it’s sometimes difficult with children to figure out if they are blind or not when i was younger i hated glasses so i just pretended like i can see for years before i gave up and told someone

@@kawaiicaity1413 that makes sense, im surprised the kids would even wear contacts I feel like most kids have a hard time with glasses and such.

I think it was my 3rd or 4th grade teacher that finally told my parents I may need glasses. I was always getting bad grades in school and being scolded for it when, in actuality, I couldn't see the bloody chalkboard. I have astigmatism, of which I believe I was born with. What's funny is, back in the day, I could see close up but not far, without glasses...today, I can see far but not close up, without my glasses. Hahaha...what a joy it is getting older!😂

@@StyxNyx1 I have astigmatism too it’s fun I can’t drive at night even with glasses 🙃

@@celestialturtle6665 I have terrible night blindness. I have to let my feet do the seeing for me when I take a walk to the store at night. I DO have a cane too, which is very helpful. In the day time, I can't see real far, like say maybe 25 feet max, so I often rely on people's voices in order to identify them.

ikr- so sad

Agree

Sooo true and hilarious

@Royaly Dove :0

@Royaly Dove you’re too young I’m guessing at most 8? You learn it in school

@@momvaz6613 that's so odd I've been able to take my children before school age to get their eyes checked at a children's family eye doctor. I think it's harder for the eye doctor bcuz I'm sure a lot of children aren't sure how to relay results like when they're switching between lenses to see which is better.

@@sevan4059 ye , I find out I had something wrong with my eyes at 5 and I've been getting checkups whenever I get eye strain. (Even before I got glasses)

a lot of kids from this sort of demographic and geographic region are homeschooled. Plus it's also common in "performance" families who want more time for kids to practice and have extra coaching. These kids probably don't have to look a at a whiteboard from the back of the room like most kids so something like shortsightedness wouldn't be picked up

There's no excuses. My child was being homeschooled but I knew something was wrong. She couldn't find things that were right infront of her. Or she could see stuff that I asked her to look at. If you don't spend time with your child then of course you wouldn't notice they need vision help. Too many parents are too focused on themselves and the path they're trying to force their kids on or whatever and don't actually spend time focusing on spending quality time with their children. Bottom line. The parents should've known their child had issues.

@@sevan4059 It sounds though like your child had far-sightedness. The thing is it sounds like the kids that can't see the judges have long-sightedness. Homeschooling involves reading/looking at things right in front of you, as does finding nearby objects or engaging or playing with someone in close proximity. In school kids have to read things at a distance or they do sorts classes that involves interacting with someone at a distance or playing ball sports form far away. It is very common for short-sightedness to be picked up when kids enter grade school or when they start playing sports.

It was wrong and traumatizing and abusive and the worst part is, it's not against the law in reality TV :( Even if there wasn't cameras, she's three years old and obviously doesn't want to be there. Take the child home, let her be a child and have a nap! There is no structured set of healthy stages of growth and development to be found in this environment.

Sweet thing was crying her eyes out and the mom didn't freaking nothing to comfort her. Screw that witch of a woman!

ok I did a bit of looking for context, I originally thought she was just having a toddler tantrum and was put in the room to calm down. So basically, the mum was trying to get her daughter to focus and was unsuccessful, so she brought her outside the dance studio asking "Why are you like this?" (Quick summary, the mum was being rather harsh and gave her daughter a little "time-out" and placed her in that room, shut the door, and then the 3 year old started screaming. ) Even though her mum said it's a short time-out, I think the daughter began to freak out being stuck in a room with an adult she didn't know (poor cameraman must've felt awkward though) and that her mum wouldn't come back for her. You can see how she hugs her mum tight afterwards that she seemed scared. Correct me if I'm wrong, but nobody's really in the right here. Eyo, thanks for taking the time to read this essay.

1:01 tho...

@@actuallyitske-ris I agree. Discipline is one thing but this is wrong. She needs to learn the naughty step and do it right. Explain what they did wrong. A 3 year old can only sit for 3 mins completely without getting up or time starts over. 1 minute for each year of life. Then explain what they did wrong again. Then ask for an apology. I have seen this work on the worst kids.

Exactly 💯

so true

right

Exactly

My thoughts exactly. Like what?😂

They’ve clearly never even been to a pediatrician either because they do eye checkups during yearly appointments....

I work in an eyeglass store. This doesn't surprise me at all. The number of mothers that come in hair done, nails done, fancy purses, but are shocked to find out their kids can't see. Than some let the kids make the choice about getting glasses because of how it makes the kid look. Instead of telling their child that they need glasses in order to do better in school and for their own general health.

@@rachaeleigh ye , my mom took me to checkups and I have glasses now , I always loved how they looked and she made sure I put them on ive got used to it now

Kids aren't going to say something if they don't realize they can't see & that young, there's a good chance they don't realize they aren't seeing. I'm pretty sure not all pediatricians do eye exams, especially bc most kids also have a separate eye exam. I wouldn't know, bc I don't have kids & don't remember. But I remember noticing my eyes change & after a couple months my mom took me in bc I was starting to have trouble seeing the board. At 3-5 years old kids just aren't using their eyes in ways they would notice & their parents aren't going to notice something like squinting at the TV bc they use iPads now.

There pageant coach did that for them

That got me too😢 so sad

@Aidann Gruwell absolutely

every kid is like that though... what 3rd grader wants to know “ school things” when they are doing something else thats is extremely more exciting

@@tate3673 Dude even back when I was 5 I knew how many days of the week there were.

@@katmorgandontcare3367 well some kids do learn slower than other

Too busy doing pageants I guess. Sad.😞

EXACTLY, she literally said she doesn't need to know😂 like listen babe I think ya do

Going on 4th

when they turn 9 they r about to go into 4th, ye their parents clearly don't give them a good education

Kindergarten*

Agree

Ikr, they’ll be soo grumpy smh

@@1hannies my parents are too lazy to take care of my kids, and now my kids are fucking spoiled!

Terrible parents, too . Horrible adults

@@pheonixxam5812 why are your parents raising your kids?

She probably told them all to say they can’t see so she can get them coloured contacts

Exactly my thoughts

You can’t even tell when you have fake lashes on the glue doesn’t get into your eye if you do it right and the lashes are fit for your eyes

Right arent these eye exams usually done individually?

As a 25 mm lash user since 15 years old , I can say that if you can’t see due to the lashes/glue you’re putting them wrong .

100%

If the parents did not know it is fine bc the lady helped them out

@@rowenwilkins2982 How is it fine for a parent to not even notice her own child needs glasses?

It's sad, but the parents paid for it, lol

living vicariously through their children. Basically didn't get to live their own dream so now their child, that they seem to see as an accessory not a tiny human being, needs to live it like an animated dolly.

For clout and recognition 🤧

dude... you are saying that like it’s abuse. this little girl wants to do pageants no one is making her

@@tate3673 girl how? These kids all look depressed. Kids are meant to be kids and play in dirt. This is right at all

because it is fake, it is easy. Compared to real adult world, ur kids dont really need to be pretty or talented to play this stupid competition, and everyone gets their fake ,cheap dollar store crown.

I got night lenses at age 8

I was 9 or 10. A 5 year old will not able to wear them without something happening.

@@dareelpeeps290 right

Damn and I thought my mom was nuts for letting me try them at 12 lmfao. I couldn’t actually do it until I was 18 bc I wanted the kind that you could wear continuously lol but I got dailies a few years ago

My parents would never let me touch lenses. Only after I went to college that I wore it behind their backs for few weeks until I gave up because I couldn't afford the maintenance and went back to glasses again. 😅

They do have jobs how do you think they pay for all of this

@@mrs.johnson1304 yea makes sense

@@mrs.johnson1304 With all that pagent money💸

@@mrs.johnson1304 husbands.

@@heidihoffman3250 husbands don't always have to pay for everything women can do stuff on their own too, women can do just as much as a man can do

Also might I add glasses can be very cute!

Facts

Mine did so like

Its nornal shes 9

Nah even supernanny says that’s a no no. If they won’t stay in time out you walk them over to the time out spot and don’t talk to them. When you first put them in you say “I’m putting you in time out because-blank- xyz”

@@BasedSockHead007 Dude.... you clearly dont have children. I didnt say put your kids in a room and let them cry forever, but sometimes a kid is just over tired and will cry because they are just tired. I watch super nanny, I have children... i wasnt talking about super nanny... you are being such a right fighter, you need to feel like you are an expert.. sometimes children are in their room and they cry, its ok to walk away from your kids when they are crying if you yourself need a moment to calm down, super nanny also teaches that but I guess you didnt watch that episode.

Oh well. Gentle parenting is for losers. You can’t let a kid get their way.

@@whitneypaige2038 she was stuck in a room with a STRANGER.

@@whitneypaige2038 I just know your children don't want to talk to you.

Ikr

That poor poor girl.

i was the same way when i was little lol.

@chillaz1344I guess practically everyone has been abused then

I have to a get with that. I got my first pair of glasses in second grade yes they were ugly lol

Exactly what I was thinking

maybe they didn't know their kids couldn't see why do people always assume the worst. shows what's important to you karen

You have a point but there’s nothing trashy about pageants

@@Literallyarealhuman girl how is pageant trashy? Wtf 💀

Is that a cultural thing? In Denmark I have never met anyone who took their kids, unless they thought something might be up. I had my kid checked because she was squinting, and kinda got the “look” when there was nothing wrong. A few years later she did need glasses though...

@@tiner8414 it must be or just a thing with some families vs others Idk i never was taken to an eye dr as a kid and didn’t know even going to the doctor was a thing for a random check up.. I didn’t take my kid in until I noticed issues with her eyes because even the little eye checks they do for screening vision issues in a physical are really poorly conducted.

@@tiner8414 where i live you get eye tests in school. But schools often write home to parents when they think a kid is having issues with reading too. So either they're at a shit school with no duty of care or the parents don't give a damn

When I was in 5th grade I kept telling my parents I couldn’t see the blackboard but they thought I was making excuses because I wasn’t doing well in school. Then when they finally took me to the optometrist I couldn’t even read the top line, all I saw was a big white square on the wall. I was extremely near sighted. I got contacts when I was 16.

Yaaas sus!!!!

Yeah

I would want all my kids to know that lmfao

I didn’t know the days of the week at 9, catholic school didn’t teach us that

@@ChrisannaKemp I think it’s common sense not your school….

Yeah and some kids don’t have good eyesight so they need glasses too

Compared to when I was a kid the glasses are really cool now. When I was a kid the kids had 1 choice and boys got blue frames and girls got pink frames. They were the free ones from the NHS now they have a choice of hundreds. I only need glasses for driving but I still have half a dozen pairs of glasses.

lol coke bottle glasses seem to be very fashionable right now. just with a bit of a modern touch to them

In beauty pagents ur not allowed to wear glasses mostly cause kids dance in the talent part and they won’t want them to break

@@madison3012 they need to see so it is a must

omg so true. I hate these pageants. The moms are all karen's and they're making more karen's. Most of these kids don't even want to do this. These mom's are living through them and going too far with the beauty standards. Teaching kids right off jump that they HAVE to be PERFECT and look a certain way. This is sad. Changing their eye colors and doing hair extensions and all types of crazy shit.

Hhhh best comment. OMG so true

Karens* Karens*

Especially the kids

Says the one who is one

I used to do pagents and trust me it’s not damaging at all it boost ur confidence to high

@@madison3012 That may have been the case for you, and goof for you! But majority of the time children who have preformed in pageants do end up suffering from a lot of different mental illnesses in the future (eg. eating disorders, body dysphoria, anxiety etc.).

@@oblive4623 no one has and if they have people like u caused it

@@madison3012 You're very obviously either a child or demented, narcissistic adult. Piss off.

@@oblive4623 I’m actually a anesthesiologist who preforms epidural everyday lolll

yea like what?

She means for the pageant she doesn’t want them wearing glasses

@@audrianatehehee2391 yea but Contacts ruin your eyes at such a young age :( they don't care about their health

@@Hello-nt2dj well what if they break the glasses they they are blind

@@rowenwilkins2982 just get more glasses? If you ruin your eyes with wearing contacts too young you cant just go get new eyes can you?

@@acorns269 you can trade eyes i think

And then the mom told her to stop crying. Like whAt!? You never tell a distressed little kid to stop crying! She basically told her child to stop having feelings.

Right

They're all very very immature. Children raising children.

Same here. Tried them about 15 or 16 but I got the "soft" contacts when I started college and it was still an effort.

My step sister is the same she can't put in contacts, I didn't switch to contacts until I was 19 but when you first start wearing them it takes forever to put them in

@@kat35lulu88 same, seven years later and I still use the soft contacts

I started using them when I was 13 and it was hard at first but now I’m 17 so it’s really easy l

I was 13 because I'm legally blind and my glasses were thick.

RIGHT

Chaos and tiaras?

or toddlers and tantrums

@@bethanycohu5089 yeaa

Yeah I've noticed gymnasts and dancers who compete in solely pageants have terrible form and technique because the pageant judges dont know that stuff and dont judge you on that. They judge more so on the performance factor I feel. These kids would be much better off with an actual teacher who knows that stuff.

Fr

how

@@amor7886 you are literally putting shit in your eyeball.

@@teehee5700 ok so

Wearing them for short periods of time is fine.

Because the mom is a child herself. She is very immature and treats her daughter as a cross between a Barbie doll and a naughty puppy. Who reproduced with this woman?

there is a full clip of that. It wasn't so bad. It was just a punishment for liking the word "no" too much. Punishments aren't meant to be nice or they don't work. But the mother was good in letting the kid know she still loved her at the end and moving on. Probably the only decent parenting that has been on this show

@@MsJubjubbird The way the mother handled that situation is going to put deep psychological stress and or trauma in the kid. The child was a three year old who didn't wan't to do a couple exercises. That entire situation alone is quite alarming. The mother locked her in a room with an adult camera man because she said no to some exercises which in turn teaches the kid that her needs are not prioritized at all. This is actually horrible lmao.

@@hellobye4729 lol no it won't. Kids are resilient. She;ll forget it in a few hours. All the staff will be cleared to work with kids. She just kicked up a fuss to see if her mother would give in. Kids will go to extrees to get their own way. As much as I hate pageants, she was being punished for not participating in a class doing an activity appropriate for her age that her mother had paid for. If this was a dance class or a music class it would be the same.

@@MsJubjubbird its one thing to throw a tantrum because you want to get your way, but I feel there were better ways to handle it and maybe not stick a camera man alone w/ a little girl while she's throwing a tantrum? This kid is gonna grow up and see this like be ethical??

🤣🤣🤣

My best friend competed in Miss Universe and she had to know the days of the week because they have a fully packed schedule.

There is nothing wrong with wearing glasses because they are cool as well!

They could break

They do pageants. The whole point of it is the glam, how you look, and personality etc. if you don't like it then you don't have to watch the videos. There's no need to hate! It's absolutely disgusting for an adult woman to go and put your input on something when that's how it's supposed to be.

@@autumn1766 It's ridiculous how you dont see there's something wrong with BABIES, these are toddlers and elementary schoolers, to look like adult women. They should not have seven layers of makeup on or worry about their eye colour? Pageantry is disgusting because its teaching young girls to be obsessed over their appearance all for selfish mothers to live vicariously through them. You must be a pageant mom and have no idea how to raise children properly

@@kumakumab no it's about confidence and support if you don't know about it then you have no reason to talk about it!!

@@autumn1766 so your saying ruining your child's vision,self esteem is ok bc it's just a "pAeGeAnT" .the whole thing is horrible it should be should be shut down.The children have no say in this and it's mostly karen mums forcing there child to do this so they have money.

@@autumn1766 No it isnt that's all you see but behind the scenes its different when you say confident what people really do is tell you how ugly you are and you should put makeup on how is that being confident and the whole thing is based on judges judging CHILDREN AND BABIES who havent even gotten through puberty how pretty they are imagine how they feel when they dont win.How is this being confident and supporting and all the mums are supporting there children putting fake teeth,tanning etc.

I got my back tuck at 6 it’s not hard to believe lol

It’s not that unusual.

Yes, like the other replies say, it's not uncommon. I'm a gymnastics coach for ages 5 to 13 and we spend lots of time developing strength and shapes so they can do these sorts of moves. Every athlete progresses at their own pace though. I began competing a roundoff back handspring back tuck when I was eight, like many of my then peers.

these are old videos, the kids are fine.

@@elle.r4698 there not really some are but a lot still don’t act thier age and all

@@ellerussell9452 so true

exactly what i was thinking

@@elle.r4698 tell that to Kailia posey…

oh most three year olds act like that when they don't get their own way. They are quite the little performers. There was a kid in the department store that was even more melodramatic last week because she wanted to go home instead of waiting for her sister to try on school shoes. By the sounds of the mother's interview it was the first time she heard the word "no" so she was probably in a bit of shock and was going to do whatever it took to have her mother reconsider this new discipline thing

Thinking the same thing. I played up my poor eyesight as a kid because I wanted glasses. I really DID need them, but the Dr caught on to my BS acting like I was literally blind and I was given the correct Rx lol

yueah especially because Cambrie was wearing glasses at the appointment and they look up to her

If that makes sense

I don’t think she has a problem with glasses per say as you can see some of the kids with glasses but I think she’s probably thinking more for the pageant where glasses aren’t going to be an option especially at pageant only judging facial beauty because then they can’t see the kids eyes I mean the coach herself had glasses on

They can’t see so thanks for not caring

You put a strap on the glasses so they stay on. It's not rocket science. Get these kids some glasses and let them be kids.

@@soundmanpt exactly I can’t fathom being a parent who wouldn’t

@@soundmanpt I luckily could see decently enough that I just went without them. Id wear them backstage though.

@@ashlynnheller8400 Anyone under the age of 12 years old is too young to be wearing contacts. If you're eyesight is already less than perfect you're going to require vision correction for the rest of your life. You're going to do more harm than good to your eyes by wearing contacts already. Wear glasses and show some self confidence in your true looks. I have fitted many beautiful young women with glasses and they look every bit as amazing wearing glasses as do without them.

@@soundmanpti had them at 11

Ok it is canceled by me

Some of them actually enjoy doing it. U aren’t their mother. Keep ur mouth shut

They have them up for sale right under the title if you wanna watch so badly

three year olds have pretty basic feelings- I don't wanna and the whole world is going to know it until i get my own way. They just escalate their reaction to try and get what they want, especially if the discipline thing, which isn't meant to be fun, is new to them. Then why not try their luck to see how serious this new regime is? They're usually fine and it's just a performance. I just think such a structured environment is not great for a three year old. Maybe half an hour of fun interactive lessons and then there needs to be time to play and be creative. The actual pageants are the worst for kids this age because they wake up early, have to sit still for an hour and then perform all day- often into their naptime.

i don't think that's an issue. i used to think I didn't need to know my times tables when I was her age. Kids can't see how information and skills are connected. The concerning bit would be if her parents encouraged and reinforced that outlook.

Exactly! If they wanna start young, the youngest should be like 7 or 8

When your mom yelled at you or your siblings(if you have any) did she tell you guys to go to your room and not come out or put you in time out and not let you come out bc it’s the same thing as leaving a child in a room

The names Harlee and Cambrie are kinda tacky it's like the Brandy & Krystle & Destinee of the 80s.

It's hallee

@@cocoleexoxo hallee

You must have never watched supernanny

All these girls are teenagers now and living normal lives. Most are in high school or college

@@Afmedic85 I hope but it can affect how they grow up act and see life with different values

Limbs don’t grow back... what do you mean “hope he’s doing better”???

@@thatotherchannel7945 I said “I’m glad he’s doing better” and he was having a rough time a few years ago. So I was basically saying I’m happy for him because he’s come a long way.