That's a neat way to describe it - that your emotions hang around until they've accomplished their goal. I hadn't thought of them necessarily in that way of being active communicators, but they really are, so it's best to listen to them sooner rather than later. As for comparing emotions to weather patterns, I've often thought that, too. Living in the Upper Midwest, boy, does that really fit. We like to joke that if you don't like the weather, just wait a few hours. It's bound to change. 😂🌬🌞⛈️🌪☔️❄️ But it's also a good reminder, like she said in the video, that if you're having a really down emotion, it won't last forever.

I requested anger manegment, dbt, cbt and counciling and all they keep forcing me is shit medication and we have all had enough of this bs from professionals you are all a load of Quacks and Dr feelgoods and worse than Al Chapo and Pablo Escobar and all the Colombian and Mexican drug cartels and MS 13! YOU ARE WICKED!

Does Dr. Ramani mean that the good stuff is superficially good because it does not last? Or, is it about the lack of sincerity behind it? What do you guys think?

i was diagnosed with BPD, but the therapist wasn’t confident in her diagnosis. fast forward to 5 years later and i am now properly diagnosed with CPTSD. It made a lot more sense to me since i don’t have any fear of abandonment. I also don’t self harm nor do I think about suicide. I’ve always been an independent person with a very strong personality and i always know who i am…. unfortunately it’s warped.

I had a traumatic childhood due to badly controlled Epilepsy. I would suffer a lot of injuries due to my seizures and i am still poorly controlled. My friend also died from a seizure. I still suffer flashbacks from the bad events in my childhood and cry. I have a lot of anger and hurt inside and i am being assessed for Adhd and Autism. I am wondering if i am suffering from CPTSD!

What if the narcissist tries to isolate u from friends and family

Rediculous and so childish for others who have nothing else better to do with their lives and time than this🤬

Sounds like poor Britney, probably that’s why she is almost naked most of the time, trying to seduce and use weird accents 😢

I have a fantasy but I can’t talk about it

💗💗 LONG live Dr. Ramani!!! 💗💗 LOVE this beautiful, courageous, GENIUS of a person! 👏👏👏

She hates feminism and wish to stay home lol

Parents and siblings. Left me feeling lonely and on guard my entire life.

PLEASE can anyone help me I am autistic, and I ended up with another I think narcissist I already went through 2 sisters one was so evil I moved out of state and my cousin takes care of everything. I seen her do same type stuff my sister did take my monitor cord from my computer take my booklets for my crock pot and Nijia cooker. I have had all my importation papers taken out of my safe she has a key. Someone broke into my apartment, and I believe she has even been here when I am not home but at my aunts. I know she put lot of apps on my phone and since have had troubles with it and if I am on it when she is in same room it makes all jkinds funny noise. I am 65 but have mind like 12 yeAR OLD. She told me she could not take me to shop for food this week but she got me milk and bread. Just found out for the next week she busy and can't take me shopping I do not have enough food for a week. So I am trying to ration it I am only 92 pound and I just got there after 2 weeks of only being 91. I do not knopw what to do and I think sghe knows I know have cameras in apartment and she told me they in my name and email only but she lied they in her name too. I see where she puts them on with aoto so she can listen to me talk to my dad and I talk to my dog a lot. So I am sure she knows I took battries out of all cameras inside so she can't turn them on listen. I have no idea what to do and scared she will do what mmy sister did to me. Can anyone help me please? Police forget I believe she already muniplated them she refuses to report my sleeping pills gone said I would not like what she will say to police if we report tyhem missing. I am sure she took them. I think she has also lied to mangment here not sure yet. I do not know what to do.

Psychopaths are born, and they have a very strong mind-body connection generally if they do not struggle with neurodivergence, meaning, in healthy and connected environments where the family unit thrives and heals together, the child will not develop social or interpersonal aversion, and likely will develop a healthy and balanced psyche and healthy and balanced relationships. It is in adverse, abusive, neglectful and unstable environments that psychopaths "present" these symptoms of being psychopathic ( because the mind is traumatized and the body is merely reacting to the trauma when the connection between the mind and body is made), but only dangerous and very disturbed psychopaths have been studied and analyzed, therefore leaving the vast majority of psychopaths to go unnoticed and not acurrately studied. I do belive the gene for psychopathy is passed from mother to son, and father to daughter, and these relationships between them can prove to be extremely contentions and neurologically charged to the point of being very dangerous. I have always given my father a wide berth when he becomes triggered mentally by something or someone (typically me if I am too inquisitive, which I was as a child, because I was trying to learn how to feel), and this has helped our relationship tremendously. I do think psychopaths have the ability to mentally train themselves to stay in physical spaces that create mental discomfort, but it is very difficult and typically very dangerous for their family.

Atleast she has a support system. For someone like me who dont have any.... i mean since i cant keep any stable relationship, im obviously alone and with parents who dont understand ... yh its such a bird in a cage feeling. This sort of env plus bpd is such a toxic combination. Im glad that she has so many support system. I wish i have too. Now i dont even know how long i would survive with this alone.

How do you get these people away from you? The neighbors, strangers, fake friends…they swarm towards me like leeches. Its definitely stemming from a cyber crime…but if i tell these ppl to back up- more come at me. What can you do?

PS spazzed out and press the send button before thanking you! Thank you!

Very well said! Unbelievable, how there are so many people like that! And yes, if you do not have children walk away always! I feel terrible for children who are involved in the middle of these psychos!

I walked away a week ago. It’s so hard because I want to go back..but I know I have to be strong

Age has mellowed mine 😊

That’s so sad. 🤗 *** is it just me or does he not favor and sound a lot like Luke Bryan?

My ex did this. I don't remember saying that and the big one was that never happened. She lied to me about starting to smoke after we got married.

Its become very common practice for NHS managers to say 'you are not thinking of the patients' when you know you are working in unsafe staffing levels, if you complain or challenge them this has become a stanard response. Every nurse i know bows down because nobody wants to neglect the patient but it continues the very bad situation.

This video resonated with me. A great deal. I suffered very long + very difficult abuse filled childhood with a narcissistic father, Followed by a long relationship with a woman I thought I was meànt to spend the rest of my life with and. after that ended and it all came out slowly over 3 years. Everything that had happened. I am left in a place where I cannot form bonds with people anymore because. I feel like everyone has a time bomb inside of them and some people have a longer time than others, but everyone eventually will explode in your face and ruin everything. So I sit with myself and I don't seek to make any connections with anyone and in fact, I constantly just want this life to be over so that maybe I can be free of this feeling. Don't get me wrong. I have no interest in hurting myself But when it's my time I will not feel the least bit of sadness to leave this Earth. I will look upon death as a wondrous relief from the unending shame and sadness that my life has become these last seven years. Sorry for complaining

I just wanted to say a narcissistic abuse is a crime and should be punished. I blame governments and I know what I am saying - I exposed someone who shouldn't be even allowed to live where she lives. The governments are a joke!

This has been super helpful, thank you im really enjoying this channel.

Im so depressed i cannot function

I am strong beautiful capable loving generous helpful and you all are magic

I feel like when you’re always misunderstood you just keep quiet and it becomes social anxiety but for me i feel like no one every understands me so I don’t bother and I’ve been trying to figure out if it’s social anxiety or I’ve had enough of socialising with people because they don’t understand me

Can I watch her talk abt bpd without the annoying guy? 😅

😭😭😭#5 I found stems from my mother n into every relationship I've been in.

The interviewer is Rly annoying. As if we can just gRoW uP n get over our traumas like wtf 💀

Ok yeah I've split on my Drs since I was in my teens n I didn't realize it until my late teens lmao

All 4 of these describe me. People think I’m stuck up because I’m not chatty. It’s hard to describe that I’m observing and thinking.

I don't know how much is true about drugs causing it. At my hearing for disability they asked if I used PCP and said that that can cause those symptoms. People on other comments say there was no drug use but it developed. If drugs can cause it maybe if your neighbor is cooking up meth you don't have to be the drug user. You just need to live next to one. People also put drugs into peoples drinks sometimes. I remember them even saying something like possible PCP in my system. I have no idea how that may have happened. It has also been said that people would add other substances to cannabis if you were buying it on the street. So you might think you are getting cannabis but maybe you are getting cannabis that has something else on it. And not all strains of cannabis are the same.But I wonder if some symptoms of schizophrenia are actually caused by personal beliefs and introduction of certain information, whether that information be true or false, and the putting together of such information. I've also wondered if schizophrenia may be kind of like a sleep disorder. I am diagnosed with it, and 3 people I know. But I think we each are a bit different. Sometimes I don't believe I have it. But if I tell anyone what my experience is I know they will jump to that conclusion. I get frustrated that it seems all of our experiences are considered false or not worth anything. Just end up feeling dismissed. I mean one time there were actual voices coming in through my computer but I needed to record them with my phone to show that they were real. I also feel like even if we learn a lot about something people just discount it because of a diagnosis. Funny how only stable people are allowed to believe in the paranormal. And funny how they say we can't know anything about ourselves because they took a college course on what we live with.

How about an episode about the best approach to take with people who have BPD for providers?

What do you do if you and your husband are narcissists? lol 😂 as soon as she said voice record, I was dead.....

Instead of dismissing the 'anal'/"autistic" approach of remembering for true a certain word or sentence - try gathering your attention at one undeniable instance

Definitely been there

😂 you people believe this🤪🤡

I never realized how much my ex was emotionally abusing me until I cut her out and opened my eyes to her narcissism

Selfish people, whom tend to take advantage of others.

It’d be better for her ask what events thoughts “will lead to”rather than “what they mean”.

Oh yeah...Here's a another one, "I don't know what your talking about".

If thousands of people are experiencing the same thing , you have to investigate. Do not say they are wrong . Like science you can not say it true or false without proof. Who I seen in the spiritual realm. Is someone more then 10000 have in catered as well.

Disappointed in many of so called "licensed" therapists, psychologists. The internet is filled of these life coaches. Some call themselves experts.

Yes, she switched the sociopath and then psychopath around. Psychopath is born with genetic factors and their childhood makes it worse. Sociopath is born with no genetic markers and goes through a very abusive childhood that turns them into a sociopath. That's still very true and accurate.

You say you are being mean to me right now and they say “oh yes I feel like that, denying their actions.

I pound the net with words so excuse any rookie spell errors, why do i do it? Freedom of speech, it should be no different here to a personal telephone call, that´s where they step ion and see it differently. Me on the other hand see it no different than a normal conversation anywhere, it gets regulated by a certain individual it´s not only an infringement of your God given right to speak your words whenever you like to it´s also made anonymously. It´s the net baby diseases i have tried to call out but humans are slow learners when it comes to moral mixed within new technology, maybe in 500 years or so (world destroyed already). Well hey, a lot of words about what few care about, freedom of speech.