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@gardengraffiti
@gardengraffiti Годину тому
Dude. Great recap. Thank you. 👏
@jamesmayes5112
@jamesmayes5112 Годину тому
It's true what he says and personally spk I hate our species a think we're the absolute worst and if we don't get rid of governments there will be nothing left, but we just don't behave as we should and certainly not deserving of this place we call home.
@whereswendy8544
@whereswendy8544 День тому
But my happy, smart, active teenage daughter became addicted when she broke her ankle and became chronically addicted to the pain meds the medical system put het on. NOT from emotional abuse.
@jamescelentano2573
@jamescelentano2573 День тому
Watched a few of these videos. They're all the same. He explains it, but never tells you how to change it.
@Keith-tz2jy
@Keith-tz2jy 2 дні тому
I choose to be an addict cause otherwise I'd be staring at the wall from my untreated childhood trauma of neglect. And i still am being neglect by society
@United_Wings
@United_Wings 3 дні тому
Thanks
@shannonmay60
@shannonmay60 4 дні тому
I had to make the decision to stop drinking. Nobody else could. I don’t want it in my life and I’m ok not being around people who drink. I’ve had enough of the fake love and broken promises for one lifetime
@maryjoy9830
@maryjoy9830 4 дні тому
Thanks for a wonderful summarisation of The seven Habits, God bless you.
@hola-wc8bq
@hola-wc8bq 4 дні тому
Wonderfully explained. Thank you.... Honestly, what i most disliked was the music. I must analyze why that happened to me.
@MrManAmong
@MrManAmong 5 днів тому
This video is so highly effective that it took 9 years for me to stumble across it. It's also so effective in telling me to be proactive, I'm going to quickly hit the thumbs down button and make sure to stop it from being recommended 🙂
@Happy.one.two.three.
@Happy.one.two.three. 5 днів тому
Great chanell! Your vision is top notch:)
@beverleecarrell510
@beverleecarrell510 6 днів тому
Dr. GABOR is incredible in all his findings..However..I think there are actually an entire society that are using "childhood" trauma as an excuse for everything fro..A-Z..Everyone is a victim now..I mean EVERYONE...I am.just a little fatiqued by the entire thing..There really are lazy, using manupulators that destroy the productive..Anyway..Jeep up the great work Dr. GABOR..you are mire educated than I..❤
@shannonmay60
@shannonmay60 4 дні тому
I agree. I punished my pain for too long. It took me a long time to heal. It’s a journey to recovery
@shivshanker2275
@shivshanker2275 6 днів тому
Pur First thing First ....can any body explain
@tobiasrekker5376
@tobiasrekker5376 6 днів тому
I bought this book years ago and never read it. Now I am in a different frame of mind. I am ready to read it, embrace it, and use it to create my life as I desire it. Thanks for this great video
@samstewart4807
@samstewart4807 7 днів тому
hi, where do I get a list of the names of the paintings for each law?
@TheDukeKara
@TheDukeKara 7 днів тому
this video gave me crazy goosebumps
@JimTMcDaniels1
@JimTMcDaniels1 8 днів тому
Dr Mate thank you for caring and researching. Unfortunately you still need to realized some Important things: The truth hardly anyone wants to consider and see is, "I think therefore I am a robot", "We have been lied to, we don't loose our minds, we loose ourselves in our mind machine through obsessive thinking", "our mind mines our body for energy to an early dried up death", "Our obsessive thoughts magnifies the worst attributes of us and warps our view of our reality", "Our obsessive thoughts create sabotaging emotions and feelings which possess us". Our mind machine fully activates in adulthood. Rise of the ego, rise of the machine. We loose our youthful selves when we fully fall into obsessive thinking and start to age. Our adult addiction to obsessive thinking is fueled by fear and curiosity. Our religions help fuel this as they are based on fear and ego and selfishness. The cold blooded reptilians wanted to keep humanity down and divided and separated and in warring groups and gangs. They wrote our religions to make sure we Never Ever realize that the only god is collectively us and that we would Never act as gods who stand together in equality and manifested supporting love for all life. To suppress and discriminate against soft caring nurturing femininity and minorities which also fuels man's ego? Why did the reptilians separate us into different skin colors and religions and languages to keep us from fully recognizing the equal life force in another human? Take care.
@JimTMcDaniels1
@JimTMcDaniels1 8 днів тому
Dr Mate, why haven't you asked yourself why we/our mind machine is bringing up and reliving traumatic events which are now over, a long time ago? Also how can you slow down and stop the person's automated addiction to the obsessive sabotaging thoughts? Why has our religions stated only god can forgive, so that we can never use self forgiveness to release our sabotaging mind connections to traumatic past events and stand up to and stop our addiction to obsessive thoughts, and so over time, become omni present in the present? Why isn't introspective self forgiveness writing and reading out-loud to your body being used for mental health improvement? Why aren't our very stable wise and powerful children being observed and researched, to be compared to us adults, to figure out why adults fall into sabotaging obsessive thoughts and drug addictions to try to cope and destress? Why aren't we taught that adolescence is not just about growing body hair and other physical changes but also our selfish thoughts ego fully rising? Please don't be just a talking Gabor.. ok Mate?! We can now break out of our pre charted programming, the mayan calendar has ended, anything is possible now! Take care
@shalinivaz1473
@shalinivaz1473 8 днів тому
Excellent video
@connordebruler3264
@connordebruler3264 9 днів тому
Dr. Gabor Mate...I like what I hear from him, but I am very cautious about what I hear. Making sure I take it in slowly, and with a lot of skepticism because I worry about any semi-intellectual or pseudo-intellectual who speaks nowadays. There was a time when Jorden Peterson sounded just as sane (to some).
@aljonserna5598
@aljonserna5598 10 днів тому
We know this now that this was literally for aristocrats under a system where nobility and titles rule, not like in democratic republics. But hey, we also learned now that our politicians literally act like these aristocrats especially with their ties and connections
@InsureConnect360
@InsureConnect360 11 днів тому
Only when we retrain our minds to evolve past the recycling mindset can we grow to our highest potential. As he said, our Personality creates our Present Personal Reality. In every situation, think positively, see the value in each circumstance, take the "bad" as a learning opportunity. 👍
@MichaelOCMusic
@MichaelOCMusic 11 днів тому
Never thought about it in that way xD
@AF-F-RV-EG
@AF-F-RV-EG 12 днів тому
This is goddamn brilliant 🤌
@Deandre-gq6mg
@Deandre-gq6mg 12 днів тому
feels like this is all common sense with good examples. can't believe people need to read a book to understand this
@mikeskel45
@mikeskel45 12 днів тому
You know what’s crazy is i never really put the pieces of the puzzle together til now but it makes sense for me I’ve struggled with addiction since I was 13
@hassanbosaleh6527
@hassanbosaleh6527 13 днів тому
0:00 be productive 1:28 begin with the end in mind 2:23 put first first 2:57 think win-win 3:57 seek first to understand then to be understood 4:36 synergy 5:12 sharpen the saw
@lucasrollo1981
@lucasrollo1981 13 днів тому
I have heard that a lot of the studies backing this book have been proven false. Is this book still worth reading? I'm worried about walking away with false information.
@mescnick
@mescnick 15 днів тому
Sounds good
@MadisonBriggsArtchick
@MadisonBriggsArtchick 15 днів тому
Excellent synopsis!
@Hans_Magnusson
@Hans_Magnusson 16 днів тому
Yeah, and when people have payed huge amounts for sending their staff to seminars on this topic, spent another big number on consultants… I go in and deliver 12.5% the same day I joined the team, cut the time by 50% to the next day … So on an so forth! … Do you think I need this bs?
@Dora-nf2ek
@Dora-nf2ek 16 днів тому
I agree that many people use drugs to escape problems however I think the addiction is also a disease that runs in some families. I've seen this happen to some of my extended family and my husbands also. None of these family members were abused in any way or traumatized in any way. They choose to try it thinking I can quit anytime, however became addicted. I went to high school with some too, had the best childhood, nothing tragic happened in their lives and never abused. Still they liked partying with friends and then they were addicted. My heart breaks for these people because they never planned to be an addict. Then there's some that out grow the partying life style and can quit. These drugs are very addictive and it's very hard to stay clean. It's a choice to try it or not. I think its a dangerous choice to make not knowing what one's outcome will be.
@erikpeterson25
@erikpeterson25 16 днів тому
#1 check # 2 check # 3 check #4 check #5 check #6 check #7 check Made me feel much better six years going into number seven ....😊 wait till everyone SEES and HEARS the results 😊
@SecretsWithin777
@SecretsWithin777 16 днів тому
Thank you
@jujum.8726
@jujum.8726 16 днів тому
love how you included the TV bit! amazing video
@TheBitcoinologist
@TheBitcoinologist 16 днів тому
With this mindset, if you're not a Bitcoiner, you're missing out on a lot of like minded people. We just want to be free of a currency that is debased by the Fed printing money for free, devaluing the dollar, which now has only 3% of the purchasing power it once had before going off the gold standard. Dive down the rabbit hole. Study Bitcoin.
@LadyBug-fs8gz
@LadyBug-fs8gz 17 днів тому
That was a clear and effective presentation.
@davidortega3393
@davidortega3393 17 днів тому
You suck!….you’re welcome
@StrawberryLetter24
@StrawberryLetter24 17 днів тому
This got weird real fast... Was that decapitation analogy really necessary?
@bhavikdudhrejiya852
@bhavikdudhrejiya852 17 днів тому
Awesome video bro
@sharisimonehampton5434
@sharisimonehampton5434 18 днів тому
Thanks!😉👍❤
@stuttersounds
@stuttersounds 18 днів тому
This might explain why after my recent breakdown, when I felt like my life was 'amazing' and I lost all my progress and amibition, why , while part of me still grieves what I felt I had, another part of me has lost all umph to try again, like I dont wanna get caught in another do do do cycle. That feeling to be 'special' is still there though. Like I recently got lost in spiritual stuff and then wanted to be vegan, etc, but under it, I can see that I want to be 'spiritual and vegan', as it will give me an identity and make me feel 'special' again. All I want to do is not worry about anything, go on walks, eat well, read books and watch anime. I feel like this "isnt good enough of a life" , yet have no urge to do anymore. And if I do try and do more, i get depressed and go back to bed. Its like I know that I so want to find okayness in the ordinary, yet dont feel it. 😢
@zest1800
@zest1800 18 днів тому
Just my own opinions here: I am usually interested in other people's topics even though they may be unrelated to my own life or hobbies as I am a very open-minded and very receptive person keen on learning about almost anything. I personally think the sort of people who are always waiting for others to finish their words and start talking about their own things are not respectful to others. The second point is that I would tell some people they are wrong, either directly or indirectly even if I respect their own opinions. If I think they are wrong in some way, I will tell them my opinion and why, but I never force them to believe I am right. I only do this to provide them more perspectives to think. The last point, I agree. There was a trick to win people I learned, which is, in any chat, you have to ask that person more questions about them, talk about things they are interested, not constantly talking about yourself.
@jorgesarcos
@jorgesarcos 18 днів тому
Title is misleading, the video is about biases instead of thinking fast or slow.
@greenway64
@greenway64 18 днів тому
Your gut bacteria supply your body with 95% of it's serotonin. UPF food, which most of us consume destroys the good gut bacteria that produces the serotonin. Depression can follow on from poor choices in food but of course there's much more to it than just that, but it makes a difference. Personally I'm happier being alone, I mix and socialise when I feel the need to, but feel better in myself on my own terms, although I guess it's not for everyone.
@kapdolkim1914
@kapdolkim1914 19 днів тому
Well, this is much better than the actual book. Good work.
@GalvatronMegatron
@GalvatronMegatron 19 днів тому
I have peace of mind. That’s hard to achieve I think
@lizg5692
@lizg5692 19 днів тому
This is not what the book remotely says wft
@coper1876
@coper1876 19 днів тому
What if I have infinite amount of willpower?
@zabriko
@zabriko 20 днів тому
Thank you for this great video. I am 48 and don’t know how to start over my life
@psychedelicartistry
@psychedelicartistry 20 днів тому
The closest thing to a cure is through Psychedelic Therapy. I find it very telling that there are no Ibogaine clinics in the United States and Ibogaine is schedule I while Fentanyl is schedule II. They don't want to cure addiction in the west. It keeps people dependent on the system. It's a sick society. Addiction doesn't just affect addicts on the human level but it's an infection that's deeply embedded into western society. It's literally become a societal problem.
@stacyann825
@stacyann825 2 дні тому
You hit the nail on the head!! Why is that treatment with psychedelics illegal in the US? Because it CURES addiction and Big Pharma can't have THAT!!! They're keeping people on Suboxone