Terry Crews Breaks Down About His Sexual Abuse & Beating Up His Dad!

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This episode is part of our USA series, over the coming weeks you will get to see some incredible conversations with guests the likes of which we’ve never seen before. Bringing more value, more incredible stories, and more world-beating expertise.
Terry Crews is a NFL player turned film and TV star, featuring in a wide range of hugely successful shows like Brooklyn Nine-Nine, White Chicks, Everybody Hates Chris and Idiocracy. Escaping his abusive father, and spending decades cultivating his bodybuilder physique and mentality, Terry then broke into the Hollywood scene.
00:00 Intro
01:24 What made you the person you are today?
07:43 Domestic violence in your family
12:36 Where did your dad's pain come from?
16:48 My pornography addiction
22:43 How did porn impact your marriage?
26:14 Cheating on my wife
30:39 Opening up to my wife and its consequences
34:52 Why do men avoid intimacy and vulnerability?
45:30 What was your lowest moment?
47:32 Your dad being aggressive in front of your children
55:33 How and why did you change?
01:03:23 How would your life be if you wouldn't have changed?
01:05:22 I was sexually assaulted by a Hollywood executive
01:14:17 How my dark and bright side came from the same place
01:23:28 Our last guest's question
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@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

Before this conversation started I was expecting to meet Terry Crews, the hilarious comedian and actor who I've admired for so long. But what I got was so much more, thank you Terry 🙏🏻 Hit like and subscribe for a new episode every Monday and Thursday, the conversations for our US series are incredible you won’t want to miss them 🙌🏽. Thank you all

@jordanpuri4129 2 роки тому

Half an hour in and this is shaping up to be one of my all time favourites 🙌🏽

@lifeisgreatx6722 2 роки тому

I agree, without a doubt the most vulnerable person that's been on this podcast, which ultimately makes it the most inspiring and incredible one so far, what an amazing man 💙

@roryking1 2 роки тому

yeah bro i already knew his openess and honesty would blow u away. his hotboxin podcast was really emotional.

@parkourjackbarlow 2 роки тому

@WilliamJonesChess 2 роки тому

Top Moments with Time Stamps I was saved by my high school 5:35 It was a special school which allowed u to be there if u had skills. From 7th grade to senior year, I had art ability. In my household, we cannot do a lot, as mum was too religious. My schoolmates told me the films they saw. I could not see any. So I would draw these films! I wanted to watch, to be there so bad! My mum allowed comic books. I found out in therapy 6:24 my desire to be strong is that one day I may have to kill my father. He was that type of person. It was a very intense upbringing. I just wanted to be a person to keep the peace- I became a pleaser. My mum 11:18 loved entertainment. We’d watch the Carol Burnett show. Every Sat Night. I look for ways to make her laugh. In all this pain, I saw this ability to make her laugh. This is a power. This will cool things out. This was most of my existence when I was a little boy. My wife looked at me 59:00 Rebecca: ‘Terry u are different! [Terry is in tears.] After all we have been through, Terry I am with you. Thank goodness I stuck with you.’ Thank you for this lecture!

@jordynfreeth6009 2 роки тому

I love that Steven allows his guest to just talk, doesn’t interrupt them and lets them speak their truth with plenty of time to get their full explanation across to the audience.

@dswain1981 2 роки тому

This ❤️

@beckyt8698 2 роки тому

Yes! I was completely lost in Terry’s story telling

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

This is central principle to The Diary Of A CEO and something our team always talk about behind the scenes…. Let the guest talk! Especially when they’re flowing and opening up like Terry was.

@thesitdownuk 2 роки тому

ABSOLUTE TRUTH❤️❤️❤️🏆🙌

@jesschierichettis2679 2 роки тому

It’s so true! I noticed that too, he really allows the time for his guests’ genuine emotions. How can a 29 year old show so much emotional maturity is beyond!

@Dockernan1977 Рік тому

Terry just gave us a master class on how to be a real man. Wow. I was blown away. God bless him.

@user-sv9tf9yx3t Місяць тому

And everyone is giving him the run around - imagine how much more difficult to those w/o the financial power and the level of success, even the level of influence. Such a shame.

@Stierenkloot 23 дні тому

1:12:41 he is so real that he lies about the will smith slap inspiring him to sue. He sued in 2017. The slap was 2022. What a fucking blatant and ridiculous lie. He’s a manipulative narcissist.

@anahatagraceland5829 10 днів тому

totally!

@juzeefruit9281 9 днів тому

This feedback you gave is phenomenal. !!! I feel the same. As a female, hearing a man be so vulnerable and completely transparent is such a gift~ a blessing, as I'm sure it is for men! ❤

@juzeefruit9281 9 днів тому

@@user-sv9tf9yx3t I totally agree !!! It would be wonderful to see this kind of transparency brought to "our" high school kids !!! And I'm sure there are many avenues that our cities/states could get speakers, etc to men in therapy with a very low cost. I have like a million idea's in my head & heart right now that would be easily accessible to help people with little to no cost. You brought up some excellent ideas and your absolutely right!!

@orchidgirl05 Рік тому

I actually did not expect such vulnerability . This has shifted my view of him. Thank you for giving him the space to be so open. Great interview as always.

@reggiexp69 11 місяців тому

i mean it feels like he was him self in broylin 99

@signepikkat995 9 місяців тому

Terry feels so authentic. So expressive with his whole self, I love it!

@user-dr4ns9xl5m 2 дні тому

❤️

@adimeter Рік тому

What a giant person. By him sharing his story, I was able to share my story with my husband of 50 yrs. Thank you Terry for loving your wife and your children. You have triumphed.

@Lolipop59 Рік тому

What was that thing that your husband of 50 y didn't know about you ? Thank you and take care 🤗

@karls432 11 місяців тому

Wow that’s huge, I bet you feel like a huge weight is lifted off your shoulders not carrying your story alone anymore ❤

@evaeggen7825 Місяць тому

😊❤

@pmn7544 22 дні тому

@@Lolipop59 Most likely sexual abuse, read between the lines

@pmn7544 22 дні тому

Also congratulations and it's never too late to start your healing journey as a victim and survivor. I know how it feels. Terry is such an inspiration.

@dr.vincewong 2 роки тому

Terry’s willingness to openly share his flaws and his struggles along his journey made this a wonderful interview!

@judeanclay8381 Рік тому

So true. He actually owned up to his past...clearly he's a healed and changed man!

@youtubecommentator6757 2 роки тому

I'm a 27 year old man with a history of anger, porn addition etc. This is the most relatable interviews on this pod so far for me. I literally teared up when he did. Its crazy. Hats off to Terry Crews for showing us its ok to be open about your life.

@pol7708 2 роки тому

I believe in you sir. Keep striving to be the best you. Slow progress is still progress

@youtubecommentator6757 2 роки тому

@@pol7708 Thank you 🙏

@beetlejuicejr6133 2 роки тому

Easypeasy hackbook

@FreeBird2.0 Рік тому

@@youtubecommentator6757 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@tsm928 Рік тому

You're not alone! You'll definitely get better by being aware of the problems. That's the first step

@emilygrace5397 18 днів тому

Wow, thank you for having Terry on. His courage to be vulnerable will help so many men.

@mylenpimentel5826 5 днів тому

Every married man should hear this ! I have greater respect for him now ❤

@juanita-narelleetienne4109 2 роки тому

As a Mental Health Practitioner of 23 years, the Terry Crews interview was 'the best' introspection of the Male psyche I have 'ever' witnessed. Well done to you Steven and Kudos to Mr Terry Crews. 'Outstanding'!👌🏾

@jodiesalter8769 Рік тому

Couldn't agree more

@ceencha Рік тому

Exactly. This is gold.

@serenity2364 8 місяців тому

Not the best. He just did it in a way that only Terry Crews can;)

@meaningfulmakings Рік тому

You don’t get interviews like this unless your guest feels incredibly comfortable and at ease. Terry is able to be this authentic because that’s what Stephen calls forth in people. What an incredible gift Stephen is to the world, very few people can hold a safe space allowing people to be this vulnerable. It’s a testament to something Stephen brings of himself to these interviews that calls forth truth, quite possibly because Stephen has done his own work, resulting in the most heartfelt interviews I’ve ever heard. These interviews will save lives. Thank you so much. Just incredible and yes I’m in tears. 😊 X

@meaningfulmakings Рік тому

Apologies. Steven not Stephen.

@jaaustin500 9 місяців тому

I think it’s more that Terry’s been through a lot of therapy. You learn to accept yourself there. Not to take anything away from Stephen.

@mjqetuo 10 місяців тому

Never thought I'd be sitting here on a Wednesday morning crying along with Terry Crews but here I am 🤷‍♀️

@ZeckeGegenRechts Рік тому

I’m so impressed with terry. He worked so hard on himself and it shows.

@culpepperly Місяць тому

It's so beautiful to see a handsome, talented black man that knows himself so so well. Much peace and prosperity to he and his family.

@Ragemeister88 2 роки тому

This is one of the great interviews of all time. I am not even exaggerating. It was a throwback to interviews where the interviewee would answer & the interviewer allowed them to breathe. Such immense emotion, honesty, vulnerability & contrition. Terry Crews GETS IT. We were with him EVERY STEP of the way. Bravo Steven for getting him on! ☀️💕

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

Thanks Raj! Glad you enjoyed this 🙏🏽

@Ragemeister88 2 роки тому

@@TheDiaryOfACEO This is your true calling my friend 💕

@suzannemullett9506 11 місяців тому

Man, he’s a real one. This honesty was extremely mind blowing and respectful.

@SugarRayOPrey Рік тому

This level of vulnerability is unparalleled. So much respect for Terry Crews and he is honestly a role model for young men about how you can be masculine and in touch with your emotions.

@IlovemyFamily870 Рік тому

@vanessamclennan1 Рік тому

I absolutely loved this. I’m a therapist and I could see the real him and it was beautiful to watch. He was not hiding behind his success, not putting on a facade. The real us are much more compelling. I love his evolution and seeing the raw him.

@TheAnimesNanda Рік тому

Man my respect for Terry Crews increased tenfold The things he has overcome and his brutal honesty about his "demons" just made me question myself as a man and I wish more men were vulnerable like him and are in tune with their emotions like this If anyone, be it a man or a woman or any gender for that matter, is going through things, please be vulnerable and talk to someone and know that you aren't alone and you too can overcome your demons ❤

@hinocenciopaulo 3 місяці тому

Man, I was not ready for this. It got me off guard. It was, at the same time, painful and beautiful to listen to.

@mskimrn9636 2 години тому

This is what a real man looks like, completely genuine and real. God bless you Terry .

@hannahheal354 2 роки тому

What an incredibly inspiring man - so open and honest. The world needs more of this.

@upendasana7857 2 роки тому

yes well thats up to all of us to be more open and honest..isn't it.It starts with each and everyone one of us and then the world"might change

@keithcrane469 Рік тому

Completely agree

@louisebotos7321 Рік тому

So inspiring, all men need to see this . What a gift ❤

@gleidissantos5815 Рік тому

I don't think I have ever watched an interview and just feel healed. Thank you so much for this, both to Terry and the interviewer 🙌

@deeone5326 10 місяців тому

I ordered 2 of your books Terry for my 31 yo son (abusive dad and abandoned 😢). Hang onto hope FAMILY. Good is always triumphant over diabolical ppl, places and things. Amen❤❤❤🎉

@MsBorntobeme 2 роки тому

Big respect for Terry for sharing and being vulnerable

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

🙏🏽

@sashareeves123 2 роки тому

Captivated doesn’t even cut it. This interview is the definition of never knowing what someone has or is going through. Always loved Terry Cruz but how self aware he has become is outstanding, his journey is an inspiration to all men.

@sieltte Рік тому

What incredible honesty. Crews could have had a normal conversation, cracked a few jokes, and I would have respected him as I always did. But this level of honesty and introspection is remarkable and truly admirable. This is the sort of dialogue that we need.

@BayleyBlake 7 місяців тому

Terry Crews... A true gentleman & shining example of a great human. One of my favourites.

@nebbiez 2 роки тому

I think this has shot straight to the top of my favourite episodes of this podcast. I could listen to Terry opening up and talking about his life all day. What a humble, honest and inspirational man with a deep, impactful story to tell. Excellent work Steven in bringing out the best of this great man!

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

He was brilliant 🙌🏽Thanks for listening!

@emani1041 9 місяців тому

Woooooooooooow. I cried my self out… to see a real man and listen to Every word, gives me hope. As a therapist, mom and human being. Thank yot terry

@amg_aly Рік тому

I cannot stress on how relatable, true, pure, therapeutic and simply inspirational this podcast was! My level of respect and admiration for Terry Crews has skyrocketed while listening to this. It isn't easy to be this blunt and true about yourself when you're a public figure like he is, and I'm so happy he is living his truth and telling his story out to the world like this. The world really needs more people like him

@kblive1414 13 днів тому

It’s inspiring to hear someone talk vulnerably enough explaining how they worked through generations of abuse.

@BassRebels 2 роки тому

Another great, honest and open conversation. This podcast has been such an inspiration for me hearing so many different life stories so thank you Steven, keep these coming ❤

@Stierenkloot 23 дні тому

Do you think he’s honest when he claimed that the 2022 will smith slap inspired him to sue his agent in 2017…? @1:09:45

@philipmichel215 Рік тому

What an incredible, emotional look into life and relationships. Proof that it doesn't matter where you came from but how you changed to become the best human you can be.

@crosscategory Рік тому

1. That was a really good interview. 2. I kinda want to hear Terry’s voice used in audiobooks. It’s really engaging.

@lirivicerabin3682 10 місяців тому

This is one of the most stunning conversations - a complete testimony of his heart told with such intelligence, vulnerability, pain, and great love. Great man.

@Nanticoke Рік тому

Mr. Terry Crews, this was the most impactful interview have ever heard. The anger, shame, the need to prove myself, infidelity, revenge, wisdom, turning point, healing, life. So much respect for you. Your testimony is absolute gold n 🔥 thank you so much for your vulnerability and love. My life is changed forever from this day forward.

@ElevateDigital 2 роки тому

What a legend, a lot of people talk about letting go of trauma, being vulnerable etc because it's the cool thing to say... But you can tell Terry is someone who is ACTUALLY doing the uncomfortable work to make those things a reality Another great interview 🙌

@jakopars Рік тому

Exactly

@daughterofthemosthigh3417 3 дні тому

Wow two years later and I’m just blown away. Thank you for your transparency Terry, we love you brother. Thank you Stephen, amazing as usual, we love you brother 🙏🏾

@a.h.8947 3 години тому

Terry is lucky he met his wife. His respect and love for her, made him work hard to be a better version of himself. Thank you for sharing this interview with us. So deep, so honest, it has a healing energy on me.🙏🏻

@ehsunanwar4565 2 роки тому

This was the single most relatable talk I’ve ever seen from any human. I didn’t think it would be from Terry Crews. I am immensely thankful to you both for doing this Terry and Steven 🙌🏽Terry has truly awakened and opened his heart. It is amazing to see

@BEAST123tj 2 роки тому

I teared up when Terry did; I told my younger self that everything was going to be alright. I too and still am suffering from porn addiction/anger and trying to overcome it. What a man Terry is, thank you Steven for allowing this discussion to be held on your platform.

@RMCU76 Рік тому

Hey man just to let you know if you need someone to open up to still comment back and I'll give u contact details to reach me, this episode proper got me as a person who is mentally unstable and declared unfit to work. So don't suffer man

@amc3964 Місяць тому

Men are vulnerable to porn and it is soul destroying- relationship killer. Trust killer. Marriage killer. Love killer. Family killer.

@marydreger3138 Рік тому

Wow Terry!!.....I sat with my partner and watched this interview. I laughed, I cried with and for you but most of all I thank you for being your true and only you. I'll glide through the rest of my day feeling blessed for having listened and heard your story. Power, strength and well-being to you and your family. You are a top bloke and men like you not only change yourself but you change the world for all around you. Much respect. Mary Dreger 🇦🇺 A top interview alround.

@TheScottishDad 2 роки тому

Terry really drew me in there. The detail, the way he articulates and explains - he took me on a journey and hooked me in. I’ve a lot of respect for him - he comes across humble and kind. What a lovely guy and another great episode.

@jakopars Рік тому

Me too. Great comment

@eh4372 2 роки тому

Really like this guy. such a great honest guy, it’s a shame he’s been attacked by his own community when he speaks out about his community in order to help them out but gets attacked for it.

@thegradcoach 2 роки тому

Blown away by his courageous honesty and transparency! So much respect to you both

@mfeelgood7240 Місяць тому

I cried watching this. What an amazing interview. Terry is such a beautiful human being, kind caring full of wisdom, that friend sibling that you would love to have in your life.❤

@w.s2243 Рік тому

This interview has been by far the best I've ever seen, watching a man speaking about his flaws, his childhood wounds its just breathtaking, his emotional intelligence is something to look up for

@pllthetrgrrr2825 2 роки тому

You have to be extremely: confident, intelligent & humble to understand how to ask a question and just let people talk for that long.. I really appreciate it!

@NovaPersonalTraining 2 роки тому

What an amazing and transparent guest Terry Crews is! Absolutely loving the variety of guests on the show 🙌🙌

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

Thank you 🙏🏽

@kashbassey9149 4 дні тому

Had no idea,he had gone through so much..look how well he turned out Despite coming from such horrible background...we love and adore you young man!!❤❤

@anahatagraceland5829 10 днів тому

absolutely! men and women have suffered as Terry ~ me included. His courage has meant so much to me. thank you both for your generous authenticity and love. best to you with your book Terry. ❤

@DD-ro1zk 2 роки тому

This one hit hard. Credit to you Steven for getting Terry on here. And credit to Terry for being so insightful and real. Such a talented guy Terry is, comedian, actor, sportsperson, magnetic personality. But human like most. Amazing podcast... Honestly my number one. Your style of having individuals speak and be open is truly amazing. Each podcast you do makes the world wiser and more learned

@gavinbenedict7054 2 роки тому

Terry is such a great story teller. I think so many men can relate to all he has been through and I thank you for sharing such an inspiring message.

@Liciablyth Рік тому

Terry thank you so much for sharing your process of moving from the adult destructive behaviours of child trauma victim through the phases of awareness and taking responsibility and healing. Authentic compassion shines through you toward yourself and your family. Wonderful healing for us all.

@DS-pd5ov 8 місяців тому

I now realize Terry is not only a great actor but an incredible person🤍 very nice interview!

@clarkeysmusic 2 роки тому

I watch podcasts most of my life and i can honestly say that this is one of the best podcasts I've ever seen. Crews' honesty and Steven's listening skills are exceptional.

@hodeyquaris3246 2 роки тому

What an inspiration. To see him be so open about his struggles and vulnerabilities is admirable. He is a hero to many.

@marymilo9916 Рік тому

His definition of intimacy in a relationship is bang on I appreciate him offering us his honesty and rawness Drinking Saltwater is a great analogy Both me and my lover learned something deep and long lasting from this man x

@RS01070 Місяць тому

This is what real masculinity looks like. What a courageous man. Thanks for sharing it with us Terry. Really appreciate this channel. It is helping me become a better person one interview at a time.

@threepurrs Рік тому

This book should be mandatory reading in schools… such wisdom. Fabulous interviewer.

@TiaStanleyHomes 8 місяців тому

What an extraordinary man he has become. GOD Bless Him!

@parischambers3304 2 роки тому

So much respect for Terry being this honest and it can’t have been easy to do. This is the best interview I think I’ve ever listened to and it was nice to just sit and hear Terry’s story. Stephen did amazing in this interview! I didn’t think I could like Terry more than I already did, but I do now!

@roxibatmanmeow 15 днів тому

Terry reminds me of a college friend sooo down to earth ..😇WE! love you much Mr.Terry- we love you much man!!!!!! your last remark is POWERFULL!

@debspringchannel831 2 роки тому

Terry Crews ....one of the most likeable, gifted ...down to earth in Hollywood.

@navmohindra579 2 роки тому

This podcast will do so much for tough men with egos to finally loosen up, be vulnerable and release their pain. Don't judge someone by their cover. Before this interview I would run away if I saw Terry in an alley way. Now I would give home a massive hugf.

@rudebwoy8 2 роки тому

Why would you have previously run away if you saw Terry Crews in an alley way?

@navmohindra579 2 роки тому

@@rudebwoy8 Human nature, fight or flight... I'm 5ft 6in, no muscles. He's the hulk, what's the worst outcome if you didn't know him. Want to take the risk?

@rudebwoy8 2 роки тому

@@navmohindra579 simply seeing a person with muscles evokes fight or flight reaction? An average height, slender built person, or indeed anyone, could be a danger. Therefore, I was trying to ascertain why you say that someone that looked like Terry Crews evoked fear in you.

@navmohindra579 2 роки тому

@@rudebwoy8 Evolution my friend, instinctual to survive. John cena, the rock are all threatening body types in nature

@rudebwoy8 2 роки тому

@@navmohindra579 not by look alone, a person is only threatening by their actions. I wonder how you’ve survived in this world thus far chap.

@kimhine4567 Рік тому

I had to share this podcast with friends. As a woman it is so refreshing to see a man tell the truth. It really helps us see the side, the real side of a man and how he thinks and feels. This was an amazing interview. Thank you.

@callumjordinson 2 роки тому

I could write a big paragraph on how important this was for me to hear, but all I’ll say is this was one of the most powerful pieces of content I’ve ever seen on UKposts. Thank you Steven❤️

@billhorgan90s 2 роки тому

Very powerful. Lots of respect to Terry for opening up like that, I can imagine that’s helped him develop as a person SO much

@staceyonekawa5283 2 роки тому

This was by far my most favourite episode of Diary of a CEO. The wisdom just pours out of Terry because he’s done the inner work and learnt the lessons. Thank you for allowing Terry to share these life changing lessons with the world ❤️❤️❤️

@katelyncaily3020 Рік тому

Wow wow wow! This has given me a whole new look into Hollywood, actors and Terry Crews himself. He is the most humble, self aware and inspiring people I have ever listened too. His life story is full of trauma, love and revelations. There is no better platform that this for him to share his story! The way he was allowed to just speak and go with his own thoughts was truly awe inspiring. He is officially in my list of people I would love to just sit down with and talk. The best video I’ve seen in a while. Thank you for sharing everything with us!

@tiwiogunye 2 роки тому

Wow. The depth in this one has me speechless. Thank you for providing this medium for people to speak freely. These conversations change lives.

@teachmiddleeast 2 роки тому

I have been watching this podcast when there were less than 20,000 subscribers on UKposts. This is one of the best interviews you have done. Terry is so vulnerable and strong all at the same time.

@kjame7741 2 роки тому

Man, this guy has gone through it. Thanks to him for being so open and honest

@ginaknox952 Рік тому

Amazing interview!! Thank you Terry Crews for sharing your life and for being so open and not being scared to show vulnerability. Also thank you Steven for treating your guests with such respect and allowing them to speak & not interrupting them; I'm so moved & touched. Bless you both

@smintedinc2482 9 місяців тому

Wow! - I’m so sorry! - your expression of your hurt is so real - what a beautiful person you come across as - I can’t imagine the struggle you’ve had to endure to keep your love alive and be you.

@connorwhitmore5400 2 роки тому

This was real, I was captivated the whole time. Favourite one so far.

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

🙌🏽

@HofTheStage 2 роки тому

Clicked on a video because I like the hilarious Terry Crews, but I didn't think I was gonna sit through the whole thing and start examining my life the way he did. Incredible life-changing story. Thanks Terry for having the courage to be this honest in your personal life, but with us as well. Amazing episode, you just got a new subscriber!

@boz2297 2 роки тому

I I can’t

@boz2297 2 роки тому

Okay

@angelicazozaya3728 16 днів тому

Just speechless watching this interview. So powerful, my deepest respect for this man.

@veesvoyages 6 місяців тому

Wow, I had no idea how much Terry had been through, he was so open and honest which allowed for such a powerful interview. I appreciate how you took a back seat for him to talk about his life so freely. Great episode!

@dswain1981 2 роки тому

I didn't know I needed this, but what an episode. Love hearing about how upbringing has such an effect on our lives, but more so what we can do with it. Awesome conversation.

@snafuart 9 місяців тому

This is one of the best interviews I ever saw in English language. And what a relief for every human to understand that the very moment we accept and embrace our vulnerability, we are more a man or a women than we are without, because it simply means to accept the fact of being human. This also includes to accept mortality. And the very moment we stop acting like there is no tomorrow, while also acting like we are living forever... then we get humble and the healing kick in. Much love from Germany.

@kittyb1574 6 місяців тому

Wow, thank you so much Terry. Sharing your agonisingly painful childhood experiences gives other’s permission to share their pain and know from your example, what’s possible on the other side. I also want to thank Steven, your humility is gift.

@rockmemama86 Рік тому

I never even paused or took my eyes off of this video. Absolutely incredible and vulnerable and packed with growth and goodness. As he said necessary. Just necessary. I pray for healing of this world. Our roots run deeper than just now. Cycles work, until they don't. Break your cycle, even if all your doing is carrying someone else's trauma as your own.

@rebeccaswinney3899 2 роки тому

Wow I wasn't expecting such depth and honesty! So many parts are relatable and I really hope this will help men to be more vulnerable. I've ordered Terry's book and I can't wait to read it and then pay it forward. Thank you

@CypressBayFarm 6 днів тому

How courageous for Terry to man up and heal his soul… he is such a smart and loving human ❤ I loved this interview.

@julietcorrea-holguin5989 2 роки тому

Another amazing conversation. This one was very heartfelt, raw, genuine and very insightful. Thank you Terry for opening your life, lessons, experiences and for being YOU! Very inspirational. Many blessings and gratitude for these life changing conversations Steve 🙌🏼

@JoJo_GSD 2 роки тому

Omg, Mr Bartlett and your team, thank you so much for this podcast, truly incredible 🙌 Mr Crews, thank you so much for sharing your life journey & being so open, honest & genuine. I wish you all the best health, wealth and happiness.🙌🌟

@ashleywinning Рік тому

I can relate to Terry on so many levels. Born in 86 and not much was changed back then. My mother did the same thing with the public hair and demanded to see my body and touch my body to see if it was growing (in puberty). I loved White Chicks - it was one of my fav movies as a teen and loved Terry in it - and then Brooklyn 99 was one of my favs - I love seeing happy and fun Terry - but I love and appreciate even more the raw and truthful Terry who tells it how it is and is making changes for other men and people to be better and do better.

@aroundtheworldaly 3 місяці тому

Wow. An emotional punch of an interview. What bravery from Terry and tact from the interviewer to give him space to be vulnerable. Outstanding 🏆

@LenaL146 19 днів тому

This made me cry, what a beautiful soul this man is!! ❤❤❤

@lifeisgreatx6722 2 роки тому

What an incredibly brave and honest man. This conversation will have helped so many people that can relate, good on you 😊❤

@lorinsmith9898 2 роки тому

I am really enjoying this series Steven. I am five minutes in and I get a feeling you are going to get the best out of Terry! Keep up the great work.

@TheDiaryOfACEO 2 роки тому

Thanks Lorin!

@P_K Рік тому

One of the most captivating interviews I've ever watched and listened too. I was a fan of Terry before the interview, now I am so much more. Mad respect to him for opening up in such a way and not holding back. And mad respect to Steven for having Terry on and giving him the freedom and room to speak his full piece. Wicked interview. Truley awesome!

@youtubech12345 5 місяців тому

Wow this is extremely healing. Thank you so much ❤I have the same parents as Terry and went through similar sexual abuse that broke my mental state and I escaped with similar shame addictions ocd so I really needed to watch this video to accept and love myself ❤

@jemmah4723 2 роки тому

One of the best interviews I’ve ever watched. He has such wisdom to share and I found his insights very interesting and thought provoking. I’m so pleased he has found happiness and acceptance. Thank you for sharing your story Terry.

@rabbiosgaming4709 2 роки тому

So brave to really open up. Porn addiction is something that isn't talked about enough and effects too many people. Great podcast as usual, really deep and authentic!!

@MartinSerious_ 26 днів тому

It’s not even considered a thing by the DSM

@lisabecklove Рік тому

This is by far my favorite interview on this wonderful podcast. So many deep lessons, painful realities, but so much triumph. Terry is so incredibly honest and authentic about what has happened, what he has done and what he has learned. He is an inspiration. The lesson about revenge vs. success was the most impactful piece of wisdom and something I really needed to hear at this moment. THANK YOU and BLESS both of you beautiful men for this conversation. Deep bows.

@lunxhart5372 Рік тому

I'm not even done with the video yet, and I have so much respect for Terry already. It takes so much courage and strength to do all he has - I am so proud! Thank you so much again for another phenomenal video!