Revamp your sex life in 6 minutes | Ruth Ramsay | TEDxDaltVila

  Переглядів 2,239,776

TEDx Talks

TEDx Talks

10 місяців тому

Is there a simple mindset shift that can radically improve our sex lives? One which can apply whatever our circumstances, experience or preferences? Yes! Sex coach Ruth Ramsay shares this shift, and how its ramifications go way beyond increasing our pleasure. Ruth Ramsay is an adult sex educator and coach. She helps people understand who they are sexually, how their bodies and minds work, what they need and desire, and how to communicate that. Her style is upbeat, shame-free and pleasure-led.
Ruth holds a coaching diploma backed with vast life experience. She won an Erotic Award for campaigning for the sexual rights of people with disabilities; was a striptease artist for 14 years; teaches exotic dance; and has been a sex journalist, activist and more. Her mission is for sexual energy to be recognised as a force for good. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ: 833
@baldeagle5835
@baldeagle5835 9 місяців тому
Variety with a partner you love and respect can bring you to a level of trust and excitement unimaginable.
@billpetersen298
@billpetersen298 10 місяців тому
For the hobby method to work. Both partners have to have, a reasonable level of interest already. I’m many relationships, one partner will try anything, the other won’t even talk about it.
@donnieearlharrisjr5941
@donnieearlharrisjr5941 9 місяців тому
Amen!!
@grote__julia
@grote__julia 9 місяців тому
Sounds like incompatibility to me!
@hanspersson9451
@hanspersson9451 9 місяців тому
​@@grote__juliasounds like 3 kids and 20 years together to me...
@grote__julia
@grote__julia 9 місяців тому
@@hanspersson9451 seems like that long together would lead to better communication skills!
@hanspersson9451
@hanspersson9451 9 місяців тому
@@grote__julia That too is something that requires a mutual interest. Life sometimes gets complicated along the way.
@PriscilaHancock
@PriscilaHancock 10 місяців тому
I took Ruth's course a few months ago then had a 1:1 session recently and it has simply been life changing. I feel so connected with my husband of 18 years but also much happier and fulfilled in other areas of life - family, work, friendships. Thank you Ruth xxx
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 місяців тому
Thank you @PriscilaHancock - it's been my honour to help.
@markcavandish1295
@markcavandish1295 9 місяців тому
I am absolutely looking up her course material. Thanks!
@RiverDogRun
@RiverDogRun 9 місяців тому
How appropriate- I hit the 69th like.
@ToggleSwitch808
@ToggleSwitch808 9 місяців тому
❤❤❤
@tnix80
@tnix80 9 місяців тому
She literally said nothing
@simaroyaich-kf2vu
@simaroyaich-kf2vu 9 місяців тому
Completely agree with you...even Without changing our partner we may play better if we slightly change our priority👍
@kyf3557
@kyf3557 9 місяців тому
Thanks Ruth, well worded. It’s how I think about it, but didn’t have the words. This will help many❤
@lewashcliffe
@lewashcliffe 9 місяців тому
God, I wish I'd heard this talk when my wife was still alive and healthy. I would have shared this with her and could have helped us avoid so much emotional pain.
@TerryTibbs57
@TerryTibbs57 8 місяців тому
God bless you brother
@raymondotoole2600
@raymondotoole2600 Місяць тому
You’ll see her when your time is right and you can have a conversation with her. Keep your chin up ! use this energy and see if there’s something else with someone.
@ermonnezzasoio
@ermonnezzasoio 3 місяці тому
The best and more natural advices on this topic I´ve ever heard in my life!!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 місяці тому
Thank you! I'm pleased you enjoyed it.
@wisewomansexuality
@wisewomansexuality 9 місяців тому
I love how the idea of asking our partner what they feel interested in doing the day in their hobby takes all the expectations away I might have on my partner and keeping it simple! Well said.
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 місяців тому
Nice pic I bet you keep your partner happy
@amandahurrell7399
@amandahurrell7399 10 місяців тому
Brilliant Ruth- a really important message. Thank you x
@joshuapinter
@joshuapinter 9 місяців тому
Couldn't agree more and such a perfect analogy to remove the stigma from thinking and talking about it. Great job!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
thank you, I'm so glad you liked it!
@ebonyblack4563
@ebonyblack4563 6 місяців тому
I know someone who's treated it like this for a long time, he and his polycule are some of the most open people about their needs I've ever known, and that goes far beyond their 'play'. Their levels of communication and respect for boundaries is phenomenal, if someone isn't in the mindset to handle something in the moment they understand how to handle that and return to the topic when they're better grounded for it. Nothing is completely off limits as long as it's approached respectfully and calmly. It's amazing being around people who truly are comfortable with sharing everything about themselves with their partners, it's a thing worth working toward for anyone in a relationship where that level of intimacy is avaliable.
@RustyKnorr
@RustyKnorr 6 місяців тому
Polycule? Really? Did you just get that on Wordle and had to look it up, and now you have to use it every chance you get? FFS 🤦‍♂️
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 6 місяців тому
Great to hear. Poly people and kink people tend to be super-hot on communication, openness and enthusiastic consent. The mainstream world could learn so much from them!
@ebonyblack4563
@ebonyblack4563 6 місяців тому
@@ruthramsay_ Absolutely Agree! That's been my experience being on the fringes of both communities too. The level of interest they expect before engaging in something is a big part of it. If they can't be sure you're really there for whatever they're patient and understanding in a way that was really healing to me after having been in an abusive relationship as a teen; it helped reframe many things into a much healthier place.
@louiseday3660
@louiseday3660 9 місяців тому
Ruth this is so amazing!!! You spoke so well x
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
Thank you Louise 🙂
@BloobUbloobok
@BloobUbloobok 8 місяців тому
I have realized that is exactly what I was doing last several years , but I did not have words to explain, nice approach, thanks. 🙂
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
Thank you, I'm glad it gave you the words to describe your approach.
@kevinmichael4829
@kevinmichael4829 9 місяців тому
Thanks for your advice. I’ve since started a tennis league. I have matches all week long now.
@emmatownsend9259
@emmatownsend9259 10 місяців тому
Totally inspirational talk from an very inspirational woman. Amazing stuff Ruth ❤
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 місяців тому
Nice pic I bet you keep your men happy
@technov1king
@technov1king 4 місяці тому
she just loves it, it shines all the way through her
@fredziarz
@fredziarz 9 місяців тому
My Love and I do the exact thing and have the exact attitude as she says. I feel so good that we follow unconsciously those best practices.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
That's great to hear!
@JeuanS
@JeuanS 2 місяці тому
Want to live the dreams, Mr Pool
@healingwomanhood
@healingwomanhood 6 місяців тому
Brilliant talk! So beneficial to be able to communicate openly and overcome the shame.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 6 місяців тому
thank you! So glad to hear you enjoyed it.
@larrymendoza2570
@larrymendoza2570 4 місяці тому
Bravo! Positive, exceptional advice - I like that view! Thank you
@ananascarpenter
@ananascarpenter 9 місяців тому
Interesting and inspiring approach❣
@user-zf3ed4oo6g
@user-zf3ed4oo6g 10 місяців тому
Great stuff Ruth!!❤❤❤
@Relicarious
@Relicarious 10 місяців тому
Such an excellent reframing! Thank you. I was nearly there, as are many of the people I know, but mostly by happenstance - and you just delivered the recipe. I think a bit of scheduling and calling for some training sessions for the upcoming season would be cause for laughs - important! - and simply quite a lot of joy in these parts. I don't think it was mentioned in your talk but there is something powerful in converting expectation (with all the fraughts and perils) into anticipation and excitement (let's see what happens Tuesday).
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
@Relicarious yes! I love that - converting expectation into anticipation. There were hundreds... thousands... more things I'd have loved to say in the talk, but I only had six minutes. Next time! So glad you enjoyed it, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
@Relicarious
@Relicarious 9 місяців тому
​@@ruthramsay_ I bet there was! And that conversion speaks to a lot of things also from the wisdom of Emily Nagoski - I assume you are familiar, if not, you will find something there with which I bet you will align very well - and for me is about moving out of the critical mindset and make space for creaticity and exploration. "Next time", you say - Yes! I will look forward to more of what you wish to share.
@AschPintura
@AschPintura 10 місяців тому
YES RUTH. THATS MY FRIEND 😭😭 being the intelligent legend that she is 💜💜💜 follow her, BOOK HER COURSE. You will never find a safer space discussing these topics than you will with Ruth
@mughalische
@mughalische 9 місяців тому
Totally makes sense, thanks for revamping.
@cathyhoughton5016
@cathyhoughton5016 10 місяців тому
Amazingly well done Ruth, so proud of you!!!!
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 місяців тому
Nice pic
@slipperybeastaviationfishingsh
@slipperybeastaviationfishingsh 9 місяців тому
Very well explained and informative accurate video. Thank you for sharing
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
I am glad you found it useful, thank you for your feedback 🙂
@djdavidphillips
@djdavidphillips 10 місяців тому
Awesome Ruth I'm so happy this is out there. Well done xx
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 місяців тому
@djdavidphillips thank you so much. A TEDx talk from you next??
@mayankoza352
@mayankoza352 10 місяців тому
Great talk with relatable examples.. 🙌🏻
@HerminiePA
@HerminiePA Місяць тому
Mae West said, "if I got married, I'd have to give up my hobby." I expected this talk to be more like that.
@shynickel8239
@shynickel8239 9 місяців тому
Have been a practioneer of this idea for 50 years, she is correct.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
Thank you for sharing your life experience, that's great to hear!
@gregglockhart9551
@gregglockhart9551 10 місяців тому
Thanks! I appreciate you!
@kennethreynolds8
@kennethreynolds8 5 місяців тому
Good analogy Ruth, even experienced couples can get better with a little good coaching.
@huub245
@huub245 10 місяців тому
Nothing short of genius. Thanks for the knowledge.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 місяців тому
@huub245 so happy it landed so well for you. Enjoy putting it into practice!
@AA-qg2hu
@AA-qg2hu 9 місяців тому
Looking at Ruth’s collar 👀🧐
@aaronunroe5267
@aaronunroe5267 9 місяців тому
What an amazing presentation
@1964JEDAGI
@1964JEDAGI 3 місяці тому
The planning part is easy. Every morning before breakfast. Every evening before sleep, and random times during the day.
@user-gz2kj1me3x
@user-gz2kj1me3x 9 місяців тому
So simple and obvious - I can't wait to re-frame :)
@LastNightADJSavedMyLife
@LastNightADJSavedMyLife 10 місяців тому
Super well done Ruth , may it get seen by many x
@drusmith6463
@drusmith6463 10 місяців тому
concur!,,, already waiting at the pub!!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
Thank you so much! I'm amazed and delighted with viewing figures so far!
@SeaThatPilot
@SeaThatPilot 10 місяців тому
Amazing Ruth. ❤❤
@alihendrycoaching350
@alihendrycoaching350 9 місяців тому
Absolutely love this reframe! Thank you for the valuable and inclusive work you do.
@robbarrell
@robbarrell 9 місяців тому
Unless they’re an Olympic pro
@manueljiza
@manueljiza 9 місяців тому
"We just hope we'll spontaneously want it at the same time"
@fellipemarques1247
@fellipemarques1247 3 місяці тому
Foi com esse vídeo que eu comecei a praticar tênis, mudou minha vida
@hsk2978
@hsk2978 10 місяців тому
if you want to get better in tennis, you can't play with the same person every time 😅
@_paper_chase_
@_paper_chase_ 10 місяців тому
Facts! 😂😂
@quazzydiscman
@quazzydiscman 10 місяців тому
That's absolutely not true... Clearly you don't know much about "tennis" 😂
@Qeybdiid25
@Qeybdiid25 10 місяців тому
Haraam
@gabi_cnd
@gabi_cnd 10 місяців тому
You can. But the other person has to put time and interest in the tennis journey too. You can find a new way of seeing a tennis match if your partner is willing to do some changes too, and try new things. We don't need different people, we need different mindsets. Tho, it's good to try playing with people that are open minded, so you can learn how to play and find joy in the journey
@gijsleffelaar908
@gijsleffelaar908 10 місяців тому
Mixed double is the best game.😅
@pritamsri
@pritamsri 9 місяців тому
All I can say is - she found a platform to speak her fav hobby and also do business. 😄😃
@charliexu5139
@charliexu5139 9 місяців тому
Business for sure.
@Vladimir_osteo
@Vladimir_osteo 9 місяців тому
Thank you! Wonderful comparing🎉
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
I'm glad you found it a useful watch 🙂
@henrikohm
@henrikohm 9 місяців тому
For many people it is not about the choice. Its about being with a person that does not turn you on but a person with who you have children and leaving is a high cost. I agree with the hobby statement.
@melmier3500
@melmier3500 9 місяців тому
But you've chosen to have children and to be a Family?!
@schroederluck7984
@schroederluck7984 9 місяців тому
@@melmier3500consider the possibilities. Maybe their partner ballooned up to 300 pounds and are not physically attractive anymore.
@melmier3500
@melmier3500 9 місяців тому
@@schroederluck7984 we don't know what Future hold. I guess I'm a little bit tired of people acting like they don't have a choice. Humans Change and our bodies are changing as Well. Gainig weight can have a Lot of different reasons. Would be great if a Partner can help and motivate to Change a Lifestyle amd behavouir and sometimes accept a Situation If the reason are health issues for example. I guess I'm a little bit tired of people blaming others and acting like they don't have a choice. We tend to be lazy and are often not willing to change something even if we are not happy. Love and grattitude are powerful 🌤️💕 Wish you all the best
@mabriff
@mabriff 7 місяців тому
@@schroederluck7984 Exactly. The love is still there, but physical attraction is a real struggle.
@ShrinkiesWife
@ShrinkiesWife 7 днів тому
@@schroederluck7984 MFT for couples therapy is an option.
@NeilHarper1
@NeilHarper1 9 місяців тому
Fantastic talk. Thank you.❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
I hope you enjoy putting it into practice!
@erikschaepers
@erikschaepers 9 місяців тому
Brilliant comparison ..! Thank you
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
I'm glad you liked it - thank you for commenting 🙂
@annabailey770
@annabailey770 9 місяців тому
Amazing Ruth!
@adventurecoalition3690
@adventurecoalition3690 9 місяців тому
Great analogy
@IzziedeD
@IzziedeD 9 місяців тому
probably the best tedx i've ever seen
@patrickpoland9223
@patrickpoland9223 3 місяці тому
Awesome analogy and talk thank you Ruth 😀
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 місяці тому
Happy you enjoyed it. Hope you have fun putting it into practice!
@simonsitinjak
@simonsitinjak 6 місяців тому
3:20 Most of what we are told when we are young is what can go wrong. 4:15 Let's start thinking about it like a hobby. This is a positive affirmative. 6:05 Skill remember: Communication, creativity, empathy.
@claravanser7989
@claravanser7989 8 місяців тому
Great talk! I 100% agree
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the talk.
@barrysmith8920
@barrysmith8920 10 місяців тому
Great talk, I totally agree
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 місяців тому
@barrysmith8920 thank you!
@infantnelson9356
@infantnelson9356 Місяць тому
Amazingly conveyed❤❤,
@isabelmartin40
@isabelmartin40 5 місяців тому
Thank U!! That is very very good!👏👏👏👏
@TheCucabarra
@TheCucabarra 8 місяців тому
Wow hahaha this is exactly what my mom thought me when I was a teenager in the 2000’s. She thought me to see it as a hobby, like tennis! It was such a good lesson for me! ❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
That's amazing that your Mom described it this way!
@RustyKnorr
@RustyKnorr 6 місяців тому
It’s TAUGHT, not thought. Maybe she should have also taught you how to spell. 🤦‍♂️
@adunknowng
@adunknowng 5 місяців тому
​@@RustyKnorrI tawt I taw a puddy tat
@herientijuana
@herientijuana 7 місяців тому
As with any sport, to be your best, you need to practice often and with as many opponents as possible.
@nobsblend
@nobsblend 9 місяців тому
Ruth is fantastic, and we love this talk 👏
@nun-chan9433
@nun-chan9433 10 місяців тому
Thank you Ramsay for your epic bliss story. I'm an intermediate English learner. I've first heard most comprehensible talk in TED talk. I would like to make this video my textbook. But when I'd encounter that 3 letters, my solo violent activity would come not to be stopped even if I'd grit my teeth. I hope these three letter would be changed into 'it' or 'debate' or better stuff.
@12bluering
@12bluering 5 місяців тому
brilliant talk
@thibod07
@thibod07 10 місяців тому
Interesting approach! We decided to take a hobby and never came back to sexe! Both our quality of lifes actually greatly improved in doing it. Yes indeed hobbies are great things to do.
@docwatson1134
@docwatson1134 9 місяців тому
Please tell...what hobbies?
@anthonyb5630
@anthonyb5630 9 місяців тому
What hobby?
@kimi651
@kimi651 9 місяців тому
Hobby: side chick, 😂😂
@user-gg5ov9hq6g
@user-gg5ov9hq6g 10 місяців тому
Great article 👏
@paulmeszesan8970
@paulmeszesan8970 9 місяців тому
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 місяців тому
Nice pic and 😃
@alastairnaughton1288
@alastairnaughton1288 2 місяці тому
Great presentation!
@eliasblum753
@eliasblum753 9 місяців тому
I have always approached it this way. It is a hobby.
@RuneRelic
@RuneRelic 9 місяців тому
Failure is part of the learning process. Especially joking about it aftwerwards. How can you figure out what works, without knowing what does not work ?
@heatherstocker4171
@heatherstocker4171 9 місяців тому
The funniest in jokes with us are the failures. They can really get us laughing.
@pitonstrut
@pitonstrut 10 місяців тому
Кира, спасибо за то, что смогли додавить Александра Александровича на интервью))
@darmazzy1
@darmazzy1 8 місяців тому
Always has and is STILL my favorite hobby😉🔥💓
@wendellrider1212
@wendellrider1212 8 місяців тому
Excellent lecture!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 місяців тому
Never had it, and now I'm too old, I guess you don't miss what you never had. Not upset about it,I've always just accepted it
@minni1094
@minni1094 9 місяців тому
How old are you?
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 місяців тому
@@minni1094 63 in a few months
@victoriajones8974
@victoriajones8974 9 місяців тому
@@Pault3788 It's never too late!
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 місяців тому
@victoriajones8974 prostate issues,and pelvic floor disfunction prevent it
@bgouthrogrunwald1665
@bgouthrogrunwald1665 27 днів тому
Try prostate massage?
@fad23
@fad23 2 місяці тому
I'm glad she mentioned "including solo."
@thatoneguy1821
@thatoneguy1821 9 місяців тому
The Hobby analogy assumes that both partners have an interest in that Hobby. I married someone that later came out as asexual and can attest that this definitely is not always the case
@davidjennings2179
@davidjennings2179 9 місяців тому
Not everyone likes tennis either.
@thatoneguy1821
@thatoneguy1821 9 місяців тому
@@davidjennings2179 And?
@davidjennings2179
@davidjennings2179 9 місяців тому
@@thatoneguy1821 It doesn't assume both partners have an interest in the hobby, the video is just addressing the situation where they are both interested. The analogy still works if they aren't, it just assumes the connection is clear. If someone doesn't like tennis no one is making them play (hopefully).
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
@thatoneguy1821 mismatched interest in 'the hobby' is the most common issue people are describing in the comments under my talk... I will be preparing a workshop or resource around this soon. Thank you for sharing your situation.
@teinspringz
@teinspringz 7 місяців тому
​@@ruthramsay_ Interested to know if this workshop is called divorce and legal uncoupling
@christianmarquez3143
@christianmarquez3143 2 місяці тому
This was great. Good stuff. I need to listen again so I can get better at tennis.
@user-cq6uj9xs8q
@user-cq6uj9xs8q Місяць тому
I really want ponroticacom hotsexmovies
@user-cq6uj9xs8q
@user-cq6uj9xs8q Місяць тому
This is my iñtrest request
@piranhaparran3007
@piranhaparran3007 9 місяців тому
I LOVE IT!!!
@CurriedBat
@CurriedBat 9 місяців тому
Ah, not a bad idea. Put it on the shelf with all the others that I'll never get around to doing. Hehe
@giacomofrattini4456
@giacomofrattini4456 6 місяців тому
Wise words :) liked so much!
@kidkava
@kidkava 6 місяців тому
Flawless presentation.
@NightXof
@NightXof 9 місяців тому
If people evolve constantly trying to do new things.... You dont need a new person, you renew yourself...
@toothnail605
@toothnail605 9 місяців тому
I've always have done what she said and even treated it like a creative art form. I guess as a musician taking any subject, activity, sport whatever it's just seams so simple to just try and get creative in whatever you do and the most important part is have fun with it. I've don't that with many things I won't go into. But lol the hard part is finding a partner or people on the same page. Because with women one day they are on the same page and then down the rd, whoa, a totally different person and not into it with the same passion. Yeah I know we all get old and change but as the saying goes it take *two* to tango, and because of that reason what I have created solo wise is just well super epic! I always look forward to tomorrow - solo wise, so if a partner or my partner is not into it who cares! Solo will `always come first, the rest will just be a bonus, because I can always count on me lol being there... Peace
@apeschell
@apeschell 9 місяців тому
We have a master debater here.
@mobilemcsmarty1466
@mobilemcsmarty1466 9 місяців тому
with you on that my friend. this message is really to women. men already get it. sadly and generally it falls on deaf ears. good thing that we can entertain ourselves no matter what 😎
@toothnail605
@toothnail605 9 місяців тому
@@mobilemcsmarty1466 Agreed!
@GriffWild
@GriffWild 9 місяців тому
Grateful for this reframe.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
Glad you found it useful, thank you for commenting 🙂
@powerfuleric7398
@powerfuleric7398 9 місяців тому
Thank you for this! Great job!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you for commenting.
@cindyborcherding8927
@cindyborcherding8927 10 місяців тому
Absolutely communication is important with your partner. If you cant talk about what you want then you are with the wrong partner. 😉😊
@desertsunset8025
@desertsunset8025 9 місяців тому
I don't think she is promoting divorce or breaking up from a meaningful relationship .
@heatherstocker4171
@heatherstocker4171 9 місяців тому
Or you've been raised in a very conservative household.
@MindyTunnell
@MindyTunnell 6 місяців тому
Absolutely not true.
@clarkswainston8492
@clarkswainston8492 23 дні тому
I love the analogy and the reframe…completely agree with you. But what if you have a spouse who does not believe in hobbies…literally. Doesn’t see the point.
@EricB256
@EricB256 9 місяців тому
It's a hobby indeed. But when you are looking for a partner who is a good fit, finding out that you shre other hobbies is a lot more important than this one if you are looking for compatibility in those areas as well. But let's not forget that compatibility in this hobby is important as well for a relationship to last. Thanks for the inspring moment. Oh, and: cool necklace of sorts, too. Somebody can be really proud of you.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 місяців тому
@EricB256 thank you for sharing your thoughts and feedback. Yes compatibility across the board is so important!
@CodyAdams-pf9un
@CodyAdams-pf9un 9 місяців тому
I think similar goals and values are the only important part in marriage psychology studies. Don't really need to both to enjoy tennis and true crime shows.
@geno5169
@geno5169 8 місяців тому
This was very helpful. I’ve been married 32 years. So what ever to help me and my wife
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
Glad to hear it was helpfu!
@BGTuyau
@BGTuyau 7 місяців тому
Sounds great ... assuming one has an appealing, compatible, willing partner. Too often, there's the rub [or lack of one].
@kathleendixon4125
@kathleendixon4125 8 місяців тому
Thank you.
@wiksson
@wiksson 10 місяців тому
Well done Ruth! 👏🏼
@philippmonihart9940
@philippmonihart9940 9 місяців тому
Great analogy. I'll start looking for a Tennis-Camp 😁
@btdani
@btdani 2 місяці тому
Tennis camps seem to be associated with upside down pineapples 🤷‍♂️🍍🍍🍍
@earncryptoz
@earncryptoz 10 місяців тому
I would have to watch this over and over again 😍😍😍 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 місяців тому
@earncryptoz so glad you like it! Thank you for commenting.
@emmasfather999
@emmasfather999 9 місяців тому
Well done Ruth. Proud of you!
@gbengaogun
@gbengaogun 9 місяців тому
What a talk! I just found my new hobby!
@jenyadyo6
@jenyadyo6 9 місяців тому
Brilliant!
@passingby4547
@passingby4547 8 днів тому
This... seriously helped me. I wanna be more active with my wife
@ximenafuentes3522
@ximenafuentes3522 3 місяці тому
What a wonderful talk! ❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 місяці тому
thank you, I'm delighted you enjoyed it so much :)
@gipvision6937
@gipvision6937 6 місяців тому
Step 1: find a partner
@tingting6889
@tingting6889 Місяць тому
Thats asking alot these days haha
@kevinfocht6982
@kevinfocht6982 29 днів тому
😂
@Curious68
@Curious68 9 місяців тому
Thank you
@diverbrent
@diverbrent 9 місяців тому
Simply brilliant, thank you!!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 місяців тому
I'm glad you enjoyed it 🙂
@Ewinter3707
@Ewinter3707 3 місяці тому
I love this!
@chelsiaa7
@chelsiaa7 4 дні тому
I would like to see him after 15 years in the channel if that's so it would be greattt ❤
ОДИН ДОМА #shorts
00:34
Паша Осадчий
Переглядів 5 млн
Let’s Talk Porn | Maria Ahlin | TEDxGöteborg
17:39
TEDx Talks
Переглядів 9 млн
Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire  | Pamela Joy | TEDxPaloAlto
13:31
TEDx Talks
Переглядів 2,3 млн
How to have more "hell yes" sex | Leigh Ware | TEDxOakland
9:51
TEDx Talks
Переглядів 375 тис.
ОДИН ДОМА #shorts
00:34
Паша Осадчий
Переглядів 5 млн