thats a tremendous insight and from your very own experiences..hope you recovered and prospered..best wishes for you...from the UK ⚘

Psychopaths are narcissists But not all narcissists are psychopaths

What’s crazy too is the business world is abuzz with “emotional intelligence” but essentially what they mean by that is learning how to MANIPULATE others using their emotions! It’s great to use actual empathy infused emotional intelligence-but that’s not what they’re Yao get it for

*using it for (auto correct got me :)

Sounds alot like a covert narcissist .

Well... this is below college level.

infinitefreedom8 r/iamverysmart

@@Evan-ke2lo This is a Cornell University professor, so, yeah, this is college. College professors are not there to entertain, they are there to teach.

@@FreeSpirit47 Of course, but one should think a psychologist'd be extra aware of the teaching situation psychologically, how learning is affected by thriving and positive stimulation. Who talks of entertainment?. But good if you are content with it. He certainly seems very amused talking about psychopaths.

@Tom Johnson I got a lot out of this. Also, my friends & family are doing quite well with their professions using the knowledge from their field of study in college. Most recently, a 26 year old Mechanical Engineer who just started on her career making a 6 figure income with a fantastic benefit package just starting out. It's true that some college grads are less successful. All of the college grads that I know, personally, are doing phenomenally well.

@dani cali Yep, "nobody would do that". Or believing they made a mistake or dumb error though it was on purpose. And then after giving them the benefit of the doubt too many times it's too late. Though I don't want to experience real EVIL again, I wouldn't erase what it did to my outlook and understanding.

@@jamesandrews568 Hello, I read your dialogue with dani cali here, in a similar sort of boat probably. Have to find a way out and a solution, and it is difficult, since they are many, in power positions and are skilled at machiavellianism. Have you managed to solve your situation or/and got help to heal from it? It sounds as though it has passed. Did you also not get real help or even dedicated interest and believed from friends, family, acquaintances? How did you manage? If you have some ways, thóughts, ideas, advice, please write. I have sought physical and psychical treatment without success yet. I Want my life now.

We all trust people all through life eg. Doctors teachers your bank police life would be terrible if we didn't trust.

@@Medietos I had meant to respond to you previously and I forgot. If there's anything you need or want to know I can give you my email or you can ask here. I will answer you to the best of my ability and I do have time. It would bother me to know that a decent person needed help and wasn't ok.

@@jamesandrews568 How come you didn't really answer my Qs, if you are willing to? I can't re-do the work in this dire situation which I suggested, there has to be meaning and progression in a conversation. I know some feel suppoerted by any old contact; i don't at thi spoint. If you need spome counselling yourself in order to want to engage in me a bit, please ask. Not that I really can/ should go on helping others now, before I managed to turn my situation away from.....the end of it all.. Maybe you couldn't read my comment again, although they don't usually disappear far down until many have posted and long time has passed... I asked 3-6 Qs.

My Nomad Live, I know someone just like him. He knows I can see right through him. He's even unconsciously put his hand over his mouth when I had him rattled. He's very quick-witted and everyone thinks he's such a nice guy. He goes to church on Sundays. He's a pathological liar, but no one besides myself ever seemed to pick up on it.

Sounds like Trump and Stephen Miller.

well I have to ask, What brought this person to light, meaning how is it that you all know now that he is what he is?

Statistics show that 1% of all adults fit the psychopath personality which would equate to approximately 3,200,000 individuals in the US. Interesting thought??

My Nomad Live - that’s terrifying ☹️

If it suits their purpose.

@ _"We decide to become victims."_ Someone who has the freedom to walk out of an abusive relationship, and knows they do, and has the emotional strength to do so... maybe decides. Guess what? That describes almost no one.

@ _"people need to be taught"_ ...and if no one's taught them, it's somehow their own fault. I see.

@@StefanTravis What I said, was "Sometimes, people need to be taught where they're going wrong" . . . . Where YOU went wrong, was taking part of a sentence out of context, then implying that I was apportioning blame, when I clearly wasn't. You seem to think that teaching someone how to get past a pathological behavioural issue is a bad thing.

​@ _"You seem to think that teaching someone how to get past a pathological behavioural issue is a bad thing."_ Obviously not. Stop trying to derail the thread. The point you're trying to dodge is your glibertarian position that victimhood is a lifestyle choice.

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Aren’t you in that profession that makes parents give their kids legal meth so they’ll sit still because you can’t figure out anyway to engage them? Tell me please how bullying parents to give their kids drugs is somehow not bullying. Every state in the US has international investments to fund their teachers’ retirements. Do you have any idea if the companies in your portfolio are prosocial or antisocial? I’m guessing most of them are antisocial, and technically could be regarded as serial killers. Are you aware that public school teachers are paid through a government that takes money based solely on the fact that they have guns. And yet you wanna train kids to not bully? Really? Maybe they’re just reflecting what they’re seeing in the adults around them. See, the reason the kids don’t listen to or respect you is because they have a built-in hypocrisy detector. The reason they don’t sit still for you is because they don’t trust you because you’re dissociated and they can see that. The response of your profession to their own shortcomings (“drug the kids”) *is* bullying. I for one would like to hear from people who have holistic and consistent internal moral values, not psychologists and teachers. An integrated person has both of those qualities and can also say no to authority. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and suggest that because you entered a conformist and obedience, oriented profession, you struggle with this type of higher-level integration. That’s alright. The struggle to live up to our values is part of what makes us human. My concern for you is that you probably don’t know that there are values involved in what you’re doing at all. For example, it’s fairly obvious that the public schools were used to push women into the workforce so that companies could get a two for one deal on their employee pay. If you want to fix ADHD, which is a cultural problem, you need to go back and fix that mistake. Of course, that would mean quitting your job, but then at least you wouldn’t be living off the antisocial aggression of government bullies. When I was in school being around, my teachers often felt like walking on eggshells. After knowing teachers as an adult, that now makes me wonder if they were all narcissists. Do you see what I mean? Your a basic assumptions (that normal is desirable, for example, or that opinion polls suddenly becomes scientific because a psychologist categorized the responses) are absurd and unsupportable. And somebody really needs to do a deep dive into the antisocial underpinnings of feminist-oriented, professions’ hatred of men. I’m gonna go out on another limb here and suggest that at least a couple of your students are worried about your husband. I’m just basing that observation on my memory of being a kid, but I remember it pretty vividly. That’s probably why I empathize with kids instead of desiring to boss them around and make them conform to my opinion of what an adult should be. They don’t need your eighth grade opinion of what an adult should be. How do I know that you probably have an eighth grade opinion of what an adult should be. The exact same way that you form opinions about people too. The data suggest that if your average you watch 3 to 4 hours of TV a day. The programming on television is targeted to an eighth grade audience, because that’s the average. If you watch commercial TV for 3 to 4 hours because it engages you . . . Just know that your eighth grade brain is finding it extremely compelling for a reason. Why do you think so many shootings happen at schools? For the exact same reason that killer whales go nuts when they’re in prison at Seaworld. And that’s your queue to go, “Oh, he had oppositional defiance disorder.” Because there’s a diagnosis for everything that you don’t like. Well, that’s a pretty nifty little system if you’re an authoritarian, isn’t it? So, unfortunately, the next time the kid goes into a public school to do violence, just know that they’re mirroring what they’re saying in the adults around them, and they’re probably the most influenced by the people they spend the most around of time with, which is their teachers. So, who in the world do you think they’re learning that violence and force is effective from? I would guess it’s probably from the teachers, social workers, and psychologists around them who live off the violence our government does. How can you of all people in good faith, and with a holistic sense of self, accuse others of manipulating people. Next to prisons, I can’t think of a more manipulative system than the public school system. I’m sorry to be the one to say this, but it’s most likely the reason you don’t see the contradiction between your behavior and practice is that you’ve been thoroughly propagandized to accept the contradiction is just normal. And isn’t normal psychology really the problem? After all, what is the normal state of the world? Yeah, not interested in being normal on your terms. From the root comes the fruit. Do yourself a favor and look up “the smile room” on Google then quit your job. And for God’e sake, would you please stop manufacturing schizophrenics and school shooters? (When the kids in your classroom are savvy enough to know that prescription drugs are just operationalized MK ultra, which will be general knowledge in the next few years among young kids, it’s probably time for you to retire. They’re on to you.

Just like on The Sopranos!

Generally, everyone tries to fit in and appear normal. I’ve also been both the bully and the victim in childhood, depending on the circumstances of my environment and inner growth (or lack of it). I think there are too many variables in the developmental stages of childhood to use as a determining factor in promoting pro-social behavior or not. Everyone needs social skills, even at the risk of arming potential psychopaths with camouflage. If you are teaching positive behavior in any form then you are raising the bar for all and contributing to their quality of life, regardless of who may choose to manipulate those lessons for personal gain at the expense of others. With compassion and integrity, all we may do is plant the seeds. We cannot know or control if they grow into flowers or weeds.

Do yo think they learned it from their parents/family?

I've met some people like that. They are proud of overpowering others, in fact, they seem to enjoy it. I keep my distance.

@@mard9802 I have met and confronted a few people like that, that I have worked with, and believe you me they hate you for it. When I did I always made sure I had witnesses so they couldn't twist what I said or they said to their advantage. Afterwards whenever I had conversations with these people they could never look me in the eye.

I mean that is killing someone.

Well done ❤️

That is indirect murder

I grew up with the same mother. Her violence physical and emotional was profound, I have DID aka multiple personalities that is not what you see on tv or movies. It's much more of an internal shift in personhood perspectives of someone who carries awareness of specific events and content is hidden from the primary host of this physical body. We are all aware of five or six incidences as they began but with the escalation of the violence fragmenting occurs and I myself have no memory whatsoever of entire acts of harm. .I think that portions of some of us in our system characters have forms of cluster b or ASPD and psychopathy. This woman even planned in the first weeks of my life to make it difficult to prove thatI existed in the first place and secondarily that it would surface in adulthood that I do not exist having no official proof I exist. It did surface, it was devastating and I would have gone to my grave not able to identify what caused what played out EXCEPT that I accidently discovered her crime when I applied for my passport. I'd had a passport s a child as a dependent so the info on me wasn't searched being a six year old. The passport HEAD person was called in to help figure out what was going on. SHE had never filed my birth certificate and intended to cause my death but each time fell short of the mark. I'd like the file charges at this point if I knew how and had the funds to hire lawyers. I've had eight-nine years of therapy to heal where possible. Good luck on your healing path.

Imagine spawning kids in to have someone to torture. Super psycopathic move.

Terrible, but how does this relate to linguistic patterns?

@@MegaTinni Hi psychopath!!!

DBT THERAPY COULD HELP YOU

Around 15 years ago my slacker room mate failed to pay the cable and it was canceled. I never found a reason to renew it, he unknowingly did me a favor.

thats a really good comment. i never thought of that but as soon as I read it it rang true. Really good. Thanks!

Goodtohave Inajam same!

What is the "corporate entity"?

Sounds like trump's problem maybe that's why he has no empathy and no character.

I sometimes wonder how much of interviewees’ studdering is “pretend”: I - I - I , drives me nuts. As well as rhe use of the word “ like” over and over again in speech.

Do you expect to be able to produce algorithms for companies such as Cellebrite for law enforcement to evaluate the written language of suspects in their social media and/or text communications?

How many of your psychopathic subjects were women as opposed to men? How are they different?

Thank you so much for this comment. I noticed a long time ago that I do this and feared I must really be annoying people by explaining things thrice when really I'm the one who needs to get it clear for myself. But I don't notice others doing it so... whew.

Interesting. As a radio presenter myself, I had to practise speaking 'tidily'. Eventually, by slowing down whilst expressing more complex thoughts that were difficult to put into words, I could remove most of my ums and arrs. This had the added advantage of increasing my silence. Silence is powerful on the radio ... not too much obviously. You can control the details of your speech more than you might imagine. I would not be surprised if a strongly motivated, and highly intelligent psychopath could successfully adjust their speech if this research became more well known and used widely to spot psychopaths.

Jennifer McClean and Narcissists also

Not true, well not 100% true. I have a degree in Criminal Psychology. I've read and I was fortunate enough to meet "Psychopaths" myself. Some (not all) psychopaths dont hurt animals. Some of them consider animals ( dogs, cats, horses etc) are the only beings that they can deal with or understand. I could go on but I think you got the point. Psychopaths come in all different shapes and sizes and they all have different paths in life. Psychopaths are not as easy as ppl think. This is also a very old lecture, at least 10 years if not longer. The science has changed a bit.

Jennifer McClean They can be very charming too.

Waiters aren't powerless at all. Never fuck with someone who serves your food.

I disagree. Sure, maybe the best way to spot a narcissist. Because narcissists are extremely easy to spot. You don't even have to be in their prescence long. But you're not gonna spot psychopaths this way, and if you think you "spot them", I strongly doubt they're psychopathic.

My thoughts exactly!!

It's 10 years later now. I would love him to give an updated lecture now!!

May our wish come true :)

yep

@@jaspermartin7444 I hope they notice our wishes here :)

Gladwell’s Talking to Strangers has references along the lines of this work. I wouldn’t be surprised if these researchers were cited. The most direct overlap here is specifically in the part about how much worse people are at detecting deception compared to AI. It’s fascinating. The whole book kind of messed me up, especially with there being such overwhelming evidence across well-known and unknown cases. Side notes: They weren’t exaggerating about how rare it is to interview prisoners in their work! It also unnerves me how researchers get so used to their topic that they kind of become desensitized, too, when discussing traumatic events. Kind of like how surgeons can go eat lunch right after work, I guess. Finally, back to Gladwell: The questions about application of this research in criminal justice are already seeing some general data. Someone asked an EXCELLENT question about speech disfluencies relating to dyslexia or ADHD around 22:00, I think implying that neurodiversity can be labeled as psychopathy by those who know just enough to be dangerous. Gladwell also mentions people who don’t conform to expectations in communication and end up getting convicted more often when they were only guilty of being socially awkward. I forgot what that term was called, but they don’t sync well - they don’t make eye contact or they seem nervous or guilty, or they joke or laugh at inappropriate times. Anyway, why am I writing like I talk? 🤭 Second-guessing myself: I read Blink almost immediately after so I hope I didn’t mix those books up. Also, based on how many edits I’ve made, editing history might also be a useful consideration in addition to backspacing in social media. If only I wrote like this in my work. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Perfectly said! The US is ruled by undiagnosed cluster Bs who have been killing millions of people collectively for 40yrs UNCHECKED, BOTH PARTIES FOR PROFIT ONLY! The war machine, big pharma, big tech and big banking collectively kill tens of millions of people worldwide! The kicker is that only people with dangerous cluster B personality disorders will refuse to be properly diagnosed and we continue to allow this and elect them into power as a result.

This world was created for good and evil. I got BOTH. GOOD TURNING TO EVIL THEN BACK. I HAVE SEEN IT. GAGGING SICK UN EASY mind games. I'm not sure what category he's even in.

Thanks for mentioning this. Psychopaths make up 1% of the population, that's a huge amount! And psychopath children are hell to raise. Any parent's biggest fear should be being burdened with a psychopath child who is fully incapable of loving you back. They statistically end up in prison and/or hurting other people. What a drain on society. Hopefully we can figure out a fool proof way to identify a shriveled psychopath brain in the womb. If we allow parents to terminate pregnancies with Down syndrome, we can allow parents to choose if they want to commit their life to something that can't even muster a house cat level of love for others.

@@celisewillis I would term a psychopath at egg stage lol. Sorry I don't need that type of challenge I believe they are sent from Satan to destroy man

Progress in this area is a good thing. I'm often surprised though, by how often con men/women murder, even relatively late in their criminal career, without any previous history of violence, and when there really were reasonable alternatives. I realize that's just a small subset, but I wonder if it's less of a difference than that it just hasn't had to happen yet, mostly due to luck.

I really liked your comment and would love you too du more. Do you have a channel?

Aka chris watts textbook example

*so you're saying psychopaths are biblical.* *biblical, in this sense, means a detailed record of facts. Sorta like bibliography.* *they account for facts in a bibliographic way in order to later present their lies as facts. Their fact-professing agenda is nothing but lying preparation.*

Really insightful comment,thank you for sharing. In watching Police interviews online recently, i've picked up on and can now understand clearer characteristics you mentioned in certain cases.

Damn I feel like you are describing Jodi Arias to a T.

Friday Night Pizza yes so did I

Most doctors and Psychopaths and narcissists. There's research on it.

@@lndingalle9605 Hi from France! If you ever would like to share links & information about this topic, many thanks in advance... My best wishes 🌿

Same 😂

I can't stand that. Once he pointed it out, you would think he would have at least attempted to avoid using "uuummmm" and "uuhhh". Ugh!

Wow mine was a pilot to 😮

God bless all the psycho pilots out there

Ya, classic projection. Evil. Yup. He is. They always accuse you of exactly what they're guilty of.🤔

😂 took a vow 20 years ago I’d never get on a plane! Thanks for validation! Now, I’m more curious about ppl who take pics of food lol, perhaps those ppl are narcissistic instead of psychopathic.

Geneva, The same happened with me. No substancial conversations, very supperficial. He was working on a ship. Everyday he made food and send me pictures of the food he made. Every day for 1 year... After 1,5 year this relationship stopped. I was suicidal suddenly. I completally collapsed. I was flabbergasted and did not know why i suddenly broke down completally. He also was very nice to me, but also very not nice. This 2 things i could not cope with either. To long story, but the food and beer was very important to him. No depth. Supperficial charm. No empathy. But he was also nice, so i do not get it. All was about him and his life, not mine. I will never be the same. He took something out of me. He really changed me. This never happened to me that drastically. It feels so weired and strange. I do not recognize myself anymore. I look at the miror and i do not see myself anymore. I felt completally dead and now i feel a living person but dead inside.

Sorry you went through that. It can take a while to heal ourselves after experiences like this, take care of yourself!

I recently entered into a relationship by choice with somebody who I know is a sociopath, and it's because I'm absolutely fascinated by him. I've never seen anybody project their childhood trauma upon their persona so clearly. He also puts on heavy charm, the fact that he's very tall and extremely buff and very good looking makes it easier for me to talk myself into researching him. Lol. I'm autistic, he gets really annoyed with me. I call him out on his shit all the time and tell him that he's only reacting the way he is because he is antisocial personality disorder and he needs another hit of dopamine. 😫🤣 We understand each other pretty well, however I've had to put him in check momentarily when he breaks one of the boundaries that I have set. Recently he's been pushing my limits more and more, so we have decided to take more space from each other. We have an odd type of respect for one another. I've known him for a few years, but I definitely don't trust him in a lot of different ways.

Sorry you had to learn the hard way. But that's the way it is with most things in life. I have been around psychopaths and narcs my whole life unfortunately. So I understand it but it still sucks. Always best to just get away from them. It's kind of hard to tell at first but one clue is if someone is charming and seems too good to be true, they usually are. These people are on a spectrum. My sister is highly narcissistic, but I've also seen her bump up into the psychopathy range. Deeply damaged woman. Highly toxic and destructive, pathological liar, but also very immature and predictable. It's odd how these people have almost identical behavior. Once you learn it, it's easier to spot. But there are so many of them out there nowadays, it's hard to find a nice, regular person anymore. I've grown very distrustful of people after growing up in a family with one psychopath and two narcissistic parents. But yeah they will never NEVER change. You just have to move on and be grateful you got away. No regrets.

Let me help you, so every person who have the anti-social personality disorder is a narcissist, but not every narcissist has the anti-social personality disorder. So he probably has been both yeah!

I fucking hate my bpd witch ex witch of a woman

Sounds like he was definitely a psychopath. I've got two in my life who are planning my demise I think.

narcisist or low level psychopath.

Same. Worst 8 months of my life. 2 years after I cut him out of my life he shot himself. I felt nothing for him. I thought the world is better off. I can’t believe my numbness.

4 out of 10 people Hello, lacking basic Discernment and a bull shit detector is the real modern day pandemic here. I'm surprised your surprised Its almost like running into traffic

@@starrysparkles404 not one, but two psychopaths in your life, and both are planning to kill you? Wow

Possibly those commenters are psycho paths? Could be why they're watching this? Personally I've encountered some extremely intense people throughout the years and thought by the title this video might shed some light on the subject.

Satya Veda: Psychopaths are narcissists. They don't have a conscience and they don't care what anybody else thinks (of them). They don't see anything wrong with their behavior so why would they watch a video like this?

Kayenta Because they study psychology. And they're obsessed with what others think of them that's all they have is false identity ie. Ego. You see the psychopath narcissist is the result of going so far to the point that they don't even see their errors which appears to others as "they don't care" but in reality it was their intense inferiority that drove them to this state in the first place.

They don't show many tiddleywink games on the net, so I have to watch this instead.

@Anming Alexander Criticisms keep the wonky academic disciplines like psychology honest. Some people treat psychology like a religion and they believe everything they hear. It's all the more necessary for those people to listen to the criticisms and the "haters".

I hope you're safe now 💛. I'm really sorry for what he put you through. A psychopath is very cunning,like a Komodo Dragon or Pitbull. Very sneaky. But hey, you know that. Focus on healing yourself,be filled with relief that you got away in one piece. I'm currently being targeted by TWO. It's awful. Sigh.

@@starrysparkles404 Get Restraining Orders so they're on Police Radar. Arm yourself: Tear Gas, BearSpray, Gun with lots of training and Defensive Arts ie Martial, Jujitsu etc. There are special classes for Womens Defense too! Take no chances and always be aware of your surroundings. Stay Safe! Move if you can ASAP!

wow yes it is cold af, I am still daily oh and ah-ing about it.

I am so sorry for you, if you don't have a coach I would recommend getting a Christian Coach at least for a couple of weeks months, to get rid of the darkness... I ll pray for you God bless you

No soul

Have you ever asked yourself how these people became that way? They were not born this way or that way, correct? So, the only shame is in pointing a finger to one without considering pointing another to the one back of them...and then how much further back? I once heard this kind of behavior called "residue of abuse". ✌

​@@junemoonchild69 🤔 I think psychopaths are born. I think sociopaths are made. My opinion.

@@sharonthompson672 Very interesting topic. I don't know. The people I know who are like this, I think it's a combination of nature and nurture or lack thereof. I think adults can make a choice about how they treat others. I don't let them off the hook that easily. Yeah, there are some people who are really mentally off, like legally insane or whatever but most of these people aren't, they are just complete assholes.

@@junemoonchild69 good point. I can speak from experience on this. yes, the two narcs in my family are my sister and my father. father was beaten by his mother and treated badly and he did the same to his kids, all three of us for the most part. but only my sister wound up a high level narc. i don't think unless someone is criminally insane, they have a right to treat others badly. they have a choice. I have had lots of problems related to the abuse I suffered in childhood but i don't take it out on other people. the "residue of abuse" you are talking about is totally real, i just think people have a choice in how to deal with it, esp. as adults. it is a cycle for sure. maybe some biology in it too. i just don't excuse these people. they are too evil and cause too much damage.

@@wordswordswords8203 I agree with most of what you said. But I don't think sociopaths OR psychopaths are insane, they're just different versions of evil. 👍 I wholeheartedly agree that they most certainly have control over their choices and behavior. 🌹🙂👍

what about a lie? since this is important to identifying a psychopath. why not start with the more simple things before forecasting group behavior based upon particularities

@@puppetperception7861 Well lie detection using verbal analysis has many times been studied. Much has been learnt as a consequence. However, In an of itself language without body language analysis when attempting to discover a lie just doesn't work very well.

Psychopathy isn't a personality disorder, they're born that way. Check out brain scans, they're missing parts of their brains the rest of us have.

@@puppetperception7861 I'm going to g out on a limb here and say most psychopaths charged with murder are going to lie. And can pass a polygraph as the prof indicated. This micro language assessment is fascinating.

Cancel culture begins with labels, and supporting this application of labels can lead to misuse, take care that you aren't cancelled one day.

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I always say I am a magnet for these type people. Ross Rosenberg's book Human Magnet Syndrome helped me see it more clearly. In my experience passive aggressive behavior is another incredibly frustrating facet to these type people.

Me too. They are very harmful and dangerous to those they are close to...

Me too. My sister is a psychopath. Unfortunately, I am still forced to deal with her due to circumstances outside of my control. I have become so good at understanding and knowing how to deal with her she has almost backed off slightly. I know she will never change but I think when they encounter someone who knows how to handle them, they almost respect that and step back just slightly. Never NEVER let down your guard or trust these people. Once you know who they are, never forget. That helps some.

You're right. They def don't like us wise to it all.

You must attract them.

@@user-yw8qf8cc3t You must be one of them.

If that was meant to be sarcastic, that was brilliant.

+BlueEternities this has already happened. look around you. this is why the world is focked. these people are already at the top of the "capitalist" food chain as well as many other systems around the world. in america we promote psychopathic ways as the ideal.

+lily blossom So true. So many people seem blind to this...

+BlueEternities effective in manipulating people - not managing.

Sociopaths/psychopaths exist in other economic structures as well such as socialism/communism.

Pol Pot...Stalin....Mao...Che...Castro...Idi Amin...Were any of them psychopaths? Likely.

Psychos are not the masterminds some say they are.

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 I think that is because in some cases machiavellianism comes in addition to psychopathy.

Perfect example of not being able to gauge the relationship between appropriate actions and feelings.

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 stupid psychopaths? The psychopathic genius has been depicted in so many films.

Lol fools

@@KittredgeRitter said the 4channer

@@guineapig55555 Says the secular Jew.

@@KittredgeRitter Did I miss something?

@@kristileigh9059 Yeah. A European brain that has the ability of understanding and producing logic.

@Kathy Gilligan Funny enough, I'm doing that right now! Lol

Yep, I've done editing for audiobooks. I allow 3 times the eventual playback time for recording - so a 1 hour text will take 3 hours to record. And 5 times for editing - expect to spend 5 hours editing to get a 1 hour result. I've invented a way to fold most of the editing into the recording, but it still takes 4-5 hours to get a 1 hour product.

@@rpaul9578 That must be a hell of a job. I don't want to trade places with you.

Why? It’s good for detail oriented people and pays decently

can you edit the ums out of this then?... in less than a week?

I am very curious to know whether the 72 yo being forced into retirement was considered to be the entire solution to her extensive fraud? Was a lack of accessible or remaining funds to recover a consideration in basically " letting it go"?

A clue would be in any advice he gave you following that incident. Did he ever say anything like, “please don’t ever….” Or, always remember….”?

Sounds like PTSD not psychopathy

He just needs therapy and emotional support.

The leg thing is a self-soothing strategy, all they feel is anxiety and fear all their life,they percieve everyone as a threat, but it is buried deep and different mannerisms are a telltale.

"Currently he is in prison, studying to be an attorney." If he was an actual psychopath, then he should currently be in the graveyard, studying to become worm food. Prison is not, and never has been a deterrence for psychopaths. Shooting them to death works quite well, though. So, why did you marry him? What is it about guys with no conscience at all that makes them irresistible to women, even when the other 99% of the guys around them are not psychopaths?

​@@devilsoffspring5519 They are extremely manipulative and many can be enormously charming in pursuit of their pray.

@@vaska1999 You mean, psychopaths are a lot like many women? So, why wouldn't a woman be easily able to identify a psychopath?

@@devilsoffspring5519 See a shrink, sweetie. I mean it.

shut up you overobsessed imbecile

Cobra, dude. You're first message was actually really interesting and I'm glad you took the time to share but WHY did you take it to the place you did with the pissing imagery?! Cmon

@@AS-gz8oe You're right it was petulant of me, I regret it now, since I have no way of knowing what psychological or mental state the other person was in. There's no telling what lense he was viewing my writing through. Perhaps he's had experiences where people cry wolf just for attention, and just had a visceral reaction to my post. I'll try to be more cognizant of this in the future. I'll probably delete it but, it's mildly humorous to me, and It will make yours, and his comments make no sense. So just letting you know in advance.

@@guineapig55555 nut job

Trying on emotions like a coat. I truly believe you know what you are taking about. Agreed.

Projecting good onto others... I used to do that a LOT myself when I was a little kid. I had almost completely outgrown it by the time I was maybe 5 or 6 years old. We imagine and project good nature onto other people when we're little kids because for a lot of people, it's just our nature and we want to relate happily to the world we live in. But, it's incredibly naive and purely ignorant.

You do not project good on to others, you are familiar with people that are dysfunctional and try to ease them when around them

Omg I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. My worst nightmare

Physical bodies devoid of spirit.

To call them out... The only thing they learn is...to be wiser and more skilled the next time... This is my experience. You make of them better psychopaths, then before and smarter...

@@heide-raquelfuss5580 yes - domestic violence classes come to mind - gives them a whole new way to blame the victim

@Threetwo One I agree that narcissism and sociopathy have different meanings. That's why they're 2 different words. But, I don't agree with the balance of your statement and I stand by my original post.

@Threetwo One In short, pathological lies for NOTHING and persistance beats resistance.

"Separated from the public if necessary"? Scary concept. We don't do that sort of thing in a free society. Try China. We "separate people from the public" (jail them) when they have been proven guilty of a crime beyond reasonable doubt by a jury of their peers. A very old concept, developed before 1066. You want to trash it?

im sorry you had those experiences

I understand this may be taken as me not actually comprehending your point - but I believe I do understand - but even so, I’ll still ask this because in any instance… whether someone was a psychopath or not a psychopath, & even whether or not I went from not understanding to understanding that as a fact…. I’d still find it reasonable to want to know Why was it ME versus my sibling that got abused?

💜💜💜

Oh and yes! I wanted to comment on thes movement! That old adage “beware of shifty characters”! Well is that the truth! Restlessness, inability to stand still when speaking to them… like if they are figured out they’ll run! Lol! They will too if you starting calling them out. They also turn their backs, their face so you can’t see the smile they get when they get your emotions going! The body language experts say the position of the feet tell you a lot about what a person is thinking. One guy that I dated had lied so much online that when I met him in person his leg was I controllably shaking! You have to watch how they cover their movements too, they’ll make excuses for why they can’t stand still and some of the. Are straight out honest that they are nervous. So they do tie about that but yet they still proceed without fear of consequences

I can relate to your experience with your mother. I experienced systematic abuse. I was targeted but not my little sister. Then when confronted with that later on .She would be Very obviously agitated defensive and go between playing victim. To being very hateful with underlying threatening sense or yes more violence . She's gone now. I try to not have resentment towards her. I truly feel it wasn't all even her but sone spiritual there was also Phenomena that can b explained otherwise But it was the most devastating relationship I've ever had. And sadly I was ina few abusive relationships after that. Now I don't ignore red flags or ever take for granted that a seemingly perfect relationship is simply being love bombed in order to get my trust and defense down.

What is a non human interrogator?

Debbie VanLeuven A computer that analyzes responses.

Yes. the thing is though when you really understand them, it's easy to just never never trust them or believe anything that comes out of their mouth. Period. No second chance, they will never change. Assume they are always lying because 99 % of the time they are.

+Jo Fox I was married to a psychopath. Of course back then we knew nothing about them and I had never heard of personality disorders. I knew something was wrong but couldn't put my finger on it in the early days, but discussions went nowhere and everything wrong in the relationship was my fault! I went to counselors and marriage guidance but they had no idea either what I was dealing with.

Would be an interesting experiment to have a knowledgeable third party observe the interaction next time, either in person or via videotape. Not being engaged in the conversation themselves, they could probably spot the red flag moments.

finally, someone says it

God yes that is it. They put you under their spell - even if you are highly conscious they are doing it!!

that was creepy and cinematic

I’ve been surrounded by coverts and overts all my life. Yes I agree with this 100%. Once you start talking to these people you are at their mercy. The only way not to be manipulated is to not communicate at all, no eye contact, nothing.

So many are v intelligent,charming, you feel.they really listen, I think a lot of politicians are psychopaths.

@u little shit Why? All I said was that was experiencing cognitive dissonance from hearing really disturbing information delivered in a soothing tone. Although I suppose it would be worse to hear it in a distressing tone on top of everything. Relax.

Saaame

He is used to the topic. Youre not.

Wow her name musta been Melissa. Sounds like my nurse sociopath boss I had in the 90’s.

100% true

So .... what? ...... jail them all before they have a chance to do anything bad? That's not the sort of free society I want to live in. Go to Communist China, you'd love it there.

Not all psychopaths are criminals. Allot live normal lives.

​@@Crazywaffle5150Thank you, I came here to make that same distinction.

You do not understand the issue.

@@lizando9481 Unnecessarily rude. They have a legitimate concern and it does need to be taken into account. So, if a person just has one of these things doesn't make them a psycopath the overall picture is more important for a diagnosis.

They address this around 21:00 minutes

@@amarketing8749 it's not fully legitimate unless it's developed and tested against the contradicting evidence

True, this sort of psycho-babble is what they use in Communist China. Everyone in a free society is innocent until proven guilty of some concrete crime by a jury of his peers! Anticipating crime/thought crime is a dystopian concept best left to Hollywood.

Didn’t realize this possible connection until the introduction of, “Erica”... ...as he notes her success at CNN, is connected to his brilliant tutelage.

Ohh noo

jordan peterson is one of them ;) I studied psyhology , not that many. Psyhology attracts mostly women who score lower on narcissism and psychopathy , so statiscally you'll get less of them in psychology... but it is interesting that most psychology teachers or psychology "stars" are males when they make up 10 to 20 % of the students. I'd look that way, it would be an intersting study .

@@backintimealwyn5736 How is Peterson a psychopath? Dude fell into a deep dark depression with his wife's terminal cancer diagnosis. I think she's actually recovering so not quite terminal. Not once have I seen evidence of him not having empathy. What makes you say this? I'm not trolling or starting a flame war, I'm genuinely curious for what you consider as evidence.

@@daleowens7695 I don't know, it was a joke. They are stuff I like about the guy, he's kind of brave, it's a quality I tend to like, he stands for what he believes ,and the people he cares for (lindsay for ecemple) I like that. BUt some of what he says is not rooted in science at all yet he claims he's on factual science's side. I don't like this double language it seems pretty manipulative to me. And he talks a lot about himself , his IQ, his work , he seems a bit grandiose and deceptive. But honestly I have no clue, it was just a joke.

UKposts is turning me into a nutcase.

@@laurieberry162 stop binging

I know, I don't think his speech is distracting at all...

+Adina V You have a good point there, but I actually find it interesting both what he said and how he said it. I'm interested in body linguistic and sociologic aspects too, and besides, If you analyze how he talks, you might discover that he is a psychopath. (I guess some kind of emoji or smiley would have been appropriate here to underline the joke, but I don't use those signs despite my interest in sociology and linguistics). "...but the comments here are weird", yeah, I agree on that...and I think my comment kinda confirms that statement. (Another suitable emoji here).

+thank god for atheists if you're interested in body linguistics and "social aspects", try some shrooms/ psilocybin or LSD, guaranteed inner mind experience. It gave me beautiful insides about our "existence".

+Snedder V. Thanks for the advice, but I've already tried that, it didn't work, the only thing that happened was that I got really high and wrote a weird comment on youtube (see above).

+Alice Cotti Maybe I am, but it's more likely you are a psychopath - this conversation into consideration - because one of the hallmarks of the psychopath is that it accuses its "opponent" in a very certain tone, of things that have no evidence. So far; you have qualified perfectly to that description.

I know! Weird

I found that odd too. why go into such trivial detail when there is a full blown crises occurring, Its like the mundane and ordinary meant about as much as murdering his entire family. ate breakfast strangled wife and kids , drove to my job buried wife quickly, checked the oil tanks decided bodies would fit put kids in . went got gas went to work ate lunch went home. oh no where are wife and kids? crazy he was so efficient in the entire process truly terrifying to think how many more Chris Watts type individuals maybe lurking about undetected unsuspected and seemingly normal. I do question if this was always part of his psyche ? i noticed a change from the photos when he was heavier he had more warmth in his eyes looked more approachable and friendly, did the supplements and weight loss contribute to a change in his mind? Of course most will say no this had to be there just waiting to surface. so maybe when he became stimulated by some major event.in rose to the surface. Of course we know that event was his affair with NK and his creepy lust for her.

It's because psychopaths are self centered and vain. What they fixed themselves for lunch that day is important to them. It's all about THEM. Check out www.vainencounters.com for more info (Lisa E. Scott )

It is a ptsd behavior.

He was taught to be totally obedient and keep his mouth shut and tell people what they want to hear.

*victims are the greater abomination.*

I noticed that too, at the start, when he mentions about the uhmm's and so on. I thought...well...he does the same. Also, he talks a lot, but is not saying nothing really indepth. Also..., i see a light smirk on his face. Disturbing really...

Felt it,too.

They aren't people. We need a big bug lamp for them for the sake of the human race.

@@thewolf14 I think at some point, like 25,000 years ago, psychopathy/sociopathy was a valuable trait in those small tribes. I mean, someone that lacks fear and gets pleasure from violence? That makes a kick ass hunter and warrior. And they would've adapted to keeping relationships with those in their tribe. Not from any real sense of community or love. It was just vital to stay alive. Today, it's pretty useless - in fact, detrimental in the damage they can do. The fact that it can be genetic, and that it causes different structures in their brains than the general population, tells the story that its a trait that's been around a long time. It just hasn't been bred out. Yet. Hopefully, as the idea and education of these conditions gets out there, people can just avoid them.

I concur. I don't believe that psychopaths are mentally ill any more than I believe that a wolf is a sick dog. The wolf does what a wolf naturally does; it is not sick, but you wouldn't want to keep it in your home.

Psychopaths are to be neutralized. For justice and safety. Revenge is good as well. All called for. Destroy them all.

Mary, traditional therapy techniques do indeed backfire, but there ARE approaches that can be successful...at influencing, managing and reforming these types. Take heart.

Read”healing from hidden abuse”…good luck

@@kevinjohnson7418 thank you.. I really appreciate your help xx 🥰😇

Very true. The female psycopath is also rarer and is so different that it is hard for us to understand or conceptualize. Other diagnosis are made, because it is difficult for humans to see this in the female form. We don't want to think it's possible, while male psycopaths are readily accepted.

Females with zero emotional affect are statistically rare, so it is illogical for that to be the first diagnosis on a list, even if a lot of the criteria match.

What data are you basing this off of ?

Gender is a social construct so everyone is equally as likely to be a psychopath tbh

Both of your points are very true but it is also true that morals cease to exist with the absence of human life.

Nothing scares psychopaths more than being exposed for the game that they’re playing

How would one know if theyre a pyscho and how would one be exposed foool

The former are moral prostitutes.

@@farahbushnaq7323 They don't care what anyone thinks of them or their behavior; they just want to know how to continue on with their plan.

Cam Hos 😝

Cam Hos Agreed but he’s not gay. 👍🤣😂😅😊😮

I agree. 😊

But does it listen?

Sociopath is not a recognised term in psychology. Anyone who uses it doesn't understand the complexity of cat 2 psychopaths. Including this guy who spends his life gaining research from murderers and then building his views from the most troubled psychopaths. Makes no sense

Little Blubbercorn Me too

Didn’t he say psychopaths do a lot of ums 🤔

Exactly 3 times right after he mentioned it he used 4 times less then 30 seconds l

Little Blubbercorn yes! Uh

@@drk7031 wow. so you're insinuating he's a psychopath. very interesting thing to reveal about yourself.

Lots of people will give you long explanations of the difference between psychopaths, sociopaths, and antisocial personality disorder. They often conflict, and really don't matter. It seems to be mostly a fashion thing.

@BenjaminFranklin99 The DSMs represent a combination of current fashion, and what insurance will cover. They shuffle symptoms and naming conventions around from one edition to another in ways that may or may not be helpful.

that's a good point.

@@ernststravoblofeld so DSMs have no scientific value at all in your eyes? I feel like the insurance industry wouldn't pay out for anything that didn't have scientific value and was merely "fashion"...

@@PointsofData No scientific value. There's some value in categorization, but in this case, that value is purely administrative.

Covert Narcissists love to pick brains too

@@3dguy839 your probably much more up to date with recent research than I!

@@3dguy839 hahaha suffering a cold British winter at the moment but would definitely buy a book.

Lisa Smit absolutely. Your comment is spot on and much more educational/informational than this entire video.

DAMN thanks Lisa

He never said the indicators they use are hard evidence of psychopathy....it seems like you're stating the same things they did.

Check out statement analysis.

Great comment!

begs the question...how does the gut biome influence cognition, mediated through hormones and neurotransmitters derived from that gut biome.....I suspect certain bugs colonies in the gut go hand and hand with personality disorders.

@@curiousbystander9193 certainly gut brain connection. A concussion cascades immediately to the gut. It's fascinating, and very logically based beyond doubt. Hypocrites had it correct all those years ago. Sadly, that has been disregarded for the most part by the standard medical community. Gut microbiome has been more of a focus for at least a few more in the medical community the past handful of years, thankfully, but far too many continue to disregard it altogether. Hopefully that will soon change for the better.

Mainstream culture does seem narcissistic, psychopathic, and the lying manipulation we face today is so unbelievable, most of us don't know how to react, or how to address lies and censorship of actual life saving truths. Your comment, Romi Dogra, made me think of Camille Vasquez's cross examination of Amber Heard. Amber was rattled when confronted with the unvarnished truth of her lies. The best approach to lies is direct, simple, statement of truth, without giving in to the myriad of distractions meant to mislead.

Not very mysterious. Almost 2 entire generations were raised in daycare now. End of story. Minimum wage workers who usually can't stand kids. No empathy experienced at such a crucial stage in life. Seems obvious to me. World, raise your own kids. Teach them love. Teach them empathy. These are not innate traits. Compare this to sensory deprivation in Eastern European nations in orphanages. Not a far cry considering the epidemic of psychopathy around the world. Occam's Razor or K.I.S.S

@@happygolucky9986 interesting view point, I worked as a teacher at a daycare, I was about 42. You do get all types of personalities and interesting characters. Most were loving n caring, majority of the time and many were good at their jobs. I saw more dysfunction in the parents, leaving their children, It really starts at home. Appreciate your comment. ✌️