I feel really bad for his mother. Working as a janitor at 70 years old to take care of her husband and help her 40 year old son because they both won't work.

I’ve never seen a man so confidently selfish before. The fact that he wanted to exploit his wife and daughters so that he would “attract viewers” is so disgusting to me. I feel so bad for his family. He honestly needs to be cut off from the rest of the family.

Good for his wife on divorcing his irresponsible behind. As for the mom, I feel bad for her for working at that age to support her favored eldest son, but at the same time, she enabled him to be this way.

This is by far the most frustrating concern i’ve ever watched. I hope his channel flop and may he gain back his brain and start supporting his family.

the younger bro and his mom should leave them behind. its so sad to watch

That's what over pampering leads to. Both father and son are leeching off the mother. Both should be left alone. Its the support from the younger son and mother that made them so ungrateful.

No remorse, shame or guilt, crave attention and notoriety, view people more as tools to achieve his goals and sustain him, mmh...I dont wanna diagnose a stranger but...

Honestly the youngest should Focus on his own life his parents and brother have made their choice there’s nothing he can do to change it.

It's better that you forget about your brother he is least bothered about his children he will never change or understand he is in his own world!!! If he was brother I would left him long back!!!🤬🤬🤬

oh maii.. I love yeongja so much.. When all the other host was like its his own life.. Yeongja talk and made everyone understand the younger brother's concern. She is sooo understanding❤❤❤

I love how yong ja was proving the brother's point when dong yup said to leave him alone

16:39 my dude on the upper left is so pissed he fell asleep instead

Honestly tho, his 70 yr old mom is working as a Janitor at THAT age, his brother had to give up college education and work his butt off for the sake of family And the older one just cares about VloGgINg AnD HavINg FuN ... Smh just let me slap him across his damn face

This show suddenly became much better and deeper ? Lately they really try to help and ask questions which are relevant and serious instead of just laughing about an issue. I think this is a great improvement since I really enjoy this show for a long time. Anyway, his brother is just a moron and I really feel bad for his family and everyone around him. This must be so frustrating ... He destroyed his family with PURE NONESENSE !!!!

168 votes....hmmmm y not all 200?? the remaining 32 actually can put up wif him then?

The younger son and the mother should just leave, Idk how they kept it for that long. I hate when people say it's family, you should care and whatever, well why the hell doesn't it feel like a family? why it is only one-sided support?

I hope his kids don't live with him because if so then his ex-wife needs to take them or child protective services need to take his kids away.

Is it just me who think the brother with dark hair looks like one of the celebrities on stage? Like even the way he speaks is so confident and like he's done it a million times before XD

I would have just got up, went straight to him and knocked his teeth off. Selfish, arrogant, ignorant, irresponsible dog.

Honestly watching this concern reminded me a lot of my older bro. My older bro had a gap year just because he didn't want to go to school and developed some weird anger issues. So he started beating the shit out of everyone in our family and I couldn't do anything because despite my parents being physically abused they tried protecting him at all costs. Heck my parents developed depression and would lash out on me and overall it was a bad situation. Ever since then he's remained the same and my parents don't do anything about it because they will forever protect and give unlimited benefits to the "eldest son". And all I can do is just struggle and get shit from everyone. I think the main fault in both my bro and the selfish brother in this show is that just their birth order (being the eldest son) gives them a lot of advantages and parents are willing to break their backs for them. All I can really say to the concerned brother and myself is "Hang in there". I'll probably cut everyone off once I graduate and can support myself so until then I'll just bear it.

He wants to be youtube famous.... many youtubers start out making little but eventually they start making more and supplement the income with some streaming with fans. This guy does not have any charisma

I so badly wanna yell at this man. His kids well being should be his TOP PRIORITY!! It's nice he's chasing his dream, but not at the cost of his kids. His parents shouldn't be providing for him when he is 40 years old. By now he should be financially stable and be worried about them. I can't say how frustrated I am with this man. It's beyond my comprehension of how he can do this and not feel any kind of remorse or regret.

11:13 say if I was him, I wouldve sued his older brother for invasion of privacy.

I feel so bad for his kids having him as a father.

Anybody notice how over time the concerns are more and more serious and how the panel isn't changing accordingly or bringing professionals ? I've been watching since 2013 and this is getting a little too serious for celebrities and comedians to disscuss i think anyway

Hello Counselor is my fav tv program but i regret watching this one concern..🔥

I feel so bad for his children... Poor kids :(

I hope his bro and mom will stop care bout him, waste of time, the time he realized it, it'll too late... Such Egoist Man...

This has JJY feelings all over it. You need women on your volgs for more viewership, taking videos without peoples consent. Jesus take the wheel

Why isn't it 200 omg

I'm boggled at his sense of entitlement!

All 200 people should've pressed that button.

I have a brother like this. He works but spend his money as he wishes. When he needs money, he doesnt have any so he asks for my father's help. From my viewpoint, it is so frustrated. Why he needs to trouble my father? Why my father continue to support him eventhough he's approaching 40 years old? Old enough to stand on your own feet. I dont care about my brother. I know that whatever i say would be pointless to him but i care about my father. I dont want him to stress over my brother's living situation. I want my brother to change because only that way, my father wont be troubled anymore but it seems like i am the only one who stressed for them. That's why i understood the man who sent his concern so well. Honestly, at this point he should just give up like me. Do your own part as a son and dont try to cover for your brother anymore.

This is by far my most frustrating episode along with the one in which the husband has 5 virtues for women. This man really had no worries about his family. I wonder what happened to them

Holy shit I've never been so frustrated and second hand ashamed in my life. The younger brother is a saint bless him.

This the most frustrated concern ever and i really can hold my anger

if I were his viewers I wouldn't watch his videos again after this😂

this was literally the most frustrating episode but 19:38 made me laugh so hard

If someone know his channel, pls tell me 🤧😂

This is the most frutating concern i've ever watch. Making his mom work as janitor AT THAT AGE, his lil bro cant attend the college anymore and start to get a job for the sake of his family and all he did is having fun with his vlog??? Seriously dude i want to know which one is his video channel. Im just curious what kind video he like to made every week. I cant do anything but just keep swearing all bad words in ma head everytime he answered the question all video long. And im upset because i even couldnt punch at him, but i want so bad to do that. Oh God please change him, at least for the sake of his mom and his brother

i have similar concern like this. its about my own eldest brother. and he is now almost 40 y/o and my parents did everything to make things right, to educate him but after few decades, we are now kind of give up. me and my sister had stopped talking to him, not because we hate him so much, but because of the pain that he caused us. he is still our brother anyway, but to be more friendly with him, i just can't.

What a selfish man, 😤😤

I wonder whatever happened to this family. I pray that the younger brother took the mother to live with him. She is suffering too much.

So frustrating..he will never gonna make it

Wah the most selfish person in the world i had ever met. Even not directly. Yah geunyang chugo. Then everybody will be happy. Trust me.

Even I’m still on my mid tweenties, I think I like a man like Kim Jong Min. He looks like a man that has no temper and a patient one. I love someone who smiles a lot, just like Kang Daniel actually 🥰

Just leave him alone, and one day he will regret that he was wrong. I'm so mad with his selfish think. 😡😡😡

I press button..lol that's a very serious concerns for the families his parents and himself as well .wow he is really not gonna change.omo. Yes frustrated TV might sound right hahahahah

Why did the brother get custody when it is clear that he is not fit to be a father?

He's a legit sociopath he has no idea of the impact of his actions and sayings on others :')

poor mother, she deserve better

This is too close for comfort, somebody related to me is exactly like this 😑 Good luck trying to change this sort of person.

He frustrates me

this show must haVe psychological adviser to know the emotional and mental condition of those people seeking advise

His mindset must be like yolo.

i feel bad for whoever coming to this show and having hopes that their concern could be resolved even not much..just like this guy who worried about his selfish brother. His brother clearly didn't give a shit nor have plan to change despite being a burden to the family. My blood pressure keep on rising hearing his thoughtless comment

Usually youtubers can work full time in the industry only when they have a higher income from doing it, if not most of them still have a full time job on the side and only vlog as a hobby. Also, most of them have to work extra hard to get new contents out and not just "doing whatever they want" that does not entertain the viewers.

What our child like in the future is our responsible as parents in how we educate them since born... Thats why, i can see that the 40 y.o son can be a person like this, so sellfish it was because of the parents. They were to spoiled their first son. So for parents, u must educate ur son or daughter better than u were.

Oh my goodness... this is why marriage scares me!

this is the most frustrating concern on *hello counselor* I hope he will come to his senses and I'm sorry to say this but I wish his vlogging channel will flop.

그냥 관심 끊어. 가족이지만 전혀 필요 없는 인간이다. 도와주지도 말고 관계도 맺지 마. 스스로 깨닫지 못하면 아무 소용 없다. 사람 절대 안 바뀐다. 이혼한 아내가 승자다.

I wonder, why they didn't bring his daughters? Because in some concerns about bad father, they usually bring the children so the father will give in for the sake of his children

I feel really sad for his child

Who is the girl in white (between the girl in pink and jong-min) ?

Bruv, this ain't it.

does he really think that people would watch his program after this? :(( he's so self-centered and his ego is at its finest. Hope you will see the reality before it's too late and please help your parents.

I'm sorry, but the "No No" part at 19:39 took me smooth out. I was pissed listening to him talk and then this came in and saved me.

i want to know his youtube channel😂i curious about comment

Honestly he should just be left alone and forgotten about, he doesn’t deserve his family’s pity money. I do feel bad for the kids though, but one day he’ll snap out of it and regret everything and have no one left to help him out.

This is the kind of person who I'm ok if his life ends

I think he needs to go to a counselor, I'm sure this is more than just being "irresponsible" and "ungrateful".. this is a more serious problem than it seems

Does anyone knows Yongja’s UKposts channel?

I just realized that he said he is happy with just earning 200,000₩, that just meant that it is only sufficient for him to spend for his filming... obviously he would not provide alimony to his wife but on top of that, he is not planning to be the one to pay back the loans he took out, or pay for his daughters' expenses, or give his parents any allowance...

What is wrong with this guy!! He lost his wife and 2 daughters over his “dream” and yet he still only thinks of himself. He didn’t once mention his daughters and how this is effecting them, he should get himself out of the clouds and bloomin grow up!! He is a grown man who doesn’t support his daughters and is proud to watch his mother of 70yrs of age work and take money and food from her...Disgusting man...he should be ashamed of himself, I totally feel sorry for his brother who just wants him to wake up and take responsibility for his parents and his daughters, ....but seems like the people who support his vlogs are not blameless here too...

I recently watched a murder case. Just like his life. They married and had 3 kids. She started vlogging to get money for her kids. But she didn't. Her vlogging got her addicted to it. Her husband didn't want it. And told her not to Film him nor the kids. But she didn't listen and even talked about her family problems in vlogs. He told her to stop it or he will take the kids and leave. But what happened? The wife killed the husband and acted as the victim.

hasrat ingin memaki naik 200% setelah nonton ini

They missed a lot of important things to emphasise. His children

The only way he would be forced to face up to reality is if the mother and brother totally stop paying for him and helping him out. When they stop helping, he has to work in order to live.

Pain in the ass~! My stress as a volcano erupting all over the place!

각자 인생 살아라 그게 답이다

I feel bad for the mom and i love yeongja so much yk what i mean right:( but the sounds making me dying😭😂

Oh! I rarely see the cameramen shoot 훈남 or handsome men haha 21:18 :)

If he doesn't care about fail his own marriage and children, his family, specially his mom, why do you expect from him? He is so selfish thinking and worried about himself and his stupid vlog..SO IMMATURE!!! His young brother needs to stop worrying about him because is a lost case and probably because of this it may take problems with his wife..

I really hope you see the hurt you are causing by your act of respect for your wife, children, mother and brother. Please find some integrity and responsibility of your own before you crash and burn and are totally dismissed by the family that you have so coldheartedly dismissed.

the older bro should juz cut of ties with the family since he prefer living his own life/world.

Can I ask koreans this question, does korean parents always lenient and prefer older child more? Coz most family i watch here, seems always siding with their oldee child just because they are OLDER. I think shinji was ready to kick his ass if she's not doing a show here

Abandon him. That's the way to solve it.

Omg. Im speechless. How can he not care about his parent not even his own family bfore. I hope no one would support his vlogging after watch this because he is not responsible at all. Just want to slack playing game? Making his own brother support the family. Not helping at all??? Omg

man, if he's my brother, i would've left his ass loooong time ago. doesn't worth my time at all.

Whats his channel?

Damnnn!!! I really want to smack this guy in the face now 😤 selfish

Is there no child support in Korea?

Is anyone here know his channels name 😂.. Am i the only one who would like to visit his channel and see if what things does he upload 😅

If his father helps him in the video think he will do better....Let him be until he realise.

My guess on why he's hung up on the vlogging is that he craves the recognition from his viewers. I think he has a pretty low self esteem and that's why he needs positive attention of others. I'm just hoping he'll view this video, read the comments (and understand them) to know that he's getting a lot of scorn instead.

tell me if u found his channel 😤😤😤

This is the first time I give my opinion on someone's life problem. I can feel the pressure that he has for his family since he has such an irresponsible brother that makes himself and his mother even have to double work. Even his father cannot help too by the way. Nothing more than I can say beside praying that he with his family and his own parents will be blessed by God in all aspects and watching what will be happened with his brother and his broadcast as life cycle keeps going on.

😭😭😭😭😭 Why delete the program loops 1Night 2Day

I will surely kicked out my future kids if they ever turn out like this..! I think his father is the one who let that happened..!

The mom is also to blame for indulging him