High Value Frames: Make People Respect You

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Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world.
So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone.
4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult.
5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress.
8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario.
9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.
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@yummyEnchilada
@yummyEnchilada 4 роки тому
Me: "Here's whats going to happen, you give me a raise and..." Boss: "You're fired"
@JamesRDavenport
@JamesRDavenport 4 роки тому
My reply: You just screwed yourself for the next two months. Good luck training that army 1 week wonders to do for a day half assed what I did for years with awesomeness. Enjoy your shlubs!
@alangc76
@alangc76 4 роки тому
lol
@LawinReborn
@LawinReborn 4 роки тому
They key is to be so good that they cant fire you
@brandonbaza1639
@brandonbaza1639 4 роки тому
@@LawinReborn I agree, if you consolidate your power base early on, then you'll be too good to be fired and firing you would dilute the quality of your business firm
@RamloghunLuv
@RamloghunLuv 4 роки тому
This phrase demands a crucial position in the workplace. Referring that you are among the pivotal element in the office ,this line works like a charm. Anything can be imposed or said but depends on what is your status and how you make it sound to the listener.
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 роки тому
Stay calm when others are freaking out. Learn to control your emotions.
@elektrotehnik94
@elektrotehnik94 4 роки тому
Better yet; detach your mind, from your emotions. Look at your emotions from outside, evaluate them. Have a quick think if reacting instinctively (with emotions) will help you in this situation. You will find quite often there is a better way, with more calm and reason :)
@PhantomAyz
@PhantomAyz 4 роки тому
You can't control your emotions, but you can control how you act
@tjz6202
@tjz6202 4 роки тому
@@elektrotehnik94 Exactly this
@numeekune1398
@numeekune1398 4 роки тому
And do the oposite when they being calm. They will take you serious and start thinking you must be upset because they do something wrong even they don't.
@potmki6601
@potmki6601 4 роки тому
Yet another basic line or quote from self-promoting guru. Get outta here
@jackiemarie9008
@jackiemarie9008 4 роки тому
when harvey mentions the queen of england without knowing that she’s rachel’s soon to be grandma in law
@josmarleiva6845
@josmarleiva6845 4 роки тому
They knew. It's called predictive programming.
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 4 роки тому
@@josmarleiva6845 and yours is called "mental illness"
@mrg2235
@mrg2235 3 роки тому
Really guys
@ryliek6832
@ryliek6832 3 роки тому
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 that made me laugh out loud
@EastAngliasFinest
@EastAngliasFinest 3 роки тому
@@josmarleiva6845 At least you are awake.
@ayubm9196
@ayubm9196 3 роки тому
Harvey is the definition of confidence - this man should’ve won an award for this show!
@tabeabussmann
@tabeabussmann 2 роки тому
And hes so hot🥲
@ronneilbrown9816
@ronneilbrown9816 2 роки тому
Definitely agree
@aniket987
@aniket987 2 роки тому
What show is it?
@stevepurple3178
@stevepurple3178 2 роки тому
@@aniket987 Suits
@AshrafKhan-nm5wc
@AshrafKhan-nm5wc 2 роки тому
Fuckin crazy show
@titlespree
@titlespree 4 роки тому
To build real self confidence that is effortless and lasting, one must cultivate a sense of freedom and control. This comes from cultivating habits of looking inward, becoming independent, and working on improving oneself in all important arenas.
@JJoh4040
@JJoh4040 4 роки тому
That's a FACT! How do you start and complete those things and consistently keep those habit's.
@titlespree
@titlespree 4 роки тому
@@JJoh4040 Its simple, but not easy. The starting point is embracing the uncomfortable. The fixing point is feeling comfortable being uncomfortable.
@Leprutz
@Leprutz 4 роки тому
this is the reason I do not like this video. You state an obvious and true fact, whereas this video concentrates on a fictional character with written decisions.
@Kaoren717
@Kaoren717 4 роки тому
I think it's also important to reflect on things that you have been taught and accepted as beliefs that may not be beneficial to you. I feel like we were closest to freedom as children, we just needed to develop introspection and empathy, but then society sabotages all of it and tries to make us into "Adults", so that you can be controlled.
@Kaoren717
@Kaoren717 4 роки тому
@@ConfidenceCreator2 How do you go through life if you don't care what people think though? Are you going to be a hermit?
@SuccessWheels
@SuccessWheels 4 роки тому
Some NOTES here 1. CONTROL THE FRAME WITH BODY LANGUAGE & TONE: If someone talk to you aggressively make sure you don’t respond to their emotional state. Stay cool, calm & Respond not rising to it. Which means you set the frame not other person 2. WHEN IN CONFRONTATION, ATTACK THE FRAME, NOT THE CONTENT: The less you focus on defending yourself the better your banter will become. Don’t try to win every critical exchange. 3. HAVE THE BELIEF THAT YOU ARE NOT THERE TO IMPRESS: If you are sells person or on a client facing role if you shift your mindset from I am selling this person or I work for this person to this person need me to partner with them. This means you will push back when needed, you will give better advice. 4. BECOME AN EXPERT AT FRAMING PEOPLE’S OPTIONS: You don’t need to have total control just control the options and the person who controls the options controls the outcome 5. CREATE OPTIONS FOR YOURSELF: Believe & show that you can always get different path, client, job if someone closes the door for you. My crazy passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries✌ Lets create options for ourselves to show extreme confidence😃
@cheffibrah1794
@cheffibrah1794 4 роки тому
Thanks man! Nice channel, keep going
@Billy-yk5te
@Billy-yk5te 4 роки тому
Parasitism is not a good look for a life "coach."
@sormin3456
@sormin3456 4 роки тому
i've been waiting for your summary :D
@Obabynation
@Obabynation 4 роки тому
ThAnK you 😃
@vynguyen7991
@vynguyen7991 4 роки тому
Thank you!!!
@fcukausername
@fcukausername 4 роки тому
Harvey single-handedly makes that show worth watching imo. Surprised it took this long for there to be a breakdown for him. Great video.
@janpalokari4631
@janpalokari4631 4 роки тому
Harvey? You mean Jessica?
@oriehi_raphael_paul
@oriehi_raphael_paul 3 роки тому
Ikr!
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
I wouldn't watch if Harvey wasn't in it neither.
@rory9659
@rory9659 3 роки тому
Louis is my favourite character
@Comyupower
@Comyupower 2 роки тому
@@rory9659i think louis and harvey are the real stars of the show
@Rensune
@Rensune 3 роки тому
The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.
@sebastianelytron8450
@sebastianelytron8450 4 роки тому
I named my eraser "Confidence ." Because it gets smaller after every mistake I make.
@BoqPrecision
@BoqPrecision 4 роки тому
I'm about to make your eraser even smaller critiquing your lame joke.
@TheSuperStarCarWash
@TheSuperStarCarWash 4 роки тому
W0W... Your slick! loser!
@Bakwazan
@Bakwazan 4 роки тому
Actualy making mistakes and learning from them can make you better at something and thus more confident
@escobarfedmedrugs3281
@escobarfedmedrugs3281 4 роки тому
@@Bakwazan it was a joke man
@maranofan
@maranofan 4 роки тому
This joke is actually funny. Poor the bitter betties with no sense of humour
@vekaasha5762
@vekaasha5762 4 роки тому
Do a character breakdown of confidence on Peaky Blinder's Thomas Shelby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@alexanderekubo538
@alexanderekubo538 4 роки тому
Vekaash A have a death stare
@raquelborn
@raquelborn 4 роки тому
Matthew Barry he’s an INTJ that’s why he seems emotionless until you get to know his character better
@xAiiuRz
@xAiiuRz 4 роки тому
YES PLEASE DO THIS!!!
@ArchMage1011
@ArchMage1011 4 роки тому
THIS
@Indyhomeprosrealestate
@Indyhomeprosrealestate 4 роки тому
YES!
@klara7247
@klara7247 4 роки тому
”see that’s funny because” are the best catchphrases in this series
@vipuljhakal7403
@vipuljhakal7403 4 роки тому
Please tell me the name of this series?
@SbeveTheFirst
@SbeveTheFirst 4 роки тому
@@vipuljhakal7403 suits
@johnnyscanadianlifestyle8285
@johnnyscanadianlifestyle8285 3 роки тому
Lol thats so true, thanks for bringing that to light for me
@codebreakerowns
@codebreakerowns 4 роки тому
I've literally been asking for this breakdown for the past 2 years. Charlie you hero. Now you've got to do Jessica Pearson. Arguably the most dominant female character on television.
@edwarddean9554
@edwarddean9554 4 роки тому
Me too, and video about Jessica is a great idea!
@ryancheng1312
@ryancheng1312 4 роки тому
@@edwarddean9554 Donna's confidence is pretty up there as well
@nadiriqbal22
@nadiriqbal22 3 роки тому
Not arguably bruh...its period!
@ppvk2610
@ppvk2610 2 роки тому
@@ryancheng1312 Donna is A-mazing!
@aamishazeem3770
@aamishazeem3770 2 роки тому
@Not Convinced it's not
@pauldickinson3961
@pauldickinson3961 4 роки тому
Please do a video on Thomas Shelby at some point.
@fito3496
@fito3496 4 роки тому
Yes please we all need that.
@emanuel9918
@emanuel9918 4 роки тому
Asap
@harispapadopoulos4295
@harispapadopoulos4295 4 роки тому
Best. Idea. Ever
@taylor_tony
@taylor_tony 4 роки тому
Good suggestion
@jonathanwolff5826
@jonathanwolff5826 4 роки тому
YES PLEASE
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
'The less you focus on defending yourself, the better your banter will become'. Love this!
@kimiko4616
@kimiko4616 4 роки тому
Wow, this channel just got litt up!
@timothyc3602
@timothyc3602 3 роки тому
underrated comment
@ThisisFerrariKhan
@ThisisFerrariKhan 2 роки тому
😑😂
@frostyplays949
@frostyplays949 2 роки тому
xD
@MyLilPwniez
@MyLilPwniez 4 роки тому
Can you make an analysis of confidence for Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders?
@cherch4625
@cherch4625 4 роки тому
yes!!
@ItsAsparageese
@ItsAsparageese 4 роки тому
@@ConfidenceCreator2 I'm so entertained by the fact that you posted this comment even though you said never mind even while writing it. Like, it's not even edited. That's just adorable, and I often do similar things and just leave my thoughts there in a thread even when I realize I was mistaken or just needed to look something up, so I love this
@damonlove8
@damonlove8 4 роки тому
finally a Harvey Specter charisma on command
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
:D Glad I found it too
@ChrisRubeo
@ChrisRubeo 4 роки тому
What I love about your message and your channel is that, ultimately, it's about becoming an overall better person. THAT it the pathway and the goal.
@ohad7733
@ohad7733 4 роки тому
i just wanted to share a lil something i took from a previous video. making myself comfortable when going in a room or coming over to sit with people makes a huge difference. i started doing this contiously and it quickly became unconcious. when you lets say join a group of friends who are already sitting, sit slowly, find the perfect position for you, (for me its putting my right leg on my left leg) and take a few seconds to soak up everything thats going on around you. even if someone started talking to you before you are done with this little "ceremony" dont even bother replaying untill youre done with it and feel 100% comfortable :). it makes a huge difference. i think i saw it on their george clooney video :). thanks CoC!
@TuanJinnNguyen
@TuanJinnNguyen Рік тому
Great analysis. I just finished Suits, a bit late, but i gotta say, Harvey and Jessica are among or even the 2 most well written characters in TV series. Those that you can learn tons of things from
@enry1821
@enry1821 Рік тому
Think harveys the real Mvp, Mike got the plot going on and Luis brings entertainment, tgese three for me have the spotlight
@MrMacFighter
@MrMacFighter 4 роки тому
Man.. this course is looking better and better every time I see a vid from you guys! Loved it! Thank you :)
@minopoke
@minopoke 4 роки тому
Please do one on Donna! She’s the only one who really stands up to Harvey, and we need some more female analysis :)
@juanyamirespinoza8664
@juanyamirespinoza8664 4 роки тому
Shut the foook up
@peeplepeeps1500
@peeplepeeps1500 4 роки тому
Yes, please!!!
@JamesRDavenport
@JamesRDavenport 4 роки тому
Donna is hot.
@namjoononbicycle
@namjoononbicycle 4 роки тому
I know right! There is not enough female personalities on this channel!
@namjoononbicycle
@namjoononbicycle 4 роки тому
@ioana ilea I am so confused. You're agreeing with me or not? Because I literally said they should make more analysis videos about female personalities too
@Orik960
@Orik960 4 роки тому
One of my favorite shows and characters! Good breakdown! Something that was relatively underplayed in the video until the end is the reason his moves work: his radical competence. Confidence and techniques are great and can get you places, but you won't be able to keep your position or demand raises or whatever without some value backing you up. That either means competence or leverage of another kind which Harvey almost always has in spades. Thanks for all your hard work Charlie! These videos have been a great boon to my own charisma :D
@kaylag5043
@kaylag5043 2 роки тому
You assert dominance over a situation by acknowledging that you don't control what happens to you, but you do control how you respond to it.
@ch3ngg
@ch3ngg 4 роки тому
could you do a video on donna, please??? especially in conflict scenarios and standing up for herself. her confidence is goals!
@hazardmouth
@hazardmouth 2 роки тому
I love this channel. I would much rather watch content like this any hour of the day then listen to all the negativity that is swarming our social media and UKposts videos. You are doing your viewer's service, and I am greatly appreciative of your efforts.
@digitalmarketingsupply
@digitalmarketingsupply 2 роки тому
This is a great video! As I watched the show (I was new to Suits until a few months ago) I got such a kick out of how they would show Harvey's body language when they'd do flashbacks. And then you see how much more confident he became. I loved that! I find myself getting my inner "Jessica Pearson" on now! Making sure I "OWN" myself as I walk into rooms of people. This show really lays it out for us!
@chasemait
@chasemait 4 роки тому
Yes! I have been waiting for a dive in onto Harvey Spectre. I've been really into your videos as a Communication Major. Keep it up!
@lucym911
@lucym911 4 роки тому
YAAAAAAY I'm SO glad you finally did Harvey Specter!!
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
What a man.
@mr12aT
@mr12aT 4 роки тому
The most dramatically filmed tv show I’ve ever seen.
@MemberOfTheSaints
@MemberOfTheSaints 4 роки тому
What do you mean? Over the top? Is it worth watching in your opinion?
@mr12aT
@mr12aT 4 роки тому
@@MemberOfTheSaints First season was good, and maybe half of the second season. The then after that the drama just gets too much because its non-stop. You will forever have the phrase " God damnit" imprinted in to your memory, god damn it!
@fcukausername
@fcukausername 4 роки тому
@@mr12aT my exact thoughts. i noticed that at one point virtually EVERY scene ended with an argument and somber music. the melodrama becomes excessive to the point where it loses all weight and you just become numb to it. season 1 was like a totally different show, and a far better one.
@dunnowhat2say566
@dunnowhat2say566 4 роки тому
Well if there wasn’t for the drama the show would be really boring... it’s a show with a bunch of lawyers
@yellow_in_green8399
@yellow_in_green8399 4 роки тому
I've been waiting for this breakdown for years! Thanks guys! Love your videos
@SivaArunagiri
@SivaArunagiri 2 роки тому
Great video! Suits is one of the finest shows that is not only a drama series to watch during your free time but also something that you can learn a lot from.
@karanabraham7906
@karanabraham7906 4 роки тому
Love these videos, but I always forget it when I'm in actual social interactions 😅
@saurabhm383
@saurabhm383 4 роки тому
Stay calm and you will remember. Never get nervous in front of anyone.
@01001000010101000100
@01001000010101000100 4 роки тому
Rinse, repeat, try to remember, you WILL make it. I wish I had watched that all a long time ago.
@jtkwndnff3505
@jtkwndnff3505 4 роки тому
Please do a video on charisma on Sterling Archer! This is like the bajillionth day I’ve asked this.
@Victoriaward
@Victoriaward 3 роки тому
I run an eCommerce consultancy and these tips are complete game changers for anyone running a service based business 👌
@lua_moura
@lua_moura 4 роки тому
I absolutely love Harvey!! Suits is one of my favorite shows!! Great video ❤
@syedmisbah2378
@syedmisbah2378 2 роки тому
*7:12* that's the best moment in that entire season which showed how Harvey bends anyone to his rules another thing is most of the scenes in this entire video is taken from *Season 1 & 2* , where Harvey was complete boss and badass in his deals
@louiev100
@louiev100 Рік тому
I walk around like this and it's been working for me. I'm in sales though so I deal with people who constantly look down on me throw back handed compliments threaten to leave lmao everything he deals with in the vid so that's why I am how he is all the time thanks to this video. Wont work all the time for some like me but definitely need this in your arsenal and should use it as much as possible to get better and figure the best times to pull it out
@knightstormbringer
@knightstormbringer 4 роки тому
I love the inclusion of the two Bobs interview from Office Space. Great clip to illustrate your point on frame control.
@Guzele4ka
@Guzele4ka 4 роки тому
Finally!!! I've been waiting for this for years!! Thanks
@phillconklin382
@phillconklin382 4 роки тому
Thanks for featuring Suits, I love this show. It was insightful as always, I always learn something from you. :)
@HawkStealth
@HawkStealth 3 роки тому
Preparation is the key to confidence. These body language and attitude come automatically as an icing on cake.
@raichua
@raichua 2 роки тому
I love that you used Harvey for this topic. Excellent content and advice.
@MeteorsiteSEO
@MeteorsiteSEO 2 роки тому
Loved the video edit/comp and the closing statements! Well done 👍
@SanneHillemans
@SanneHillemans 4 роки тому
"There is always another option that suits him better" 😂 I see what you did there.
@Jouhzu
@Jouhzu 4 роки тому
*Warm and strength = confidence* Cold and strong = arrogance Warm and weak = pitty Cold and weak. = lost cause
@Jouhzu
@Jouhzu 4 роки тому
Anna 123 well you got to look at Jouhzu videos then to get some inspiration
@Leprutz
@Leprutz 4 роки тому
sounds like a buch of bull to me. Calm and layed back is a sign of confidence. Of true confidence.
@Jouhzu
@Jouhzu 4 роки тому
Stephane Gregory Dan okay bro
@GEliteG
@GEliteG 4 роки тому
warm and strength= Kamado Tanjirou
@Jouhzu
@Jouhzu 4 роки тому
Confidence Creator How so?
@patrickorourke41
@patrickorourke41 4 роки тому
Yes!!! So glad we finally got a Harvey Specter video👏👏👏
@sushanthshenoy4248
@sushanthshenoy4248 4 роки тому
Thank you!! Been waiting for this like for ever
@Victoriaward
@Victoriaward 3 роки тому
I’ve already commented on this video. But I just want to add to it. Understanding frames of reference is one of the most powerful ways to finally start being able to get to grips with dominant, disagreeable personality types. It took me way too long to realise this BUT never argue with their frame...simply assert yours with persistency and conviction. The person with the most compelling frame wins. Unless you’re dealing with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath, in which case you have a choice: you can either grey rock (google it) or be destroyed. That’s the second lesson. Be clear on the ego you’re dealing with. Some egos have a scorched Earth policy.
@AngieNFilms
@AngieNFilms 4 роки тому
Such a great breakdown!! thanks for sharing!
@brandonbaza1639
@brandonbaza1639 4 роки тому
Man, I've been waiting for a Harvey Specter vid for a long time!!!
@paulhowrang
@paulhowrang Рік тому
Apart from all the frame crap ... the foundation of Harvey's personality is the fact that he is The Best at what he does...if you have ever excelled at anything...you are better than most ... 70% of this comes naturally ... only using some cheap tricks can cause you lost of embarrassment amidst a decent/educated/powerful crowd ..... I am telling this from my personal experience .... just run for the excellence in whatever field you are!!!!
@Friends4ever3373
@Friends4ever3373 2 роки тому
I have watched the first 7 series 5 times over...watch it everyday with my lunch and I am not faking when I say the show has changed me as a person...I rarely get influenced but this character cannot be overlooked
@Number2Drakefan
@Number2Drakefan 4 роки тому
This channel and many others have made me a dangerous man
@MrVronscki
@MrVronscki 4 роки тому
Glad to hear you got so many people through the course. Congrats!
@lordofthelaws4139
@lordofthelaws4139 4 роки тому
I love that you analysed Harvey Specter!
@wishmeluck4933
@wishmeluck4933 4 роки тому
Automatic like because suits and because charisma on command
@JasmineNothanks
@JasmineNothanks 4 роки тому
Thanks I missed the name of the show. I think I'll have to check it out.
@wishmeluck4933
@wishmeluck4933 4 роки тому
@@JasmineNothanks it's a great show from the beginning!
@TheJamsplat
@TheJamsplat 4 роки тому
Stopped watching shortly after they lost Mike. Wasn’t the same without him and all the in-fighting within the firm got old.
@tanishqsuryawanshi1276
@tanishqsuryawanshi1276 3 роки тому
@@TheJamsplat damn, I just spoiled the show for myself
@frostyplays949
@frostyplays949 2 роки тому
@@TheJamsplat he comes back...
@kenroykentish4641
@kenroykentish4641 4 роки тому
When Harvey was talking about what would u do if someone had a gun and how he framed it all that just changed my whole perspective of how life is and how to handle dangerous situations if only they were more people like him
@davecullins1606
@davecullins1606 4 роки тому
Almost EVERYONE will give you only two options and make you believe there are really only two. Much of the time they even believe themselves that there are only two. The people who succeed more rarely ever pick on of the two options because they usually always find a third that's much better.
@tejavenkat6600
@tejavenkat6600 4 роки тому
Waited so long for a video about Harvey Specter made by your channel
@DavidYohnson
@DavidYohnson 4 роки тому
Broo!! I've always been a supporter of your channel but, this video just takes the cake! Great Video Marvelous Show
@ThomasFrasier
@ThomasFrasier 4 роки тому
suits was a great show. i feel like rewatching the first few seasons again.
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
Totally. I'm going through to watch them all again.
@Maxx9081
@Maxx9081 3 роки тому
The character Harvey has changed my life, in two years my life turned around. I have watched the whole series more than 5 times. every time I feel low, I watch Suits❤️
@ree3481
@ree3481 4 роки тому
I was waiting for this!!! Thank you
@georgealtounjian8632
@georgealtounjian8632 Рік тому
Great examples, very useful life tricks. I'm glad that I found this page, helping me a lot in my personal development . thank you for your effort my guy.
@courtneylovett8307
@courtneylovett8307 4 роки тому
I like this! Great video and good analysis. I’m curious though. In establishing extreme confidence, there’s a possibility of coming off as condescending. How do you walk that tight rope of showing the confidence, but also not going as far as to talk down to people?
@14Javid
@14Javid 4 роки тому
Who else is waiting for Tommy Shelby video?
@Gwopomoli
@Gwopomoli 4 роки тому
Javid Mardanov mad
@emanuel9918
@emanuel9918 4 роки тому
Yes
@ongito29
@ongito29 4 роки тому
Yeaah
@MrSunbeam
@MrSunbeam 4 роки тому
💯💯💯
@4TheRightJAYZUSIsAVirtueSignal
@4TheRightJAYZUSIsAVirtueSignal 4 роки тому
British Jimmy Darmody
@PinkRidingHood97
@PinkRidingHood97 4 роки тому
YESSS YOU FINALLY DID HARVEY SPECTOR! I LEGIT WATCH SUITS TO EXCEL MY CONFIDENCE SKILLS!! Thanks Charisma on Command!
@MatheoGalatis
@MatheoGalatis 2 роки тому
Always top quality content. Well done guys!
@billcipher1602
@billcipher1602 4 роки тому
Have you ever considered making a video on Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders? I think it could be really interesting.
@markshrah6537
@markshrah6537 4 роки тому
Excellent case study of Harvey's confidence. I want to know how much time this took you, and what approach you took to perform this. Could you make videos on Mindsets as well? confidence comes with a stable mindset, along with many other benefits. This video grants an edge to the people who already have their confidence sorted, but doesn't help the ones yet to discover their confidence. This can only be solved by first laying a foundation( Mindset).
@devam7768
@devam7768 4 роки тому
THANK YOU! FINALLY! BEEN ASKING FOR THIS FOR 8 MONTHS ❤️
@GB-gr9fw
@GB-gr9fw 2 роки тому
Probably my favorite video on this channel. Made me rewatch Suits all over again. Charlie - Please do Mike Ross!
@sumanthmurthy1642
@sumanthmurthy1642 2 роки тому
Think you left out one very important part of Harvey’s charisma. He’s PREPARED for every situation and guess that ties into having options? Of course, it infinitely helps to have Donna as his secretary.
@littlegiant5979
@littlegiant5979 4 роки тому
My favorite T.V characters of all time and he is explained masterfully thank you for this.
@Sur4aaaaa
@Sur4aaaaa Рік тому
Pls name moveeeee❤❤❤
@ShubHam-tp1mo
@ShubHam-tp1mo 4 роки тому
Every video of yours taught me alot about body language...keep uploading bro
@danialteaches
@danialteaches 4 роки тому
Fantastic video. Very insightful. Thanks for the upload!
@Orangesorbet131
@Orangesorbet131 4 роки тому
I would be really interested in watching one these confidence breakdowns about a female celebrity!
@ItsAsparageese
@ItsAsparageese 4 роки тому
That said, I would hazard a guess that most of the audience here are men, so there are probably subtle ways in which they're helped by greater prevalence of male examples -- just in terms of seeing someone they can identify with and more easily liken to themselves in the mirror. As a chick myself, I love all the videos and gain a lot from them all equally, but that's me. And I have noticed just now, cruising through their videos page, that most female examples are from real life, and rarely from fiction, so that creates some room to explore for sure!
@monsieurpnut
@monsieurpnut 4 роки тому
I’ve observed that most confident women in today’s world seem to emulate confident men anyway. I think it’d be an interesting albeit perhaps slightly redundant video
@CrabBait
@CrabBait 4 роки тому
Confidence is not gendered. He breaks down male and female characters on the charismatic traits at an individual level. You can learn from any character!
@mimesthaisilva8321
@mimesthaisilva8321 4 роки тому
Good Vibrations We don’t need to emulate men. It’s about being a confident person, not a man or woman as if we were different species.
@kuuuueee
@kuuuueee 4 роки тому
Then watch one his many other videos about women??
@BeccaSeabra777
@BeccaSeabra777 4 роки тому
This is very valuable. The concept of frames is steadily supported by psycholinguistics, discourse analysis and pragmatics. Congratulations and thank you for this video, Charlie!
@irinabassett1482
@irinabassett1482 4 роки тому
Charlie, really love the content of your channel. I've been binge watching lately, far better than Netflix. Can I suggest to create future videos ilustrating these behaviours in women as well (whether in real life or movies)? It would mean a lot. Thanks!
4 роки тому
Hell yes! Been asking for an analysis of Specter for awhile. Do one on showing what not to do featuring Litt.
@Andrewearnshaw
@Andrewearnshaw 4 роки тому
Do you have a course on "frames" alone? I've been watching your channel for years and you have amazing content, but this concept is the one that I've found more useful but one of the harder ones to grasp. I'm getting there, but could really use something drilled into my head with this.
@nimigeorge8089
@nimigeorge8089 4 роки тому
Please can you make more videos on Harvey(character study). I honestly believe if we study all his positive traits Our lives will be way better.
@imnotsocreative5985
@imnotsocreative5985 3 роки тому
I just started watching series yesterday and today this is in my recommended
@EpicMathTime
@EpicMathTime 4 роки тому
Damn, people have been asking for this one for years! Nice job.
@JonathanLov
@JonathanLov 4 роки тому
Dang, this is some quality content...
@tylermoon1801
@tylermoon1801 4 роки тому
More vids about Harvey!!!
@benogorman8505
@benogorman8505 4 роки тому
I asked for it and you gave it to me. Thank you. Great video.
@usmanmaster26
@usmanmaster26 4 роки тому
Thanks bro, for making video on my request.
@JasmineNothanks
@JasmineNothanks 4 роки тому
Side note* this seems like a very interesting character & now I'm interested in this show. Great analysis.
4 роки тому
This show is great. Available on Prime.
@alexanderenfloristijburg8211
@alexanderenfloristijburg8211 4 роки тому
Mann you're about to discover a greatt show!! Enjoy :P
@pratikbhuyan
@pratikbhuyan 4 роки тому
You need to see it just for this guy alone
@SallyMichelle97
@SallyMichelle97 4 роки тому
The show finished 3 weeks ago and I catch things like this and miss it! The other characters are great too, you should give it a try for sure
@JasmineNothanks
@JasmineNothanks 4 роки тому
@@pratikbhuyan agreed. He seems interesting to say the least.
@ZorezGoat
@ZorezGoat 4 роки тому
Awesome video as always Charlie! However, something we’d all love to see is Thomas Shelby from Netflix’s Peaky Blinders
@EXcellentstuFF
@EXcellentstuFF 2 роки тому
Thank you so much for this breakdown!
@bltotrs92
@bltotrs92 4 роки тому
Omg Charlie listend to us and really made a video about Harvey from Suits!! Thx!! I'm stocked!
@SuperPEman
@SuperPEman 4 роки тому
Being Harvey is the key to having confidence...
@TheLowlifeFilms
@TheLowlifeFilms 4 роки тому
Do a video on Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders! I love his character and confidence and one of your videos would be PERFECT!
@shristisahu9087
@shristisahu9087 4 роки тому
Your videos are really very helpful. Thank you so much. ✨ ✨ ✨
@lipikax
@lipikax 3 роки тому
This video is so well thought. Thank you.
@mohammedzafar8520
@mohammedzafar8520 2 роки тому
1. Control body language and tone 2. Don't defend yourself but attack back. 3. You're not there to impress anyone ppl r there to impress you 4. Attack the frame not the content 5. Control and create the options
@wildcard126
@wildcard126 4 роки тому
Gonna throw in my vote for the whole “Tommy Shelby Video” idea people are pitching. Seriously needs to happen
@kevingsilva777
@kevingsilva777 11 місяців тому
Good stuff. I’ve been watching you guys for years and the stuff you guys put out is amazing.
@figward
@figward 2 роки тому
Thanks for sharing your advice.
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