Making Large Age Gap Relationships Work | ZULA Perspectives | EP 26

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“She will come and meet my friends. My friends will call her 'auntie'."
In this episode of ZULA Perspectives, we invited 3 couples down to share how it's like having a large age difference, from how they met and clicked, to hanging out with each others' friends and meeting the family.
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Elaine - / helloelaineoh
Angelo - / daamndude
Gracie - / _gracie1308_
Brendon - / bhja0923
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КОМЕНТАРІ: 346
@ZULAsg
@ZULAsg 3 роки тому
Will you date someone much older or much younger than you? Let us know in the comments!
@izzatimazlan9364
@izzatimazlan9364 3 роки тому
Im married for 2 years. My husband is 46 im 26. Hahaha..
@amandacheong
@amandacheong 3 роки тому
I never thought of being with someone younger than me but end up, I'm with someone that is much younger than me. I guess love surprise us. Age doesn't matter if you have the connection. And just because the guys are older, doesn't mean their maturity level is there yet. Age is just a number.
@pikapikapoy9785
@pikapikapoy9785 3 роки тому
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@ScribbleWithColours
@ScribbleWithColours 3 роки тому
my bf is 30 and im 22 LOL and idrc about the age
@dannytan3909
@dannytan3909 3 роки тому
Make a new video, will you date someone really much older than you. U years is nothing, think content was above 10 or 20 years , that would have been more deep
@hiddenblush
@hiddenblush 3 роки тому
the hand thing was so smooth he played it well
@summerswift13
@summerswift13 3 роки тому
Quite surprised to see John on this episode as all these years he has been pretty private about his love life. Breanna is beautiful and laid back! So cute all the couples hehe
@Heyfen306
@Heyfen306 3 роки тому
John and his gf look like each other
@omarzaifulizan3064
@omarzaifulizan3064 3 роки тому
The funny thing is Elaine and Angelo both look the same age. And they look around 19😂
@TropicalRainMan
@TropicalRainMan 6 днів тому
Lmao no they don't im in college and guaranteed these two don't look 19 they look more like late 20s 😂
@omarzaifulizan3064
@omarzaifulizan3064 5 днів тому
@@TropicalRainMan i already graduated college and still think they look 19 or 20 in this video. They don’t look late 20s at all bruh
@la3714
@la3714 3 роки тому
Everyone here all so cute Sia and the way they interacted with their s/o it’s so cute
@diana.b1059
@diana.b1059 3 роки тому
Brendon looks like a k-oppa. Hahahaha
@Himynamevalerie
@Himynamevalerie 3 роки тому
Angelo and elaine is so cute! I want more of them on screen 😍
@csy897
@csy897 3 роки тому
Lol the “auntie” and “ah boy” very cute.
@subie1019
@subie1019 3 роки тому
Elaine can pull off looking like a 22 yo no worries
@chloelim7993
@chloelim7993 3 роки тому
Elaine’s hair is fabulous and I want it 😭 everyone’s so cute tho
@hyaxinthialine5020
@hyaxinthialine5020 2 роки тому
Well, my mother is 10 years older than my father. And age never became a problem to them as long as one knows how to understand and deal with the other. I see how they love and support each other and they never needed anything else aside from US, their daughters, to make their relationship work. I’m so happy for them anyway for turning silver this year (25th wedding anniversary)! And cheers to all couples who never make their large age gap a problem to conquer in their relationships! 🥂
@angelic.v
@angelic.v Рік тому
Alright I'm feeling good now My bf is 4 years younger than me He is 22
@sujenlee9943
@sujenlee9943 3 роки тому
everyone talking about how cute brendon is but yall- gracie is freaking gorg wtf
@vbstm9917
@vbstm9917 3 роки тому
Her Mouth too big
@ameame8
@ameame8 3 роки тому
Brendon is a trans male?
@berniethedonut9097
@berniethedonut9097 3 роки тому
she is!!
@re-xf5nx
@re-xf5nx 3 роки тому
@@ameame8 wait what legit
@user-kb8zi9so5j
@user-kb8zi9so5j 3 роки тому
attractive couple
@vacuumclean3r
@vacuumclean3r 3 роки тому
gracie and brendon serving visuals
@Tonytayloring
@Tonytayloring 8 місяців тому
Cos he's wearing base and foundation + Loose powder.. Do you want a 'man' with cakey FACE I wonder?
@PrincessSakuno
@PrincessSakuno 3 роки тому
I feel like when it's made into a video with people who are together and presented together, it doesn't feel like a big gap. But i wouldn't naturally gravitate towards someone 7 years older or younger as someone who is 23. Because like John and Elaine, you get vastly different friendship groups on each side due to the age gap, even if the couple doesn't feel a maturity gap the friendship groups will have one. But I'm happy these couples are having something workout for them
@TravisKPHall
@TravisKPHall 2 роки тому
I don't fully agree with you on the friendship aspect because I have close friends who range between 1-10 younger than I am, and well as 1-10 years older, I think you are using the assumption that the individuals only have friends exactly their ages which most likely won't be true
@hydrazine799
@hydrazine799 2 роки тому
@I I And once you get even older, to 30s for example, you will have friends that are 20 or 30 years age difference as well.
@alecrosewell6959
@alecrosewell6959 2 роки тому
@@hydrazine799 30s years is the person a baby?😂 You mean 50s right
@JaneLamb
@JaneLamb 3 роки тому
Wait, how is this large age gap??? 😂 the age gap feels so normal. I mean the video is very cute no doubt as well.
@54hex
@54hex 3 роки тому
Largest age gap ive seen is 20.
@THEremiXFACTOR
@THEremiXFACTOR 3 роки тому
True
@nurayunii
@nurayunii 2 роки тому
@@54hex huh ?!
@hydrazine799
@hydrazine799 2 роки тому
@@54hex Sounds like some hollywood couples.
@54hex
@54hex 2 роки тому
@@hydrazine799 yeah, have you ever heard of the 37 year age gap couple? It’s on tiktok, and I’m speechless haha
@anermila6325
@anermila6325 3 роки тому
Smiling as i was watching this as i could relate. And courtship has its sweet moments indeed.
@noelrobinson2307
@noelrobinson2307 2 роки тому
3:33 - "we both can just switch up" i love that. Taking turns to be the mature one when the situation requires it.
@waeeeezeeeee
@waeeeezeeeee 3 роки тому
Omg i missed out angelo and elaine age at the beginning and the whole time was like thinking angelo is the older one ! Until Elaine voiced out her concern dating him .. I was like eh ? 😅
@mainesobari
@mainesobari 3 роки тому
thanks for this video... yall remind me im so single🤌🤌 sikee i learnt a lot abt couples and their stories are really good!
@lordkent8143
@lordkent8143 2 роки тому
It's so normal to see relationships with men that are 7+ years older than women actually. Naturally, women usually go for older men. It's more interesting to see women that love younger men.
@ivorysooya2786
@ivorysooya2786 2 роки тому
Upto 7-8 y/o age gap is pretty normal,but more than that...
@rachelcookie321
@rachelcookie321 Рік тому
Women dating older men is quite normal. Women tend to mature quicker than men and want to settle down earlier so they find men their own age immature and want to date someone older. But I would still say 5+ age difference when you’re in your 20s is a bit big.
@WholeHeartily
@WholeHeartily Рік тому
I turned 30 almost a month ago, and I’ve been seeing my coworker who’s 10yrs younger… in my opinion he even LOOKS younger than me lol. I asked him if he’d prefer some cute little IG model type his own age, but he’s super persistent and that makes me feel more confident about the situation. Its been a while since I’ve dated because I was in a relationship. This guy gave me some hope with his sweet gentleness and romantic gestures
@angelic.v
@angelic.v Рік тому
Bro we end up finding younger men and dating them only because they shows us more effort compared to older guys
@lordkent8143
@lordkent8143 Рік тому
@@angelic.v a lot of times it's because older guys aren't interested in women their own age group anymore so they don't pursue or try hard. Younger guys are always eager for any girl tbh.
@Jelliemeetsyuki
@Jelliemeetsyuki 3 роки тому
Just 2 words to describe this video: Heart-warming~
@iusebloodaslube7183
@iusebloodaslube7183 3 роки тому
Me and my boyfriend's age gap is 7 years as well! He's very charming and we make each other happy
@ivorysooya2786
@ivorysooya2786 2 роки тому
7 years age gap is pretty normal
@noel6764
@noel6764 2 роки тому
really like brendon and gracie!! brendon gives me chill and mature vibes :)
@sinneruki
@sinneruki 3 роки тому
“ i fought for it “ 👍🏻
@fransiskad189
@fransiskad189 3 роки тому
All of them are so cute!
@nikks4796
@nikks4796 3 роки тому
Wow wow wow. Wait a minute. Brendon got help from his lecturer to find her ig ?!?!? Who’s this lecturer that’s so smooth and cool
@scarj7821
@scarj7821 3 роки тому
pls this video called me single in every languages possible
@nikks4796
@nikks4796 3 роки тому
Damn I got to say. All the couples look cute af. And Elaine is beautiful
@tion9433
@tion9433 3 роки тому
I love this episode !
@venusyap5953
@venusyap5953 2 роки тому
All three beautiful couple and their story. Hope Zulu interview them after 10 years ...that’s would be fun..
@evertonsantos4528
@evertonsantos4528 3 роки тому
Perfect 👏👏👏
@OEL35
@OEL35 3 роки тому
ELAINE IS SUPER SWEET AND PRETTY!!!
@yuzhenaung
@yuzhenaung 3 роки тому
Wow literally visual couple
@guomeimei9405
@guomeimei9405 3 роки тому
I relate to Elaine and Angelo. Going thru the same thing now 🥲
@withamylee
@withamylee 3 роки тому
this is so interesting!!
@resgt8578
@resgt8578 3 роки тому
This video jus reminded me that I’m single 😔
@blessed1704
@blessed1704 9 місяців тому
My parents are 15 years apart (my dad is older) and there are the most lovey-dovey couple I have met in my life. Since young, I had the impression that all couples were so lovey-dovey in life. I feel like age is not a matter but sometimes cause one side is older, there are things where one side cannot understand (maturity)
@felisong
@felisong 3 роки тому
Wonder about an episode with Singaporeans and foreign partners 🤔
@Lukitalukmann
@Lukitalukmann 3 роки тому
Whoah Tsl got a good amount of office couples. Dk, to me it seems weird to date your colleagues 🙂 But I mean love is unpredictable like that right 🙂
@umjikim3118
@umjikim3118 2 роки тому
I don’t think all of them are office couples. I think Elaine and Angelo are the only office couple. Idk about Gracie and Brendon but I know John and Breanna aren’t an office couple :’)
@AppleliciousStory
@AppleliciousStory 2 роки тому
I dated my ex who is 1 year younger than me for 2 years plus. Though in term of maturity I still think I am way more mature, I still think he is great. it's our differences and unforeseen circumstances that make things virtually impossible (plus I decided to break up due to my debilitating mental health). I think if I am able to love someone younger than me so much, I don't think age matters.
@glorialim5697
@glorialim5697 3 роки тому
gracie
@luanferreira921
@luanferreira921 3 роки тому
Ótimo trabalho
@IIblackwidowII
@IIblackwidowII 3 роки тому
Im like John. Im low for my age and im 30 too 😂 1990s are just cool that way 😎
@lendleasereit6797
@lendleasereit6797 3 роки тому
That guy in the green jacket is dam funny hahaha😆
@pepethefrog3651
@pepethefrog3651 3 роки тому
angelo and elaine real cute tho 😍
@alvinterence
@alvinterence 3 роки тому
Age is just a number!
@hydrazine799
@hydrazine799 2 роки тому
As long as both parties are adults haha.
@Bernardjytan
@Bernardjytan 3 роки тому
Key take away here: Either must be handsome, looks mature, maturity in thinking or famous to even move to stage 2.
@WeirdDrinkingBoy
@WeirdDrinkingBoy 3 роки тому
If not handsome, least is give a sense of security mah... At least that's something that men can work for.
@user-kb8zi9so5j
@user-kb8zi9so5j 3 роки тому
so sweet
@batt963
@batt963 3 роки тому
LOL i felt that "Alamak" at 4.48
@alextks93
@alextks93 3 роки тому
Finally John's gf is revealed and it's not Adria 🤣
@AngSu
@AngSu 3 роки тому
I’m 21 and my bf is 31. We have 10 years age gap but doesn’t really feel far away tho.
@xianrenguo4919
@xianrenguo4919 3 роки тому
My wife is 6 years older than me. It really takes alot especially for the family of both parties. Good luck to Angelo
@dynaa4168
@dynaa4168 3 роки тому
What tht don't seem like a large age gap at all
@WholeHeartily
@WholeHeartily Рік тому
Was it awkward to tell your parents?
@yoloyolo1307
@yoloyolo1307 3 роки тому
Taking notes so I can hook up with younger guys...
@tbisurvivor1500
@tbisurvivor1500 2 роки тому
Just 7 years!!! My husband is 30 yrs older than me 🙂
@enyatang5281
@enyatang5281 3 роки тому
brendon looks like jae from day6 ngl
@hiddenblush
@hiddenblush 3 роки тому
u righttt
@kentakicheeken4471
@kentakicheeken4471 3 роки тому
Nothing alike at all. Only his hair. LMAO.
@kyuketsukii96
@kyuketsukii96 3 роки тому
@@kentakicheeken4471 nowadays anyone who do their hair like that can look like any kpop idol lol
@kentakicheeken4471
@kentakicheeken4471 3 роки тому
@@kyuketsukii96 Yeah and the clothing too but his face doesn’t resemble Jae at the slightest. 😂
@uynahh
@uynahh 3 роки тому
HAHAAHA idt they look alike, jae's rocking his maroon, reddish bird nest hair rn and they are of different built LOL
@HelenDiazOfficial
@HelenDiazOfficial 2 роки тому
I am in a 24 year age gap relationship (soon to be married). I'm an old soul though! Love is love.
@CaptainSuperWoman
@CaptainSuperWoman 3 роки тому
Dammit, had a long time crush on Angelo...
@nektin9923
@nektin9923 3 роки тому
My girlfriend is 6 years younger than me and I'm proud of our relationship
@luanferreira921
@luanferreira921 3 роки тому
Belo trabalho
@namelessjr3760
@namelessjr3760 3 роки тому
wait i thought john just broke up or sth, i thought i saw on one of the tsl eatbook video where the best friend control each other food the one john & chow
@Love.RoslynnAria
@Love.RoslynnAria 3 роки тому
Same here, i remembered him mentioning he broke up.
@johnedward7498
@johnedward7498 3 роки тому
Yep i broke up late last year. so yes this is a relatively new relationship.
@rosiebear5596
@rosiebear5596 3 роки тому
aiyo, he broke up late last year and got together with his current gf late last year also... means he joined the dating scene immediately/ a few weeks after he broke up? Rebound much?? 😣😣
@johnedward7498
@johnedward7498 3 роки тому
@@rosiebear5596 in the full interview we actually talked extensively about this. We set a lot of expectations with each other before proceeding into this relationship like knowing what made our previous relationships fail so that we won’t be rushing into something we both are unsure of. I guess time will tell but so far things are going great :)
@kentan0123456789
@kentan0123456789 2 роки тому
Q3 became Q2… Q2 came out twice 🤭🤭
@mysticstrikeforce5957
@mysticstrikeforce5957 2 роки тому
I'm surprised modern dating doesn't know about people back then did date from a large age gap cause some of the younglings was surprised when i told them i knew people who dated like 7 or 10 years apart and there were all fine and i asked kids to ask their parents when they dated and gotten married and come back with a surprise to find out some of their family members or cousins is dating or gotten married about 10 to 7 years apart. But what's funny about my cousins and family is the females are much older then the man they are dating to soon be married or already married. As its actually happening to me right now as i'm always getting attention from older women i never hang out with a younger girl of my age.
@rachelcookie321
@rachelcookie321 Рік тому
I think most people know that in the past it was more common for large age gaps. One set of my great grandparents had a 23 year age gap, another set had a 7 year age gap. I’m unsure about my other great grandparents though. It’s funny though because my grandparents don’t really have an age gap. My paternal grandparents have a 2 year age gap and my maternal grandparents were born the same year. That’s because they met when they were very young though, my maternal grandparents went to youth group together as teenagers.
@mehr430
@mehr430 2 роки тому
My husband and me are 7 years apart. Im 30 and he’s 37. And he’s my best friend. Age difference is never an issue. :)
@ivorysooya2786
@ivorysooya2786 2 роки тому
Yea upto 7-8 years age gap is pretty normal
@haichoo3214
@haichoo3214 3 роки тому
they say soulmates look alike and john and breanna look alike so..😳
@user-ey7rn4qd1i
@user-ey7rn4qd1i 3 роки тому
Well, guese preference look is part of the important role. I'm still single at 32.
@reneday8162
@reneday8162 3 роки тому
Ngl Brendon and Gracie literally look like Korean kpop idols
@gerrikwan7195
@gerrikwan7195 3 роки тому
Cute 😍
@fellyciapeh4059
@fellyciapeh4059 3 роки тому
unofficially dating already make scrapbook and video... steady la but alamak u spoil market for your bros ehhhh HAHAH
@yapolloable
@yapolloable 3 роки тому
dude, that gameboy watch is so cool, where did he get it from?
@daamndude
@daamndude 3 роки тому
asos :)
@hydrazine799
@hydrazine799 2 роки тому
Largest age gap I've seen is 53 years on a UK news outlet, about a 23 y/o man dating 76 y/o grandma.
@sataniseddie
@sataniseddie 2 роки тому
My uncle is 45 when he marry his wife who is only 19. This is what I says as age gap.
@shannonhuiyu
@shannonhuiyu 3 роки тому
Good to know about other couples with big age gap too! My boyfriend is 7 years younger (but I always say 6 because he’s born in Jan and I’m born in Nov 😄). Certainly have had some issues here and there when it comes to me having experienced more. But it’s interesting how he steps up to be more mature than his peers, and how I get to “relive my youth” with him 😄 Thank you for this interesting video!
@Noa......
@Noa...... 3 роки тому
7 is even a large age gap. And it is a normal age gap.
@woshirui-jk3be
@woshirui-jk3be 3 роки тому
7years oldee my father 13 younger than my mom
@donjin5227
@donjin5227 3 роки тому
Gracie is so bubbly and cute oml
@iikxtham7179
@iikxtham7179 2 роки тому
gracie and brendon story damn k drama one leh
@namakutakpenting1929
@namakutakpenting1929 3 роки тому
Don't forget a follow up video, when they break up. A good video with potential millions of views
@UzumakiNaruto-ln9kg
@UzumakiNaruto-ln9kg 2 роки тому
haiya, im single af after watching this
@alimei1983
@alimei1983 3 роки тому
Early!!
@user-vd7uj8vt8e
@user-vd7uj8vt8e 3 роки тому
is gracie from nyp vc i think we same batch
@gouthamanskylark6445
@gouthamanskylark6445 3 роки тому
ive Known angelo in primary school hahahah same class and all
@kentakicheeken4471
@kentakicheeken4471 3 роки тому
Eh, John got new girlfriend already ah?
@zebra2856
@zebra2856 2 роки тому
gracie and brendon like kpop couple lidday
@chifam9265
@chifam9265 2 роки тому
My wife is 11 years older than me. Don't even feel like we have a gap.
@DilaZulfi
@DilaZulfi 3 роки тому
Oooo john got a new gf??
@peterchew846
@peterchew846 3 роки тому
Nice
@tara0911
@tara0911 2 роки тому
omg I was editing my animal crossing videos when I heard ANIMAL CROSSING
@dertravel7720
@dertravel7720 2 роки тому
Big age gap must be over 10 years.
@cookiemonsterzz8815
@cookiemonsterzz8815 3 роки тому
okok we get it we are single
@ninaninaninachannel8375
@ninaninaninachannel8375 3 роки тому
I’m older than my boyfriend by 3 years. It’s big for me. But seeing this, makes me feel much better 🥺
@ninaninaninachannel8375
@ninaninaninachannel8375 2 роки тому
@I I *for me
@ninaninaninachannel8375
@ninaninaninachannel8375 2 роки тому
@I I
@TheAlvinsoh37
@TheAlvinsoh37 3 роки тому
Where to buy tha gameboy watch?
@joiandcookie
@joiandcookie 3 роки тому
Wow my freak John John gf is my age!
@shiminxD
@shiminxD 3 роки тому
Aww
@canweturnbacktime
@canweturnbacktime 2 роки тому
My parents age gap is 18 😂
@jatherinak7330
@jatherinak7330 3 роки тому
first !
@JolindaSmilez
@JolindaSmilez 2 роки тому
Brendon does not look like 27 at all! He looks 20 :o
@libraries144
@libraries144 3 роки тому
Its so weird seeing other ppl complimenting my friend and her bf on a social platform
@sushiroe_
@sushiroe_ 3 роки тому
oh john johns girl friend
@Jan-bg9th
@Jan-bg9th 3 роки тому
Does no one feel Elaine looks like Brie from theclosetlover? Hahaha
@missycheena
@missycheena Рік тому
Now you mention it, she does!! Hahaha
@user-cg4ov1vo7k
@user-cg4ov1vo7k 3 роки тому
7 years is considered large age, lol
@gooddreams8495
@gooddreams8495 3 роки тому
Curious, to you, what is considered large age gap?
@abraham8565
@abraham8565 3 роки тому
For me 10 years is maximum for age gap. 10 above is large.
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