7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone | Malavika Varadan | TEDxBITSPilaniDubai

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“We mustn’t speak to strangers.” Malavika Varadan, challenges this societal norm, by presenting 7 ways to make conversation with anyone.
RJ extraordinaire, Malavika Varadan, creates waves quite literally with her morning show, Breakfast No.1 on City 101.6. An avid fitness enthusiast, positivity ninja and drama queen, she has chiseled a benchmark in the radio industry. At TEDxBITSPilaniDubai she will choose to redefine connections.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@LakshmiDevi-ow5pp
@LakshmiDevi-ow5pp 3 роки тому
A hi from an introvert to all introverts:)
@saurabhrawat3939
@saurabhrawat3939 3 роки тому
Hey dear :)
@sazelfbeifong7639
@sazelfbeifong7639 3 роки тому
Hiiii
@shurbeto8345
@shurbeto8345 3 роки тому
Heyy😛
@erosennin2162
@erosennin2162 3 роки тому
I'm an ambivert. Hi.
@akshaykumawat2910
@akshaykumawat2910 3 роки тому
Hi😄
@farooq5176
@farooq5176 3 роки тому
After watching this I started a conversation with an stranger and he is still taking to me, now I am searching for how to stop the conversation😅😂
@varchasva4829
@varchasva4829 3 роки тому
Btw nice question. The end is always remembered weather its good or bad. Things happned before doesn't matter if you have f ed up in end. Lol
@mdr_vishnu4733
@mdr_vishnu4733 3 роки тому
😂
@TheEnglishOpedia
@TheEnglishOpedia 3 роки тому
😆😂😂😂
@farooq5176
@farooq5176 3 роки тому
@@TheEnglishOpedia funny isn't it...😆😆
@TheEnglishOpedia
@TheEnglishOpedia 3 роки тому
@@farooq5176 yup 🤣😂🤣😂
@zakariaesadiki970
@zakariaesadiki970 11 місяців тому
1. Just do it 2. Skip small talk, ask personal questions 3. There is no room for negativity, instead find the things in common 4. Give a honest unique compliment 5. Ask for a simple opinion 6. Be present, eye-contact 7. Remember their details (Name/place ...)
@ProfOdin
@ProfOdin 11 місяців тому
Appreciate it !
@happy_biird
@happy_biird 8 місяців тому
i was gonna watch the whole video again to note the points. You saved my time. Thanks stranger. BTW where are you from, where do you live?
@nassermj7671
@nassermj7671 8 місяців тому
Shukria Bhai
@Jim-pu7nq
@Jim-pu7nq 8 місяців тому
Thanks a lot 👏
@Rd-88
@Rd-88 3 місяці тому
​@@happy_biird he's probably from earth
@PHNascimentoFS
@PHNascimentoFS 7 місяців тому
“ppl forget what you do, what you say but never forget what you make them feel” that’s a such lesson
@DJK-cq2uy
@DJK-cq2uy 24 дні тому
Wow...never heard hat before😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🤡
@DVelter
@DVelter 15 днів тому
​@@DJK-cq2uy Wow.. you're smarter than evrybody else 😮😮🎉🎉
@DJK-cq2uy
@DJK-cq2uy 13 днів тому
@@DVelter 🤡
@psycho8545
@psycho8545 7 років тому
I''ll save you 15 minutes. This is what contained in this video: 1.Say hello, 2.Ask personal questions, 3.Find commonalities,, 4.Give unique compliments, 5.ask for simple opinions, 6.Pay attention(Be in the moment), 7.Remember names.
@MrJ17J
@MrJ17J 7 років тому
Yup that's an accurate summary.
@-Floydimus
@-Floydimus 7 років тому
psycho Hahah she bored me a lot. This comment saved my 15 minutes. Thank you so much.
@anupamsharmaganesh9344
@anupamsharmaganesh9344 7 років тому
+Kashish Shah ... lolzz that was spot on. ..(y)
@b3at2
@b3at2 7 років тому
psycho thank you... because she was going on and on and on and oooooon.
@rahulr5147
@rahulr5147 7 років тому
Wish I had seen this 14 minutes earlier :/
@CrazyIrishDrunk1
@CrazyIrishDrunk1 7 років тому
I was a very social child, I was pretty popular at school too because I could easily hold a conversation with anyone and got along with everyone. As I got older I sort of lost that social ability. I'm not anti social, I can talk to people. Indeed I find it easier talking to strangers than some family members! But I'm working on getting my old social skills back and thankfully I succeeded. How? The only way I can explain it is: Learn not to care, learn not to be nervous, learn not to be afraid of silences and just let conversations flow naturally. Humans are social creatures, just let it come naturally. You are what you imagine yourself to be, so imagine yourself as social and talkative.
@ahnaftahmid9115
@ahnaftahmid9115 7 років тому
dude u just opened my eyes, the part where you said you are what you imagine to be really hit me
@mksingh3116
@mksingh3116 7 років тому
I have the same story,too!!!! But the difference is that I haven't yet suceeded in getting back that social ability, but ur comment made me feel that I'm not alone, I'm pretty sure, I'll get that back, soon... thnx, man!!
@CrazyIrishDrunk1
@CrazyIrishDrunk1 7 років тому
Yep, you are what you imagine yourself to be. Your mind is very powerful, use it to your advantage! you can be whoever you want to be!
@CrazyIrishDrunk1
@CrazyIrishDrunk1 7 років тому
it will come, don't worry. Its also important not to blame social awkwardness only on yourself, it could be the other person who has the social issue and not you. It takes two to have a conversation. Your certainly not alone, every single person alive has had social awkwardness in their lives, everyone, from celebrities to politicians, everyone!
@bethanydusciuc2148
@bethanydusciuc2148 7 років тому
Same!!!
@abhishekjoshi800
@abhishekjoshi800 3 місяці тому
Who's watching this in 2024
@Yourfavoritecheerleader
@Yourfavoritecheerleader Місяць тому
I am 😊
@Gdsgdgdgdggdg-sm8il
@Gdsgdgdgdggdg-sm8il Місяць тому
Me
@nuwatuhikizekevin7231
@nuwatuhikizekevin7231 Місяць тому
Me
@jayaramkancharla7073
@jayaramkancharla7073 Місяць тому
😂
@meetsachu
@meetsachu Місяць тому
Me, very useful
@veroscript
@veroscript 7 місяців тому
1. Just do it 2. Skip small talk, ask personal questions 3. There is no room for negativity, instead find the things in common 4. Give a honest unique compliment 5. Ask for a simple opinion 6. Be present, eye-contact 7. Remember their details (Name/place etc
@oneandonlysd5061
@oneandonlysd5061 3 місяці тому
how to get someone to like you:
@user-qk4ov3ik6e
@user-qk4ov3ik6e 2 місяці тому
​@@oneandonlysd5061 be real and always have respect for the one you like whenever you have conversations with them
@shutdahellup69420
@shutdahellup69420 17 днів тому
"remember their details" My ADHD: "Allow me to introduce myself".
@akashkvijay
@akashkvijay 7 років тому
She seems sincerely passionate about being there on the stage. She's not there just for the money. she wants to genuinely inspire people and share her ideas to others. That is beautiful. I really respect that. I'am now offically a fan of her.
@niharchandaliya1555
@niharchandaliya1555 7 років тому
👍
@nigefal
@nigefal 7 років тому
Admit it you just fancy her! :)
@akashkvijay
@akashkvijay 7 років тому
nigefal Yea well, that too.
@lokeshsurage
@lokeshsurage 7 років тому
i agree
@lokeshsurage
@lokeshsurage 7 років тому
i agree
@humudu
@humudu 7 років тому
I took the advice and said HI to someone with a huge smile on my face. She got a shock because i said it so loud, then just looked without responding, so i kept smiling as hard as i could and kept staring at her. She said she would call the police
@yuki0989
@yuki0989 7 років тому
humudu maybe the way you talked with her scared her , because nowadays many terrible things happen and most women don't feel safe
@kkkkkkkkkk955
@kkkkkkkkkk955 7 років тому
wait... maybe because you didn't smile with the forehead?
@Noone402
@Noone402 7 років тому
now i'm laughing and sad too
@alinan538
@alinan538 7 років тому
kkkkkkkkkk955
@WandersNotLost
@WandersNotLost 7 років тому
😂
@anandprakash4740
@anandprakash4740 Рік тому
That was so good and motivational when se said "what starts with Hello and ends up with marriage proposal."😂☺
@richardsucgang4712
@richardsucgang4712 Рік тому
Exactly haha
@steveunderhill5935
@steveunderhill5935 20 днів тому
It’s a warning
@livaiwebert9823
@livaiwebert9823 Рік тому
it's not complicate to talk with stranger it's complicate to talk AGAIN with the same stranger🤣
@jayasuryaraj
@jayasuryaraj Рік тому
👍
@CassandraLangley
@CassandraLangley Місяць тому
I say the opposite. It's harder to talk to a stranger at first rather than talking to the same stranger again.
@youknowwho7253
@youknowwho7253 3 роки тому
Is it weird that I'm more comfortable with talking to strangers than the people I know? I just feel their judgment won't affect me at all and therefore I can be myself around them since there is a very low probability of us meeting again.
@hiidupiidu3292
@hiidupiidu3292 3 роки тому
meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@kanushi1365
@kanushi1365 3 роки тому
OMG I feel the same exact way. Glad to know that I am not alone.
@innersoul9464
@innersoul9464 3 роки тому
I just say things that I have never say to my friends to someone I met on Internet
@eugeneeugene3704
@eugeneeugene3704 3 роки тому
Wow I want to develop this skill😂
@wannabyul2109
@wannabyul2109 3 роки тому
I can approach strangers and talk to them but I don't know how to approach with acquaintances whom i rarely talk to/didn't have the chance to talk personally, it becomes really awkward
@sakshi9w
@sakshi9w 3 роки тому
Her - Eye contact is where all the magic happens. Me - eyes contact is where all the awkwardness starts 😂
@indigobrain7450
@indigobrain7450 3 роки тому
True 😂😂
@abhinaysingh7205
@abhinaysingh7205 3 роки тому
Very true
@changeeyecolor3891
@changeeyecolor3891 3 роки тому
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@aggie47
@aggie47 3 роки тому
😂😂😂😂
@zacharykraus6161
@zacharykraus6161 3 роки тому
Honestly it’s more awkward when you don’t look someone I’m the eye when you talk to them
@emerald9054
@emerald9054 Рік тому
What I love about this is that she didn't target an audience with the mindset that they were insufficient in some way to explain their difficulties communicating with strangers. She just focused on teaching how to converse from the perspective of making it better no matter what your background. That demonstrates a high level of emotional intelligence.
@youtube.com_diashaaz24
@youtube.com_diashaaz24 18 днів тому
Who is watching this in 2024😊
@zahidhossain3550
@zahidhossain3550 День тому
Me ❤
@wandering_sanju
@wandering_sanju День тому
your brother ❤❤ it's me
@ChristopherEdet-hq4dp
@ChristopherEdet-hq4dp 22 години тому
Watching now is lovely❤
@rajivnayan4210
@rajivnayan4210 2 години тому
I am watching 2 may
@godfreeallan5022
@godfreeallan5022 51 хвилина тому
Allan from srilanka 2024 may 2nd
@chaliejoy224
@chaliejoy224 7 років тому
Plot twist she walks off stage and never talks to anyone that whole day
@jayarfa8453
@jayarfa8453 7 років тому
Hahaha
@deepb5204
@deepb5204 7 років тому
lol funny
@nKLsblahvlahblah
@nKLsblahvlahblah 7 років тому
😂😂😂
@DaShizization
@DaShizization 7 років тому
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@1kinyanjui
@1kinyanjui 7 років тому
Cha Robertson 😂😂😂
@Soulful_songbird
@Soulful_songbird 10 місяців тому
Things I learnt from this:- 1. Just ask questions what you want. What's the worst thing can happen? 2. Skip small talk and ask personal questions (you will be surprised how much people are willing to share if you ask them) 3. Find the "me too"s 4. Give a compliment (mostly on what thinks they give efforts in for example makeup) 5. Listen to their answers and add your opinion or thoughts about it. 6. Make eye contact (see one eye at a time and move the the other afterwards) 7. After they say their name say their name (for example - hi paul!)
@codeinout9438
@codeinout9438 10 місяців тому
What is Mee too's
@Soulful_songbird
@Soulful_songbird 10 місяців тому
@@codeinout9438 That means when someone says something try to relate to it. For example your friend said I hate coffee and you too actually hate it so you say me too! This can help you be likable too as well as it can start another conversation too like your likes, dislikes, etc
@jamiluddinmiju
@jamiluddinmiju 2 місяці тому
That line "conversation can make war, conversation can make peace" respect mam❤❤🇧🇩
@janna1739
@janna1739 5 років тому
"Make the eye contact" Introvert have left the chat
@DiamanteDea
@DiamanteDea 5 років тому
i love to make eye contact :)
@deepaklokhande2536
@deepaklokhande2536 5 років тому
Me too 😓
@founderofself
@founderofself 5 років тому
Haha damn
@sauravmobarsha5760
@sauravmobarsha5760 4 роки тому
Otaku spotted.. Shelter
@KASKhan_
@KASKhan_ 4 роки тому
*Sociopaths have left chat*
@aninditabhunia395
@aninditabhunia395 2 роки тому
I love how she speaks so smooth without any hesitation.Speaking is a SKILL.
@69aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
@69aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2 роки тому
its a speech but yea shes good
@yashbhatiya9923
@yashbhatiya9923 Рік тому
How to speak fluently English language
@avatr7109
@avatr7109 Рік тому
LOL you don't know RADIO CITY 101? she is the radio host she obviuosly sppeaks while in sleep too
@Sudopia8372
@Sudopia8372 Рік тому
bas kar my girl
@Sleviron
@Sleviron Рік тому
speaking is a SKILL DURR
@harshitjhalani765
@harshitjhalani765 10 місяців тому
I watched this video 2 years ago as an introvert to know how to initiate convos and it was very impactful, now here I am in present watching it again as an extrovert, just to understand what an extrovert is doing wrong while talking and I must say this video can be watched from both perspectives. 😊
@lailaalfaddil7389
@lailaalfaddil7389 11 місяців тому
@ursassybhi
@ursassybhi Рік тому
"A conversation is like reading a book, you can turn to any page you want. You can flip to you favorite chapter, you can read as long as you want and you can read what you want. And every person trust me is a really good book." Wow
@calmpsur402
@calmpsur402 Рік тому
I like this metaphor
@prathameshjadhav4032
@prathameshjadhav4032 Рік тому
man
@KlauduniaL07
@KlauduniaL07 Рік тому
not true. I cannot flip to my favourite chapter and not olways I can read as long as I want
@basseygodwin7384
@basseygodwin7384 9 місяців тому
Lol @@KlauduniaL07
@kyriekwsta770
@kyriekwsta770 8 місяців тому
the taxi conversation is exactly what i try to avoid. sounds horrific
@adititakale5790
@adititakale5790 4 роки тому
I've heard somewhere, "A stranger is a friend you haven't met yet."
@ipapergrey6654
@ipapergrey6654 3 роки тому
Or... Your... Next victim....
@sithumiperera5212
@sithumiperera5212 3 роки тому
@@ipapergrey6654 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈
@c.mirashi
@c.mirashi 3 роки тому
if he/she's a friend so how he/she is a stranger??
@adititakale5790
@adititakale5790 3 роки тому
@@ipapergrey6654 😂😂
@adititakale5790
@adititakale5790 3 роки тому
@Joey M true😂👀
@cagla3360
@cagla3360 2 місяці тому
fun fact: I was in the audience of this ted talk. when she told us to stick our head and tell the person next to us "hi!",there was a man sitting right next to me. we had an awkward laugh and said our hellos and learned each other's names. after 3 years of dating, we are now married for 4 years :) so yeah, go ahead and meet strangers.
@abdulazizmuradi9390
@abdulazizmuradi9390 11 місяців тому
it's my 6th YEAR watching this multiple times every year, and I AM in love with how she explains it with so much enthusiasm
@beyourself7085
@beyourself7085 11 місяців тому
what to do when someone have stammer prob... I want to get out of it.... I want to be a artist, public speaker, RJ type. I've all qualities to do everything... but stammer will ruin my life n carrer...
@princess.s.6018
@princess.s.6018 11 місяців тому
​​​@@beyourself7085simple! Just be confident and BE YOURSELF
@tanmaydeshpande5748
@tanmaydeshpande5748 4 роки тому
Her : hey werent we in the same school? Me : yeah.. 5 mins of awkward silence Me: so what school were you in?
@xhosawithinga
@xhosawithinga 4 роки тому
Hahaha. I'm lauhging out loud and I'm in the Library. Eish.
@nikhat.parveen001
@nikhat.parveen001 4 роки тому
😂😂omg that really made me laugh
@palenyang1950
@palenyang1950 4 роки тому
so funny
@Vaxom
@Vaxom 4 роки тому
this comment did sweeten up my day, thank you.. so good
@Sujitha30
@Sujitha30 4 роки тому
@@xhosawithinga 😂😂😂🤦‍♀🤣🤣🤣
@swinxfee
@swinxfee 7 років тому
You know you're confident when no one laughs at your joke so you do it yourself 😂
@Iamkay01
@Iamkay01 6 років тому
Simply Sookie 😂😂
@savalaslindsey274
@savalaslindsey274 6 років тому
Simply Sookie Haha
@parulkhanduja1789
@parulkhanduja1789 6 років тому
Simply Sooki
@eileenbyrne1315
@eileenbyrne1315 6 років тому
Simply Sookie my little pony
@madhukarparit9285
@madhukarparit9285 6 років тому
Simply Sookie Bhimrao
@AmanSharma-sn8js
@AmanSharma-sn8js 4 місяці тому
I love how when she smiles - it is preceded with her eyes starting to sparkle then followed with a HUGE warm smile.
@mikevieira6041
@mikevieira6041 3 роки тому
She is proof of what she preaches. When she first comes on stage, I thought her pretty but her bubbly personality came out, and the longer she spoke the more attractive she becomes. Not surprised at the taxi driver"s proposal.
@AA-ob4yg
@AA-ob4yg 2 роки тому
Man you are just nailed it. Had the same note.
@iamo
@iamo 2 роки тому
was going to write the exact same comment
@prokitchendotng4646
@prokitchendotng4646 2 роки тому
my point exactly
@xidrk9826
@xidrk9826 2 роки тому
Bubbly personality? I would love to see how she respond to someone who she runs into who is really boring and always complains and tells the same story over and over again. I would love to know how she would handle that business. The more attractive and wealthy you become, the harder it gets to have a deep conversation with everybody.
@belindajardim3145
@belindajardim3145 2 роки тому
Absolutely right, th more she engages with u th more u like her 🥰
@joshschilling6457
@joshschilling6457 3 роки тому
1. First word is a flood gate (3:33) 2. Skip the small talk (5:20) 3. Find the Me-Too (7:33) 4. Pay a unique compliment (8:45) 5. Ask for an opinion (10:19) 6. Be Present (11:41) 7. Names, Places, Animals, Things (12:40) Some Important points: just start the conversation, dive right in, pay attention, make them feel valued, and find commonality and discussion topics by asking about opinions and me-too's.
@UpstreamNL
@UpstreamNL 2 роки тому
Doing gods work!
@dianasamayoa3020
@dianasamayoa3020 2 роки тому
Thank you!
@BleachHorizons
@BleachHorizons 2 роки тому
Thank you!
@chandanprajapati482
@chandanprajapati482 2 роки тому
Your effort it's helped us to understand the content more clearly thanks 🙏
@PatrickOMalley-617-patrick
@PatrickOMalley-617-patrick 2 роки тому
Awesome. Shame they don't put this on every UKposts list. Thanks for doing the work.
@nguynnguynee
@nguynnguynee Рік тому
Within 15 minutes she solved all the problems I was having in communication, which I spent time watching many youtube videos to be able to improve but couldn't until after watching this video I realized out many things. Thanks you so much!!!
@arshitsharma3193
@arshitsharma3193 6 місяців тому
This video >>>>>>>>>>> my whole one month learning of soft skills classes
@aliunal1732
@aliunal1732 3 роки тому
Her: Ask personal questions! Me: So... what is your bank card number?
@anonymous.990
@anonymous.990 3 роки тому
🤣🤣
@kelvinechweya7865
@kelvinechweya7865 3 роки тому
😂😂😂
@popurichandrasekharrao5442
@popurichandrasekharrao5442 3 роки тому
😂😂😂
@nihalg23
@nihalg23 3 роки тому
Let me know when you ask them.....after then i will ask their atm pin🤣🤣
@EpicRobloxTomboy
@EpicRobloxTomboy 3 роки тому
Me: "abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz. Annnd, what's your social security number?"
@moa3810
@moa3810 2 роки тому
"Every single person in your life was once a stranger to you" - Including your parents and siblings!
@shikang6525
@shikang6525 2 роки тому
确实
@loturzelrestaurant
@loturzelrestaurant 2 роки тому
@@shikang6525 Do you know Hbomberguy, i wonder?
@belindajardim3145
@belindajardim3145 2 роки тому
My parents r now deceased and my 3 siblings r now my enemies
@simon_777
@simon_777 2 роки тому
@@belindajardim3145 first of all I seriously hope you're not serious, also I have to ask are you Portuguese? Cause your name looks very Portuguese to me.
@suchipamarthi2940
@suchipamarthi2940 2 роки тому
Exactly
@suruchis.5351
@suruchis.5351 Рік тому
Undoubtedly, conversation is a skill through which we can achieve a lot of things and also sometimes it causes an adverse situation. How beautifully she told us about the impacts of conversation.
@hetvipatel2345
@hetvipatel2345 Місяць тому
I really liked this ted talk. Her speech , her body language , the way she was smiling , the way she was doing hand gestures and her simplicity in explaining the whole topic and little humor in between. One of the best Ted talks. ❤
@Charloteblahblah
@Charloteblahblah 7 років тому
Everyone in the comments needs to stop being so harsh and kinda racist, I'm from rural England and I can understand what she is saying. She clearly speaks English fluently and is speaking very clearly, she just has a lovely Indian accent to top it off. So shhh. Loved this TED talk.. ❤
@Luna_Anonymous
@Luna_Anonymous 7 років тому
Thats no indian accent you should listen what they actually sound like, this is a normal and 100 times better accent plus nobody that i have seen is being racist infact everyone is saying she is soo hot, she is sexy, she looks cute etc etc.
@kamalkumarmukiri4267
@kamalkumarmukiri4267 7 років тому
you are right...
@Gutenberg3
@Gutenberg3 7 років тому
Lovely is the least. I fell in love with her voice and accent.
@sunflowrsunshine
@sunflowrsunshine 7 років тому
truth
@parthsanil7477
@parthsanil7477 7 років тому
+Anonymous User Lol you sound ignorant ! I am indian and that is an indian accent
@theresamorley14
@theresamorley14 3 роки тому
Her enthusiasm about every stranger just being a wealth of knowledge and new experience has lessened my social anxiety a lot. Thank you.
@-blackcherry3918
@-blackcherry3918 2 роки тому
True
@preetpatel2186
@preetpatel2186 2 роки тому
u are shutup
@MAX-de8fe
@MAX-de8fe 2 роки тому
@@preetpatel2186 woah
@connorfrankston5548
@connorfrankston5548 2 роки тому
Well, that is in fact true, when you happen to be a highly attractive woman.
@carbonxkiwi
@carbonxkiwi 2 роки тому
@@connorfrankston5548 that's what i was thinking: how these techniques would go for other demographics...
@H-productions
@H-productions Рік тому
It's been 18yrs since I am here on earth ......through all these years what I have learnt is that quality matters more than quantity ......a one true friend is greater than a trillion frnds for name sake .......so focus on being truthful to your existing ones rather than making new ones
@deadlydairy7634
@deadlydairy7634 Рік тому
When you have 0 existing ones 😔
@AnilAnvesh
@AnilAnvesh Рік тому
After watching this talk, I have looked at myself and discovered something about myself. I am good at making conversations with strangers. But, when it comes to seeking help or asking for an opportunity, I act like mute. All of sudden, my super introverted nature kicks in. I start thinking, how they will react! I guess, now I know how to overcome that. Thanks Malavika ❤
@rohankohli
@rohankohli Рік тому
same problem is with me
@kutlwanomighty
@kutlwanomighty 6 місяців тому
that too easily
@conradmashazhike6670
@conradmashazhike6670 3 роки тому
her public speaking abilities are amazing. its as if she is talking to you individually in a conversation
@pixitone4140
@pixitone4140 2 роки тому
Right
@sekarmukilan4627
@sekarmukilan4627 2 роки тому
yes
@ju999X
@ju999X 2 роки тому
Fr
@amigalemming
@amigalemming 2 роки тому
That's exactly what the TEDx organizers teach you, if you want to give a talk.
@abubakras-siddiq1694
@abubakras-siddiq1694 2 роки тому
@@amigalemming their thoughts are amazing! they are really helping us.
@the-terminator5682
@the-terminator5682 7 років тому
The last time I started a conversation I said, "where the Pokemon at tho?"
@yabba133
@yabba133 7 років тому
"fam theres a rapidash like a block north of here"
@SexualizingTheHolocaust
@SexualizingTheHolocaust 7 років тому
"You catching that Pikachu?" and then " Damn it! He left me just like my father!"
@HannanAlisyntacticspi
@HannanAlisyntacticspi 7 років тому
you just made a LINK
@JunkiesTube
@JunkiesTube 7 років тому
We all laughing
@Lalitsingh816
@Lalitsingh816 7 років тому
This makes much sense than her speech
@saeedcrt9444
@saeedcrt9444 5 місяців тому
Conversation can make war ,conversation can make peace “ This line are just wow amazing
@DJK-cq2uy
@DJK-cq2uy 24 дні тому
Wow...never heard that before 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂at 😂😂😂😂
@b-6870
@b-6870 Рік тому
9:31 I came to this video after watching a shorts consisting of this part. And must say, YOU REALLY DID A GREAT JOB BRINGING THIS UP cuz believe me, today, almost everyone gives compliments without even meaning them. We must start to admire people for their real beauties (not just the external beauty but the real beauties too) with complete honesty. Thanks for bringing this up. Really appreciated.
@ILoveSoImAlive
@ILoveSoImAlive 9 місяців тому
to be able to admire something you have to be able to see it first. to be able to see it, you have to know it. to know it, you have to invest time in it. to invest time in it, you have to know its value for your surroundings. if your surroundings value other things, you will not know it, you will not see it, you will not be able to admire it. thats what the culture is for. thats what goes lost today, especially in western society, where only competition is (over)valued. but this overvalue of competition from surroundings is indoctrination, for that people do not work together because that would make them solve their problems in small circle, and they wouldnt need to buy solutions from someone less known to them. that would be bad for busines. so overrating of competition is actually overrating of money and money system. we are ready to suffer just to stick to this system, where the money system should not be ideologically thing for the sake of itself, but should service people more than it burdens them. competition is a good thing, but like everything else, its best if it has own place and time and doesnt occupy place and time of things, which would fit there better. it is really unlikely, that this problem will be solved anytime soon. so we will have to live with the problem, that there is not so much of real admiration seen, felt, lived. and for that time most people will admire more things, you dont want them to admire, like how you can allow yourself to talk from above to a lot of people, because of your position, or admire your money, you got from other people in this sometimes sensless competition.
@ReelFusionbySupun
@ReelFusionbySupun 3 роки тому
1. The first-word flood gates 2. Skip the small talk 3. Find me toos 4. Pay a unique compliment 5. Ask for an opinion 6. Be present 7. Name, Place, Animal, Thing
@Saveg36
@Saveg36 3 роки тому
not very helpful without context
@gabardjean-paul3779
@gabardjean-paul3779 3 роки тому
Thank you Bro. !
@bharatjl
@bharatjl 3 роки тому
Thanks
@nikhilboddu5472
@nikhilboddu5472 3 роки тому
I was searching for it..thanks bro
@muhammedhosnyessa8002
@muhammedhosnyessa8002 3 роки тому
Thnx
@jeremytan1051
@jeremytan1051 8 років тому
I recommend watching through the whole thing, but. 1. First word floodgates (3:33) "Once you've said the first word, everything just flows." 2. Skip the small talk. (5:20) Ask personal questions. Be bold, and you might be surprised how much someone might share. Asking about family might help elicit response. The lady gives a neat tip, and a neat story at (6:27) 3. Me - too's (7:34) Don't start with negatives. Start the conversation on the same side. 4. Pay a unique compliment. (8:45) Someone may forget what you say or how you look, but they would never forget how you made them feel. There are words and compliments that people are immune to. Avoid them and pay a genuine, unique compliment. 5. Ask for an opinion. (10:19) Ask generic questions like "what's your last movie and how did you find it?" instead of "what do you think about how this affects the oil prices?" That is the difference between generic conversations and exam questions. And when someone gives you an opinion, really listen; listen to listen, don't listen to reply. 6. Be present. (11:40) Don't look at your phone etc. Make eye contact. You literally feel the conversation. 7. Name, place, animal, thing (12:42) Remember their name. It's really important. Say it back to them. Places they want to go to. Their pets names, their children's names.
@Mein_KampfyChair
@Mein_KampfyChair 8 років тому
Thank you for this-- I needed a summary
@SamuelDarmento
@SamuelDarmento 8 років тому
Thank you for the summary!
@VitaLaDolcee
@VitaLaDolcee 7 років тому
Thanks for the summary! Now I don't really have to watch the video haha
@ericfeng4725
@ericfeng4725 7 років тому
i think this very important
@Kiritappa
@Kiritappa 7 років тому
You're the hero that UKposts needs.
@onemillionpercent
@onemillionpercent Рік тому
she’s absolutely captivating. what a phenomenal TED talk given by a clearly beautiful and kind woman, oozing with charisma from her accent to her hefty and valuable material. genius!
@newarbadal
@newarbadal Місяць тому
Leaving this comment so that someone will remind me to watch this masterpiece again in future
@SumitMirpuri
@SumitMirpuri 5 років тому
You live on earth too?! We have so much in common.
@kirannakarmi1149
@kirannakarmi1149 4 роки тому
I'm from the same galaxy dude!
@ronitology7
@ronitology7 4 роки тому
Me too from same earth👍😀
@luisfelipecorrea4219
@luisfelipecorrea4219 4 роки тому
And that's how I met your mother kids.. 🤣🤣😂
@mma8113
@mma8113 4 роки тому
😂😂
@angelinajack
@angelinajack 4 роки тому
sumit mirpuri 💀💀💀
@elfyelfy5264
@elfyelfy5264 3 роки тому
Me trying to make a conversation : Me: hi Her:hi Me: how are you Her: good and u Me: good .30 second silence.. -how are you now Edit: the fact that I’ve certainly communicated with 1,100 people because I cannot communicate with people🤝
@peepee.poopoo
@peepee.poopoo 3 роки тому
lol
@prajwalkhokale6742
@prajwalkhokale6742 3 роки тому
lol
@sudarshanjoshi8127
@sudarshanjoshi8127 3 роки тому
😂😂😂
@-Naveenchalla
@-Naveenchalla 3 роки тому
😂😂
@sholagebeya2863
@sholagebeya2863 3 роки тому
I love you
@watermelondoggo861
@watermelondoggo861 Рік тому
I tried making a new friend yesterday, and everything was good, except I SUCKED at talking with them. Half of the time we just stood awkwardly and most of our conversations were a trainwreck. Thanks for this video!
@VictorKirungi-vj7ee
@VictorKirungi-vj7ee 3 місяці тому
I love the fact that you said that one loses nothing to start a conversation since they haven't been talking to you
@AldosWorldTV
@AldosWorldTV 3 роки тому
Damn tough crowd no one laughed when she said world wide web lololololz
@esotericbliss5887
@esotericbliss5887 3 роки тому
I know right! I was cracking up!
@drewjames1770
@drewjames1770 3 роки тому
I instantly went to comments when she said it 😂
@4pedos
@4pedos 3 роки тому
that is because they don´t know what the world wide web is
@harishp.n5887
@harishp.n5887 3 роки тому
plot twist their aint no crowd
@aryashetty3924
@aryashetty3924 3 роки тому
Probably crowd mic is not there
@secxybear6629
@secxybear6629 7 років тому
My problem with conversations is that I just don't care about other people. I don't ask personal questions because I generally don't care what the answer is. It feels dishonest to put it on.
@cheesecakelasagna
@cheesecakelasagna 7 років тому
SecxyBear I know right! Doing small talks to avoid awkward silences just isn't for me.
@emiliosgregoriou8943
@emiliosgregoriou8943 7 років тому
if you don't care about other people why talk to them in the first place? In fact, why are you even watching the video
@secxybear6629
@secxybear6629 7 років тому
I like talking to others and I care about people. I just don't give a shit about small talk or irrelevant personal things.
@shabaotb
@shabaotb 7 років тому
i feel bad for your future partner
@MrMark940
@MrMark940 7 років тому
introvert ha
@zaidzaeem5398
@zaidzaeem5398 6 місяців тому
I chose to become a beautiful book for someone i was not reachable for... This is how I started. And I'm more than happy too... it's really magical.
@icebear5885
@icebear5885 Рік тому
All the Introverds are taking notes rn.😅
@one9853
@one9853 Рік тому
“Conversation can make war ,conversation can make peace “ This line ♥️♥️
@PoisonelleMisty4311
@PoisonelleMisty4311 5 місяців тому
Her tips on finding common ground and giving real compliments totally make sense. It's a cool reminder to be positive and curious in every convo.
@danish_thelearner
@danish_thelearner 2 місяці тому
So,the conclusion is we should quite 😜
@MXOtaku
@MXOtaku 7 років тому
I'm not too enthusiastic about talking to people, but it's a necessity.
@HelloKittyFreak96
@HelloKittyFreak96 7 років тому
Carlos Jimenez exactly how I feel
@DJ-qs3pl
@DJ-qs3pl 7 років тому
Carlos Jimenez everyone here doesn't want to talk to people but they feel it is needed
@TAJMath04
@TAJMath04 7 років тому
Dan Jackson
@andynonymous6769
@andynonymous6769 Рік тому
Humans are naturally social: we've spent thousands and thousands of years becoming good at making connections. If you, like me, are nervous to talk to someone, and you're nervous that you're not going to do it "right" remember, we evolved just for this! It's in our bones. Overthinking and being tense is what makes it so hard, under that, it's instinctual
@mirranjannegi4467
@mirranjannegi4467 11 місяців тому
Absolutely brilliant thought provoking oration by Malavika. I was visualizing and wondering in context to so many celebrities, Industrialists and people of little fame who never open their mouth in front of strangers. Great insight
@OfficialBasedologyYT
@OfficialBasedologyYT 5 років тому
1. Say hi 2. Ask personal questions 3. Find me too’s 4. Pay a genuine compliment 5. Get an opinion 6. Be present 7. Name place animal thing
@sayidrayhan5442
@sayidrayhan5442 3 роки тому
Thank you sir, you just save my (un)valuable time
@SV42165
@SV42165 3 роки тому
@@sayidrayhan5442 😔
@yogeshreddy6002
@yogeshreddy6002 3 роки тому
Thank you for summarizing 👍
@user-ey1ms7dj8i
@user-ey1ms7dj8i 3 роки тому
Thanks man
@britlmao
@britlmao 2 роки тому
"and every day we meet so many strangers" I'm in my room all-day
@gurupriya8726
@gurupriya8726 2 роки тому
Hey! You could meet a stranger online.. Just like now 🙂
@dt_99
@dt_99 2 роки тому
@@gurupriya8726 yes. Internet has made it a cakewalk nowadays. Hi Guru Priya!
@gurupriya8726
@gurupriya8726 2 роки тому
@@dt_99 Hello friend!! How are you doing?
@dt_99
@dt_99 2 роки тому
@@gurupriya8726 I am doing good. How are you?
@gurupriya8726
@gurupriya8726 2 роки тому
@@dt_99 just not as good as i would wish for lol. By the way, idk if this would be too much information, but here you go..i have a similar surname as yours, Gurupriya Takkar is my full name. Haha we got a me too topic here( not exactly me too).
@aishwaryasingh5890
@aishwaryasingh5890 11 місяців тому
She successfully convinced me that she is my best friend ✨
@alancantu2557
@alancantu2557 Рік тому
It helps to get along with strangers when you’re as attractive as she is
@azucenacarranza774
@azucenacarranza774 Рік тому
her entire points were designed around conversation- not looks. anyone can be friendly and open, regardless of physical appearance.
@andynonymous6769
@andynonymous6769 Рік тому
That's true but looks aren't words. You might have a bit more resistance than someone hot but in the end your words are what will stick with them
@Honeyydo
@Honeyydo 7 років тому
"A conversation is an adventure." More like an anxiety-riddled obstacle course.. hence why I am here lol.
@matrixdukenukem000
@matrixdukenukem000 7 років тому
My thoughts exactly. Talking to strangers is more like a sweaty, panic rising and possible bad outcome for an introvert specially.
@Jamesucht
@Jamesucht 7 років тому
Small talk is like kryptonite. #IntrovertProblems
@MrMark940
@MrMark940 7 років тому
can I have a convemesation with you?
@WantedMayhem
@WantedMayhem 7 років тому
Sounds very spot on 😂😂🤣
@zackbrown5201
@zackbrown5201 7 років тому
what is she files a rape case for just started talking to her
@ValentineTM07
@ValentineTM07 2 роки тому
Her enthousiasm is contagious: she has made me smile during all the video
@holarobbin
@holarobbin 2 роки тому
x2
@uniqueandspecial
@uniqueandspecial 2 роки тому
"Me too" so let's start a conversation 🙂😂
@AA-ob4yg
@AA-ob4yg 2 роки тому
Me2
@ValentineTM07
@ValentineTM07 2 роки тому
@@uniqueandspecial Okay, what do you want to talk about?
@belindajardim3145
@belindajardim3145 2 роки тому
Yes indeed 😍a beautiful person in and out
@sonsanddaughtersofgod1693
@sonsanddaughtersofgod1693 Рік тому
I love how she moves with a specific pattern according to her audio strength and all her hand gesture , all in all beautiful
@n.m6249
@n.m6249 Рік тому
I love her, she's like me. Total extrovert. Her character shines through her. You don't have to be the most good looking person but people can just be in love with your personality.
@koushikmaji7998
@koushikmaji7998 4 роки тому
"Every person in your life was once a stranger" Family has left the chat
@gavtipor7394
@gavtipor7394 3 роки тому
When u were born,even dey wer a stranger 🤔😂
@j.ou.d.f
@j.ou.d.f 3 роки тому
@@gavtipor7394 nah not your mother cause you stayed in her womb for nearly a year so it would be pretty weird to call her a stranger
@Noahnoahan
@Noahnoahan 3 роки тому
Except for family ofcourse duhhhh!!!!!
@AshutoshPandey-eq9xq
@AshutoshPandey-eq9xq 3 роки тому
Maybe you're adopted 🙂😂
@mahotsavkumar1278
@mahotsavkumar1278 3 роки тому
@@AshutoshPandey-eq9xq 😂😂😂
@gopukrishna521
@gopukrishna521 3 роки тому
It's surprising how nobody is saying anything about how cute she speaks
@luckyluke4276
@luckyluke4276 3 роки тому
And looks
@OffGridInvestor
@OffGridInvestor 3 роки тому
She's indian barbie. But honestly at least the first few minutes I think she's talking to an empty room.
@lanel6745
@lanel6745 3 роки тому
Exactly! She was enthusiastic and energetic and actually that looks so cute!! Idk why so many people got bored from that
@biggaming9075
@biggaming9075 3 роки тому
cheryl sparkz you lucked up shoot your shot 🏀
@SubrataSarkar-us1cq
@SubrataSarkar-us1cq 3 роки тому
Exactly
@mayankrajsolanki5026
@mayankrajsolanki5026 11 місяців тому
Came form an ig reel...she is totally amazing the way she tells her experience the way she understands the genuine problems of the person. Through this video I learned many things...like how u can put efforts during a conversation where u are lacking of words... mastering conversation is a great skill
@TheMajor8
@TheMajor8 11 місяців тому
Came from the same reel ✌️
@quirtt
@quirtt Рік тому
The best Ted talk I have ever seen
@factsedits-m9sz
@factsedits-m9sz Місяць тому
Yeah you're right
@harrydaplatypus361
@harrydaplatypus361 3 роки тому
How to establish connections with people through conversation (not necessarily just with strangers): 1. Dare to begin, dare to say the first words 2. Skip small talks, focus on what's really interesting 3. Draw on the common ground 4. Make genuine unique compliments 5. Get people to share what they think about something, listen to listen 6. Don't multitask, be there, be in the conversation 7. Remember what you two talked about **1st big takeaway: "people can forget what you say, what you do, but they will never forget how you make them feel" **2nd big takeaway: look at them in the eye **3rd big takeaway: every person is a really good book, you just have to figure out which to read next instead of only skimming the titles
@mytho_raj
@mytho_raj 3 роки тому
Thanks ❤️
@prashanthgojja
@prashanthgojja 3 роки тому
Thanks man
@sunilalimbu1594
@sunilalimbu1594 3 роки тому
Just the comment I was looking for
@namdevgudmewad6937
@namdevgudmewad6937 3 роки тому
@@sunilalimbu1594 me too
@manumanmaneesh3390
@manumanmaneesh3390 3 роки тому
Tq
@andreinasound
@andreinasound 8 років тому
This woman is just beautiful. Her inner beauty is reflected in her face and smile. I Loved every single tip! Thank you Malavika Varadan for open our eyes.
@geethakrishnag8325
@geethakrishnag8325 7 років тому
ohh :o
@Jagdeepsingh-ew8pk
@Jagdeepsingh-ew8pk 7 років тому
welcome to india
@Faiselmoha
@Faiselmoha 7 років тому
I agree, but u are more beautiful, i guess :)
@Jagdeepsingh-ew8pk
@Jagdeepsingh-ew8pk 7 років тому
Zulqarnain sorry? How could you say that or predict that?😉
@VengeanceBG
@VengeanceBG 7 років тому
You are not fascinated from her inner beauty - she did her hair, she doesn't have the indian nose, you probably liked her partial awkwardnes and so on.. What I'm trying to say is that if you are not aware of how judgemental you are naturaly, then you need to investigate the subject.
@zerosum1290
@zerosum1290 5 днів тому
it feels like another beautiful, confident, extrovert telling people 'just be confident'.
@kiwe2348
@kiwe2348 5 місяців тому
Wonderful tips, thanks a ton. And I will definitely use them, it is much appreciated from an introvert person like me. Thanks!! 1. The first word flood gates 2. Skip the small talk 3. Find the me too 4. Pay an unique compliment 5. Ask for an opinion 6. Be present 7. Name, place animal thing
@halflife8846
@halflife8846 7 років тому
i can normally start a good conversation. but i have no idea how to continue it for a long time i mean i cant build a relation
@HelloKittyFreak96
@HelloKittyFreak96 7 років тому
half life sameeee I hate it honestly
@masteryoda8536
@masteryoda8536 7 років тому
exactly man , me too :/
@lilman4350
@lilman4350 7 років тому
STOP the porn nd learn to be in the moment...!
@HelloKittyFreak96
@HelloKittyFreak96 7 років тому
lilman4350 lmao wtf!
@Spazlites
@Spazlites 7 років тому
lilman4350 please tell me you're joking? 😂
@laflamezz1907
@laflamezz1907 7 років тому
those "me-too's" are my life savers in conversations :D
@shyamshivakumar1940
@shyamshivakumar1940 7 років тому
seriously :D
@Az21-
@Az21- 7 років тому
Or just shaking your head saying "yeahh"
@martyfunkhauser4663
@martyfunkhauser4663 7 років тому
Frédéric Chopin love your music
@diaspiano
@diaspiano 7 років тому
+Mai Pen Rai me too :P
@josin007
@josin007 6 років тому
I'm already dead
@socorromedrano7399
@socorromedrano7399 Рік тому
My grandson was capable to talk to a stone and engage it, but at 8 his mother married a man whom with a look could disapprove his conversations. He lost the spark in his eyes forever, he is not an introvert by any standards and a wonderful young man, but I wonder if that change my grandson's fate. I'm crying as I write.
@user-fv1pf4wt8u
@user-fv1pf4wt8u 3 місяці тому
what I learned from her, "don't listen to reply, listen to listen". Thank you Mam!
@Enigmaticharm
@Enigmaticharm 3 роки тому
Me trying to become a better person after quarantine: Edit : ive become a bit better! My skin also cleared so I kinda had a mini glow up
@MahimaAgrawal
@MahimaAgrawal 3 роки тому
Yeah! Same here 😊
@mirhamyusfina.g_jakut4972
@mirhamyusfina.g_jakut4972 3 роки тому
Yoo
@level70k38
@level70k38 3 роки тому
That is a very smart move! Keep it up and you will succeed!👍
@kendrick7379
@kendrick7379 3 роки тому
Same
@shautuvas
@shautuvas 3 роки тому
Gundham's Eyeliner lol same
@abigailoguntuyi4387
@abigailoguntuyi4387 3 роки тому
I really like how she presented her speech and her energy was so contagious. She's also pretty
@alive14ever
@alive14ever 3 роки тому
She's a cool 7
@dbasrus
@dbasrus 3 роки тому
@@alive14ever you're a socially-illiterate 2
@mathewcherian7832
@mathewcherian7832 3 роки тому
I really wish she was my friend. Whatever she taught makes you so loveble as she is
@nimrashahid2569
@nimrashahid2569 3 роки тому
body and face expressions and attitude really enlightens a person
@theartistry6015
@theartistry6015 11 місяців тому
Summery 1- the first word flood gates 2- skip the small talk 3- find the "Me toos" 4-pay s unique complement 5-ask for an opinion 6- Be Present 7-Name ,Place , Animal,Think ( remember small things about that person and repeat to them )
@GyanshalaEntertainmentChannel
@GyanshalaEntertainmentChannel 5 місяців тому
We should appreciate her the way she delivered such a motivational speech so eloquently and flawlessly with great sense of humour..
@btul2569
@btul2569 7 років тому
she's amazing i'd let her marry my son but i dont have one and im not even married
@mrsenpaihd7485
@mrsenpaihd7485 7 років тому
Batool wh- what? wait.. what?? my brain cant process this.
@ampersanda.h
@ampersanda.h 7 років тому
Permission denied :D
@firdacz
@firdacz 7 років тому
I would marry her myself! ...if I wasn't married already :D Such a charming person.
@b3at2
@b3at2 7 років тому
Batool lmaooooooo
@MustafaAl-Gaberey
@MustafaAl-Gaberey 7 років тому
wut?..
@EmperorsNewWardrobe
@EmperorsNewWardrobe 7 років тому
Next up, a multi-billionaire gives us tips on how to buy anyone's land. Anyone else spot a problem here?
@Arpitlpshivhare
@Arpitlpshivhare 7 років тому
haahahaha exactly bro!
@silv3r77
@silv3r77 7 років тому
Donald Trump wouldn't approve lol
@ifeomaisliving
@ifeomaisliving 7 років тому
+Donald Trump lol
@rahuldey1182
@rahuldey1182 7 років тому
+Donald Trump make usa great again 😂😂
@dika_hilman
@dika_hilman 7 років тому
I dont get it lol, sorry but I really need the tips in this video
@surajagrawal7980
@surajagrawal7980 9 місяців тому
Seven ways : 1. First Flood Gate - Start with smile and 'Hello' 2. Skip Small talk - Try to talk about personal things 3.Find me-toos - Common thing 4. A compliment - People always remember how you make them feel 5. Ask for Opinion or Suggestions 6. Attention - Be present in conversation 7. Name, place, animal - Remember Name their place With these ways you can have a beautiful conversation with people sitting beside you, behind you or walking along with you❤
@muteebakhawar3500
@muteebakhawar3500 11 місяців тому
The way she speaks... Just OMG 😱 so, smooth and energetic 🎉. She completely an enchanter ❤😂.
@poojithareddy6197
@poojithareddy6197 3 роки тому
Definitely one day I will share my SUCCESS story on this stage .... Thank you ❣️ soo much for all your support and blessings 🙏....
@miguelborrero6329
@miguelborrero6329 3 роки тому
Q\\
@pranavdwivedi3962
@pranavdwivedi3962 3 роки тому
Sure i wil be there listening to u
@fardosomran3853
@fardosomran3853 3 роки тому
@@pranavdwivedi3962 me too
@Nichirvan
@Nichirvan 3 роки тому
@@pranavdwivedi3962 me to
@andersonjackiesrandallfern8115
@andersonjackiesrandallfern8115 3 роки тому
The Problem Is That The Stranger Is Not Watching This Video!!
@christiandevey3898
@christiandevey3898 5 років тому
when she said "turn to the person next to you and say hi," I turned and said hi to my empty room
@iamarmishra
@iamarmishra 4 роки тому
Died laughing on this.
@adolfoajucum5373
@adolfoajucum5373 4 роки тому
Hahaha
@Kashmirincanada_
@Kashmirincanada_ Рік тому
This is something I have been struggling with since childhood, making conversation. Thank you for all the motivation, tips and tricks.
@rishisaraogi4350
@rishisaraogi4350 4 місяці тому
there s nothing in this video that i didn't know about but to listen from someone else really put things into perspective and that someone who is from communication bizz . So i really confident and motivated to act on this .
@gimmaefive
@gimmaefive 7 років тому
1. Hi 2. Ask personal question 3. Me-toos 4. Compliment 5. Ask for opinion 6. Full heartedly present 7. Remember their details
@SnakeWasRight
@SnakeWasRight 7 років тому
The awkward part is step 2, where she is suggesting you just ask people random questions. Do you like lizards!?!??! What's your favorite color??? Dogs or cats? What's your deepest life goal??! That just seems so childish to me. And awkward that they are just fishing for some kind of connection, it's borderline obsessive. Especially if this conversation is happening at the water cooler or printer. There are special situations where interviewing someone is not awkward, but not every day.
@Consolous
@Consolous 7 років тому
You care too much about "awkward". Every new conversation with a stranger is awkward, embrace it.
@BeAPickle
@BeAPickle 7 років тому
me irl half an hour later - What is your name? I forgot....
@safdarkhan8414
@safdarkhan8414 7 років тому
iwdyv
@fuckception
@fuckception 7 років тому
I can't even have a decent conversation with myself!
@satyamsharma14
@satyamsharma14 7 років тому
HAHAHA!! I feel you, man.
@tobegan3753
@tobegan3753 7 років тому
It's hard, maybe ask better questions or try mediation to quieten your mind
@xskywakerx
@xskywakerx 7 років тому
hahahaha, funny
@fatmahassan800
@fatmahassan800 7 років тому
all of us can have a conversation with ourselves. but when ourselves start the conversation we escape by doing any thing or talking with people , because we did`t have enough bravery to face ourselves!
@imNashh
@imNashh 7 років тому
+liffeyb im liking that .
@awes0men0b0dy9
@awes0men0b0dy9 18 днів тому
As a pretty lonely person who’s wanted to befriend people but can’t get the courage to walk up someone and start a conversation I’ll use the tips and just hearing the examples makes me feel slightly more confident.
@wellbodisalone
@wellbodisalone Рік тому
She speaks so eloquently. You can definitely learn a lot from her.
@joelt7869
@joelt7869 7 років тому
lol this was in my recommended im such a loser
@clementine5704
@clementine5704 7 років тому
lmao same 😂😭
@You2be-Sucks
@You2be-Sucks 7 років тому
😂😂😂
@moooseypop9868
@moooseypop9868 7 років тому
Same. It's a sign. 😂
@christopherortega985
@christopherortega985 7 років тому
Ha me too!
@manojkandiyil5252
@manojkandiyil5252 7 років тому
Me 2.... And UKposts is right again... I'm very shy around people and I usually don't know what I'm doing with my hands or feet if someone talks to me or asks me to do something.. I always concentrate on what others are thinking about me and that's a problem... That's why I don't go outside... But after sometime(long time) I adjust to my surroundings... I wonder how Ronaldo plays football while millions of people are watching him... I wonder how talk show hosts get their confidence to speak and act... I wonder how I could be like them.... I really don't know... I just wish my life turned out to be good... I know there are some struggles and I hope I can face it with the help of my dad and mom... ( she says that all this shyness will go away when I get more mature (I'm 14) ).... Anyways if u read till here then please suggest me ways to deal with the above problem... Byeee
@ghayoorkhan7580
@ghayoorkhan7580 4 роки тому
“don’t multitask” while reading comments.. lol my bad
@abdorezaershadinia
@abdorezaershadinia 3 роки тому
Nice one!
@aarishkhan1083
@aarishkhan1083 3 роки тому
Superhit
@kunalkatariya3046
@kunalkatariya3046 3 роки тому
that's very good
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