As someone who wears everything on this list aside from a chain, I can confirm that these will not get a woman to like you if she does not already like you. I think it’s important to dress this way because I myself like the way I look. Do not have any delusions that this will get you more looks or attention from women.

I'm going to wear all of these simultaneously for the ultimate look. A white crew neck T-shirt layered under an unbuttoned linen shirt layered under a suit with a chain, a watch, white sneakers, and boxer briefs layered over the suit so the ladies know I'm rocking it.

women love it when I wear nothing

When I was chasing the woman who is now my wife, and who is very stylish and attractive, she gave me a lot of good advice. Most of her suggestions agree with yours, but I would add that the proper use of colors in casual wear is important. In my case my skin and hair color works best with warm, earth tones such as tans. I always take her along when buying clothes and I let her pick things out, which invariably are very attractive things that I would never think of buying myself. So that's another piece of advice I would give to men - ask your lady's opinion!

1). A Suit 1:01 2). Button Downs & Linen Shirts 1:39 3). White T-Shirt 2:26 4). Fragrance 3:19 5). A Good Watch 4:17 6). A Chain 4:58 7). Strong Shoe Game 5:41 8). Layers 7:20 9). Your Underwear 8:14

Ah yes, boxer briefs, sometimes I go on a walk with nothing but boxer briefs and I definitely get a lot of looks. Definitely would recommend!

Number 10. If you have money and are physically attractive you can wear a garbage bag and you'll be good.

I'm a 70 year old man who wears old joggers, a frayed T Shirt, and old trainers, and the ladies still look at me. 💘

Dress well guys, show up for yourself, look good, smell good, feel good and be yourself. Be genuine

So in the last six months my wardrobe has been over hauled. Better fitting t's/ polos, some linen shirts, two watches, a couple pairs of boots, a pair of white leather low tops and I went over the top and bought both a seude and a leather jacket. I also started getting in better shape. I was never chubby but I also never had any real muscle. In total I might have blown about $2,500. (Mostly the jackets/boots/watches) I've quite literally received more compliments in the last six months than I had in the rest of my life. The difference in dating is night and day. When I meet new people I'm treated with far more respect and the energy is very different. Even the way family and friends treat me has totally changed. It's honestly wild. My only regret is not putting that effort into my appearance sooner. I never had low confidence or anything but these changes certainly have boosted it further.

Just getting started and I appreciate your comments on wearing what makes you feel good and perhaps someone will like it. I swear by that but I also think have fun with it, make it you, and it's just clothes. I always trip out on people who say "My clothes don't matter to me." What? You are choosing the cloths you put on, they are physically wrapped around your body, and most everyone who sees you sees you in these very clothes. And that's not important to you? I like this host more and more because she really does seem to be trying to give good practical advice for well intentioned people looking for more success in their romantic lives. That's cool.

I did an experiment wearing a simple button down shirt roll up sleeves and silver watch and RayBan bronze polar you get noticed from women. Definitely light cologne too helps

Fragrance tip, go to the store and try it on, leave it for an hour without smelling it if you can. The smell can change drastically person to person. I love green Irish tweed by creed but when its on me I lose a lot of what I love about it. So for me it doesnt work. Love the channel, I learn a lot :) After almost 3 years with a horrifically abusive narcissist and being used for a green card a lot of your videos have helped me avoid falling for the same things I did before and helped me walk away from what I know isnt good for me... somewhat, its progress.

Well, I had no idea that your "Teddy" was Teddy Baldassarre who's got me addicted to his UKposts Channel on watches. You two have added so much enjoyment and value to my life. Keep your objective, straight talk approach. It's refreshing. You have a lot of competition in your space. He has none! Keep it up and best wishes!

Good point at the beginning about being yourself and having your own style.

i dont care what u say i wear what i want

Thanks Courtney. Re suits: a fitted suit is important, a badly fitted suit looks awful. Similarly, understanding whether your body type is suitable for an American cut-, a British cut-, or an Italian cut-suit is important (as is drop lengths, etc.). You don't have to go bespoke but getting your suit tailored is handy if needed. Fitted clothes apply to most any clothing piece to be fair. Re colours: generally neutral colours work well as the girl will be thinking about how you'd look together. If you're outfit is colour neutral and uncomplicated it'll complement pretty much anything she might wear. Furthermore, you won't be distracting when paired up. A gentleman tends to have an understated power and strength. Fragrance: pick something that complements your natural frame and persona. If you're not a big muscly extraverted guy you probably shouldn't make a heavy musky fragrance your day-to-day option. Re shoes: if you have the option or occasion, remember to wear appropriate shoes. E.g., Oxfords are generally very formal (wedding, interview, etc.), Derby's less so but smart. Your thoughts Courtney? Thanks again.

I'm 56, married, and have moved way past trying to impress women, so I usually wear the standard "old man" uniform: khaki cargo shorts, t-shirt, white ankle socks, New Balance 608s. 🙂

Genuinely helpful. Well done, Court.

I discovered Joop after going through a dozen colognes. I've never looked back. I wear it sparingly, only on date night or if I'm in a suit, but the compliments over the years have made me realize it is a favorite. Whatever my body chemistry, it is enhanced by that particular fragrance.

For me the word “basic” comes along with the wrong connotation nowadays, it doesn’t mean you look average or basic; it means that these are absolute staples, you basically should have them! Great video Courtney 👏🏼👏🏼

Hey Courtney, love your videos! Your videos/tips help me out a lot, so keep up the good work ❤️

I started wearing some simple chains silver and black mostly I don’t really go for gold and then I use colognes from scent bird but these are good tips , I found my style over time , but it’s always good to get tips from a woman’s perspective

I'm glad you added the chain but I will take it one step further. A chain under the clothes with a religious/scared/sentimental piece on it will always be classic. I am also thrilled you make a stand for footwear. I recently purchased a pair of Kilties for my work boots. I installed them and then today I realized I have one side up and one side down. I thought I would try to put this off as a fashion statement but I put them both right side up.

I've been following your dress tips for a year or two and the response I'm getting is incredible. Two weeks ago I had a couple of girls basically cat call me as I walked past them wearing a black tucked button-down shirt, with rolled up sleeves and beige chinos, and black dress shoes. I used to wear sneakers jeans, and t shirts and never even turned an eye. Thanks Courtney your tips are life changing. You rock!

I've been wearing Kouros by Yves Saint Laurent for over 35 years. Still love it! Thank God they still make it! It's the GenX version of Old Spice. LOL!

I wear DM's Jadons with the platform sole and I'm already 6'2 without them and yep, it does get me attention. Looks like I've managed to get things right regarding this video as I already do all things listed and it's been a major game changer. Just to get a glance from a woman and then a smile absolutely makes my day.

Agree on all but the chain. Thanks for the tips!

A few years back I decided I didn't want to dress like a young person anymore, but rather adopt a more mature style. On my own I started to pick things that I saw successful people wear, or things that I liked that looked more mature. Apparently I picked the correct stuff as I got every single thing you listed except for the chain. I get a ton of compliments on a regular basis and feel a lot more confident. Even young women who I thought liked the young style, have given me more attention in my more mature clothes.

Your videos have come on a really long well and you pruduce some of the best content in this genre. Please keep it up and will be at a million in no time

Standard setup is cotton shirt (can be rolled up in heat and normal for smart) white t’s and dark blue t’s. Black washes out quickly and turn yellow’ish after a few washes.

Where was this type of content 10 years ago?! You are a valuable asset for men.

I have everything on the list aside from a chain. Under 40s I think it fits, but now entering 40s doesn’t quite feel right. Maybe it depends on the vibe I want to give off, but I prefer put together and established over trying to look young again. Great video as always!

Thanks Courtney for creating this video and keeping wardrobe tips easy and affordable. What are your thoughts on 'smart watches' as an accessory? - Ron

The right guy could wear a paper bag just as long as his HYGIENE IS ON POINT!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Thank you for this. As a more “mature” guy, I kind of struggle with some of the new fashion trends and I am much more comfortable dressing in the manner you suggest. Glad I am on the right track!

Finally someone mentions the idea of finding your fragrance and scent based on the person. The watch is also key, as I am biased as well. Super good!

Turtleneck….it’s always been an eye catcher for me….(winter of course). I’m 6’3 and 200, so I can pull it off. Maybe not for everyone

No. 1 tip to attract girls ; don't ignore them!

Hey Courtney! I've been interested in mens fashion off and on ever since my older sister gave me a copy of the book Clothes and the Man by Alan Flusser for a graduation gift (you probably know of this guy). I want to say that you did an exceptional job with this compilation, and clearly you have some street cred on the subject.

#1 - I have a few suits which I only wear on formal occasions. #2 - You cannot go wrong with a good button-down shirt. Even better is a linen button-down one. #3 - Basics never out of style. #4 - As far as fragrances go, subtle works for both genders. #5 - A good watch is always welcome. It does not have to be a $40 000 Rolex. For a few hundred you can buy a really smart watch. #6 - I like to wear a chain. Also a wrist band on my right wrist. On my left one I of course wear a cool watch ;-) #7- Loafers are OK, but I need these ankle socks with them, lest they chafe me. #8 - Layering is good in cooler weather. #9 - I only wear boxer-briefs. They are the best of both worlds. June is Wedding Season! Are you going to any? No doubt you are! 😘

Very beautifully explained and I'm sure this is very helpful to have a gentleman look for every guy. As they say first impression is the best and last impression. you don't really have to spend so much on branded clothes, but spend little and still look good is a possible thing you can have. Very well explained . Thank you and God bless this channel :)

Hi Courtney. I know that I'm taking a shot in the dark here. But could you tell me who makes those cordavan-colored, double monk strap loafers in the middle shown at 6:29 mins of the video? They are very cool looking and I can't seem to find them anywhere. Much appreciated!

Uh it does happen absolutely have met someone who said something about fragrance and gave up the box quickly

I have spent my entire life (I'm 58) avoiding making any fashion statement. I've worn a suit once in the past five years. For the most part I have only ever worn what's comfortable and these days mostly wear Indian or Thai pants and t-shirts of loose sleeveless shirts. Never had a problem finding great women and am married to a gorgeous woman 24 years younger than I am. What this lady is saying may actually reflect what a lot of women think, but frankly I would forget all about it, wear what you like and spend your time pursuing your deepest passions and hit the gym every single day of your life. I've never deliberately tried to attract women but from my life experience this is a formula that does. You can practically be wearing a clown outfit and women will still come to you if you're 100% on purpose and in great physical and emotional shape. The more important issue is, do you want them?

I do have/use all these, besides the chain, and can attest to their validity as making you being perceived more favorably as a man. Also, I could add (leather) boots to complement the shoe game, these are quite unusual, specially the dressier types, and women do take notice of them. Also some increase your height quite well which we all know can be a plus for shorter guys.

Thank you Courtney, good 411. When you got to footwear I was hoping to hear a comment on leather sandals. I'm a homegrown older Florida boy.. While, like anyone, I want to raise an eyebrow or subtle smile of approval. On the other hand, as you said what we wear says alot about ourselves. I decided long ago, given the tropical climate, 'what's cool is cool'. In fact, I believe in my heart, sandals are the "state shoe" right next to the State tree, the sabal palm. If I'm wrong, I hope to be loved anyway.

I loved all your tips because they are so true. I subscribed to your channel.

As someone that only use a chain and nothing else mentioned in this list, i can confirm that its not as important as you might think. For example usually people tell me that I have a pretty unique style(girls and friends), so if you dont fell sure about what you wear, just remember that sometimes being off the standarts is also good. Ofc you need to know how to dress yourself and how to combine colors, etc but just be yourself and wear what you think represents you :).

Fascinating that women notice the little details in accessories. Nice insight Courtney. Will take some of these on board.

Thank you so much Courtney. Great tips.

I find the premise of this video odd: sexiness related to things. If the question was posed to me, the answer I would give would include: kindness, inner calm, intellectual curiosity, and culture without poshiness. Accessories and clothes are meaningless other than being clean and appropriate for the place and time. The answers given in this video remind me of the characteristics a divorce psychologist used to describe my ex-wife: superficial, self absorbed, and pretentious. (What can I say, I worked 90 hours a week at the time and was often sleep deprived so, at the time, I had deminished insight and made poor decisions.)

I'm standing up for the V-neck: It's more interesting when worn alone or with an open overshirt/jacket, it's less visible when layering under a button-down or sweater, and the larger opening makes it easier to squeeze my big head through them! Which is less likely to mess up my hair and avoid stretching the collar as quickly over time.

Confidence without arrogance..kindness , clothes that fit right and not wearing more than 3 colours ....imho.Cheers Courtney !!

Just be you... Don't wear anything you don't feel comfortable wearing... Have a great day everyone 👍

My best experience dating, was with a woman who dressed all the time like she would indoors. I don't really wear anything special - of course there are formalities which must be considered in certain situations, but in the end a person will love you for who you are and you them.

Great vid with a good perspective. Appreciate your videos!

I think it really depends on the region your in too. The suit and loafers and button down linen shirt works in big cities. I do like a chain to go along with my gold nugget wedding ring but since I’m always working (welder and mechanic) and I feel a man should always be ready to work, I pretty much wear the same thing a 100% of the time, even when I go out. Dark blue dickies work pants (not the cargo pocket ones) leather work boots and a tank wife beater tank top (I hate collars around my neck) I don’t wear a fragrance but I do use deodorant so I guess I have a fragrance. I think no matter what, if your clean and confident, you’ll be set. One time me and my wife were invited to a dinner right after I got off work so I had to go straight there. My wife thought it was so funny that I was a little late but my main concern was to clean my nails with my knife before I went in.

My nose barely works. How to choose a fragrance that is flattering on me?

I can confirm the layers and the necklace does get alot of attention. I am always getting compliments about my beads on my neck. Also, the layering give a sort of confidence.

One of the few times I was ever cat called was when I wore a V neck. This wasn’t mentioned either but for some strange reason my baseball shirt made my ex crazy. I will say I could bench more in those days and body fat % was 7-8% as opposed to like 11-13% now.

Thanks for your video. As a divorce coach for men, I do quite a bit of Men's consulting and you inspired me to do my first reaction video on this one. Feel free to take a look.

Having a girl friend with good taste help with clothing and accessories goes a long way. I did this 35 years ago and was well dressed the night I met my wife.

The best fragrance is a custom essential oil blend without any synthetics or alcohol.

Totally surprised that suspenders didn't show up. I think your list is a list that says safe more than standing out and it seems that's what you are going for. I started wearing suspenders occasionally for comfort, they are infinitely more comfortable than belts. After a medical incident that a belt exacerbated I'm now wearing suspenders almost exclusively. Since, I get many compliments from women on them, some say they keep trying to get their boyfriend/husband to wear them.

She is absolutely right. I own a dealership and I walk around wearing flip flops and torn shirt and I wonder why I can’t get a date. You want to change your life? Change your wardrobe!!! Thank you Courtney 🌹

Back in the day when I went out to bars, I had a "uniform". I would wear a white button up dress shirt, Levi's 501's and Deck shoes. for some reason, this outfit was a babe magnet. My sleeves were rolled up just enough to show about half my forearms.

All of these are pretty surface level fits to have and I love that! Doesn’t have to be super expensive or crazy but just the basics are usually pretty effective!

I think the key is to really know how to dress for your body type, which is something I find men struggle a bit more with.

Absolutely loving the video, keep up the good work.

how bout a security guard uniform? You know you like it.

Thanks so much for all your advice. ❤❤

Haven’t watched the video yet but I already know it’s a banger because it’s Courtney! You never miss🔥😂

Great video Miss Ryan. I would love to see more videos about fragrances💚

I really appreciate this video. It helped me with some confidence

Courtney Ryan a great video, but I have to ask what is an F-Boy? I heard you mention this term when you were talking about chains. Several things came to mind but I'd like confirmation I completely got your drift. Thank you, much appreciated if you reply.

Add a Number 10 to the list: A well-fitting waistcoat(best combined with a dress shirt & tie, suit optional). I wear them occasionally when I want to dress up a notch or two(I wear button up shirts a lot as part of my semi-preppy style) but things to be less bulky, I'd change a suit blazer to a waistcoat, and almost always wear a tie to complement it, then match it with jeans/chinos/dress pants and dress shoes. I just feel amazing in this combo, plus lots of women love it when I wear this combo(see my avatar on the left)!

"Fboy I will ruin your life" lol lots of success with that mode for me. Just being honest. Thanks for the coaching and content! Improving as always.

Wow! Great facts, very helpful indeed... Thanks dear👌🙂

Thank you, very helpful😍

I think the most important thing is just to approach as many women as possible because a lot of women aren't gonna like you because you're just not their type, so you kind of have to get past all the women that aren't your type so you can find a women quickly that is attractive to and you are her type as well. It's a numbers game.

This is a really good video, Courtney! Thanks for making this! Definitely on point!

Hi Miss Courtney, What do you think of a Boho shirt with slightly rolled up sleeves?

I appreciate your effort. It depends where you are and the socioeconomic level of everyone involved. Here in small-town Indiana none of this matters AT ALL! NONE. OF. IT! As a man who embraces these suggestions it's frustrating. Men and women alike just look like crap most of the time; not only clothes but how they take care of themselves (they don't). They don't understand dressing well, don't have the stores to purchase nice things, and don't have the money. I was told one day that I looked "nice" when all I was wearing was work boots (sure they were from Barney's - LOL), dark jeans, and a sweater over a dress shirt. Trust me, it's dismal here. I have nice clothes from my career in the federal government, so I might as well use them. Anyway, regards from Indiana!

If you take reasonably good care of yourself and groom fairly well, you can wear just about anything.

The thing about fragrances getting a guy laid reminds me of a guy who sued the company that makes Axe shampoo and deodorant because he wasn't getting laid when using those products.

Many years ago I was always well dressed. I was never schooled to understand women so had no idea if I was attracting anyone unless they made obvious by almost jumping on me which happened. On night leaving work, hotel in NYC, I made my way that night to a local subway I never go into. Well I had a nice watch on, gold chain, nice white lightweight designer hooded jacket. I obviously looked really good cause I attracted four guys who mugged me. I stopped wearing chains watches and took up carrying a knife.

Hi Courtney, love your videos, to me, as a man, when it comes to wearing a chain, it should NEVER be worn outside, I also believe the Cuban link is the sexiest design out there, the Fígaro I think it’s too loud and less formal and more of a screaming for attention of a design regardless of ocasión, season or time of day, and if worn outside, I get the sense it makes me look like a mess or de organized person, but then again, that’s just me. I also advise to avoid those outrageously thick chains. Wouldn’t go thicker than a 1cm or 3/8 of an inch wide Cuban link. What’s your opinion Courtney?

Question: Would / are tattoos considered as "wearing"? If so, I'm surprised they are not the list; if not an honorable mention. As always great content and thx!

Confidence is key!

I think you will find that dressing well, and masculine, will help you in all facets of your interactions. I think one thing that’s often overlooked is making yourself look like you care about how you look. I know that’s a mouthful. Not all of us are investment bankers. A working man that looks like a working man who takes care of himself gets respect from men and women. It’s good business too. Staying clean, neat and professional looking gets noticed across the board by men and women who you might presume to be out of your league.

I know where a crisp, white, button down dress shirt with the sleeves rolled up feels really good. To me it is a bonus that women like this as well. I have dozens of black or white crew neck t-shirts. They are simple and easy to take care of. Keeping the white t-shirt really white or the black t-shirt really black is important as well. You don't want them to look old and ratty. It the neck hole is a little worn, toss it. A good way to have a good fragrance is by the shaving cream/soap you are using. I like to use a nice sandalwood shaving cream. It seems great while I'm shaving. I'll shower after shaving to make sure there is no cream behind my ears. To add the smell back, I'll use an aftershave balm. Not the ones which are mostly alcohol. These dry out the skin and burn. You want a creamy balm that will moisturize your face and continue the smell. I don't typically do the watch and never do a chain. I dress for me. So this won't change. A nice Cole Hann or Salvatore Ferragamo loafer is a great option. They look really nice and feel great. If you try on a shoe and it pinches a little, NEVER let the sales person convince you that leather shoes will stretch. They have to feel great from day 1. You also want a good shoe tree to insert in the shoe and keep its shape. Above all, you need to have the body to pull all of this off. A dad bod can look good if you don't wear things which are form-fitting BUT if you can't tuck in your shirts, you need to lose the belly.

I'm thinking of wearing a shirt "I don't have the tik tok".. wish me luck lol

i wonder if it is a bot or actually Courtney who replies back A live stream soon next month and a ten minute video from Courtney about the USA abortion ruling would be interesting as a women I know this is a Fashion and dating channel more, it would be a good video topic. Happy Friday too!

Thanks Courtney , does this apply to older men ?

You forgot the sexiest thing of all: A wedding band.

Wait. They lied to me?!? This cologne won’t get me a paternity suit?!? This was a better video than what I expected. Thanks.

Hey courtney, why do you say not to go for a v neck? As a bigger guy, Ive been told vnecks are better because crews exaggerate how round the face is. Thanks for the vid!

I wear a kilt with either a classic military tunic or dress shirt with tie and waistcoat, aviator watch, embroidered kilt socks, wingtips or brogues, no chain, no class ring, no fragrance. I bathe.

My Canadian Mrs loves me in a Suit,ESPECIALLY a 3 piece with a tight assed waistcoat combined with a crisp white dress shirt and classic tie if yer at Brit Wedding for the day,and switch the white shirt and tie out for a black dress shirt ,no tie and cuffs rolled up maximum 2 times for the evening keeping the waistcoat :0] Brit Weddings / Ladies Days @ The Horse Races in summer are a whole different fashion genre,it's almost a given the Ladies wear hats or fascinators 😂