hearing her talk about not being able to possibly have kids bc of her ED hit me in my heart. i struggle with the same things and it’s so comforting to hear someone people look up to go through this

The bond Nessa and Zach have is unmatched. Mutual respect, love, support, and growth. This episode was like a hug

cried multiple times throughout this. The vulnerability that Nessa gives to the world is beautiful.

Nessa is the definition of the word SLAY

Nessa Barnett has gone through a lot in her life, but she's still persevering no matter what happens. This channel has always been incredible at what they do.

am I the only one who wants Nessa to write a memoir?

I’m 30 and I absolutely adore this girl, she talks so openly and well about her struggles, you can tell she’s been through it, still struggles and I think always will but seeing her on here again she does look the best I’ve ever seen her, she seems to have the passion and excitement shining through her and I am so glad that she’s genuinely putting in the effort to help herself and recover. She deserves the world and I think she would be an incredible mother one day hopefully. Thank you for sharing what you do, being honest and the music you put out.

"My bestfriend is a ghost"...broken! I wish no one ever had to say those words, let alone feel that much pain!

The way she takes the time to think before giving any response really shows she wants to give genuine responses and in a mature, well spoken, honest manner. She actually takes the time the think so she can give her audience her truth

nessa is so strong!!! i really admire her and how open she is. i’m in love with her songs! american jesus and lie are INCREDIBLE!!!!! i’m so excited for the ep! 🤍

so proud of nessa for being real and vulnerable.

I clicked on this video while cleaning thinking I will hear bunch of silly things from a young social media person. She is beautiful AF, her life seems easy and bullshit free, then she started talking about her struggle and it’s shocking. Not the struggle she is dealing with but the damage we do to ourselves and how much we contribute our issues to others but its truly us that are our number one enemy most of the time. I hope she is able to see herself as we see her one day. ❤

I have an incredible amount of respect for Nessa, she’s gone through a lot of hardship and heartbreak and handled it with so much maturity and care. Truly, she’s a gem amongst a lot of the Hollywood drama, she’s talented, smart, kind and doesn’t seem bitter about what she’s been through. I really pray for so many blessings to come her way and that she continues to grow into an amazing woman 💕

Nessa’s growth is incredible. As someone who also has bpd her music has done wonders for me so I appreciate her personality and how she expresses herself through her music 🫶🫶

something about the way zach interviews ppl just feels different. like you can tell her actually cares about what nessa or anyone else is saying and i love it.

Nessa has my heart ❤Hearing her talk about things we all struggle with so openly is the most comforting feeling

her opening up about being a mom one day is exactly how i felt growing up and now. you are so valid and you have grown so much nessa, its amazing and i am so proud of u.

It was nice to hear her speak so highly and loving about Jaden. U can tell that was always the boy who loved her the most and made her the happiest. Hopefully life can lead them back to one another especially after both grieving for cooper apart.

Zach, I wanna thank you for letting your guest feel so comfortable on being so open 😊 I love it when you have Nessa here, she's so vulnerable in this and I love this. Her music has helped me through so much and just hearing her speak her mind has been amazing. Love this episode ❤ Keep up the good work 👏

I love that she chooses only certain podcasts to be on and makes the right and best decisions for herself 🖤 your amazing ness

She is such a beautiful person and I truly hope she embraces being vulnerable. The best music comes from the heart. She genuinely is here to heal others. I’m so proud of her.

i love this women she had me realize i’m not alone and it’s more then okay to be struggling

Everyone is so proud of you Nessa! You came so far and accomplished so much. I appreciate you and your music. I love you girl🫶🏻

Nessa you are such a strong woman, I lost my period for a whole year when I was 20 because of my ED, I recover after 10 years of struggle and my period came back. The thoughts of not having kids scare me because I do want to have kids and it's still possible. I'm so glad someone talked about that fear related to EDs. It's hard but you got this!!!

Zach I love how you just listen and let your hosts talk ❤

I think what makes this relationship so intense was that. There was a lot of pain, like yea i hear when she said "when it was good, it was so good". But a relationship is about a balance. Or at least the good outweighs the bad. They were a lot of bad things they shared in common. Lost, pain, doubt, loneliness. So it almost reflected like co dependency in a way. Because they knew eachother and the pain they shared. Its what intensify the relationship.

CANT WAIT FOR THE EP!!! So proud of ness and for everything she has accomplished. love her so much and seeing her happy.🤍

Nessa is so real. She articulates herself so well you can hear how self aware she is of herself and her experiences. I enjoy getting to experience her artistry and witnessing her sound get better and better with every project she puts out. I am so excited to keep watching her grow as an artist and human. It feels like such a special thing to watch her get better on her journey. I hope she knows how special she is.

We all have to agree that Zac is the BEST interviewer ever!!! He's so sweet, understanding and respectful towards all of his guest's 🥺. Not many hosts do this. I love you both so much ❤️

she's so real and such a star her music is incredible and the person behind it is even more beautiful

it’s really good to see nessa happy and trying to better herself. So strong.

This video is so real, it transmits such strong emotions that you feel and Nessa is a very pretty and strong person. It is admirable how she keeps going despite everything she has experienced and how she wants to help others by expressing her feelings

I love that she knows whole heartedly she wants to be a mom- she really is an awesome person !! ❤

I'm a huge fan of Nessa just because of how she carries herself despite so much of the pain that she has. She doesn't take her pain out on others and she is able to speak up and be vulnerable when that can be absolutely terrifying. I lost my grandpa in May of last year and it continues to hurt but I'm not as numb as I was. I'm also so glad that she has such a great team!!

i can’t wait to see this interview like seriously she’s so beautiful in every way and real all the time and i love her for that :)

i been watching these interviews for years!! it’s so nice to see the upgrades and everything it’s wonderful !

This reminds me of my therapy sessions lol. Props to Nessa for being so vulnerable, her music really helps me feel understood 🤍

Firstly I want to say, thank you so much Nessa for being here, for sticking around, for living! I think it’s incredibly heartbreaking that you lost Coop and J so close together and felt like you had no one and the only person who would’ve understood would’ve been J. I’m so excited for this healing era and you can tell that you’re doing so much better, you’re glowing! The blonde is a major slay!! I’m so excited for the EP as well and listening to your music mature, you’re amazing and I love you! When someone passes time doesn’t heal all wounds especially in circumstances like with Coop… your brain will learn to not trigger itself so often but that doesn’t make it hurt any less, your brain will try and only allow you to remember what it believes you can handle. It will be painful and you’re allowed to get angry because anger is important in healing. Coop lives through you and that’s a positive thing. Stay alive, stay making memories and living the best life you can for him and remember he is ALWAYS with you, always. Thank you Zach for being such a good host and being compassionate and making sure Ness is okay, we love you!

“they’re just like me” - honestly it’s eerie, the more i listen to ness on podcasts (especially this one) and through her music, the more she shares and opens up, the more i feel like i’m listening to myself. i struggle with a shit ton of the same the mental illnesses, and i feel like we have a very similar way of thinking. i love love and i love so deeply it hurts. ness was honestly the reason i started looking for god, and i found him. ness, your music saved my life. i’ve never connected so much to an artist before and i can’t wait to meet you one day. from the bottom of my heart, thank you. and keep fighting, for us, for coop, for yourself. the people who get it, get it. and we love you. i love you 🤍🕊️

she seems more happy than the last podcast she made w em !! IM SO PROUD OF HER AHH ! i love her ❤

I love her she makes me feel okay on bad days

I'm so glad I got to be a part of you forever tour. nessa makes music to where we can emotionally connect with a lot of things. she's my comfort person and I'll forever love her and be so grateful I got to see her.

obsessed with her and this interview. you guys r amazing and ask the best questions

I love Nessa so much. Hearing her talk is always so great, she was a beautiful way of words and is so strong.

Im so proud to see how far Nessa has come, and see her the healthiest shes ever been, she amazing,sweet,and very talented. Wish her nothing but the absolute fuckin best! ❤

Wow she is such a beautiful soul. Such a respectful way to speak about J. Hope she finds true happiness ❤

i’m so proud of her🫶🏻

147 actually represents the seeker of the truth. the fact that ness was so open and honest and i guess "telling her truth" abt J and the way she feels, it all just ties together very well!

So proud of how far she’s grown, as a person and her career ❤️ Also the BTS poster in the back YESSS

nessa is such a pure soul. a true angel. I love her so much

I could listen to Nessa talk all day 🤍 so proud of her and I’m so happy to support someone like Nessa 🤍

The amount of love and support I have for this angel we call Nessa is unimaginable. I can relate with her on so many different levels (as I think a lot of us can). I wish her the best in her endeavors, truly. We’re always cheering for you on the sidelines Nessa, this is your show! 💞

I love this channel's interviews; the guests, the questions, the content, the quality, the guest is not offended. Even if I haven't heard of some guest I watch the interview and learn interesting things Congrats keep it that way ❤❤

ok you guys are making me cry....im old and dont know how i found myself here.....nessa you are such a beautiful soul......great show you guys

i'm 26 and i relate to her so much it's unreal. i cried so many times during this interview. i just want to give her a hug 🫶

9:40 im the same exact way! i love hearing nessa talk about her mental health it makes me feel so less alone😭❤️

Nessa’s music is so relatable and I have gone through a lot of shit and trauma. I have struggled with depression and anxiety and suicidal thoughts and nessa saved me and her music saved me in more ways than one. I love her so fucking much

Zach always asks the best questions

Omg “you want me to spell it out for you?” God how I have wanted someone to say that to zack before and she did it so soft and gently ❤😂

I’m so glad to see nessa on here again. I love her so much 💗

God bless you all thank you for the authenticity and showing how human you all are so heart warming I’ve never related to a podcast so much 🤍

im so happy she's doing better

wow this interview is amazing, felt everything nessa was saying, she really knows how to transmit her feelings ❤ amazing woman

Ness this physically make me so happy I was balling crying when you were talking about helping others I’ve never heard someone explain so exactly about wanting to help other people and be a mom I have always felt that and it’s crazy omg I love you ❤

I relate to her so much it makes me so upset to know other people feel the way I feel mentally and knowing it never goes away

The fear of being infertile due to an ED is so real. I don’t know what I want yet, but not having the option to carry my own kids one day if I do want to is scary. Nessa is such a beautiful human with a beautiful heart! She’s been through so much and yet she has maintained a level of lightness and vulnerability that is very comforting. Even just her voice is so soft and relaxing!

I have so much love and respect for this young woman. She’s phenomenal!

I love ness so so much and she has helped me with so many struggles including some mental health issues. Her music is so powering to me and lots of other people and she’s such a and genuinely sweet person! Ahh I love her so much and can’t wait to see what the future brings 🤍🪽

she is an absolute angel and deserves the world. i saw her on tour with my best friend and she was absolutely amazing. the way she is so vulnerable and open about her feelings is so admirable. she reminds me to keep going when i go through hard shit.

i think the one thing all borderlines want is to be known and understood. we often feel we don’t know or understand ourselves and that no one else knows or understand us. so that’s like all we want. for someone to finally know us for who we are. because it’s such a wonderful and comforting thing to be known and understood. it’s also interesting hearing her talk about how she feels it would get confusing for her if she tried to hide some things away and only share certain things or a certain part of her. because i also feel like borderlines HAVE to be open. we have to lay it all on the line. because as i said before, we struggle with knowing who we are so if we’re trying to hide some of it or keep track of certain parts of who we are and who we aren’t or only show a character to the public and stuff like that, it would get confusing. we’d get confused with what’s the real us and what’s the character being shown to the public. also we just genuinely have too many emotions and feelings and they’re very intense and we have to let that shit out. we have to. or else it eats us alive. i also have borderline and Nessa is who i look up to the most when it comes to borderline. i know she gets it. i know i’m not alone. she comforts me a lot in that way. i love listening to her advice on how to handle borderline and i love hearing her talk about what living with it is like for her.

the part where you guys talk ab fearing making connections w people in fear of losing them to death is soooo real. i've lost sooo many ppl in my life along w my best friend, i keep everyone so far from me, it's hard to get close

she’s such a beautiful soul whoever ends up with her is so lucky

Waiting so impatiently for this!! SO EXCITED

This was the best pod, love you all omg this was so deep and amazing. I needed this.

love this girl with my whole heart. she saved my life

nessa's music has helped me sm I

Thank you for this podcast. I’ve been feeling low lately and hearing Nessa be so open and honest gave me a new perspective. So thankful for her and her music ❤

she is just such a therapeutic human being, like if therapy was a human it would be her...love her💕

im genialy crying, I get her so much her words are just perfect

she’s so amazing i love her personnality and everything

What a powerful statement, that she loves to help other people and knows she has those nurturing qualities but can’t help herself when she isn’t in that mindset. That’s a beautiful way to describe mental illness. People who suffer with mental illness are the kindest most giving incredibly nurturing people but when they need that for themselves, it just isn’t there and how sad is that? Her being able to identify that as a thing and acknowledge it is something most 40 year olds can’t even do.

The amount of times I’ve played lie is insanE- I love the song so muchhhh even though I’ve never been in love nor been in a relationship 😃👍

love what she says about how she blocks out the fact that she’s in the public eye!! that’s really interestinggg

I love hearing nessa talk about cooper. I miss him like crazy

omg i can’t wait for this!!

There’s one word l describe Nessa:SLAY Edit:She has such a soft and beautiful voice

my favorite interviews everrrr, I love Nessa so much💖 Keep doing these

she’s heaven sent. i’m so thankful for how open she is

shes matured so much. so proud of u ness! love u❤️

i love nessa so much she’s great🤍

Losing someone is really hard. It has almost been 2 years since my brother passed away and it is still hard to go through life without him.

I love nessa so much ❤ she speaks to my heart. She is the type of friend I need.

The new intro is popping 🪩 Love the variety of guests on this show

I'm so proud of her

I hope she will be able to get a kid someday, sending much love and light to her, she is such a pure and fun soul❤️

I want to start out by saying I like Nessa. She is an artist who goes on tour to help people, to put smiles on people's faces & then she knows it's okay to ask others for help when she needs it. Unfortunately there are people who get on others whenever they try to be themselves to make others happy. You just have to block those certain people out & keep life going in the right direction.

I LOVE THIS WOMAN

46:36 the way you can see her flash backs in her face…. We love you, sweet girl.

Keep coming back to this interview, Nessa is everything

Love this pod. Great job guys. And nessa was lovely as always.