I love how this is the direct opposite of Asian parents adopting a white kid

“Why would I hit you, that’s insane!” Are the words I am never going to here in my life

This shows how different parenting can change a person. Be too nice to your child, and he’ll turn into a brat. Be strict and rude, he’ll turn into a slave. Balance it just right, and you have a perfect, good child. Not too spoiled, and not a slave.

I know this video is for comedic purpose, but I’m literally crying because I want a mom like that, idc real or not, when she said “son? son? sweetie? I love you.” I started crying so much 💀

As an Asian, I almost cried when the mom said that she always loves and supports him. Never heard those words before ;'(((

HIS ACCENT FOR THE 7 YEARS LATER I CAN'T -- 🤣🤣🤣

Moral of the story: kids need love, but dicipline should not be neglected.

I almost cried when the mom showed so much support.

Moral of the story: love your children but don't spoil them 👍🏾

This person behind these videos has the guts to expose the real situation with a pinch of comedy and to do his personal psychoanalysis. Well done!

As an Asian, I almost cried throughout the first half but then the second half came in…

"Don't beat me !" Had me dying!😂😂😂 That took a dark turn!

"You see this hand? This hand is missing a sandwhich" I LOST IT🤣🤣🤣

As a Part Asian game developer this is 100% true.

My mom is Jamaican, sometimes my brother yells at her, and she is the mom at the end. 😢 (not exactly like she still disciplines us but my brother doesn’t listen when she’s not here)

His face when she said: “I BELIEVE IN YOU” 😂😂😂😂😂

I really felt bad for the mama at the end...even though she isn't real, she is just what all Asian kids need sometimes. Kindness and love. We need a whole episode dedicated just for her one day! 🥺♥️

I should’ve expected that twist…this is hilarious.

Drop that skincare rn!😭🤬

I get an allowance and I’m pretty spoiled, but never in my life would I talk to my parents like this. I was appalled when I learned people actually call their parents by their first names sometimes.

I am not an Asian but this is still very related this child was blessed

I feel like the stereotype of strict and harsh Asian parents is often pertpetuated so much that we forget about all the amazing parents out there who don't conform to this trope. I have two (unconventional, to say the least) wonderful Asian parents who would never punish me so harshly, and have always been encouraging towards me. It makes me grateful to be who I am.

As a Asian I cried together with him bcz the words of American mom made me cry😂😂 I wish my asian teacher was kind to me like this American mom.

Last year, there was this guy in my class, who was an Asian whom I learned was adopted by white parents, and he’s literally one of the kindest people I know🤍

I just had one of the worst days where I was once again accused and slandered for no reason. But that's a usual. But seeing this video was more of an emotional support than i thought it would be when i clicked it. You just became a mother to millions of Asians out there mate.

i love how you act out both sides of the coin. too much kindness spoils the kid, just like strictness. edit: damn mom im famous lololol thanks for 12K likes ig!!!

How face and how he reacts and repeats anything is so funny 😂😂😂

Soooo true! The other day I was playing on a Western server and I couldn't execute a simple task. When I finally got it, a total stranger praised me. I am an adult but that was way more praising that I have ever gotten in my childhood lmao

This guy is hilarious and we know he is exaggerating cultural attitude differences. My (white) family was not very supportive of higher education and considered college educated people uppity (condescending), but when I graduated in engineering with an ROTC commission, my father took credit for helping me, though he kicked me out of house, changed locks and wouldn't sign for loan or grants. Actually Evil Step Mom influenced him negatively because he was a good Dad until she built the Ginger Bread House.

I saw this behavior a lot from Asian families in the US. I was a figure skater and it seems like a lot of Asian parents put their girls into figure skating for some reason. The way the moms treated those little girls had me cry and tense up and they weren't even talking to me. I mean I have mommy issues about not being enough. My mom died 19 years ago and I am doing stuff to try and win her approval. How twisted is it that you are seeking the approval of a dead woman.

“Violence is never the answer” Asian parents: tis but an April’s Fool’s Day joke

Bro became The Real Slim Shady 💀

When you're white but your parents don't treat you like that: EMOTIONAL DAMAGE

when the kid said "u not gonna hit me" it sounded like something dobby from harry potter would say 😭😭😭

" I love you " " gags "

that's actually real sweet

1:46: My parents are European, and if I EVER talked to them like that I would be a ghost.

The more I watch these Asian parents simulation creations the more I love my Chinese parent more. They are so different from most Asian parents tbh, they never forced me to learn or do anything; they never underestimate my abilities and always be there for every decision I make in my life. My mom still kisses me everyday even I’m 21 now, my dad remembers everything I wanted (food, drinks, etc) and he will buy those when he goes to supermarkets. My name, it’s Chinese and have meanings, basically means freedom, music, rhythm, and my mom’s wish for me to be happy, healthy, and live a self-loved life. They don’t care about my grade, in middle school I once got D and F and even got drop off from my intermediate math class. They saw the grade letter and they talked to me, telling me that they understand it’s been hard for me because we just immigrants to US for a year. English is still a huge problem for me so they understand my struggle and only asked me to work hard, don’t regret. I think this is exactly why I start to force myself into higher education and eventually got me 5 UC offers last Fall! I’m a history major, there’s no way for me to be doctor or lawyer since I don’t like it, and my parents never forced me to do anything I don’t like. I can feel love everyday from my parents, even tho they also don’t say “I love you” like Western parents, their love was visible and surrounding me all the time. Because their love and understanding, I can make this far in my life and become a better person in the future. I hope everyone, no matter you are Asian or not, remember the unique of you as an individual. Remember to love yourself before loving others. Remember that no matter what problem you faced through, there’s a way out, and keep believing in yourself❤

bro this made me cry except for the "7years later part" i felt this as an asian...

Moral of the story: Asian kids are underwhelmed by stressed and it's toxic

"Where do I put my shoes? " - lmao I remember asking this to my American co-worker when I visited their house for the first time 😂

its gonna result in two sides : :either the dude becomes the greatest doctor ever or the best drifter

This is truly heartwarming

Moral of the story, do not spoil your kids or they will become Slim Shady

"I support you.." "I believe in you" "Don't cry its ok.. I love you" The words I wish I could hear from my mother :(

I'm European, and my experience is kind of middle way between the Asian and the American one... No allowance, no declared unconditional love, top marks at school and the University, but I did what I wanted with my life. (No, I'm not a doctor. I travelled the world, I work as an event manager and now also in the movie industry.)

The kid sounds like he just woke up from a coma

almost cried when the mom said i will always love n support u. nvr heard of that of feel that way from parents

I like how he added the part at the end of the video it shows even with all its flaws it keeps kids (some not all) from ending up like this

This video is pretty spot on. Not for me, but for my little brother. Not once has he been disciplined or discussed about his actions, and now he acts so distant to the family. He doesn’t even eat dinner with us anymore, he just brings food to his room. It’s pretty sad.

My Asian parents love me and my sibling with all their hearts, disciplined us with belt as kids and NEVER SPOILED us. But they supported us in every way possible and gave us freedom to decide for our own lives as we became adults. And constantly reassuring us of their love, still giving us kisses and warm hugs. Love my mom and dad so much. 💕

How His face expression changed when he heard anything 😂

I love how it went from being so wholesome with the kid being free and not being forced and beat into a traumatizing situations and the parent reassuring them that everything is fine and that there a good kid, but the end the kid is spoiled and the video reveals the hard truth of not spoiling you're children. P.S, I don't love it, I actually really hate it cause I was gonna cry cause of how sweet it was, to late now 😁👀

you can be a cool parent while being strict, my mum is asian but she's chill, understanding and knows hardwork a lesson she told me is that :you dont have to score high, as long as you put in hardwork i will always appreciate you. i always set high expectations for myself so this hit hard in the feels

"you not my mom" "i have no mama"😂😂😂😂😂

I am not even Asian but god damn it would be nice to hear some of these words at the beginning. I had to call child protective services and the police a few times because of how my parents treated (both physical and mental abuse (never sexual though) and even to this day never been told that I can do what I want to do or that they support my endeavors. Credit to my father for reaching out earlier this year and giving me his best possible apology even if it was truly abhorrent in the sense that it was not a true apology. He said "Son I F*cked up." referring to how he raised me. "Please get the help you need before you have children so it doesn't happen to them too!" I honestly thought I or he would die before even getting to this stage of things with my him."

i started crying when the mom said she'd care n love n support him no matter what. i never got that. I still don't

i love how it’s always “I’m not your mom” said by the mom but now it’s “you’re not my mom” from the child 😭

i've seen both the overly strict side and spoiling side in my family alone and what i can say is...the spoiling side is wayyyyy wayyyyy more destructive with lasting effects. now that my parents are gone, i'm forced to babysit older sibling that refused to grow up no matter what being said or what happens after being spoiled for so much(even though there were some shares of strictness/harshness too). even among my relatives...it's the ones that grew up with harsh treatment that somehow ended up humans....while the spoilt ones continue to be big boss babies while their parents expect their own siblings who are as old as them(rather than their now adult children)or even other siblings' children(who succeeded to grow up without being considered babies for life) to do things for them. honestly, balance is key, but if i have to choose one...after seeing my own family....yeah maybe the harsh treatment work better, for Asians at least...or for my family... lol. i remember even a school friend who grew up being beaten up(and she's a girl...in my house, women/girls never got hit) said she was proud that all the beating made her human and she couldn't stand the new generation that complaints about the littlest things.

"YOUR NOT MAH MOM!" 👹👹 killed me

Now let's see Asian mom adopts white child

WHO WEARS SHOES IN THE HOUSE?! EVEN MY PARENTS THINK ITS WEIRD (THEY WHITE TOO)

The first part rlly got me teared up 😢😢😂😂

Him reacting to his own video: dEn He StArT dA cRyInG AyAh 🤣🤣🤣

" we'll give you a weekly allowance of $30 " " whatever makes you happy I'm willing to give you anything you want !! " I'm white, and even I know that's messed up 💀

Also, there are a few things that Asian parents should learn: 1. Never break promises. When you promise something you have to full fill it. 2. Don't force children to do what you want. Imagine someone treats you like that. 3. Don't compare your child to anyone (especially you). 4. Encourage your child. Don't discourage your child. 5. Don't ground them all the time. They won't be comfortable with you and they won't do much bonding with you. 6. Don't scream at them. They won't feel happy. They will be depressed. 7. Don't stalk them or check through their phones. They won't trust you. I hope you have learned how to deal with a child and have learned a moral from it.

I know it's just a funny video but I've had a similiar experience. Time ago I had a best friend, she was nice with me but when I went to her house I was shocked by how she treated her mother... her mother was a lovely lady with a super cute and shy voice. I thought my friend was angry that day so I didn't say anything but after some time I realized that my friend was a spoiled and ungrateful daughter. In my case, my "mother" was a horrible human being and has always treated me terribly (I'm not exaggerating, I had to call the police a few times when I was living with her, she was physically and mentally abusive with me... for a variety of reasons we haven't heard from each other for years and I'm happy for that). I have always considered myself a good person BUT it's definitely not because my mother was "strict" lol. I know my case is very extreme but there are parents who believe that raising children without love and treating them like slaves is right and helps them.

“I get allowance and the Christmas present” 😂💀

“I have no mom” The words I will never be able to say to back to mom

As an Asian Hispanic this made me cry until the ending 😭💀🤣🤣

I can already tell that bro was sweating the entire time 😂

I’m sorry but the voice tone when he said “I HAVE NO MAMA” got me giggling and shi 😹

it went from “Is this the heaven?” to “Make food or I will send you to jesus” 420 LIKES WOOO

1:00 for some reason i hear "of course and a *Prison* for your birthday!"

Don’t spoil them but believe in them.

“You’re not my mom” gotta point there

As an Asian I can bet no Asian child ever adopted by a white mom and told “I’ll always love you no matter what” will ever treat her like you showed in the video after the leap. We’ll eternally be grateful to the kind woman, she showed more love and support than an Asian parent ever would. Edit : I seem to be giving out a wrong message about Asian parents through my comment and I’m extremely apologetic for it. I didn’t mean to, but my comment unintentionally got biased towards my own experiences and hence I said the last line out of rage. Again it had nothing to do with everyone but just my personal experiences. There are good parents in all cultures and vice Versa. I didn’t mean to hurt sentiments through it.

Now do an Asian family adopts a white kid 💀💀

Hitting her with the reverse "I'm not your dad" 😂

ok BUT WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE

1:20 i wish my parents said that

am i the only one who cried when the mom was being supportive-

Why is he always sweating that much 😂

The fact he’s sweating like crazy

As an Asian, when I have kids I will use the white parenting technique with a few modifications(because duh I'm not having my kids be like that to me)so my kids will be those few asian(probably half asian) kids that can't relate to asian parents being terrible

“I love you” “OUAGH OUAGH OUAGH OUAGH” Got me rolling on the floor dying

I was not expecting that twist lol 😂

“You not going to hit me?” “Yes.. I won’t… I’m sorry for what you went through😭😭”

0:09 this is the weirdest thing I found about many America. In my country we wear house shoes in the house then outside shoes outside. But many Americans just come in with their outside shoes

the face of the child the whole time has me laughing so hard

This hits more than the belt

1,000% accurate. He NAILED it!👏🏾

True indeed! Love & support your child but don't spoil them. Also children need to give respect to their parents as well as others. Appreciate what we get & never forget where we came from 👍

That role reversal. 💀 Never say "anything", that's the trigger. LOL

Not you making me want to give a fictional lady played by yourself a hug

Being spoiled didn’t turn me into THAT. Being bullied and pressured and kicked weather I was down or up with nothing but traumas and expectations made me similar to that. I was very sensitive, easy to offend, easy to set off, I felt constantly overwhelmed, disadvantaged, victimized, helpless, threatened, and just absolutely crushed. My parents were never satisfied with me regardless of how great or poor my performance was. I was a violation toward their pride, comfort, ego, and beyond. My parents were White. I am white. My family dynamics as followed. Zero Tolerance house hold… Step mother’s happiness is my number one priority. Unobtainable approval is what I fought for. Everything I say, do, think, or feel winds up being a violation or an inconvenience. They provoke me into retaliation by accusing me and dragging me into pointless arguments to escalate a confrontation and provoke a retaliation out of me. I broke my arm once, didn’t care. I get sick and my coughing is an inconvenience to them. We’re not a hugging family. It’s a one sided relationship. I am obligated to always agree with them, always submit to them, as unquestioned leaders, I am obligated to respect them, love them, and emotionally support them and agree with them, and give them everything… While they accuse me, make fun of me, tease me, provoke retaliations out of me, remind me that I’m pathetic and not good enough, As a result…. I fell in love with punk and emo culture. And I turned into a very hurt, defensive, and victimized person. While they cover their tracks, gaslight, rewrite the past, call me delusional and crazy…. It wasn’t until later in life that I learned how to see through all of it….. That I realized just how damaged these people made me… That I realized how ignorant I was and how my responses to their games only made matters worse than they already were. Mom and Dad are just words… Without the people who play the role correctly as they should… Without definition… Their words…. Some people are so high on themselves and they are so destructive in nature…. They wind up making hopeless victims out of people. Spectators only see what they want to see…. They trust their eyes over the truth. They see heavily advantaged adults with great jobs and lots of material possessions and think to themselves….. How lucky that kid must be with a family who can afford so much… Why is that kid so emo and crazy??? Why is that kid so butt hurt and scared??? It doesn’t make any sense… It must be A.D.D. A.D.H.D. Or Bipolar, or worse… It must be in the DNA. Genetics…. Because there is no excuse for such a wealthy family to produce such a punk child with a serious attitude problem who struggles to control his anger who has a problem with authority and people with superiority complexes. There’s no excuse for this shy kid who over analyses everything for dear life…. There’s no excuse for this kid who is trying to establish and develop his own independence. When he should be obsessing about his authority figures, the same way they obsess about themselves…. Regardless of how selfish and full of themselves they are. Spectators only see the broken down idiot going through some trendy phase where he has absolutely no excuse. It’s not like he lives in an apartment with one set of cloths and one set of under where…. With no heating and air. But… He could be a scape goat, a cash cow, and a complete violation to the pride, comfort, and image of narcissistic family members who only reward the child that can bring the most glory to them. Not every child who is showered with compassion and who is taught wisdom is going to turn out like a spoiled brat fool. And not every hammered in child will turn out to be disciplined and respectful. It all depends on where the child choses to set their heart on. No one way fits all will do… Each person has a unique way of thinking and pursuing. Some people respond better with compassion and encouragement more than others. Sometimes…. Hammering people down… Makes them way worse, way more rebellious, and damn near impossible. Like myself. You can really damage your child if you’re too hard on them.

As an Arab my heart melted when the mom said those words, I never hear them before

2:19 LMAO

"Son!" "You're not my mom!" "Mom!" "I'm not your mum" LOL

Moral of the story for Asian and non Asian parents. Do not be too strict on your kids, love, respect and support your kids and their skills they are good vs bad at and discipline them for knowing the rights vs wrongs to make sure your kids go to a straight healthy path in life.