Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel | TEDxStLawrenceU

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The claim that the female orgasm is just as natural and should be just as expected as the male orgasm is a controversial one, because society conditions us to regard the female orgasm as something extra. Grace Wetzel, a junior at St. Lawrence University, explains the phenomenon known as the orgasm gap and explores the straight woman's sexual experience. Grace Wetzel is a junior at St. Lawrence University with a Psychology major, a Biology Minor, and a Gender & Sexuality Studies Minor. She is a member of the ODK Leadership Honor Society and of Psi Chi, the Honor Society in Psychology. She is a member of two dance groups on campus, Dance Ensemble and Graceful Movements, and is a house member of the Women's Resource Center. Grace has a passion for intersectional feminism and social justice. Her long-term dream is to change the stigmas and inequalities surrounding the female sexual experience. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@jessicaascano9381
@jessicaascano9381 3 роки тому
When you're single and still watch this.
@yogeshreddy6002
@yogeshreddy6002 3 роки тому
Lol 😂
@sintymckeating7015
@sintymckeating7015 3 роки тому
Glad to know I'm not alone
@mubangachisha3041
@mubangachisha3041 3 роки тому
I feel attacked 😅🤦‍♂️
@jessicaascano9381
@jessicaascano9381 3 роки тому
So you guys are single?
@jessicaascano9381
@jessicaascano9381 3 роки тому
@@mubangachisha3041 why?
@dsmay6404
@dsmay6404 3 роки тому
One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic
@munnabhaiyya9515
@munnabhaiyya9515 3 роки тому
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@amrt7755
@amrt7755 3 роки тому
See, that's the problem.
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@arahan_dixit 3 роки тому
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@danial3192
@danial3192 3 роки тому
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@arahan_dixit
@arahan_dixit 3 роки тому
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@kimmin275
@kimmin275 3 роки тому
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@jyotiprakash9774
@jyotiprakash9774 3 роки тому
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@fahimislam2414
@fahimislam2414 3 роки тому
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@Africa96tv
@Africa96tv 3 роки тому
Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.
@michaelmelamed9103
@michaelmelamed9103 2 роки тому
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DO CLAPPING WITH ONE HAND
@asandax6
@asandax6 4 роки тому
The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes
@somiproductions
@somiproductions 3 роки тому
Exactly, like what's the point of this
@thethird2334
@thethird2334 3 роки тому
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@aidanrezvani9295
@aidanrezvani9295 3 роки тому
I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.
@JaiHind-tl7zt
@JaiHind-tl7zt 3 роки тому
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@idig7345
@idig7345 3 роки тому
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@jacksummer4041
@jacksummer4041 3 роки тому
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@podareofficial
@podareofficial 3 роки тому
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@mikeoxlong6851
@mikeoxlong6851 3 роки тому
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@carmenbalko1372
@carmenbalko1372 10 місяців тому
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@ishwindersinghwalia6769
@ishwindersinghwalia6769 3 роки тому
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@tylerdurden2832
@tylerdurden2832 5 років тому
Ok UKposts, I've watched it. You happy?
@tianqihu4756
@tianqihu4756 4 роки тому
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@aadityaacharya5902
@aadityaacharya5902 4 роки тому
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@kartikeyatiwari8661
@kartikeyatiwari8661 3 роки тому
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@jayantchaudhary177
@jayantchaudhary177 3 роки тому
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@notgayatall5454
@notgayatall5454 3 роки тому
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@infidelheretic923
@infidelheretic923 4 роки тому
I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.
@CL-uf9xw
@CL-uf9xw 4 роки тому
@ Infidel Heretic I wonder if you watched this whole thing thinking "She's hot, what did she say?"
@amedina6162
@amedina6162 4 роки тому
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@GypzyJack
@GypzyJack 4 роки тому
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@marvickfranca
@marvickfranca 4 роки тому
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@lelandraymaley3
@lelandraymaley3 4 роки тому
Infidel Heretic I don’t perceive this girl as straight?
@rixseixe
@rixseixe 2 роки тому
Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.
@since1876
@since1876 Рік тому
Hey, man, I'll do my best, but if she can't get there in 2.5 minutes, that's why Jesus invented vibrators.... 🥺
@rajibdhungana
@rajibdhungana 3 роки тому
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@GutsXGriffith
@GutsXGriffith 3 роки тому
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@rajibdhungana
@rajibdhungana 3 роки тому
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@munnabhaiyya9515
@munnabhaiyya9515 3 роки тому
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@jonnymcgrath4816
@jonnymcgrath4816 3 роки тому
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@munnabhaiyya9515
@munnabhaiyya9515 3 роки тому
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@rayana4250
@rayana4250 6 років тому
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@BM-su7kc 6 років тому
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@indobekicot5731
@indobekicot5731 5 років тому
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@Raj-np1sc 5 років тому
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@Cheema_jee 5 років тому
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@lezysul 5 років тому
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@rohitk2390
@rohitk2390 3 роки тому
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@Purple_Neon
@Purple_Neon 3 роки тому
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@raqeebahamedsheikh6634 3 роки тому
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@donj2202 3 роки тому
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@enamouredray5818 3 роки тому
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@parthlohokare1385 3 роки тому
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@samuelido4235
@samuelido4235 2 роки тому
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@asithaperera377 3 роки тому
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@chesslessonswithgaurav7087 3 роки тому
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@hopealive3013 3 роки тому
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@adityapurohit246 3 роки тому
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@rajeev4679 3 роки тому
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@herman3376
@herman3376 3 роки тому
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@Chad_Thundercock
@Chad_Thundercock 6 років тому
She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions. Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor. So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm. Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.
@Newstatejournal1
@Newstatejournal1 6 років тому
Well said!
@robertgabuna355
@robertgabuna355 6 років тому
Rick Cutshall Agree...
@sanjayvasnani4612
@sanjayvasnani4612 6 років тому
Cannot Agree more!
@praneetjoshi8541
@praneetjoshi8541 6 років тому
Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth. It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.
@raymukhtar6806
@raymukhtar6806 6 років тому
Praneet Joshi TRUST me lady, it does NOT take a man 4 minutes. THAT is not science lmfao
@michaelware1649
@michaelware1649 3 роки тому
Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!
@SreyRc
@SreyRc 3 роки тому
Was rather insightful! It takes courage to talk about these topics upfront. Props to her for the lecture!
@commonman8582
@commonman8582 3 роки тому
3:33 me in every presentation
@shubhamsrivastavapngpsbazb5631
@shubhamsrivastavapngpsbazb5631 3 роки тому
That damn true for me too
@thatonespecialfanoflana
@thatonespecialfanoflana 3 роки тому
😂
@TheUltrazone23
@TheUltrazone23 3 роки тому
Is my girlfriend working at UKposts secretly? This was recommended to me!
@richymt20
@richymt20 3 роки тому
Lmaoo the best comment ahahah
@desicryptoguy6090
@desicryptoguy6090 3 роки тому
You just confessed something 😅😂😂😂
@visibleconfusion9513
@visibleconfusion9513 3 роки тому
Gahaha
@motivatevideo
@motivatevideo 3 роки тому
Oh, may be fit on this.
@Prodiggy23
@Prodiggy23 5 років тому
What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.
@camerondiprose1722
@camerondiprose1722 Рік тому
I didn’t see it like that. It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.
@glenwaldrop8166
@glenwaldrop8166 Рік тому
Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience. Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.
@king.2597
@king.2597 Рік тому
That's how many equality discussions are
@vanhau9674
@vanhau9674 7 місяців тому
1st 2nd
@lesliegurley1057
@lesliegurley1057 Рік тому
When it comes to that pressure to have vaginally orgasm, believe me there is pressure on men to make that happen as well. If we are wanting to change societal expectations on women to have a vaginally orgasm we need to change the expectation on men to give her one. A man who fails to do so is typically viewed by society as not being much of a man, even by women.
@0114mercury
@0114mercury Рік тому
"A man who fails to do so is viewed as not being much of a man" - who said that? Never heard of this before.
@lesliegurley1057
@lesliegurley1057 Рік тому
@0114mercury how many times have you heard a man bragging about "banging her so good she never came"? Or when was the last time you heard a woman talking about a guy "rocking her world so good she didn't get off at all"? The truth is you have probably never heard either of those things, and if you have you are definitely one of an astronomically infinitesimal number of people who have, like you and maybe enough others to count on one finger if that many. So, like I said, there is tremendous pressure on men to make it happen.
@user-vw7qe1cf9x
@user-vw7qe1cf9x Рік тому
@@0114mercury r u kidding???? This is a historic standard. And a man who cant, it so looked down upon. Really?
@NoJeansBob
@NoJeansBob 2 роки тому
I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.
@carolgeorge6409
@carolgeorge6409 Рік тому
Agree about the “like”
@kumarsuresh1972
@kumarsuresh1972 Рік тому
I thought this 10 day enjoy funny tests no tests u yes pleasure Inquiry
@seangpinyoung2719
@seangpinyoung2719 5 років тому
Not me,I never fake anymore! The longer you live the more brave and stay true to yourself always! Just tell him! Lol.
@dbsk06
@dbsk06 4 роки тому
IKR lol
@notgayatall5454
@notgayatall5454 3 роки тому
You go girl! Be a part of the solution and not the problem.
@0669able
@0669able 3 роки тому
Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen. Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.
@joeboisselle6856
@joeboisselle6856 2 роки тому
I have never been with a woman that didn't have at least one. Most have had many. My wife has no less that 5 on average. I know that I'm alittle different than most guys but it's just that I like to please and the thanks I get. She loves me I love her. It's a way to show her instead of telling her that I love her. And beleave me she shows me too. Good to see someone talk about this. Maybe things will get better for all. Peace to all .
@20MinutesCZ
@20MinutesCZ 3 роки тому
Loved it. So true. So on point. And the confidence on stage is amazing to watch.
@kmijanakter154
@kmijanakter154 Рік тому
Hi
@th3b0yg
@th3b0yg 6 років тому
I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.
@pladselsker8340
@pladselsker8340 6 років тому
Couldn't say it any better
@MrRedwingsfan16
@MrRedwingsfan16 6 років тому
All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction
@th3b0yg
@th3b0yg 6 років тому
MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.
@emmanuelp.8730
@emmanuelp.8730 6 років тому
Robert Johnson women dont get it.. Somehow they believe that men are mindreaders..
@MrRedwingsfan16
@MrRedwingsfan16 6 років тому
Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.
@hensuwis2160
@hensuwis2160 3 роки тому
Why I am seeing this ? I don't even have a gf .
@notgayatall5454
@notgayatall5454 3 роки тому
It will be helpful in the future.
@HindiFeynman
@HindiFeynman 3 роки тому
@@notgayatall5454 Might Be. 😂
@RoYal-xz5ch
@RoYal-xz5ch 3 роки тому
Just in case
@PAVN.
@PAVN. 3 роки тому
to stay at safer side ; )
@jessicaascano9381
@jessicaascano9381 3 роки тому
go get one
@catkeys6911
@catkeys6911 3 роки тому
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.
@red_Sun24
@red_Sun24 3 роки тому
Simp
@coogarathanase4219
@coogarathanase4219 3 роки тому
Of course shes wrong
@johnjohnson5814
@johnjohnson5814 3 роки тому
Simp
@kushal6065
@kushal6065 3 роки тому
Simp
@generalginger7804
@generalginger7804 3 роки тому
Simp
@aaronmolinafletcher3756
@aaronmolinafletcher3756 3 роки тому
Its a matter of educating and listening each other.
@TNTsundar
@TNTsundar 5 років тому
People don’t quite understand when someone says “It’s hard to satisfy a woman”. I only ask them to watch this video - just once.
@fluttersheesh8884
@fluttersheesh8884 3 роки тому
She actually quotet, that by themselves women and men need approx. equal time amount to reach orgasm. So what are you saying ?
@puppypi9668
@puppypi9668 3 роки тому
@@fluttersheesh8884 I think he's agreeing and saying that he shows people this video to set them straight :')
@retlaw4003
@retlaw4003 3 роки тому
Is there anyone single listening to this?
@mubangachisha3041
@mubangachisha3041 3 роки тому
🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️Here
@jessicaascano9381
@jessicaascano9381 3 роки тому
let's make a group of singles 😂
@moinuddinrehman5539
@moinuddinrehman5539 3 роки тому
😁
@soumil_11
@soumil_11 3 роки тому
@@jessicaascano9381 true😂😂
@user-go9kw6wf4m
@user-go9kw6wf4m 3 роки тому
Me I'm 16
@user-hx6eh1fy1e
@user-hx6eh1fy1e 9 місяців тому
I really appreciate that you gave us such knowledge.i had only moral and spiritual erspective about the gender equality but now you also gave me a scientific perspective
@akiragrant8243
@akiragrant8243 Рік тому
This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.
@sajjadahmad9792
@sajjadahmad9792 Рік тому
Hi Akira how are you
@xavierson795
@xavierson795 10 місяців тому
@@sajjadahmad9792Ola hu Uber
@frankmeintjes5012
@frankmeintjes5012 3 роки тому
Bottom line ladies take control and tell your partner what you want. If he listens he is a wise guy.
@hamzamoussaid4347
@hamzamoussaid4347 3 роки тому
Haha if the women take control of her man she will never have orgasm from him
@seradin8029
@seradin8029 3 роки тому
@@hamzamoussaid4347 what?
@Mia199603
@Mia199603 3 роки тому
They often don't so that's that.
@Nimrodel84
@Nimrodel84 3 роки тому
It's not very easy to say what you want when everything in your life told you that you are not allowed to ask those things.
@frankmeintjes5012
@frankmeintjes5012 3 роки тому
@@Nimrodel84 You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.
@Pikachu-cv4ju
@Pikachu-cv4ju 4 роки тому
Nice session of SEDx...😅
@sauravsuman9384
@sauravsuman9384 3 роки тому
😂😂😂👍
@BIKASHKUMAR-gh7cz
@BIKASHKUMAR-gh7cz 3 роки тому
Creativity level 💯🤣
@ahmedfathi1488
@ahmedfathi1488 3 роки тому
@ABHISHEK AWASTHI Simp 😂🤣
@saidamin4510
@saidamin4510 3 роки тому
She has put out all her anger to her husband in this presentation 😂
@JackJack-sc2od
@JackJack-sc2od 3 роки тому
GODD
@Ouhlyh
@Ouhlyh Рік тому
A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.
@Andre-hm5vo
@Andre-hm5vo Рік тому
Sir join MGTOW it's for the greater good for true sanity in this dysfunctional world.
@umeshvaid8801
@umeshvaid8801 Рік тому
I agree 👍 bro, best of luck 🤠🤞 to everyone, for better Fun
@nellynguma
@nellynguma 2 роки тому
Wow, she's so eloquent. Loved the entire Ted talk. Very insightful 👏👏
@ramona.vargas7298
@ramona.vargas7298 6 років тому
It's a simple case of lack of communication & understanding of the the men & women involved.
@christianschwalbach7561
@christianschwalbach7561 6 років тому
Ramon Vargas pretty much
@amberkosterewa7029
@amberkosterewa7029 6 років тому
Or lack of concern by the male party
@oscarl.3563
@oscarl.3563 6 років тому
Sounds terrible, maybe you need to treat them better.
@SanVB
@SanVB 6 років тому
You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.
@sirgrotto8714
@sirgrotto8714 6 років тому
Jac Debaires I agree as long as everyone communicates and properly then things should be fine.
@johnnyandrew4515
@johnnyandrew4515 3 роки тому
this video's especially recommanded to singles -youtube
@danial3192
@danial3192 3 роки тому
😂😂😂
@macklin15yearsago73
@macklin15yearsago73 3 роки тому
Nice one Johnny ..nice one 👌👌 😂😂
@SullenDaiz
@SullenDaiz 9 місяців тому
I hope it's ok to share, because more people need to hear this.
@psurrett1
@psurrett1 Рік тому
Thank you for this very educational talk Grace!
@h.fenrus2405
@h.fenrus2405 3 роки тому
Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.
@thinkingape7655
@thinkingape7655 6 років тому
I’d be curious to see how Grace’s presentation evolves over the 40+ years. Hopefully she keeps her notes.
@keylas3525
@keylas3525 2 роки тому
That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.
@AryanGaming-ox7xn
@AryanGaming-ox7xn 2 роки тому
Hi keyla
@7minutesofhappiness
@7minutesofhappiness Рік тому
i would rather say it was a superb topic that was covered the important thing is Woman need to demand what makes her happy as men we do what makes us happy and ask her to do , if she will demand in relationship the realtionship will be more stronger
@sh0gun98
@sh0gun98 6 років тому
She's been dating the wrong men.
@Francambe1
@Francambe1 6 років тому
Jason G no doubt about it! 😉
@melindabota1201
@melindabota1201 6 років тому
Jason G she is not talking about herself. Have you missed all the statistics she mentioned?
@rilist23
@rilist23 5 років тому
She wasn’t talking about herself
@RAG718
@RAG718 5 років тому
then why do so much research and spend the time talking like this,, some how someway her wrong men affected her...
@MegaARYARAJ
@MegaARYARAJ 5 років тому
Frustrations u know
@markterrazzino7300
@markterrazzino7300 3 роки тому
In my opinion, my girlfriend's pleasure is more important than mine. without her, I don't get the pleasure.
@Shadow-bx8ri
@Shadow-bx8ri 3 роки тому
Beautiful, brave and benevolent. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Good
@abinothayyilsanoj4182
@abinothayyilsanoj4182 3 роки тому
👍
@stphnmaunsell89
@stphnmaunsell89 3 роки тому
On ya
@ravikiran-os4ik
@ravikiran-os4ik 3 роки тому
That's what a hero do
@stallionshark1726
@stallionshark1726 3 роки тому
Simp
@kundanmishra1792
@kundanmishra1792 3 роки тому
How many teenager are there like me😁.
@DIGGY161
@DIGGY161 3 роки тому
Chup reh
@athuld357
@athuld357 3 роки тому
Ni oru kundan thenne
@debjitghosh7622
@debjitghosh7622 2 роки тому
I am amazed at the way how she presents on this topic! Just amazing
@marysullivan2884
@marysullivan2884 3 роки тому
Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.
@dockysalva7846
@dockysalva7846 2 роки тому
M...
@dockysalva7846
@dockysalva7846 2 роки тому
Eomrning
@WorldofFusion360
@WorldofFusion360 5 років тому
Thanks for the clear explanation . From this I got to what it is? and why it is?
@scaptcha9522
@scaptcha9522 3 роки тому
Really apprecitable step , we must accept the reality and support to the upcoming generation 👍👍
@moodymusic7717
@moodymusic7717 3 роки тому
An artist must not imitate but get inspired to inspire others.
@unstoppablezone4980
@unstoppablezone4980 4 роки тому
Asking for what you want is a great way to get it. :)
@ShortfaceBear
@ShortfaceBear 3 роки тому
First 3 minutes sounded like a lawyer's disclaimer
@ellismartiskainen7729
@ellismartiskainen7729 3 роки тому
yes
@Purple_Neon
@Purple_Neon 3 роки тому
True
@dzfattnutz
@dzfattnutz 3 роки тому
Sadly you pretty much have to do this before you speak about pretty much anything nowadays..
@just83542
@just83542 2 роки тому
@@dzfattnutz woke, cancelled, social justice, yadda yadda...
@faisalshahx
@faisalshahx 2 роки тому
She didn't want to be attacked by the lgbt community
@alanbhattarai
@alanbhattarai 3 роки тому
I need these types of students(Audience) when i teach about reporoductive system
@PsychPerusal
@PsychPerusal 5 місяців тому
this topic is not discussed much but it is very very important. thanks for speaking up on this. i really learned a lot today.
@kolothepanda
@kolothepanda 6 років тому
I believe the disparity lies in communication. As she stated women don't tend to be as vocal about what they want/need to achieve orgasm. While she only provided the side that made the woman out to be the victim (saying they believe it to be an inconvenience, so they don't say anything), she failed to mention a lack of willingness to aid. It's a scenario where either the man is expected to KNOW how to please a woman or just doesn't at all. There are men who don't know and are willing to learn, and there are women who are NOT willing to teach. Obviously, from one side it's hard to view things from the other side. If your partner isn't satisfying you (whether it be long term partner or hookup) HELP THEM satisfy you. TELL THEM what you like. If your desires aren't being met, find someone who will try to meet them.
@vanessaellsworth644
@vanessaellsworth644 6 років тому
J.D. Brown that’s literally what she said lol that men and women BOTH need to communicate more. Did you even watch this video?
@KrisWolf4
@KrisWolf4 6 років тому
J.D. Brown I completely agree!!
@20to1devotchka
@20to1devotchka Рік тому
Women don’t communicate out of fear.. when a woman communicates the man will typically take it as an ego blowing criticism and then his “performance” will suffer. We’ve been taught not only to please men to the point of faking orgasms but to the point where we fear repercussions for expressing our needs.
@user-vw7qe1cf9x
@user-vw7qe1cf9x Рік тому
Are men vocal enough as to express their needs?
@user-vw7qe1cf9x
@user-vw7qe1cf9x Рік тому
@@20to1devotchka absolutely correct. Men NEED and crave respect, not love, as women do. So, criticism does nothing to enhance the relationship. I know this to be true, but, I don't know how to fix the problem.
@caischcer
@caischcer 3 роки тому
3:36 That was weird. Did she sneeze or something? It appeared to me as if she was laughing for a second
@youareconnectingshivamkumar
@youareconnectingshivamkumar 3 роки тому
Because No One is Laughing or Cheering. She feels awkward bcoz no one is giving any sign of emotion.
@ivanbreak
@ivanbreak 3 роки тому
she had an orgasm
@notgayatall5454
@notgayatall5454 3 роки тому
@@ivanbreak Thank you kind sir. For making me laugh.
@hondedtij6761
@hondedtij6761 3 роки тому
She forgot what she was about to say
@freefallwefall
@freefallwefall 3 роки тому
@@hondedtij6761 Agreed. She panicked on stage for a split second before recovering gracefully.
@janhvinarayan1633
@janhvinarayan1633 9 місяців тому
This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@favourw285
@favourw285 2 роки тому
ur such a wise lady... saving pples relationships.enlighting pples future... I really appreciate you.. may u be rewarded with thenks ,love and peace
@masterofgaming7401
@masterofgaming7401 3 роки тому
I like how everyone is so silent.
@Muba7680
@Muba7680 3 роки тому
Yaaa i love that
@gohorarsen5938
@gohorarsen5938 4 роки тому
*LGBTQ HAS LEFT THE CHAT*
@transfornation3187
@transfornation3187 4 роки тому
You forgot 50 extra letters.
@kayceeprag
@kayceeprag 4 роки тому
You forgot to add the I and A. 😂
@tuxmode
@tuxmode 4 роки тому
It's LGBTQABCDEFHIJKMNOPRSUVWXYZ
@lelexoxo303
@lelexoxo303 4 роки тому
James Jucutan Keyboard smash doesn't get you anywhere. Just say LGBT+, done. LGBTQIA+ for long. Tadaaaa, magic.
@jaylolo3716
@jaylolo3716 3 роки тому
@@lelexoxo303 it's not keyboard smash..it's alphabetical
@shubhamyadav160
@shubhamyadav160 3 роки тому
I don't know why Google recommended me this even when it knows that I'm single
@user00774
@user00774 3 роки тому
hmm bhai same
@gym_bob
@gym_bob 2 роки тому
This young woman is very brave! God Bless her.
@mihills4168
@mihills4168 4 роки тому
three words, stamina excitement and the "magic touch" finding the fulfillment satisfaction point.
@Mr.Coldfire421
@Mr.Coldfire421 5 років тому
I'm just here because I'm looking for my pet garry, anyone see him?
@tubbyszabo6586
@tubbyszabo6586 4 роки тому
Yeah, I found him in this video suprisingly at 9:11
@user-pm6uq3nc4s
@user-pm6uq3nc4s 4 роки тому
Spongebob, It has been one year you wrote this comment, I'm worried, have you found your Garry? Lemme know, Thanks.
@christislord7003
@christislord7003 4 роки тому
Hes in the third row and he said this was his problem for a long time coz you were negecting his needs. 🤣
@ramiro94g
@ramiro94g 4 роки тому
He’s under a rock
@Ozen-eu8wb
@Ozen-eu8wb 4 роки тому
Did you find it mate?
@aussiekelamate4609
@aussiekelamate4609 3 роки тому
I'm waiting for my game to be updated whilst watching this , Wohooo
@huntergaming4264
@huntergaming4264 2 роки тому
CHAD😂
@rishabhroy7740
@rishabhroy7740 3 роки тому
Summary:: She was just again talking about equality.....
@tambell6270
@tambell6270 5 років тому
She reminded me of the young girl in “ The Incredibles” movie. 🤗🤗
@thomaswhite4231
@thomaswhite4231 4 роки тому
Violet. Oddly enough, her parents first super suits were red and blue... which makes violet.
@Userykp
@Userykp 4 роки тому
Haha 😂
@josephyoung1803
@josephyoung1803 3 роки тому
@@thomaswhite4231 hey Googleqqaqa~~₩
@radityomuhamad2526
@radityomuhamad2526 3 роки тому
Damn bro! That's right
@cutiejoy12
@cutiejoy12 3 роки тому
Hahahaha
@leticialopes769
@leticialopes769 3 роки тому
it's so sad that the majority of the comment section is literaly from guys that should've learned something from the talk but didn't give a f
@conscious_competence3703
@conscious_competence3703 3 роки тому
Im trying to understand it because i think shes making good points.
@nordlyssrlys6945
@nordlyssrlys6945 3 роки тому
Maybe you're wrong
@echastee
@echastee 3 роки тому
Their takeaway: women better let us know Real takeaway: men should be making orgasm an equal priority and some women won't ask because they don't feel comfortable.
@snehabhat4876
@snehabhat4876 3 роки тому
We need more discussions like this 🔥
@viper4793
@viper4793 2 роки тому
yes!
@peerzadaraies4028
@peerzadaraies4028 2 роки тому
Absolutely yes.. Where from u
@volodymyrzakolodyazhny7740
@volodymyrzakolodyazhny7740 2 роки тому
And, possinly, practice and laboratory works? )
@SaiKiran-en2zm
@SaiKiran-en2zm Рік тому
Wah re wahhh!!! 🤪😜 Yeah absolutely we're educating ourselves and driven by passion for learning new ideas and deep diving into it ...🤝
@alostacet
@alostacet Рік тому
@@peerzadaraies4028 india from she .
@bhaveshkhandelwal575
@bhaveshkhandelwal575 Рік тому
Your explanation is so good and open minded. Love it👍👍👍
@aliciawei4809
@aliciawei4809 5 років тому
This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.
@ebrimasanyang5277
@ebrimasanyang5277 3 місяці тому
Your are right dear
@shadowboxing1729
@shadowboxing1729 6 років тому
With my Peter Griffin's voice "Go on..."
@johnnycalvino7490
@johnnycalvino7490 5 років тому
LoFi Hiphop Channel With my Quagmire voice "giggidy giggidy giggidy".
@tomterah2566
@tomterah2566 5 років тому
I approve of this message.
@nak3dxsnake
@nak3dxsnake 5 років тому
Hahahaha right. I wish she put her email up.
@NewLife-qj9mx
@NewLife-qj9mx 4 роки тому
LOL
@mzmudy
@mzmudy 2 роки тому
Bravo! Love this topic and the wonderful approach to tackling it. For me, my life partner's pleasure and her feeling safe is always the highest priority. The only small thing that didn't get addressed is men that feel embarrassed or ashamed when their female partner does not have an orgasm.. As she talked about, to me this may highlight the need for open and vulnerable communication as a key piece of orgasms for all - i.e. being able to openly tell your partner your needs and carefully listen to theirs.
@martinamitchell7612
@martinamitchell7612 Рік тому
Mark, truly enjoyed your commentary re this Ted Talk. Agree as well that there should be open and honest communication between partners without judgment, disdain or disrespect. I was fortunate enough to have a boyfriend many, many years ago a truly great listener when it came to all things in our relationship. My only regret was it only lasted 2 years. He was offered a teaching position in the UK he could not pass up. He had many great ideas, thoughts etc. that we discussed on this very subject before we were intimately involved with one another. I can remember the conversation as though it happened yesterday. The 1st thing he asked was," What did I like in a man?" I was at first surprised by this, confused by this, because no one had ever asked me before. My 1st answer to him was a man that goes out of his was to make me feel safe. 2nd was a man that goes out of his way to make me feel special. 3rd was a man that was attentive. 4th was a man that was very thoughtful. 5th a man that was filled with chivalry. I got all of the above and so very much more with this amazing man. And my now partner (of 15 +) years does the same.
@emu1028
@emu1028 Рік тому
I haven’t been able to orgasm in over a year . I don’t know what to do - nothing I do seems to bring me pleasure or comfort . I cant be physically intimate because it causes me aching and pain in my head
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up 8 місяців тому
@@martinamitchell7612 Sorry to bother you I just want to ask, about your past boyfriend, it seems you loved him very much, you said your regret is that it didn't last more than two years, so, would you have liked to stay with him till now if you had the chance?
@martinamitchell7612
@martinamitchell7612 8 місяців тому
@@MA-gu2up Yes
@MA-gu2up
@MA-gu2up 8 місяців тому
@@martinamitchell7612 Okay, so will you leave your current boyfriend for him? And if you love him this much, why didn't you try to pursue the continuation of the relationship with him?
@andreasjunga5642
@andreasjunga5642 Рік тому
I think there is a big difference between "taboo" subjects and private subjects. Just because something is not likely to be discussed in plain public, it doesn't automatically mean, that it's a taboo per se.
@junrebs
@junrebs 6 років тому
Good talk but it would be better if she prepared visuals of what she was talking.
@acrowd9796
@acrowd9796 6 років тому
thats what she said
@XXxDarkGotenxXX
@XXxDarkGotenxXX 6 років тому
Love this comment
@zvck808
@zvck808 6 років тому
I know, what you did there ;)
@tanmayp1692
@tanmayp1692 6 років тому
U need a manual well ur partner is the manual listen and explore together she knows what she wants just read the signs just like treasure hunt hot and cold
@rutheragonoy2062
@rutheragonoy2062 6 років тому
Doodle Master watch it on cornhub
@kirtipurohit1237
@kirtipurohit1237 3 роки тому
the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people
@myearsgotyouthsystem8802
@myearsgotyouthsystem8802 3 роки тому
That's what you call emotional attention, cause it's all about equality!
@alexv259
@alexv259 3 роки тому
See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧
@alvinzady764
@alvinzady764 3 роки тому
yeah how are you?
@Akashnow
@Akashnow 3 роки тому
They are relating the talk to themselves 😁
@anmolpandey9173
@anmolpandey9173 3 роки тому
Yeah
@davidchristian2368
@davidchristian2368 3 роки тому
It’s sad that so many men don’t know that the greatest pleasure is giving pleasure.
@vk92007
@vk92007 2 роки тому
Ja na I couldn't agree with more on that!
@ChristThroughTheLens
@ChristThroughTheLens 2 роки тому
Lmao spoken by a man I'd bet a million dollars is circumcised
@vishwamylapur5194
@vishwamylapur5194 Рік тому
Good to listen about being open minded and everyone need to be real n practical . Knowledgable speech.😊
@krishnabasnet7352
@krishnabasnet7352 3 роки тому
So I am basically collecting theoretical knowledge before practical... 💘💘💘
@sabinbasnet587
@sabinbasnet587 3 роки тому
lol
@lucase.crusader1196
@lucase.crusader1196 2 роки тому
lol
@thavoice6374
@thavoice6374 2 роки тому
😂😂😂😂
@leandrog2785
@leandrog2785 2 роки тому
Nothing wrong with that
@N8_R
@N8_R 4 роки тому
0:24 How did she not laugh at that pun in front of all those people?
@rafaelmagana6964
@rafaelmagana6964 3 роки тому
I’m wondering why the audience didn’t laugh? 😂
@mandyjacotin8321
@mandyjacotin8321 2 роки тому
Spot on! This should be required training in high school.
@hollycolotta9859
@hollycolotta9859 2 роки тому
Excellent! Well said. We need more people to talk about this subject! Thank you
@drmuralidharacharya.4167
@drmuralidharacharya.4167 Рік тому
Yes ur right
@magicsinglez
@magicsinglez 4 роки тому
Haha. . .my girlfriend stood up really tall and TOLD me. There’s something more you’re going to have to do down there. . .
@hajyrose5930
@hajyrose5930 4 роки тому
Hahahah she is just awsome
@hajyrose5930
@hajyrose5930 4 роки тому
Hahahah she is just awsome
@Nom1fan
@Nom1fan 3 роки тому
Hahahah she is just awesome
@spyroskanellopoulos1672
@spyroskanellopoulos1672 3 роки тому
Hahahah she is just awesome
@takemeasahydrationreminder662
@takemeasahydrationreminder662 3 роки тому
Hahahah she is just awsome
@MaksimLuzik-mxmz
@MaksimLuzik-mxmz 6 років тому
The issue lies largely in what Grace just briefly mentioned, letting yourself go. Women need to understand their own body and their own needs. What makes you feel good. It is also a fact that a lot less women have tried masturbation compared to same age groups as men. Explore yourself! And in the end, it boils down to communication. If you don't even know what makes you feel good or what makes your peak, then how on earth can you communicate it to your partner, let alone expect that partner knows better than you do.
@waraksabalak2500
@waraksabalak2500 3 роки тому
I dont care what shes talking about but I like the way she's explain.
@YuvrajSingh-qv8yw
@YuvrajSingh-qv8yw 3 роки тому
Simp
@johnnywalker91
@johnnywalker91 3 роки тому
it was a good discussion, i would like to point just one thing. Men and women are one species not two different. Men and women are equal. These differences of gender, colour, country are just mental boundaries existentially they do not exist. we need to treat everyone equally whether it's Men , Women or any other life form. We all are equal, we all are life, we all are conciousness. Down with all the differences.
@shyambalehosur5903
@shyambalehosur5903 3 роки тому
You r so brave, thank you sharing information🙌
@maryammuazucriesofmypen5722
@maryammuazucriesofmypen5722 4 роки тому
Some of the comments here are just weird. Reality has always been hard to intake anyways so i am not surprised😒
@kaaydan9306
@kaaydan9306 4 роки тому
maryam muazu I’m just as surprised
@kayholand_
@kayholand_ 4 роки тому
frustrated males they are...
@peterjandros2173
@peterjandros2173 4 роки тому
THERE IS NO WORD "ANYWAYS." IT'S ANYWAY. NO S.
@lesellen1994
@lesellen1994 4 роки тому
I agree
@grajmerite4889
@grajmerite4889 3 роки тому
Salute for those who came to attend show with parents without knowing topic 😂😂
@armchaireconomist8648
@armchaireconomist8648 2 роки тому
Married Man here, I RING HER BELL SO HARD, I AM SUPRISED THE NEIGHBORS HAVEN'T COMPLAINED ABOUT THE NOISE.
@wickedeternity2002
@wickedeternity2002 3 роки тому
This can be summed up by the movie "Chasing Amy."
@markm.r.9471
@markm.r.9471 3 роки тому
''...COMING OVER THE NEXT FEW MINUTES'' was that no pun intended?
@markpeters3918
@markpeters3918 3 роки тому
Bruh exactly what I thought
@andrewg3768
@andrewg3768 3 роки тому
Exactly I thought of that as a pun straight away ha ha!
@rafaelmagana6964
@rafaelmagana6964 3 роки тому
It was but she noticed that the audience was hella dry and silent
@alpha_centauri_
@alpha_centauri_ 3 роки тому
A must watch video for everyone the day they turn 18 🙏
@brianohamill7236
@brianohamill7236 3 роки тому
Too late
@philosophical2046
@philosophical2046 2 роки тому
We aware and use our knowledge for good will
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