A Day in the Life with ADHD

  Переглядів 7,913,181

Charleston Shoe Productions

Charleston Shoe Productions

7 років тому

I made this film as a simulation for people to understand what it can be like to live a day with ADHD. This is to battle the stigma behind it and the best way to do that is with understanding
Music by Tagore Chayne:
• Vividly • Tagore Chayne

КОМЕНТАРІ: 43 000
@imemmabaldwin
@imemmabaldwin 4 роки тому
The second I realize that I’m actually focusing I can’t focus anymore
@ZAH33D
@ZAH33D 4 роки тому
I'm not sure whether I have ADHD or not but this...this happens with me a LOT.
@amirhasingleton6149
@amirhasingleton6149 3 роки тому
True 😂😂
@tacticalteddy4197
@tacticalteddy4197 3 роки тому
I didn't even watch the video, I got distracted on reading the comments it even took me awhile just to type my comment bcoz I forgot about it lol xD
@TabooGroundhog
@TabooGroundhog 3 роки тому
Think this happens to everyone
@beverlyhay6501
@beverlyhay6501 3 роки тому
Omggg sqme
@liamhopper272
@liamhopper272 4 роки тому
I hate when people say “try” and I say “I am” and they say “no you’re not” LIKE LINDA HOW TF DO YOU KNOW
@cat-wj7hp
@cat-wj7hp 4 роки тому
Teacher said I wasn't trying
@doghaver4343
@doghaver4343 4 роки тому
If anybody says im not trying HOLD MY ORANGE JUICE IM GONNA BEAT A HOE
@elizg1643
@elizg1643 4 роки тому
My BFF always tell me to try and that I just need to have the discipline and I’m like BRO I’m FUCKING TRYING
@shark_waifu
@shark_waifu 4 роки тому
My mom will always tell me don't try just do and I get so confused like WTF AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!
@Sentientmatter8
@Sentientmatter8 4 роки тому
AND IT'S EVEN WORSE WHEN THEY USE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE FIDGETING AS PROOF YOU ARE NOT PAYING ATTENTION AND THEN THEY MAKE YOU BE STILL BUT IT TAKES EVERYTHING YOU HAVE TO BE STILL SO FUCK BEING ABLE TO HEAR OR UNDERSTAND ANYTHING ANYONE IS TELLING YOU NOW.
@thenoisytown
@thenoisytown 7 місяців тому
The part with the mother made me tear up, the “I’m trying!” followed by “no, no you’re not” hit me so hard. People just don’t understand how hard it really is, and we can’t help it. Love this video
@rainbowunicorngirl2187
@rainbowunicorngirl2187 6 місяців тому
my parents literally dont understand. i asked my dad to see if he thought i had adhd (even tho i infact have it) and guess what he said? “no, you’re fine. you’re smart” ik im smart! how can you not understand adhd… :(
@thenoisytown
@thenoisytown 6 місяців тому
@@rainbowunicorngirl2187 it makes me so sad that so many people go undiagnosed simply because they are smart or perform well in school, it literally happens so often I'm sorry for you :(
@rainbowunicorngirl2187
@rainbowunicorngirl2187 6 місяців тому
@@thenoisytown you’re ok. i still cannot understand why my dad doesn’t think i have adhd just because i perform excellently in school.
@thenoisytown
@thenoisytown 6 місяців тому
@@rainbowunicorngirl2187 yeah it’s so weird how that has become such a common occurrence, I really hope you get the help you deserve🙏🙏
@rainbowunicorngirl2187
@rainbowunicorngirl2187 6 місяців тому
@@thenoisytown awww tysm!
@kluckva
@kluckva 4 місяці тому
this looping phrase is illegally relatable its almost creepy how accurate it is and also the "i'm trying" "no, you're not!" is stuck with me for years by this time this film is a masterpiece
@kluckva
@kluckva 4 місяці тому
and im happy that i have never had such toxic friends who shamed me about being innatentive
@WhoThisMonkey
@WhoThisMonkey 3 місяці тому
Honestly, I think I don't have an internal monologue because of this, I think it broke and disappeared early on. I remember desperately trying to get the thoughts to stop so much, then it just did. I don't think with words now but abstract imagery.
@Kem1sk
@Kem1sk 2 місяці тому
But you can't bring up the fact you have adhd because then it's an excuse...
@phatdae6799
@phatdae6799 Місяць тому
Yeah I just start laughing maniacally when they showed that because it’s so relatable
@kluckva
@kluckva Місяць тому
@@Kem1sk yeeeaaah i LOVE that bs 🤩🤩 why do mentally healthy people think that i deliberately am always late always impulsive and hot-headed and unable to keep my own house clean and my wallet full do they think adhd is an advantage?? cuz of what? feeling unique? i really want to NOT be unique and be like everyone else istg i would give away my leg if it could make me neurotypical
@skippy9257
@skippy9257 4 роки тому
"You dont have ADHD your just lazy" "ADHD isnt an excuse" thats what i hear from people....
@lofiwackpainting7439
@lofiwackpainting7439 4 роки тому
XxAlaynaxX fr
@YourRatKing62
@YourRatKing62 4 роки тому
I’ve been called Lazy because of ADHD so many times that eventually I just give up on trying to convince them I’m not.
@EagleMan90
@EagleMan90 4 роки тому
I hate when peoole say "your useing it as an excuse"
@shara1034
@shara1034 4 роки тому
I get called stupid a lot by my friends as a joke because of my grades and I said “I have ADD, I struggle to concentrate, you know that” and I got really sad because I just wanna be able to concentrate and to stop daydreaming all the time and to feel normal and they just told me “i have ADHD, it’s not that hard” It kind of hurt me because they got through the same thing but they still told me it’s not an excuse. Like, y’all know I can’t control it, what do you expect. You know what I mean? Sorry if me venting is kind of stupid 😞
@ya_boi_cribs1256
@ya_boi_cribs1256 4 роки тому
@@shara1034 literally
@koemidolly
@koemidolly 2 роки тому
"Im trying!" "No, no you aren't." bruh wtf does that hit me so hard
@edgy_skeleton2760
@edgy_skeleton2760 2 роки тому
my mom says it to me all the time, I think she forgets how it affects me mentally and physically. but yeah it does hit you hard bro
@socialistsiut5788
@socialistsiut5788 2 роки тому
I had a 3-5 month stretch where I couldn’t get out of bed in the morning like I physically couldn’t because of executive disfunction and my mom would just lecture and yell at me from the door frame for 30 minutes until I got so upset my need to get away overpowered my executive disfunction
@moonkitten3758
@moonkitten3758 2 роки тому
heard that in middle school all the time
@notfreddie9285
@notfreddie9285 2 роки тому
Yup my mother says stuff like that to me all the time
@FloppaWeek
@FloppaWeek 2 роки тому
@@edgy_skeleton2760 my mother and father both have adhd so i dont have to experience this thankfully
@DonnHowes
@DonnHowes 29 днів тому
I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 22. Spent my whole life fighting ADHD. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
@KicksConceptsshoes
@KicksConceptsshoes 29 днів тому
Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.
@JanetRichardson-mq5es
@JanetRichardson-mq5es 29 днів тому
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Germany. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
@SusanaGomez-mp8sk
@SusanaGomez-mp8sk 29 днів тому
YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@Edennnn926
@Edennnn926 29 днів тому
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
@AndrewLiam-lp5cj
@AndrewLiam-lp5cj 29 днів тому
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
@boston_boi
@boston_boi 7 місяців тому
dude the most relatable part was the kid talking on the phone. you have NO clue how many times ive focused on someone elses convo more than my own 💀
@1231heyo
@1231heyo 3 роки тому
Girl: Is literally talking on the phone in class Teacher: That tall kid saying nothing is getting on my nerves
@arborealmole8079
@arborealmole8079 3 роки тому
I kind of relate to this man in that sense (also I have adhd so of course it’s relatable.
@doryfin6284
@doryfin6284 3 роки тому
Right?! Its almost like the teachers know somethings off with you so they call on you or something
@grass5697
@grass5697 3 роки тому
Simps ofc
@maybeoptify
@maybeoptify 3 роки тому
@@grass5697 when the teacher simping 😔
@danielpopadic4314
@danielpopadic4314 2 роки тому
Your eyes seem to bit off - center on what im trying to draw on whiteboard , you seem SUS! EXPELLED
@d.isfor____2283
@d.isfor____2283 3 роки тому
"If you can focus on art you can focus right now." no, i actually can't, Lauren.
@nevaehwalden1415
@nevaehwalden1415 3 роки тому
ya for real like we have a thing called hyper foucs and its where we can fouces good for like 30 mins to 2 hours on smothing we like so no if i did art allready than i can focus on your stupid voice go on and on ab math!!!!!
@Jishwa0_0
@Jishwa0_0 3 роки тому
I know right!! I’m good at art, I draw everyday, I plan on going to an art college and yet I still find it hard to finish my project that involve. Art means the world to me, and I can’t even focus on that!!
@TheFartGod69
@TheFartGod69 3 роки тому
I have hemmerhoids
@Bugsabo1983
@Bugsabo1983 3 роки тому
@@TheFartGod69 "Actually Meghan, I cant sit anywhere."
@sherbetboy4560
@sherbetboy4560 3 роки тому
PLEASE I HAVE A KID IN MY CLASS WHO SAYS THIS WHEN SHES TRYING TO TALK AND IM HYPERFOCUS
@S2-hz3tv
@S2-hz3tv 5 місяців тому
As a girl with ADHD, this is the most accurate video I've ever seen about it. The """""teleporting""""", the looping and the sounds repeating before going to sleep is so real. I swear, if anyone asks me how it feels to have to deal with ADHD for a literal lifetime, I'll show them this video.
@mr.brisk_
@mr.brisk_ 5 місяців тому
same, i just clicked thinking that maybe all I ever experience everyday is in fact ADHD.
@naoedouard4422
@naoedouard4422 4 місяці тому
JESUS loves you! Come to Him to experience indescribable peace, and the infinite love He has for you! He can heal all illnesses and disorders, and with Him you can overcome any and every crisis the world may put in your way. Repent of your sins and start a relationship with Him today. Call out His name and He will answer you!
@FluffyPegasus505
@FluffyPegasus505 3 місяці тому
The visual is inaccurate i take vyvanse and teleporting is never seen for me but I do have ear ringing
@jordy_kill1298
@jordy_kill1298 3 місяці тому
@@FluffyPegasus505i dont have earringing, but i just dont hear it, its a wuss
@woohoosteakisyummy
@woohoosteakisyummy 3 місяці тому
I liek teleporting
@viteek20cz95
@viteek20cz95 3 місяці тому
Worst thing about ADHD is not only the less concentration and focus, but the fact, that you sometimes don't even notice it, but the others do and scold you for it. As someone who has ADHD I almost cried during this video.
@The_Castol
@The_Castol Місяць тому
Happens to me alot and it sucks ass
@amandadunbar26
@amandadunbar26 3 роки тому
ugh i was always told i had “selective hearing” when i forgot things like grabbing the milk
@audreydoyle5268
@audreydoyle5268 3 роки тому
Same here
@yourlocalbob6020
@yourlocalbob6020 3 роки тому
I get told that all the time, I be like “I forgot!” Like it doesn’t matter anymore bc they are used to it.
@tir3d_al1za
@tir3d_al1za 3 роки тому
i fucking HATE when people say that to me
@lilsillyb
@lilsillyb 3 роки тому
YES
@hideakisorachi3953
@hideakisorachi3953 3 роки тому
it's not my fault I only remember things I hyper focus on. "how come you can remember all that stuff about those tv shows but not when I tell you something. you dont wanna listen to me!?!?"
@delaneymcdonald7838
@delaneymcdonald7838 3 роки тому
the irony of adhd is barely being able to watch this video because your mind already needs to do something else
@Doesntmatter-xp5dv
@Doesntmatter-xp5dv 3 роки тому
As much as I hate to admit it. The video made me cry, then I started thinking if sending it to my parents, then having an internal conversation with myself about why I should and then why I shouldn't, then I started hearing ringing, birds chirping, cars going by, doors slamming and so many things. 😐
@RedVitality
@RedVitality 3 роки тому
Within the time watching this I’ve thought of 8 videos I’ve watched when I was younger.
@sydhowee8860
@sydhowee8860 3 роки тому
Yesssssssssss
@Jen_TheSnail
@Jen_TheSnail 2 роки тому
Ikr
@jameshudson6414
@jameshudson6414 2 роки тому
Yea. Exactly. This video is actually scaring me with the accuracy. The jumbled clips repeated in the video to showcase the main character’s distractions actually started popping up in my own head and distracting me from the video.
@DamsonIdris-rh6sx
@DamsonIdris-rh6sx 8 днів тому
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 8 днів тому
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
@BestOffer-ii9ny
@BestOffer-ii9ny 8 днів тому
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@ChristianMaxwell-sz6bf
@ChristianMaxwell-sz6bf 8 днів тому
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 8 днів тому
Is he on instagram?
@BestOffer-ii9ny
@BestOffer-ii9ny 8 днів тому
Yes, he is dr.porass.
@Ghosstedd
@Ghosstedd 5 місяців тому
My mom has ADHD too so she understands how hard it is for me to focus so I've never heard her say "stop fidgeting" or "just focus" or any of that. I genuinely love my mom and will continuously do so with the biggest smile in a while and hope it stays that way.
@fantomas1770
@fantomas1770 5 місяців тому
fidgeting is annoying af, you should learn not to fidget at least in public
@naoedouard4422
@naoedouard4422 4 місяці тому
JESUS loves you! Come to Him to experience indescribable peace, and the infinite love He has for you! He can heal all illnesses and disorders, and with Him you can overcome any and every crisis the world may put in your way. Repent of your sins and start a relationship with Him today. Call out His name and He will answer you!
@jannemieknugteren3139
@jannemieknugteren3139 4 місяці тому
⁠@@fantomas1770basically what you are saying is: being paralyzed doesnt mean you cant play with me for just one time
@fantomas1770
@fantomas1770 4 місяці тому
@@jannemieknugteren3139 i'm saying stop fidgeting cuz it's annoying af and you will get told to stop anyway
@BobTheSnail759
@BobTheSnail759 3 місяці тому
Lucky you! My 2 brothers (23y/o and 15y/o) have ADHD and I'm (21y/o girl) still trying to get diagnosed, but I'm certain I have it. I'm also certain my Dad (63y/o) has it, but he's completely unaware and keeps blaming my Mum's genes. He's incredibly hard to talk to about these types of things, doesn't have good knowledge about it, and isn't open minded in the slightest way, which makes it even harder to cope. It really surprises me how he can be so unaware of his OWN self and how he hasn't realised, all these years, that he is slightly different to other people. Did he never notice the barriers/struggles at school? At work? At home? I don't know how he hasn't picked up on it. And worst of all, he has ZERO empathy for us when we just CAN'T help but being the way we are. Forgetful, distracted, etc. Honestly, consider yourself extremely lucky!!
@kayleeeastman8845
@kayleeeastman8845 3 роки тому
“Your not trying” “Your so lazy” “Can’t you remember one thing?” “Why are you so lazy?” “You have stupid excuses” “I hate you” “Why are you so disappointing?” “Just pay attention” “Well it’s not my fault you can’t listen” “JUST LISTEN.” I hate it when my mom says these things.
@ninadoesstuff7884
@ninadoesstuff7884 3 роки тому
Don't forget the "No, you just don't care"
@bvgaboo3572
@bvgaboo3572 3 роки тому
That's verbal and emotional abuse. And ableist language. Unfortunately a lot of parenting is not good parenting especially with that kind of language and it's disappointing that most see that as acceptable behaviour or the or typical thing to do when it's not the right way to handle things.
@Tweetuna7521
@Tweetuna7521 3 роки тому
I deal with this everyday 😐
@maggies.2037
@maggies.2037 3 роки тому
:,(((((((
@maggies.2037
@maggies.2037 3 роки тому
@@ninadoesstuff7884 that one hurts :'((
@haha-bh7rp
@haha-bh7rp 4 роки тому
you know when you just zone out and then be like ”wait wtf happend”
@dirt_bike_dog6797
@dirt_bike_dog6797 4 роки тому
Yeah. To me its like im thinking of something else insted of what's around me, and when the teacher is talking all I hear is muffled talking. And then right after I don't remember anything that just happened. BTW I don't have ADHD but I still zone out.
@riffmcdude9830
@riffmcdude9830 4 роки тому
ADHD sucks man, for me the worst moments are when I'm walking and my brain just goes "hmm who created God?" And started thinking about random crap and I'd go "wait a minute where am i? " or "wait I'm not supposed to go this way!", these happens a lot to me. Or that time when your parents ask you to but something like "buy A, B, and C" and you completely forgot about C and your parents will start yelling at you.
@rotclanofficial7691
@rotclanofficial7691 4 роки тому
Riff Mcdude yeah same
@pinkfoxboi1331
@pinkfoxboi1331 4 роки тому
Yup but learned how to control it so I only zone out sometimes while doing inportant tasks,it get Easter after a while its just a process. But to be honest sometimes I wish someone around me understood me at all.the only one who truly gets how hard I work is God cuase without him I'd be inane and in a mental hospital with a nervous breakdown.🐞
@liadeindadani6913
@liadeindadani6913 4 роки тому
I hate it when it happens and I'm having a really deep conversation with someone and I keep getting distracted and in afraid they think im not interested
@canigohome2896
@canigohome2896 5 місяців тому
I’m so glad they included the way moments we see/ sentences we hear get repeated for seemingly no reason. Like how he saw the red car pass by then the clip kept replaying and when the teacher said “if you can focus” it just kept replaying over what the teacher was actually saying at the time
@enio9477
@enio9477 3 роки тому
- I'm trying! - No, you're not! I was about to cry at this moment.
@indytesselaar2319
@indytesselaar2319 3 роки тому
Same
@iadorecatsandsnakes7369
@iadorecatsandsnakes7369 3 роки тому
Same
@pawllein2594
@pawllein2594 3 роки тому
Same
@viporplayz9451
@viporplayz9451 3 роки тому
Same
@viporplayz9451
@viporplayz9451 3 роки тому
I cant with my adhd i hate it
@sunr3y_392
@sunr3y_392 3 роки тому
god the “stop fidgeting and listen to me!” “it’s not hard, you’re just not trying hard enough” PAIN
@lordofallspoons4190
@lordofallspoons4190 3 роки тому
MY STEPMOM SAYS THIS!!
@kpro_1188
@kpro_1188 3 роки тому
People haut don't realize that we are trying as hard as we can and it sometimes can be mentally and emotionally draining
@tomatodia2603
@tomatodia2603 3 роки тому
EVERY FUCKING DAY
@loversick3377
@loversick3377 3 роки тому
@@kpro_1188 yeah my boyfriend has ADHD & I’m doing my best to look into what it’s like for him. It’s difficult and this video makes me want to cry. I would hate to be the one to be saying all that stuff to him like they are in this video.
@kpro_1188
@kpro_1188 3 роки тому
@@loversick3377 Awe 🥺 that's sweet, I know he'll be really happy with you 💜
@ZaahZone
@ZaahZone 6 місяців тому
I do not have ADHD, however, it did sort of help me understand how my partner, who does have ADHD feels and experiences.. So, thank you a lot for this! I'll remember to be patient with my honey. Edit; sorry guys he broke up with me 😔
@Affxter
@Affxter 4 місяці тому
hey bro are you still with her
@lux.s.cannabis
@lux.s.cannabis 4 місяці тому
​@@Affxterwtf kinda question is that
@Affxter
@Affxter 4 місяці тому
i was high@@lux.s.cannabis
@AmeAmeRainA
@AmeAmeRainA 3 місяці тому
@@Affxterrespectfully shut it
@Affxter
@Affxter 3 місяці тому
what@@AmeAmeRainA
@JadeSylvinaVA
@JadeSylvinaVA 3 місяці тому
The whole “I’m trying” and “you’re not” part made me cry because this is how my parents are with me. I just wish they’d be patient with me, give me a break, and stop getting angry at me for the way I am. 😢
@micah7340
@micah7340 3 роки тому
Telling someone with adhd to "just focus" is like telling a blind person to "just see" like it doesnt work-
@Demi.d3mi
@Demi.d3mi 2 роки тому
More like telling someone having a seizure to just stop having a seizure. It’s purely involuntary
@Mileszsz
@Mileszsz 2 роки тому
and telling someone who's deaf to "just listen" (the deaf person can read lips btw just not as good as others)
@gwenculver1040
@gwenculver1040 2 роки тому
Yeah next time Karen has an asthma attack I’ll tell her to “just breath” and “you’re not even trying”
@YoungMetroDoesNOTtrustYou
@YoungMetroDoesNOTtrustYou 2 роки тому
WHOA DUDE LOOK WHAT'S ON THE TV OMG THIS IS MY FAVORITE SHOW :D
@copyright4138
@copyright4138 2 роки тому
My 9 year old cousin has ADHD and all the family gets tired of him but I’m the only one that understands him so I am very patient with him.
@kiastewart-green9127
@kiastewart-green9127 3 роки тому
anyone else forget that the mom asked him to get milk edit: can we all just take a moment here to realise that the video is 6 mins long.... ..it took us 6 mins to forget about one piece of information.. do with that what you will.
@OtHaku
@OtHaku 3 роки тому
Wait she actually did??????? -replays it- omFG SHE DID
@burieVropride
@burieVropride 3 роки тому
😂oh shit!
@SketchUT
@SketchUT 3 роки тому
you call me out like this, in my home, on this day of all days??
@ellaclues3407
@ellaclues3407 3 роки тому
DONT CALL ME OUT 😳😳
@Bunnyshai
@Bunnyshai 3 роки тому
Wait she asked him to get milk? Lmfao..
@yu.kun.dai.yo.
@yu.kun.dai.yo. 6 місяців тому
This man is a legend for making all of this apparent to others. Keep up the good work man.
@Thebepislover
@Thebepislover 6 місяців тому
As someone with ADHD, this really speaks to me. It's a good way to show how ADHD works. I might show this to people who I know don't quite understand it. Thank you so much.
@lightofhaley4369
@lightofhaley4369 3 роки тому
"Just try" "I am" "No you're not"
@rainymc
@rainymc 3 роки тому
OMG TYSM LITERALLY MY MOM SAYS THIS EVERY DAY
@SketchUT
@SketchUT 3 роки тому
My mom was talking to me yesterday about it (gonna maybe get diagnosed soon) and I was trying to explain cuz it felt like she didn’t believe me and when I went back to my room guess who was fighting tears over what in hindsight was something small I tell her that it’s hard for me to get myself in motion for a lot of stuff. Homework, my hobbies, anything. She’s like “well a pill won’t help” like mother it’s designed to help what do you mean it won’t help Edit: forgot to add she’s understanding and kind about it at least which is more than some people get sadly
@Ethan20543
@Ethan20543 3 роки тому
@@SketchUT DON'T TAKE THE MEDICINE!!! IT WILL COMPLETELY CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A GHOST AND CAUSE LIFE LONG SIDE EFFECTS
@SketchUT
@SketchUT 3 роки тому
@@Ethan20543 If I get diagnosed and IF I get medication prescribed I’m going to take it as long as I’m told :P
@kopi7105
@kopi7105 3 роки тому
Idk if i have adhd, i will get a check up next week. But what his mom says is so relatable to me, my mom always say i'm not taking things serious, and she would always say i'm just being dramatic
@richy6787
@richy6787 3 роки тому
disclaimer: ADHD does not make your hooping skills dirt nasty
@foxylovers290
@foxylovers290 3 роки тому
This is underrated-
@willmcc05
@willmcc05 3 роки тому
That's debatable
@anx46
@anx46 3 роки тому
man :(
@daniellayunchyk5677
@daniellayunchyk5677 3 роки тому
People with ADHD usually tend to do something they enjoy for a very long time because they need something to make them work physically and mentally. It helps them not fidget for a while.
@ella5207
@ella5207 3 роки тому
with my adhd i actually suck at sports because i lose focus/get dizzy about all the things im thinking about and trying to exert physical energy.
@2dheethbar
@2dheethbar 6 місяців тому
Man... The part with his mom hurt. My mom has bi-polar depression, and she would get so upset and offended when I had trouble focusing in day to day life. The day I mentioned maybe it's related to the chance I might have ADHD, she wouldn't accept it as a possibility and said "you had no symptoms when you were younger, there's no way you have it now" (I was about 24 years old 9 years ago). I live with my gf, and I now have a PsyD and am on Vyvanse daily. Can't be right all the time, moms and dads.
@fantomas1770
@fantomas1770 6 місяців тому
bro coped so hard he got a degree just to spite his mom wow
@JG71632
@JG71632 2 місяці тому
@@fantomas1770well maybe his mom wasn’t good, ever thought about that?
@fantomas1770
@fantomas1770 2 місяці тому
@@JG71632 ok, and?
@halophobic9550
@halophobic9550 7 місяців тому
as a person with adhd, ive never felt like it was such a struggle. but now that ive actually seen and related to the stuff i tought everyone else did aswell, i can clearly see whats wrong
@alix_xd1667
@alix_xd1667 3 роки тому
“Just listen” “Your not trying” “Foucus” “Remember” Yea nice try, it’s not that easy.
@urnewstepdad8090
@urnewstepdad8090 3 роки тому
Don’t forget “stop staring off” and “u have to do the work even if u don’t like it! U can’t just “forget” about it or ignore it!”
@ninac9294
@ninac9294 3 роки тому
i always compulsively bite my nails/lips and my dad scolds me for it. it’s gotten better but still, it’s so hard not to fidget.
@seraphim.42
@seraphim.42 3 роки тому
my mama keeps telling me that I have to at least try but I am, it's just hard. don't want to fight all the time
@psychoanalyticsaurian
@psychoanalyticsaurian 3 роки тому
exactly. btw nice fuyuhiko pfp
@MarchSomething
@MarchSomething 3 роки тому
its annoying to hear that. Im not trying to forget, or to not focus on purpose (I am running on 1 brain cell rn so i cant spell) Im trying my best but because you dont have it doesnt mean you get to yell at me that its not hard to live with it. You dont even know what its like to have it so you have no place to say that is not hard
@cantwegivelove
@cantwegivelove 3 роки тому
"I'm trying !" "No, no you're not." That one hit hard. It's so hard for me to remember things and register when someone is talking to me, and I really do try.
@-randomuser-4897
@-randomuser-4897 3 роки тому
I have the same thing, i can remember like things that you learn at school in general normally by a combination of two problems i may have, but not anything else. I can forget something i am doing or just did easily, and because of my probable ADHD/ aphantasia combination (aphantasia disabling people to remember things with one or more of the five senses ; and me having it "total" i guess) it would be less obvious because it would cancel a few effects; i got in trouble for it a few times now, and starting to think more and more about diagnostising when i can :/ Have a nice day !
@Astr0_Man
@Astr0_Man 3 роки тому
same, my mom says she thinks I might have adhd(I think so too) but constantly puts me down when I say I'm tryin and displayin symptoms of adhd instead of tryin to make it easier for me especially bc we cant get a diagnosis bc we dont have the money
@Tweetuna7521
@Tweetuna7521 3 роки тому
I deal with it everyday 😐
@yeah1326
@yeah1326 3 роки тому
@@Astr0_Man You dont have ADHD, EVERYONE DOESNT HAVE ADHD. STOP SELF DIAGNOSING
@richiemcconnochie2506
@richiemcconnochie2506 3 роки тому
@@Astr0_Man cure show mom...tell her to do this to u...over in a few minutes..if she does it well...ukposts.info/have/v-deo/oqR_n6WOsY51kmg.html
@FlowersAnimations
@FlowersAnimations Місяць тому
I love my older sister dearly, she was like a second mother to me. Even at a pretty young age, I was aware she was “different” but I didn’t care, I loved her and we had fun and that’s what mattered. I try my best to make her comfortable, but she always seems to happy when we hang out so I don’t think I need to do much to help her, as our friendship is enough :) I still try to understand her, so that we can be the supportive figure in eachothers lives, that we never really got. I appreciate this short film? a lot! It brings awareness.
@mixishere
@mixishere 6 місяців тому
God, why is this so relatable? I know I was diagnosed with ADHD but I thought the buzzing in the ears was only me. Plus everyone was trying to get you to focus with no prevail, everybody tells you to focus while you can't do it. I love this video as it brings light to a pretty unknown part of ADHD. Plus the timeskips... For any parent with a child that has ADHD please try to treat them right.
@tedzter5491
@tedzter5491 3 роки тому
god the part where he gets frustrated after his mom says hes not trying....... kinda felt that a lil too much........ ouch :(
@Willybean08
@Willybean08 3 роки тому
It's the most frustrating thing when people say I'm not trying... it's not like i can give 100% focus on something because there's more than one thing in the world.
@Untieabl
@Untieabl 3 роки тому
Sums up my parents and my childhood right there.
@anaveragetexan
@anaveragetexan 3 роки тому
I have ADHD myself and this is something at least someone says everyday,Its not too much if you Expirience it Everyday,But it makes me Mad I'm 10
@tedzter5491
@tedzter5491 3 роки тому
@@anaveragetexan right. i know how u feel, having adhd is a nightmare , especially when trying to explain how hard it is to focus on certain things and such. trying to explain you ARE trying hard, its just very complicated to stay focussed but still getting the same interruptions of ur parents saying “but you arent trying hard enough” sucks. im sorry you have to go through that man :( good luck bro.
@josselinguajala8158
@josselinguajala8158 3 роки тому
My mother saying I do anything for get out of my anxiety I got out and I'm to much better right now, she was so fake, all the money she bring was from sugar daddies and also telling my sisters and me we don't have empathy for her...just c:
@clairecarmen5224
@clairecarmen5224 4 роки тому
THE THING WITH THE EYES WHEN THEY GO OUT OF FOCUS AND UR BRAIN TUNES OUT
@adav222
@adav222 3 роки тому
Sometimes in the middle of conversation it will happen and I try to get back to reality and it’s tough, it almost feels like I become an actor in my own life to feel normal
@mostlyghostly03
@mostlyghostly03 3 роки тому
YES!!!! that’s the perfect way to show it but for me it gets all fuzzy and I get this numbing?? Feeling it kinda feels like how it was shown when the mom was talking to her son
@kirby584
@kirby584 3 роки тому
DAYDREAMING
@landofwonder7829
@landofwonder7829 3 роки тому
Yeah although i don't have ADHD it still happens
@chubbyturtle
@chubbyturtle 3 роки тому
@@adav222 YESS
@BIRBFISH
@BIRBFISH 6 місяців тому
I have ADHD. I can agree, it's very hard. People get mad at you for things that you had forgotten and crap. They just don't understand.
@blazestorm5583
@blazestorm5583 6 місяців тому
thank you. so much. this didnt just depict my life, but it gave me a way to show people what having it felt like. You are a blessing in disguise. Thank you again.
@orozphorus
@orozphorus 4 роки тому
As a person with adhd, watching this is like having it twice. Edit: it also brings unpleasant memories of my parents calling me lazy, stupid, or deaf.
@shaewright7428
@shaewright7428 3 роки тому
Honestly
@badkidsgang4408
@badkidsgang4408 3 роки тому
Same
@CaitsFavoriteColors
@CaitsFavoriteColors 3 роки тому
OMG IT REALLY IS!! I feel this so much
@profadetv535
@profadetv535 3 роки тому
Actually tho!!
@slimeballsos
@slimeballsos 3 роки тому
Facts
@psychotic_break9889
@psychotic_break9889 3 роки тому
I understand this is a serious video, however I'm enjoying being tall
@nicomoist5336
@nicomoist5336 3 роки тому
XD me! As a 5'2 guy right here!
@husnasalimahkodir8023
@husnasalimahkodir8023 3 роки тому
it's scary
@Astr0_Man
@Astr0_Man 3 роки тому
ikr
@klounpound6945
@klounpound6945 3 роки тому
Fr. I'm like 5'6. This dude made me feel 6'5 in the video. Got nervous seeing the top of a door.
@SunshinePip
@SunshinePip 3 роки тому
5'3 lol I was so excited to see everything
@ggga781
@ggga781 6 місяців тому
As person with this kind of problem you really made me tear at the end. thanks for showing to people some things they don't understanding even if they are your parents (Give them a break) that was break my heart. thanks again 😓
@GeneralMarine
@GeneralMarine 3 місяці тому
I've dealt with ADHD and OCD my entire life, and my entire family has never seen it as a big issue. I showed them this video and told them this is pretty much what life is like for me every day, and they have since then done everything they can to help. Extremely realistic representation of what it is like, thank you very much.
@gaia1723
@gaia1723 4 роки тому
Does anybody else’s with ADHD try to focus on being focus and then forget about what they were focusing on edit: wow this is the most likes I’ve ever got on a comment this is amazing that so many of us are going through the same exact thing😂
@isabellarichardson423
@isabellarichardson423 4 роки тому
Athena Larry ME
@DEADSKULLZ31
@DEADSKULLZ31 4 роки тому
Every other day in history class
@pattigreen6295
@pattigreen6295 4 роки тому
yEs
@emma..4914
@emma..4914 4 роки тому
Athena Larry yess it's like i just blank out & then just forget everything
@liamraver8115
@liamraver8115 4 роки тому
Athena Larry lol yeah
@sillythygoose
@sillythygoose 5 років тому
*Teacher gets mad at kid not focusing when there is a girl sitting 5 feet away talking on her phone*
@ploppityploppity5611
@ploppityploppity5611 5 років тому
not only that but if the kid has adhd it would be hard to focus so like
@benderoffenders7353
@benderoffenders7353 5 років тому
I have adhd and i have to hear that same bullshit every day
@JazminFlakita
@JazminFlakita 5 років тому
I would’ve told the teacher off for that tbh 🤷‍♀️
@2candylove492
@2candylove492 5 років тому
Same , *unable to focus* Teacher: pay attention Other kid: drawing and playing games on lap top Teacher: *says nothing*
@josiahemrick
@josiahemrick 5 років тому
silly goose ive literally had that happen to me except he was right next to me. some teachers pick favorites
@goodaimbelike
@goodaimbelike 4 місяці тому
i actually ended this video in tears because of how scarily accurate this actually is. the "repeating" thing is extremely accurate, and so is the random flashbacks and loss of focus. it especially hit hard when the mother said "you're not trying"... it can be really hard for people with ADHD...and i hope everyone that reads this that has ADHD like me will succeed in whatever they want to succeed in. i know you guys can achieve your goals. i've done it, i know you guys can too... ❤
@ams3092
@ams3092 5 місяців тому
This is honestly so relatable I cried. Great work I hope the word get around
@wildkittyryn6204
@wildkittyryn6204 4 роки тому
Do you ever just read a book and start thinking about other things but you’re still reading at the same time ? Edit: I don’t have adhd, just thought this was something relatable
@walterwhite8649
@walterwhite8649 4 роки тому
Once O read a norwegian book because I'm from Norway I was thinking about arrowverse and mcu stuff while reading!
@jackhennessy1645
@jackhennessy1645 4 роки тому
cam0bam then u gotta keep re-reading it cuz even tho u read the page it like didn’t go in
@tabe1530
@tabe1530 4 роки тому
This is why I haven‘t never readen a book in my life
@southparkseason7episode119
@southparkseason7episode119 4 роки тому
Then you keep reading but don’t remember but you want to read that paragraph again but you’re already read it so you don’t want to then you close the book.
@terminatroll-_-3269
@terminatroll-_-3269 4 роки тому
@@jackhennessy1645 And then you have a feeling of deja vu while re reading the whole page, but you don't remember so you have to re read it anyways
@victoriafromtftserver2018
@victoriafromtftserver2018 3 роки тому
God, the ringing is so true. If there’s no sounds, my brain fills in the gaps and makes sounds. It’ll either be chatter, something that happened earlier, or the ringing.
@xrockangelx
@xrockangelx 3 роки тому
I'm so glad I have music 24/7 instead of the ringing. I feel bad for people who struggle with that.
@sneakyturtle2346
@sneakyturtle2346 3 роки тому
Its worse when ur home alone cuz then u start hearing doors closing🙃
@leafyyplant
@leafyyplant 3 роки тому
@@xrockangelx same here edit: i’ve been paying more attention and my ears do ring lmao
@vaidehi_n
@vaidehi_n 3 роки тому
@@sneakyturtle2346 that's scary
@noahxxzo
@noahxxzo 3 роки тому
Haha yeah, whenever I'm in the shower (or even when I'm not) my brain likes to trick me into thinking someone is knocking on the front door, and sometimes it'll just straight up play my ringtone and so I always think my phone is ringing
@kalisworl
@kalisworl 3 місяці тому
Thank you for making this. It made me emotional because I really do feel I can relate to this.
@lqvndrnqght
@lqvndrnqght 6 місяців тому
Watching this helped me understand my boyfriend's situation since he has ADHD, thank you for making this video!
@alondrarojas4701
@alondrarojas4701 4 роки тому
“just stop fiddling and listen to me” that honestly almost made me cry omgg
@bananamama4393
@bananamama4393 4 роки тому
I HATE it when people say that to me
@moo_4236
@moo_4236 4 роки тому
do u have adhd?
@alondrarojas4701
@alondrarojas4701 4 роки тому
Ryan St. John yeah
@sleeepyyynub4800
@sleeepyyynub4800 4 роки тому
Alondra Rojas i respect you also cried i have adhd and i here that all the time i sucks🙏
@EspeonAndMew
@EspeonAndMew 4 роки тому
I'm so happy to find people to relate too 💕
@jado627
@jado627 3 роки тому
What many neurotypical people also don't understand is that the fidgeting actually helps us focus. So if they tell you to "just sit still" they're actually making it more difficult to concentrate
@TheRadioactiveBanana32
@TheRadioactiveBanana32 2 роки тому
true
@sophiagiordano1197
@sophiagiordano1197 2 роки тому
EXACTLY. I draw a lot even if its just a bunch of doodles all over the page, cause it helps me to pay attention on what the teacher is saying. especially if its a theoretical kind of class. she's always telling us to put our pens down and pay attention and im like...... i just dont say anything cause everytime i forget to tell her, and dont wanna say it in front of the class lol
@theunholybanana4745
@theunholybanana4745 2 роки тому
@@TheRadioactiveBanana32 that's the same Banana picture in my pfp
@Brandonhayhew
@Brandonhayhew 2 роки тому
Me too
@iqbalindaryono8984
@iqbalindaryono8984 5 місяців тому
Sad part is that the opposite is true for them, what allows you to focus makes THEM lose focus. It feels like there's no compromise to be made
@somebodywholikesrandom1876
@somebodywholikesrandom1876 2 місяці тому
As someone who probably has undiagnosed ADHD I also relate to this. It is way to accurate. Even if my doctor says I don’t I feel like I have a form of it. It’s the constant distractions, getting bullied or no one taking you seriously when you forget something; it is not fun at all.
@psychotweety
@psychotweety 5 місяців тому
The last bit in the dark is how my mind takes over at night replaying everything, over analysing everything. I dont have ADHD (my son does) but i have anxiety and depression.
@dekoi4541
@dekoi4541 3 роки тому
4:23 “I’m trying” “No,no you’re not” That shit hit me hard
@domegarth
@domegarth 3 роки тому
"No you're not".... Easy to say by people without that Problem.
@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice 2 роки тому
Oh lord. I was ALWAYS being told what I was & wasn't thinking/doing/feeling. I was so sick of being gaslit all the time!!! The big one for me was "You CAN, you just don't WANT to." Like no bitch can't means can't. I did my absolute best and it didn't work, if that's not good enough, then ?????????
@socialistsiut5788
@socialistsiut5788 2 роки тому
Or the classic “that’s not an excuse”
@elementsgaming2411
@elementsgaming2411 3 роки тому
For me, My ADHD can be summarized as... “Shit, what was I doing?” “Oh that’s right”
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 2 роки тому
My mind sometimes randomly goes blank when I'm about to do something. I ask myself "Where am I?" and usually regain focus in a few seconds.
@elementsgaming2411
@elementsgaming2411 2 роки тому
@@greatwavefan397 bro, that happens to me when I'm driving. I'll just be on the road and then think to myself, "I know where I am but how did i get here again? did i do every turn correctly??" (don't worry, I am a great driver and have yet to get into an accident)
@t04st3d_cr4mb
@t04st3d_cr4mb 2 роки тому
Same, my mind goes blank and then I wonder, "why am I here again?"
@runic6452
@runic6452 2 роки тому
@@t04st3d_cr4mb that's just normal for all people
@t04st3d_cr4mb
@t04st3d_cr4mb 2 роки тому
@@runic6452 nah but that happens to me way too often, I know I have ADHD, got checked with a doctor, and boom. I have it :P
@ALEX_MALEX289
@ALEX_MALEX289 4 місяці тому
The cuts in time are honestly relatable sometimes I'm just walking to school and most of the time I go to my friends house to wait for her so when I was walking I guess I kinda dozed off if that's what you call it and suddenly I'm standing in front of my friends door waiting for her to come out and if I'm being honest this video is relatable in everyway and how my mind is always all over the place and how its so hard to focus
@finnduinkerke4218
@finnduinkerke4218 6 місяців тому
I recognize this so much I also have ADHD, sometimes it's difficult when people don't understand you, especially with that fidgeting and what's going on in your head sometimes, SO MANY different things😴😴 Thank you for this video❤
@RosinaRosinaRosina
@RosinaRosinaRosina 4 роки тому
When she kept telling him to stop fidgeting, I really felt ANGER for a moment. The most frustrating thing in the world is being forced to stay still, as if that helps with focusing. Neurotypical people would never understand, I don't think.
@okayokay4125
@okayokay4125 3 роки тому
Elmo is always moving😋
@abwhite129
@abwhite129 3 роки тому
E x a c t l y !
@concentratedcringe
@concentratedcringe 3 роки тому
I always thought it was ironic they have such a problem with fidgeting and stims. Like, bitch, how about *you* look at *me* and stop focusing on my hands aye? People just have zero self-awareness sometimes.
@Ryuneko_Gaming
@Ryuneko_Gaming 3 роки тому
same here, i got so mad watching that
@BevBev009
@BevBev009 3 роки тому
They used to tell me that too. Like I can't pay attention unless some other part of my body is distracted by doing something else. That's why I have a fidget cube
@crystal-ds1uj
@crystal-ds1uj 3 роки тому
Me having Adhd watchig this My brain: double adhd
@bonniemarano115
@bonniemarano115 3 роки тому
I felt the exact same way just now.
@iliterallydontknow7783
@iliterallydontknow7783 3 роки тому
ADHD 2.0
@uncodedaqeel6115
@uncodedaqeel6115 3 роки тому
ADHD^2
@jaelldiaz0608
@jaelldiaz0608 3 роки тому
I felt this lol
@basileverlasting7415
@basileverlasting7415 3 роки тому
100% felt this lmao
@meowxgamingstuff
@meowxgamingstuff 6 місяців тому
I cried, it's extremely hard to explain these to people. Not even parents. Thanks for making this remarkable video. I hope you are doing great with your life.
@rainbowunicorngirl2187
@rainbowunicorngirl2187 6 місяців тому
my dad says “you don’t have adhd, you’re smart and you have excellent grades.” EXCUSE ME, WHAT?!?! i do have adhd. What do my grades have to do with a disorder? 😢
@fantomas1770
@fantomas1770 6 місяців тому
@@rainbowunicorngirl2187 get diagnosed first
@Got_Ghosted
@Got_Ghosted 4 місяці тому
I'm diagnosed with adhd along with a few other things, and this video is dead on. The school scene hit home or me. all grades up until 11 i couldn't sit still or focus. I've worked on bettering myself, have even stopped taking meds but its still difficult staying in control and not losing "focus" and I love how this video is a voice for so many in the same situation, It shows none of us are alone.
@mac.book0387
@mac.book0387 3 роки тому
Anybody else have the “if you can focus for the next half hour” stuck in their head?
@ajrainbowraz5558
@ajrainbowraz5558 3 роки тому
Nah I forgot the teacher even said that till the end of the video, where they replayed the sounds
@somewhereovertherainbow88
@somewhereovertherainbow88 3 роки тому
yes
@zer0x715
@zer0x715 3 роки тому
I wonder what the teacher said after that ._, Kinda wanna know lmao
@nothing7177
@nothing7177 3 роки тому
I like your username
@evie4602
@evie4602 3 роки тому
i've got the tree leaves rustling
@gracedrewicz2810
@gracedrewicz2810 3 роки тому
Does anyone else have to do like 2 other things while they’re doing something so they can pay better attention to the one thing? I hope that was understandable lol
@Batmantherealbatman
@Batmantherealbatman 3 роки тому
MEEEEEEEE!!! while reading this comment I was playing with a smarties wrapper and watching the video!!!
@alexfinechi2497
@alexfinechi2497 3 роки тому
I have to draw or else I’ll never be able to fully listen and understand something
@Batmantherealbatman
@Batmantherealbatman 3 роки тому
@@alexfinechi2497 same!
@goldon_sunflower2848
@goldon_sunflower2848 3 роки тому
The thing about me is that my mom doesn't let me have gum and some of the times I listen but TBH I think she gave up ok so feel me if this is with any other people with Adhd cuz I used to have 12 diffrint prescription in 2 or 3 years idk I make no sense lol
@thankyou62
@thankyou62 3 роки тому
Yes. I read and walk at the same time. I also like to walk and pray the rosary at the same time.
@Private_Frenchy
@Private_Frenchy 6 місяців тому
As someone who is ADHD this is the most accurate video I ever seen. It took me 4 time to re watch this video again, cause I can't force myself to focus it after all, while I just kept the video playing then I go walk around maybe look outside the window, maybe close the video, and go do something else. Or maybe I thinking about something else in mind, and then I forgot which part of the video I watching right now. And then restart the video to watch it again.
@josebuiderall5905
@josebuiderall5905 6 місяців тому
Oh my god, I'm tearing right now, this is the summary of my life, I had never seen something so accurate.
@kuremakairi5920
@kuremakairi5920 3 роки тому
SINCE IM NOT REALLY PAYING ATTENTION TO THE VIDEO, DID YOU SEE HIS BASKETBALL SKILLS LIKE DAMN HE ON A MICHAEL JORDAN LEVEL
@serenitymorgan8371
@serenitymorgan8371 3 роки тому
DUDE I KNOW RIGHT
@tir3d_al1za
@tir3d_al1za 3 роки тому
I WAS LITERALLY LIKE DAAAAAMN OKAY SHIT
@Charlie..22
@Charlie..22 3 роки тому
YEH I WAS SHOOK
@khaozxx
@khaozxx 3 роки тому
TRUEEE
@A_e.00s
@A_e.00s 3 роки тому
A day in the life of Michael Jordan's white son
@mayaanastasiayoung6739
@mayaanastasiayoung6739 4 роки тому
I hate getting yelled at for forgetting. At the end of the day it is my fault but at the same time I can’t help it. It’s so frustrating
@anayaj7163
@anayaj7163 3 роки тому
not really your fault
@worm7899
@worm7899 3 роки тому
This is me everyday, and my parents also do that!!
@SpookaySpctr
@SpookaySpctr 3 роки тому
Man I relate, I try so hard to study sometimes but I just cant focus
@thisismyaltyaccount5727
@thisismyaltyaccount5727 3 роки тому
Same. I don't have adhd though. Just a crappy memory.
@Athena-hq4cp
@Athena-hq4cp 3 роки тому
@@thisismyaltyaccount5727 me too..
@-Investia
@-Investia 6 місяців тому
This Is actually very accurate, I mean, not 100% like it is for me, but that's expected because it differs case by case. Very well done, captured something that is sometimes considered difficult to portray or understand.
@johnins0mnia584
@johnins0mnia584 7 місяців тому
This has become one of my favorite videos I've seen on UKposts. Very good short film.
@datgamerian
@datgamerian 4 роки тому
Telling someone with ADHD to "just focus" is like telling someone who is paralyzed to "just move"
@waterwolfyxx727
@waterwolfyxx727 3 роки тому
OOF felt that XD
@rylierylierylie
@rylierylierylie 3 роки тому
i guess i mean thats an extreme comparison but yeah
@vixymix101
@vixymix101 3 роки тому
@@rylierylierylie it's the same thing tho
@rylierylierylie
@rylierylierylie 3 роки тому
@@vixymix101 i mean i have mild to severe adhd and if you yelled at me enough i could focus i think idrk to be honest thats just a hypothesis but if you yelled at a paralyzed person they could still never move
@vixymix101
@vixymix101 3 роки тому
@@rylierylierylie yeah that's called manipulation-- and it doesn't last very long and leaves you with a very upsetting feeling. It doesn't actually work, it's just making someone upset.
@justit1074
@justit1074 Рік тому
- forgetfulness - easily distracted - constant daydreaming - mind stuck on a catchy tune - fidgeting/restlessness - poor sense of time - anxiety - constantly awake at night deep in thoughts, replaying stressful episodes yeah this is me, this sums up my life perfectly
@abhimanyujain2991
@abhimanyujain2991 Рік тому
@@theangstygayhouse i have adhd and this was accurate asf but is asd like this too or are there any differences?
@Mimix-o
@Mimix-o Рік тому
I don’t have adhd but this applies to me sometimes in my daily life I’m austic though I can’t spell 😓 autistic
@baconpenguin5405
@baconpenguin5405 Рік тому
I have ADD and this sums up my life perfectly
@melonicpc5329
@melonicpc5329 Рік тому
@@theangstygayhousei have to deal with both ASD and ADHD😢
@coolboi1232
@coolboi1232 Рік тому
Yes
@wockhardt666
@wockhardt666 6 місяців тому
the best thing is that video was 99% some class project, big respect
@gab71221
@gab71221 День тому
I remember seeing this video and thinking how relatable it is, two days ago I finally get my diagnose of ADHD, thanks for representing this so well.
@thatkidnamejaky
@thatkidnamejaky 3 роки тому
I hate when People without ADHD especially parents and teachers tell me I’m not trying or I need to focus or i need to Focus on them or I should stop fiddling around like I’m doing it on purpose like I’m not it just helps me concentrate I can be fiddling with something and listen to you at the same time
@CallmeBrick
@CallmeBrick 3 роки тому
I TELL THAT TO PEOPLE ALL THE TIME
@liongames2594
@liongames2594 3 роки тому
They will never understand us 😔
@holhorse9283
@holhorse9283 3 роки тому
Teachers piss me off the most
@TheRadioactiveBanana32
@TheRadioactiveBanana32 3 роки тому
I have moslty the hyperactive part of adhd the fiddling a lot... teachers get mad over me fidgeting with stuff all the tyme
@rxttxn
@rxttxn 3 роки тому
i have adhd and unfortunately i'm dyslexic too so i didn't understand shit about what i just read
@sqrel5109
@sqrel5109 4 роки тому
It's weird I have been diagnosed with adhd and can never remember anything someone just told me but I remember thing from months and years ago
@christianaeden3172
@christianaeden3172 3 роки тому
I have the same problem. I was diagnosed with adhd at a very young age and I’m now 17.
@j.pnewcomer1069
@j.pnewcomer1069 3 роки тому
Yeah my short term memory is terrible too
@blob8152
@blob8152 3 роки тому
Thats kinda how it is, you can remember things from a long time ago but not what you did yesterday or a couple minutes ago Well thats how it is for me Also sorry for bad wording- I just can't think of another way to say it, and I know its not what adhd
@externalisopod3877
@externalisopod3877 3 роки тому
I REMEMBER DOING MY MATH HOMEWORK FROM WHEN I WAS 5 FUCKING YEARS OLD BUT I CANT REMEMBER MY CHORES FOR THE DAY
@burntblueberrywaffles
@burntblueberrywaffles 3 роки тому
That’s because we have great long term memory, but terrible short term memory
@nov1cee
@nov1cee 6 місяців тому
I don’t want anyone to feel bad or think i am trying to make you feel bad, I just want to say it’s very VERY relatable, im only 11 years old and it’s so hard to do anything, if I tell my parents that I think I have adhd they just go “well then we probably need to take you to the doctor or get a therapist” and I just don’t want to, almost nobody understands me or takes me seriously and I don’t want help from a therapist or doctor, when I go to school I always click my fingers on the desk and fiddle with anything I can find. It makes it so hard to do anything because nobody understands, I’m not even 100% sure I have adhd and I don’t want to express my feelings to anyone afraid I have to do something I don’t want to do. I know I talked a lot but it feels like a good moment to express my feelings, thanks for reading this message if you even did.
@tunpyaethuta1918
@tunpyaethuta1918 7 місяців тому
hearing random stuffs u heard throughout the day plus new convos that u imagine of before u sleep rapidly is so relatable i do that every single night and always thought it was normal
@nostalgia831
@nostalgia831 3 роки тому
Upon seeing this video, I went up to my mom and expressed to her that I think I have ADHD. She literally looked at me and said, I quote, “You are just realizing this now?”. Thanks mom.
@clatyra2473
@clatyra2473 3 роки тому
I know right, Im scared to tell my mom I have adhd bc I never knew about this, I thought it was normal or me being careless and stupid. Her answer is most likely, “No you dint have Adhd, Your just out of you’re mind.” Like.
@ninac9294
@ninac9294 3 роки тому
@@clatyra2473 i was talking to my friend about how i had all these issues in class and she told me i might have adhd/add. i brought it up with my parents and at first all they said was “no you don’t, your just lazy” eventually after a lot of convincing, and mainly talking to my mom, i got an appointment with my doctor and i was diagnosed. the best thing you can do is just try, it’s not easy but it’s worth a shot.
@jacqfont9
@jacqfont9 3 роки тому
Its not a bad thing 💕
@NighttimeDaydreams
@NighttimeDaydreams 3 роки тому
Wow. I wish it was that way with me. XD My family doesn't really seem to know much about ADHD, despite the fact that it's obvious both my mom and grandma have it. Neither of them have been diagnosed, and neither have I, and it's horrible. I hate feeling like I'm making excuses. But at least I understand myself and them a little better, now that I've learned about it!
@celticcheetah6371
@celticcheetah6371 3 роки тому
Ah, guys I really feel for all of you. I didn’t get diagnosed until I was 27. Had some painful conversations with my family after that. Maybe if you guys are at school and have a teacher you trust at school you could tell them and ask if you can see someone at school about it? Then maybe the school could go to your parents about it - they might take it seriously if it came from someone ‘official’.
@dionemartins0212
@dionemartins0212 3 роки тому
Untrue. I have adhd and I don't have the height of a door
@MarchSomething
@MarchSomething 3 роки тому
ikr? So unrealistic xd
@sxgar.t33th40
@sxgar.t33th40 3 роки тому
@@MarchSomething kazuichi wtf are you doing here-
@dove3015
@dove3015 3 роки тому
lmaooo I'm 5'2 and that's the same thing I throught
@himikoyonaga3065
@himikoyonaga3065 3 роки тому
@@MarchSomething what are you doing here aren't you supposed to be with Sonia Nevermind
@MarchSomething
@MarchSomething 3 роки тому
@@himikoyonaga3065 Nah she went for Hamster Man
@osaka_blyat
@osaka_blyat 6 місяців тому
Never been diagnosed with ADHD or something, but this is exactly what happens to me. And I thought this was normal to everyone...
@R_.709
@R_.709 2 місяці тому
Man that sucks. I thought I had ADHD but fortunately, I was wrong. I don't have problems focusing on the moment but "Earlier events replaying in the mind" haunts me especially the embarrassing ones always replay in my mind whenever I try to sleep.
@irrisichide99
@irrisichide99 4 роки тому
" need a hearing aid? " " this isn't the first time you've forgotten" " something interesting there?" All too familiar...
@dmulqueen2k17
@dmulqueen2k17 4 роки тому
Exactly the same 😂
@bethanynolastnamelol1942
@bethanynolastnamelol1942 4 роки тому
Bir the Mothbat “why are you just looking out the window like that” “She sees demons!” “You need to focus and stop looking at your paper like that” “Do I need to send you out the classroom?”
@chuaagga2830
@chuaagga2830 4 роки тому
I have 2020 hearing and cant hear shit
@D-Ace-jg5lc
@D-Ace-jg5lc 4 роки тому
“Why are you staring at the wall?” “What’s with the bouncing leg?” And the all too familiar “I gave you one job, one.” You know where it’s going
@cjk705
@cjk705 4 роки тому
I wish a hearing aid would help tbh😭 i just feel bad or i only understand what someones said when convos basically over
@therrmal
@therrmal 4 роки тому
*TrY tO fOcUs* Man i hate when people say that
@ouitk3317
@ouitk3317 4 роки тому
Same
@Sunnie_0
@Sunnie_0 4 роки тому
Therrmal a real pet peeve if you ask me
@waaromgames7213
@waaromgames7213 4 роки тому
Therrmal it’s like you can for that one minute and mostly miss actualy the important stuff.
@therrmal
@therrmal 4 роки тому
Princess Rainbow Swirls UwU nah I actually have ADHD just one of the one things I hate because lot of my friends don’t know I have it
@Sunnie_0
@Sunnie_0 4 роки тому
Therrmal ok
@J1407b_slugcat
@J1407b_slugcat 4 місяці тому
Sometimes I watch YT in my mind during boring classes. ADHD has it’s perks. Sometimes people think I’m annoying because I say things 20000 times.
@halalskahe
@halalskahe 7 місяців тому
Telling someone with adhd : 'Focus' + telling a blind person to 'See' = the same thing
@laurenh1054
@laurenh1054 4 роки тому
"Im trying" "No. No you're not" this part hurts. because it's so true that nobody else can see how hard you're trying so they don't believe you are. it hurts when you try your very best but people only seem to notice your shortcomings.
@wolfy-chan4303
@wolfy-chan4303 4 роки тому
Lauren please calm down that’s my father... people say I’m careless but I try so hard to not be and I forget so much but I try my hardest...
@dystopiandownfall9188
@dystopiandownfall9188 4 роки тому
I felt that. ._.
@thatsavage1202
@thatsavage1202 4 роки тому
My stepdad
@prodbyscythe
@prodbyscythe 4 роки тому
that's me, i'm all like "i'm trying" but no one believes
@user-od4hw2cl3m
@user-od4hw2cl3m 4 роки тому
i read this at the exact same time of the video
@allmusic221
@allmusic221 5 років тому
If you got anxiety ADHD intensifies it. Its like living in hell
@5iver580
@5iver580 5 років тому
yeh lol I'm pretty sure i have anxiety and also depression from adhd
@spammerspammer-fs5hj
@spammerspammer-fs5hj 5 років тому
I have ADHD anxiety and autism
@hallowoct9630
@hallowoct9630 5 років тому
Yup ADHD Depression Anxiety and Social Anxiety when im at my worst.
@arcturus9317
@arcturus9317 5 років тому
All Music haha yeah I have it it’s living hell to me
@superptmgreat382
@superptmgreat382 5 років тому
All Music I have both and your true it’s a hell
@foxxeysout4084
@foxxeysout4084 14 годин тому
Great representation. And the way nobody even cares, even licensed professionals. Because so many kids out there who want to self diagnose because they need attention make real adhd victims seem just fine
@birdyboi123
@birdyboi123 Місяць тому
I have ADHD myself and this is actually pretty accurate.
@winterwolf0100
@winterwolf0100 3 роки тому
I have never been able to explain how my brain can have multiple noises playing in short loops on repeat to the point where I start crying because I wish it would just *stop* for a minute. This video captures it perfectly.
@Nina-dk1sb
@Nina-dk1sb 3 роки тому
+ music playing in the background in your head
@Nina-dk1sb
@Nina-dk1sb 3 роки тому
@Dangmanchillitsjustatroll Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. It can be very tiring at times.
@winterwolf0100
@winterwolf0100 3 роки тому
@@ihwa1243 that happens to me all the time. 😭
@averywatkins7733
@averywatkins7733 3 роки тому
it’s so bad when i hear a noise that makes me twitch and it keeps replaying in my head and i keep twitching
@cathorion8137
@cathorion8137 3 роки тому
@@Nina-dk1sb Especially when you want to fall asleep and your mind picks the most upbeat songs to play
@shoomboom
@shoomboom 3 роки тому
-I'm trying =no you're not! this hurts man it HURTS SO MUCH!
@richiemcconnochie2506
@richiemcconnochie2506 3 роки тому
Show your mom this video..it's a cure...it works real fast..ukposts.info/have/v-deo/oqR_n6WOsY51kmg.html
@cohibarico
@cohibarico 3 роки тому
ADHD is not even real. It just means we’re not robots and we’re a bit self centered in things we feel are more important to our lively hood then MAKING SURE I BRJNG THE MILK FOR YOUR ROBOTICLY SCHEDULED TEA TIME IM OVER IT ADHD ISNT THE LROBLEM THE WORLD IS
@strawberrymilk6720
@strawberrymilk6720 3 роки тому
@@cohibarico bud, as someone with diagnosed adhd, adhd is definitely a massive part of the problem. it exists, and it isnt us being "a bit self centered in things we feel are more important" or more entertaining. there are definitely some societal issues in our day to day lives, but ifs incredibly invalidating and hard to hear people say that adhd "doesnt exist" or isnt a problem. (also sorry if you were joking or something, im bad at social cues, especially in text. i think i got what you were saying though)
@zorronegro229
@zorronegro229 3 роки тому
You and me both
@soroly_1111
@soroly_1111 6 місяців тому
I cried..why won't my parents and teacher understand I CANT FOCUS,even if I try.. The "no you're not" made me cry.
@doomepic
@doomepic 2 місяці тому
Holy crap this is so relatable and nobody understands unless they have it :/ Although I don't have that time skipping thing (or at least its not that present, maybe happened some times), it is so difficult to focus on something or on what people are saying and it becomes really weird to tell them that you "didnt hear them properly" when you looked straight at them the whole time. Its like you dont understand the words... A great video right here!
@ZeppelinPietrPryor
@ZeppelinPietrPryor 2 роки тому
The “you’re not trying” cuts like a knife other favorites include “you’re just making excuses” and “if you actually cared it wouldn’t be so hard”
@popcorn_detective0452
@popcorn_detective0452 2 роки тому
God ive herd those phrases so many time
@Life-uu5yo
@Life-uu5yo 2 роки тому
Or “you’re just being lazy.”
@seether7063
@seether7063 2 роки тому
Why Is This Relatable…
@birdie8006
@birdie8006 2 роки тому
@@Life-uu5yo came here to say this one! I was called lazy forever by my parents.
@1nsertusername
@1nsertusername 2 роки тому
Yes... true :(
@johnwilliams919
@johnwilliams919 3 роки тому
The scary part is the cuts in time. My life has flown by and continues to fly by. Days feel like minutes unless im bored or off my meds.
@shanemiller346
@shanemiller346 3 роки тому
I agree I don't like it it makes me sad
@nopenope3468
@nopenope3468 3 роки тому
I have adhd and you are right but i dont take meds my mom thinks its for the dest i lern how to handle it lol
@EUOTRICHOR
@EUOTRICHOR 3 роки тому
ikr, sometimes i dont even know if the day is the same or a different day alot and it happens alot where it feels like its been two seperate days when its just been the same or something /srs
@brookedanneker8963
@brookedanneker8963 3 роки тому
@@nopenope3468 You can definitely learn ways to cope and add a healthy amount of structure to your life but for a lot of people, meds are really necessary for them to begin working on other ways of treatment. it often makes adhd much more manageable when you take meds that give your brain the right amount of dopamine so you can better regulate your attention and emotions. talk to your mom because if meds are what works best for you there shouldn’t be a level of shame around that.💕💕
@MasterKushPlant420
@MasterKushPlant420 3 роки тому
@@nopenope3468 Brooke D is right. Our parents like to think they always know what’s best for us in order to raise us the best they can. They have to be super confident in order to do so. I am here to say that sometimes they do not always know what’s best for you. In some cases it truly makes sense to ask for help. No shame in that. Wish I could have learned that at a much younger age. I can definitely relate to you. Hope this helps :D
@user-gk6rz1it6n
@user-gk6rz1it6n 6 місяців тому
I’m a 14 year old boy who has ADHD and I feel this boy in the video. I forget things I can’t sleep and generally I have a rough times with ADHD and I had to deal with depression and Anxiety. But now I’m better.❤
@thesaphalt6757
@thesaphalt6757 5 місяців тому
god this is litterally the embodiment of my life i used to think i was just dumb or weird but this helped me understand way better '
@WirelessC0ff33
@WirelessC0ff33 4 роки тому
That last part when u cant sleep cause of every distraction that bother you at the end of the day and ur bother by it causing you to suffer from insomnia dam...this is just too accurate...
@franticdoodles8516
@franticdoodles8516 3 роки тому
TwT to true
@oliviaidk454
@oliviaidk454 3 роки тому
True. I couldn't fucking sleep bc I kept daydreaming and I just felt restless.
@goldon_sunflower2848
@goldon_sunflower2848 3 роки тому
I haven't slept till 2 3 or 4 the last few days
@j.pnewcomer1069
@j.pnewcomer1069 3 роки тому
It used to be such a problem for me especially since I open a restaurant early in the mornings, now I take those Z-Quill vitamins and I'm out in like 30 minutes
@user-kz8cp4rh8j
@user-kz8cp4rh8j 3 роки тому
it's so hard to sleep from my adhd, I take medicine to sleep but at the end of the day it just comes down to my adhd
I spent a day with people w/ ADHD
22:10
AnthonyPadilla
Переглядів 3,6 млн
Being Married To Someone With ADHD
15:36
Drew Lynch
Переглядів 3,4 млн
[실시간] 전철에서 찍힌 기생생물 감염 장면 | 기생수: 더 그레이
00:15
Netflix Korea 넷플릭스 코리아
Переглядів 38 млн
ДРУГА РЕПЕТИЦІЯ alyona alyona та Jerry Heil на сцені Євробачення-2024
00:34
Євробачення Україна | Eurovision Ukraine official
Переглядів 84 тис.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder: Through my eyes
7:46
Demystifying Medicine McMaster
Переглядів 9 млн
What If You Take ADHD Drugs But You Don’t Have ADHD?
12:08
Above The Noise
Переглядів 1,6 млн
adhd
5:44
Ice Cream Sandwich
Переглядів 7 млн
How To Know If You Have ADHD
5:12
nigahiga
Переглядів 15 млн
SCHIZOPHRENIC EPISODE ON CAMERA
11:41
Schizoin Through Life
Переглядів 11 млн
6 Signs and Symptoms Of ADHD
5:09
Psych2Go
Переглядів 3,6 млн
ADHD sucks, but not really | Salif Mahamane | TEDxUSU
13:23
TEDx Talks
Переглядів 3 млн
Reacting to ADHD in the Media
13:58
How to ADHD
Переглядів 521 тис.
ADHD but medicated
7:55
Ice Cream Sandwich
Переглядів 6 млн
What's Your ADHD Type ? - With Symptoms Examples 👀
6:15
The Mini ADHD Coach
Переглядів 864 тис.
My Rural Life Xiao Anzi Tianlang Team Boge Tianlang Team Xiao Wu Ya Tianlang Team
0:22
Quarrel King Sirius Team
Переглядів 18 млн
странный пациент
1:00
Victoria_Malvinka
Переглядів 1,5 млн
My Rural Life Xiao Anzi Tianlang Team Boge Tianlang Team Xiao Wu Ya Tianlang Team
0:22
Quarrel King Sirius Team
Переглядів 18 млн