You'll fail every time if you try to manage time. You need to only manage your tasks and priorities. Time will take care of itself

"Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion." ~ Rumi

Easily my favorite podcast, you can truly tell just how much effort is placed into these videos. Keep it up Mark! You're killing it in the youtube game.

If you want to erase your social life say no to invites more than 3 times. You shouldn’t feel obligated because you’re so cool you’re going to make the party. You should feel obligated because they are your friends putting on an event and that takes work. Don’t go to every one of them but social time is important. Don’t turn weird.

This could easily be a "fuck your feelings" type of podcast...but Mark and crew really work hard to validate, not denigrate people's feelings about everything going on in their lives. I appreciate the hell out of that! It's irresponsible to ignore your feelings and only apply rationalization to everything and Mark gets that. He does a superb job at encouraging folks to confront those feelings and cut through the deep weeds of the negative ones that plague us and cause us to get anxious, depressed, feel lost. I have not found a better podcast that provides as much comfort. And I hold know illusions that Mark is trying to make people comfortable, rather trying to get people to understand how we can become our own parachutes and create more comfort around one hard truth - we're all pretty much the same and we're not alone. I honestly realized that when I'm a little pissed off and not sure why, it's because I haven't had my weekly dose of Manson-ology. Thanks guys! You are helping more people than you realize.

I love that you're inviting dope authors, asking them dope questions we won't get anywhere else, and expand on your own thoughts and that's my review. Signed, your biggest fan

Four Thousand Weeks is my favorite book ever. I've read it about seven times. What a treat that Oliver Burkeman is on one of my favorite podcasts!

I have watched 5 nanoseconds of this video and can confirm it’s a certified mark manson classic!

'People pleasing' is a form of control. Control of people reactions. And pride. Thinking that 'Im the centre of the world, and if I say NO the universe collapse" When I started to notice that pattern in me it became so easy and natural to choose what I DO really want and deny what would be waste of my energy and golden time. And what really helps me is to remind myself that every time I say YES to something I don't want I say NO to myself.

I am recovering from an injury. Nothing like being unable even to read, but just to rest in order to heal, to teach about time and productivity. 😂😂

Mark Manson's podcast is a treasure trove of insights and wisdom. Each episode feels like striking gold, offering valuable perspectives and thought-provoking discussions. Truly a must-listen for anyone seeking deep and meaningful content.

This podcast is what I need. I feel like there is a kind of pressure from society that we should always be on the run, go go go. And for me it’s been so difficult to just have a day where I don’t do anything because I would feel unproductive, and this is awful… because we have to remember we are human beings not human doings! It’s great that you talk about prioritizing and remembering that some times we have to put more time into one thing and focus on that, rather than trying to do 100 things at the same time. (Like myself). Anyway thank you for this amazing podcast Mark ✌🏼

Time is a man-made construct. Be true to yourself, anything less is being fake. Trying to please everyone pleases no one, most of all you.

Mike Pagano once said this and I'll never forget it: Time Time is our weakness. Time is our flaw. Time is what drives our fears and passions. Time is our worst nightmare. We steal because we are impatient. We are impatient because of time. We don’t want to wait. Maybe we can’t wait. We have to eat or we die. We have to mate to spread our seed. We have to enjoy life because we have to die. We struggle with every bad decision, every bad memory because we are always worried about the past and its effects and we fear the future and its mystery. God is eternal. God is outside of time. There is no end. There is no fear. There is no want. With him you have eternity, life, and all your needs. When you reach this understanding. You realize why fear can’t exist anymore. I exist in eternity with Jesus. Nothing in time can change that. A lot of us focus on yesterday and tomorrow because it doesn’t look perfect. But God is outside time so he can see the end product and he loves it. He’s conforming you to that. Like a blacksmith forms a beautiful blade. It starts as an ugly chunk of metal. It must be beaten and formed. It doesn’t look pretty. Sometimes it’s rough. But it ends with a beautiful blade. Then there’s the analogy God uses about us. We are the clay, he is the potter. Clay doesn’t always look pretty in the potters hand. But the end result is gorgeous. We are in the middle of being formed and conformed into the image of his son. As the scripture says. Right now it isn’t supposed to look pretty because you’re not at the end result. We know that God is already at the end result because he’s not a slave to time as we once were and still are in the flesh. Don’t fear. Trust him. The potter holds the clay firm and will not let the clay harden. Even if he has to start over. Trust the Lord

I completed your book "The Subtle Art" and I love to read the blogs. The podcast seems fresh with new guests and new ideas even though the basic value out of it is still the same which is "Do something you care about and find valuable", . Go on with it Mark, I am loving this series. Always helping me to correct some of my mistakes and be a better person everytime

As Woody Allen says "Life is completely meaningless, everything and everything we do is just a distraction from the overwhelming fact that we'll be dead soon"

Thank you for doing these podcasts. I listen to them on the way to work. They help me calm down and realize how little matters, but not in a misanthropic way. That's important because I have gone down that rabbit hole before and it brought me to some very dark places. Your ideas give me hope. Keep going.

Manson and Burkeman, holy moly! I love their different perspectives, and love where they come together too. The bit around people pleasers was great. Great job guys

I feel like the abundance of these kinda videos (40 mins in this case) are a pretty good way to waste a life.

“Something is always going to have to give” even when you’re wrestling with values that are important to you is very true but difficult to swallow. I simply beat myself up for not being better! It’s helpful to hear!

Something that came to me after listening to this podcast is that I haven’t felt fully myself lately, in this weird place where I’ve changed but mainly in my head. I think the reason is that I was projecting my true self in the future so it was always out of reach. Thinking that when things are perfect then I’ll live fully. But realising that the only access point is now.

Hi Mark, Thank you for having Oliver Burkeman.

I’m an INTJ with ADHD. Trying to focus on the present is like asking me to bend steel with my bare hands. I try meditating and it just becomes me sitting in place thinking about what I should be spending my time on. I have to take sleep meds to turn my brain off because I just can’t…BE.

I am a huge fan of your show! Read your book twice and constantly revisit as theres so much to put into practice. Please keep doing these!

The one and only podcast i listen to, i find them interesting and am able to relate to alot. The topics are thought provoking thank you ❤

I've been looking for content like this for a while now. Every video I watch is hasn't improved my life a bit but this podcast has brought some improvement in my life. Keep making these podcasts sir!

After many hours meditating over a few yrs I found this naturally in many ways. You can make your mind go blank and the body will continue to operate and complete tasks without "you" doing anything. It just gets on with a task that's kind of been downloaded and is in front of it, the hands and arms will move with no instruction kind of like putting something in the oven and checking on it in an hour and the dish is cooked, you don't stand there saying cook cook cook at the oven you leave it to get on with the job. When we see this you might find that any task you are doing is narrated over by the voice in the head about progress, what you are doing after etc etc and the task becomes a struggle or mistakes are made when the reality of the task that you want to do is that you can set the body off doing it and it will be done automatically as long as the mind knows how, thinking will only happen if needed. A simple thought I use to find this state when starting a task is I say to myself "observe movement" and I'm reminded and I start watching my hands move and legs and start witnessing the task happen like some kind of supervisor. It's a useful tool and I'm using it now cleaning the garage I've set 2hrs this morning to see what gets done in there with no objective and set off and see what happens. You will be surprised you won't just stand there still dribbling ironically if you do find yourself stood doing nothing it will be because the mind is running hard and you are stuck in a deep self conversation about something that happened 10yrs ago. The memory and imagination really is a cruel mistress for all it's uses in survival.

Love this podcast and it really resonates in my current situation. Just like to add about this cool advice I came across in the scripture that talks about life and wisdom. As a believer, I found it really encouraging. It basically says, 'If you want to understand life better, listen up, think things through, ask questions, and search for wisdom like it's hidden treasure.' I found it helpful in my journey, and I hope it resonates with others. Prv 2:2-6

Loving these videos from mark. Have always wanted more videos from mark and now that he has decided to show his face more, I am absolutely loving it.

Founding this podcast like finding a treasure. I'm watching this episode for 3rd time and believe it or not but everytime it's opening a deeper layer of wisdom to me.

I'd love to see a collab with Dr. K. I do not want to get into a war with the two audiences by performing any comparisons, just thought it'd be an interesting conversation to hear!

so glad i found your channel a few months ago. bought the books too. i love how succinct everything is. ty

I love the podcast. It’s a great length and is very easy to listen to. I feel almost as if I’m in the room there, being part of the discussion. I really admire how Mark can take a complex idea and dumb it done to a conversational manor. Please keep it coming and write more boos too!

That was really good! I view his take on finite time as a form of self compassion. The fact we have so many things we could do and we CHOOSE to do a few things that are very meaningful. This helps to not get stressed out so much about time and how many tasks we can accomplish, but moving with time in the present, not because we have to, but because we want to. In a way, this view on time relates to the philosophy the less options we have, the happier we are.

Excellent! Thank you both. I really enjoyed this deep, wise, and entertaining conversation. Love these authors, and always appreciate book recommendations.

Needed to hear this! Managing time and not procrastinating does definitely help, but self-doubt is the killer! Just have to overcome it by working with time

Amazing podcast, love your videos and the insight on how to better manage whatever life can throw at you with a mindset not burdened by anxiety

I have a big time management problem, I’ll save this video for later

really mark you're one of the best content creators that creates benefecial content and podcasts moreover thanks for your effort and I really appreciate what you're doing , man we need more of this type of people in our world , A huge shoutout to you my man

“Tend to be more comfortable with failing themselves…” oooph that slapped me in the face

This is the best podcast ever! I love it so much! You can tell how much work you put into it. You're killing it, Mark! It's really changing my life!10/10🔥

I love how well you understand and describe the brazilian culture on either your blog or here. Most of us Brazilians lack this kind of awareness on the toxic side of our culture

I don't usually watch podcast videos on UKposts.. but damn, Mark!! This is the second video I've watched straight. Thank you for bringing out insights that give me AHA moments. I'm learning a lot and realizing things I want to live by. More power!

I love the high quality, it lets you know that your getting high value information every episode

Thank you for your powerful/important content. Keep going. I watch/share all your videos!

I just absolutely love these collabs! I loved Oliver Burkeman's book 'The Antidote'. You should totally do more of these!

I really like your podcast lengths. 40minutes on time management is way better then trudging through the 2 hour ones out there!

I'm just amazed by your consistency. Keep these videos coming!

loved this episode. It was calming listening to a good conversation between upfront grown-ups, from time management to (unexpected) Buddhism 😊

This came at the perfect time for me. Thanks Mark.

Most people dont want to be upfront because after that their stance will be set and will not be able to handle situations the way they want after. people pleasing is a defence mechanism in order to be able to take always the better possition so you won't be penalized.

Time management for adhd people. Fun times indeed.(ADHD person here)

I find it amazing how good quality are the words that Mark tell us without charging, his a great person!

Mark does a nice job interviewing. The podcast was intellectually stimulating and applicable to life. 🎉

Best Moments for me Finite and Infinite 6:40 understand you are a finite person in a world of infinite choices Your Plan 7:35 strategic underachievement Funny 8:00 if you don’t want to be a person who changes the printer, do it once badly and never get asked again Mark M and Oliver B connection 9:00 writing connections = always choosing what to do with time, choose your struggles. You will never be omnipotent and do it all. Constrains and Freedom 18:31 something is going to have to give. The understanding that something is always going to have to give is liberating. 21:28 toxic relation with time! 25:25 Eckhart Tolle = it is not that thinking is bad. It is that can you develop a relation with thinking where you can pick it up, change your mind Actions 28:11 stop chasing goals and chill out. Actions lead to future fulfilment? Switch it round. Action is expression of fulfilment. Wow. 39:27 what makes it unbearable is you think it can be cured

Great episode again Mark. I admire Oliver and really liked his Time Management for Mortals series in the Waking Up App. Oliver has one of those soothing voices that makes him really engaging and easy to listen to. I was left wanting more but I guess that fits with you not wanting to waste our time. I like his 3-4 hour rule and how that helps but that is likely related to the letting go of expectations and that you must keep getting things done in your 8 hours of work each day. Stoicism also has some similarities to Zen Buddhism around time. I look forward to your next episode. Cheers

The only podcast I'm commenting on! Your book had changed my life! Thank you!

Mark usually has good insights. I just signed up for the weekly newsletter and saw the podcast link so I watched the podcast. Good stuff.

This is officialy the best channel of 2023❤

Keep the content rolling. I look forward to hearing it everyday 💪💪

And there's nothing like sitting through an ad every 3 minutes to help drive home the point 😅

thank you! I struggled with time management the last couple of weeks and didt know what new route to take

Please continue this format. I love it.

Absolutely love this podcast, incredible wisdom, exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you

I love this podcast. I have learned a lot from this. The guest always have amazing tips. thanks 👍

Farck, where was this message 30 years ago. I've always struggled with the boundary between service and people pleasing, which even in itself is a diversion from dealing with reality. Your explanation on people pleasing is the most articulate, simple and actionable I have ever heard

Thanks for all your dad jokes and self-help! I watch daily now. You're awesome dude! Keep up the great work!

Such a great conversation loaded with meaningful takeaways. Discovered several new learnings from Oliver, while also hearing how many of Mark's concepts can get put into practice within this context. And I'm absolutely planning to become a big time "strategic underachiever"!

Needed this reminder driving to work the day after Xmas having spent the holiday worrying about the work awaiting me.

For sure my most favorite podcast! Mark speaks out the topics as they are and also in a language I can relate to. I love listening to him and to his guests also. This helps me to think about my life, my suffering and where I want to go...and in fact not giving so much damn f*ck. I also receive the newsletter. Thanks for inspiration, Mark! Cheers, Chris from Germany - where you are allowed to publicly say the word "F*CK" 😂

My favorite podcast, you released it in a great time and I have been taking advantage of it, 5 stars

After your books I realized that I am my only problem. Everything that happens to me is solely my fault. I will never learn to use my time better because the downward spiral is so fast, that if I tried to stop it would probably kill me. However, it is much easier to blame myself than the whole world, I spend much less anger on myself than on the whole world :). Thank you for that, it's not much, but it's still something.

Listening back because after one episode I've already learned that your podcast is great! Keep it coming, please!

Enjoyed this conversation as I strive to align my time with my values. Baby steps f progress and no more 20 item task lists. Ai always appreciate your personal approach to the topic, Mark. I feel like I am sititng in the living room with a cup of coffee and part of the conversation.

I ve already read your 2 books. u r a god. u r a mentor. u r such an inspiration for new young authors. your work on internet is huge.

Great podcast, full of useful insights and perspectives, let’s go!

If u are happy with urself and live humble u feel relaxed.

Thanks Mark, another great show. Keep them coming.

Huge fan, love the youtube videos, and podcast, also finishing the book. Really inspiring way of thinking, keep up the amazing work

Mark, I read 'Subtle Art...' found it very contextual for me, specially in the time as I was struggling to set priorities. Not that the book resolved it all for me; but it did help me in the time to at least think in a way that I can have some kind of control on my life. Of course, confusions, uncertainties, sh*t find a way to surface again and that is where one needs to revisit content like 'Subtle Art...', this podcast would go a long way to keep reminding myself that I can have come kind of control, choices and as a result some impact on the outcome. Looking forward to it.... ... I started writing the comment to get the "free" pdf (lol), but now as I am recalling some of your content from books and previous videos, I am appreciating you more.. THANK YOU for all the experiences you share and content you generate

The ability to say no is a super power.

I am impressed how you make an impression, of the podcast being something different, with the thumbnail, title n intro. One is pushed to click the video and atleast watch the intro thinking that it's not "the run of the mill interview of xyz"...

🔥 covering the importance of choosing where to spend your time, focus and meaning-making

Listening to Oliver Burkeman's Four Thousand Weeks book again. Thanks for sharing this bit of thoughtful conversation with the world. (And thanks for keeping it relatively short!) Merry ******* Christmas to you, too!

I have a final tip. Don't buy Baldur's Gate 3.

Why was this so short!?! Please do another!! I could listen to both of you more😁 💞

I was brought up in a heavily religious lifestyle as well. I will say that Christianity in my experience is a great escape to narrow down your focus onto something external and 'bigger' to yourself. From there you can if you like dedicate your entire life to it. My father as well as many of the men at the church delighted in debating passages and lessons in the Bible to the extreme. However, this being all within a preset structure. Many will prefer structure to embracing the chaos of life. Especially when the chaos is in them and they don't know how to face it.

Thank you, Mark. You are both wise and look badass. Perfect combo. Glad you met Oliver in a meditation retreat and kept in touch after that. He is a wise and self-deprecating person like you, no one you guys get along with besides your love for the wisdom of Buddhism. Yes, thank you for giving a highlight to 4,000 weeks. And awesome book and much needed new ways of seeing the world which is a productive obsessed world and not knowing how to approach productivity and time. You are doing fine work, Mark. Keep racking up these awesome interviews and I know your podcast will lit up fire

This is a great podcast! You are an inspiration and motivate me every day to not give a fuck! It is truly a better way to live! Keep up the great work and have an awesome 2024!

Hey Mark, love your books❤, didn't knew you were on UKposts , but absolutely glad to found you, really taught me to give less f*cks, keep up the work man..

Great way to ask for a comment 🙏 I've been following your videos for a while, keep up the good work 👊

Discovering your favorite author has a podcast and I can literally watch and listen to you everyday 🎊

Amazing. I loved Four thousands weeks. Great book.

I have been reading your newsletter for years. I love how you ask questions and make me reflect on life, relationships, and anything. Your views help me reflect and question s lot of assumptions I have. Like time. I don't have time I am time. Interesting. It coincided with me re-reading Momo by Michael Ende. And it was exactly that! If everyone is "saving" time can there actually be a bank account where you store that time? And grey men that steal or suck the time away from an interesting life? I highly recommend the podcast and the book!

I rarely listen to more than two episodes of any podcast, but I’m way past that with Mark Manson’s The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck Podcast. There is something about Mark’s way of thinking and exploring a topic that both interests me in all his topics AND sparks ideas and understanding in my own mind. This is an EXCELLENT podcast and has become a staple for me.

I do enjoyed this podcast. It talks about a range of topics from productivity, time management, , Eastern religions and how not to roped into engagements that you don’t want to attend, and also why people should not give a blank about goal setting. I love his guest, Oliver Burke. Author of “4000 weeks… “ I can see how it is tied to Mark Manson’s “The Subtle Art of…,”.

Thank you 🫶🏾

I thing is i like most the niche gap between the new guest like every guest is talking some new you make not for just make something random and upload it Thank you❤ love from india❤

I'm really enjoying the podcast. Thanks Mark ‼️

Great content. You and the algorithm are reading my mind