Marty (3/10) Movie CLIP - A Big Night of Heartache (1955) HD

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CLIP DESCRIPTION:
Marty (Ernest Borgnine) tells his mother (Esther Minciotti) that he's just a fat, ugly man and will never find love.
FILM DESCRIPTION:
Paddy Chayefsky's Oscar-winning slice-of-life drama originated as a live 1953 broadcast directed by Delbert Mann on The Philco-Goodyear Television Playhouse starring Rod Steiger and Nancy Marchand. The Hecht-Lancaster movie version, also directed by Mann, replaces the two leads with Ernest Borgnine and Betsy Blair (as well as featuring several soon-to-be-familiar faces, including Jerry Paris, Frank Sutton, and Karen Steele, plus Joe Mantell, Nehemiah Persoff, and Betsy Palmer from the TV version). But it remains otherwise intact, telling of 24 very important hours in the lives of two lonely people. Marty is a bittersweet, sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, and always realistic comedy-drama about Marty Pilletti (Ernest Borgnine), a 34-year-old Bronx butcher. Approaching middle-age as a burly, somewhat overweight man who has no illusions about himself or his attractiveness to women, Marty looks forward to just one thing in life -- buying his boss's butcher shop and trying to make a success in business -- and he's even uncertain about that. A gentle, good-natured man, he lives with his mother (Esther Minciotti), a kind but emotionally smothering woman, in a too-large house and spends his time a small circle of dead-end friends (Joe Mantell, Frank Sutton). One Friday night, Marty's mother convinces him to go to the Stardust Ballroom, where he meets a plain-looking schoolteacher named Clara (Betsy Blair), whose life appears to mirror his own -- she lives with her father, and is frightened about the one prospect she has for advancement in her job. Meeting her after witnessing a humiliating rejection by her blind date, Marty acts on his best impulses and asks Clara to dance, and soon they are actually enjoying each other's company. She is as drawn to him as he is to her, but both are so uncertain about putting themselves at risk emotionally, that the evening almost ends badly when he tries to kiss her -- but they agree to go to talk on the phone and go to a movie the next night. But whatever good feelings he has about Clara are soon threatened by his friends' put-downs of her, and his mother's hostility, driven by her sudden panic that if Marty marries, she'll be left living alone. Marty spends the next day alone and never does call Clara, seemingly having decided that it's best to leave well enough alone. That is, until he takes a good long look at his life, and a listen to his friends -- and he suddenly makes the decision to try for true happiness, wherever it leads.
CREDITS:
TM & © MGM (1955)
Cast: Ernest Borgnine, Esther Minciotti
Director: Delbert Mann
Producers: Paddy Chayefsky, Harold Hecht, Burt Lancaster
Screenwriter: Paddy Chayefsky
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КОМЕНТАРІ: 2 100
@Themaxxrad99
@Themaxxrad99 2 роки тому
"I chased after enough girls in my life, I went to enough dances." A movie made in 1955 is more relatable to me now than any movie made in my time.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Рік тому
@@utunum1799 I don't think so.
@utunum1799
@utunum1799 Рік тому
@@nocturnaljoe9543 Your name is Nocturnal Joe. It's a cool name
@honkhonk5181
@honkhonk5181 Рік тому
Never seen this. Does he end up going to the dance or not?
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Рік тому
​@@honkhonk5181 Yes, he goes. Watch the movie, man.
@clopper3753
@clopper3753 Рік тому
@@honkhonk5181 It's a good film. The actor won an Oscar for it.
@Big_Steve11
@Big_Steve11 3 роки тому
"I don't wanna download Tinder again Ma, I've matched with enough bots, I've been ghosted enough. I don't wanna get hurt no more"
@sledge2742
@sledge2742 2 роки тому
Bro ain't this the truth, I've uninstalled and reinstalled tinder too many times
@harryh875
@harryh875 2 роки тому
😂😂
@harryh875
@harryh875 2 роки тому
@@sledge2742 damn and i though I was the only one having issues with t1nder.... Maybe cause we're just ugliii lol.... Yep we're all ugliii 😂
@sledge2742
@sledge2742 2 роки тому
@@harryh875 nah man its just the way the app works, loadssss of guys swipe almost every semi decent looking girl but girls rarely swipe, so you know, unless you pay for gold youre screwed for matching
@harryh875
@harryh875 2 роки тому
@@sledge2742 lol
@MelancoliaI
@MelancoliaI 4 роки тому
"I got hurt enough. I don't wanna get hurt no more." this is a guided missile to the heart
@varletconstundefined
@varletconstundefined 3 роки тому
I thought i passed the point of being hurt. Oh man i almost cried this whole video explain my current situation
@michaelcornacchione8993
@michaelcornacchione8993 3 роки тому
@@varletconstundefined Been thought it.
@phseong107
@phseong107 3 роки тому
Just dump some flares
@cjrciadt
@cjrciadt 3 роки тому
Not even Airwolfs Sunburst can thrwart that weapon of destruction
@BudokaiTH
@BudokaiTH 2 роки тому
More like an elite sniper's scope
@MrKago1
@MrKago1 2 роки тому
"There comes a point in a man's life where he's gotta face some hard facts. And the fact I gotta face is what ever women want, I ain't got it." I felt that down to the bottom of my soul. Never been able to put it in words so effectively.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Рік тому
How have you been, man?
@dewok2706
@dewok2706 Рік тому
@@nocturnaljoe9543 He's gone, man.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Рік тому
@@dewok2706 How de wok do you know?
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Рік тому
Rip
@TheSeanoops
@TheSeanoops Рік тому
You might not have it now, but you could.
@AdvogadoFalido
@AdvogadoFalido 2 роки тому
Sometimes being alone doesn't hurt as much as being rejected.
@raymundanonuevo4951
@raymundanonuevo4951 2 роки тому
i feel u bro
@AdvogadoFalido
@AdvogadoFalido 2 роки тому
@@raymundanonuevo4951 but the most important thing is being happy with ourselfs, don't mind the past ou the future too much. I hope you guys are fine.
@mart1484
@mart1484 2 роки тому
Still hurts but hurts less my man
@alcoholic2652
@alcoholic2652 2 роки тому
"I set my standards pretty low so I'm never disappointed." - Otis B. Driftwood
@ferd1572
@ferd1572 2 роки тому
@@alcoholic2652 good point
@RickACG
@RickACG 3 роки тому
Do you know what I like about this scene? How after the meltdown he quickly puts the mask back on, like most people hide their true feelings behind a fake smile
@shalariel24
@shalariel24 2 роки тому
I do the same thing, day in, day out… I am fine, I am ok, it is what it is… Living in the motions, and the sad part is… You try to open up and you quickly get shut down, ignored or even betrayed, used or even manipulated… No wonder why some guys can’t take it any more and try to find the nearest and quickest exit… :-(
@Two_Wheel_Therapy
@Two_Wheel_Therapy 2 роки тому
@@shalariel24 You summed it up perfectly.
@robertsullivan7080
@robertsullivan7080 2 роки тому
LaMancha. One reply stated that after his outburst he puts the mask back on. I disagree. Marty fell back on a true 1st generation Italian mother. I was raised with these beautiful people in steel mill towns around Pittsburgh.On Thanksgiving the turkey went uneaten. I remember at the table Mrs. Fratangelo saying,"My sister knows nothing about turkey. It don't wanna digest! I know she wanna poison us all. Toss that bird puts the back door and get the squirrels sick. As with every year, your mama think ahead. Carmella in downstairs oven l gotta big cooker with a real food, pasta, sauce, meatballs, sausage. Get it so we eat real food. Who's idea this stupid bird". That wonderful mother of Marty oozing love, Heya Marty,why you no go to Moonglow Ballroom and dance with the pretty girls. I hear they gota some "hot tomatos there" Marty is so bowled over with his mother's attempt at using a bit of "with it" lingo his hurt melts instantly. I believe l am most pleased with Borgnine winning best actor, #2 is Broderick Crawford for "All the King's Men"
@joeyoung1973
@joeyoung1973 2 роки тому
And there first worry is how others feel dont wana be the source of any pain
@psmpvshorts4600
@psmpvshorts4600 2 роки тому
@@joeyoung1973 can't agree more
@Blank85289
@Blank85289 2 роки тому
Absolutely hate the people that say “oh just love yourself” as if wanting just one singular person on this planet to care about you is to much to ask for.
@derrick.t4031
@derrick.t4031 2 роки тому
Big agree. I hate being told that.
@searchthetruth1981
@searchthetruth1981 2 роки тому
That phrase of : you just gotta love yourself is really hollow There are times in life you like yourself and. There are times i life you hate yourself....and thats just human... Not a single human being can always be in love with him /herself Thats just nonsense...
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 2 роки тому
"Just love yourself" = "I don't like you so you better cope"
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 Рік тому
@@rafaelpais970 "You'll find the one, just wait." = "Shut up and go away."
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 Рік тому
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 They just mean "You better like yourself, because I'm not gonna like you".
@Oorakhhye
@Oorakhhye 3 роки тому
I think the double whammy here for Marty isn’t just him being hurt...but seeing his mom also hurt from him being alone and he feels powerless to do anything about it.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
Nice analysis
@amyaaron7141
@amyaaron7141 2 роки тому
Empathy, which you have or you don't.
@johnsmith-fk7fw
@johnsmith-fk7fw 2 роки тому
idk whether it was intended or just coincidental, but it really shows hes a loser. as you said he feels powerless, but he realizes hes fat and still there stuffing his face
@intimpulliber7376
@intimpulliber7376 2 роки тому
Exactly. Knowing how bad it must be to have a loser son, investing so much money, resources, care and love into one child only for him to turn out a reject filled with anger and angst is so much worse and so much more painful than simply being those things. She wasted her youth, her opportunities, her everything, only to get old while seeing how miserable your son is and being helpless, having no way to help him. Thats what really kills me inside. Not the rejections and personal failures, but the failure of making my mom happy. She deserves the world, and I cant even give her the happiness of a mother seeing her son living his life well.
@derrick.t4031
@derrick.t4031 2 роки тому
@@johnsmith-fk7fw "stuffing his face" he's literally just eating a normal portion of dinner. I know ya hate to hear it, but fat people gotta eat too.
@segevkrespi8609
@segevkrespi8609 Рік тому
The worst part about this is not only you are unhappy because you got rejected multiple times, but you have to live with the feeling of letting your parents down
@RobertEdwinHouse9
@RobertEdwinHouse9 Рік тому
They let you down by creating you
@a-viper19
@a-viper19 Рік тому
@@RobertEdwinHouse9 well, you are taking the easy way out by saying it’s not your fault it’s their fault, that is stupid because you were born the way you are and in a life that god chose for you and now you have free will to do the things you want to do, my advise is stop blaming everybody but yourself because even if your parents didn’t care about you or didn’t buy you the things that you wanted eventually you might get kids so try to do what your parents couldn’t
@RobertEdwinHouse9
@RobertEdwinHouse9 Рік тому
@@a-viper19 cope
@anton_c8gur
@anton_c8gur 10 місяців тому
​@@a-viper19gaslighting... some guys wont even have girl friends what more for kids
@maxmulsanne7054
@maxmulsanne7054 8 місяців тому
Letting your parents down is becoming a career criminal, ripping off family members of money and/or valuables, or killing someone while drunk driving - not because of "failure" of obtaining relationships with people strung-out-on-stupid with their self-inflicted issues of vanity created by our materialistic society.
@smithsj227
@smithsj227 2 роки тому
"Whatever women want, I don't got it"- Wow, that just...really hit home a lot more than I care to admit
@jamesfarnarkler
@jamesfarnarkler 2 роки тому
I've known that about myself for years. It's not something I can control so I don't sweat about it.
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 роки тому
So on behalf of all the good ladies, pls where are the good men cause everyone seems to be claiming they are and we can't find y'all
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 роки тому
@@Heybigsambo to be honest I don't use all these online apps. I think they are so weird.
@tolom9258
@tolom9258 2 роки тому
@@Tebony2 I'm not blaming all women but so many can be so utterly cruel to unattractive men, I've been brutally rejected and humiliated by women so often that I simply gave up going to discos and bars
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 роки тому
@@tolom9258 oh no I'm so sorry. They will surely regret it someday because as one gets older, you realize it's not really about looks anymore. It's more about who treats you well
@neganOG
@neganOG Рік тому
"you are not ugly" every mom says that trying to make their kids feel better about themselves but that just hurts a lot more cuz we know that ain't true
@Gigaover
@Gigaover 11 місяців тому
Facts
@Chess_Enthusiast
@Chess_Enthusiast 10 місяців тому
My mom is savage she doesn't give a damn and tell me the truth right in front of my face.
@neganOG
@neganOG 10 місяців тому
@@Chess_Enthusiast i wish my mom was that honest to me
@Chess_Enthusiast
@Chess_Enthusiast 10 місяців тому
@@neganOG I don't think you actually want that. It's brutal if you are young. Now I am 20 and have accepted my fate so telling me stuff like that is like beating a dead horse. I just cope on daily basis so I don't rope.
@Grandmaster-Kush
@Grandmaster-Kush 10 місяців тому
@@Chess_Enthusiast Same here, ugly from a beautiful family, i've been told since day 1 I was ugly and unplanned, still had hopes for some sort of love but now i'm in my mid 20's and I gave up, saving for a house in the woods so I can be alone.
@MrWesdotcom-WesWall
@MrWesdotcom-WesWall 6 років тому
As a fellow fat ugly man, this scene gets me teary eyed every time. Love this movie
@somethingyousaid5059
@somethingyousaid5059 5 років тому
@Waterlec I replayed the video more than once, but I didn't hear him say "My dad looked like a gorilla". Even so, I would have laughed at that too.
@NoSalvation2220
@NoSalvation2220 5 років тому
@@somethingyousaid5059 That line isn't in this clip, though it is in the movie.
@MrWesdotcom-WesWall
@MrWesdotcom-WesWall 3 роки тому
@@coolcat1684 Very very true. More people desperately need that viewpoint
@lukebruce5234
@lukebruce5234 3 роки тому
@@coolcat1684 lies
@Pyamamannetje
@Pyamamannetje 3 роки тому
Have you tried not being fat?
@resmith66
@resmith66 3 роки тому
The most powerful and devastating scene in the film. Marty's words of frustration, resignation and pain tears into your soul.
@briankearsey1836
@briankearsey1836 3 роки тому
This scene had a monumental impact on me when I saw it years after I lived "Lord of the Flies" in Catholic school, and my heart still breaks every time I see it. I'm not disparaging the church - my wife's experiences in government schools was worse because they didn't pretend to aspire (don't get me started on etymology - ponder that the root of aspire seems to be related to inspire, i.e. literally breath in the life force) to any higher authority other than the gov't, whereas I got to live the stark dichotomy of promoting Godly virtues while allowing the seeds of endless scenes such as this to be planted and nurtured right under the blind eyes of the nuns. I'm blessed for the dark experience that opened my spiritual eye and made me the teacher I've been in my 40+ years teaching in rebel private schools I ran that put emotional intelligence on par with (actually above) intellectual development. I shared this clip and my experience with many high school students over the decades...
@joselaw6669
@joselaw6669 3 роки тому
@@briankearsey1836 You are living the life!
@jmw9904
@jmw9904 2 роки тому
Maybe not in just this film, but more so than a lot of the modern day movies too.
@lepetitchat123
@lepetitchat123 Рік тому
What gets me about this film is how selfish the people around marty are. They only think of themselves, never what makes Marty happy.
@raidenjack_tr8789
@raidenjack_tr8789 Рік тому
Every men and males that are already been through it also feel the same
@ethanjensen7967
@ethanjensen7967 Рік тому
There are so many men out there who have been rejected their whole life and feel worthless. And then they're blamed for society's problems.
@xt4977
@xt4977 Рік тому
Well men like this are seen as disgusting and evil so it's understandable why they are blamed
@maliknova6063
@maliknova6063 Рік тому
@@xt4977 How is it understandable?
@gatoloco3949
@gatoloco3949 5 місяців тому
​@@xt4977Yeah I'm sure these short grotesque men are so dangerous to America. 😂😂😂
@RG-qc7dh
@RG-qc7dh 3 місяці тому
What about women dude
@ethanjensen7967
@ethanjensen7967 3 місяці тому
@@RG-qc7dh yes, women too
@JamieStallingsworth
@JamieStallingsworth 7 років тому
what a great actor he was.
@sublimeaudio
@sublimeaudio 7 років тому
and person too.
@fodsaks
@fodsaks 4 роки тому
He was truly brilliant.
@MrPSP-ry1qn
@MrPSP-ry1qn Рік тому
A movie scene from 67 years ago relatable to my 20 year old self. This scene is a truly masterpiece.
@simsportif
@simsportif Рік тому
Because what was true 67 years ago still holds true today, even more so now that the dating scene is like london after the blitz.
@CrewDrastically
@CrewDrastically Рік тому
Was your name inspired by Sony PSP?
@MrPSP-ry1qn
@MrPSP-ry1qn Рік тому
@@CrewDrastically actually thats first letters of my lastname and middle name combined. People call me firstname_PSP
@wierd774
@wierd774 8 місяців тому
You’re 20 my man. Plenty of time.
@that-guy213
@that-guy213 7 місяців тому
​@@wierd774yep plenty of time to get hurt constantly and rejected don't give a man false hope for he will run with it a come out the other side with war scars
@patorikum
@patorikum 3 роки тому
it's sad how many men these days life this scene over and over again.
@patorikum
@patorikum 3 роки тому
@@harryh875 what why? those are sexdolls? why would I look them up?
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 роки тому
@@patorikum trust me bro, once you see them your jaw will drop to the ground.
@thekittenfreakify
@thekittenfreakify 2 роки тому
@@harryh875 those dolls look pathetic.
@harryh875
@harryh875 2 роки тому
@@thekittenfreakify well if you're not on the same boat as Marty then these d0lls wouldnt obviously matter to you cause you can easily get the real thing lol. But these d0lls aren't pathetic at all, they're incredible and can k1ll the lonely feeling for ugliii mennn
@thekittenfreakify
@thekittenfreakify 2 роки тому
@@harryh875 outside of the social thing. They just look horrible. They need more work.
@diegoviniciomejiaquesada4754
@diegoviniciomejiaquesada4754 2 роки тому
After more than 6 decades later this scene summarices the emotional and romantic situation of many of us.
@NoBonesNoLife
@NoBonesNoLife Рік тому
It’s over for many men
@HypnoChode74
@HypnoChode74 Рік тому
@@NoBonesNoLifefeminism truly killed it for everyone
@RG-qc7dh
@RG-qc7dh 3 місяці тому
​@@HypnoChode74wtf are you talking about? Feminism has nothing to do with this, I'm a woman and i relate to all of this
@1994g0
@1994g0 Місяць тому
@@RG-qc7dh Feminism indeed has nothing to do w this. Marty`s plight comes from a worldwide belief and practice of emphasizing physical appearance.Woe unto the person -male or female- who is ugly.A life of rejection, lonliness and humiliation awaits you.
@bighuge1060
@bighuge1060 Рік тому
I love Marty patting his mother's wrist to let her know he appreciated her.
@lordtrill7731
@lordtrill7731 10 місяців тому
Yeah, To show her he felt bad about raising his voice
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 5 років тому
This scene was the screen test. After the scene the men there were crying and he knew he got the part.
@coalblack666
@coalblack666 4 роки тому
Susan B just saw that interview! That’s what brought me here!
@steveconkey7362
@steveconkey7362 3 роки тому
He came from the set of Bad Day at Black Rock to read it in a hotel room.
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 3 роки тому
@@steveconkey7362 I just saw the interview where he said Spencer Tracy told him he'd get the part and he did and he also beat him at the Oscars.
@ferskay
@ferskay 3 роки тому
Is that actually true?
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 3 роки тому
@@ferskay Yes. But this is a scene from the movie and not the screen test. I heard everything from Ernest Borgnine (Marty) interviews.
@justcallmechris3987
@justcallmechris3987 7 місяців тому
Never did I think I would be relating to a 1955 movie so much in 2023
@ulysses4989
@ulysses4989 3 роки тому
*Whatever it is that women like, I ain't got it.*
@lorgaraurelian4076
@lorgaraurelian4076 3 роки тому
WiitwLiagi
@enriquearellano3643
@enriquearellano3643 3 роки тому
Chad genes.
@Diz2Drippy
@Diz2Drippy 3 роки тому
Felt that on a spiritual level
@Jonathan-dg6ey
@Jonathan-dg6ey 2 роки тому
@@enriquearellano3643 Yup
@alanrogs3990
@alanrogs3990 2 роки тому
Fact
@InsideUCLA71
@InsideUCLA71 7 років тому
The way he tears away after saying "a big night of heartache" is one of my favorite things an actor has ever done on film. You can't teach that.
@virginiaclark2476
@virginiaclark2476 3 роки тому
Wow. And I thought only women felt that way- still single women
@johnmilius3031
@johnmilius3031 3 роки тому
@@virginiaclark2476 Are you kidding? Women never suffer loneliness like men do. Nobody cares about men, not even other men.
@danyyilbun6736
@danyyilbun6736 2 роки тому
@@virginiaclark2476 interesting, you get this feeling? I always wondered, but kinda harsh, I mean most girls are somewhat attractive, like guys would be interested in relationships with them maybe, while many guys don't have that choice
@destructivebean1
@destructivebean1 2 роки тому
@@johnmilius3031 our generation is changing that. Always check up on your boys
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 2 роки тому
@@virginiaclark2476 POV: You have 0 social awareness.
@Charon58
@Charon58 3 роки тому
When he read for the role, this was the scene they had him read. He said later that he knew he had the part when he looked up after reading it and director Delbert Mann had tears in his eyes.
@innitmate6574
@innitmate6574 3 роки тому
Hi, do you have a link of the audition video, i really want to see that, thanks
@TheSaintRevolver
@TheSaintRevolver 3 роки тому
Also after they stopped their tears everyone clapped
@jasongarcia8893
@jasongarcia8893 3 роки тому
@@TheSaintRevolver i mean the story is true
@anthonymead4359
@anthonymead4359 Рік тому
I'm not surprised. Watch bad day at black rock and you see his massive potential coming to the boil. Marty was perfect timing!
@lightmage2968
@lightmage2968 6 місяців тому
I keep coming back to this video... only time I ever feel like someone really understands me.... it hurts, it hurts so damn much
@ashiqahamed7740
@ashiqahamed7740 6 місяців тому
Yup same feeling
@em23
@em23 4 місяці тому
I wish you well. I know this feeling.
@dsztiger3158
@dsztiger3158 Рік тому
At 34 with no relationship ever I resonate Marty's feeling. Tried to put my heart out with pure intentions to every girl i spoke or went on date, but only ended up hurting myself. Some girl's don't reply, some only want to chat, some will never meet and those who meet will never want to meet again . I guess some guys like us have to accept that starting a relationship, family are not for us . Sooner we accept this , we can save our self from more humiliation and pain. I hope all guys like Marty out there who are seeking their companion, may they find peace and purpose in their life's.
@japanesesamurai4945
@japanesesamurai4945 Рік тому
The thing is that i can accept it, but deep inside i will never be able to get rid of the need to be loved
@RiruKrypto_
@RiruKrypto_ Рік тому
@@japanesesamurai4945 pets might cure that but you gotta take care of it.
@bornanime3255
@bornanime3255 11 місяців тому
Thanks for the heads up man. Was thinking of giving up on relationships too. Still young right now, but always did know it's a life I wasn't meant to have. At the very least I want to embrace that fact. It's tough.
@nin5057
@nin5057 11 місяців тому
You only think about this scene but have you seen the end of the movie
@JamesGalaxy41
@JamesGalaxy41 11 місяців тому
​@@RiruKrypto_ yeah exactly! So what if I never have a partner? I can always have a companion
@Gangstalker88
@Gangstalker88 4 місяці тому
Marty is a bit of all of us. Im saying this as a 30 yr old who lives with his mom
@Alien_DNA_
@Alien_DNA_ 4 місяці тому
Same
@SaundersE5
@SaundersE5 4 місяці тому
@@Alien_DNA_stop that, there’s a nice girl got you
@mrariffunny1111
@mrariffunny1111 4 місяці тому
Same
@EliHank
@EliHank 4 місяці тому
I'll be 30 on the 2nd of February and I'm in the same boat as you brother. Never had a girlfriend and never will.
@Alien_DNA_
@Alien_DNA_ 4 місяці тому
@@EliHank we have to stick together were the only ones who understand each other
@CarlosEmilioEsq
@CarlosEmilioEsq 3 роки тому
Two and a half minutes of genius. Marty getting a kick out of his mother suggesting, or even knowing about the Stardust Ballroom. Then nonchalantly confessing to her that he's accepted that he'll always be a bachelor. After she persists, confessing out loud all of the years of hurt and rejection he's already endured in silence. To finally losing his temper and revealing to her his insecurities and his "heartache." After bearing his soul, I love how he taps his mother's arm as if to apologize for having yelled at her, or having shared his burden with her. Comforting her even though he's the one in pain. And chuckling again about the Stardust Ballroom being loaded with tomatoes. After that emotional roller coaster, he puts on his blue suit and does what his mother says and goes out dancing.
@kidkieran77
@kidkieran77 2 роки тому
So much in just 2 and a half minutes. It captures what life is like as a self-aware average/below average dude. Not just when it comes to dating but so many other aspects too
@29subhra
@29subhra 2 роки тому
A mother's love for her son is unreasonable
@giovannicosaro9456
@giovannicosaro9456 Рік тому
A lot of guys feel like that
@westy229
@westy229 Рік тому
It's lucky to even have a mother have so much faith in an ugly bug of a son. They're either wrapped up in so much delusion to not see what the rest of the world sees or genuinely love something unlovable and just wish that thing shared the same love of life. Not Marty of course just felt this scene was too real and related to it.
@Josh-fp2qn
@Josh-fp2qn 8 місяців тому
Great now I don’t have to watch the film clip.
@TheDarkGraven
@TheDarkGraven 2 роки тому
As someone who has tried time and time again to find a girl, to put my heart out there only to have it stomped, crushed, or tossed aside, this resonates with me. People ask me why I am still single... I don't wanna be, I want someone to share everything that brings me joy, I want someone to love and to hold through those long nights. But life isn't like the movies, its not like the books, its a cold miserable place and we don't get what we want. We never find the one true love, we deal with heart break over and over again till we grow so sick of it we either settle with someone we don't love or we just stop trying. All we can do is keep it together and cling to the few social connections that keep us from ending it all.
@ghostfacedude93
@ghostfacedude93 2 роки тому
I feel the same way. I hate life
@idunno1471
@idunno1471 2 роки тому
Looks are everything
@darksider2903
@darksider2903 2 роки тому
@@idunno1471 nope. Money and power is everything. With these, everything is available
@idunno1471
@idunno1471 2 роки тому
@@darksider2903 yes you'll get fake love from women. Or if you had a decent base you could use surgery to make urself gl
@darksider2903
@darksider2903 2 роки тому
@@idunno1471 women loves you as long as you can provide enough. In the end all comes down to Money and wealth. You shouldn't expect true love from any women. Only a mom loves her son, nowadays that too getting ruined by so called feminism
@sni18per
@sni18per Рік тому
whats even more emotional than his heartbreaking internal struggle, is the fact that even when he is sad and angry about his situation, he still made sure not to storm out or yell att his mom to make her upset or sad. instead he sits down, despite all the pain he is going through, claps his moms hand to show compassion and proceeds to eat his dinner while making a joke to lighten up the mood. what a chad
@Loewemon25
@Loewemon25 9 місяців тому
It all built up and the pressure valve release and once he could he slammed that mask back in place. I know the technique well. No one teaches it but every man knows it to some extent
@EliHank
@EliHank Рік тому
One of the most Black Pilled videos i've ever seen and it's from 1955...wow. I feel you Marty....I really do. Never began for people like us
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Рік тому
It’s kind of amazing that this phenomenon always existed.
@Josh-fp2qn
@Josh-fp2qn 8 місяців тому
Yeah, but it has only gotten worse for the average man.
@jackspry9736
@jackspry9736 Рік тому
RIP Esther Minciotti (May 20, 1888 - April 15, 1962), aged 73 And RIP Ernest Borgnine (January 24, 1917 - July 8, 2012), aged 95 You both will be remembered as legends.
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 Рік тому
Just one of the great things about this fantastic little scene: it's not just that Marty is alone, and that he's been rejected. It's that he feels unloveable, it's more than the difficulties he encounters, it's the deep frustration and despair.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 Рік тому
I can relate I've been single 3 years and not that I haven't tried but I get no attention from women and have resorted to online dating I have no idea where else to look for single women I don't do clubs or parties nor bars I work and come home, not that good looking short, a little round in the mid section and get no love from women
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 Рік тому
@@spoolyboi9434 it's tough, i guess you gotta have patience and be a bit creative. That's what i'm trying right now
@thebull004
@thebull004 Рік тому
​@@goPistons06 patience is worthless.Every year becomes harder for a man.If u can't get a gf now u probably won't be able to get when u'll start to bald and to lose ur youth.
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 Рік тому
@@thebull004 screw that. that's just the sort of attitude that holds you back.
@nathanchilton8917
@nathanchilton8917 Рік тому
@@goPistons06 i call it being realistic. you can have hope but it's gotta be in line with reality. otherwise, it's just delusion.
@Limerick502
@Limerick502 6 років тому
There is no way Marty could ever be ugly. God bless you Ernest Borgnine, you were one of my favorite actors ever.
@m.e.d.7997
@m.e.d.7997 6 років тому
Ernest Borgnine really wasn't and neither was Betsy Blair.
@deensaid7762
@deensaid7762 3 роки тому
Unfortunately though, Marty predicted the rising of virgins and forever aloners in today's world. And the rising of mental illnesses among the men.
@taketheblackpillneo3940
@taketheblackpillneo3940 2 роки тому
@@deensaid7762 its over, rope or cope!
@ezraelreynolds3442
@ezraelreynolds3442 2 роки тому
@@taketheblackpillneo3940 never began
@orlandojohnson3039
@orlandojohnson3039 2 роки тому
Yes.
@Sameoldfitup
@Sameoldfitup 3 роки тому
"You can only avoid regret by switching off your imagination."
@johnnyatmosphere3460
@johnnyatmosphere3460 Рік тому
This is literally me explaining to my mother why I’m still single. Seeing this really broke my heart because it was just a reflection of what my life looks like.
@segevkrespi8609
@segevkrespi8609 Рік тому
Every line his monologue was like a knife to the heart
@ramansingh7949
@ramansingh7949 3 роки тому
Life of a man is a real hell in this world if you are poor or middle class there is no love. I'm an orphan spend more than 25years alone and at 26 started feeling alone so i thought i should share my problems with a girl i did and she laughed on me and said you should learn to love yourself and learn how to live alone
@4ka07_muhammadrizky
@4ka07_muhammadrizky 3 роки тому
Omg dude i'm really sorry for you
@name-jl6kt
@name-jl6kt 3 роки тому
Hope you're doing good my man
@kingdoge69
@kingdoge69 2 роки тому
“Women love vulnerable men” “Women want to listen to men’s problems” nothing but lies, sorry that happened to you bro
@lawrencer908
@lawrencer908 2 роки тому
Im getting that too
@ShimaTheCatto
@ShimaTheCatto 2 роки тому
I mean she isn't wrong.. U don't want to be the only one vulnerable in a relationship. Learn to love yourself and try again I am sure u will succeed
@stiv.2809
@stiv.2809 11 місяців тому
“Whatever women want, I don’t got it.” Me too brother. Me too.
@TheFockerizer
@TheFockerizer 10 місяців тому
The thing is , women don't know what they want So it's best to ignore them
@Grandmaster-Kush
@Grandmaster-Kush 10 місяців тому
Attractive face, that's the one.
@spinx5943
@spinx5943 6 місяців тому
@@TheFockerizer they want good face and height, its not rocketsience
@cbacigaluppi
@cbacigaluppi День тому
​@@spinx5943they don't all want the same. Tons of women out there marrying short guys. Women out there marrying guys you look at & think, "how did he get her". Women out there with poor guys. Which is why the line, "whatever women want, I don't got it", hits so hard to some of us.
@ricardomilos3464
@ricardomilos3464 Рік тому
Just the average guy in 2022.
@myleswooten1188
@myleswooten1188 Рік тому
Those weren’t just some lines on a script he had to memorize… Those came from a real place somewhere deep down inside his heart.
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713 Рік тому
This is me. After being rejected too many times and never being given a chance to prove myself, I don’t even wanna try anymore.
@anderson-gb8rp
@anderson-gb8rp Рік тому
Same, Im trucel.
@Votanw
@Votanw Рік тому
Brutal
@matthewvaneyk4713
@matthewvaneyk4713 9 місяців тому
You know Marty ends up with a girl in the end right?
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713 9 місяців тому
@@matthewvaneyk4713 I do. But it’s a movie. You can write a happy ending in a movie. Doesn’t always work out that way in real life.
@matthewvaneyk4713
@matthewvaneyk4713 9 місяців тому
Doesn’t always, but giving up makes it a certainty.
@BruceJC75
@BruceJC75 5 років тому
You rarely see this quality of acting anymore. It’s so real and completely relatable! This movie is a real encouragement, and I think it gives lonely hearts a reason for hope.
@edgregory1
@edgregory1 3 роки тому
"Hope can drive a man insane; its got no place in here" (Shawshank)
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
Well said when you watch older movies like this, you know these actors weren’t in it for just the fame but were in it for the art
@moonage_
@moonage_ 2 роки тому
There are so many films that feature actors who have acting skills as good as this. Stop generalizing things. Go look for good, modern films.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
@@moonage_ Perhaps art house films but not mainstream. care to give me some recommendations.
@aniym21000
@aniym21000 2 роки тому
​@@AndreNitroX yep, now most movies are dudes getting $20m to put on a mask and cape and claiming that they're just telling 'human stories in a fantasy world' lmao
@dryde1509
@dryde1509 Рік тому
Sadly I can relate to this. Im in my mid 20s and each time I express myself and tell a woman how I feel about her I get the short end of the stick. I was taught my whole life to treat women well, be respectful, responsible, considerate, and emotionally available. All I've wanted was a mature-minded woman that I can love but it never seems to work out and it really makes you feel like you're not good enough even though you know how much you have to offer as a person. I'm just at a point where I'm completely locked in on my goals and I'm learning to love my own company because every time I pour my heart out and show a woman that I care for her I end up hurt.
@dreykenv2163
@dreykenv2163 Рік тому
being kind and honest gets you nowhere these days , everyone will say you're a good person but no one will respect you and no one will care but you know its how we humans are, and i will continue to be what i am .
@Rohit.Gaikwad
@Rohit.Gaikwad Рік тому
Introverted ?
@onekill31
@onekill31 Рік тому
Having a good intention these days will make you look more suspicious to people. I gave up being kind to everyone and only cherish those who really know your worth.
@dickonmanwoody7599
@dickonmanwoody7599 11 місяців тому
You were lied to. Your entire life people lied to you about what women like/respect. I'm sorry. It happens to all of us.
@massimoforesti
@massimoforesti 11 місяців тому
You basically described me. The one difference is that I fear the day that the girls I wanted come back begging for a chance.
@sephiroth900000
@sephiroth900000 5 років тому
Dating is a joke. It's only exclusive to people who were dealt a good hand in life.
@m.e.d.7997
@m.e.d.7997 5 років тому
I think the pressure back in the day was intense on them back in the fifties and before even into the sixties.
@johnmac91
@johnmac91 5 років тому
I think you're right. My parents got married in 1955, the same year this movie was made, and I remember her telling me how they were considered "old" when they got married. She was 25 and he was 29.
@lukebruce5234
@lukebruce5234 3 роки тому
Correction. To all women and men who were dealt a good hand in life.
@5thdawg917
@5thdawg917 3 роки тому
And financially well off. These days being broke and coming form a different social class plays a massive part.
@kentuckyfriedchildren5385
@kentuckyfriedchildren5385 3 роки тому
You sound bitter
@Shipwreck8l8
@Shipwreck8l8 2 місяці тому
Story of my life , every word he said.
@BumGodinez
@BumGodinez 3 роки тому
29 years later and this is still me one day ill just end it. One day then maybe I can stop being sad.
@yanisamirat630
@yanisamirat630 3 роки тому
Don’t say that my friend, try to do things that make you happy, exercice and try to be a better person everyday, don’t focus on having a relation but focus on loving yourself and maybe one day that special someone will see how amazing you are!
@innitmate6574
@innitmate6574 3 роки тому
I met my current wife when I was 24 and before that I felt exactly like Marty and was about to give up for good. I cannot guarantee you that you will definitely meet someone in the future but just remember that there`s ALWAYS hope as long as you live.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
There is always hope
@taketheblackpillneo3940
@taketheblackpillneo3940 2 роки тому
ill see u on the other side bruv.
@RomanianBoyz
@RomanianBoyz 2 роки тому
We all hit our breaking points eventually. Hope the process is as smooth as can be for you. Best of luck with whatever you do.
@InsideUCLA71
@InsideUCLA71 7 років тому
I think we've all been there, each and every one of us.
@drowningsinking8300
@drowningsinking8300 5 років тому
I'm afraid some of us will stay there, forever.
@GreenMorningDragonProductions
@GreenMorningDragonProductions 5 років тому
Nope. I've never been to the Stardust Ballroom.
@GreenMorningDragonProductions
@GreenMorningDragonProductions 5 років тому
Drowning Sinking If you think you may be a modern day Marty, may I give you some polite advice. Always speak to people you like with warmth, and genuine interest, but not too much intensity, and don't dwell on it or take it personally, if they are not interested. You only need to score, once.
@haxxll._
@haxxll._ 5 років тому
Marty isn't a ugly man
@1994g0
@1994g0 5 років тому
Magnificent scene ...passion, honesty and invoking the deepest feelings.Hard not to cry over this scene.
@chainsawpanda2
@chainsawpanda2 Рік тому
My mother once told me the worst a girl could ever say to me was "no". The first time I really tried to ask a girl out all I got was "ew, gross don't talk to me". Made me feel like less than nothing. To this day I can't bring myself to try anymore. Yknow I got called handsome by only one person in my life who wasn't my mom. She was my auntie. Only thing I got is my singing voice, but it's not even that good. Stay strong brothers, we gotta support eachother out there cuz no one else will.
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Рік тому
All we really have is ourselves and each other. And don't let society gaslight you either.
@corsaircarl9582
@corsaircarl9582 Рік тому
Had one tell me she'd rather walk into traffic.
@thatonedude6247
@thatonedude6247 Рік тому
Never been rejected, never tried people already told me im very ugly and they are right. I rather be alone than the joke of someone else
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Рік тому
@@thatonedude6247 Respectable.
@luaiderar6600
@luaiderar6600 Рік тому
@@thatonedude6247 Same, I didn't even bother because I was called ugly and get made fun of in public, not some whispers, people loud and proud proclaiming my hideous face. Guess I'm just going to studymaxx
@devildogus2187
@devildogus2187 5 місяців тому
“Girls made me feel like I was a bug!” Story of my life 😢
@jonnyteutonic5290
@jonnyteutonic5290 2 роки тому
I've watched this scene so many times it never stops hitting me. "I'm miserable enough as it is." And "You'll know what I'll get for my trouble? Heartache. A big night of heartache." Props to this actor. He crushed it during a time when film was only for the brave.
@HenryGarcia-oq6sl
@HenryGarcia-oq6sl 4 роки тому
Real life, real pain, even on a Saturday Night
@corsaircarl9582
@corsaircarl9582 3 роки тому
And someone says this these days they get made fun of...
@luisvelasquezjr
@luisvelasquezjr 3 роки тому
Probably. But I guarantee you they will still relate on the inside. Either you're experiencing this, have experienced it, or are one of the lucky few to never have and never will
@luckylosergames
@luckylosergames 3 роки тому
Because people are insecure
@fauberkaupfmann982
@fauberkaupfmann982 3 роки тому
@@luckylosergames dont dismiss this as insecurity, thats too naive. this is plain old bitterness and malicious intent of people who do this crap, and they should be vilified for it. saying its insecurity undermines the problem as something casual, but in my personal opinion its not. these people already have too much on their backs to be treated like this. imagine not a single girl ever showed sexual interest in you your life, how would you feel? pretty bad, i suppose.
@luckylosergames
@luckylosergames 3 роки тому
@@fauberkaupfmann982 I'm ace bruv
@fauberkaupfmann982
@fauberkaupfmann982 3 роки тому
@@luckylosergames wdym?
@TheAmmarp41
@TheAmmarp41 6 місяців тому
29 year old male here never been in real relationship despite having a stable job,ok personality and not so bad physically when he says"Whatever women likes I ain't got it"i felt those lines.
@cbacigaluppi
@cbacigaluppi День тому
That hopelessness of not knowing what the problem is, is rough.
@ace_2k3
@ace_2k3 Рік тому
Who else gets teary eyed watching this ? 😭
@anderson-gb8rp
@anderson-gb8rp Рік тому
85% of men.
@luisangeldiaz3637
@luisangeldiaz3637 Рік тому
Definitely me
@tweed0929
@tweed0929 3 місяці тому
Hits like a hammer.
@kmatthews1867
@kmatthews1867 6 років тому
Loaded with tomatoes 😂😂😂 it’s cute how his mom is speaking the slang of the day
@eddyspagetti9899
@eddyspagetti9899 6 років тому
she's just repeating what her nephew told her a scene or 2 prior
@natewhittaker4769
@natewhittaker4769 5 місяців тому
This is incredible. So relatable. My school has swing dances all the time and so many of them have become nights of heartache. If anybody else reads this, you're not alone homie
@pootispencerhirtf2
@pootispencerhirtf2 5 місяців тому
Thank you for such kind words.
@davitofarito
@davitofarito 3 роки тому
His Mom was just trying to help like mine was circa 1995 when I was 40 and she hounded and pestered me to try a dating service. After a series of failed first dates that reminded me why I gave up trying, she said "I'm sorry...I wanted to help, but I can see I've made you even sadder".
@ytbasketball101
@ytbasketball101 2 роки тому
That hurts to read man I hope that you have lived a fulfilling life regardless.
@Hyrule409
@Hyrule409 2 роки тому
The big thing is that your mom tried. Even if it was a failed attempt, please be big enough of a man to recognize that it was a genuine attempt.
@Toxic2T
@Toxic2T 2 роки тому
My mother just understood that, I'm 27. I gave up since monogamy is dead, I don't have problem picking up women, the problem is avoiding getting c*cked.
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 Рік тому
@@Hyrule409 The road to Hell is paved in good intentions.
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Рік тому
@@ytbasketball101 How can you kive a fulfilling life without getting b*tches? Of course, he's been coping his way until the reaper comes to collect
@RileyWuzzHere
@RileyWuzzHere 2 роки тому
“Whatever it is girls like, I AINT GOT IT.”🎯🎯🎯
@jones848
@jones848 2 роки тому
This literally incapsulates any man who struggles at dating, get laid, etc. Pure honesty
@strahinja9760
@strahinja9760 3 роки тому
,,Girls made me feel like a was a bug"
@quisqueyanguy120
@quisqueyanguy120 3 роки тому
I can relate.
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 Рік тому
It's that look. That mix of disgust, shock, pity and annoyance the second you address them.
@antsygorilla2835
@antsygorilla2835 11 місяців тому
i go watch this everyday before i go to bed. I'm at the point in my life that I've tried so many times that I've given up. if i die in my sleep alone I'm strangely alright with it.
@japanesesamurai4945
@japanesesamurai4945 11 місяців тому
You are not alright with it, you just make yourself belive that you are alright with it. I know how it feels
@lordtrill7731
@lordtrill7731 10 місяців тому
Bruh take ALL that grief and WORK OUT! Get your body and mind right so they will come to you!
@astrobricks3220
@astrobricks3220 3 роки тому
This scene just hits different.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
Relatable
@MrGemini-92
@MrGemini-92 2 місяці тому
A mans life
@zairman
@zairman 3 роки тому
Yep. He speaks truth, and it's exactly how I feel.
@MetropolitanTransitEX
@MetropolitanTransitEX 4 місяці тому
this is exactly me.. every part where marty explained everything..
@elliotchandler3872
@elliotchandler3872 3 роки тому
This movie is very hard for me to watch. I am a 40 year old Marty. I have been suffered for too long wondering when my life will change.
@ShaneM321
@ShaneM321 3 роки тому
Life change when you do m8.
@zairman
@zairman 3 роки тому
@@ShaneM321 Sometimes people just are who they are. There is no changing.
@cristi-luciansarban470
@cristi-luciansarban470 3 роки тому
@@ShaneM321 Change for what? You just lie to yourself... Some of us are just meant to be alone. It sucks but it is what it is. Nothing matters anyway...
@ShaneM321
@ShaneM321 3 роки тому
@@cristi-luciansarban470 nice defeatist attitude you have there :)
@HDbacon
@HDbacon 3 роки тому
I'm turning 31 and feel the same...why does everyone think everyone gets to "win". Just because you are brought up to think and get treated where everyone wins...doesn't mean that's how life plays out for everyone.
@ponternal
@ponternal 3 роки тому
Reminder that dudes have 4 girls on rotation while dudes like Marty rot
@divulgewithchip1099
@divulgewithchip1099 2 роки тому
Rot 😂
@JL-yq9xn
@JL-yq9xn 2 роки тому
The plan: Suffering
@diegofung95
@diegofung95 2 роки тому
You mean Chads and giga Chads have 4 girls on rotation (at least)
@nuclearpugg
@nuclearpugg 2 роки тому
Saint Blackops2cel will save me I'm not worried
@iamnotoforiginald9206
@iamnotoforiginald9206 2 роки тому
@@nuclearpugg PBUH
@Thatoddguy808
@Thatoddguy808 11 місяців тому
i come to this exact scene to remind myself it's ok to be alone
@reallydarlings-se2xf
@reallydarlings-se2xf 8 місяців тому
Poor Marty. Such a sweet and well-meaning man. It turns out all right for him in the end, thank goodness, but so heartbreaking to watch. Every time.
@redrapskin1056
@redrapskin1056 3 роки тому
Man this scene hit different
@thatoneguy3883
@thatoneguy3883 3 місяці тому
For my short years on this earth I haven't seen a scene that hit so close to home. I'm almost 22 and I have never dated a girl. I've been single for so long that the idea of being in a relationship is completely alien to me and I can't for the life of me picture myself being romantically involved with a girl. I look at those around me and they seem to (for the most part) find someone who matches themselves in more ways than one but for me, nothing clicks.
@richardy2071
@richardy2071 2 місяці тому
Gentlemen, you are both young. Stop looking for women. Worry about yourself until you hit 30 and then by that point women will be coming to you if you make yourself into a successful man
@thatoneguy3883
@thatoneguy3883 2 місяці тому
@@richardy2071 Don't worry I haven't been looking for anything from any woman.
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 2 місяці тому
@@richardy2071cope , feeling validated is one of the most important things in life . Nature is juste brutal .
@dandcc9192
@dandcc9192 2 роки тому
This is such an honest and introspective scene from the 1950s. One would think everyone from that era were lady's man.
@retroverdrive
@retroverdrive 3 місяці тому
01:03: "I figured I was past the point of being hurt" hits far harder than it should.
@icecactus11
@icecactus11 3 роки тому
Brutal just brutal
@enigma6357
@enigma6357 2 роки тому
It never began for some of us. We are just a part of mother nature's process. That process being where the bad genes are getting rid off. Us ugly men were born for the sole purpose of having our genes ridden from this world.
@LinkLegend0
@LinkLegend0 2 роки тому
@@enigma6357 "so what ill never have a son"
@UserRobot215
@UserRobot215 2 роки тому
@@enigma6357 Not even just ugly men, but average looking men are being weeded out too. Most of us can't and won't ever live up to women's expectations
@TomJupiter
@TomJupiter 2 роки тому
This just hurts too much. It hurts so much wondering whats wrong with you, whats missing from you, whats preventing you from getting that person you like.
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 2 місяці тому
You’re not good looking like Chad .
@LincolnClayMafia3
@LincolnClayMafia3 Рік тому
This scene is very relatable to me 🥺
@duncanj.chapola6581
@duncanj.chapola6581 Рік тому
I don’t wanna get hurt no more I felt that
@scottfree6479
@scottfree6479 2 роки тому
We've got an entire generation of Martys right now
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 роки тому
This is exactly why I never go out except for groceries, work and school. I've never been good with women and I'm just now starting to accept this fact and yeah, I've had this same conversation with my mom.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 роки тому
Same here I just work and go home, occasionally visit family but thats it, I got a dog and it helped some but not the same as a person
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 роки тому
@@spoolyboi9434 I wish I could tell you it gets better but just know there are others out there like you.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 роки тому
@@torezgermy2 can only hope that one day it will but slowly losing faith in that belief and slowly becoming ok with that
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 роки тому
@@spoolyboi9434 I've pretty much accepted that this is my fate. I have one friend who is the opposite of me when it comes to women. I seriously wonder why he's even still my friend. He has tried to link me up with several girls and they pretty much all curved me. He keeps telling me to hang in there but I know he has no hope for me either and is only saying that because we're friends.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 роки тому
@@torezgermy2 kinda the same here I have friends that have no issues getting women or are married then there's me 😅, like the video says whatever women are looking for I don't have
@jh6y06
@jh6y06 3 роки тому
I've never had a scene that hits me so much, that i didn't know i could relate so much to it.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 роки тому
I spent all of high school feeling like I was invisible, and I soon became comfortable with that. Now in college I want to make something of myself, not just for a girl but for me.
@misterOrca4
@misterOrca4 2 місяці тому
It's funny how such an old movie is so relatable for many men nowadays.
@gerryyaum
@gerryyaum 5 років тому
What a performance, no wonder he won the Oscar. Will rent and watch this movie next week.
@kirkmcclean9686
@kirkmcclean9686 2 роки тому
You get accustomed to being alone and the hurt of rejection is 1000 times worse than being alone.
@destinationskyline07
@destinationskyline07 2 роки тому
"just take a shower bro" "just have confidence man"
@starkiller1231
@starkiller1231 Рік тому
"just go to therapy and get a haircut bro"
@gatoloco3949
@gatoloco3949 5 місяців тому
Just get a haircut while going to therapy bro.
@tweed0929
@tweed0929 3 місяці тому
"Just love yourself, bro".
@frog6054
@frog6054 3 місяці тому
Go to the gym bro, be a millionaire bro, be the top 1% man bro, have the personality of a comedy god bro
@hzskillz1721
@hzskillz1721 10 місяців тому
Many men get to this stage in their life
@barryscott1756
@barryscott1756 10 місяців тому
Definitely am there right now 😔
@williamheaven8983
@williamheaven8983 9 місяців тому
This is my life
@Matt-cm3pl
@Matt-cm3pl Рік тому
This made me think of my brother, my socially inept lovable brother, and how he suffers in silence.
@anderson-gb8rp
@anderson-gb8rp Рік тому
Ok chad.
@Grandmaster-Kush
@Grandmaster-Kush 10 місяців тому
Then introduce girls to him, you are his brother, don't let him suffer in silence.
@dapenguin1495
@dapenguin1495 8 місяців тому
@@Grandmaster-Kushexactly my thoughts
@hungrygarfield
@hungrygarfield 6 місяців тому
It’s never been so over. In fact, I’m inclined to believe that it never even began.
@johnasiuras3200
@johnasiuras3200 3 роки тому
1950s or 2020s... decades of heartbreak 😥
@vetagainsttrump16
@vetagainsttrump16 2 місяці тому
I feel this big time...
@ernestleong476
@ernestleong476 4 роки тому
I watch a scene like this, and then I think about some villainous parts Borgnine played and I'm just blown away by his acting ability. Really a great actor (and a great performance here).
@grahambamford9073
@grahambamford9073 7 місяців тому
I'd say 50% of the male population can relate to this scene, the frustration of not being noticed let alone wanted by women. Through no fault of our own we don't get to experience dating or relationships. And they say men have it easy.
@ZetaReticuli_
@ZetaReticuli_ Рік тому
One of the things that always got me about this scene in particular, is when he realizes after sharing his true feelings, and how hurt his mother is seeing her son in pain, he tries to brush it off and fake laugh about the "loaded with tomatoes" bit. Children also try to protect their own parents, and often times from what is hurting them. On the one hand it seems noble, but on the other, it is internalizing your own emotions which is never good. It may hurt for your loved ones to know that you are hurting, but if they truly love you, they would want to be there for you and help you through it, as you would for them. It may be hard, scary and painful in the beginning, but that is only temporary. It gets better from there.
@VengefulBatz
@VengefulBatz Рік тому
The fact that he won an Oscar for this movie in ‘56 makes this clip even more Heavy.
@raphaeloluwatosinakinola1213
@raphaeloluwatosinakinola1213 2 роки тому
"I'm a fat,ugly, little man" Mum: "No you're not ugly"
@robertsullivan7080
@robertsullivan7080 2 роки тому
Funny Raphael! It is basically his mother saying, "Okay Marty, ugly you are. But Marty, fat and little- no way Marty.
@HaIsKuL
@HaIsKuL 2 роки тому
Same vibe as "omg I'm so fat." "No, you're beautiful." "I said I was fat. I didn't say I was ugly."
@MayorBrownn
@MayorBrownn 2 роки тому
So he’s just fat and little
@mosesvanlalhruaizela6257
@mosesvanlalhruaizela6257 10 місяців тому
No matter how ugly we are, our mothers will always finds us beautiful and handsome
@panzerken
@panzerken 8 років тому
Great scene.I tear up every time.
@STOMPaaa
@STOMPaaa 2 роки тому
It's crazy how long ago this movie was and it's still relatable as hell.
@TheBeast-ub9jo
@TheBeast-ub9jo 2 роки тому
I am Marty now. He’s right, you think getting rejected gets easier, it does when a really good looking woman does it because you’re expecting it but when it’s no one special, that cuts deep. But like always, I switch off and put on a mask like it’s no big deal and move on by talking about something else when my brain is going 100mph trying to figure out why, while acting like it no big deal being rejected.
@kingdoge69
@kingdoge69 Рік тому
Exactly, no big deal when you know the rejection is 99% likely because the woman is very attractive, but when a woman is around your level of attraction or lower and rejects or ghosts you, it just kills your soul
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