I've started entering rooms like Clooney on Letterman--slowly while waving and pointing at people.

If only the room I enter had an audience applauding so I could actually point and wave...

How to be effortlessly charming while I'm putting effort into learning how to be charming

This site is literally fixing my aspergers. Ive learned more about reading body language in just a few short months watching these videos than all the years of socializing i have done so far. Thank you COC.

Laughing eyes: This is how you do it Me: Laughs loudly while staring right into the persons soul

"How to be Effortlessly Charming?" Step 1 : Be George Clooney Me : "Aight! Ima head out"

I can not over-emphasise how positively this channel has affected me!

Some NOTES here 1. FOCUS ON SETTING THE TONE: Pick one tone that suits you best. First 10-20 sec of any new interaction or place rather than worrying about what to say next focus on setting the tone. It could be Touch, greeting loudly, energetic, raise hand, smile. 2. LAUGHING WITH YOUR EYES: Get emotionally involved in what you saying that way it’s real fun for you. That way your eyes will naturally goto that laughing look 3. GENUINE EYE-CONTACT: After looking away - return your eyes to the person that you are speaking to that way they feel involved. Deliver strong eye-contact during the punchline. 4. TEASNG AND LAUGHING AT PEOPLE VS COMPLIMENT OTHERS AND SELF DEPRECATING HUMOR: Make a humor of people with same status. Compliment people who are below & above you. 5. GOAL SHOULD BE TO FEEL GOOD: Ultimate goal of conversation shouldn’t be look charming. Ask yourself what would make this conversation more fun. As always, my passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries.✌ Lets make it effortless😃

1:52 “the energy at the start of an interaction counts for far more than the specific words you say” so this is what you need to improve FIRST

It's all about being you in any environment and being strong enough internally to not depend on others for value (keep your frame) - all while being refined and sophisticated. All of this will keep you from looking like you want attention. Those with high value don't feel the need to take on crazy styles or seek shock value from their statements. People notice when you are trying to get attention (crazy hair style and then pretending like you're just "expressing yourself," shock-value statements not based on you being honest but to try to bring attention to yourself). If you have real confidence, you don't seek it in artificial ways and know that it will come naturally. Seeking it artificially actually just makes you look desperate to seem cool or "different," or whatever. Self-belief says, "I don't have to do something outlandish to seek attention. In fact, I don't have to seek attention. I receive it naturally."

What's amazing about George Clooney's charisma is much of it can be used by naturally introverted people. The subtleties without needing to make large gestures is hugely beneficial. It's qualities I've learnt to apply in my own life

When you smile “for real” with your eyes that will make you seem more genuine AND charming. 😄

Just chill out and get comfortable like George Clooney.

I know some friends of friends who actually know George. They've said the reason people enjoy talking to him is if you're 1 on 1, he makes you feel like you're the only 1 in the room. He holds your eyes, smiles easily, and his self-deprecating humor. He likes people and is still friends, at 60 something, with his high school friends after 40 some years so he's very down to earth. They say he's not stuck up or star like. His personality is charming but it's how he treats others well and enjoys talking to people.

I’ve been binge watching your videos for a couple weeks and I can honestly say that in this short amount of time, my issues with social anxiety have already improved quite a bit. Within a few days of applying a couple of these habits, I’ve noticed that I’m a lot more at ease in conversation with both strangers and people I already know. I’ve also noticed that my relationships with people at work (including bosses) have been blossoming and people are starting to show me more respect. I feel like my job performance has been steadily improving as well. It’s honestly mindblowing how a change in mindset can make a world of difference. Not every day is perfect though, I occasionally slip back into moments of self doubt or anxiousness and it’s not always easy to rebound, but the more I keep working at it and making an effort to implement what I’m learning, it keeps getting easier to bounce back. I’m so grateful that I’ve found this channel and I can’t wait for what’s in store for me and the people around me! Thank you so much

1. Set the tone. Entering the room. Basically linger and smile as well as greet everyone in the room. First 10-20 seconds SET THE TONE! 2. Physical Placing = leads to physiological comfort and makes you feel like you’re in your own living room. Crossing legs and being open. 3. Laugh with your eyes. Get emotionally involved without your saying. 4. Genuine eye contact = looking down whilst creating thought is normal. Yet after gathering thoughts, make eye contact often. Best time to deliver eye contact is in most important moment. Makes strong eye contact during punch line

Your tips on mentality/tone and eye contact are really helping me here. I have been watching your channel since I got diagnosed with ASD and it has really helped me relate to and feel comfortable around normal(neurotypical) people a lot more. Thank you very much :D

These things are largely social manners that gave been lost in the online generation. I've lost a lot of it myself due to it being easier not to engage with everyone. These are great videos and much needed.

his voice is incredible, that is a lot of success.

His voice does half the job

Next time I walk on stage to a cheering crowd I'll be sure to acknowledge the audience with a wave and smile

This channel has helped so much, at home and school! I have really good conversations with people and also know how to deal with people who pointlessly argue now:) cannot thank you enough

Props to you for saving your advertisement to last so people get to choose between watching it or liking and leaving. It goes to show how authentic you are.

Thanks, I'll definitely remember all that next time I'm on a national talk show.

I love your video style. Not only do you give good tips but you back them up with great examples. Keep it up!

Step 1 smile be warm friendly and relaxed. Makes everyone else feel the same. Step 2. Be engaging, tease, make jokes and compliment depending on your evaluation of the other's ego. Step 3 Enjoy yourself, leave on a high to get others wanting more of a fix of you for making Them feel good in one way or another.

I’ve been told often how (a little) charming I am and I do a lot of these things in the ways you’ve explained. Now obviously, I’m not George Clooney but this was a great breakdown of what works and why. The point about making yourself comfortable - that’s a big one, I notice how dry I get when I’ve not taken the time to set the frame of interactions.

Maybe the interviewer smiled and laughed along with him because 1) its her job 2) its George Clooney and 3) He is good looking

My friends say that I’m really charming and I watched this video to see how charming I am. I’ve been doing all of this stuff my whole life 😎

1:05 Even David Letterman is jealous of George's charm hahaha

This lesson was a great reminder in what the primary goal is within a social interaction: to feel good with, and around others. Because we all want to have a good time with friends and the people we want to be around, and sometimes the most obvious takeaway is the most poignant. Once I started the habit of imagining everyone in a room that I’m walking into is talking about me with cheer and excitement, it helps all the techniques taught here regarding how to enter a room come a lot more naturally.

wow, I never noticed him really. Now I love this man, thanks for showcasing what a gentleman he is!

People tell me, mostly men, they love my energy. I think it's the same thing as this video explains. I'm in sales and I find it so much fun interacting with people. I love to breakdown the customers who have that "leave me alone" mentality and see how fast I can convert them over to me. It's a fun challenge and it makes everyday an adventure!

I think being genuine is a critical component here. I had the pleasure of playing a part in the George Cooney movie, 'Up in the Air!'. He was equally pleasant to every person in the room--whether cast member, crew, or those serving food. Being genuine and being genuinely nice to others goes a long way. Inside note about Mr. Clooney: He is a good natured prankster! Always with a smile. Always with respect.

I used this at my gfs work event and when u have this mindset I swear social situations become so much more rewarding and just fun

You just made me realize why I have so many problems at work. My colleague think/feel I am on an above level or status and they feel I am bullying them when what I feel is quite the opposite and I just joke because under no circumstances I don't feel myself better.. I mean thank you.. I know how it sounds when I put it on words, but it suddenly make so much sense...

Step One: stop comparing your looks to George's

* enters the room * * points and waves to my fish * My fish: Me: My fish: Me: Yeah. You're right..

Your analyses are so well thought-out AND, even better, I love that you pair with really strong specific examples! Quickkkkk subscribe

I can't tell that this channel helps me at all but it is really entertaining and I appreciate a good analysis (also editing gets more and more smooth, even somewhat satisfying, that's great)

The best compliment I ever got in my life was 3-4 years ago when I was in my early forties. My girlfriend's young co worker told her that she thought I looked like George Clooney. While not even close to the truth it made me feel great, charming, debonair and confident. Whenever I'm faced with a new social challenge like a job interview or meeting the gf's parents etc, I say to myself. "I am George Clooney". In a Michael Keaton's Batman voice. I always laugh of loud at the obsurdity of that statement but laughing at myself calms me, puts me in a relaxed frame of mind and a relaxed/jovial mood that transfers into my mannerisms. From there it's almost second nature to be charming and charismatic. Confidence is key as they say. Now I'm an introvert with a touch of social anxiety to boot. For 40 years I lacked confidence in myself and that showed in everything I did. I've been able to change my situation in life for the better. My confidence has grown tremendously with each new success and I don't need to say this ridiculous thing anymore to have charisma but you know what? I still do, every single day. It's important to me to stay grounded and true to what got me to where I am today.

Being rich, famous, and handsome is the missing half of the equation

It's all about feeling totally confident about yourself. And being humble and kind.

comfort and feeling good. got it. thanks for the inspiration. George is the buddy that everybody would love to have.

4:55 - Hacer contacto visual cuando digamos lo más gracioso o interesante. Pero no todo el rato, hay que mirar hacia abajo también y hacer contacto visual de vez en cuando para que el otro se sienta en la conversación. 5:58 - Saber equilibrar lo de reírse y juzgar a la gente (sin que se ofenda) y lo de dar cumplidos y se reirse de el mismo

Emilia Clarke is a great example of smiling with your eyes😍

This Channel taught me that charm is an acquired trait and not an inherited one :)..btw guys love the little animations thrown in like the boomerang

Great video! Thank you for that! I really like your point you made about its all about being comfortable and how you make others comfortable. I need to keep that angle in mind and ask myself in every social scenario if the situation is comfortable.

Let’s see some Charisma University testimonials in a video format so we can judge their newfound charisma ourselves lol

Also, practice. GC has been doing his thing for a long time, look at the range of clips. Hard to be surprised or uncomfortable when you've been practically working on charm for ages.

Simply put - he's authentically friendly and it shows.

LOVE these vids. Great for my business and my personal life as well. Keep em coming!

As usual, these are great suggestions, but I'm still curious if anyone has actually implemented these strategies successfully? By my count, there are over 300 strategies that have been suggested over the last year that people would need to learn in order to improve themselves in various ways. I think self-improvement is fantastic and I'm glad that there are resources available to help people do that. However, has anyone actually implemented many or most of these strategies and changed their life? I'd love to hear yes! and get great stories and anecdotes! Ultimately, I think it is mind-set. If you have a positive and optimistic mind-set and engage in realistic and rational self-talk and minimize negative self-talk you will be just fine 90% of the time. The additional 10% might include learning specific skills such as being more assertive, but what you think impacts how your feel and how you act.

Please do a video on John Krasinski's charisma!

Charisma on Command is so wonderful and you cannot get any better than the Cloonster!!! Great job guys!

I have started walking into my apartment to gentle canned applause. I find it puts me at ease as I cook dinner, which then is applauded further by my wife.

The simple fact that you are watching this video means that you are making the first step to challenge and overcome what's keeping you stuck from succeeding !

In any way of being charismatic, I think being witty is at its core.

CU has helped me become a better police officer. When I'm interviewing/interrogating suspects I really do feel the skills I've learned from here have gotten me to break down those barriers and help them be more comfortable telling me things. it especially has helped with my older population.

Guys (and people in general) who make me feel comfortable are sooo gosh darn attractive; it’s like a lovely cocktail of kindness and gentle confidence ❤️

and it doesn't hurt when you're wildly handsome

Being charming comes from inside. It comes from your attitude and intentions. They guide and control your actions, body language and tone of voice in a way that it charms people. This is not something you can imitate or fake or even create consciously and intentionally.

I was JUST about to look up a video from your channel on charm. THANK YOU!

Worked on a photo shoot with George Clooney. Super nice guy. He made a point to greet and shake hands with everyone on set then personally thank everyone at the end of the day.

Do an Harvey Specter analysis, for owning in any situation.

1. Set the tone to what suits you best so you'll feel comfortable (0:16) 2. Have fun with what you say so your eyes will laugh (2:38) 3. Make sporadic eye contact (show those genuine eyes), especially at the punchline (3:57) 4. Make fun of yourself, tease those at your own or higher status level & support those at a lower status level (5:45) 9. Sum-up (8:51)

Woah, a video with solid science behind it! Good job, Charlie, I enjoyed this one.

With how he hypes up lesser know people but joking puts himself and his contemporaries down is that he understands social ladders within subtext very well. Like he can joke around about him and his contemporaries because at the end of the day they’re still big, mega successful stars, and if he were to do that with interviewers, especially lesser known ones, it would come as a slight. Also him knowing that if he were to do the same about him and his contemporaries, it would give off a similar vibe, but by joking about them, it makes him and the others feel more magnetic takes down that mythical movie star armor which is what the best movie stars do

Qould love to see a Charisma on Command overview of: John Krasinski. Met so many guys like him in school, seemingly so effortlessly cool, gets the girl while somehow being quiet/introverted yet super funny at the same time. Idris Elba: A man's man. Leonardo DiCaprio. He's managed to be bulletproof in his public persona even though he's changed so much. From being the boyish megastar heartthrob, to being a kind of "old" hollywood icon who everybody still loves. Serge Gainsbourg. One of the ugliest men in music, yet was able to get away with proverbial murder and score Jane Birkin. What's his secret??

several other things that help with George Clooney's persona just based on watching this video: 1. the dude looks good. period. women generally don't throw themselves at ugly dudes. 2. he has a very warm, genuine personality. 3. he's very relaxed. whatever he does feels very natural 4. he's accomplished - extensive filmography & other awards.

I believe that every time i watch one of your videos, it helps me become just a little bit of a better person, so thank you! Have you tried simply leaving Charisma University link in the description instead of pitching it in all of your videos? I would advise you to try it, and see how it affects sales :). You might be surprised.

yaaas analysis of George Clooney, nice.

I feel like I'm becoming more and more human as I watch these videos xDD

how to be charming step one: be incredibly handsome

love your ending comment! feel comfortable and have fun not charming others!

Thank you for all the videos! I like them all! I learn english listenning to your videos and they are also so interesting !🙌

His handsomeness gives him a halo effect so people hug him and laugh at his jokes. It is something you can not copy unless you are handsome.

Each day of NoFap increases your charisma bar.

I don’t remember seeing him tense and nervous in public. He must have felt supremely comfortable in his own skin to take on the world in such an ease. I don’t think he’s coasting on his looks. There’s something grounding within him to manifest into how he projects outward.

Love this breakdown on how to do it! 😊

Please make a video on the charisma on Sterling Archer!

Me- *Walks in the room like George Cloony. Everyone in the OR- ......

Yay! I love George Clooney. ❤️❤️❤️

If you are grounded = if you know who you are and you follow your passion you become effortlessly charming! Great video! Love from a small youtuber :)

When I order a big Mac with fries, I always feel very confident.

Summary: Be a genuine human who is having fun. Look people in the eye like a human would. Poke fun at people with equal or higher status than you, don't poke fun at those with lesser status than you. Instead, compliment them and do self-deprecating humor. My Note: If you are not capable of letting loose and being a genuine human and looking people in the eye, then you probably have perfectionism or approval-seeking issues and you need to stop thinking that people are watching and judging you or that anyone gives a crap what you are doing. People are too caught up in their own lives to be watching and judging you... and these people are often too busy being worried about what others are thinking of them to watch and judge you. If you are living for others (approval) and not living for yourself... then you aren't alive at all, are you?

i found treasure as this treasure for my personality development

George Clooney looks so genuine, with thise smile wrinkles around his eyes

Looking like George Clooney probably doesn't hurt, either.

Have you ever considered making a video on Thommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders? I think it could be really interesting.

This is going to change my entire life! Thank you!

That is the definition of a gentleman/lady someone who tries to make those around them comfortable.

can you please do a charisma breakdown on timothée chalamet

If only I was this early in school

Amazing what a difference Christmas makes in your life it's life changing I'm sure it is just watching this video realization of how it changes it someone especially their communication skills

Always informative and thought provoking!

If you know who you are, everything flows from that. You can be ugly or handsome, just be yourself. Be honest and care about everyone else instead of yourself.

>be rich >be handsome >be George Clooney

THANK YOU MR CHARISMA ON COMMAND

Man!! He is so charistmaic!!💖💖