10:18 I agree that he's very probably guilty, but I think that one of her older sons could have (sadly) also been resentful towards her and also had knowledge of the nickname

Every person in this comment section attempting to justify this innocent woman's death is actively contributing to a culture of violence against women. Being highly sexually active shouldn't be a death sentence.

4700 a month is ridiculous Unless he was earning upwards of $300 grand a year it’s way too much. I don’t believe in maintenance or alimony. Just reasonable child support. And all that DNA on her is just disgusting 🤮 . If people honored their wedding vows they’d be a lot better off and so would their kids.

A failed marriage, 2 kids, and divorce. Then she has a kid with a new man which obviously didn't work out, then he remarried her and had 2 more!!? And yet AGAIN got divorced?! Yes, he likely killed her. Especially if she was the one initiating divorce. But my god! nearly $5k a month support! While she continued her promiscuous lifestyle? How did she even get custody? So yes, he probably did it, but justified IMHO. Then again the old saying that "birds of a feather flock together". If he only had to pay a more reasonable child support amount, or even get custody, I doubt this would have happened. Did anybody ever talk to baby daddy number 2? He should have been another significant suspect. Perhaps I missed it in the vid.

All this dna sounds like she never showered. Can’t b true tho

Only owing 2 months of alimony and likely getting close to being done with that obligation seems like a weak motive.

It’s impossible to feel sorry for that nasty troIIop. Female “emancipation” was a mistake/disaster of cosmic proportions.

People are nuts.

There is not enough evidence to convict, there is definitely reasonable doubt, different dna on her body, etc. Very scary of the court not to allow all the evidence for the jury to make a fair verdict based on evidence and not just assuming the ex did it because they assume he's jealous or because he's a bit in arrears. There is not enough to convict this guy.

The comment censorship is insane

He put up her death certificate on the wall? Why are murderers so bad at acting human

Her daughters [suicide] sounds sketchy to me. Loghan Starbuck’s whereabouts had not been known since Dec. 17 until someone noticed a body in the water Feb. 10 near the Sans Souci mobile home park in Spokane. The office said on its website that Starbuck, a 25-year-old of Cheney, died from “asphyxia due to drowning” and that it was a suicide.

This analysis: Two Big Thumbs Down 👎👎

Dr are you a male feminist? In this case we have a true prostitute. We have someone that was so selfish and only cared about what was between her legs that she had her own child take her own life. Why is it that in the US alone really, sex is above and beyond everything that should be your number one priority. Family, kids, love for your family, your own dignity and honor and respect for your own person and God. None of this is present in most Americans. We talk about those things but it’s just talk. In reality the system raises a specific type of human beings that really have no love for anyone but themselves. The police should have just closed their eyes on this matter and moved on. Sometimes the law should close its eyes on such people and move on but no! Capitalism will not let them do that. It will never let people do what’s right because money and promotion is more important for everyone because the 1st is near every month and the bills are due and they never stop coming so people put that above everything they are What a f Ed up country this is

great mom and dad

Very similar to the OJ case. Nicole seeing other men with kids around, OJ going ape shit over that. He should have put salt peter in her corn flakes maybe.

I test negative for sympathy.... again.

You choose very interesting stories, but your delivery style is everything! Following you now.

Poor woman, killed and disrespected in such a terrible way.

Assinine political dig! Take a look at our country rignt now!!

Flight instructors should have confronted her poor performance early in basic training. She was obviously not competent in her flying skills and should never been given her private licence. Her apparent lack of flying skill is incredible. Her death along with her Dad is very sad.

Meet someone on a cruise, give them your phone and address. Cheat on your husband with him, move to HIS COUNTRY, forget your child. A trainwreck to death.

I can't believe I just watched this whole podcast just to hear you victim blame at the end. You wanna know what bias is? Bias is you. As a medical professional, of course you are going to agree with the other medical professionals and not see it from the mother's point of view, in fact I disagree with every thing you said at the end. Victim blaming a mother who was grieving for a child THAT WAS STILL ALIVE. Do you personally know how it feels to grieve for someone especially your child that is still alive? Do you? You are nothing but a very arrogant & ignorant "doctor" show some compassion!! The JH all children's hospital rewarded this family 212 million dollars because of their own mistakes.

I wonder who says she was having casual sex. Technology was much different

Justice for Clay.

Yes, such a recalcitrant hutzpah is the prerequisite for achieving greatest, but, of course, this brain must be coupled with actual brawn to pull off a feat like Everest. Another brawnless bites the dust.

He robbed the banks to pay bills took care of his wife and family abd the wife didnt stay

For some reason I don’t at all sorry for this woman. And how does a guy who can’t work bc of a bad back have to pay $4500 per month. Feel bad for the kids that there Mom was such a sl@t. Clay got screwed in more ways than one.

Hope I'm not murdered and left in a humiliating way only to have those embarrassing details put on YT for entertainment with a thumbnail of my last name and picture and the words "sex toy revenge". And this guy is a therapist? Jfc!

$4700 can buy many “toys” 😅

How would the ex husband know she is having sex with a lot of men…. She told him ? I’m not sure how the mother thought having all these men in her life was safe for her children either … this is very tragic . Thank you for the story Dr. Grande ❤

He is the consummate con-artist. Ticks all those boxes

Is Shannon a Scorpio ♏️ This is the first case I have heard of that occurred with a sex you deployed for it’s assigned purpose 😢

Listen, guys. NEVER GET MARRIED! Marriage is totally unnecessary and is designed to only benefit the woman. Don't do it. Have relationships, but never bind yourself to someone for life with a government contract.

All I have every wanted was for Dr Grande to diagnosis someone in the video. Another dissapointment.

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Why in the hell should he have to pay her almost $50K a year? That’s a miscarriage of Justice. Divorce courts have no consideration of the burden they put on fathers when they hand down a judgement like that. All the while he’s paying her to take care of his kids and she’s being a wh**e and bringing multiples of men to her house to have sex with her. And this is what you end up with. Gross. This is exactly why men don’t want to be with women anymore. This is why there is absolutely zero benefit to a man to getting married and every benefit to a woman. The disparity is real.

Sad. Very sad. She wanted to make it on her own as a hygienist, but going wo $4900 per month from him would have been really hard. If I were the husband I would have been utterly upset, but offing her would not have been an option. Yikes.

Every adult should be able to support themself and any children financially.

This is so freakin' bizarre

I don't see how Clay can be guilty beyond a reasonable doubt when there was other DNA and they only cleared one of her lovers.

I would’ve voted not guilty for the husband

She was nasty

All these alliterations are the coping mechanis meant to defend the slipping sanity against the sheer horrors of internet sexual deviancy. Kind of like how Lovecraftian characters who flew over the cuckoo's nest after discovering the sher magnitude of their insignificance in the face of of unstoppable doom of unimaginable proportions. But in this case Dr. Grande is relatively prepared with him being a licenced therapist and all that and instead of some Great Old Ones it's just your average common degeneracy.

He's not a psychopath; he's a sociopath because psychopaths are born with psychopathy while sociopaths become sociopaths through some sort of trauma that they go through in the past. In Dexter's case it was the bullshit he suffered when he was bery young: seeing his mother get brutality murdered

One way or another, her actions contributed to her demise (F.A.F.O.) as she Found Out. Maybe it was the husband or maybe it was one of the DNA carousel she was in heavy rotation on. The jury should have heard about this and not just the case against the husband as there were other potential suspects - quite a few actually.

Do any remarriages end well?

Very interesting story. Thanks for all your hard work every day, Dr. Grande. ❤ I always find the videos informative and calming and I appreciate them.❤🛤️👀🛋️🍰🫖🔑❤️

Dr. Grande pumpin out videos faster than I can watch them. 😳

His eyebrows scream: GUILTY!