You nailed it!

wait i’m confused huh

Fear? That sounds grim.

omg and it’s the verse of the day today!! Wow this really is a message from God

We respect muslims as persons. You do understand that christianity and islam can't both come from God, right? Thats where our paths diverge. Read Mathew 10,34

I encourage you to read more about it. It also has the Jewish TaNaK. Definitely helpful & beautiful faith. Worth reading and learning.

As a christian, I respectfully disagree with Muslim teachings. We do not worship the same God.

Glad you are being bless by it. We respect you too ❤

I respect you man!

You wanted him to get saved, so you could be with him. Very selfish and evil. I sense a spirit of pride.

@@mattr.1887 For a sec I thought you were another person who's been arguing with me today lol. I was actually already dating him before he got saved, we were already planning marriage as well lol. He's proud of his decision and I'm proud of him, I hope ur ok btw, you seem mad😅

@@mattr.1887 he also never had a problem with my beliefs, he fully supported them even before he got saved😊 either way he wasn't dragging me down spiritually so we were fine, it's always better to be equally yoked though!

@@mattr.1887 I got a friend in a similar situation. I hate it and I do not endorse that person he is in love with.

@@mattr.1887 hold on, how is it selfish? They wanted him to be saved? Not because they wanted to get with them but because they want to help prosper them (if my understanding is correct). I don’t see a problem if you want your partner to be closer to God. Can u please elaborate ur statement?

You have a strange profile to be telling me this message but okay my cancer is lust and have now finished masturbating and watching degenerate pornography again at age 21. It's not getting any better. Only difference is that I'm older and I watch apologetics videos and I don't even have a job. Misery I am misery and I love company there's no hope for males like me because all these weird eves that call fhemselves christians say women have it harder but I'm here still rotting in my own little hell hole and who still has the authority to say millions of males aren't tormented by lust? I'm tired my mother bought me one Russian vodka bottle 40% one icelandic alcoholic bottle 40% one french alcoholic bottle 40% and others lower than 15% she bought it because I convinced her I'm a christian saved by grace but I feel like God's abandoned me and rightfully so I feel like I need to drink alcohol until I die nothing not even Jesus Christ can fill my sorrow I don't care I just need something to fill me and everything evil can't do it I got drunk with one of the alcoholic bottles that has 15% my mother found out and she emptied most of the alcohol from many of the bottles Im angry at her because the only reason I got drunk is because of her and my family that I can't God damned fix it I'm gonna kill myself and no one's going to pray for me amen

That profile pic is highly inapporpruate for a comment saying this Please change Edit: ty, god bless

Did he change it or sum cause there’s nothing wrong with it now

Thank you for this! I needed it.❤

Thank you I really needed this

Praise God!!!

AMEN God bless you i will pray for everyone in these comments and everyone whos seen this

Amen. May our Heavenly Father bless you and everybody that lives in His Name. Praise God!!!!!!!!

Samee

Learn about Islam. Listen to this garbage, in Islam. You will get the real answers. A man and a woman, CAN NOT stay together, CAN NOT be friends, CAN NOT be "special friends" as in your video, and you CAN NOT even see her beauty. Can you see the nuns? No. Jews' women? No. It has ways to get married. Your religion is just like as your ignorance. You play songs, make "youtube videos", talk about God. "Your human god loves you", when you do adultery. Even if you torture someone, He does. You don't even know about no love. A lie of a religion with no old testament. You have NOTHING to do with anything.

Hope it goes well for you bro 🙏🏽!!

Key word, "some" women.... Did you ask her out yet? There are two possible futures for you. One where you marry her, and one where you don't. But you can't achieve the former without at least asking her "hey, wanna go for a drink some time?"

Oh man let what God planned may happen❤..I am a girl who doesn't care about height or age.and the person I love is younger than me..I fell for him for his personality and there was this time when he strengthened my faith in jesus

im also interest in a women in my church but her friend keeps cucking her, almost puppy guarding her, but he already has a girl, im quite attractive, but its just honestly disheartening seeing someone prevent someone being friends with someone else, even though she likes me, id beat his ass but we are in church(he's done questionable petty, passive aggressiveness things in the past)

For me, I have fell in love with someone much shorter than me ❤

amen bruh make sure both people have the right intentions before getting into a relationship. Listen to God's wisdom before your feelings.

idk how you doing now brother, but we have to remember always. they could seem all perfect but if they are not of the lord its worthless. and will bring you down. we are missing out on nothing that is wordly and not of god.

Well, this is good for every generation.

I’m a gen z and this is a good vid besides my teacher said something similar about #3

Amen. God bless

Jesus loves you

Amen, you did good sister have a blessed day💗

Lol. Had the same thought: to catch up with an old friend too because she's cuter now

AMEN God bless you i will pray for everyone in these comments and everyone whos seen this

i hope youre doing well my friend :) and im so happy that i am still able to help you

I think if you keep Christ first that helps a TON. Dont let your time with God slip. Distance yourself physically. If you ever end up alone with them make it a public space or have other ppl around you. Don’t let that person be all you think about. Try to keep yourself busy and be productive. Above all be honest with yourself and God.

Wow, this happened with me too.. We have similar stories, I just keep him in prayer and put Jesus faith, not my faith. If he’s meant to be with me, just let him be. Focus on Jesus above anything else, and cast out your anxiety on Him because He is the one who can solve your worries.

@@febha_mathewthat is fantastic advice thank you

Having a concern and a desire to do it right is really half the battle!!! So many don't care!!! :/ Just keep praying to God to graciously guide you and keep you from doing anything foolish. I really think tip 3 in this video was so useful (and tips 1 & 2). I am 25 and never dated or been in a relationship, because I have never come across a girl that I have felt a calling from God to get into a relationship with. I do, however, try to be good friends to as many honourable girls as I can. I think being with girls in a group setting is a lot safer because if it's just the two of you alone, it's a lot more likely to slide into something that is damaging, especially if you both feel quite attracted to each other. :/ That's my two shillings anyway!!! :) I pray it's of some help to you!!!

Same same same!!!

I can relate 😭😭

Totally relate

I don't like it either, and used to run away from this, but recently I realized God wants me to grow with Him and trust Him through this challenge. Not easy stuff!

Same bro I usually just try to avoid liking someone bc idk how to manage these feelings ig that's why we needa trust God. Glory to him tho

@@shadowtail2004 I think you do it through google account settings, not UKposts settings

Yes but this is using God's word. That's good. I used to watch it too. Thank you for this video!

God bless x

That’s exactly what I thought! But it’s one that leads to God❤️✝️

@@faithbeyondocd4339 That is my point above. This is nothing but worldly Psychology with "Christian" slapped on it. It is not God's counsel on the matter. Instead of watching these worldly Christian videos, read your Bible and draw near to God in prayer daily, devoting yourself to honoring God with your body. God will never lead you astray if you are drawing near to him (here is James 4.5-9): 5 Or is it your opinion that the Scriptures say irrationally, "With withering and longing the Spirit, who was meant to dwell in us, surrounds us with yearning." 6 However, He gives greater cheerful grace. That is why it says, "God purposely arranges things against the proud ones staring down, but to the lower ones of humility He gives cheerful grace." 7 Arrange yourselves in an orderly manner under God. Moreover, stand against the Devil and he will himself completely run away from you. 8 Squeeze yourselves up as close to God as you can and He will squeeze Himself up as close to you as He can. Purge your hands, which you depend on to grasp through the storm, you who are without an allotment and cleanse your hearts to the point of terrifying, you people with two-faced souls! 9 Bear your piercings and feel deeply and wail! Your laughter must be twisted so it transforms into deep feeling and your cheerfulness into a downward stare. 10Be humbled before the gaze of the Lord and He will lift you up NOTICE THIS: "Squeeze yourselves up as close to God as you can and He will squeeze Himself up as close to you as He can." Find my main channel here with over 1000+ videos teaching the Bible /UCKJ3Aki8LnlwucLs-x8t4bQ/

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God bless you bro❤ hope that will strengthen u and her family

@DAN30 I appreciate the love and support 😇 I am doing much better now that I've taken the time spent with God than trying to recuperate myself alone. God is great!

Stay strong ❤️

I hope everything is going good brother, I send my prayers your way

Must be nice that God talks to you. All I get is silence. Guess that's my answer. He said a permanent, forever No.

@@BansheeKing22 don’t doubt him! You can’t believe in something and doubt at the same time be patient everytime you get the urge to read your Bible or thought that’s actually God/Holy Spirit talking to u to read he replies sometimes in your life like through people but keep praying that you’ll hear his voice clearly and sometimes our own desires and thoughts “oh what’s happening Tommorow” worrying overlaps his voice and so that you can’t hear it or your ignoring his voice and or him because your mad or upset with him let him in it’s ok!

​@BansheeKing22 He will talk to you through his word, and he will also talk to you sometimes through other people. For example, I was asking God if I should go to the local amusement park for Halloween with my friend, and not long later my mom came up to me and told me about how demonic the Halloween event has become at our local amusement park, they have these fake blood packets things you drink fake blood out of it's really weird. Back to the subject at hand though pray to God for Discernment and pray to hear from him, and read the Bible every day.

I also have the same experience you did have.. Before i clocked 20 i prayed to God earnestly for a girl friend which i finally had.. Though i knew in my spirit it wasnt time but nevertheless i still had to keep disturbing God. After i had her, sigh.. I did stray away and God really use that to teach me a lesson. I cant fully go into details but I broke up with her after some years. Infact this year and am ready to wait for God and also use the lesson learnt to move forward...

@@BansheeKing22 If I may, I should like to recommend CS Lewis's book "A Giref Observed." It's a short read, and it narrates his personal reflections after mourning the loss of his wife. In it, he discusses his own struggle with feeling a lack of response from God, and how he later came to understand that apparent unresponsiveness differently. It is a sad book, since it is literally about grieving a spouse, but mayhaps it'll be of some encouragement.

Mine too! And that message is soooo TRUE! He really does love us 😊🥰🙏🏾 I’m so thankful!

Mine too

That's soooo true!💯

Wow interesting perspective

Praise God!! That's awesome. May you be blessed as you continue to grow in faith! Also I'd recommend you read Dangerous Jesus by Kevin Burgess. Super awesome book about who Jesus actually is and the core of His teachings. Blessings!

That’s good to hear, keep growing in your relationship with God, and he will strengthen your relationship with your partner. Always remember that God loves you.

Yesss as a young teen I agree with this

You’re going to have an amazing life if you can commit to god at your age. We reap what we sow and your future will be beautiful if you commit to god. I wish I came to god sooner

You go girl! Make it your number one goal to know Jesus ❤️ He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Thank you so much 💓 I'm the same too, it's great to know someone else is struggling with the flesh

In the language of honor, standing firm in our faith is never a dishonor. Mockers dislike facing that truth, which is why they _try_ to tear it and you down or lessen it's worth. But God set that worth, not man. In dealing with lusts and desires: Until Christ comes again, all Christians must deal with the fact that we are called to live as examples... In a fallen world. We aren't to hide away, so we are going to be around sin and sinners. The problem is not that things are available to lust after. The problem is that temptation comes from our own sinful heart! (James 1:14) We need to stop blaming Satan and recognize it is _our_ sin. But in that is also a great hope and joy: this is not a relentless assault of Satan against us forever until we die (he isn't God, he isn't all powerful and all knowing). This is a desire problem and a feeding problem: When we abide in Christ, we are attracted to Him (the vine). The vine produces good fruit. Eg godly love, joy, patience, long-suffering, hope!!! And it also pushes away the fleshly things in us Rom8:13, col 2:8-11, gal 5:16-17!!! So our walk looks like this: 1.desire God above all things. 2. So we choose to spend time with Him (abide) 3. That pushes the flesh away & changes our desires 4. In the context of abiding and being connected to Him/the vine, then we choose to do the work: good things and *also not feed the flesh* (as it is in direct contention with the Spirit in our life, see gal 5). So in any situation (job, relationship, etc) we can check itself to see if we are abiding or feeding the flesh: "The works of the flesh are evident"... "The fruits of the spirit are..." The flesh gets angry or upset and discontented when it doesn't get it's way. Godly love demonstrates godly joy: But for the joy set before him, Christ endures the cross. Think about that deep joy in the best for the other. So if you check your mind heart state and find, hmm i seen to be getting any and feeling rejected, envious, etc - ask your self what you are wanting in that moment: Are you wanting the flesh? So you _really_ want the fear, anxiety, discontent, etc and consumption/use it produces? (Its fruit) Or do you want God more, and man i can see by the warning signs in my life that I've let something come in between. I chose to want Him more and while i spend more time with Him, I'm going to ask the Holy Spirit to increase my desire for Him even more. When you do that, you stop desiring the substitutions. And it's really easy to turn down something you don't want, especially if you see the rotten fruit hiding behind the surface. (I have no hesitation in turning down a rotted apple or candy coated dog poop. I just have to sometimes remind myself to look at what it really is) Notice how hopeful and easy that purity struggle is compared to trying to fight against things by our own effort? (I've only spent 37 years doing it the hard and unsuccessful way. Apparently I'm slow to learn some things.) Hope that helps and blesses you.

Same

Omg me too! I was literally praying about marriage and this is the third time this video popped up on my feed. God is trying to show me something.

Me too

'm in a simialar situation!

Same.

Don't worry, God's got you! Seek Him above all and watch as His plan for u unfold! God bless

It is a bit long, but it's worth reading. He was betrayed by his disciple. He was left alone by all his disciples. He was killed for others mistake. He was killed though he was innocent. His own brothers didn't believe in him. His mother had to watch him die. Everyone knew he was innocent but still they killed him. He is to be treated like Kings but he chose to serve us. He still forgave the people who crucified and mocked him and he said Father forgive them for they not know what they are doing. What has more greater love than this?. All for our sake. The man Jesus Christ. He showed us true Love. John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. But There's a happy news. He rose up again after three days just as he told. There is no greater blessing than having God as our Father. He's coming back soon. Let's all repent and turn from our old ways and prepare our hearts for him. This is the prophecy about the second coming of Jesus Zechariah 13:7 “Awake, sword, against my shepherd, against the man who is close to me!” declares the LORD Almighty. “Strike the shepherd, and the sheep will be scattered, and I will turn my hand against the little ones. This is the fulfillment of the prophecy. Matthew 26:31 Then Jesus told them, “This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: “’I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’ This happened near 30 AD. Hosea 6:1-2 Come, let us return to the LORD. He has torn us to pieces but he will heal us; he has injured us but he will bind up our wounds. After two days he will revive us; on the third day he will restore us, that we may live in his presence. In prophecies 1day is equal to 1000 years. Which means after two thousand years Jesus will return again. And on the third day which is the 3rd millennium, we will live in his sight. We all know we cannot see God's face and live on Earth. So it's the second coming of Jesus. Luke 21:11 ► There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven. Matthew 24:6 You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. We are the witnesses of all these things. From the death of Jesus to 2030 there are 2000 years.9 years is left until the 2000 years are complete after Jesus's death. Jesus is coming soon. Let's all repent and turn from our old ways and turn to the Lord. Praise the Lord. Peace and Love to you all. Easter is pagan, the resurrection day of the Lord is correct and please stop taking the Lord's name in vain like saying omg or using it with a bad word or taking it in anyway that is in vain. Even the devil trembles in his name and we shouldn't use the powerful name like that. For the people who says Jesus is not God here's a verse. Isaiah 9:6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. God bless you all. Please spread this message to the ends of the world.

This is exactly what i thought! I actually loved watching this, it didint feel like something i had to do because it was a christian video.

Dude I agree hardcore

This is not the best of advice IMO. Modern Christianity really falls flat win it comes to dating advice. If you like someone you should. 1. Be confident, and FLIRT with them. Don't be mister, nice guy and think you can when them over with your "niceness", just be honest and show your interest in them. Don't let your fear control you, and just do it. Now in saying this check your sinful nature and only flirt, don't seduce. There is a difference. One, you are giving hints and signs of attraction and trying to figure out if it's mutual. Seduction is going past that. 2. Don't overthink it. This is where I think this video is unhelpful. Overthinking is a terrible thing to do. This is where you crate false versions of who you like by thinking about them too much, and scheme to try to best get yourself into a relationship with them. Overthinking without action shows the lack of faith in God and yourself. You instead want to keep thinking about it so you can get the best possible "strategy" to get them. 3A. Accept rejection and move on. If you haven't continued to overthink, then you are in a much better position to just move on. If she very clearly did not respond to your flirting, or verbal rejected you, who cares. Don't be embarrassed, and understand it wasn't God's will for you. Try again next time. 3B. If she did respond positively ask her on a date, but start out slow. Now that it is clear their is attraction on both sides, you can start to properly discern if the relationship is one you want to pursue. Discerning BEFORE confirming attraction is mutual is putting the cart before the horse. You'll be to prone to overthinking and not proper discernment, but I warn you you have to start slow. They aren't your girlfriend/boyfriend. If you rush you can make the mistake if letting your emotions overtake your discernment.

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I can agree with that, it is easy for ministries to come off as cringe or fake. This video did well to use scripture and just say things plain and simple.

Same!

Omg same! And this video was recommended. I was struggling and now I realised that I just liked the idea of him.

@@Josh934 Heh. I was struggling with kind of the opposite for a while.

It probably depends if you are putting yourself out there and making it possible for that person to see you, for all you know you might have walked past them.

@@ajturner1392 faith without works is dead. like you said, he just has to put himself out there

Keep praying about it but also keep waiting. His timing is perfect. God may have led you to this video to prepare you.

Good thing He is preparing you for when He does place them in your life.!

Same only for me it’s a Godly boyfriend🙈 I think it’s just random.

Facts

Agree

You don’t plan, it just happens. I’ve been in love with a girl since middle school we are both freshman’s now.

@@thatnnoob6109 I hold the belief that humans have the ability to control their feelings, especially with the help of God. So you can somewhat control who you fall in love with. The Bible tells us several times to control your thoughts and feelings.

You literally just typed out my entire situation!!! It’s sucks so much that the feelings don’t dampen at all.

Amen✝️❤️

God bless,so proud of u. Getting caught up in feelings and ignoring wisdom is soo dangerous. Then one or both of you end up getting hrut. so good on ya for realising that.

Same here man.

MR. D, once those intense feelings go away you will be able to be yourself around her. Then you can grow closer with her and develop the friendship. THEN if you are both ready it might become a relationship. This is why it's easier to have a friendship, grow an attraction, then go into a relationship than it is to have an attraction, grow a friendship, and then go into a relationship. I hope that made sense. Regardless, I hope you are able to be friends with this girl at the very least.

@@duke0219 I needed that. Thanks

@@jasecooper4998 You're welcome!

Must be nice to be desired. Not a single fucking woman on this entire planet wants me.