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Stalking laws in our country are ridiculous. The amount of people that could have been saved if the laws were better are unreal!

Honestly with this video, basically summarized the series step by step and doesn't do any contrasting or comparing of the real event until the end just to say the scariest thing about the series is that the stalker is still out there, missing the point entirely of the series and not even mentioning the sexual abuse shown in the series by an entirely different character

Poor him. It’s a scary experience. I had one but way tamer than this. He was trying to be nice and compassionate but you have to set boundaries

The scene at the end with his father made me cry. "I grew up in the catholic church". That tells it all, unfortunately. Donnie reaches out for a handshake and his dad goes in for a hug.

I don't think he could disguise her so much that she wouldn't know considering he's playing himself, and surely she'd recognize him. Anyway, it was only after I finished the series that I understood the main actor is also the real life victim. I cannot believe he could put himself in those scenarios again, that is so brave.

“All of which say ‘sent from my iPhone’ at the bottom, despite her clearly not having an iPhone” LMAOOO why did this make me laugh so hard 😂

I binged the entire show Sunday. It's a great show.

This is a very scary situation and very brave of him to show it cause the laws obviously need to change but also how he makes sure that people know she also needs help, serious medical help.

I had a stalker when I was in college. To say it was a nightmare would be an understatement. It wasn’t until my stalker tried to assault me IN OUR CLASS in front of our classmates and the professor that something was done. He was kicked out and trespassed from campus.

There was no way I could stop watching once I started- binged the entire series nonstop!!!!!! Fantastic show- so sorry he had to experience this

there were some parts very hard to watch. i can’t imagine what the protagonist had to endure. i hope the so called producer got his time in jail as well. maybe part II?

When he did that speech on stage and started breaking down. I really felt that. That whole speech was like someone putting in words my feelings about things which have happened to me. I really didn’t expect this series to go the way it did but it was amazing and emotional at the same time

This series is gut wrenching, but like a trainwreck you drive past, you can't stop watching 😮

I did make it to the end. It got very dark and sad and was unbelievable as a true story at points! The last episode was particularly poignant and I am glad I finished it. My regards to Mr. Gadd. He is an amazing person, actor and writer. Truth is truly stranger than fiction. I don't want to spoil anything for anyone who has not watched it yet, but when he makes a "big speech", I would have stood up and hugged him. It broke my heart! - Fellow stalked person. I literally had to move 5,000 miles away to rid myself of my stalker in the early 2000s!

The story telling and the flawed characters were so compelling and complex.

It also shows that MEN could also be a target of STALKING not just girls.... 🙌

this story gave me anxiety

Stalking is legit scary. It should be taken more seriously worldwide!!! The show looks interesting but I highly doubt my PTSD would let me look at it. Kudos to Mr. Gadd for surviving through it and being able to persevere beyond the stalking.

I feel like people miss the fact that he also has made a lot of mistakes ? In the way he wasn't clear with Martha from the beginning, let her interpret stuff even though he knew she was crazy... People seemed to miss the nuances, the fact that *he sees himself in her and he urges us to try to have empathy and understand* I feel like this is what the last scene is about *spoilers* when he is crying at the bar, finally understanding how much she interpreted everything, that she projected so much onto him, was so attached because he looked like the only thing that gave her love when she was a child in a abusive household : her reindeer. And as he is crying, the bartender offers him a drink and he looks up to him, and you can see it in his eyes : he gets it ! How a simple act of kindness can mean the world and how, as Martha was very mentally unwell, unstable it started for her a whole obsession.

I just started on the pilot and haven't finished yet. I did watch the making of the series and it's just as wild as the series.

I just watched the first episode, I am blown away at the Acting! So far this is awesome

It’s so frustrating to hear how bad anti stalking laws are in other countries (I’m a US citizen). I do love the idea of a stalker registration

This is such a well done series. I rarely binge watch Netflix limited series but I could not stop watching. It starts out as a black comedy but halfway into the series it really takes a dark disturbing turn. The two leads deserve Emmys for their performances.

It was absolutely mindblowing. I unfortunately learned the real Martha's name from reddit and she has been on a tangent of rants on her facebook. I really hope someone gets her help one day.

A wonderful limited series I wound up binge watching it! I had no idea what it was about other than the small info blurb. It REALLY took a dark turn in episode 4. There were times where I thought 🤦🏽‍♀️why isn’t he doing this or that instead but I have to remind myself, I was not in his shoes and all was explained in episode 4. What a brave and compassionate man. To have been through all that, laying it all out there and STILL managing some compassion for his stalker! Incredible. Great piece of work!

The only thing that I was disappointed with after watching this was the way his relationship with Teri ended. I kept hoping he would go see her and ask for a second chance.

He’s a fantastic actor

I’ve read A very private school by Charles Spencer, he was abused by a women when he was 11 years old, it left him with problems for many years, the book is horrific in my eyes but a fascinating read on the class system in the 1970s. I’d think it would make a good Netflix series

I found the TV producer/writer incident to be truly worse 😞 1. Because it had actually gone physical multiple times 2. The man never acted aggresively or threatening, that's why he never saw him as a danger 3. There were drugs involved 4. It tampered with the thing he wanted the most ouf of life for his career. 5. I feel like it had a much deeper impact in life than the stalking. He could've gotten paranoid from the stalking but developing a romantic relationship and the way to sexually relate to other people seemed to have a MUCH bigger impact.

Men bringing charges of stalking against women is rare even though it does happen and people take women more seriously.It's not that they don't believe in it's just that they don't notice it happening to men nearly as often as it does to women I believe it. They need to take a lot more seriously before he gets killed. Bless his heart for not being afraid to come forward.

Brilliant acting and not the least from the actor playing Martha.

Brave man for putting it all out there …… He is a true victim …. Scary as he$$ …..

Happy monday night, Ashley. Take care and God bless you. Greetings from colombia to you as well.

It was such a hard watch that about 10 minutes into having been introduced to Martha, alarm bells were ringing loud in my head saying Nope!

Best show I’ve seen in a long time!! So sad it’s true poor guy!

“…And that’s why I messed it up with her. Because I hated myself so much more than I love her. And I loved her so very much” -Baby Reindeer

I was just searching on Netflix this weekend, Decided to watch and I was blown away! The ending was perfect! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

This show is so good at different levels, not for every one,,strange and original, Based on a True Story. We watched the entire show in two days.

Her interview with Piers was something... 👀

When you find out why Martha calls Donny baby deer, at the end is so damn sad, me being and empathic person i couldn't stop feeling sad for her and let go of a little tear. 😢

I watched the series yesterday…one episode was really bad, but the rest was pretty good.

What’s the point of this video? It just summarizes the series. Doesn’t critique it. Or doesn’t talk about any facts that were not covered in the series. Doesn’t add any new value. I think the title is misleading

That is awful. I cannot imagine how scared he must have been.

It was so sad and he did such a good job casting Martha in a sympathetic light as much as showing how deranged she was. You can see how it would be hard to feel sorry for a person like that. We all have toxic relationships that pull us back in time and again.

“Sent from my iPhone.” 🤣🤣🤣

It was a great show. Great acting too. Few scenes were difficult to watch especially the man SA’ing him while he was passed out.

Stomach churning but definitely worth the watch.

This is literally night mare. I hope there will be adequate laws regarding this. Too many people are sufferong because of stalking incidents

I did something like this, but it was way tamer. I am now on medication for adhd, and it is working. I feel sorry for what this guy went through 😢😭

This is happening to me right now i was just nice to her a few times and we had a nice conversation and that was it now she stands in her backyard lookin at my back window and door waiting for me to come out everyday i just try to avoid her

Recently a woman claiming as the real martha went to the media to be left alone by Gadd’s fans😂

Wow--you need to scream SPOLIER ALERT for this video! The Baby Reindeer series is fantastic. However, you revealed almost all of the story. (I just finished watching it). Also, I wanted to know what were the actually events Richard Gadd went through as you implied with the title.

When I was 19 the place I worked at told me they'd gotten a restraining order on a homeless guy for making threats of sexual assault about the female employees and me most specifically. That if I ever saw him even in my personal life i should call the police. Thankfully he never followed me outside of work but it was still scary to know someone was speaking about me that way.

So your telling me when you are being stalked you have to do the work that the police must do just to file charges wow.

Why didn’t he turn in the guy that SA’d him? He listened to hours of phone calls to catch his stalker. Interesting where the focus lands

I had a stalker lite…he would call and text incessantly, leave me notes and gifts on my car, drive by my home. I had a small child and lived in a ground floor apartment. I was so scared. I moved out of state.

I watched it and i liked it. 👍👍👍

Whis back here after she outed herself on Piers 😅😅

After all the crazy loops and emotions of the series The Martha scene in court as the door shuts was prob the saddest scene with also him finding out why martha called him baby reindeer

Hey "mojo" .......this is one of many stories "told" In 2024, per social media.....its right behind "all" doors

Some authorities don't take stalking seriously and it leads to tragic consequences. And there does need to be new laws regarding stalking, but what I liked about the series was that it addressed that she needs help. Great series.

I feel that everyone saying he is at fault, that he led her on, etc., I can see your POV(he could've changed his number, his email). However, Martha sexually assaulted him, attacked his ex, physically assaulted the person he was dating, threatened his family, and broke a glass over his head.

I have a stalker , she's my neighbour, I had to leave my own home, go back to my parents, she has found where I am, she abuses me daily on social media, she's threatens my family, my friends, follows me to work and damages my home, smashing windows , harassing me daily, insulting me, threatening violence, spreads rhoumers, she's an awful person, but I certainly wouldn't blame it on mental health, yes I agree these people need help, but I have mental health, I know right from wrong! Police need to be stricter with prosecuting these people, but also possibly look at medicating them with the correct drugs

I’m glad his story is out there. There are way too many lonely, mentally ill people out there that misconstrue a gesture of kindness. As a woman I’ve had to deal with what most would probably assume to be decent manners and being humane taken to mean something else in the minds of others. I’ve had men whom have impersonated family to find out where I work and even which hospital I was in one time. Another incident had one of my stalkers sleeping on the pavement, outside my apartment door day after day while I was at work. I was nearly kicked out and told I would have to pay a fine for breaking my lease because of that moron. Don’t even get me started on the police. I made so many reports, but it was all in vain. Nothing was ever done. I have to take Xanax almost every day due to my past experience with stalking. I have severe social anxiety. These people ruin lives!

This show had me ugly crying.

what's the background music at 4:23 ???

Both clearly had/have mental health issues. Crazy sad tho 😢

I started watching this show the other night and as a woman, it angers me that it took until the 2020’s to take male victims of stalking, sexual harassment and assault seriously and not in a joking manner. Like every time when the topic is on stalking it’s almost always seems like the male is the stalker and the woman is the victim, or it’s a woman stalking another woman, but when the man is the victim they aren’t taken seriously. Hopefully #BabyReindeer will bring an end to that

Whats scary is the fact that when a man is put in this position and has these type of things happen to him that normally are viewed to only happen to woman, its like" really? You couldnt handle a woman? I dont believe you. Women have had it worse. " which yeah ,maybe women have had it worse because the female body is seen as more sexual and attractive than a male. Imo. But i can tell u 1st hand, as well as other males whove left comments, that this is way more common than anyone thinks. Its just viewed differently. My situation was not the same as this show, but it was a woman who was on a strong anti depresant and she drank profusely every night, so every night shed change into a diff person being drunk and say the most horrible things about me, and physically abuse me. Me being raised not to lay a hand on a woman( unless shes going to kill me ) just took it. And the next morning its" i dont remember that at all. I would never do those things. Im so sorry. Itll never happened again". Blah blah blah. And when she decided to have an orgy with multiple men and women at a sex party ( no im not kidding or exaggerating 1 bit) i left. She admitted it because i knew by calling that night asking where she was and one of the participants grabbed the phone,DRUNK, and said" stop calling , shes fine, shes in good hands. Well take good car of her. Better than you can, BRO. you dont give her what she needs, and we will". So i waoted til she came home at 5am,, and i grilled her u til she came clean. Probably, she wanted out of the relationship because i always " dampered her fun" by not letting her drive hammered, reminding her of her 2 kids at home, etc. I know im horrible. But that was 2008, and i got over it, but theres plenty of men who have had things happen and just because they were raised to treat women with respect and not lay a hand on them, that is used to somes advantage. Now there are PLENTY of amazong women who would never do that. But please, dont think of it as a joke if you hear that a male is in the role that is usually reserved for a woman. Cause while my story is 1000% true, it isnt as bad as other guys have had it. And im not in any way trying to downgrade what women have gone through because like ive said, i know because of the beauty and sexuality a woman can represent, i know theyve had it worse than men ,in most cases. Dont twist my words or think im trying to say ive some victim. I see myself as someone who bettered their life and let the experience guide how i am now and in the future.

This is not the REAL story. You are just describing the series!

So this is a true story so that's got me asking did he actually follow her home to see where she lived?

Gaslight by Stalker.

fiona harvey and sam bain

Very disturbing show, I watched it all in one sitting. I looked it up to see if it was actually true, as you can see by comment. I'm glad he's safe and okay. But I'd be careful if I were him. Seems the actual woman is coming forward and saying she was the one being stalked. This suits her behavior in the film as she was trying to blame him as well. It just opens your eyes to how manipulative people can be. She is a compulsive liar and narcissist. After one bad situation it's very easy for me to pick them out now. Be safe Mr. Gad! If you haven't already, I'd make sure you have a bodyguard!

The fact that people feel sympathy for Martha’s crazy azz makes no sense she needs to go to prison for life she is dangerous and a villain not a victim

Soooo I saw the show… while watching I could honestly see where perspective can make a big difference. Especially when it comes to who’s telling the story. Clearly Martha is mentally ill. He’s very much basking and even manipulating her psychotic behavior to his benefit. Especially considering his love of fame that he really wanted and showed even in his own telling of the story.

2:00 Martha reminds me of a large Elizabeth Mozs

"at this point he's gone to the police as he did in real life but they are completely inept" as they are in real life

“resolved”

caso isolado

You can’t be nice I just had to go off on my stalker

Where do these stalkers even find the time?

Omg it makes you realise that this sort of thing not just happens to women

Who goes and sits in a place and has no money? 😑😑😆

She probably watched the show and saw what he thought about her.

You're just repeating what happened on the show.

Was his Dad gay? Is that what his Dad was saying to him in the last conversation part of this series?

Wait .. can’t prove it’s her ? But couldn’t they tell her voice is the same ?

I kinda have a feeling he himself contributed to the drama himself, he has the need to mess his life all the time and always made the wrong choice. Should've turned his back to the groomer the first time he offered him drugs and never talk with him again

What’s messed up now though are people trying to guess who the rapist writer is and lots of people who have previously worked with him are getting accused.

he pissed me offffff but i guess everyone deals with situations differently

He gives her free drinks, goes along with her innuendoes, goes on a date with her, follows her home, accepted her friend request on fb knowing she’s a stalker then kept hanging out with her and talking to her. Takes 6 months to report her and omits her criminal past. He also repeatedly goes back to the dude offering drugs and repeatedly lets him molest him. He’s the catalyst for all of the chaos he endures so I find it difficult to have sympathy for him.

So .. the real life Martha isn’t short and fat she … tall and skinny ??

I found the protagonist at fault for encouraging her attention time and time again

Bad video. Was hoping for More

DON'T WATCH THIS VIDEO! There is no true story here, you just said to everyone in the video everything what happened in the series. Nothing new.

Im not shocked by the number of people blaming the victim for what happened to them as it seems the norm to blame the victim for what happened, however i was shocked at the fact women blamed him for what happened. "Why didn't he report it?" We have seen time and time again what happens to women who report their abuse they get their names dragged through the mud they get told "Well she must have lead him on." or "Did you see what she was wearing." We even had the Me Too movement but i guess only women get to have that as women are the only gender who get SA, R or attacked men don't. Except they do, however due to how sociaty treats male victims of these crimes they get the same victim blaming that women suffer plus "Well maybe he was gay and liked it." "If he'd only faught back harder." "Why did he keep going round there he must have been asking for it." I find it odd that when the victim is male these is so much less compassion then if they were a woman, as I said before sociaty sees these types of crime to only affect one gender when infact men suffer too but are far less likely to report it due to the amount of abuse they incure from the general public. Image in this had been a female comic who showed what she went through and the purpitrator was male would we have gotten comments like "Why didn't he turn in the guy that Sa'd him? He listened to hours of phone calls to catch his stalker. Interesting where the focus lands" I'll point put that that comment was left by a woman. Would she have said the same if had happened to a woman or woulds she have been really supportive of her? I expect so but because it happened to a man its good to victim blame. As i said before I guess the Me Too movement was only meant for women who suffered abuse not men or would she also criticised the women for burying that trauma and concentrating on the more recent trauma? Cose no matter what way you cut it he suffered a hell of a lot of trauma and the SA he'd buried for years and it had affected him for years. But sure lets carry on blaming the victim for being the victim except if said victim is a woman then we rally round and support her whilst stomping on the male victim of the same crimes.

This is a really bad put together video.

This is just a recap video 👎🏻👎🏻