I Feel STUPID | My Biggest Insecurity
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Does Alpha come across as stupid? Not in regard to his video topics but his IQ? In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro says that he felt like a massive moron after getting off the phone from a podcast interview.
Why did he feel insecure, and what exactly happened?
It's been about a week, so he's reflected on the experience. During the interview, he was asked about the last book he read {he doesn't read}-- so he grabbed one off of the shelf for his response. The truth is that he watched the Ted Talk. So he knew enough to be dangerous and talk about it. The next question was what was the last book he gave as a gift {never has}. He finally told the interviewer that he doesn't read -- he just doesn't like to read.
He's not a reader.
The more Alpha thought about it, he came to a realization that he's not a reader. He's a doer-- and he considers himself educated but doesn't like to acquire knowledge from books. Regardless, he felt stupid and a failure. This brought up other issues and insecurities that Alpha has. He has terrible spelling and grammar. Truthfully, he doesn't send long emails to people because he doesn't want to look stupid. He attributes it all to his Quaker kindergarten where he was taught to spell phonetically. It was all about spelling how it sounds -- 99.8% of kids have not problem switching over -- except for Alpha. Combine the spelling and grammar with not reading, he's felt doomed.
Don't Live Up to Someone Else's Expectations
He says we all struggle and have insecurities. For the most part, we can compartmentalize them. But it's okay if you don't do something that the world says you should do to be something. You are special and unique the way you are and have your own strengths. Don't beat yourself up! Alpha felt stupid -- but he knows that he's not. But while you're in school, do your schoolwork!
@raze6059 3 роки тому
I'm feeling so dumb that I literally searched for it .
@KingKong-xp7yo 3 роки тому
Same 😕
@melanieabalos7192 3 роки тому
Same. It's bothering me so much im actually crying. I feel even more stupid for crying! I've never felt this way and it's not fun. I can only guess starting to go through menopause is effecting my hormonal balance and FKNG my mind up.
@bulletarvindi442 3 роки тому
Same here
@rafaelsalce9780 3 роки тому
a few seconds ago I've felt alone on feel stupid until I see the comments and read people that are feeling the same
@yahhu4122 3 роки тому
i feel dumb sometimes too. but I know that,s not true. you too bros stop listening to your dark side. you are not stupid or anything. they make you believe that.
@losasakarosa9050 5 років тому
the absolute worst feeling is getting bad results in a test u revised a shit tone for. People go "its okayyyy u tried ur best" leading me to question why my best isnt enough
@Manuel-px9lc 4 роки тому
I felt that.
@_.Leo_. 4 роки тому
Ton*
@user-pz5wp2vx1g 4 роки тому
@@_.Leo_. smartass
@timeadebeljak5247 4 роки тому
Taht happened to me today
@gracezheng1699 4 роки тому
i seriously felt that. i really studied hard for a test in math this one time and i checked my homework every single time for that unit and redid problems i couldn’t do. i got a B-. i’m an advanced student, but i’ve been failing tests (C-, D, or now even F). that B- was the second highest grade i got the entire year. i’ve never cried over math, but tomorrow i have another test and i just broke down because i don’t understand anything.
@Panda-pp4qm 5 років тому
Feeling stupid is also my biggest insecurity. My parents push me to take advanced classes but I always loathe going to those classes because compared to my peers I don't feel smart enough. I also don't read because I have no attention span. I usually turn to audiobooks.
@rebeccatom2188 5 років тому
Marina story of life dude same. Except now I'm a junior in college. I have a Short attention span that everyone points out
@user-rr7du4ds2x 5 років тому
I know, everybody says oh that test was super easy, when really I was the one who failed.. It makes me feel dumb.
@brentongandy658 5 років тому
My parents treat me like I'm stupid.
@thorfinn518 5 років тому
@@brentongandy658 for me, it just happend today :/.
@ReubenAStern 5 років тому
Sounds like your doing stuff that doesn't interest you.
@arreku4181 3 роки тому
I remember being called “retarded” and “stupid” throughout my childhood, so much in fact that I started to believe it, and that really demotivated me to the point where I felt like I never was good enough. I would just sit in class and hope the teacher wouldn’t call on me, because I feel like anything that comes out of my mouth would be ‘stupid’.
@immajoke.o8558 2 роки тому
Aw im so sorry that happened, i really sympathize with you and it must've hurt 💔
@sese-ci2yr 2 роки тому
hey just wanna let you know that i feel the same exact way& i’ve been dealing with my brain telling me i’m stupid for god knows how long. my heart breaks whenever someone tells me i’m stupid, i laugh it off as a joke but inside i’m actually torn. it kills, so i feel u i hate it
@djredjacket3851 2 роки тому
I’ve never resonated with someone so much
@cokta006 2 роки тому
We have same problem i'm 16 yr old and everyone tells me that i'm stupid and i don't blame them somethimes i am but they started to say that soo often that i believe that like you said everything i say is dumb, cuz of that i'm starting to become more not of a not talking person and kinda depresed
@surista03 Рік тому
same
@socialglitch2663 6 років тому
I feel stupid most of the time. I think I’m the dumbest person to ever live :(
@karanjitsingh2155 6 років тому
Erica M no i think u come second i come first
@karanjitsingh2155 6 років тому
Kyle's terrible content hajahahajaj no i am
@fatimahqadir4300 5 років тому
Can't beat the girl who cants read!😭 its sad!
@kieralambert1579 5 років тому
@@fatimahqadir4300 then how did I respond or make this comment lol
@junmicheletti7834 5 років тому
you havent met me yet
@RustySpoons6490 3 роки тому
I feel stupid all of the time...pretty much every day. I know logically that I’m not dumb. But, every single time I speak out loud with my peers & professors in a college class, I reflect back on what I said later on and I cringe at what I said. I don’t know if I suffer from social anxiety, but I go through this anguish every day it seems.
@toomuch6690 3 роки тому
Man I feel the same way too it's best just to stay on top of your game and don't think about it too much.
@allisonbaird5750 3 роки тому
You’ve described perfectly how I feel too.
@karlaschmid5676 3 роки тому
@Frankie Hatcher Reacts hey friend your comment hurt my heart. I bet your a great person that is good at many things. ❤️ please cut yourself a little slack 🤗
@karlaschmid5676 3 роки тому
@Frankie Hatcher Reacts You’re very welcome 🤗 and thank you! I totally understand I have bad days too. We’re it not for my close relationship with Jesus and the joy that that brings, I would have a lot more bad days. A few years ago I asked Jesus to show me myself through His eyes, and He really has it’s been amazing to see through His point of view of me. Praying for you friend❤️
@karlaschmid5676 3 роки тому
@Frankie Hatcher Reacts You have a very sweet spirit! You’re right and a heart of gratitude goes along way!!! Never forget that you were created for a specific purpose and the world needs you! Thank you for brightening my day with your kind comments and warm emoji’s! Now go out there and kick life in the butt and don’t let anybody stop you!
@thomas1rye Рік тому
I don't think I'm stupid mentally. I just feel like I can't articulate my thoughts, ideas, or emotions properly. I found that when I write things, it sounds like I'm a thoughtful and a well knowledgeable person, but when I try to explain it or just talk, I feel weird. It's like a disconnect with everyone. People ask me about things and why I think that way. when I'm asked questions, I can't speak clearly because of the pressure of interactions. It's a weird feeling when I see everyone looking blank because they couldn't understand what I just said. It's an issue that just feels strange to me, and it makes me wonder why I should put effort into the things I say if no one notices or understands.
@luciazhang4925 8 місяців тому
man i relate to this so much! Whenever there's a debate taking place at school I'll stress out so much! (unless a period of preparation time is given so i can write everything down for myself so just recite from the paper) My body temperature will increase by 10, and my mind will become into a liquified, hot soup of neurons! So i can't do anything but seat at the corner and wait until the nightmare is over. people=pressure. However I love writing (ugh lets not talk about the writer's block though) when I'm alone by myself sometimes i surprise myself from the concepts i've written, whether it being an essay or a story. It's just like my brain is independent from my control. e.g. the other day i wrote a 1k word essay about human perception vs reality, using some source's ideas + my own insights! that was...intriguing
@lily.337 6 місяців тому
Omg this is so relatable for mee
@Lauren-bd2fr 2 місяці тому
I also relate to this so much, this is exactly how I feel
@DemonBillie 2 місяці тому
Same
@jothikaanoop1003 Місяць тому
The perfect comment that relates to me so much.
@yahelisrael6958 3 роки тому
I feel stupid all the time. I just literally searched for this because I was wondering if I am the only one who felt like this
@coledale 3 місяці тому
Same
@jle20chapin 6 років тому
Major respect for your honesty.
@calebdouglas9343 4 роки тому
SAME!!!!
@Darktheria 3 роки тому
I feel really dumb when I get my results everyone bragging how easy it was, while I cry looking at my terrible results pushing myself down. I never feel like I’m good enough I would do anything to become smart.
@spectrechromee1918 3 роки тому
I literally cannot relate anymore to this
@viotio7358 3 роки тому
There’s no way to “become smart” your IQ cannot increase, but can only decrease over time if you don’t train your mind
@FS-rj4xo 3 роки тому
@@viotio7358 Nonsense. You can gradually become smart.
@viotio7358 3 роки тому
F S until a certain age, and it’s quite limited. You cannot become “gifted” through commitment.
@austincozart5138 3 роки тому
@@viotio7358 We barely understand the complexities of the human brain, saying you definitely can't increase intelligence is a bit of an ignorant statement.
@kennycontreras1956 5 років тому
Wow. I feel the same way. School makes me feel like im stupid for some reason. I dont like it when i fail. Completely start to stop caring because i feel like im going to fail anyway. I dont know what is wrong with me!!
@meryonnaise165 4 роки тому
SAME
@trino5184 4 роки тому
Same
@carleighrice8891 4 роки тому
Same
@kyshawntv6285 4 роки тому
barcarock123 C I just started back college last week after a 6 month break after graduating. And i just always feel so lost and dumb in class. Everyone else use these big words and shit toward the professor and understanding stuff, while I’m like “???”.
@chadwilson2333 4 роки тому
@@kyshawntv6285 i feel stupid too because i put on my game case on fridge but i did not put desk because i forgot
@chapstickwarrior9277 5 років тому
I barely got an education and did nothing for most my schooling years. I was forced to go to school when I was 14 for legal reasons, and it was hell! I can't do basic math, I'm bad at spelling, science, etc. I quit as soon as I turned 16. Now at 19, I can read and write, but still feel extremely slow. I don't have any learning disabilities, but my lack of knowledge as an adult hurts my confidence greatly. It really freakin' sucks. I should probably try to educate myself somehow.
@eleisiaferguson4486 5 років тому
Koopa Troopa Poopa I was homeschooled throughout high school. My biggest mistake honestly because it enabled me to slack off. So now at 19, I feel like my academic level stops at junior high-which may not be true. However, I feel like I missed out on a lot of curriculum.
@spkspk1416 5 років тому
same as me, the only difference is that i do feel that surely i have some learning disabilities which were never diagnosed may be because of lack of knowledge. i feel horrible and tired, every day i face my teachers judgements in front of so many students. my life suks.
@VlrglnMary 5 років тому
I don't know basic math either lmao
@cristopherortez3503 5 років тому
I understand how you feel koopa troopa, I am always feel like a dumbass and I always do dumbass nonsense even when I don't want to, I don't say much to other ppl cause I always feel I would say something stupid and I do. Next thing i know it ruins my day, and I keep eating at myself thinking why am I such a dumbass. But now I just have to learn to be careful. Watching this video and reading your comment actually makes me feel better, thanks for making me feel like I am not the only one
@_.Free_.Palestine_. 4 роки тому
The senctence "I don't have any learning disabilitied, but my lack of knowledge as an adult hurts my confidence greatly." is exactly what I feel too! In addition to the lack of knowledge I miss understanding or getting the context too. Like I don't understand the topics immediatly or when I studied for some time (or hours) and I can't conntect them to other related topics and this makes me feel like an idiot! All my classmates understand the subject and I'm the only one who has to think about it, try to understand it and when it doesn't work just memorize. Then I hear the same issue in another class (cause they are related) but I can't remember what I memorized bc I didn't understand in first place. It really sucks, I feel like I have achieved nothing :( Btw I got my Bachelor degrees, but I feel the same way. So I don't necessarily think that it has to do with the academic level...
@gabrieleisenberg9861 6 років тому
Aaron, I'm a biomedical engineering Masters student and I don't read books anymore. Granted I read a lot of journal articles for my research but I don't read books for leisure. I can't bring myself to do it. I love watching intellectual videos on UKposts like debates or talks. As far as I'm concerned, not reading books does not make you stupid.
@SyFyBry 6 років тому
I'm exactly the same doing the same thing LOL. Wild. I'm so burnt out on reading as a necessity that there no way I'm going to do it for leisure. I hear the book thing every so often on campus though.
@gabrieleisenberg9861 6 років тому
I completely understand haha. But there is still much to be gained from videos. Reading is not the only method of information transfer :P
@tannerd5624 6 років тому
I think it has more to do with the stereotype that smart/intellectual people read as opposed to the stereotype that lazy people watch videos. I disagree with this and as a recent graduate with a BS in Microbiology, I definitely relate to pretty much only reading journal articles. I think the true reality is how introspective you are in regards to how you respond to the particular form of content that was designed to advance your knowledge.
@sreemukhkovuri4789 6 років тому
Gabriel Eisenberg Ironically I double majored in Management studies, and I don't prefer reading either. I try to make up for my lack of reading by reading just the news headlines and watching documentaries and news channels on UKposts to keep myself updated.
@tcsgrt 6 років тому
Gabriel Eisenberg Hello I just read your comment saying that you're a graduate student in biomed. I saw this as an opportunity to ask if you have any advice for a biomedical engineer entering the 2nd year of undergrad.
@kimberlydiamond1641 5 років тому
That’s how I feel like I’m 19 years and I feel I can’t do anything right like I don’t know how to count , I don’t know how to pay bill , don’t know how to drive , adult stuff or when people talk to me they use big words and I don’t know what to say I stay quiet
@user-zu1ix3yq2w 5 років тому
Not Today you should know how to count. Honestly, it's extremely easy for 99% of people - theyve been doing it since they were 4. Even crows count. The rest of what you said are mostly adult skills you only really learn from a mentor and experience. You sound like you aren't growing up in an entitled/privileged environment where people (your family) respect your individuality/autonomy. People who have those skills and have a large vocabulary are privileged compared to you. There's still time for your brain to learn AND grow.
@ionicplatypus8 4 роки тому
Not Today don’t give up. Prayers.
@makeena.a 4 роки тому
I am 19 as well, I had an interview today where I got asked a 3 questions that I did not prepare for and ended up making me feel SO stupid!
@r.danielramirez6405 4 роки тому
I feel you man.
@soekarpornobabi7562 4 роки тому
You can become better.
@jimmykit-kat3424 5 років тому
I'm really academically smart, and intrapersonally smart, but on the flip side, I'm not very socially smart. I try to think before I speak, and keep track of what I've previously talked about, but I always end up in the same spot. Usually I'll lean towards touchy topics accidentally, and not know when to shut up, blurt something out, or just stand there awkwardly because I don't know what to do, say hi fifty times in a conversation or mention how I'll say hi fifty times in a conversation, constantly feel the need to explain myself, and most of all, completely forget everything we've talked about. It is my biggest insecurity, and I'm pretty sure it makes a lot of people view me as weird. I'm just glad that my best friend sees past this and that when he says I am weird, he says it in a good context. Anyways, sorry for the long comment, but I just really understand what you're feeling. The video made my day.
@Mynar123 5 років тому
yep, same.
@ppmontegue 5 років тому
Jimmy Kit-Kat I wish I could sympathize but I’m the exact opposite and it’s hell. I do generally well with school work but when it’s test time my brain shuts off and I basically have a tiny anxiety attack, I end up contradicting every answer I put and I end up failing. I do try to study but I end up procrastinating and not doing it which is most likely my downfall. I am a freshman in high school and I know that freshman year grades are the first ones colleges look at... and that really gives me anxiety. And I know I’m probably overthinking it and it isn’t like I can’t turn my grades around next year but I just need to hear some advice
@jimmykit-kat3424 5 років тому
Hey @@ppmontegue , I'm also in my freshman year and I've had my fair share of procrastination. All I can say is, it's better to cram for a test or start an essay fifteen minutes before it's due than to be completely and utterly unprepared. On tests, just go with your gut and trust in yourself. When I have trouble in social situations, I'm immediately reminded that life isn't like a test, it's not something you can study for, so that's exactly what I do; go with my gut and trust in myself. Another thing is that like how most people aren't just introverted or extroverted, most people aren't just good at maths or the arts. So, like any formalism-loving artist, I guess we just all have to build off what skills we already have. I love science, and when I talk about it with somebody who shares that interest, everything becomes a lot easier. Good luck.
@ppmontegue 5 років тому
Jimmy Kit-Kat thank you
@jimmykit-kat3424 4 роки тому
@Death Son Get rid of that idea of trying to be normal, nobody's normal, and in that way I guess we all automatically are. Anyways, it's never too late to try. Even though it may be hard, that's all that we really can do, and that you posted this comment shows that deep down you're willing to do just that. If you've decided that you're done with being a, 'topnotcher,' that's fine, redefine yourself by new standards, and give yourself room to try new things. You don't have to be a topnotcher nor "some other average person leading a normal life," that's not what I personally think life is about. But point is you've changed, change is inevitable, but it doesn't have to be bad. So like I said, give yourself room to explore. P.S. Although I have no experience with depression, I want you to know that you're *not* alone, and you never will be.
@shaynahall270 5 років тому
Feeling stupid is definitely my biggest insecurity. I always feel stupid. I feel like I've been stupid my whole life. I hate being this way. I have failed at so many things, made excuses and lost motivation. I feel like I am one big disappointment walking around. The thing about it is that I love to encourage and push others. But honestly, I need to be encouraged and pushed myself.
@stealthy1498 8 місяців тому
This. I feel the same way. I recently had a huge failure in my career life. All of my peers have moved on and have succeeded, and I'm constantly trying to encourage others, but no one seems to want to talk to me or reach out to me to see how I'm doing or encourage me. I think that above all lends to the feelings of stupidity.
@crustycrested 6 років тому
"The ancient oracle once said that I was the wisest of all the Greeks. It is because I alone, of all the Greeks, know that I know nothing." -Socrates
@kokumalamoi3421 6 років тому
Well said.
@user-dq7ej1ks5b 5 років тому
Im from greece😂😂
@danchrotchet8662 5 років тому
This quote beautifully captures the essence of the yearning of knowledge, Roughly the modern interpretation of this line would be that Ego destroys knowledge
@VennYT 6 років тому
was lowkey expecting an audible promotion
@gartatia 6 років тому
hhahahahahahahhahahahahahh give this guy a cookie
@sele123eri 6 років тому
er du norsk?
@Crambull 6 років тому
lol same dude. The way the flow was going at the beginning, I was dead set on this being an audible ad. xD
@Sal3600 6 років тому
Haha this is the setup for the next promotion.
@PrioBak 6 років тому
hahahahahahahahahahahahaha this you win
@lindseyhebert5568 5 років тому
I feel like I am the stupid girl and feel like a failure at work I deal with someone trying to put me in a box at my job and I am not feeling the person I used to be used to be sweet used to enjoy my job now I feel like it used to be missing passion from things I used to like
@aslammughal3892 5 років тому
Dont worry, I know your smart and you will achieve your goals, if people say they're smarter then you, they're boasting, search it up if you dont what it means, it's really annoying when people brag all the time it's annoying it gives me less confidence
@Anu-hi9jh 5 років тому
Bro you have a job that’s a good enough reason for you to feel smart! You went through all those exams in college to finally get that degree and that job
@qpud6538 5 років тому
im not gona say your smart cos i dont know but i think its time to get a new job
@bolobalaman 4 роки тому
People tend to judge us based on some little mistake that we made. I been in your shoe and still now. I overcome by learning and improve everyday
@toothpicksinurtoes1598 4 роки тому
I’m really good at reading and I fly through chapter books but I have bad memory and I’m bad at math and everybody is mean to me and it’s caused me to be really insecure and shy over the years :/
@mina4426 3 роки тому
i feel you, but i've noticed that the flaw i have is "firmly believing that i am so bad at maths" when in fact, i wonder if i was separated from the insecure thoughts, perhaps i'd perform better. also, don't you feel like you perform better in a certain environment? in my case, if the environment is not highly stimulated, i perform better.
@janethedoll 3 роки тому
Literally my same problem 😔
@Breakthrough9 2 роки тому
Omg me too! I'm too slow for jobs and they want you to do mental math on these jobs and once they see that I can't keep up they start treating me bad. Its hard.
@howardhowdy1906 Рік тому
I’m in an exact opposite situation. I’m really good at math and memory, but I have trouble reading and I’m terrible with reading comprehension. Everyone thinks that I’m smart, but I know I’m not smart and it makes me feel like I’m a faker. I also always come off as a spoiled asshole.
@Kurvid Рік тому
I don't think u have bad memory u are just wondering in ur mind and u are not present
@naheedm4261 6 років тому
6:00 seeing alpha on the verge of tears and pouring out his emotions really got to me, I really commend him for putting this video up. Such a great inspiration.
@the_architect.. 6 років тому
So true, man. Seeing this kind of honesty is really touching and inspiring. One of this better videos.
@MrFrankyson 6 років тому
Thank you for this, I was feeling really down about failing at math. I felt the same humiliation and insecurities when it came to math. Im a graphic designer and it always bugged me when I had to figure out dimension on the spot while everyone was looking at me. Thank you for showing your feelings, it makes a big difference that you relate to our insecurities.
@mymeme52yearsago40 4 роки тому
Frank Morales, same... It’s worse when you’re the only student who sucks at Math in the classroom.
@mina4426 3 роки тому
can you explain what you meant about figuring out the dimension on the spot? I'm a wanna be graphic designer, who always struggled with maths :c
@meghanwilcox5453 3 роки тому
I am also horrible at math and am freezing constantly in front of my coworkers when I have to do it on the spot because I’m afraid they will know that I’m bad at it
@maryannnardelli1756 4 роки тому
People think I'm really stupid and they treated me like I was mentally challenged and didn't know anything. It was hard to focus in school. I had really bad anxiety and depression and I just felt dumb.
@bupechikumbi3082 4 роки тому
I know I'm stupid when I do math, I know I'm stupid when I keep struggling in med school(below average)... Literally I'm stupid and unintelligent 80% of the the time the one time I'm "normal" is when I create art(music, drawing or painting) Being stupid is embarrassing because you can't pretend to be smart😂😂😂
@BulldogMindsetArchive 6 років тому
Just interviewed you for my UKposts channel, and first of all I have to say thank you and second I have to say one of the reasons I wanted to interview on my channel is because I consider you to be such a smart business man an entrepreneur--someone who I look up to. I appreciate your honesty and genuineness and I know others do as well. It's awesome to see someone who is so successful in so many areas in life talk honestly about an insecurity. Really kudos to you man. And thanks again for interviewing for my channel. One of the best interviews I've had. You came across really well and are offering some real solid value to my audience. Plus, it was a whole lot of fun.
@alpham 6 років тому
Now you understand the irony of the conversation:) Thanks again for a super fun interview!
@HishamR89 6 років тому
Dont you consider yourself to be smart at what you do?
@lowlytarnis 6 років тому
alpha m. watching your channel,and taking your advice and applying it to every day situations as helped me become less insecure and more of an alpha. so stupid Na bro far from it! trust me wanna see stupid go to a Trump rally. and I appreciate all your tips and advice. WE ALL DO
@j4zzx297 6 років тому
alpha m. are you sure you dont have dyslexia? i had the same issues in school, but learnt how to cover them up
@Sagefrakrobatik 6 років тому
Cant wait to hear you on the JRE Joe Rogan Podcast next.
@bigdavey2074 6 років тому
If not reading books is all you have to worry about, your doing pretty well 😂😂
@mohitthapa7064 6 років тому
David Methven You're *
@jamj59 6 років тому
It shows you don't read books by using dreadful grammar. It shows a lot about someone if they are well read, laziness and stupidity foremost apparent if not.
@CanadaBud23 6 років тому
Yeah, it puts a good front on for people. "I read books, look at me I'm a smart cookie!" I wouldn't worry about it. If you can read and take in information that you need and put it to use you are ahead of the game. Who gives a shit about some book some tool wrote 6 years ago that you're digging quotes from. Useless people do that.
@Nomad-yn7pv 6 років тому
jamj59 Is your comment supposed to be an example of bad grammar? If not, that's irony at it's best.
@gregoryk6279 3 роки тому
Even when i tell someone "hey how is it going" i overthink to myself afterword and say "man they most be thinkin im crazy or stupid" .....this anixety got to stop
@miap 3 роки тому
I haven’t been diagnosed, but I think I’ve have adhd. As a child I was in the ‘special needs class’ But as I grew into an adult I was never identified as having a disability. However I know I still have issues by how I’m treated by other people. I forget things easily, have difficultly focusing or listening to instructions. I space out and daydream a lot and forget what’s going on in the moment. If I’m anxious and worried about people thinking I’m stupid then it just amplifies it and makes it even worse. Many people I’ve worked with or have been friends with me throughout my life have indirectly given me the impression that I’m slow and stupid, or even immature. I have a difficult time socializing and making friends because of it. In summary, it really sucks, because I know who I am and I know I’m not the person people think I am.
@carimidnightqueen1761 3 роки тому
I know how it feels like. I experienced literally the same. I wish you all the best.
@victoriaize225 2 роки тому
I can relate to this.
@jakefrost8306 Рік тому
I feel this so spiritually 😣 I hope it improved
@polar263 Рік тому
Wow ive never related to anything so much
@PracticalPsychologyTips 6 років тому
Massive respect for this
@flor1da492 6 років тому
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@justfrank7070 6 років тому
EXACTLY!...the realest statement I've heard in my 30 yrs on this planet...most people will not admit this
@EldenringPvP645 6 років тому
Practical Psychology you an alpha too
@ykc4638 6 років тому
Practical Psychology Never expected to see you in the comment section
@atheefakbar 6 років тому
No.... Books are never old school... It gives u a lot of good things... Just bcoz u don't do something doesn't mean it is bad bro
@Yankeefan78471 6 років тому
Hi Aaron - I got my PhD in cognitive neuroscience a couple of years ago and I haven't read a book since high school. Textbooks, journal articles, etc. are just a part of my career, but outside of that "leisurely" reading isn't attractive to a surprisingly large amount of people who you think are intelligent. If you are going to read, then read with a purpose. You chose first-person learning ("doing") and that's great! There are insecurities on both sides of the fence - many vicarious learners would kill for charisma, which is probably a result of your preference to experience things first hand. Keep up the great channel and thanks for the inspirational video!
@levinarguelles8997 6 років тому
you are absolutely right
@GlobalAdventurer 6 років тому
Yankeefan78471 I only read non-fictional books.
@hectoraviles24 6 років тому
Yankeefan78471 I got my P.H.D(Public HighSchool Diploma) on that to 🙌🏻
@Yankeefan78471 6 років тому
Hissane Lol - is there a way to direct message via mobile on UKposts? I'll gladly message you my dissertation!
@dhiraj6727 Рік тому
I was an above average student at first but my brain was closed down for 2 years, i didn't study at all, now i feel like my thinking process has worsened. And one thing which happens most of the time now is that even when i can hear clearly what the other person is saying, my brain cannot interpret the message, and so i cannot understand what they are saying. I don't know why this is happening and it reduces my confidence a lot. I feel like i don't wanna have conversations with others because my brain cannot interpret those messages clearly. And so i feel like isolating myself even when i wanna talk with others. And i forgot to mention that my screen time was very high for the last 2 years, more than 8-10 hours.
@breyerhorsestudios2964 Рік тому
I feel very similarly to you, my lack of interpretation though applies to anything practical or visual. I can’t figure out how to put things away correctly, or even fold clothes, for example. I can’t interpret symbols, pictures and words the way they’re supposed to be interpreted. I feel mentally empty.
@ifurereadingthisurestupid8727 Рік тому
Uve just described my life
@dhiraj6727 10 місяців тому
@@nityaverma713 it's good that you were confident enough that you thought the answer was right. Don't let this confidence lower.
@Mrstiaandlexie 4 роки тому
Thank you for making this video, this is my biggest insecurity. It’s so hard for me to take constructive criticism because I feel like such a dumb ass all the time. And trust me we’re not, I respect you and I think you’re a smart guy. Thank you for venting because it made me feel better about my self and I know we just have to work through this.
@Theoriginalotaku96 3 роки тому
Same here. I grew up with people thinking I was slow even though I did good in school (I was spoiled growing up so I didn't have a lot of common sense so to speak) and even one of my friends from college constantly called me stupid and told me that I need to read more. Going through college helped me a lot with my common sense and general confidence but I still doubt myself and I'm still feel stupid sometimes.
@pallas100 6 років тому
NAWLEDGE!!!
@pipisnotis7430 6 років тому
Being honest is a clever choice to live..
@irenavalcheva6318 3 роки тому
all my friends tell me I am stupid mostly because I dont read books or that I just see most things differently. I really feel stupid 90% of the time. Just realized it’s one of my biggest insecurities. Thank you for making this video you really helped me out.Respect!
@mikai 4 роки тому
I feel so stupid I don't even know how to explain anything in class especially when my teacher call me for recitation
@gymnastics4582 4 роки тому
Same :/
@rei-jd1fz 4 роки тому
I thought I’m the only one who experienced this cuz I always feel I’m the most dumbest one in the class
@mamieundefinedjoyce2304 3 роки тому
I feel the same way
@cowyorker 6 років тому
We all feel stupid sometimes, it's not just you. We have to stay on top of our game constantly, and it's hard, or else we forget.
@superholly 6 років тому
This is AMAZING! I love your vulnerability, it shows your strength.
@roadfart5537 6 років тому
Well said!
@caseybone9479 6 років тому
here's the one of three women that watch this channel^^
@Sproket 6 років тому
This sentence contradicts itself. Good point, though.
@thewhitekhouse5788 6 років тому
she a clown
@Chara-Xu 6 років тому
superholly omg shes here. i love her . i love him. watahell . this is cool
@longbeach562idk3 4 роки тому
I feel so insecure Bc I’m dumb in school aha 😭
@VlrglnMary 4 роки тому
Me too -__- it's embarrassing :(
@tala.5029 5 років тому
I honestly am dumb in school.
@desserted9429 4 роки тому
You misspelled it))))))
@williswayne1876 4 роки тому
Boris Kucher and you just like the rest that think they better lmao
@desserted9429 4 роки тому
@@williswayne1876 hahahahaha, wrong
@F33NQW33N 6 років тому
Please like this so he sees it. I just finished a degree in writing. I just want to say that it is perfectly okay that you don't read. I want you to know that reading, writing, and spelling do not determine whether or not you are intelligent. In fact, many people struggle to communicate effectively in writing (and in emails). It isn't just average people that struggle with this. Even people at my mom's aerospace workplace (engineers, physicists, etc.) really struggle with it and need the help of writers to actually communicate what they know. Struggling to spell, or to write a long email, are way more common problems than you think--and it's okay. I could read, write, and edit circles around all of my friends, but I struggle with math and numbers. But the great thing is, people can come together and be a million times more effective and successful by playing to each other's strengths. You aren't stupid because you don't like to read, or because you struggle with spelling, or because emails intimidate you. I just felt like typing you that long comment because I know how you feel. My entire life I've been judged for being terrible at math. But now that I'm older, I see that the people that are great at math sometimes need my help to communicate what they want to in writing. Play to your strengths. Your weaknesses do not define your level of intelligence.
@informationmotivation9490 6 років тому
Sammi Jayy And what about those who cant communicate properly like those people who are always nervous and confused. So they stammer and stutter very much. They can't give any performance in public, any speech or any interview . They can't attend meeting. They have to stay silent all the time.
@F33NQW33N 6 років тому
Information & Motivation Then that's something that needs worked on and can be improved. Not being well spoken is not synonymous with not being "smart". It's a skill like anything else that needs built.
@informationmotivation9490 6 років тому
Sammi Jayy U r completely wrong sir... Usually Stammering has no link with our intelligence or anything like that. The one who knows very much can stanmer too because of extreme nervousness & lack of confidence.
@F33NQW33N 6 років тому
Information & Motivation 1) I'm a woman 2) You're trying to argue when you just repeated what I said
@informationmotivation9490 6 років тому
Sammi Jayy No problem its just a waste of time to argue here sorry
@greg918 6 років тому
The only book i'd ever want to read is a 'how to apply your Tiege Hanley' manual
@gravitylifts332 6 років тому
can i get that as a audiobook????
@TheRhinoxMOVEorBtrkd 6 років тому
I think I'll just wait for the movie to come out...
@greg918 6 років тому
Gravity Lifts 😂
@safa-uc1mk 5 місяців тому
I feel so validated, thanks for opening up and sharing. I know being vulnerable about these things and sharing is not easy, really means a lot to me and I feel you man. Sending virtual hugs, man. 🫂🫂
@rexcorvorum2209 2 роки тому
It's crazy how your videos seem to come back to me over the years. I think I saw your first videos when I was ~13 years old. I'm 22 now and it's been helpful having you on my journey through young male adolescence and adulthood.
@Hi-hp1hs 6 років тому
it also heartbreaking that I deal with social anxiety on a daily basis! hope anybody out there like me
@Prutam 6 років тому
deadpool l Same here... I know how terrible it is.
@Hi-hp1hs 6 років тому
Prutam its so terrible that I can't even make my acoount by my real name or dp I hope you know what I mean
@crazyjourney3963 6 років тому
deadpool l I tooo I even cannot talk to my neighbours
@Walking-MY-Path 6 років тому
I am in the same boat as you bud. So, you're not alone.
@elijahmandeville8475 6 років тому
I'm with you, my man
@TheRealSeeJ 6 років тому
Man Alpha, you tripping. You've helped thousands of people not just men. You don't have to be Einstein to have the heart, courage, and drive to want to step out in faith and do what you do. There's a lot of people on social media that come off as gurus and they haven't helped shit. You my friend are not those people. YOUVE CHANGED MY LIFE. Thank you big homie. I've gotten my bachelors, Masters, and now I'm working on PhD because of people like you.
@adib289 6 років тому
Well I think Einstein didn't read either since he was dyslectic.
@molnarszabby 4 роки тому
I feel exactly the same, seeing you get emotional is so impactful. Huge respect
@IC-oo1mn 5 років тому
I NEEDED this video, thank you so so much. Despite not being a good speller either and multiple teachers picking up that I may be dyslexic (despite never getting any formal test), I still push myself to read now and then. I have never had a video relate to me as much as this one, I also do beat myself up about thinking I'm stupid and perhaps overlooking some of the other things I can do well, (mostly because of how it seems everyone can easily read and spell where I take a little while longer). If I come across a word I haven't seen before there's a good chance I'll pronounce it wrong many times over until it finally sticks, where friends would often get the word right instantly. It isn't a good feeling walking into an exam knowing I'm likely to lose most of my SPaG marks (spelling, punctuation and grammar). This video is amazing and I wish I could've only seen it sooner. I'm sure what we lack in some areas we shine in others and like (I believe) you said, that makes us who we are Again thank you.
@phatz2494 6 років тому
Hey Aaron, just wanted to tell you my opinion about this: Which stupid man could possibly run 7 businesses? Have a whole bunch of people being inspired by him every single day? And the most important, reaching this level of success in his life starting from nothing? Come on Aaron, we both know that self doubt is a scam worse than the pyramid scheme, so don't think about it again..
@azzystillborne9125 6 років тому
p hatz Donald trump
@banterman 6 років тому
He's got you there^ :D.
@phatz2494 6 років тому
HOLLOW NANO luuulz only with a small loan of a MILLION dollars
@matibf2 6 років тому
i used to hate reading, but now... i LOVE reading the Tiege Hanley instructions every time i wake up
@matibf2 6 років тому
pd: alpha, it doesn't matter that you are not "smart" you made to where you are by sweating and bleeding, that's is admirable.
@LiionDZN 6 років тому
i never reply to youtube comments, but THIS made me laugh. Thumbs up for you
@nicolass3195 6 років тому
LiionDZN *tumbz up for me* CRH.
@kentzuke 6 років тому
best comment
@dalton5842 6 років тому
Mati V you are awesome😂😂😂😂😂
@jhenaidixon7216 5 років тому
thank you for sharing. this is an insecure that everyone feels and no one shares. so when my back was agaisnt the wall ur the only vid that can up
@varshabhandari5673 5 років тому
It's Soo good to have you . Usually on the internet you find people at two extreme ends- those who are either dark and depressed or people who have overcome their problems and now want to share their journey. It's so amazing to have someone in the middle who's struggling with things just like you are and tell you it's okay to be vulnerable. That made me teary too :) ( I feel stupid because I have no sense of direction)
@sashominajj 6 років тому
Alpha i think you are really smart. I consider you as my second father. My real father ran away so there was none to tell me these things that every teen must be told by their father but one day i found you and everything is going great. Actually im dateing a girl right now just because of you. I really hope you know how awesome you are. Keep it up ^^
@crazyjourney3963 6 років тому
Alexander And how lucky tat girl feels
@sashominajj 6 років тому
I dunno xD
@NicoLuduenaArgentina 6 років тому
Alexander same situation here
@prabasansa3624 6 років тому
you are great
@_JaySho 6 років тому
Alexander ✊🏾
@ErwinSchrodinger64 6 років тому
Well, I was special education student throughout the majority of my high school tenure. Always thought of myself as stupid and was told I was stupid. Joined the military, got my ass whipped a lot by my cadre, but I became an infantry soldier, combat medic, flight medic, and went to airborne school. Overall, it taught me to discipline my body which directly correlated to the mind (something I was always missing). One day while at Barnes & Nobles I picked up a book on quantum mechanics by Shankar and saw all these complicated equations. Didn't know it at the time but it consisted of partial differential equations, complex variables, triple integration, group theory (abstract algebra), and lots of other advanced mathematics. I told myself that I could never learn what any of this meant but if I could just learn an inkling of what any of these equations meant it would be an accomplishment. Wanted to learn physics but I settled for biology and pursued a degree in molecular biology/biochemistry. Finally, I was smart. Nope. Short changed myself because I wanted to learn one of the hardest subjects known to man: quantum theory. Got a 2nd degree in chemical physics. Still wasn't enough and pursued a masters in theoretical chemistry and then a Ph.D in chemical physics. Graduated 3 years ago. Do I feel any smarter? To be honest, no, because my education has made me realize how little I do know. Ironically, I don't really care anymore if I am smart or considered to be smart by anyone else. I've proved to myself that hard work and discipline go a long way. Along the way, I learned an important listen: learning is not something you do and then it's finished, it's a life long journey of self discovery that changes your perception on life. I teach quantum mechanics now, and I'm deeply humbled. P.S., I don't read books either unless you count textbooks.
@t-002amirsubhanikhan6 6 років тому
ErwinSchrodinger64 inspirational sir
@1millionsubs300 6 років тому
ErwinSchrodinger64 wow how beautiful this could be a really good story, something to publish.
@ErwinSchrodinger64 6 років тому
Went to 11Bravo school in Fort Benning, 91Bravo (combat medic and my flight medic identifier) at Fort Sam Houston, Fort Rucker for more flight medic training, and Fort Leonard Ward. The word "cadre" is loosely used within the Army. It was used a lot at Fort Leonard Ward. Just like the word rifle is loosely interchanged for weapon for some reason was utilized a lot there as well. Once I transitioned to part time, to attend college, via the Army National Guard was when I went to jump school (please, don't tell me that the Army National Guard doesn't go to jump school because it's dependent on the unit) to a MEDEVAC unit. Other than that, Speedy McGee I really don't care whether you think it's bullshit or not. However, it's highly suspect that you have never head the term cadre in the Army if you yourself are were in the military but hey it's UKposts.
@littlescott3349 6 років тому
News flash speedy 91B was the 68W identifier in the 90's. AIT sergeants are called cadre as well as ranger instructors and many other Army schools use the word cadre. Erwin's story sounds like it makes sense. I know a lot of flight medics who have been to jump school. If you know anything about the 82nd they are all encouraged to attend airborne school. Thank you Erwin for your service to our nation! It's a shame people try and discount veterans service because they think they know something. And to alpha M thank you for your story I recently was called up in front of my company by my first sergeant to read about a Medal of Honor recipient. I fumbled my way through and was teased by my buddy's afterwards. I laughed it off but I hate myself for being so bad at reading and writing. But I'm going to stay positive and work harder to be better mentally and physically. Chewbacca DUSTOFF!
@Lord_Nemesis8 6 років тому
ErwinSchrodinger64 what a great confession to the pursuit of knowledge but do it because you want to not because it is expected from you
@katiedubro8319 3 роки тому
Thank you so much for sharing! Sometimes feeling stupid consumes me and really diminishes my self confidence. It’s a nice reminder that we’re in this together. And it’s okay
@silverghost3063 3 роки тому
Hey dude, I really do appreciate you making this video. Putting yourself out there and risking your vulnerableability to get your message across means a lot to me, because your story resonates with me. Sometimes I feel stupid as well due to my rough upbringing, but hearing that there are others that I look up to, such as yourself, who also struggle with confidence show me that despite my own inner turmoil I too can be amazing, or a good person. Even if I don't live up to other's expectations. Thanks for reminding me of that.
@joelow63 6 років тому
its simple *apply tiege hanley to books to enjoy reading*
@joelow63 6 років тому
lmao u guys need some tiege hanley
@ashlokhande3185 6 років тому
seriously you think its funny?
@uzairahmed4197 6 років тому
Everyone stop getting triggered, its a joke
@kikochinsi4666 6 років тому
Joseph Hemingway i tried it.....the book is now alive and can tell stories
@joelow63 6 років тому
kiko chinsi put on some pete&pedro to fix that
@loner3296 6 років тому
you're awesome, and we all think you're awesome
@sierrawashington8303 4 роки тому
Everyone on here is not stupid. It’s different levels to learning and we all seen this video for a reason !! Love y’all keep your head up and push forward
@cuball2484 5 років тому
That look you gave at 4:00 was chilling Aron. You're a great man over your personal restraints and they certainly don't deduct from your stature.
@RebeccaYoder 6 років тому
I'm a great reader but not so good at doing stuff and sometimes I feel stupid for not being able to get things done. something I'm working on but yes working on it started by accepting myself first the way I was. great video
@chriswyble1860 6 років тому
Hey +alpha m. ! I'm mildly dyslexic, and I'm not the best reader. However, I've been forcing myself to read books and improve my speed. Thanks for sharing this video. It really resonates with me.
@9876bbb 6 років тому
Chris' Book Reviews mi laso ydlsxeci
@borderlineplushie 5 років тому
i struggle a lot in social thing talking and stuff just interaction in general and im really stupid but so is everyone else Einstein probably felt stupid a lot everyone does stupid things and that's totally okay
@thunderpooch 5 років тому
Reading is fine, but it's so damn tedious and slow. It's not a good way to acquire usable and functional information. In the future, learning will be all about interactive searches and tutorials. That way you can search exactly what you need to learn and then receive immediate help explaining the topic. Reading is a complete fucking mess as a human activity. Sorry for my lack of eloquence. You're under the complete totalitarian control of the author who's usually a dim wit and bloviates about things which you already know or don't give two flying flocks about.
@viotio7358 3 роки тому
UKposts Curates Content, algorithm is a lie so true lol. It always happens that I’m doing a research and in the whole article of 200 pages I find my answer in 1 sentence, like literally, if your article is about something just write the answer lol
@PoseidonKross2009 3 роки тому
Dude you’re one of the most brilliant people on UKposts. I understand your feelings. I had a similar experience last night where I said something really stupid during a large meeting and now I feel terrible. You’re not alone. Much love and respect for sharing this to the world. You are amazing!
@mydcunited 4 роки тому
This is how I feel everytime I'm around my boss. It is to the point I just shut down....
@willkershaw7376 6 років тому
I prefer reading the ingredients on the back of Tiege Hanley products
@ManuelMO11 6 років тому
XD!
@Walking-MY-Path 6 років тому
LOLZ
@Undergalaxy 6 років тому
I really admire people who, instead of wasting time and money on books on certain subjects (be it bussines, relationships, or something else), actually go out there and learn first hand. Here's a great quote from Steven Pressfield's "Do the Work": “A perplexed person stands before two doors. One door says HEAVEN. The other says BOOKS ABOUT HEAVEN.” Books have actually been shunned by people like Marcus Aurelius.
@jaredgarbo3679 6 років тому
Undergalaxy Marcus wrote a book. Also books were expensive.
@Undergalaxy 6 років тому
That was poor phrasing on my part, but he did write to "throw away your books" (Meditation, 2.2). Then again, he wrote it in a book. I don't know, this is really confusing to me. I guess the point about the books being expensive is fair.
@zzdesolatezz 6 років тому
***** All I ever do is read, and I use it to further my own writing skills. I'm currently writing a novel. This shit is hard lol, but I also think it's fun.
@nibeditamisra8999 2 роки тому
Huge respect to you! Even after filming it. You probably did the editing and still thought that you should upload it. Admitting this to yourself is one thing. But to the whole world is one other thing. I feel like this every single day. Every freakin day of my life. Whenever I try to read or do something. I feel great at that moment but it eventually wears off. I feel like i will never know enough, about the world, the country, politics and history, computer science and astrophysics. There is so much that it overwhelms you. And just the way you got teary, I have probably cried hours thinking I am dumb. Plus there are some brilliant ppl in my life, which makes it tougher for me to digest the fact that I will never be in a level equal or even closer to them. 😪
@danielellexson4949 4 роки тому
Thanks for posting this, man. I'm a college student that struggles with reading as well. Its definitely a big insecurity for a lot of people. It can change your perception of yourself to not be a natural reader... Thanks Alpha!
@michaelcharach7447 6 років тому
How u can u possibly consider yourself stupid if u manage to sneak in a Tiege Hanley promo in every episode???? You my friend, are a mastermind!!!
@2000vikrom 6 років тому
I respect this man people should come out with this more. keep up the good work because of you I lost 10kg in 2 month thank you👍👍👍
@ilustrado7291 6 років тому
Hell yeah! Good work, brother!
@2000vikrom 6 років тому
Thank you brother
@edwinoppong3111 6 років тому
Vikorm Narula very good man. keep up. yes alpha helps a lot
@dhruvsaini1241 6 років тому
how ? elaborate
@septimuse2950 6 років тому
# Dhruv # if it's about weight I've lost 60+ kg in the past year and it's simple if u just can follow a few principles
@ericbest7508 2 роки тому
I don’t like to read either. I feel like if I get a really good and interesting book then I might be able to get through the entire thing. Usually when I read a random book my mind travels a lot and can never focus. My mom is always telling me to read more but it’s so difficult for me. I feel you man. Much love. 💕
@behappy-5438 5 років тому
Your video was the thing that I need ! Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥️ You made me cry at the end !!
@clintyoung9902 6 років тому
Should've asked him, "When's the last time you had 2.6M subscribers who you teach about life everyday?" Your purpose in life shouldn't revolve around the things you're not good at, that's what other people were made for.
@adventuresingamedevelopmen5708 6 років тому
Clint Young preach
@robertwesley2926 6 років тому
WELL SAID CLINT
@luisdabeast3062 6 років тому
it's alright Aaron, you did great letting your emotions out, we all have insecurities just move on but you did great Aaron
@Interviewvanholland 3 роки тому
His message has really encouraged me to be more appreciative towards myself instead of being destructive and negative all the time, but this is seriously very relatable. Since I have a learning disability I do have the ability to read books but due to the fact that my comprehension is not as “good” and it makes me imbecilic. But apparently this doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re completely in acknowledged about everything and I learned to accept it. Especially when other individuals are prospering academically it’s disappointing to see yourself decline, but technically every individual is capable of different abilities and it should be embraced. Thank you for this encouraging video it has changed my perspective drastically.
@bryaneagon3059 Рік тому
You have humility. It is apparent that you were humiliated. That is not a bad thing. Humility is not much more than admission of the possibility that you may be wrong about something. Humility tends to be obvious to others when you humble yourself. Especially as you have just demonstrated publicly. Bravo, my friend.
@The3N3RGIZ3R 6 років тому
I felt stupid as well...until i put tiege hanley on my brain, after that i instantly became Albert Einstein.
@SajtosPoga 6 років тому
My name is Miafaszrákosi
@The3N3RGIZ3R 6 років тому
sajtospoga a kommunizmus Jézusa
@SajtosPoga 6 років тому
My name is Acélgyárat az Alföldre Elvtárs!
@DeezHoogas 6 років тому
😂😂😂😂
@shayanfarahani7814 6 років тому
lmao:)
@n.h187 6 років тому
Nothing wrong with that Alpha, some people learn by reading and others like me learn by watching and interacting.
@danielguzman9907 6 років тому
Noor Hussain Same here
@Max-ui2jv 6 років тому
Noor Hussain Indeed
@hikeoverheels5429 4 роки тому
I love this video, it makes you seem so much more human and approachable. Thank you for opening up, I definitely think you will help people with this
@toyboyharris2481 5 років тому
Thank you for this. I cant believe You brought a tear out of me. Thanks again for lifting me up when I'm down.
@TheBrokenBMW 6 років тому
Self-study (reading) is the most satisfying of all learning....
@jackedfilms 6 років тому
So basically it's stupid to not be honest. If somebody asks you a question, be confident in your answer... even if it's not what you think the 'ideal' answer should sound like. Bullshit only leads to more bullshit, and then people won't trust your responses at all.
@dalton5842 6 років тому
True that bro.
@user-so7jl3rb4y 4 роки тому
This exactly me , everybody in my class is smart and tell me I'm EVEN SMARTER but i still feel like a worthless waste if space and a disappointment . . .
@greatescaper1427 4 роки тому
Alex Alison yo stfu
@intp9944 3 роки тому
me also i was lost one year.. and i got accepted to med school and i was like preparing everything for that just for three months while everyone else did it for whole year then i wanted to run away from home bcs i had a terrible trauma as a kid and i can’t live with my parents anymore so i made gap year at the uni bcd of depression i wanted to try to study in other town while working so i told a few people that i am going to study psychology bcs i thought it would be okay and easier and interesting to do with work then i started studying it i didn’t like it i realized i like medicine and i can’t study psychology..medicine ..it’s the only thing i can study so i started the uni after that gap year now i feel stupid why i had to tell them and feel like i need to explain myself and my life i should’ve just shut up ...and i am now a good student but i still can’t get over this and let goo this stupidity of thinking that u need to share what you wanna do with people.............
@denisehoffman4119 3 місяці тому
You're amazing not a waste of space at all
@catherineho2247 2 роки тому
This made me feel so much better when I was feeling really low. Thank you.
@wwiinnggnnuutt 6 років тому
Aaron you are an amazing person that has persevered. Always remember that you have made a huge difference in the UKposts community. You are an inspiration. Thank you for you videos.
@thewhitekhouse5788 6 років тому
You're a great person Aaron thanks 4 all....
@rakibkabir372 11 місяців тому
I’m feeling like such a dumb that I had to search for it.
@ghostron5012 4 роки тому
My grammar sucks and my spelling. Sometimes I do feel stupid but my friends usually joke around and say like I’m not smart sometimes (but they do it cause if you praise me to much my ego goes up) and it kinda affects me and actually make me think I am. But I try to do my best to be the best I can be. I thank God for letting me find this channel, thanks Alpha M.
@Thiswuan 6 років тому
My hairline is my insecurity. :(
@Coojo965 6 років тому
RBLX_Atomless don't worry, you can buy a new one at Tiege Hanley
@alpercim5679 6 років тому
Coojo _965 hqhahahahahahaha
@Thiswuan 6 років тому
Coojo _965 Thanks for the recommendation, I'll look into it quick as a jiffy!
@moonshine8250 6 років тому
RBLX_Atomless you shouldn't be insecure about something that's not there ......jk not hating
@aAaAAA-ppgg 6 років тому
moon shine damn savage lmao
@Salvador-312 6 років тому
“I’m a do-er, I do the shit out of stuff” That made me laugh this guys pretty funny and I’ve only seen him occasionally for like hairstyles but I can appreciate how open he can be with his audience
@nocolodenovo3578 Рік тому
You are a so precious honest being. I loved your vulnerability and your sense of value even when some emotions want to take it out. s2
@kayleeannhood9191 4 роки тому
thanks for being vulnerable .. and awesome! not everyone can do that!! Thank you for sharing
@canizalez5133 6 років тому
I loved how honest you looked throughout the whole video!
@Hooshen 6 років тому
Alpha you just make my life better with each video you publish. Lots of love from Spain dude :) I hope I get to meet you one day !
@shredderbetter1 6 років тому
Hoojshen knights of cydonia dude! I'm seeing muse in new York next month!!!!!!!
@eyesingloom Рік тому
Thanks for sharing your vulnerability, it really helps people like me not feel alone.
@jasonrkr Рік тому
You are 100% right on just being who you are. A great quote I heard or read once is, "The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday." As far as books go, I do like to read, but have never given a book as a gift to someone. So, to me that one means nothing. But, reading is good. Sometimes having that theory under your belt when you dive in and do something is a real benefit. I think of this in areas where I'm acting in a live production environment. If, though, I have a test environment that I can break and rebuild without worrying about impacting others, I will do that without caring so much about having read the book.
@Gabriel-ip6me 6 років тому
Dude, I like to read, but I would say that in the end of the day what matters is the knowledge you acquire, not how you acquire it. Also the quality of the knowledge you acquire is important; a lot of what you know is useful and practical, meanwhile a lot of people read 1000 books in their lives and they either learn a load of useless stuff or they fill their heads with bullshit that makes them more stupid than when they started, like the Communist Manifesto.
@mv1991 6 років тому
Exactly. It's preferable to watch educational videos on UKposts than to read the whole 50 Shades of Grey novel series, for instance.
@juliobello4561 6 років тому
That's why I'm sticking with dr Seuss books 😏
@MURDR63 6 років тому
I've found that most people who read all day learn nothing but useless quotes from their favorite texts. I used to be like that, but, as Aaron said, I realized that I prefer to learn things by doing and watching.
@Gabriel-ip6me 6 років тому
OF COURSE That's true to a degree, but since there's something such as being objectively wrong, there are books that have no intellectual value. For instance, if you want to learn about chemistry, you learn absolutely nothing by reading an alchemical tome. In fact, you would be better off not reading anything than reading an alchemical tome, because it's better to be completely ignorant than completely misinformed. Now, the book I mentioned is not an economics books or a politics book. It is a religious book disguised as a political economics book, and if you read it to learn politics or economics you would be better off not reading anything at all because it is about as wrong and obsolete as alchemy is.
@jacobpinckert7614 6 років тому
but what is knowledge?
@harishsharma8465 6 років тому
Don't worry.......bro....you are not stupid.....tou are ... alpha.... GENTLEMAN
@powerofthefro 6 років тому
Tragically ironic time for a misspelling.
@zackwyse6420 6 років тому
Kyle Montenegro Good call
@aliyabarter 5 років тому
This video really touched me ! I have to much respect for you and how brave you are to talk about the biggest insecurity , which is also mine . And it's not so much about reading books , it's about knowledge ... And what you did there in this video is so much more deeply intelligent than someone talking from textbooks of a degree ! people will want to know you better because you were vulnerable ... and that's beautiful !
@jasonkennethkarl8998 4 роки тому
Thanks for being honest and thanks for being you man!
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