasterman6810
@derekmasterman6810 2 роки тому
I feel like you guys are all talking straight to me! Crazy good interview on my half, being a viewer. Makes me want to raise the bar and be happy in my own 2 feet. Thanks for the nudges in the right direction and I can't wait to see and grow more :) 504 more days for me on my self learning and studying journey! Can't wait to see the man I become!
@SanelaTravels
@SanelaTravels 2 роки тому
Love, 🤗 & empathy ❤️ mixed with goosebumps reaction to this conversation! Thanks for sharing!
@ScottPolderman
@ScottPolderman 2 роки тому
I love the saying "I worried a lot about things in my life, fortunately most of them never happened!" Wasted thought worrying about what others think that's for sure.
@Alyssa-mu6xc
@Alyssa-mu6xc 2 роки тому
i needed this video right now. thank you
@AVlzqz
@AVlzqz 2 роки тому
Love the vulnerability and the truth talk 🔥 It's humbling and you guys are owning it 💪 Thank you! 🙇‍♂️
@ricomcclinton2982
@ricomcclinton2982 2 роки тому
This is one my favorites, great information. People busy chasing things, then more things💯💯
@gwenholcomb8534
@gwenholcomb8534 2 роки тому
I appreciate Gary and his way of discussing candor. We need accountability and empathy! Keep up the Great work Gary!
@MrJerry361
@MrJerry361 2 роки тому
This was AMAZING. I need to tune in to this channel more. It almost feels like Gary is venting / coming to realization while talking about this
@juliekmunden
@juliekmunden 2 роки тому
Thanks Gary for this! I'm going to share this with my teens! Great content!! This is so spot on.
@dylanboshle524
@dylanboshle524 2 роки тому
I believe in nothing more than your opening quote. The key to success is first realising you mean nothing. It breaks down all sociological conventions and enables you to think out side the box, with a broader perspective of how you can implement value! ✌🏾 Gary, love your work.
@HawaiiReal
@HawaiiReal 2 роки тому
Love you Gary! I mention you and your words in so many of my interviews with people. More of my network needs to check you out!💯🤙🏼
@DaphneGsell
@DaphneGsell 2 роки тому
I’m listening while at work, it’s keeping me motivated! Thank you so so much!
@aidamhruska120
@aidamhruska120 2 роки тому
One should work on the inner fire, that which pulls you out of bed in the morning. The one which keeps burning even without external motivation 🙂🙏
@alexaperez3389
@alexaperez3389 2 роки тому
Loved this. I know YOU know how many people and mostly organizations NEED to see this VIEW of Humanity and the way to really LEAD through being “nice”, empathetic and YES, KIND C A N D O R! It’s so crazy how many good people become the negative, condescending, bitter and downright resentful and bad leaders without even realizing it’s how they have been shown and led. I commend you Gary, truly! Everyday striving to be better version than the last, impact even one person to treat people with respect and some level of decency. You nailed it when you said a war time general, I’ve see a few who thought they were and have crumbled under their own fear, anxiety and performance based rhetoric that they rule in fear, disrespect and go against the very ethics of the organization the lead. They swear their actions are condoned. I so hope your reach goes a million miles because it is what the world truly needs. 😊❤️
@czifrad92
@czifrad92 2 роки тому
Amazing content, thank you for sharing this
@AFulfilledLife
@AFulfilledLife 2 роки тому
Awesome! It's important to be comfortable with being different from others and just do what makes you genuinely happy.
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118 2 роки тому
I raised my children that way as well. 💜
@MindNow
@MindNow 2 роки тому
Thank u for doing that 🙏❤️
@BMacMac-gg3um
@BMacMac-gg3um 2 роки тому
I needed this today
@CurationHub
@CurationHub 2 роки тому
Excellent interview! Gary drops many nuggets, and affirms much of what I believe to be true!
@AdultSocialMedia
@AdultSocialMedia 2 роки тому
Thank you for this Gary! ❤️
@peterbutler9333
@peterbutler9333 2 роки тому
Great wisdom, Gary! Love the other two. They’re intelligent and intuitive. Mirroring Gary’s stories with their own and the interruptions was a little distracting. A great show nonetheless and great insight for people like me, with kids.
@Nolu-Shizmat
@Nolu-Shizmat 2 роки тому
Gary not ripping on Joel has inspired me to be positive today.
@jeanclod2925
@jeanclod2925 2 роки тому
😂✌️
@on9francisyu
@on9francisyu 2 роки тому
Haha
@timothygallant2633
@timothygallant2633 2 роки тому
outstanding post god bless y and your family
@chrislevelfans
@chrislevelfans 2 роки тому
really love you man...love how you tell people da truth
@dewadebadon
@dewadebadon 2 роки тому
Kindness matter 💚 Daily Positivity Energy! Thanks Gary! 👍
@pjeuroazn2362
@pjeuroazn2362 2 роки тому
I use to be like that like always negative hate on people. Even use to hate Gary V but now just listening to him. Has changed me a lot in way of me running a business and changing as a person
@Mv3Trader
@Mv3Trader 2 роки тому
Outstanding conversation!
@voltairepabustan
@voltairepabustan 2 роки тому
Very well explained, 🔥🔥🔥
@marcmarod
@marcmarod 2 роки тому
They have a good vibe, seem like pretty cool people
@angelicadugan9242
@angelicadugan9242 2 роки тому
This is an awesome podcast! Didn't notice the time!
@alexpdream677
@alexpdream677 2 роки тому
Learned so much! Thank you a lot
@braeling3677
@braeling3677 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . you will never be successful
@chrislawson1988
@chrislawson1988 2 роки тому
Love these videos especially before I go to work lol
@samuelalmeida6479
@samuelalmeida6479 2 роки тому
What he said about candor and not being able to separate the value from the vessel was a bomb in my head cause in starting my stuff i really don't wanna say when people disapointed me and i feel it's cause i saw my dad shit on so many peoples heads...
@kourtneyfountain658
@kourtneyfountain658 2 роки тому
This whole video was awesome! Thanks Gary! Would love to buy some of the merch you're always wearing btw, where can I get it?
@tabithagaudet7686
@tabithagaudet7686 2 роки тому
Awesome thoughts from Gary as always. The couple lost me when they said they were against any type of D&I...not sure why that’s something to stand against...but then Gary said he’s obsessed with D&I. Good to hear. It’s important. Great talk.
@shelbyblu5439
@shelbyblu5439 Рік тому
Relentless effort ✊✊✊ Love it, let’s gooooooo Gary and the V team!
@katcarter143
@katcarter143 2 роки тому
Something that you said made me think that by not being able to be tangerous kind or otherwise somebody not doing a good job means they're not in the best position to succeed so by not telling them and holding back them from being the best their best selves because yes you can do all the things but if somebody's failing at something holding them in that spot is holding them back
@illEvanTV
@illEvanTV 2 роки тому
Always LIFE changing!
@dezbeard7166
@dezbeard7166 2 роки тому
Profound Message! Thanks Gary
@meditationasset4130
@meditationasset4130 2 роки тому
Great talk. Learnt alot today. Much value
@braeling3677
@braeling3677 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . ur useless
@_friendofafriend-relaxatio3943
@_friendofafriend-relaxatio3943 2 роки тому
Thank you 👍
@FreshEthics
@FreshEthics 2 роки тому
My exact thoughts on the description
@HomebodyExecutive
@HomebodyExecutive 2 роки тому
Awesome interview!
@atcel941
@atcel941 2 роки тому
amazing as always men!
@LaurenVacula
@LaurenVacula 2 роки тому
that's the mindset 🙌
@billyclark4564
@billyclark4564 2 роки тому
I wish Gary had been on my radar years ago. He has such great incite on life.
@gneyman
@gneyman 2 роки тому
Insight
@cyc00000
@cyc00000 2 роки тому
Amazing chat! the point made at 43:00m is life-changing for those who understand it.
@braeling3677
@braeling3677 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . shut up
@TomCrellin1
@TomCrellin1 2 роки тому
Great episode
@ChristopherHicksSEO
@ChristopherHicksSEO 2 роки тому
Spot on.
@Shadowz2X
@Shadowz2X 2 роки тому
Empathy and being is such a big role
@Zimboprenuer
@Zimboprenuer 2 роки тому
Humility will get you to places👌
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118 2 роки тому
Absolutely
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118 2 роки тому
Me tooooo yesssss @Gary I hate being told I’m beautiful I hate listening to it. I appreciate it but I never wanted to live my like based on that.
@happyinsides
@happyinsides Рік тому
OMG I LOVE THIS!!!!!!
@prox6597
@prox6597 2 роки тому
I could be wrong but I always am trying to find if a person values my time. If they dont, well I cant invest too much into them
@leonardofernandez2230
@leonardofernandez2230 2 роки тому
Very informative
@kloe1585
@kloe1585 2 роки тому
This is what I needed right now
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 2 роки тому
Same here, good stuff!
@braeling3677
@braeling3677 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . get a job
@gregsallin9385
@gregsallin9385 2 роки тому
Wow Gary, that was a mind altering thought process for me. I'm not one of the 99.99999999..... that will just forget this and go back to what I was doing. I excited to ponder the "what you get praise for and then that world disappears for you...."
@braeling3677
@braeling3677 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . get a life
@lamarwoods3386
@lamarwoods3386 2 роки тому
Alli was so right about how dominating Gary can be when on a panel. But at the same time, he has built himself into a person with a lot to say. When you understand how much content it takes to make it to his level of content creation and his level of thought leadership, you'll get why he is so able to breath content. And that is hard to not notice when he's on a panel. Become a practitioner in the content game and you will be able to dominate your space as well. Good luck ❤️ - Freedom 🐉
@SamuelJMartinIII
@SamuelJMartinIII 2 роки тому
47:00 that why I love watching SGN (Some Good News) with John Krasinski (sp?) as we need that reminder 👀 #perspective
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118
@renatanash-live.laugh.love118 2 роки тому
Yes
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 2 роки тому
Awesome video, Gary, if we want to be happy, we can't let others bring us down!
@AFulfilledLife
@AFulfilledLife 2 роки тому
Absolutely! Life's too short to live in misery. Choose to be happy!
@jennym268
@jennym268 2 роки тому
I love you!!! You have changed my outlook. I am doing shit now
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 2 роки тому
That's awesome, Jenny!
@AFulfilledLife
@AFulfilledLife 2 роки тому
That's great!
@shirleyjones9720
@shirleyjones9720 2 роки тому
Of course its polar that's why your so much energy . Were all a ball of energy but you are huge. The biggest electromagnetic field in the universe is love. Your proof of this phenomenon. ♥️🙏🦋 I'm so grateful and blessed that your in my world ..... truly inspirational thankyo 💞 369
@nuclearmomof5750
@nuclearmomof5750 2 роки тому
Perspective regarding looking people in the eyes: Some people genuinely can't (for example, some people with ASD). It's painful. It doesn't make them disrespectful or mean they aren't paying attention. That narrative reaffirms the bias people have towards what respect is. It puts those who can't at a disadvantage from the start.
@floop2935
@floop2935 2 роки тому
LIVE ON UR TERMS 👏🏻
@Chris-el4hd
@Chris-el4hd 2 роки тому
23:00 || I think the important thing here isn't the fact that some going to die, because you're ultimately accountable for that if your businesses is causing it. I believe its the emotional response, or the intensity of how you respond to things emotionally [in this case, COVID and its overall difficult impact]. Being a leader during peacetime and when the knives are falling, is the ability to maintain that compassionate composure day in and day out; knowing what is of true value, which we all know are those around us.
@EvilGenius.
@EvilGenius. 2 роки тому
This needs to be shared on every platform your on Gary! And shared to every Business mogul out there as well! Everything in this video explains so much of the time and work it takes to find the right people and the staff to run a 1,000% business!
@omarmora6819
@omarmora6819 2 роки тому
missed this old daily v format in the beginning
@abhishekmukherjee1680
@abhishekmukherjee1680 2 роки тому
I SAW THE THUMBNAIL AND LITERALLY CAME RUNNING!!! YOU HAVE THAT IN YOU GARY
@hkmsawwa
@hkmsawwa 2 роки тому
WHEREVER GARY IS, I AM THERE!! YESSS : I MEAN ON SOCIAL. I WISH I COULD IN RL.
@hkmsawwa
@hkmsawwa 2 роки тому
@GàryVee . ok fakevee 😂
@chrisshine3662
@chrisshine3662 2 роки тому
She is SOOOOO cool how she says “FUC”! She is sooo cool with her cussing! You to gary, the “F” king!
@MackTheMarketer
@MackTheMarketer 2 роки тому
It's the 4 agreements that Gary is speaking on naturally, and we know he doesn't have time to read. If this hit home check out that book.
@thisdudesam4332
@thisdudesam4332 2 роки тому
Small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events, great minds discuss ideas. Js
@HawaiiReal
@HawaiiReal 2 роки тому
Frikin love this
@MarketingHarry
@MarketingHarry 2 роки тому
Spread positive influence and move on from anything that's holding you back! 🙂
@sleyy2226
@sleyy2226 2 роки тому
Makes me want to be a better leader
@jayjohnsonfsf7504
@jayjohnsonfsf7504 2 роки тому
Anyone knows what they would have used to record this? is this zoom? or another platform?
@colbycummings9421
@colbycummings9421 2 роки тому
Fear is a lie. Wake up and be the best version of yourself everyday 👍👍
@AFulfilledLife
@AFulfilledLife 2 роки тому
Yes to this! 🙌
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 2 роки тому
When you’re mission driven you don’t have too many f***s to give lol
@Zimboprenuer
@Zimboprenuer 2 роки тому
True when you are up against something bigger than you
@realestatematedxb
@realestatematedxb 2 роки тому
Feel for the ones who only discovered him in 2020. The 2017 - 2019 keynotes and K-swiss seasons were world altering for me and I'm sure many others.
@nathenhoang
@nathenhoang 2 роки тому
*If you're reading this, Have an amazing day today and be super positive!* 🥰
@AFulfilledLife
@AFulfilledLife 2 роки тому
You too! Spread the positivity 🙌
@theinformativelawyer4619
@theinformativelawyer4619 2 роки тому
People who accomplish much spend little time discussing the why and all the esoteric reasons. They just set goals end work towards it. I plan on getting off social media and chucking books for most of the time. It hasn’t changed anything for me. My accomplishments haven’t come from discussions or books etc...no it’s not hate, it’s reality. Peace out
@PatDees
@PatDees 2 роки тому
Funny _ I just did a video yesterday about this subject matter on my channel yesterday.
@Xcab685
@Xcab685 2 роки тому
One 🖤
@grittyexplorer
@grittyexplorer 2 роки тому
Love it
@grittyexplorer
@grittyexplorer 2 роки тому
35:30 for my future reference. When my kid grows up :)
@justinrichards7615
@justinrichards7615 2 роки тому
Hey Garry, how do you feel about Twitter trying to declassify the board tomorrow.
@mrworldclasschampion3078
@mrworldclasschampion3078 2 роки тому
💎
@robbbuzzeo4441
@robbbuzzeo4441 2 роки тому
Hey Gary, I’ve put my daughter in a pedestal because she’s been an honours student for the last three years. How can I transition from school being the only yay moment and letting her know there are other things that matter???
@moa3645
@moa3645 2 роки тому
1st viewer whoooooooooo... Cheers Gazza...
@thezakexperience
@thezakexperience 2 роки тому
Amazing from Gary as always, only way to have made it better would have been keep the couple on mute.
@yngg2k224
@yngg2k224 2 роки тому
SAY SECS INTO VID AND IM ALREADY GETTING MOTIVATED TO MAKE MUSIC TO HIT DA INDUSTRY 🔥💯
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 2 роки тому
That's awesome, good luck!
@mrbulldog1907
@mrbulldog1907 2 роки тому
How about that card market VEEEE? talk about that?
@Eldar970
@Eldar970 2 роки тому
👍
@chrisbell7253
@chrisbell7253 2 роки тому
I toll you I got your back Boss 😭😭!!
@jonfun
@jonfun 2 роки тому
Love love love love love love💯💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️
@TheBartekjak
@TheBartekjak 2 роки тому
❤️
@quinzhoffman4984
@quinzhoffman4984 2 роки тому
WOOWEEEE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@memifer9797
@memifer9797 2 роки тому
Gary, how do you deal with ups and downs? Did you ever thought that you're not smart enough to run your business? I'm at that point where I think I'm a failure and will never succeed...been like that for the past month...
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