Living in SURVIVAL vs. Living in CREATION - Dr. Joe Dispenza

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After Skool

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bit.ly/Watch_REWIRED_Now with Dr. Joe Dispenza as he brings together his many years of research into the brain and human biology to present the latest findings on what is humanly possible for creating massive transformation in our lives. In fact, you have a supernatural ability to create a new future, in your own image. We are not hardwired to be a certain way for the rest of our lives, nor are we doomed by our genes.
Tune in to this epic Gaia series as Dr. Dispenza reveals the secret formulas for rewiring your brain and building coherence with your being, so that you can move from thinking to doing to being, as a new person in a new future that you have intentionally created. Start your FREE Trial and bit.ly/Watch_REWIRED_Now
Dr. Joe Dispenza, is an international lecturer, researcher, corporate consultant, author, and educator who has been invited to speak in more than 32 countries on five continents. As a lecturer and educator, he is driven by the conviction that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. In his easy-to-understand, encouraging, and compassionate style, he has educated thousands of people, detailing how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes.
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@ashleighmemarzadeh7638
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 роки тому
He literally described childhood - not focusing on your body, time, your possessions etc. This is why I crave my childhood. I want to feel whole and at peace again.
@eliasmekki4238
@eliasmekki4238 3 роки тому
True!
@herekitty791
@herekitty791 3 роки тому
Get a sugardaddy
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 роки тому
@@herekitty791 lmao, I mean, it's an idea! Somehow I don't think an old man buying me fancy things for 'friendship' is going to solve the issue 😂
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 роки тому
@@MrSidReal that's always an idea! Although I've heard some not so great experiences others have had some now I am too scared lol Edit: also, drugs/mushrooms aren't really my thing.
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638
@ashleighmemarzadeh7638 3 роки тому
@@MrSidReal hahaha I had to google what a sea cucumber was 😂
@Alex-jo2oi
@Alex-jo2oi 3 роки тому
I get that childhood-like feeling every now and then. It’s very brief but when I do.. it’s amazing man.
@JoMunianga
@JoMunianga 3 роки тому
Get that as well
@live2seemc863
@live2seemc863 3 роки тому
Same.
@beepboop29283
@beepboop29283 3 роки тому
And it’s so funny bc I’m so much more curious now too similar to how I used to b when I was little
@luvinChrist-nx6ry
@luvinChrist-nx6ry 3 роки тому
Jesus said to inherit the kingdom of God we must become like children... also he says "God has not given us a spirit of fear but of love peace and a sound mind" he also says "do not worry about anything, instead pray about everything, thank God for all he has done, and then you will experience his peace" God bless all. I really like this video, definitely sharing this video.
@live2seemc863
@live2seemc863 3 роки тому
@@luvinChrist-nx6ry Wisdom
@ProfessorIRONS
@ProfessorIRONS Рік тому
I truly believe that depression is your body/mind saying “I’m sick of trying to play this role, it’s not me”’
@ratmon19
@ratmon19 Рік тому
Is more ego who thinks it should have better.
@TheBigdog868
@TheBigdog868 Місяць тому
You are depressed. It means you need deep-rest. Just rest, my friend 🧡
@jean-marclamothe8859
@jean-marclamothe8859 29 днів тому
Depression has been described as a refusal of what it is, a refusal of your situation, a refusal to accept the reality . A part of yourself aka your Ego (who’s not yourself) refuses to accept.
@JillKnapp
@JillKnapp Рік тому
Having our phones connected to social media, plus watching the news (which is designed to rile you up) makes it so hard to escape these thoughts. I deleted Facebook, I turned off all notifications for my apps, and I basically did my best to turn turned my life into 1993 again. It's helped immeasurably. Every once in a while something happens and I'll convince myself I have a need to get back online more consistently, and within a day I'm back to being a stressed out mess who can't sleep. And for what?
@lchervilgilles1
@lchervilgilles1 Рік тому
I love this Jill!
@lorisminibrands
@lorisminibrands Рік тому
I don’t use Facebook much anymore either. Too much negativity
@allihagen1180
@allihagen1180 Рік тому
I am doing the same thing. I leave my phone at work so I can go home and pretend I live in 1975
@RubiAlejandra_
@RubiAlejandra_ Рік тому
I have also done this and it has cured my depression and anxiety significantly! I will be making a video on it soon!
@UnLugubreEquivoco
@UnLugubreEquivoco Рік тому
I'm considering doing the same or at least reduce the social consume
@themovingdance2744
@themovingdance2744 2 роки тому
I cured my stress by going to art exhibitions, painting beautiful tropical flowers and walking on the damp green grass. I feel so much more myself and not so alone …..I loved it.
@topneverstop
@topneverstop Рік тому
Beautiful!!!
@SophiaHawk33
@SophiaHawk33 Рік тому
Grounding is wonderful yes 🙌
@emilemuntinga3794
@emilemuntinga3794 Рік тому
I think this is an example of how you can get out of the stressful state by simply doing things you love, for me it was programming. Suddenly I wasn’t feeling as depressed anymore and started caring for myself once i did something on my own daily that I liked.
@mmaya772
@mmaya772 Рік тому
Yes it it.*👌🏾​@@SophiaHawk33
@Blackman-np8mw
@Blackman-np8mw Рік тому
​@@SophiaHawk33is grounding walking barefoot?
@EddieKM
@EddieKM 3 роки тому
That moment when you get stressed because you hear that stress leads to disease :O
@last5898
@last5898 3 роки тому
a person who can't sit at ease is in a state of dis-ease
@Vibes.d
@Vibes.d 3 роки тому
Just let go bro
@m_tpa
@m_tpa 3 роки тому
yeah what a wonderful idea to help people by talking about an endless amount of problems. thats not how it works morons ^^
@astradivine7278
@astradivine7278 3 роки тому
Ahahahaha
@GurpreetKaur-oy2rc
@GurpreetKaur-oy2rc 3 роки тому
i feel what u said totally....:-P
@leonlee8524
@leonlee8524 Рік тому
I'm disabled and living in my car. Been slowly teaching myself how to do this, and if I can do it while I'm homeless I can definitely do it while I'm back on my feet
@midnighttripper8573
@midnighttripper8573 Рік тому
Much love ram ram
@alecberghoef9223
@alecberghoef9223 Рік тому
You got it man!
@helendancelot
@helendancelot Рік тому
💕💗
@Davidsavage8008
@Davidsavage8008 Рік тому
I'm disabled to and found myself living in my truck...i had to work so hard because I never fit in at work being not white and not brown. I've lost everything . But because I worked 40 years. Plus. I finally can survive.
@adamshredder3142
@adamshredder3142 Рік тому
I hope you get to a nice home someday no one should be living in their car
@TimeWizard727
@TimeWizard727 Рік тому
It took me 11 years to learn all of this collectively and heal from immense traum, disease and a stroke, and I'm only 28, yet I just learned this all in 27 minutes on UKposts. Bless the internet.
@evolveyourself9518
@evolveyourself9518 Рік тому
Don't bless the internet, please. There's far more negative and hell repercussions that you and your brain pays for the internet than the very few positives.
@bunk95
@bunk95 Місяць тому
Are you applying that fiction to anything outside of the fiction itself?
@yeseniareyes538
@yeseniareyes538 3 роки тому
When I am drawing, coloring or sewing I don’t realize time I am zoned out and I love it I enjoy it so much!
@Badgerinthenight
@Badgerinthenight 3 роки тому
I'm a painter and I totally know what you mean. The Buddhists call it "flow".
@folorunshoibrahim6852
@folorunshoibrahim6852 3 роки тому
It's called flow
@trevorfranks69
@trevorfranks69 2 роки тому
Drawing, writing stories, game development... All that good stuff where fun and creativity intertwined together...
@thewanderingartists
@thewanderingartists 2 роки тому
Same
@nautilaz
@nautilaz 2 роки тому
I get that when I'm in the zone playing bass. Out of body experience
@penelope-oe2vr
@penelope-oe2vr 3 роки тому
I have a terminal autoimmune disease and its from being so stressed my whole life, I literally fried my immune system from the stress and working 100+ hours a week at a super high stakes job. And financially taking care of my mom, and others. Too much. It wasn't worth it. Now, I stay to myself and ENJOY my days. Doing what I WANT TO. and it has healed me so much.
@randomhomosapien5798
@randomhomosapien5798 3 роки тому
im so happy for you! :)
@veroniajackson786
@veroniajackson786 3 роки тому
love and light on your journey - our cultures teach too much self denial so we have to get to a state of brokenness to realise we have been doing it wrong.
@elindapitsoulis9932
@elindapitsoulis9932 3 роки тому
That's awesome penelope.. Best continued wishes to you. I have an autoimmune disease, as well, though it's not terminal. I've offset a high percentage of the effects stress has had on me. I've leverage the potential of the brain, like you lessened exposure to energy vampires and changed my food habits. Feel free to contact me through EnergizeYourBrain.org Love chatting with like minded thrivers
@curtisstevenson9950
@curtisstevenson9950 3 роки тому
How can I get my wife to do this
@akyna369
@akyna369 3 роки тому
Tim Hoff breathing and ice cold
@thanhvanle3024
@thanhvanle3024 Рік тому
A mind-blowing video. I used to be that type of student who always rushed in the last hour to study. Last semester, I studied for my final exam a night before the exam date. It was stressful, and I could even hear my body calling for help. Now that I have adapted a new study schedule and actually used it, I'm always a week ahead of the following lecture, and I feel good. Thanks to this video, I understand I used to be addicted to stress. It was scary; you can get out of it as I did. Trust yourself, and pull yourself together. You can do this!
@ratman8441
@ratman8441 Рік тому
I'll try, thanks
@nihilisticnirvana
@nihilisticnirvana Рік тому
i will :)
@renee8906
@renee8906 Рік тому
could u tell me abour ur study schedule? i wanna be ahead too!
@thanhvanle3024
@thanhvanle3024 Рік тому
@@renee8906 it takes place before the semester begins, and can be hectic while preparing, but it’s all worth it. Please give me your email so that I can tell you more about it, if you don’t mind ^^
@wongwailam0221
@wongwailam0221 Рік тому
@@thanhvanle3024 I really want to know your schedule too! I am exactly like you as I am studying for my final exam now, and I am so stressed but weirdly “enjoying” the productive feeling 😢
@sarahthegreat252
@sarahthegreat252 Рік тому
I find that excitement and anxiety evoke the same response. One way I’ve reduced my anxiety over the year was to train my brain into being addicted to optimism and happiness. I let my self feel more excited about things, the small things as well. Like coffee or rain…small inconveniences add excitement to the day. Something embarrassing? It’s not anxiety evoking but something funny to laugh back at
@last5898
@last5898 3 роки тому
"a person who can't sit at ease is in a state of dis-ease" - sadhguru
@tekrina3700
@tekrina3700 3 роки тому
Quote - sadhguru
@hellatze
@hellatze 3 роки тому
Sad Guru
@anshumansah1276
@anshumansah1276 3 роки тому
Jagga ka hagga
@10HW
@10HW 3 роки тому
that dude is a fraud
@last5898
@last5898 3 роки тому
@@10HW yet over 1 million people work with him just volunteerly.
@FaithY3n
@FaithY3n 3 роки тому
Dr Joe Dispenza's book Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself changed my life. I learned to do the meditation he's talking about here and after 6 months I cured my chronic depression and panic attacks.
@azeminaay4971
@azeminaay4971 3 роки тому
thank you for sharing this, I have the book on my shelf and you just gave me the motivation to start reading it!
@staceynoel1620
@staceynoel1620 3 роки тому
Congratulations xx can you tell me what your medication regime was ?
@FaithY3n
@FaithY3n 3 роки тому
@@staceynoel1620 I used to have to take high dosages of Prazosin to be able to sleep, and used to rely on Latuda to curb suicidal ideations. I've been medication free for 3 years now.
@FaithY3n
@FaithY3n 3 роки тому
@@azeminaay4971 Yaaaay do it! Curing my depression was just the beginning. I still do the meditation from that book on other low frequency emotions and everything about my decision making is different. My internal dialogue is unrecognizable from what it used to be--in the best way!
@tamimhusain3376
@tamimhusain3376 3 роки тому
@@FaithY3n Hi there happy to hear that you are in a better place, bless 🙏. I want to ask about the meditation....is it only in the book or something I can find on UKposts?
@myriamalejandra844
@myriamalejandra844 Рік тому
Wow I'm in tears as I'm writing this after watching the whole video. I've been way extremely hard on myself. Time to let things go, let things be, and no more living in survival more. And forgiving myself for being so hard on myself for almost 2 years straight. For all the extreme stress I put on my mind and body. I even feel like I can breathe better. Tysm for this video. Eternally grateful, you explained it so well.
@kaydimarco2802
@kaydimarco2802 Рік тому
Stay strong you got this 💖
@luzikii823
@luzikii823 10 місяців тому
How are things now? You managed to keep up the mindset?
@MindGarden123
@MindGarden123 Місяць тому
I've been living in constant fear and anxiety for two years too! had panic attack for a couple of times. so yes, I understand how you feel. Hope you are fully recovered and find the inner balance.
@SholvaBeats-kn6gw
@SholvaBeats-kn6gw 5 місяців тому
In my 40 years i cannot remember a single day without stress, fear, anxiety and an all consuming anger. I cannot even imagine life without it. I am also constantly sick. Got diabetes, cancer, my lung keeps collapsing, inflammation all the time, bones keep breaking, nerves in my eye are paralyzed and the list goes on. Lost about 45 kilo and i look like a zombie. I wish someone would have taught me these things when i was young. Thanks for this video.
@carougejeune7949
@carougejeune7949 3 місяці тому
Start now you are young 🙏🙏🙏meditations Sending love
@homelessdiaries3950
@homelessdiaries3950 2 місяці тому
Aww I'm happy to see this comment.
@Nivinhachem
@Nivinhachem Місяць тому
It's never too late✨don't lose hope
@MindGarden123
@MindGarden123 Місяць тому
you are only 40 and it's just in time for you to create the new YOU. You will get better !
@milkchan202
@milkchan202 20 днів тому
damn 😭
@mandarinadreux9572
@mandarinadreux9572 2 роки тому
this is the message I tried to get my ex boyfriend to understand, he was so miserable and depressed - you gotta change the way you perceive the world. I tried but in the end, I had to leave. His negativity was starting to take a toll on my mental health. I am an artist normally, my life is painting and drawing. During our relationship, I completely stopped creating. I think this says it all, I was in complete survival mode, giving all of my self to the other person.
@Gahanika
@Gahanika Рік тому
Too bad you could not understand depression is not always about changing perceptions. I suffered from sever depression since I was a kid and worked my ass off to rewire my brain. I have been depression free for 12 years now, however, you sound either very ignorant about depression or very selfish.
@williamburke9947
@williamburke9947 Рік тому
I feel you, my gf/Covid hook up has so much trauma so she is always wielding pain in all aspects of her life. Before we started being a thing, I was running everyday, I was extremely fit, studying/schoolwork 8-10 hours a day and was gardening since those are my studies. I’m now mostly caught up in reminding her to get a doctors help, go find new friend circles/outlets, and stop looking to festivals/drugs as the only release because it is too extreme of an outlet. It’s taking a toll on my sleep cycle with her always watching nostalgia/comfort shows all night. Finding a way to get out of where I am with her, live in a trailer on a piece of land and farm and flow with the long term neurological returns instead of always being in front of a screen.
@alexisbel3452
@alexisbel3452 Рік тому
You can’t change him. He has to want to change himself first
@sarna060
@sarna060 Рік тому
I feel you 🙁
@Khiarika1
@Khiarika1 Рік тому
I had very much the same experience. I'm also an artist. I also had to leave him. It was starting to become exhausting watching him fight imaginary demons. I would go down and try to 'fight' with him, but towards the end it just started to look...silly and unnecessary. I ended up leaving.
@ylowtus8483
@ylowtus8483 3 роки тому
Quote of the year : if you’re going to create something new in your life, you have to crave the unknown!
@sgarrett9446
@sgarrett9446 2 роки тому
Okay. I don't wanna be "supernatural," though. I just wanna be stress-free.
@capitalisa
@capitalisa 2 роки тому
Most impactful statement for me, really resonated.
@anonangel1938
@anonangel1938 2 роки тому
Bruh I had to screenshot this cuz it reminds me of those people who are fearless and mark off shii of their bucket list because they love facing their fears and it’s EMPOWERING 😩
@youbigtubership
@youbigtubership Рік тому
Nice reminder.
@g2tegsown
@g2tegsown 8 місяців тому
This is absolutely profound. I am living in a heightened fear state all the time (anyone who works in IT will know what I am talking about). What I found so amazing is this explains why I am always in such an analytical state. I over analyze everything, right down to the way that people breathe and I "predict" their emotions or intentions in my mind. I desperately need to find the remedy to change my mindset. I lived like this for 42 years of my life and I want the change so badly. Thank you so much for this information, this is helping me to find the right path.
@mahmutsala4523
@mahmutsala4523 7 місяців тому
I can so relate to that 😢
@sgt.freyrpepper1871
@sgt.freyrpepper1871 5 місяців тому
The tech advancements have come rapidly in less than a couple centuries compared to hundreds of thousands of years of adaptation to hunting gathering, then perhaps several thousand years of rapid adaptation to agricultural/pastoral settlements, to now a break neck tech advancements from the enclosure movements to the industrial ages. Since you work IT, that is a profession where the tech exposure is ten fold.
@bunk95
@bunk95 Місяць тому
Are you applying that fiction to something outside of the fiction itself there?
@alexiav3394
@alexiav3394 5 місяців тому
I cured my stress by deleting social media, specially Instagram and tiktok
@alicece3696
@alicece3696 5 днів тому
Instagram is so toxic. Constant stimulation and tempting comparison.
@camillalarosa1996
@camillalarosa1996 3 роки тому
This channel is pure water in the desert. I’m so grateful for it because sometimes, even if I know what is right, I forget about it. I get lost in this life full of alienation. Then I come back here to this channel, and I remember again what it feels to be aware. Thank you
@AfterSkool
@AfterSkool 3 роки тому
Awwww this comment just made my day. Thank you! So glad to be of service!
@thadfreebourn5138
@thadfreebourn5138 3 роки тому
If all would attend after Skool
@mr.melontoyou
@mr.melontoyou 3 роки тому
reinforcement, motivation, inspiration, reprogremming all the things that no longer serve you- remember, rome wasnt built in a day. the fact you are ope n to this is great, you are on the right path, keep your head up, you got this! trust the process.
@cupcakePOWER561
@cupcakePOWER561 3 роки тому
Couldn’t have said it better myself
@ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked
@ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked 3 роки тому
@Ian Corral damn, haters gonna hate. I guess you hate science, meditation, George Carlin, Egypt, Graham Hancock literally changing archaeology views in the archaeology world, you're probably a fascist/statist, etc. Haha.
@randyroche7969
@randyroche7969 3 роки тому
Let's not forget the importance of real food as essential ingredients for our body to make the correct chemicals we need when we need them....
@bootscats366
@bootscats366 3 роки тому
U7
@TrelliessRose
@TrelliessRose 3 роки тому
Yeah, and who can afford real food?
@kylapatriciac.salvador6532
@kylapatriciac.salvador6532 3 роки тому
@@TrelliessRose well, illness is expensive than wellness.
@TrelliessRose
@TrelliessRose 3 роки тому
@@kylapatriciac.salvador6532 Still can't afford proper food.
@suprbonnie
@suprbonnie 3 роки тому
Food is medicine!
@lolpagedied
@lolpagedied 2 роки тому
As a recovering meth addict, I cannot begin to describe how much this video helped me. Knowledge really is power.
@normarodriguez5535
@normarodriguez5535 Рік тому
Many blessings to u!!🙏🙏
@maryprice8458
@maryprice8458 Рік тому
Hang in there buddy, getting sober was one of the best things that ever occured in my life. It is more than worth the struggle bus!
@MMA_CAT
@MMA_CAT Рік тому
Stay Strong and Pray
@AliMeetsWorld
@AliMeetsWorld Рік тому
Supporting you, trying to fight my own sober battles too ❤️
@quogir1
@quogir1 Рік тому
Stay there ,keep goin'. .
@MagickMulatta
@MagickMulatta Рік тому
You can’t control your what happens in the outside world but you can control your inner world love it 🥰 i was feeling so hopeless and depressed over feeling out of control of my life and I can’t afford therapy right now but I swear the universe always gives me the most perfect answers that I need in the divine timing I’m so grateful 🙏🏽
@magicminthm
@magicminthm 3 роки тому
The weirdest thing happened. I listened to this in tje morning and then i moved on with my daily meditation. As i was meditating i felt uncomfortable, my back hurt and it was just not a pleasant feeling. I sat there trying to embrace it. And then i just heard this question ..are you in survival or creation? And as soon as i answered this my body stopped aching, i got relaxed, my breathing got deeper and easier. I am completely in awe of this
@Loopynesss
@Loopynesss 3 роки тому
It already happened to me! It's amazing how powerful our body is
@franz3810
@franz3810 3 роки тому
it's like waking up somehow, it happened to me when I was 17
@thrivinpsilocybin7652
@thrivinpsilocybin7652 3 роки тому
Have any of you been baptized??
@douglascampbell4993
@douglascampbell4993 2 роки тому
Man, I’m 37, only been learning and living the lifestyle of all of this for the last 2 and a half years, but its insane how shit like that just happens every now and then, isn’t it? I had never experienced shit like that in all my life beforehand, it’s like something connected somewhere at some point and now I am gently being lead to where I need to go, just really subtle hints in unexpected moments… haha And about the baptised thing, I know what you’re thinking, and no, it’s nothing like that, hahahaa! I am baptised..
@apologeticministry
@apologeticministry 2 роки тому
@@douglascampbell4993 The holy spirit. A person’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand their own way? Proverbs 20:24 . This is 100% the holy spirit and the voice of God leading and directing your steps.
@nicselectronics81
@nicselectronics81 3 роки тому
I lived in fight or flight for 30 years, starting life at 39. For sure my dad was stuck in survival his whole life and I unfotunately inherited all that crap plus the endless projection onto me and manipulating my mind for his own f-ed up ego.
@squeezetentacles4212
@squeezetentacles4212 3 роки тому
Yup, me too.
@TheMoon12390
@TheMoon12390 3 роки тому
I'm 33 and have bigger crows feet than my grandparents due to this.
@nicselectronics81
@nicselectronics81 3 роки тому
@@tibbyc7674 my "family" (the problem) discarded me, but for the first time since I was a teenager. I can be myself and not be anxious nor have I had a panic attack "knocks on head"
@Dunkit691
@Dunkit691 3 роки тому
@@nicselectronics81 damm ma mang, i could never know how that would be like. Mind my asking, how did you become so indpendet on your self? Even after so much pressure, can only image a closed coke with too many mentos
@nicselectronics81
@nicselectronics81 3 роки тому
@@Dunkit691 I just turned away from people, if I can't trust my family in my mind who else is there? All I got was a punch in the gut for being alive so I learned to do it all alone.
@JR-bi6lg
@JR-bi6lg Рік тому
I lost my dad and my mum and my house before the age of 24 which I just didn’t expect to happen. So because of that I feel like my brain believes any bad can happen. So I’m just living in survival mode preparing for the worst and I’m really trying to get out of it but it’s hard, I’m struggling. But this video definitely makes perfect sense.
@rastamuff1
@rastamuff1 Рік тому
Are you ok?
@allseeingotto2912
@allseeingotto2912 Рік тому
@@ahmoseh3718 I’d certainly like to hear your fathers side of the story .
@jenstorychannel5251
@jenstorychannel5251 Рік тому
I got thread since I was 4 years old from my mentally ill adopted mother that she will die soon and I have to take care of her 2 sons alone and many more abusive growing up! So I carry on the traumatize and stress my whole life! I live in flight and fight mode till these days! Already got physical ill from autoimmune disease.
@beezneez2056
@beezneez2056 Рік тому
Thank you for this. I’m a nurse suffering from extreme burnout. Last week I cried going to work..... and cried when I got home. There’s also stress at home, so no relief. It’s been like this for years, and it’s taken a big toll on my health and happiness. I have a lot of work to do in order to change my thoughts. At least now I see the connection.
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 Рік тому
You need to take car of yourself. It is not egoistic. You need it to survive. Never feel guilty to take your time. Otherwise you will destroy yourself. Sports. Cook. Take a walk. Spend time with your people.
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 Рік тому
Is there anything you have always wanted to do? (Fun not stressful!#)
@peacefulfanpuppylover2311
@peacefulfanpuppylover2311 Рік тому
Please be nice to yourself. Consider taking baths. Using different types of scented soaps. I created a small altar by my door and it brings me lots of peace to light a candle and to light incense. Sometimes I cry it out. Sometimes I just breathe quietly by myself. You are not going crazy. You are human. Sending you so many blessings and prayers for support. And thank you for all of the work you do. I’m rooting for you.
@beezneez2056
@beezneez2056 Рік тому
@@peacefulfanpuppylover2311 Thank you! I appreciate it 💗
@NicolaMaxwell
@NicolaMaxwell Рік тому
@@beezneez2056 It's been proven that transcendental meditation really helps healthcare workers. How are you feeling now?❤💜 I'm trying every day to get rid of stress and anxiety, it helps. Yoga for the body, meditation for the mind. Be selfish this is your life💜
@Virtual-Media
@Virtual-Media 3 роки тому
This video will literally save what's left of my life.
@Virtual-Media
@Virtual-Media 3 роки тому
@Chi Personally It's help me realize why it is I'm always looking for problems to solve. It's addictive and highly stressful.
@dogzer
@dogzer 3 роки тому
@Chi Did you even watch the video? The things you choose to think about put your body in different states. Stress is addictive so you may find yourself thinking over and over about material problems, keeping your body in a state of survival, expecting danger and bad outcomes. That state of mind consumes tons of energy, it's how your body reacts when it's being chased by a predator and other dangers, taking away your body resources to focus on these problems, that often may not even have a short term solution. This state of mind will lower your immune system, make you depressed and reduce your energy. It is a habit you want to revert if you have it. Focus on non material things, think of gratitude for the things you do enjoy in life, stop trying to control every little aspect of your physical world, and be mindful about how much stress you put in your body. If you successfully reduce cortisol in your body by thinking less in material problems, this will improve your immune system, and your body will know it is safe to spend your body resources on being creative and productive.
@doruanadenuran5906
@doruanadenuran5906 3 роки тому
No cap, this video has actually come to me at a point in life were I need it the most, this video has actually made life more manageable alone, Soo glad I came across it
@itzalejandro210
@itzalejandro210 3 роки тому
Learn to create a life where you can live only depending on yourself. No government, job, etc. Eat those electric foods and distilled water. Earthing. Back to basics we go weee
@bradley5788
@bradley5788 3 роки тому
Chi You Apply it to your life
@kateevanz6818
@kateevanz6818 3 роки тому
society makes us depressed. we were born into this society and we dont have to live this way.
@archangelmichael2656
@archangelmichael2656 3 роки тому
fr. this country was literally formed out of greed. (from how the colonists forced the native americans out of THEIR OWN land...its lowkey sad when u dive deep into it)
@somebody2310
@somebody2310 3 роки тому
He just described the phycology of the majority of people in every hood.
@TheCrazyman177
@TheCrazyman177 3 роки тому
@@archangelmichael2656 While I don't disagree your point, what major country has not done unspeakable things to get to where they were now? That's not a justification I just don't get why America gets looked upon as some terrible people who came to power through greed and mass murder, almost every major country did that at one point in time. We were just the most recent.... so maybe that is why.
@archangelmichael2656
@archangelmichael2656 3 роки тому
@@TheCrazyman177 and? we should strive to overcome the negativity and create positivity and prosperity for all. bc lets face it, who WANTS to live in what i would call hell?
@josefmuller1641
@josefmuller1641 3 роки тому
@@archangelmichael2656 no it was formed in opposition of control and greed, that has nothing to do with the explorers and bad people who took advantage of it and did things wrong. Those are the greedy ones that turned this country in a wrong direction
@wru-art
@wru-art Рік тому
This just made me cry. My default state is stress and anxiety. I'm constantly being treated like shit by society, just walking out of my house. Why can't people be nice
@evolveyourself9518
@evolveyourself9518 Рік тому
Thanks for saying this. I'm so tired of the woo-woo culture telling me to be positive. No, the reality is, everytime I leave my house something bad happens to me, or someone's mean to me, or someone lies to me. And no, I'm not paranoid and I'm not being negative.
@ukiyounmei
@ukiyounmei 8 місяців тому
i've been living with ocd, ptsd, complex grief, depression and things of that nature. trauma is inflated by the ruminating process my mind goes through to the point where i spiraled into alcoholism, drug addiction, etc. after sobriety wasn't any better. i had an extremely abusive, and stressful childhood. i feel my mind has never rested a day. i've been in an out of therapy and tried numerous medications from 12-19 years old. i'm now just turning 20 and this was what i've been wrestling with the whole time -- and never knew how to reassure myself of psychosomatic vs. reality vs. what the stress of being this way has made me feel like. i think this saved my life.
@nicholasireland1027
@nicholasireland1027 3 роки тому
Having OCD, my stress response never turns off. I’m so chronically stressed and this is helping me put things in perspective. I’ve done so much meditation but mental illness is real- also leading to more debt and job impairment. Sending love to all of those suffering.
@LotusRiseUp
@LotusRiseUp 3 роки тому
You should listen to abraham hicks. She teaches us how to re-wire our brain into having new thought patterns ultimately changing our reality over time thriugh daily practice. It took me years but I can look back now and see how dramatically my life has changed. And even thiugh it took hears, at least Im not still in the cycle.
@NewEarthAwakening
@NewEarthAwakening 3 роки тому
Look into L-theanine! It’s life-changing for OCD & anxiety, and it puts the brain into calm focused alpha brainwaves while boosting neuroplasticity to help rewire our brains.
@nicholasireland1027
@nicholasireland1027 3 роки тому
@@NewEarthAwakening I actually just started taking it! Weirdly enough, ADHD medication helps so much with my symptoms/executive dysfunction. It can be so bad for Simon people with anxiety though. Also taking L-theanine, NAC and inositol. And trying to reduce stressors. Thanks for the recommendation
@LDuke-pc7kq
@LDuke-pc7kq 2 роки тому
Take high quality ashwagandha daily, it may help you relax natural but it will lower your cortisol levels being produced by stress and protect your health. Kava is also good for anxiety suffers, but make sure you try it safely at home to understand your tolerance and dosings with kava small amounts go a long way. Changing our perspectives also helps, do not allow yourself to believe you can't be healed completely or at least be in a place better than you ever expected, you can. Fear alot of times is a product of feeling unsafe when we were younger, so we try insulate ourselves when we're older with having other manifested issues to create a false structure of 'safety'. Best therapy: destroy fear by doing the things you do fear most, realign your mind that you are safe by proving to your mind and body you are safe by doing those things you fear and proving to yourself you can over come all self-imposed limitations both conscious and subconscious. Hope this helps the person it was meant to find
@JoseSantos-vn4nt
@JoseSantos-vn4nt 2 роки тому
God bless. I had OCD. It doesn’t mean it was easy to leave it (and their will always be some struggle), but I want to share something. A psychology background didn’t help. Jesus did.
@reaper31978
@reaper31978 2 роки тому
It makes so much sense now. I can literally think about one wrong thing and it sends my whole system out of whack.
@bunk95
@bunk95 Місяць тому
Are you using that fiction for something outside of the fiction itself there?
@KingTigh
@KingTigh 2 роки тому
They way he describes being addicted to stress response is mind opening
@krainey
@krainey 2 роки тому
That was what I needed to hear this morning. I have been over thinking lately. In survival... thank you for posting . I really have been enjoying the videos the last few days .
@sergioreyes835
@sergioreyes835 3 роки тому
Min 16:50: “If you keep the same reaction lingering for hours or days, thats called the Mood. If you keep that same refractory period going for weeks to months, thats called the Temperament. If you keep that same emotional reaction going for years on end, thats called the Personality...”
@ninja23cat
@ninja23cat 2 роки тому
This part blew me away!
@johannaklumi
@johannaklumi 3 роки тому
"You can turn on your stress response just by thought alone, you can become addicted to your own thoughts. Your thoughts can literally make you sick." - Wow 😱
@ahmoseh3718
@ahmoseh3718 Рік тому
These concepts are in the Bible ☺
@phamsumi8867
@phamsumi8867 Місяць тому
Because the more you think and be alone, the more it graviates to negative thought
@joymae
@joymae Рік тому
When I was living in Paris I was surrounded by art and creativity. My stress levels were significantly lower
@TinyHouseOfHorrors
@TinyHouseOfHorrors Рік тому
As someone with both these diseases, this was eye opening. I've been working for a yr to get out of survival mode.
@DJPacoRamirez
@DJPacoRamirez Рік тому
Go all organic and alkaline foods. Treat your body like a temple and you'll love the results
@ethiopiazoldyk4667
@ethiopiazoldyk4667 Рік тому
@@DJPacoRamirez sorry to bother you but could you give examples of alkine foods? I used to this more acidic was healther.
@niebieskimotyl3308
@niebieskimotyl3308 Рік тому
There's a diet called GAPS, helps with mental illnesses, arthritis and even autism.
@fuzzylogics139
@fuzzylogics139 Рік тому
‘HRV Breathing’ or Heart Coherence Breathing. You can find it here on youtube. It’s an easy breathing technique that calms your nervous-system. Within 10/20 minutes. Easy, something anyone can do right now, for free. It did nothing short of a miracle for my mental and physical health!
@rebelliouslogic2705
@rebelliouslogic2705 Рік тому
Eye opening huh
@Scottydye
@Scottydye 3 роки тому
I thought that I was addicted to the pain. This affirms my suspicions.
@NosesDea
@NosesDea 3 роки тому
did you start to change your negative mindset? :)
@xiqueira
@xiqueira 3 роки тому
Emdr and flash therapy by an actual therapist can help differentiate actual pain and pain that is expected. If that makes sense.
@valeriah.531
@valeriah.531 3 роки тому
Same! I’m also just addicted to being sad or just feeling sorry for myself
@SamBassComedy
@SamBassComedy 3 роки тому
This is why I started smoking weed often. LIfe too stressful, weed brings me back to normality and the present. BUt now I use meditation to do it and that's way healthier.
@joeker6220
@joeker6220 2 роки тому
Weed + meditation way to go I do weed + oil art painting
@gregbors8364
@gregbors8364 2 роки тому
Use edibles. None of the damaging health effects of smoking
@d1s2l3a4w5
@d1s2l3a4w5 2 роки тому
I do weed and cross stitch and listen to lectures😊
@patymoonkaraoke
@patymoonkaraoke 2 роки тому
Weed, music and gardening. 😎
@ginasteliana5676
@ginasteliana5676 Рік тому
This blew my mind. I’ve learned more about myself in this short video than I have in 37years. Living in creation for me has been my own self healing.
@Weqmn165
@Weqmn165 Рік тому
I have suffered depression , stress and anxiety for the past 8 years and I’m 33 years old women .. I became so sick last year thanks for UKposts I found out I was making my self sick.. It was an aha moment for me .. I learned I have power to make myself sick and have the power to heal my self
@bunk95
@bunk95 Місяць тому
Suffering is fictional. Are you applying that fiction to something outside of the fiction itself there?
@Alexandriafrancescakiel
@Alexandriafrancescakiel 3 роки тому
This also sounds like faith to me. Because when I’ve been more faithful and have problems but I truly pray and give it to God and let it go, I don’t ever think about it again. And I feel free and not stressed. The older I get the harder that is to keep doing, however, because I think I can do it all on my own. Guess that’s what childlike faith means.
@TheCrazyman177
@TheCrazyman177 3 роки тому
I am not a religious person by many standards, but I do think there are innate values and spiritual awareness's that are taught through the community, the faith, and the passion behind religion. Barring any of the terrible greediness and wretchedness that can plague religions. I personally believe down to their fundamental ideals religion is something that everybody should have, and I mean in any kind of form. It does not have to be believing in a "god", but the ability to step outside of your self and the modernistic problems you face, to truly become one with the universe that you live in and the people around you, is something that will bring you a sense of relaxation and wholeness in your life. Accompanying this with a passion in life (whatever that might be) and a yearning desire to grow in every realm of your life. I think many young people have given up religion and the spirituality attached with it, this in my opinion causes a person to be grounded for all of their lives. They are so wrapped up in modern problems that they are not able to see the bigger picture in life and the beauty of it. People have lost the way of our ancestors and think of any generation before the last 200 years and even some after them as inferior when in actuality they had some of the most profound understandings of human nature ever. I think if more people took the time to look into getting into a spiritual mind state and to consume and be consumed by modern society they would feel much happier. All of that being said I am aware that there is tragedy, mental illness, and many other terrible things in life. Life is not perfect and there is sadness, sorrow, and despair. I think the key is to understand that there are horrible things in life that will happen, but you have to do everything in your power to armor yourself up for when that day comes.
@cici3147
@cici3147 3 роки тому
I mean, this is the basis of faith, yes. To believe in something you cannot see, hear, feel, taste.... same concept
@brandonminor1412
@brandonminor1412 3 роки тому
Facts it's easier to text on his promises also watch uplifting entertainment and comedy
@BlackSun6393
@BlackSun6393 3 роки тому
Faith is Guidance.
@squeezetentacles4212
@squeezetentacles4212 3 роки тому
@@TheCrazyman177 I agree, a person can spiritually "free" themselves with or without faith. Religion is not a necessity, if the person feels more comfortable & strong enough to do it on their own. A lot of people don't, though, so doing it through religious faith just provides guidance and makes the changes feel more substantial, consolidated, and real. It's just unfortunate that _organized religion_ has many negatives. It's a lot like meditation...it's very easy to do on your own, and one can learn how to do it properly just educating themselves, either reading about it or watching some instructional videos. Yet there are always gurus and instructors who want to be paid for guiding people through it. Totally unnecessary. A lot of people _want_ instructors and guidance and don't mind paying, and of course those instructors will tell you that you _need them_ so they keep validating themselves.
@mizjohnson123
@mizjohnson123 3 роки тому
NEVER EVER allow anyone or even self trick you into believing that you aren't enough. And end up fighting a life long disease while they party their lives away. Really, never put anyone before YOU. Self Love is the only way you can truly love anyone else unconditionally.
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 Рік тому
Agree.
@tmarie9609
@tmarie9609 Рік тому
This story really resonates with me and going back to school. Thanks so much for sharing. It means more than I can explain. Sending extra positive vibes to you and your wife!
@Ih8tepeople
@Ih8tepeople Рік тому
I have been living with anxiety my whole life when though I am young. This helped me see things from a new perspective. Thank you
@javiervillacorta3847
@javiervillacorta3847 3 роки тому
you mean i should change my gamemode to creative?
@elwoodwarren-kuelgen8874
@elwoodwarren-kuelgen8874 3 роки тому
Nah, just download too many items.
@moogledoodles
@moogledoodles 3 роки тому
Simulation confirmed
@cate3268
@cate3268 3 роки тому
I can tell that You sir, are going to live a long and happy life just from that comment
@samperry8386
@samperry8386 3 роки тому
And change the difficulty settings to Deity
@squid3065
@squid3065 3 роки тому
yes
@stephenhay4878
@stephenhay4878 3 роки тому
This is the best piece of advice ever for any person where attention goes enegry flows
@griffinkennyboy4948
@griffinkennyboy4948 3 роки тому
Why is this the top comment? This is pretty half-baked, and the dude just left it misspelled as "enegry flows". The harvard guy had a way more thoughtful comment and then it disappeared.
@stephenhay4878
@stephenhay4878 3 роки тому
@Ήρθα για να γελάσω με εσένα dont need to be a scientist to have useful information and the placebo effect is a real thing so why wouldnt it work in reverse.
@stephenhay4878
@stephenhay4878 3 роки тому
@@griffinkennyboy4948 that is an alan watts quote. Who was a pretty enlightened guy. Sorry my grammar didnt satisfy you,
@stephenhay4878
@stephenhay4878 3 роки тому
@Ήρθα για να γελάσω με εσένα gonna have to agree to disagree do the Samaritans hotline have scientests manning the phones. Peoples mental health was just fine for thousands of years without science.
@stephenhay4878
@stephenhay4878 3 роки тому
Also why does this video have 24k like and only 397 dislikes must be helping some people.
@-www.chapters.video-
@-www.chapters.video- 8 місяців тому
00:09 Placebo and Nocebo Effects 01:33 Living in a State of Stress 16:05 The impact of emotional reactions on mood, temperament, and personality 19:09 Living in creation and the power of broad focus 23:05 The healing potential of creating coherence in the brain and body 26:36 Introduction to brain wave states and conscious control of brain waves
@nikitaniki19
@nikitaniki19 2 роки тому
The most amazing video ever. Liked and subbed. This explains why a few months ago when I was in survival mode experiencing such intense stress i got sick in my bladder, I was unable to write poetry. Now that im all better my creativity has been amazing
@jakobwhaleart
@jakobwhaleart 3 роки тому
I can't believe this is free to watch. So insightful! Thank you to everyone who put this together for us. I will be revisiting this every now and then until I've internalised the main facts, cos living in creation is exactly what I want to be doing and what I was looking to get help with when searching for a talk like this in the first place.
@tickledonions9483
@tickledonions9483 Рік тому
They get paid by ad revenue obviously
@escher5083
@escher5083 Рік тому
If you are feeling stressed or just want to improve yourself you should check out Stoism. I like this one channel call Einzelger or something he has plenty of great videos on it.
@nitipriyasingh1387
@nitipriyasingh1387 3 роки тому
Every time I don't analyse or think I perform better 💞
@laniya2121
@laniya2121 Рік тому
Thank you so much for this ❤️not only was it insightful but it was easy to understand and very helpful , I watched the video with no pauses or skips and enjoyed every second , I truly appreciate this and thank you because this gave me a lot of insight and advice towards my own spiritual journey ❤️the universe placed this video before us for a reason, keep it up
@ataelbizanti9998
@ataelbizanti9998 Рік тому
I grew up in so much household and war trauma, and now somehow I found myself completing my masters in neuroscience not knowing that in hindsight I was perhaps seeking answers to why I am the way I am. I found the brain fascinating but deep down it was that I wanted to understand my own. Now with the knowledge I have I can attest that the brain is indeed fascinating and capable of so much and is extremely plastic and less concrete than scientists wish to admit. It is sad that the recent narrative has been that mental illnesses are “hardwired chemical imbalances”. A definition that completely stripped a person’s self-autonomy and choice in the matter. We all have a choice and our brains are ready to listen to it and rewire accordingly. We just have to make it. I wish all a blessed existence ❤
@nicoletirado6768
@nicoletirado6768 3 роки тому
I really want my thoughts and stress to not take over my life. I will practice mindfulness because the feeling of being stuck in a situation that you can’t get your mind off of is the worst.
@Virgolove
@Virgolove 3 роки тому
Just have to catch yourself. Pause and change your thought. Reach for better thoughts, ones that make you feel good...
@adg5889
@adg5889 3 роки тому
This was like a hug for a troubled mind
@princessjones34
@princessjones34 3 роки тому
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥺
@hannahh.tarindwa2749
@hannahh.tarindwa2749 Рік тому
I must confess, at some point i thought "This is too idealistic" but he did point out some real things that relate to me, from experience. I am glad that i kept watching this. Thank you, doc!
@sydneycarlson4386
@sydneycarlson4386 Рік тому
The amount of art put into this video is incredible. I couldn’t imagine how long it took. I am so thankful to have stumbled across this video!
@avotydobon2529
@avotydobon2529 3 роки тому
I've have extreme anxiety my whole life. I grew up in placements, after leaving an abusive adopted home. I over came addiction and I really just want to learn to be happy, I'm almost obsessed with self improvement. This is everything, so much help and healing that isn't an unhealthy bs take on what life is supposed to be! Thank you so much! I will be watching this over and over
@kespo5358
@kespo5358 Рік тому
I'm so happy for you! I worked in foster care and it was so difficult to see bad situations unfold in real-time and not be able to really help the kids, knowing if something doesn't change their future kids are basically doomed to repeat the cycle. I wish this self-analyzation and stress reduction was a part of fostering, but I get there are bigger fish to fry in most cases. Perhaps this could be useful in the independent living programs for those who never found permanency and are older.
@onelove_4301
@onelove_4301 Рік тому
I hope you are doing better! Sending hugs..
@iamthefiremanjj
@iamthefiremanjj Рік тому
Anthony d melo read book stop fixing yourself , also quit caffeine
@raycecil4643
@raycecil4643 7 місяців тому
My wife and I have 3 foster girls living with us currently. Im glad I ran across this video, and your comment. Im sad to hear you had an abusive foster home. Take peace knowing there are good homes out there. May you have peace, be healed from your experience, and create positivity wherever you go.
@couttsie
@couttsie Місяць тому
i never went through anything like you did, and still was a permanently anxious child, now a permanently anxious adult. i still haven’t cracked the code to feeling okay, but knowing that someone with so much weight on their shoulders still has the power to try, encourages me to try. i wish u so much happiness x
@Faefair
@Faefair 3 роки тому
I actually started tearing up. I felt so moved to emotions. This was seen in divine timing thank you 💕
@princessjones34
@princessjones34 3 роки тому
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@janelarson1812
@janelarson1812 3 роки тому
Divine timing for me too ✨
@SithCelia
@SithCelia 2 роки тому
I'll second that emotion! I felt like I was crying because of the bad stuff, but then when he switched to talking about living in creation, I had to smile and even laughed a little. I watched this during a rather stressful time myself, when I'm about to move across country with rental stress and previous homelessness lingering in my mind. It's tough to move forward into the unknown and have a little faith to trust things will work out. This video helped nudge me into a healthier direction, I think. I feel better than I did before I started watching it. We are all loved!
@nelsikegaming
@nelsikegaming Рік тому
I don't remember clicking on this video yet here I am watching it. This must be it.
@LumiMartinX
@LumiMartinX Рік тому
Same here!
@ShadeandShadow4ever
@ShadeandShadow4ever Рік тому
11:12 Take ten minutes a day to feel love for life, gratefulness, etc. 7:26 "No organism can live in an emergency state for an extended period of time." (So it is important to turn it off and take time to relax, play video-games, meditate, sleep, etc.)
@pop22pop22
@pop22pop22 Рік тому
Thanks
@noahderstand
@noahderstand Рік тому
This one good explanation of how higher emotions and feeling them, such as gratitude, work in your life. I never really got it before I felt it listening to you. Thanks . Intention + elevated emotion = transformation.
@tpmash
@tpmash 3 роки тому
God bless to anyone reading this! You’ve got this🙏🏽
@Dorasio0
@Dorasio0 3 роки тому
i remember when i was a child i promissed to never have stress because it caused Cancer, but i didnt know what stress was at that time...now i feel it every day
@etiennegrizz1145
@etiennegrizz1145 2 роки тому
I feel so grateful for this video ! This channel is so wholesome, and I enjoy every moment listening to these videos because it lets me feel at peace inside
@susannewilliams
@susannewilliams Рік тому
Brilliant, relieving, validating, encouraging. Very grateful that you took the time to record these things for us.
@Reactionreviewvideoqueen
@Reactionreviewvideoqueen Рік тому
Omg my loving late moms name is Suzanne Williams❤️
@SithCelia
@SithCelia 2 роки тому
I needed to watch this. I'm addicted to drama, or self-doubt, or that stress, though I could not quite put my finger on just why I keep cycling through these same unhealthy thoughts. It reminded me of a shamanic mentor I once worked with who mentioned addictions to other things besides alcohol and drugs, things like self-doubt and drama. Thank you for sharing this!
@KewBlinkla
@KewBlinkla 3 роки тому
What a wonderful thing to stumble across during this unknown time we are living in. Thank you Joe, listening to you feels very natural and wise.
@emmyandboo
@emmyandboo Рік тому
This explains perfectly so much behind how we are as humans. Be patient with others, behind every "Karen", is a stressed, possibly abused, lady in an unhappy marriage - overworked and living off of stress hormones - trying to control every little thing because in all actuality she feels out of control. That is why I'm nice to everyone - unless they're really bad obv.
@jfnoxus
@jfnoxus Рік тому
Diagnosed with a burn out yesterday. This video made things so clear for me. Thank you.
@tianadoucet3106
@tianadoucet3106 3 роки тому
Honestly, this channel is one of the main things that keeps me grounded. Thank you so much for sharing perspectives outside of the "norm".
@themadgamer4571
@themadgamer4571 3 роки тому
I have a friend that yell at their 8 yo kid all the time, about everything. Not doing homework fast enough, not eating all their food, not staying focused on things, cause they are a kid etc... Literally yelling habits about every little thing. They are not bad parents, the kid is not a bad kid, actually really smart and super sweet. But the kid starts to pull her hair and bite herself saying she is a bad kid (I must be bad, cause my parents wouldnt yell at me if I wasnt.) This is stress, poor self esteem and lack of confidence that is *AUTOMATICALLY* developing within the kid, with no bad intention. Just a lack of awareness and proper attention, habits of emotional conditioning being taught. Similar to this, is why a lot of people are at unease with themselves. Even if you are loving parents, be careful. Sticks and stones may break our bones but your words will shape their growing souls, for better or for worse. Then as we grow older we start to contemplate ourselves. Trying to build on a template that was given to us in sections by all the people while we were growing up. A kid doesn't have much of a reason to wonder what might happen to them tomorrow or try to figure out why they are the way they are. A kid doesnt have to try to figure out how to fix or solve their circumstances. They are already at ease with not knowing because they are growing. We don't need to be a kid to be at ease or at peace. We need to be less grown up. Perhaps we have stopped growing, keep on growing without ever being fully grown. No need to know why or how you will grow, just experience it. We will figure out things when needed so stop the NEED to understand anything. Stop interpreting yourself in comparison to others. If you notice something that you are envious of, that is because of interpretation. Find inspiration from it instead and grow towards it, without any mental dialogue about it. Not about how you wish you have it and why it sucks, no dialogue about how or what it must be like, no dialogue about how your life will be better when you get it. When I try to think back to my childhood. I can remember experiences. But that's it! I was a kid growing and just experiencing. A kid has circumstances and an adult has circumstances who worries about them more? Be a person who is growing and just experience, take care of things as they come, not getting ahead of yourself mentally. You may find that we still have this jovial part of us when we are not spending the majority or our time thinking about our circumstances, particularly when we are usually doing things daily that aren't related to them. We just carry it as burden into every moment of our life. Time to let go and be free.
@goodlifesince90
@goodlifesince90 3 роки тому
Thank you so much for this comment. Just what I needed to read
@themadgamer4571
@themadgamer4571 3 роки тому
@@goodlifesince90 Absolutely 🙏
@VICTORIA-M-A
@VICTORIA-M-A 3 роки тому
Very well said. That's why when I found out about this, I tried not to sat anything negative to anybody specially to my children. If I have something that I don't feel good for them , I silently intend for things to work for the greater good
@susanmercurio1060
@susanmercurio1060 Рік тому
Can you try to talk to her to counteract the negativity that she's getting from her parents? (That's child abuse, BTW.)
@lixandraspartan5355
@lixandraspartan5355 Рік тому
Wow, this is the best information I’ve received in a long time. You practically put to word everything I’ve been going through and I couldn’t understand what was going on. I’m changing my life for sure 🤞🏾
@user-zp2ej1wo2g
@user-zp2ej1wo2g 8 місяців тому
This message, being told in many different ways all over - saved my life. Truly. I am renewed.
@Candice7042
@Candice7042 3 роки тому
I am reflecting my childhood a lot recently. Truly I had no focus on body nor the poor conditioned environment and time didn’t Exist. No cell phone to take attention away. All the focus is on day-to-day life itself. No assumption no insistence on how life ought to be. Open to all the changes and new things.
@incog
@incog 2 роки тому
If we never went through the system I believe this state could have never left. It was like it was stripped from us. Forced to live in our futures, especially in school man. You spend a stupidly large majority of your childhood 'preparing' for your economical future. Putting kids in a state of fear if they dont pass, completely putting all children in a deep state of illusion, creating a perfect robot ready to be a slave of the few. We need to make a change, it starts now
@LarissaYounis
@LarissaYounis 3 роки тому
does anyone else get more anxious as they learn more about anxiety lmaoo
@almightyalan8942
@almightyalan8942 3 роки тому
Trust you not the only one bb
@Aishafp
@Aishafp 3 роки тому
@Maseer Ghorab this is very helpful, I never quite looked at it that way. I've been feeling super anxious lately for no apparent reason, but this message really resonated with me. My body is telling me to slow down, stop neglecting the mind/body/spirit connection, and come back to my inner stillness. Yoga and meditation it is!! :)
@awanderingbrooke3926
@awanderingbrooke3926 3 роки тому
Yes lol my heart was beating so fast during this video 😂
@sarahadora4279
@sarahadora4279 3 роки тому
It's a necessary process within self evolution
@sarahadora4279
@sarahadora4279 3 роки тому
It's all a matter of your perspective, and this is a prime example of yourself having a disempowering perspective of your own self, and others. If you had a more "empowering" perspective, you would have immediately thought of how grateful you are to have found this video, for the reason you have the ability to go and work- and fix yourself; before disease and other problems have hit you. This video is a safety net that we're all blessed to have, along with everything else this channel provides (and for FREE)
@JimmyBlackhall
@JimmyBlackhall 5 місяців тому
“The unknown becomes the adventure. Why is that important? Because if we are going to create something new in our life, we have to crave the unknown”
@kawaiilordoftheducks
@kawaiilordoftheducks Рік тому
I’ve been living in survival mode for so long. “When you continue those behaviors for years on end they become a personality trait” yeah that’s why I feel like a shell of a human being, because I’ve just been nothing but negativity and stress for so long that I’ve gotten lost. This journey is so difficult I feel like every time I start going up I end up coming back down.
@karelhoogendoorn
@karelhoogendoorn 3 роки тому
One of the best, if not the best, lectures of Joe Dispenza. Beautifully animated as well. Thank you 🙏🏻
@JamjamVlogs
@JamjamVlogs 3 роки тому
This has been the most informing video i've seen in my entire life to help me with really wanting to get passed my anxiety problems. Thank you so much!
@PiaAmorin
@PiaAmorin 8 місяців тому
I’m learning so much about how I function through this. Thank you for sharing this.
@ashleyclark4701
@ashleyclark4701 Рік тому
This has just blown my mind, I’ve been living in survival mode for the longest time and have recently been found to have hypothyroidism most commonly caused by an autoimmune issue and the prospect of fixing this with my mind set is an incredible concept
@smelskels
@smelskels 3 роки тому
I have myastheniagravis the disease he mentioned and i’m in shock. I’m watching this video and on this journey to heal myself from it and when i heard him say that i was speechless and started to cry lol i asked the universe for a sign and here it is. I am on the path to heal myself from this illness and get my happiness back and start living in creation. Thank you so much for this video.
@Dr.DianaBarrett
@Dr.DianaBarrett Рік тому
My dad also has MG & when he’s completely at peace & enjoying a more balanced life, his symptoms abate. I’ll share this video with him!
@8all8at8once8
@8all8at8once8 Рік тому
Aaaawww ❤️ I hope you’re better already 🤗
@afeb2010
@afeb2010 Рік тому
How are you doing now?? Please share
@FermentedZucchini
@FermentedZucchini Рік тому
You can do it!!!
@Young3blu
@Young3blu Рік тому
How are you doing now?
@alkggkla5643
@alkggkla5643 3 роки тому
I have MS, and I had a horrible abusive childhood from a very young age. Information about these subjects has been helpful in my journey to emotional health and spiritual recovery, and whatever comes after that i can handle
@syncford3726
@syncford3726 2 роки тому
Thank you afterskool and Dr. Joe Dispenza for these invaluable life advice so badly needed in these times.
@kate___lynch
@kate___lynch Рік тому
I read this book!!! I’m so glad someone made a video essay on it to make it more accessible to people.
@davidkonevky7372
@davidkonevky7372 3 роки тому
Wall-E taught me that living the wonders of life is more important than just surviving in auto-pilot
@tylerworrell7866
@tylerworrell7866 3 роки тому
This was so good I had to watch it twice! Thank you so much for posting this.
@julliereyes214
@julliereyes214 Рік тому
This is what the pandemic caused me. Until now, I'm still on Survival Mode. I noticed that whatever I'm feeling physically is gravely affected by the happenings around me. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video. I never thought I needed this. Really, the brain could be so powerful it's terrifying sometimes. Thank you for he enlightenment!! 💓
@eeriebb
@eeriebb Рік тому
this video perfectly describes what I've known and had an epiphany about and have been trying to correctly vocalize all of this to my s/o. But I haven't been able to fully realize the steps I need to take to cause an effect, attain homeostasis and live in energy instead of particles. I know I need to raise my frequency and I am trying to alter my state to that of the "creative" state. Thank you so much for this
@lisathebeautician6489
@lisathebeautician6489 3 роки тому
I relate so much! I’ve been in fight or flight since childhood.
@proteslapower930
@proteslapower930 3 роки тому
Thank you for all of your studies on controlling our physical well-being with our conscious emotional well-being. Not only are you helping me and others but you've also reignited my own perception on this topic.
@vampyrekelli
@vampyrekelli 8 місяців тому
Thank you so much for posting this video! Because it helps me in more ways than you could possibly imagine!!!! I genuinely appreciate this video! ❤
@szaritamordiceai7041
@szaritamordiceai7041 8 місяців тому
I am so grateful that I came across this today-Wednesday August 16th 2023! It is so me and describes almost to a T how I perceive and how I approach anything and all things! A realist-I seek control and ensure that a game plan is always in effect for a desired outcome! I anticipate the worst whilst doing my damnest best so when I obtain a different outcome I simply smile because I am pleasantly surprised..on the other hand however-evidently nothing really surprises me as I plan for the worst-ALWAYS and in ALL WAYS! Fully aware as well that I control my body-I seek quite often according to me to NOT be separate from me from self and to acquire balance because I’ve realized that in so doing I acquire much and all isn’t spent and I am entirely aligned! I had no idea there were researches into this phenomenon but I wholeheartedly embrace and will further explore and practice the methods-as aforementioned I have reaped results. Thanks for the confirmation on my end and the enlightenment as I continue to delve deeper and repair self and soul! Much Appreciated!
@azeminaay4971
@azeminaay4971 3 роки тому
I need to re-watch this to take notes, that is how amazing this talk is 😍😍😍
@unicorngirl8697
@unicorngirl8697 3 роки тому
Ive been thinking the emotion of happiness since watching it yesterday and my mind has already started to reduce my over thinking. I feel peace. I hope i can keep it up!
@aoa3163
@aoa3163 Рік тому
Now this is the type of internet based information I can live for! What a truly remarkable video, I connect with this video soo much! Thanks for the share, immediate sub and will share this info w my loved ones
@sidoineflorefeumba1734
@sidoineflorefeumba1734 Рік тому
An extraordinary detail of stress adaptation and i can relate to it. For my own perspective , self awareness, self regulation and confidence are the key to combat the stressor. The science of the human system is magical and alerts us when we are in tune with it we can survive multiples of dangers.
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