No the worst feeling is when this person love you to and destroy her or his life for you

i feel the same way too..its really hurt when you really love someone but he cant love me back the way i love him..

In that situation now and I cry myself to sleep every night

That's what I've been feeling for the past year

I hope you all find real love!!!❤️💕

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Yes I totally understand. Unrequited love hurts so much that it actually hurts your SOUL!!😢😢😢😔

It is one of the worst feelings ever, my heart feels so heavy and broken! I love my husband with my whole heart and soul but I just have that horrible feeling and I just know! I really don’t think I can do this!

Sending love y'alls way... for what it's worth it may be nothing but I genuinely feel for you.

joey gatt I question my relationship everyday. What really hurts is when you have in the back of your mind everytime you're at work if they are cheating on you bc when you call and they say they are home and then find out they weren't and with someone else but says it was just a friend

Noted very well....😭😭😭😭

I know feelings

💔😢

literally. its the worst. falling in love is the worse decision u will ever make. mark my words. loving any person is like burning urself

+Christopher Cooper preachhhhhhhhhhh

or never did

this is me. has been me for the past 3 months. can't see myself getting over him :(

+Shaybell Harvey It will get better. I moved to another country, following a foreign exchange student that i fell in love with. Lived the long distance thing for 4 years, then i lived with her for 2+ years in Germany. I gave up my whole life for her, and even though we loved each other, it just didnt work out. I thought i was going to die, when we left each other at the airport. It was soul crushing heartache. But time heals all wounds, as much as it might be unbelievable now. Just hang in there, and remember that you aren't alone. I am now happliy married with 2 kids, and that previous experience taught me how to love someone, regardless of risks and fears. Its never a bad thing to put your whole heart into it, and someday you will look back and remember it with just an ache and maybe a few fading smiles and memories.

or when you love someone but they don't love you back it hurts so much 1 year and he never loved me :(

Syead Riad One day it’ll stop.

@@partyofnineM I can't wait for it to. 💁🙇💙💜💖🌧💨💫

ceecee bee I have no idea who you are, but I’ll praying for your healing. No one should cry everyday. Take care of yourself. 💕

I pray you are okay. And are no longer crying. I understand. I'm there now. It's a pain that there is no cure for.

Oh🙇

My current situation 😭😭😭

Rhafael Maga Rhafael, I do so hope you find love!

AHEM a youtuber AHEM

Yes💔

Especially when he's not capable of Love.

I'm sitting here thinking what to say. Everyone is different. Keep on doing your thing that you do, learn, you'll get better.

Remember: better to have loved and lost than ever knowing what love truly was or is. Keep you head high and love yourself until another comes along .

YOU JUST DID ,JESUS CHRIST!

Thats right. You dont know what happens.. why...

True.

star l tanks!!! It’s really hard to be in this situation.. I know him since I was 16 so I’ve been half of my life whit him. I really appreciate your words. It’s really heartwarming to read those kind words. Sometimes is embarrassing to talk about this with my family and friends ‘cause they’ve heard this over and over so I think is boring for them to listen to this... thanks for taking some of your time to give me such a nice message

You're not alone. 9 years and he's left for someone else. We already have a son and I'm also pregnant. I don't know how he can do this.

Fiona Spencer I'm so sorry to read that 😔... I can only hope this won't hurt us to long.

Wow!! why loving someone sucks? Worried whn we don't get love, worried whn we get love, worried whn we left by tht love, we r vry strange creature. emotions r vry complex to figure out.

The name of the father and the Son and the Holy Spirit I think they're other going to make a prey concentration meditation today how to going to fix a problem but I have to I have to have something to eat before I get myself busy doing something that I cannot doing now thank you very much God bless you all imagine that you are we got already or the thing that I spit it out is because God say so for the glory for his glory afford your salvation of your soul that is very important God bless you

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You said you knew in your gut he wasn’t in love with you. I’m curious, was you still in love with him up until that point? Be honest please. I’m tryna understand things from a woman’s perspective

Christine McGregor Christine, thank you. I’m still going through it. I will heal, and move on, ready to love completely again, Or the good Lord will take me home, and there I will know real love.

jetbecerra Yes! May you find someone who so enraptures you, and you so give your heart to!

So bloody true.. xx

Yep he will..and I’m a man🇬🇧

She*

👍

This is how I feel, am sooooo sad 😭😭😭😭

Zawadi Makyao Zawadi, yes, it hurts. But, you and your heart is so very precious! Don’t you ever forget that!

You're worth it❤️

I’ve felt this way my entire life because it’s true. Abused at a child. My parents abandoned me, grandparents told me I was useless and acted like I was an inconvenience. Exhub abused me in the worse ways you could of physically, emotionally n sexually. And another abusive relationship. Hurts knowing I’ve never been enough or wanted by anyone. Yet I’d do anything I could for anybody. I’m tired of pain & hurt and ready to go home 🥺 I’ve had enough

Is true

I feel you 😢

I feel you 😢

cuts to the bone😓

I feel you

I feel you

@ Mike, I wish I could comfort you. Your heart is invaluable. When you find that someone, give yourself completely!

Narcissistic people do it other people all the time. I know all too well.

I ask myself the same question

Agreed

Was it ever really love at all?? 💔💔

Giiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrlllllllllllll!!!!!

Me too

He probably does.

Awe.😍 I hope he does love you too.

Aww thanks guys. I'm 100% sure he doesnt love me like that. Hes now a daddy and very happy. And... I'm happy for him.

Omg girl 😭😭😭😭😭 I know

this is me rn lollllalsolol im so hurt bro

As this song said you can't make you love me. Yes a broken heart is the worst thing ever. Loving someone with all your heart Is the wrong thing to do . Cause when your heart is broken you have none remaining for you . Picking up the pieces is hard. Being with someone that don't love you is painful

I absolutely agree 110% I am going through this right now

@@effiegrimes3540 ...im sorry, be strong. Go day by day 💕

Stay strong

me too. feel so far

Miss KP you surely deserve someone better! :) I also fall for someone but I believe we aren't really meant for each other. I'll just enjoy the time we're together but slowly preparing myself when the time of letting go comes. Stay strong my friend. :)

Lornito Mahinay Jr thanks! 😊😊

Miss KP I feel u...in the same situation...shit hurts....one day at a time....

+Carmi B well said dear ^^ I hope this what would happen eventually

exactly!! very well said!

+Carmi B +Ahlam Mallak +Misty G zarcone Thank you all! God bless everyone! 😊

+Marcius Antonius Gacayan God does not exist.

+Joséphine C (Contradiction) i think that everything a person beliefs in is true and real for this person. so if someone beliefs in god, god may be real for him

You are so right! I don't think anyone could do that. That is what's so hard! To Love unconditionally.... I can think of only one that can do that, and that is Jesus ☺️ We are all sinners in this fallin world! We have all failed at it! God is love! He is the perfect love! So much so He sent His only begotten son to die for each and every one of us John 3 verse 16 ❤️ Thank God for loving us unconditionally! God had to remind me ( again) of this tonight. He loves me no matter what. The memories are haunting me tonight. Pain, sorrow, and loneliness ( and other emotions). God reminded me that He is first and the only true love. Thank you God 🙏🏻 God bless you

I wish you were but unfortunately life is very painful

Charvi Singh omg you scared me we stayed 8 years togather and now we have 4 years since we broke up I'm scared if I will still love him for years to come and I really don't want that

no honey , you are not crazy , don;t you dare to think this again

Charvi Singh... you are!! and you don't love yourself to hurt yourself that long...as long as you cling on to that feeling, the pain will never go... sorry...

No, it would be crazy of her to stay with him after all of the hurt and pain. That wouldn't be loving herself. But she walked away and and she's living life without him. Sometimes love never fades. Things don't just go away.

and when they leave, it's feels like there is a hole in your life and your heart. the more you realize they won't come back, the more it hurts.

😓

sorry

Pain demans to be felt 😢😢

awe

me to😢

I'm sorry my dear, hug to your heart from mine ❤ self love is not that bad after all when someone doesn't want you I wish you find peace in this 🌹

@ Qeisama Because you love! I wish I could comfort you.

Truth

That's what makes her special 😍❤

Lena Shore this is a cover, but she still sings it so beautifully and with so much passion, like she wrote it.

Lena Shore i

True

Go check out Tanks version of this song.

This song is from the 70s lol Adele didn’t make it

Bonnie Raitts version is still without a doubt the best.

Mike Reid and Alan Shamlin. Adele and Bonnie interpreted it, but let's not Let's not overlook the geniuses who created this masterpiece.

@@bubblyluv95 no, it was actually released in 1991 by Bonnie Raitt and her version is the best

Lmaoo

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+whateversup I'm pretty much in the same situation., except 3 years and I just haven't let it go yet.

+whateversup same but its been 5 years now.. :(

+whateversup Same except it was 4,5 years. It will get better, make sure you keep realizing that whatever you were missing, you were álso missing wíth him. Once your mind starts suggesting you'd be better off with him or together, talk to someone about it and realize that you made the right choice and that, if you go back, it won't make you happy at all, it'll just be an easy way out of living your life 'alone.' I noticed that I can do so much more now I'm the 'only one in charge' of my life. You didn't mean to hurt him, so never make yourself feel like you've done anything mean or wrong, you chose the best for yourself and for him.

+Stephanie Robbins now me and u are the same

Hyoonicorn how are you now !!

Dareen Jane Alajar Dareen, I’m so sorry for your pain, when you gave up this fight. May you find someone.

@@ahussain5393 I wish I did but I have no words of encouragement for you because we are going through similar situations. Love is beautiful, but loving someone like this that it hurts sucks. I wanna get over over him, but whenever I think it's getting better, it gets worse.

A Hussain A, I am sorry you are hurting. I’m happy that you have accepted your circumstances. My hope is that you will find love, and that love will be redeeming.

+Courtney Lynn loving someone who used to love you and then he decide to end it hurt even more :'( happened to me only a month ago..now my heart bleeds so much...cos I love him so much and after we have plan to be together till old age..now he can said just be friend...i can't accept it so I delete him from my life and try to pick up pieces and move on :'(

+cheryl lee I can feel you

+Courtney Lynn I'm also in pain right now, she is completely oblivious to my feelings. I hope my heart will move on soon. The pain inside is unbearable.

+Hriata Awsome In time our heart will move on..that I can promise you even though it will sadden you and I understand your pain...but give it time and eventually you will move on...surround yourself with people give you positive vibes and loves you..sending you lots of healing prayer..You are not alone in this world, everyone's there for you...

+cheryl lee im goin through this same situation since 10 days..n yesterday he tells me that he still has feelings but has started liking another girl...n i dont noe wat to do..

Same 😳

chaelieyn cl I’m crying now.

chaelieyn cl The woman i love is into somebody else, it sucks but life goes on

I thought like i was myself lol same to me

Same!

Bonnie sang it best. But Adaile is sounds great too.

Lady WarFare you'll find the one ☺

Shareef Abdulnafaa thank you Shareef :)

Avadia Kovich i'm going through a tough time with a crush. She's with someone else at the moment ,yet she's still friend. I'm just wondering how did u gather up the strength to move on? cuz I feel like I'm constantly crying myself to sleep knowing that I'm not good enough for her, and I don't feel there's anyone out there for me.

Lewis Wilson aww I'm so sorry to hear. To be very honest with you. It was not easy. I would cry sometimes, well most of the time when he wasn't around. Even after he got with that girl I loved him more. My stomach would tighten every time I saw him with her. I know he knew I loved him. He was always protecting me like he was my bf, his eyes would lighten up every time he saw me. But I knew he didnt love me like that. Tbh, I think I even went through a stage where I would hyperventilate because he was near me. He thought I had asthma. (I'm super fit by the ways, had no idea how he came to that lol). To get over him I did numerous things, I decided I would get to know the girl. I was hoping she was a bitch but she was so sweet and the most kindest heart I have ever known. I then realized she was good for him, which made me upset but more happy. Because I came to learn, if you love someone this much you know for a fact what's good for him/her. I told him I was leaving to start again. He looked upset and told me not to. But it's me who I needed to heal, not him. I did something which turned out great for me. I moved to Australia. Interacted with multiple people and fully succumbed to my new home. Over time, I found myself not checking if he's messaged me. I stopped looking at his updates on fb. I eventually stopped thinking about him. I even found out recently that he's had a baby girl with his sweetheart. I was so happy for him. I swear it's the greatest feeling to be "him" free. Yeah, every time I hear this song it reminds me of him. But now I can make peace with it. I'm just happy I didn't get boy hungry and tried to replace him with another guy. Because believe me. That would've drove me insane; To know my new guy wasn't him, wouldn't go down with me so lightly. I stayed single and worked on myself. I've been able to tell myself that I would eventually find the one. I'm not in any hurry. But what I'm trying to say is, that you need to make peace with her. If she hasn't displayed any type of affection towards you then it's best you move on. This will only escalate to you thinking that she's all you need. Because matter of factly, you are all you need. Yeah when it's right you would know. No one can tell you how to cope, that's the honest truth. No book, no person and yes, most definitely not me. But I really do hope that my rambling helped a little. Please update me on what your plans are. All the best x

Avadia Kovich You'll find the one whole loves you wholly for you... and that day will be amazing :)

Nice opinion..

+Risza Ratu Taylor Swift said that...

Thts true

+Fanta Loon If you're not with someone that you love, you just hope that someday you will be able to, why bother? I mean, if you're an independent person you shouldn't have to strap yourself down to another person who you don't have that connection with, you should just be happy on your own and love yourself.

+Fanta Loon true but everything that grows dies eventually

find ur own happiness u deserve it

Kim Raeri hard to let go

this comment is from four months ago..i hope youre doing better. i know how hard it is. i really do. but you are going to be okay. i am so proud of you, if you could love the wrong one that much, imagine how much youre gonna love the right one. and theyre gonna love you back just as much, stay strong, i love you

@@leredpinecone7399 the date is 1/27/21 and i am doing great thats all done and over and im just doing me and living life!

Glad to hear from you... Thank you for your love and support.. Where are you watching from?

Wendy Mnguni Yes, until morning, which time, we will do the right thing. In the morning, we will do what is right.

Wow I felt those words cut straight to my core

Almost profound that statement.

Very profound..

Lyrics hit right to the core!

Hurts.

Marshall Grande How do I comfort you? Your heart is so valuable! Guard it. But, release it, in all its affection, when you find her.

Pain ...physical pain.

Lisa Allen-Bragg I know exactly what you mean

:(

lets just hope they can be better fathers than husbands😢😭😢

I totally understand

It hurts so bad. They say the love you still, and if they didn't they'd leave you. But yet you feel so empty. You've given all your love and you feel little to nothing in return. It is an excruciating pain.

Nice

Because I haven't married her yet, and we're going through it.

your response is beautiful

woow

+WizzyWhipitWonderful she so lucky have you with her......:)

If they're rejecting you, then they're not your soul mate. Let go of the infatuation and find REAL love that's mutual.

TheresaTV1 not true always.

Yes, always. Don't be ridiculous. If they won't even date you, then they are NOT your soul mate. That's the problem with relationships, too many people mistake infatuation for love, and when the infatuation fades, there's nothing left. If you're still happy together after many years, that's real love and you're probably actual soul mates.

Yeah totally you're always right in every situation. Just like my situation where I had been so scared to be in a relationship that I was so mean to this guy for two years. But he kept trying and now it's nothing like befor3

Kierstin Munoz Still doesn't mean you're soul mates. You were just really immature and then grew up enough to have a relationship with him and he was patient enough to hang around until you were ready. That doesn't mean that you complete each other. Only time will tell.

Waw

Beautiful.

Michael Monroe so very very sorry Love is not to ever be taken lightly it’s what we need to survive in this world . I met my first real love , my soulmate st the age of 56 - after 33 yrs of abuse, manipulation, and a controlling marriage . But two good things came out of this union and that was my two beautiful daughters now grown with children ( my precious 7 grandchildren) . But I didn’t know what love was not how to love or to be loved by a man . Then I met my first tire love and it was on my part love at first site , but 2 1/2 yrs later I found out that he really didn’t love me after all that time , my life wasted and based upon deceit , cheating and lies. How heartbreaking that is I can’t even describe the pain that it has caused me , I’m broken but God will help me through it all and one day I’ll be whole again. !! To all those out there women and men that have loved so deeply and was never love back , just remember God is with you and will carry you through it all and you’ll be stronger one day !! Love to all that’s hurting ♥️

This is heartbreaking! And I feel your pain, so sorry¡

You made me cry.... The whole time i was thinking about how ive been through something similiar!

Betsy Hernandez sad to see that :( But don't worry, karma is on the way. You'll be okay soon. Love and live your life.

Betsy Hernandez I hope you feel better girl we all go through it 😢😢😢

Betsy Hernandez stay strong

Betsy Hernandez my situation right now but I love him

Betsy Hernandez I feel u

Tell her

Just be patient with your friend/ and explain to her that you will go as slow as she would like. Don't give up , 😘

+alexis delprete (1a2kit) me too :(

+alexis delprete (1a2kit) man, that's tough. sometimes you start to feel alone, but you gotta know there's a reason one of the most popular narratives in the lesbian community revolves around falling in love with a straight girl. good luck sweetheart :(

I know what you mean I fell for someone that I can't have

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Mary Elias Ya I know the feeling all to well !!! What is love any more ??

Me to

You got that right~love needs to be shared~everyone needs that feeling that when they smell something it reminds them of you that smile unexpected that heartbeat that was for you~love is unforgiving but wonderful with the right person

Mary Elias 💔

😔😔

TONYA SIMMONS i feel where you coming from i lov someone with all my heart.But I cnt make her lov me

TONYA SIMMONS

TONYA SIMMONS tell. Me about it,I try my very best to forget it and him,but he want let me move on

Hi Tonya, so finally could you move on? I'm trying hard to get rid of this poisonous relationship. It's just killing me. Loving someone, who actually doesn't care about me. Will appreciate if you could share how you moved on. Thanks.

TONYA SIMMONS .

Amen, AMEN Serenity Rose! You spoke the TRUTH! Everyone has or will experience this at some point. Grieve it for a moment, listen to songs like this at full volume, and KNOW the Lord has someone better who will fully understand AND appreciate the full and complete YOU.

Kathy Houston -Aho :)

serenity rose thank you, means so much to me during these day's. we forget and can't see pass the love to realize how things should be simple and not complicated.

zimplylove luna. that's exactly true I don't care how intelligent I thought I was ,I was blind,.in the same breath if given the opportunity I would carelessly toss my new found vision right out the window, for love

serenity rose So true!

jajajajaja true, sad and cruel reality!!! xDD i agree with you!

ROTFL! So true

Yesss!!!! Lol I can't:)

Tank

@ Douglas gates: Think so? I've been listening to Bonnie's version for years. Seems it had wide circulation, but maybe it was just on the Country charts. To be honest, Adel's cover is great but Bonnie's is really special.

warspartan2010 I realize you are very bright! Go on UKposts I see how many places Adele has sing this song and count the total hits. This will be my only and last reply to you.

Bonnie Raitt owns this song. It's more bluesy and painful. I have been listening to Raitt's version for over 25 years. Heard it first from a dj in a bar. Adele owns plenty of songs and I love her, but this song is Bonnie's.

Gotta give her credit for the good job she did singing one of Prince's songs

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Be glad that you have a rich heart. That is something.

@@LilyGazou Yay lol

Actually, mine also😳😳

💔

I guess we the same😮

ClementineTheGamer I know it seems like everything right now, but one day you'll meet the right person and forget all about this one.

Home

You Said omg

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Get counseling if you can. Reconnect with things that you lived when you were a girl- an author? Poetry? Painting? Hiking? Get a copy of the Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron- do the exercises every day for 12 weeks. Excavate those list parts of yourself. You will find the dearest freshness deep down things- as a poet once said. I lived this. Give it a try.

I'm so sorry mine left after 18yrs & 1 daughter. I don't understand how someone can just walk out & not give af after being together all those years.

Silvia N. Keep pushing Silvia ❤️

Hugs :.. crying atm hays

This is where I am ... I am sending you love and hugs, I have to believe it gets better. I have to believe it was for the best. I have to believe it wasn't all for nothing. I have to believe those final night I knew was just holding off the inevitable. I knew he was no longer mine... And I had to give up, when he left he went where he really Wanted to be. How do I hurt because I didn't get what I really believed I wanted, but he went after what he believes he wanted ? Would it be fair if the roles were reversed? To stay somewhere I didn't want to be anymore?

🙏

I hope you are doing better !!

khadijeh arman How can any one not live you, you are more beautifully than the sun !!!

can there ever be a perfect balance?

ItsNITTY Harris same. Its a hard decision between fighting for love because you know its worth it, or letting go and search for something that comes from both sides, not wasting any energy in something that won't work. I'm in this decision right now...

BlaZe0Star​ yeah. True and it hurts so much. They say "time heals all pain" but it's been too long.

ItsNITTY Harris some wounds need much more than time to heal, maybe love.

True af, they can only be healed with someone else's love :) which needs time to find itself

sumit singh yeah Im with you on that. Thanks ☺

please? that would be oh so perfect.

Jovanna Calderon Jovanna, don’t you dare give your heart freely away! They will earn it!

@@flyingphotography5770 Your so right

Jovanna Calderon And, when they have earned it, your love, give it freely, give it completely! Trust! For love, between two, is so special! Never forsake, hold! Always listen. And this, I learned from a trusted loving pastor. Sometimes, sometimes, you just have to say, “I’m sorry!” Even when there is no reason for you to be sorry, for the sake of relationship.

+Takagi Rui I wrote him a note and asked him...... That was 3 weeks ago and I haven't heard anything from him but surprising I feel ok about it

+Takagi Rui well it's gonna take time. It hurts me a lot but it's OK because now I know he doesn't want me and I'm not gonna try for someone who doesn't want me.

+Takagi Rui well it's gonna take time. It hurts me a lot but it's OK because now I know he doesn't want me and I'm not gonna try for someone who doesn't want me. Never try to put fire out with gasoline

this comment made me cry :( fell ya sis

I feel u

hurting is just a part of life, and an important one. for if one didn't hurt, s/he wouldn't truly understand joy.

Falak Kashmiri Thank you very much for thoughts, Falak! So do I understand it wright: you believe, humans are not able to appreciate "joy" without the experience of "pain"?

Nadine Supp yep :)

Nadine Supp because hurting people is easier than loving them.

Nadine Supp see but its not about hurting someone. its not intentional. thats what shes saying its nobodys fault. people fall in and out of love and sometimes not at all. the key here is that as much as it hurts it will hurt 10 times worse trying to make someone stay when they just dont love you.

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