8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Him on a Date
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Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?
The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.
I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part-specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.
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@karlbriancruzrce5997 Рік тому
I need a "How To Get A Date" video first.
@Cinerouquine Рік тому
LOL
@clarajimenez3386 Рік тому
Lol, same here!! Great video though, nice tips!
@lukapuka5132 Рік тому
🤣🤣🙏🍾
@77raymann Рік тому
😅✨💖✨
@PortiaShannon03 Рік тому
Just be yaself Karl. Be a nice and polite man. Make sure you truly love yourself, and you’ll easily get a date. It’s alot of single women sin the world and we’re waiting to meet a good man. DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER. 😉 (some have told me i have a mean look, but I never realize it. And I would love for a guy to approach me and have a nice date)
@alisoncurran9631 Рік тому
* goes on a date, forgets immediately * 🤣
@renette0506 3 місяці тому
Yeah, I'd have to write them down 😅😂
@jummaijoseph5069 5 днів тому
Frfr 😂😂😂😂
@Mahaloshell 2 дні тому
That would be me!
@nayr.8319 Рік тому
(0:55) 1. Who is someone you really admire? (1:50) 2. What kind of vacations do you love the most? (2:14) 2.5. If you had to spend a year in a different country, where would you choose? (2:30) 3. What book do you think everybody should read? (3:05) 4. What do you love most about what you do? (4:12) 5. What's something you love doing but don't do enough? (4:40) 6. What do you suck at? (5:52) 7. What is a film you are embarrassed you like so much? (6:26) 7.5 If I looked at your top 25 most played songs, what's the most embarrassing one? (6:47) 8. How would your closest friends describe you?
@rachelhamilton8669 Рік тому
Dang! These are great questions!
@sheilapauley5131 Рік тому
Love this thank you Nay R.
@andreahoyosl Рік тому
Love u
@ImogenShade Рік тому
It’s missing one. 1. Are you a man? There’s way too many chicks with d!cks & guys with tits & if that’s something you’re not into then it needs to be clarified!
@bindicat9070 11 місяців тому
Thank you Dang 🙏
@DancingMermaid88 Рік тому
1. Who is someone you really admire? 2. What kind of vacation do you like? 3. What book do you think everybody should read? 4. What do you love the most about what you do? 5. What is something you love doing but you do not do it enough? 6. What do you suck at? 7. Which movie are you embarrassed of liking? 8. How would your closest friends describe you? You're welcome ✌.
@user-wb6bw1dc9n Рік тому
Thx I was looking for it 😁
@AnthaKharana Рік тому
Thank you for saving me 8:39, + multiple ads!!
@Joannekrill Рік тому
Thank you 😊
@thekale3480 Рік тому
God bless you!
@anneliesewright662 Рік тому
Thank you for listing the questions! Very helpful.
@amandapirot1022 Рік тому
Good open ended questions. Another question (along with "how would your closest friends describe you") is "how would your siblings and parents describe your role in the family"? This question allows you to see who you are in interpersonal dynamic, ie someone is a caretaker, mediator, the spoiled one, the responsible one, etc... Another... "in past relationships, how did you know you were loved?" Speaks to potential love languages and what someone values in a loving relationship. These questions might be for dates 2,3,4,5.
@KatieKirkLoves Рік тому
I love these kind of practical tips I can use on a date, thank you! It’s good to have things in mind especially when you’re nervous. Keep them coming.
@MariyaTerzieva Рік тому
Great questions ideas, Matt! I am all covered for a date now. Loved that you responded to all of the questions! Lots of love to Audrey!
@andreagarciafernandez9222 Рік тому
I love he mention the responsibility to have our answers to the question we ask for the other person. The date also need to know us.
@DomCOuano Рік тому
these are also great for catching up with friends and family you haven't seen in a while or maybe a distant relative you haven't met yet. these are great ways to just connect with people and get to know each other too
@jessicacarron8117 10 місяців тому
I love these. I have often had light hearted “20 questions” on dates. I like books/movies/historical figures + why kinds of back and forth questions. A night will pass so quickly, and many tangent conversations can be had. It’s a great litmus test of compatibility too. ❤️❤️
@TheAttractionTriggers 11 місяців тому
*Going beyond surface-level conversations and asking meaningful questions can help establish a deeper connection.*
@literallyheather Рік тому
I love how much latitude you give to people. It isn't this person is boring or a loser, it is they don't have the same standard of passion that I do. So gracious. Lovely. 💙
@kimmiel6825 Рік тому
I love these questions! They help to dive deeper and find out more about a person by their responses. I’d love to see more of these kinds of videos. Thank you!
@Alex-dk1um Рік тому
“It would have been if it should have been” helped me get back on my feet. Thank you for all your help ♥️☺️
@tarataramyfriend Рік тому
Very smart and fun questions, Matt, thank you! I enjoy your attitude and the style of offering the tips you came up with! Very suitable for my type of mind:)
@clairexxx0405 Рік тому
Absolutely Fantabulous video as always Matthew 😁 My experiences in the world of disability dating are slightly different but great questions 👌
@lisaverbosky7022 Рік тому
Love each question Matt. Thanks for the inspiration.
@stephh_nz Рік тому
This is great - also gave me a bit of anxiety because I realised how much I don’t have in my life outside of running a business and being a full time solo parent. I will use this to work on myself first
@valeriadelfina Рік тому
Finally a video which suggests TRULY revealing questions
@wildberries81 Рік тому
For question number one my answer would be Matthew Hussey! Why? He inspires, guides, opens new worlds of possibilities, his kindness, shares stimulating information, he's charismatic, helps others discover their full potential and introduces his listeners to many other wonderful people. I have a great appreciation for your work obviously. lol! Thank you! 🙏🥰😇
@AysoodaAgh Місяць тому
Agreed.
@jemmawhitehouse1043 Рік тому
Thank you so much. These really are brilliant questions
@carolinan.813 6 місяців тому
These are also great questions to ask a new friend to get to know them, even when there’s no a romantic interest behind it.
@annewrites...8385 10 місяців тому
Thanks, Matthew. You are so sensible and practical xxx love it!
@belindam.8096 Рік тому
These questions were inspiring to me. Thank you!
@carlabarkley3286 Рік тому
I love these questions. I’ve got a team building event coming up that I might use some of them as ice breakers for. The answer for the book is Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin. Talks about how Lincoln built his cabinet with people of differing views and how that gave him diverse information to create policy from.
@jackiehudson5752 Рік тому
Great questions. I would add one more about their vision for their future, once I know them a bit better. I have been burned by discovering later in the relationship that their dreams are so different from mine that it would mean we couldn't be together unless one person gave up their dream.
@alwaysandi5867 7 місяців тому
Love these! Thank you!!
@naturejelisabeth Рік тому
Great questions, thanks for the inspiration! :)
@Kate-kj2ti Рік тому
These are brilliant! 100 more please 😂❤🙏🏼
@kasiakwiatkowska5816 Рік тому
I’m back on the dating scene, being 40, and it scares me to death! Love this vid M and timing was perfect! 💛🤗 thank you for all YOUR work!!
@ramparkash2318 Рік тому
Kasia Kwiatkowska. Ur words are so soothing.
@anyeshreebrightness982 Рік тому
Good luck wishing the best in your journey of finding true love 💯❤️🔥👏
@clairec8496 Рік тому
Hey.. same here! So daunting isn't it?!!
@aminaadam3617 Рік тому
Hey Kasia,your absolutely gorgeous.I'm 38 been divorced 2years.You would be amazed at the level of men that want to date experienced,mature and older women.My one piece of advise is to not limit yourself and just be open with sincere good intentions.Be confident and true to what you truly need.Good luck girl.
@arunakarthigayan2207 Рік тому
Same here Kasia, putting myself out there at 40 too and it’s been a little challenging, but I’m not giving up just yet 😎
@michael_the.girl. Рік тому
This is so fun!! I really enjoyed Matthew's answers, but I also did it journaling with myself, and it was pretty fun to get to know myself a bit too! 😄
@neesemma4082 Рік тому
That's a good idea
@bindicat9070 11 місяців тому
I agree, loved this!
@mundea Рік тому
Happy Sunday Matt, and everyone in the comments!
@RegenaO Місяць тому
Love this video and topic! Thank you 😂🎉
@dianaalonso9696 Рік тому
Love the questions! Perfect to keep the date interesting 😃
@brianaphillips7650 Рік тому
Literally going on a first date today so perfect timing! I’m taking notes over here😅 ✍️
@RestlessHarp Рік тому
These are great questions! I'd like to do these with my family and friends as well!
@life-is-here Рік тому
This video provides great advice for first dates, with eight questions to help get beneath the surface and build a connection. The last question is the most revealing and is sure to make a date more interesting and likable.
@claudiapurcell8687 Рік тому
I can't believe I'm the first person writing a comment on my favorite coach!!!. I am a fresh broken heart...and I feel like I'm melting off pain... Mathew's videos helped me to go through a crucial pain. I do not know...his talk sounds so grounded, healthy... equilibrated. It makes more sense.... without sliding in so much drama...
@nikolaus9487 Рік тому
feelings mutual ahah and im a straight dude who finds Matt super helpful
@paul-dstephenson1703 Рік тому
Definitely using these questions on my next date. Lots of fun!😁
@jamiejohnson7390 Рік тому
These are just good questions for a lot of situations. I could tweak them for friends or networking as well. A great video!!
@mtdebh20 Рік тому
One of the things I live about Matthew is that much of his dating advice is applicable to all kids of situations.
@lizzieschuch2800 4 місяці тому
I do really like the number one question. ty for the tip. your answer is adorable! Also like #6 and #8
@Bisidicem 5 місяців тому
i dont get how hise videos and self marketing doesnt get annoyıing lol. Great salesman and GREAT and accurate advises its insane. man he's good
@aleashasimons 7 місяців тому
These are really great questions! I am taking notes.😊
@heidibraun3847 6 місяців тому
That point about how to respond to someone who doesn’t love what theyre doing is gold. As a driven person who is always eager to learn, it is absolutely terrifying to me to date someone who has no passion for life or learning.
@deymimartinez530 Рік тому
Great video and great questions! Thanks!
@moppypuppy781 Рік тому
After watching this video I feel fully prepared for my first job interview and I will surely get the job.
@mistical1000 Рік тому
Oh my God Mathew!!! Where have you been all my life??? How come I did not see you before! I love your advices, I am just watching some old videos but I love it!
@linavaisnoraite Рік тому
Cool! Deep blue sea is a good movie! Watched it like 10 times at least😄 That was my favorite question! Thanks! I'll definetely use it
@JR-sx3gl Рік тому
When you ask those don't go from one to the other, because it would seem you are drilling this person while you came prepared for the test. Some of the questions are better for introverts and others for extraverts. You can either ask a question that the person would probably already have the answer to or challenge the person out of their comfort zone. It depends if you want to break the ice and maybe make that person comfortable to open up about other things or if you want to challenge the person to give you an answer they'd need to think about a bit. The risk is the person might get anxious about not being perceived as either interesting enough or intelligent enough.
@guillermogonzalez3088 Рік тому
What I really dislike about this questions is how you can easy into them and not make the other person feel lime you are interrogating them. Curiousity about what you are asking is a must but how you transition the conversiation into asking them is a big question mark
@annienewton3999 Рік тому
But not knowing what you want to do can sometimes be because you’ve never had an opportunity to do something that inspires you. Life can confuse you and you lose yourself x
@Charles-qi9hb Рік тому
Oh my goodness! Just looking at your pictures will make anyone who's having a bad day happy. It's obvious you must be very special,what am amazing smile. How are you doing today? Love to hear from you
@17h127 Рік тому
I didn't know what I wanted to do until my late 20s. Some of the most interesting people still haven't figured out what their passion is by their 40s. Most people have jobs, not careers, and find their passions outside of work.
@AAC9991 Рік тому
I was looking for excatly this by you, can you help me with more questions to ask ? or even activites youd recommend with a partner? thank you so much Matt! legend
@88cake Рік тому
Come to Japan, Matthew! Thank you always for insightful videos.
@tashas3465 Рік тому
Great questions Matthew!
@eveeboss 10 місяців тому
These are actually quite good!
@karalianisthmus8548 6 місяців тому
I really appreciate your expertise!!
@Annieqt Рік тому
As someone who needs to be more flirtatious on a un first date and less "listening to guys talking about themselves" (or worst their EX!) I'm a afraid I would so be in my head and I will have the impression of interviewing for a job rather than connecting. I have a date tonight and I'll probably go with: "What do you love the most about what you do?" and "What do you suck at?"
@VeraSevo1 2 місяці тому
How was the date 😊
@is.b.1185 Рік тому
Beautiful questions. Beautiful!!
@xAnicsi Рік тому
I started asking 'What's the craziest thing you've ever done'? and it's so interesting what everyone comes up with. Sometimes just because defines 'crazy' differently. It can be reckless, it can be weird, it can be fun... Everyone usually thinks a lot about that one, but it always gave me a glimpse of a 'spark' in a way. Your list is quite interesting, it should keep the conversation going for a while for sure :)
@tacrewgirl 11 місяців тому
I like this question and idea. Thanks!
@Neshwang1493 Рік тому
These are great for research questions.
@gia4957 Рік тому
What a fun idea! It breaks the initial awkwardness.
@Betterboundariesnowteensupport Рік тому
We love that you love Steve ❤️ that's Australians enthusiastic and optimistic
@plamitodorova5952 Рік тому
Love this video! My answer to question number 3 is “Get the Guy” 😁
@annagreene195 9 місяців тому
💜 the questions!
@ejw72 Рік тому
One that I use: "If you won the lottery, what would you spend the money on?." Very revealing.
@sindhuchinniah4363 Рік тому
Thanks Mathew!
@inanna3957 Рік тому
This video is fun ❤ Thank you handsome 😄
@laineslowski Рік тому
These are a great roster of questions I'd like to keep in my back pocket the next time I go on a date! A question I've enjoyed asking is 'what do you consider to be your red flags?'
@TheGoddessEnlighten7 Рік тому
I suck at building things! 😂 I love Mr. Rogers! People thought I was weird for this!!! Love him 💖 my niece discovered this on my Spotify 😂 Lil Wayne “ Got Money” My Type Saweetie. I literally had to give the explanation it’s because I use to manifest money 😂 i was embarrassed and I don’t really get embarrassed, but she thought I was cool! For whatever reason! She’s not a hugger and all she wanted to do is be around me and actually gave me a hug! 🥰Fun video!!!
@_unfiltered Рік тому
I'm so glad to finally be in that place where this video will actually help me cuz I've actually got a date😂
@katarinavila Рік тому
Thank you so much, Matthew! This video came at the perfect time, right before a first date I'm having this evening. Can't wait to try out these questions :)
@hanspeterboakye Рік тому
All the best
@noober2174 Рік тому
Good luck!
@alejadiaz Рік тому
Hi!! How was your date? 😀
@katarinavila Рік тому
@@alejadiaz It was great :D didn't even need the questions tbh haha
@alejadiaz Рік тому
@@katarinavila hahaha great to know! :D
@loveonlyvibeseveryone1533 Рік тому
Awsome thanks ❤❤❤❤❤
@yiliu3215 Рік тому
Great video, Matthew! Very inspiring.
@JonathonAslay Рік тому
Matthew... Deep Blue Sea is a good choice. Sadly, I've watched it maybe 10 times. LOL
@samanthaaranibar5060 Рік тому
I think we should ask ourselves these questions first.
@Shaye208 Рік тому
This is perfect I am going on a first date in two days! I went to dinner with my best friend & our server was super sweet & funny so I wrote my number on the check & he texted me! Hopefully things go well:))
@wattsnxt4747 Рік тому
Good luck!☘️
@noober2174 Рік тому
Good luck!
@aminaadam3617 Рік тому
Question number 1: Matthew Hussey.Because he has shown me true connections are made by being open and willing to give, expecting nothing in return but what the other person is ready to give back.
@taniazamudio3174 Рік тому
Gracias por estar tan bueno 😊
@retrosilk Рік тому
Great questions I must say ✌️🙂
@smbessone 6 місяців тому
I think that these questions are amazing, especially because I need a connection to the person before anything else, but I am finding people that sit with me at a bar to have a talk and drink and they are empty, they respond almost in a monosyllabic way... Of course I cannot connect to them, but these cases are piling up... Why dont they like to think? I find it scary that so many seem zombies like this 😮
@Jessica-kk1cz Рік тому
Many of these are great job interview questions also. (Though there are some that would be bad - even illegal as they are - so be careful>. Or repurpose and rephrase it).
@brandongutierrez7049 Рік тому
Hey Matthew Hussey do you have any videos of advice for men?
@helenaevaherczegh8895 Рік тому
Thank you....
@Joejoesan Рік тому
Great questions when you meet someone (new) anyway. So I'll remember it as PAVBWASED (People you Admire, Vacation, Books, Work, Activity, Suck, Embaarrassed, Describe). Thanks, Matthew
@tacrewgirl 11 місяців тому
I like acronyms too
@ModernJewelryMakers Рік тому
I’m going to write these down & take them on my next date (assuming I have one!)
@coly4ever Рік тому
Good video!
@huangyanjean2570 4 місяці тому
2024 the first video I saw, so blessing! Loves these questions, but about the eighth one, whey if if they heard how their friend described them??
@user-wb6bw1dc9n Рік тому
Good questions. Lemme try😬 coz I never reach deep with others. Just superficial contacts
@lgb5661 Рік тому
Question - I have men constantly making off the cuff comments that suggest interest in me. I try to engage them, but they never, ever follow up on the first comment and they eventually leave. I’m hardly going to grab them by the arm and ask why did you act interested and not even begin a conversation with me? I have smiled at them or said something, but it seems they get stuck after the first remark. How should I deal with this? It happens at least a couple of times a week and it’s incredibly frustrating!
@sarahschouveller1993 Рік тому
1. My mom 2. Staycations. I don't like traveling, at all 2.5. the Bahamas 3. More Now Again, A Memoir of Addiction 4. Working with people and animals 5. Snorkeling 6. Math 7. Superbad? Pineapple Express? 7.5. Boyfriend by Justin Bieber? 8. Reliable, loyal, consistent, smart, funny, unique
@annienewton3999 Рік тому
I want to travel more but life gets in the way x
@eclipsechen7553 Рік тому
I feel like this Video actually taught me that I should prepare for the answers for myself……
@KenriqueMaling Рік тому
I admire “Matthew Hussey”.❤️
@gunjansalu8527 Рік тому
We love you and respect you
@Talkwithdulci 3 місяці тому
Matthew, Deep Blue Sea is one of my top movies as well LOL
@johannafritz4255 3 місяці тому
“4,000 Weeks” Just got on Audible. Thanks. 😊
@PopFizzPaperDani 5 місяців тому
Wants to live in Japan for a year, sucks at karaoke. That made me chuckle 😂❤
@brunadube9749 3 місяці тому
Great questions
@MusclesMcLargehuge 7 місяців тому
Undercover guy here, sleuthing for Intel. Solid questions I'd love to answer as well as ask myself.
@okashi10 Рік тому
If you're getting ready/on a date and stealthily looking for the questions: 1) Who is someone you really admire? Why? 2) What kind of vacations do you love the most? (If you had to spend a year in a different country, where would you choose?) 3) What book do you think everybody should read? 4) What do you love the most about what you do? (Is there something else that you're working towards that you would love to do?) 5) What is something you love doing but don't do enough? 6) What do you suck at? 7) What is a film that you are embarrassed you like so much? (If I looked at your top 25 most played songs, what would be the most embarrassing one among them?) 8) How would your closest friends describe you? Also don't forget to actually watch the whole video and give Matthew those views for helping us!
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