o mai... same?

Umm just to find out more haha i thought those burns will not fully recover as it is quite major. I think it would heal gradually but not fully to an extent.

​@@lmaolol8986 my doctor ever mentioned this case, the scars are will remain , colour will fade.

i like your optimism but alas this will most probably be a lifelong issue.... she had 80% burn coverage and most of them looked like 2nd degree burns with some areas like her wrists and arms most likely more 3rd degree.... depending on the individual, the skin would heal but would also be quite fragile.... the skin can even crack with excessive movement or if the skin was not constantly moisturized.... it will be a battle for likely the rest of her life.... some people take to the grafts well and the appearance can be somewhat normal looking with very distinct edges, 9:07 some people start developing keloid like puffiness.... skin around the joints must always be exercised, massaged and moisturized.... it is really a tough lot to bear... a heavy burden for a young person to deal with....

lets be practical, she will never heal. My doctor told me her scars will remain. Sorry to side track to another story where Singaporeans pitied one young lady. Not sure if you guys remember, less than 20 years ago, a couple got married at the Hilton Singapore , that same night, while the bride was showering, the groom left the room and went to another floor, he then fell off the Hilton Singapore . The bride had alot of media attention, alot of support from our countrymen. She went back to live with her maiden family family because of her deeo sorrow. Periodically, when she temporary recovered from sorrow, there would be media upates. After some years, she jumped off a building. So i feel that, the media should leave Raybe alone , not keep pumping

@@user-ur8zb9xp7l i honestly do not agree with your correlation because one sounds to be an accident and the other an act of reckless abandon that did not pan out... it is not a popular subject in singapore but mental health is a real thing. everybody breaks if pushed hard enough. however, time is really a great medicine. it heals a great deal of trauma if used judiciously. assuming that the groom's accident was the main reason to offing herself years later, the bride-was likely left alone in her grief for too long.... you should never let a person with depression have too much time for idle thoughts.... fill the time with activities and be surrounded by cheerful watchful people.... distract the patient with responsibilities and do not let their minds wander uncontrollably. set goals with their interests previously and achieve them one at a time... show them that there is much more to achieve and do in life... life is tough now but everybody would be walking through it with them... the patient must feel needed and not ignored like damaged goods... the depressed person would most certainly lash out and want to be alone, wallowing in often destructive self-pity but the people around must hunker down and take the abuse. the proverbial "unpuncturable" rubber ball... my standard for self-pity should be 2 months max.... then the tough job of snapping the person out of this condition starts. it is likely not pretty and an emotional roller coaster for all parties involved, but it is what it is. if you "volunteer" to be the cheerleader, then you better have your own traumas wired up tight.... you would likely take on some of the patient's trauma through empathy... then time would kick in and do its thing.... how long would it take? as long as it takes.... there will then usually be a dramatic event or occurrence that would allow closure... this has to happen and then the light would be at the end of the tunnel.... would medication help? yes, but it is not a long term solution.... you would likely never "fix" the trauma, but the patient has to preferably address it head-on and seek that closure. the trauma has to be recognized. only then can that person compartmentalize and move on.... it is by no means an easy process... tough cases can test one's patience to the limit, but that emotional distress has to be recognized and honoured so instead of blaming the media, i would rather speculate that the people around her did not address her mental health adequately and kinda swept it all under the rug, the way asians like to do it... the western way would rather prescribe lots of medication and practically keep the depressed person in a borderline dream state. does not really help either.... all said and done, barring cases of physical biological and chemical imbalance in the brain, it is mainly personality and environment that can lead to these mental health issues. at one point, the patient would have to understand that whatever happened was truly unfortunate and they alone would have to suck it up and move on. everybody is around them rooting to lend a helping hand, but they have to stand up themselves and take it. in the case of raybe, i do not know her personally, but the very act that gotten her so badly burnt and her near miracle of surviving the healing process is nothing short of grit and heroism in my books. she is still unable to show her scars and she is not very religious about taking care of her condition now because she still has trauma yet to be addressed. she has a mindset that her life is effectively over... she is just trudging through the motions of life... it obviously did not help that she was also quite physically attractive and most women base their existence mainly on physical validation. all i can say is that i personally do not see those burn scars as a minus... her character outshines whatever has happened to her skin-deep. i truly believe that. she did not hesitate to sacrifice her well being for her partner.... in what other way can a partner prove their loyalty and love? if i ever met a girl like so, i can see past those scars and see the real person. i would encourage her that there was no need to cover up her story... stand tall and proud and understand that very few people would be able to act like her in a crisis... the scars do not diminish her as a person. i would tell her that she may not win the miss singapore pageant this lifetime because those pageants are for clueless people.... she is already in a league of her own with no competition in sight.... haiz.... i cannot help berating the fact that her partner did not value her enough to at least look out for his own well-being... he was a grown ass man.... this inevitable crash and burn (i do not strictly qualify it as an "accident" because it diminishes the stupidity of the driver's and gang of four's thought processes) was so unnecessary and avoidable...

would have been even better if there was not speeding encouraging in the first place

@@fantasytky28would have been better if the world we live in is perfect ; would’ve, could’ve, should’ve…..

May God be with you and your family always.Amen!🙏🕯️🌹

Kinda weird to be glorifying this lady, who was encouraging her friends to speed and race their cars. People who do that are no different from murderers. I feel sorry for her, yes, but some people are going overboard with their praises like she is some messiah 😂

​@@aaastooges Ya she so selfless untill she didn't think what is the consequence of joining her friends for street racing.

lol she rushed into a large fire how can she even help him??

She is asking for it. What they are doing is OUTRAGIOUS. Yet, she is specking out to be heroic. These will signal people to think what she is doing is cool.

True. True!!! Be strong to overcome this hardship. These always a light at the end of the tunnel. Just don't give up. We will be all supporting u❤

@kushpreetdiamonique8825 it was fortunate that no passerby or innocents were hurt... that whole area was dotted with restaurants, cafes and drinking holes. can you imagine coming out of dinner and getting mowed down or having some drinks and a car comes crashing into the establishment? furthermore, i do not believe that the driver had not shown signs of such rash and brainless tendencies in the past... he was no stranger to idiotic impulses and likely had an ego to match. all his friends, and raybe included, failed to recognize or distance themselves from this dangerous cocktail of brashness and machismo... it was precisely all the failures on so many levels from so many people that led to this disaster.... i am not saying that the people around him were culpable, just calling out that if everybody had had their head screwed on right that night, this crash would likely not have happened. his friends would not have been in the car trying to beat F1 lap times, there would then be no reason to "test" his car.... even if he did decide to test his car and crashed, at least the others would be alive.... raybe would still have attempted to save him though.... oh well.... i guess it was not obvious to raybe... i am not a stranger to risk taking. i used to teach scuba and i parachute when i was younger, i do enjoy racing too but i had never done it on public roads. i have in my lifetime met numerous egotistical yahoos that think that they are THE MAN. these are the exact same people that get into trouble and spoil the trip for everybody.... they are cool until they are not. i may appear especially harsh but history keeps repeating itself... the only way to protect yourself from reckless stupidity is to distance yourself from it. of course you yourself can subscribe to this exciting lifestyle of carefree abandon, but as this cautionary tale portends: you can always do you, just don't overestimate your abilities and drag others into your, in this case, BBQ party. i read in the news report that the group was in a friend's restaurant eating and drinking before the crash.... was alcohol involved? i do not really pity the driver or his friends.... at least they had an exhilarating 2 laps before they crashed and how many people can actually say that they passed after a great last meal, an exhilarating adrenaline high and went out with a bang? you make your bed and you have to lie in it... they had their fun but their families and especially raybe is stuck with the aftermath forever... this was told to me long ago by a fellow parachutist: "the sky is never the limit.... the ground is."

​@@hawwusong74 you are correct ; the neighbourhood living in nearby hdb said this group and their friends had driven a few rounds before tge accident. And this young lady was there to support her boyfriend's act / hobby. There is an earlier video of the cars zooming past her , either filmed by herself or her girlfriend.

@@hawwusong74 "THE MAN" in this case had a tattoo on his chest !! OMG. I saw spotted it thru his white shirt, in one of the newspaper photo

@@user-ur8zb9xp7l most youths that do these tatts usually belong in one of two catagories... they are either in some sort of a gang, which has fallen quite out of favour in modern singapore, or have pretty low self-esteem at some stage of their lives... the outward display is to instill a sense of awe and admiration in the viewer... however in the asian context, most people sub-consciously reject and judge the person for having tatts.... first thing to come to mind is "gangster" or "wayward good-for-nothing".... to be fair, i have seen really nice work and the tastefully done ones are really masterpieces but those are really few and far in between.... i did do my own little survey through the years and most people with big tatts do regret it later in life, especially those with full sleeves or those peeking out of the neck.... those that cannot be easily covered by clothes... if you want to be a rebel, you have the freedom to do so, but you have to accept the social stigma and rejection from the silent and "not-so-cool" majority... nobody would ever outwardly say it to your face, but rest assured you lose a whole lot of credibility and nobody would take you seriously. yes, it is totally judging a book by its cover but it is how people size people up.... also understand that you would look like a droopy sack and a total dork when you hit your late 40s-50s.... 😅

@@hawwusong74 perhaps THE MAN was one of them.... At his funeral, they had ordered electric neon light flowers and rav their motor cars !!

the point is if you are telling a stories, you tell the full stories, not selectively ignoring one the most critical point in the stories. its like you are trying to tell a spiderman stories on how uncle ben died, but you intentionally ignore the critical story point that peter letting go of the thief, which indirectly causing the death of uncle ben. This is one crusial and critical puzzle of the stories and greatly impact how the stories unfold. In this case, the stupid act of involving/encouraging stupid act is not even mentioned here, hence you cant blame people for accusing the channel for glorifying the story, the output of the video is literally glorying it regardless of its actual intention.

⁠The title of this documentary is Restart thus I reckon the producer’s focus is on how Raybe continues her life after the incident, educating the public on the current medical abilities and status to help burnt patients, how the mental and psychological health of the patient, as well as all surrounding factors attributed, impacting burn victims including Raybe, Results varies and they try to explain the extent of how the patients are affected physically and psychologically. Glorifying is defined as praise and admiration given, which to some extent, given what Raybe has been through, it is already a painful punishment which deemed by some, she deserves praise for courage to move forward - working hard to reconcile with herself. Exactly what happened in Spider-Man, Peter had to accept the mishap has happened, the loss of his uncle Ben so he could forgive the robber/thief, move forward to become a hero himself in helping others. It is easier to wallow in depression and stay broken, instead of fighting the pain and suffering - some people prefer to just do nothing, just stay sad and drowse in self pity. Perhaps you can write in to Mediacorp and ask them to start another documentary series - Regrets I understand your point but relevant context here is of paramount importance. Bluntly, Raybe is just a subject example of focus to fulfill what the documentary is attempting to drive the message to the audience - burnt patient overcomes all odds. We know mental health can be over rated at times (strawberries gen) but we cannot deny suicides and suicide crimes are increasing, perhaps someone in depression could find glimmer of hope to find courage to face reality, forgive themselves or others and find positivity to carry on with life.

Who condoned their actions? And the involved definitely did not get away scott free, they paid the ultimate price and so did their loved ones.

@@AvengeBasketball yea. Paid the price but yet glorified? 🤔

It’s hardly glorifying, seeing how much she has lost. If anything it’s a cautionary tale to others on the very real consequences.

@@orrac1e then the title should change to "does she regret taking part in dangerous activities that everyone was sensible enough not to?"

@@xxueniiwhat dangerous activity she did? It’s her boyfriend driving recklessly and under influence. She did nothing? In fact, the only “reckless” action she did is to rush into a burning vehicle trying to save her boyfriend and other friends. This so called “reckless” action, many, including me, will deem as brave.

Yes you're right. Being a UKposts keyboard warrior is 10x braver than she was

@KeoNz oh you? Definitely not me, cause im timid as hell that i wont ever participate in drunk driving 👍👍

take videos of people speeding is inspirational?

​@@daw146exactly

as mother myself, i would have been embarassed of myself not teaching my kid well. Instead of staying and acting mature like adult, encouraging speeding and dangerous act that highly causing not only self danger, but to public too. It was so damn lucky that it was in a period of no people around the street, else many other would have been killed too