How many men will be willing to sit beside their wife smiling and clapping if the shoe was on the other foot? It’s always the woman acting a fool.

She’s smiling and clapping like it’s cute. Sis pls stop. We know you’re hurting.

The way Loni looked at him had me weak, y'all!

John Gray didn't just have an emotional affair; he had a physical one too. I don't understand why his wife is smiling and clapping.

Loni is stone faced, looking like a human lie detector 🤣🤣🤣

His wife clapping like she won something, what did you win a cheating husband and I don't care what anyone says he bought that Lamborghini out of guilt Period. That wife proved that she isn't much more than a holy ghosted groupie!

Hmmm...so when Aventer snatched the mic from her husband during that one sermon and went on and on about how she "put scripture on that strange woman" that was all over an emotional affair??? Doubt it.

We heard the voicemails so y'all can stop lying now. 😔

An emotional affair is worse to me!! That vulnerable side should only be known by you significant other. Smh

An emotional affair is just as bad as a physical one. Cheating of any form is not acceptable! PERIODT! He has cheated again and is calling it an emotional affair as well. I couldn't be married to someone who continues to run to and confide in other women.

I’m Loni, listening to this mess

Loni's face while he was talking, took me allll theeeee way out! She looked like, I can smell your BS a mile away

This is just sad. People are imperfect and we all fall short but don’t get on tv and lie.

He twiddled his thumbs the entire interview....any body language experts want to weigh in🤔

That intro music has ta goooo😫

Everyone should watch Lovelyti’s channel and her take on this. If it was an emotional affair, why did you need a hotel room? This is honestly too much and many scandals for a pastor. Church folks are so hypocritical and sadly this is exactly why ppl are straying away from it.

Im a Christian and so embarrassed by this. I know it so hard for people to trust Pastors and ...and then seeing Fix my life with LeAndria Johnson...Sigh. Christians are human and that needs to be understood. But God requires us to live above reproach because the world is watching us. We are supposed to be the ones that represent Christ. We are the ones that are supposed to help the world heal and see God in everything. I was rooting for Pastor Gray when I heard the v/m proof. He actually started the ball rolling on this. All he had to do was confess it and be honest about his involvement and ask forgiveness... instead he LIED on national t.v...Aventar tried to talk around Loni's question but Loni brought it back to the forefront and Aventar ended up lying too. Loni knew it but she was too nice to call them out on it so she said "Got it!" Jesus is still good..Jesus is still coming back again...We still need to live saved to go to heaven...pls just excuse these people.

Chile...the blatant lies to God, himself, and her. I can't but if she likes it fine

Lovely Ti spilled the TEA stop fronting your side chick just released them voicemails

That lady in the yellow shirt was really happy to see the pastors at 0:30 😂

The lies. Please be real. Loni is not buying this at all. They have to lie to safe face and still continue to live this celebrity lifestyle. Both their faces and body language is so defensive. Own it and move on

But here's the thing: no matter what type of an affair you had, you led the woman on. What about her well-being? She's labeled a homewrecker for life and you'll continue to be a man of God who made one little mistake and everyone will forget about it. And then there was Rahab...

look at him twiddling his thumbs. JUST LYING

Couples should handle this private. Personally, if my husband had an emotional affair I would not stay with him. That connection is much more serious than a sexual one in my book.

You went to a hotel and did what??? Talked? Oh ok

Loni 👏 SHE KEEPS IT REAAALLLttttttt 👏👏👏

Imagine having a liar for your pastor. This is the reason most people prefer to stay and pray at home.

When Adrienne asked him if he had an affair, he said no and Aventer clapped...it took me back to when Adrienne got caught with Israel in Mexico and she came on the show talkin bout he’s not married praise God. 😒😒 Also John said a direct quote from what Israel said... it’s new to people but not new to us. Something tells me they’ve worked on their stories together. 🤔

If they have moved on and if this is over a year old story, why all this now? Something major must be coming out of they are doing all this over an affair that "supposedly" ended a year ago. Emotional affair my ass. You don't get a hotel room for an emotional affair. You go to lunch you talk on the phone, but not post up in a hotel

You cannot lead a congregation when you are failing at leading your family. Oprah cancel his show. The Gray's should take a step down and focus on healing your family. But we know that is too much like right cause that money is too good.

All the ladies look so beautiful here but Tam is killing it 😍😍😍😍😍

I'm really side eyeing this "emotional affair" and "being in someone's presence". You'd have to be a fool and a half to buy that. This is thing I don't get. So many of these types work so hard to present this image- but they're out here just like everybody else.

Adrienne: Did you have an affair...? John: The answer is no,... Also John: ...*describes emotional affair*,... is an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR. It was wrong. I take responsibility for that. So you cheated? Gotcha.

The purple on Adrienne is fiyah

Answer the question!!! Were you in that hotel with the person you conversed with? If so,it is still an affair. An emotional affair is when you talk on phone or though internet with someone other than your spouse. You went to hotel but didn’t have sex,so you saying...because no man mangoes to hotel with a woman whom he is having an emotional affair with and not do anything. Js Maybe if by then he actually felt sorry and repented and turned back,but idk.

I read some of the comments- why is his wife being judged? He didn't have an affair and even if he did- you all- all of us have issues... if you don't keep living and you will experience something's that will teach you to stop pointing your hypocritical fingers! Nerve! John Gray I pray the Lord blesses you and your wife and your marriage in Jesus name.

Well the interview with the other woman told a different story..... 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Head over to lovelyTI to hear the voicemails !! LIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES and teeth & gums

Who came back here due to the latest cheating scandal!?!😩

Nobody from the cast of The Real even addressed the tragedy in New Zealand on social media as far as I know except Loni. The real never talks about Islamophobia. I get it they are ran by Fox but this was a REAL tragedy with 49 people losing their lives & many families and people being affected. Let’s all pray for them RIP! ❤️🕌❤️

Some y’all need to push back the buffet table! Dayum!

I'm not American so I have no idea. But is this guy that famous that he had to go on a national tv show to talk about his marriage? Everyone wants to be famous I guess

This is why the church is failing, we got a bunch of John Grays and Carl Lentz running around playing God with zero accountability and not a care in the world for anyone but themselves, their wants, their needs, their fleshly desires. I'd be scared to be under these mens leadership. Ya all think faith is a game, you have used faith as a tool to satisfy your flesh and elevate yourself in the world in order to be loved and adored by the masses. The road is narrow my brothers the road is narrow.

I dint think i could but by the grace of God i was able to heal from emotional and physical affairs

Loni I agree with anything you're thinking!

Loni was not having this like look at her face🤣

Loni's facial expression though!

Adrienne should have called out sick for this interview. Israel Houghton was married when she was running around with him. Now all of us need to get some business and judge ourselves. 😊

Wow..what a proclamation! They have peace however there are others that don't have peace

Lonnie OVER IT 😂😂

Loni is not buying it lol

Here for the lies 🤦🏻‍♀️

Lonnie's face tells it all😂

I think emotional is just as bad as physical. Call a spade a spade, you said “emotional affair” that’s an affair.

I would have more respect if he said yes I had an affair, she forgave me and we are moving on, but the fact that they are trying to downplay the affair makes John Q Public think there is much more to the story and rightfully so. He is not the first man to have an affair and I don't expect pastors to be perfect but I do expect honesty and I just do not believe they are being honest. Plus the more lengths a person goes through to make you believe them the more likely they are lying

Its very odd they havent talked about the college admission scandal... my only thought is that someone with a say in the show, has been busted or at risk of being busted.

SPEAK ABOUT THE OLIVIA JADE DRAMA!!

I just came across this situation from listening to Derrick Jaxn and the more I hear from these people themselves, the more I see the toxicity. I don't care to see or hear anymore after this. There is a difference in allowing someone to voice "their side" and "enabling" foolishness. This was just disappointing, though I will acknowledge Loni's inquisitions and attempt to focus the conversation on facts instead of the fancy wordplay.

Shoutout to their publicity team🥰💞

Wow so we’re back here again...what is it this time Pastor. Virtual affair??

My friend in the FULL BLACK was saying to herself: "You know what; Imma jus't shut my mouth and let my eyes do the talking" lol hahahaha

What kind of music that?

I would love to hear geinnis REAL opinion on this “emotional affair” 😩😂

Who is the P.A. that taped his mic on? Sorry I'm a behind the scenes type, his voice is going in and out.

WHOEVER IS MAKING THESE THUMBNAILS OF ADRIENNE IS SHADY!!!!!

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I guess no one from the churches follows the word of God any longer when choosing a person to serve the people. I do understand why the bible saying that a man of God must be honorable, blameless, and take care of their own household faithfully or do not let them lead the church. The bible is truth and God's word is real. 1 Timothy 3 5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?) Titus 1 6 if a man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of dissipation or insubordination. 7 For a bishop must be blameless, as a steward of God, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, 8 but hospitable, a lover of what is good, sober-minded, just, holy, self-controlled, 9 holding fast the faithful word as he has been taught, that he may be able, by sound doctrine, both to exhort and convict those who contradict. 10 For there are many insubordinate, both idle talkers and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision, 11 whose mouths must be stopped, who subvert whole households, teaching things which they ought not, for the sake of dishonest gain. 12 One of them, a prophet of their own, said, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.” 13 This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith, 14 not giving heed to Jewish fables and commandments of men who turn from the truth. 15 To the pure all things are pure, but to those who are defiled and unbelieving nothing is pure; but even their mind and conscience are defiled. 16 They profess to know God, but in works they deny Him, being abominable, disobedient, and disqualified for every good work. 1 Timothy 3 3 This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; 4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence 5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil. 8 Likewise deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy for money, 9 holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience. 10 But let these also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons, being found blameless. 11 Likewise, their wives must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things. 12 Let deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. 13 For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a good standing and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.

It's weird how he twirling his thumbs......and I love Lonnie's face. It says everything!!!

Don't buy it, *try again*

Those voicemails seemed more than emotional.

Adrienne should've sat out this interview. Her husband from the same church ministry, had TWO WHOLE BABIES WITH A SIDE CHICK WHILE MARRIED to his previous wife. Apparently the men from Joel Osteen ministry have issues!

He had an emotional and physical affair..

Just here to read ya'll's comments

Since she’s asking all these questions? What happened in your situation? 🙄 Israel got fired from Lakewood 🤦🏾‍♂️

Let's get ready to LiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiE!!

For the life of me, I don’t understand how addressing private matters publicly, is healing?

For those of you saying that church folks are hypocrites, look at you? Are you without fault? While you are sitting there judging, they are being real and confessing that he did wrong. No one is perfect and they are not trying to say they are either.

Who is advising these two?

Can you guys please talk about this topic its about k pop star seungri boyband bigbang having a sex scandal on having prostitutes in his club and having videos of women and sharing it in a group chat its really important this news have become viral and global in the unitedstates

Not judging since we all have something we have to go to GOD and ask for forgiveness. The problem here is that he has been exposed of cheating and still he as a church leader has not taken responsibility. I feel bad for the wife and all the congregation that follows him.

I know it’s their business but I just wish he would’ve just publicly apologized to his wife & his church members

What does he keep looking up in air for when he talks? Is he waiting on the bolt of lighting to strike him

An emotional affair is still bad. Many serious relationship problems stem from emotional disconnection or abuse and lack of communication. And Aventer...she seems like she’s really hurting in this arrangement but putting up a front bc she’s in too deep.

He look guilty as hell walking around that corner

Loni face while they was walking out just made it known she not here for the bullshit lmao

So he cheated again....this time making videos talking to the side chick about how his wife doesn't cook for him--and had his little boy in the video too, talking about his Mama! Also video of him telling the woman to get her bikini and meet him in Cabo...I wonder is Aventer still smiling and clapping now? Have some self-respect Aventer and leave this clown. He doesn't want to be a committed married man. John Gray is a JOKE. He should be ousted from his church.

AND WERE BACK 2020 WYA😂

Loni is not with the shits at all. She know he’s speaking lies right through his teeth🙄

He's such a liar, can't stop playing with his fingers.

Hotel to TALK?!

Since I am not religious, I don’t know who these people are...but I am enjoying the tea nonetheless.

Nice speech and all but.. 🙄

The real always talking about New Topics, but why haven’t they talked about the New Zealand shooting?

The "other woman" has come out and put those voicemails out there with him talking about him being in the same hotel with her as him & his wife were in. And i believe she is pregnant.

Who has an emotional affairs at hotels with strangers???

Loni’s face tho lol

Really thought they would share they're thoughts on the terrorist attack in New Zealand like they did in Paris, but I guess not..

Ooo tamera !!! Those pumps babe. Yesss !!!!

side eye the Aventer clap

The wife is way too happy to be there. Body language says Guilty AF