Dad with dementia doesn't remember daughter but still feels the love

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"There are feelings. I know this girl, this lady, she is important to me in life." This father with dementia doesn't remember being a dad - but the love he feels for his daughter hasn't faded at all.
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@donnywenner4998
@donnywenner4998 Рік тому
A lot of people do not know how to deal with this. I do because my mom had Alzheimer's. Just go one day at a time. Love them while they're still with you.
@wanderbread4217
@wanderbread4217 Рік тому
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@anaoricofag1950
@anaoricofag1950 Рік тому
@@donnywenner4998 I lost my grandma to Alzheimer, and I gotta say, death is a relief next to this travesty.
@AKA_Lauren
@AKA_Lauren Рік тому
bro is faking it
@randomvbideoslol
@randomvbideoslol 11 місяців тому
fake
@Chrishum
@Chrishum 6 місяців тому
Even with dementia, the intellegence is oozing out of him. What an amazing man.
@rasmusgregersen9818
@rasmusgregersen9818 6 місяців тому
his social intelligence is like 1000 levels above my own xD
@Chrishum
@Chrishum 5 місяців тому
@@henriksolgard5749 can you not tell by how articulated he is? He is suffering from a condition which has impared his ability to remember but his thoughts are very well put together despite that
@pauljohnagustin237
@pauljohnagustin237 5 місяців тому
​@@henriksolgard5749for a man that is "confused" He is very "logical" in his reasoning and very articulate at it too So, yeah, he seems pretty intelligent to me
@pauljohnagustin237
@pauljohnagustin237 5 місяців тому
​@@henriksolgard5749and the way he said "I dont want to hurt you" seems to show that at a certain level, he understands that he is under some condition which impairs him from truly remembering their relationship
@VendettaPSC
@VendettaPSC 5 місяців тому
@@pauljohnagustin237 Him not only having that raw empathy, but also being able to put that out front like that when you're in middle of your own 'crisis' n stuff is.... impressive. I don't know this guy, but, I love him too.
@DutchTheHooligan
@DutchTheHooligan 7 місяців тому
Logic and empathy remain. That must help him and his loved ones a lot, despite the circumstances.
@AT-9777
@AT-9777 7 місяців тому
Yes
@jimmorgan6837
@jimmorgan6837 7 місяців тому
Perfectly said, Dutch. Logic and empathy. Thank you.💚
@1lham_edits
@1lham_edits 7 місяців тому
@@jimmorgan6837 I read that in Arthur Morgan's voice.
@succes885
@succes885 7 місяців тому
Sadly the logic will fade away. But the emotions stay until his death.
@Robstrap
@Robstrap 7 місяців тому
Depends what you class as Logic. But the feelings remain, you just cant remember what those feelings are linked to.
@CapoKabar
@CapoKabar 3 місяці тому
This man is reaping the benefits of raising a championship daughter. Much respect 🙏🏼🙏🏼🌹🌹
@aldof.2966
@aldof.2966 3 місяці тому
Im sure he did the time as a dad. Good for both of them.
@CapoKabar
@CapoKabar 3 місяці тому
@@aldof.2966 I have no clue on the specifics on how his daughter grew up with her dad. All i know is, I wish my daughter would love me as much as this if i ever go down under…
@ivy-gp5to
@ivy-gp5to 3 місяці тому
She will ​@@CapoKabar
@patrickhyatt172
@patrickhyatt172 2 місяці тому
Unfortunately we "All" going under
@mohamedndaro1431
@mohamedndaro1431 Місяць тому
impeccable daughter , eternal bondings
@januaryhymn
@januaryhymn 3 місяці тому
“does that hurt?” he’s trying so hard. they all are. god bless them
@enrath4078
@enrath4078 Рік тому
Even with a disease destroying his mind, he is still SO logical, calculating, and intelligent to be able to work out the current situation. What an absolutely incredible mind and heart he has.
@JesusLightsYourPath
@JesusLightsYourPath Рік тому
Yesss :) God bless
@laudiceafreilich489
@laudiceafreilich489 Рік тому
Indeed!
@TylerWhitlock
@TylerWhitlock Рік тому
That self awareness and empathy is astounding
@LaserTractor
@LaserTractor Рік тому
Scary if you think about. People usually call me more logical person than feeling one and it's horrible to see that logic does nothing. You just can't beat memory loss. Of course you can place those stickers everywhere to tell you "hey your name is [..] and you are a dad to [..]! You have dementia!" But these are all alien sources of info for you. Just like in this video all that she says is alien info for her dad. Maybe he WISH to remember, to truly believe what she says but no, it's not that. Imagine yourself now. You wake up one morning and some person in your house tells you "good mornin' mom/dad (depends on your gender, right)" Your first thought would be "who are you and how did you get into my house??" Reaction ofc depends on your memory loss. But any sticker you will read this day, any kind words you'll hear they all will be unnatural for you. Implement logic all you want, draw connections, discover things you own, named jewelry, family photos...it all will be in vain. I think people with such diseases constantly feel out of place. Always like they are new in their own family. Sorry if my english is bad and you misunderstood something.
@bizzl3805
@bizzl3805 Рік тому
@@TylerWhitlock i think it is in all of us. but most peolpes mnds are not proseccing that way or never learned. But to be fair, a lot of people have developed to be trhis wonderful even without a conditon that slowly lets you degenerate.
@KoushikPaulliveandletlive
@KoushikPaulliveandletlive Рік тому
He has lost his memory, but not his character. He was a kind person, after loosing his memory he still is a kind person. And he successfully nurtured a daughter with such a kind heart too.
@askerman3
@askerman3 Рік тому
Best comment
@michael2113
@michael2113 Рік тому
Losing*
@MrWeirdoh
@MrWeirdoh Рік тому
Thats my experience with dementia patients. A lot of them is lost, but there true character stays. There are people who have an inpolite character, but had Manners. They will become very inpolite people. This Gentleman Shows his sensitive, Carina true character
@michael2113
@michael2113 Рік тому
@@MrWeirdoh Are* lost
@G.GordonMidi
@G.GordonMidi Рік тому
@@michael2113 School is in session everyone! Stop talking about the beautiful, moving video you just watched because it’s time to learn about grammar and spelling. How fun.
@kbibeast
@kbibeast 3 місяці тому
Not only the father's understanding, but the daughter's complete willingness to change a small but vital part of their relationship so as to not make her dad uncomfortable at all. Clear evidence of a great dad.
@McMorgan_R
@McMorgan_R 3 місяці тому
It's not a small change at all. It may seem small as someone on the outside looking in, but I know that his daughter is in great, indescribable pain. She no longer has the choice of calling her dad; dad. It's a first name basis now. Which I know hurts, because my grandma suffers from severe dementia and if people call her mom or grandma she gets very, very upset. So I had to learn to call her by her first name for her comfort. I no longer understand her when she makes conversation, because there is no longer any structure in her speech. Her sentences blend together much like her view of the world has. "I tell you that man in my life and the wall are like chickens!! I don't know what I'm going to do with them, they ---- uh and pretty girl I had to tell her she was a disgrace and shameful" Is an example. Seems like it, but I'm not projecting. I just feel bad for this girl. They say dementia is eternal youth for the patient, but a curse to those around them who love them.
@jajomart
@jajomart 2 місяці тому
My mom has dementia and has a lot of trouble if I refer to my dad as "Dad" to her, because she thinks I mean her dad (who is still alive at 90 and she gets super excited thinking he's come to visit ❤). So I've started referring to my dad by his name when talking to her. It feels odd but it avoids confusing her so it's worth it.
@gingerblue2265
@gingerblue2265 Місяць тому
I sooo agree with you. The daughter is absolutely amazing. But it's also amazing to see the farther ask the daughter if it would hurt her if they just called each other just by first name. It tells me this man has always been thoughtful, compassionate and loving person. What a great supporting family.
@felixdom9693
@felixdom9693 29 днів тому
He raised her well dad is the best
@yourmammu
@yourmammu 3 місяці тому
I would have burst into tears for 3 hours straight if i have to speak to my dad like this 😭
@Nics-D-Ace
@Nics-D-Ace 3 місяці тому
Or daughter
@camilobogado3331
@camilobogado3331 3 місяці тому
Sometimes you do when you live those kind of situations. But you do it in private, because the other person will have no idea why you are crying at all. It takes a lot of strength and love to hold it
@tianna1116
@tianna1116 3 місяці тому
@@camilobogado3331absolutely agree and you stated it well. It reminds me of speaking with a small child about something very difficult. The strength needed to hold in huge emotions for their sake takes serious strength!
@novaa802
@novaa802 3 місяці тому
Why don't you just tell them you're the daughter like wtf that's cruel
@zerocal76
@zerocal76 2 місяці тому
Its why we have to share the love we have for them now, while we can. 🙏
@mycofyto
@mycofyto Рік тому
Man this hurts to see. You can see so much compassion behind his confusion.
@erykahhoney588
@erykahhoney588 11 місяців тому
Yes. I cried for sure.
@mrmcbeth
@mrmcbeth 7 місяців тому
This is the only dementia video that has moved me so far.
@Pixatret
@Pixatret 7 місяців тому
he is so young... we are so fragile..
@undergrow1
@undergrow1 7 місяців тому
That's exactly what I thought too. It's heartbreaking :(
@trippin4278
@trippin4278 6 місяців тому
hate to see her treat him like a baby tho
@ItsMeHello555
@ItsMeHello555 Рік тому
How very sensitive of him, with dementia, to NOT want to hurt her feelings or upset her. It speaks beautifully as to who he is.. in his core. ❤
@wancheng89
@wancheng89 Рік тому
Yes. Even if he can’t remember who he is, it doesn’t stop him from being kind. I’m really so touched by these people 😢
@ItsMeHello555
@ItsMeHello555 Рік тому
@@wancheng89 , me too. Me too.
@chanabayla1823
@chanabayla1823 Рік тому
He probably doesn't have ftd and the part of the brain that regulates emotions etc hasn't been hit badly yet. Just wait..
@ItsMeHello555
@ItsMeHello555 Рік тому
@@chanabayla1823 , I know in the long-term, they can become shells of who they were. My Oma was governed by fear mainly. Afraid of everything and everyone. Was devastating to my mother. She had no idea is was her daughter that was always trying to improve her quality of life. Only feared she was somehow hurting her. Awful to watch. Let’s hope he stays like he is.
@emoo2342
@emoo2342 Рік тому
@It’sMe 100% this. I’ve seen patients go in either direction or stay consistent with who they were. My grandma became very sweet. (She always expressed herself as if she hated my brother and I for existing-we weren’t our dad’s first children and she wasn’t fond of my mom because my mom grew up poor) Anyway, as her dementia progressed, she became kind. We just never really know what we’re going to get with dementia.
@Chris-zo5ze
@Chris-zo5ze 2 місяці тому
Crushing. He looks so young.
@nadineelseudy5835
@nadineelseudy5835 3 місяці тому
He's so so empathetic what a wonderful considerate articulate man
@shel1627
@shel1627 Рік тому
I would have broken down. But she handled that so well to keep composure in order not to freak her dad out. What a beautiful lady 💗💗xx
@MrVariant
@MrVariant Рік тому
He's at least trying to absorb what she tells him. Not everyone does that.
@Teeveepicksures
@Teeveepicksures Рік тому
It gets a little easier with practice unfortunately. But just when you start to get comfortable, they get worse. And you start over.
@TheMario8319
@TheMario8319 Рік тому
Been through it, it hurts but it feels better being able to even agree on feelings. She probably was just happy to have a connection. This may have been a good day, trust me the bad days are ones I wouldn't have wanted to record
@briansmaller7443
@briansmaller7443 Рік тому
I bet she bawled her eyes out later when she was on her own. I would have.
@zaanussaa
@zaanussaa Рік тому
@@MrVariant well it’s not like they are not trying. I’m Not sure if you are referring to people in general or to dementia patients. Those patients they are just not in control of their thoughts most of the time. It’s very heartbreaking. They don’t want to be this way. But they can’t control it.
@felixculpa4192
@felixculpa4192 4 місяці тому
He seems young to have that progressed level of dementia.... what a strong daughter and loving family, I know how hard these things truly can be.
@osk4r58
@osk4r58 3 місяці тому
Theres also Brain Tumor-Associated Dementia
@megan7292
@megan7292 3 місяці тому
He was an alcoholic and went through a failed suicide attempt resulting in him having brain damage and alcohol related early onset dementia that’s why he’s so young. His wife, the mother of the woman in the video, also has memory issues. She and her wife are full time care takers of her parents. It’s quite sad but most of her videos are very sweet and super informative
@felixculpa4192
@felixculpa4192 3 місяці тому
@@megan7292 - I see, thxs.
@cngotham4111
@cngotham4111 3 місяці тому
Thats sad I assume it runs in the family then? And he most have progressed it earlier with the brain damage
@missjo2036
@missjo2036 3 місяці тому
I worked in a dementia facility, and we had a woman who was 50 at the time with dementia. It just happens. No she never did drugs or drank excessively.
@willmcclard206
@willmcclard206 3 місяці тому
Imagine being in his shoes, he has really great presence of mind to realize his situation and think critically
@gabbie3174
@gabbie3174 Рік тому
This makes me so sad, he is so young. Dementia is never easy, but "losing" your father so early on is heart-wrenching
@John-zt6yw
@John-zt6yw Рік тому
Terribly sad. No words.
@Insp.CountMortisWinshipKlaw
@Insp.CountMortisWinshipKlaw Рік тому
This can be reversed. It is cooked foods that are causing this. If the person still has his/her wits get them onto a 100% fruit diet specifically grapes, berries, citrus and melons to pull the acidic mucus out of the body and get the lymphatic system flowing again. It will take some time but it works. If the person is too far gone and is angry and confused its over. Look up Dr Morse TV. The guy helped me cure my mum.
@teetaunjj7894
@teetaunjj7894 Рік тому
Yeah I know he looks so dang young
@ilacallya324
@ilacallya324 Рік тому
Covid jab does that
@teetaunjj7894
@teetaunjj7894 Рік тому
@@ilacallya324 definitely the shots are terrible
@Mrmobbk
@Mrmobbk Рік тому
he must've really loved them to feel such emotions even though he doesn't remember
@conjurecorpse8209
@conjurecorpse8209 Рік тому
I have an uncle like that, it’s one of those bonds where he would take a bullet so I’ll live vice-versa
@dena6254
@dena6254 Рік тому
💗
@escapeanimation
@escapeanimation Рік тому
its called instinct
@ManiacoSensuale
@ManiacoSensuale Рік тому
@@escapeanimation Nope, Heart has neurons, it's like a peripheral memory.
@tiffanystarbeck2279
@tiffanystarbeck2279 3 місяці тому
She is so strong. I can't imagine sitting in front of my father not know who am. Bless them both. The silver lining that I always notice is the heart always remembers.
@colmwhateveryoulike3240
@colmwhateveryoulike3240 3 місяці тому
I always try and tell people about a study I read once that showed that even though people with dementia/alzheimers didn't remember family visits, their emotional state was no different to people who did remember. So their mood and outlook and disposition remained positively boosted for days after regardless of the lack of cognitive awareness. So never doubt that there is a good reason to visit just because they don't remember. The deepest reason is still there. ❤
@linwong1494
@linwong1494 3 місяці тому
please share this study with me. my grandpa is very old and has next to no memory left. I wasn’t very close to him as a child, but as an adult visiting him, I feel and know he had loved me even when I didn’t understand it at the time, and it makes me sad that the time I have to really connect with him is more or less gone. To try and make up for it, in the last couple of years I try to visit him whenever we get the chance, and in the last visit of dec 2023, he insisted that I come visit him again next year, something he had never said before. He doesn’t even remember my dad, much less me, but if his mood is improved after being visited then I couldn’t be happier for what I believed to be my vain efforts to reconnect.
@colmwhateveryoulike3240
@colmwhateveryoulike3240 3 місяці тому
@@linwong1494 Hi, that's a lovely experience to hear about. In looking for the study, I'm not sure I can find the exact one but the good news is that this is because there are now so many others with similar indications. Most use films to induce emotions because this is more standardised than real-life relationships. Many are behind paywalls but you should be able to read this one. Guzmán-Vélez E, Feinstein JS, Tranel D. Feelings without memory in Alzheimer disease. Cogn Behav Neurol. 2014 Sep;27(3):117-29. doi: 10.1097/WNN.0000000000000020. PMID: 25237742; PMCID: PMC4175156.
@colmwhateveryoulike3240
@colmwhateveryoulike3240 3 місяці тому
@@linwong1494 Also, by the way, music can be very helpful for mood too and there are even videos of people playing the music people with dementia used to listen to and triggering sudden lucid moments.
@linwong1494
@linwong1494 3 місяці тому
@@colmwhateveryoulike3240 yes i know about this. I tried to share music with him, but he came from a very poor family that wasn’t able to enjoy cantonese operas. no tvs either or radio i think. we still show it to him though in case he likes it. Also do you have a link to that study in particular?
@kelsgecha7559
@kelsgecha7559 6 місяців тому
She handled this exactly textbook. Someone with alzheimers or dementia sometimes cannot recognize family members for who they are. They just feel love and connection. Her willing to call him by his name to make him feel comfortable is absolutely correct in this situation. Trying to explain who you are to them is not going to help them remember. This makes me so happy to see how this was handled. This man is so lucky to have such a wonderful daughter who knows how to put his needs above her own.
@anklebiter9116
@anklebiter9116 6 місяців тому
You should never ever say a family member handled a situation with a parent correctly or believe that a healthcare provider is in any position to pass judgement. You can pass judgement on us as staff but unless it's abusive don't alienate a parent's children by stating they are communicating properly with their parent. Your probably going to see them a lot. Many new nurses do and it invariably becomes an issue.
@zeke1220
@zeke1220 3 місяці тому
@@anklebiter9116 How is that alienating?
@raiden72
@raiden72 3 місяці тому
​@@anklebiter9116you're*
@Test-tu9mb
@Test-tu9mb 3 місяці тому
oh god, no, if i ever suffer from dementia i don't want people around me to lie to me in order to make me comfortable. if someone i have never seen before walked into my house and explained that i have dementia and handed me a DNA test that proves the connection, then all i would have to do is ask about something we did together. if they can come up with a highly detailed answer on the spot, then it would make logical sense that they're teling the truth and i do have dementia. im the type of person to consider the possibility that at any point, my mind could be cloned in the far future in a simulation and to not freak out if that happens. however, if you talked to me in a wishy-washy way like the girl is here, it would probably just freak me out since it's weird that you lack certainty on our connection. everyone has different brains. i don't think there should be "textbook" guides for interacting with disabled human beings.
@MylotheZooLovingScientist
@MylotheZooLovingScientist 3 місяці тому
@@Test-tu9mb With all due respect, is it possible that we-able-body and able-minded people-can accurately predict how we would hypothetically process and respond to information in the event that we began to suffer from loss of cognitive functioning?
@bonniehall578
@bonniehall578 Рік тому
So sad but very mature daughter who wants to do what is best for her dad. ❤️
@roxxchi-mamia5914
@roxxchi-mamia5914 Рік тому
Yes, you could really feel the pure love there.
@stephaniesmith5793
@stephaniesmith5793 Рік тому
Yes, really heartwarming
@natet3345
@natet3345 Рік тому
The apple falls ❤
@coffeehead68
@coffeehead68 Рік тому
@@stephaniesmith5793 My thoughts exactly.
@lxlthecrowlxl
@lxlthecrowlxl Рік тому
@meh There's always gotta be one guy like you....
@fatherofjman2475
@fatherofjman2475 3 місяці тому
He must’ve been a wonderful Dad, based on this interaction this is a great man.
@jacquelinealves1975
@jacquelinealves1975 3 місяці тому
I follow they ttk account and all the videos are so sweet. It’s was cause by alcohol, so came really early, his dementia. He tried to k*** himself, she was the one that found him…and every time he ask her to tell what happened, why he doesn’t live in his own home anymore, she tell everything and he always apologised to her. They relationship it’s amazing 😢❤
@Mr.Bashford
@Mr.Bashford 2 місяці тому
​@@jacquelinealves1975Alcohol is such a dangerous drug.
@jeffhamann4350
@jeffhamann4350 3 місяці тому
We went through this with my grandfather. It was soooooo hard. Whenever we would go see him we would carry 8 x 10 childhood pictures with us in our arms. That helped a lot for a while. He would walk up to me and say…” the picture of that little boy you’re holding is my grandson, please tell him I’m OK and not to worry…..and that I love him, he makes me proud” …… man that was so hard.
@carolg.6838
@carolg.6838 Місяць тому
Hard, but very sweet. You will never forget how much he loved you. The pictures seemed to be a good idea. I had not heard of doing that.
@nadeaosmand784
@nadeaosmand784 Рік тому
This reminds me of my favourite quote from Maya Angelou "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did but people will never forget how you made them feel".
@jakenbake9878
@jakenbake9878 Рік тому
Great quote. One I think of often when I’m talking to strangers. I hope you have a lovely day and thank you for reminding me of such a great quote.
@chrispfeifer7628
@chrispfeifer7628 Рік тому
Maybe the most important quote that human beings could remember. The world would be so much better if everyone did
@NBC09
@NBC09 Рік тому
I had to write this quote down. Thanks for re-sharing it! It’s a beautiful QUOTE!
@ninjanana102
@ninjanana102 Рік тому
Amen.
@dinviata4799
@dinviata4799 Рік тому
@@NBC09 indeed. A beautiful quote that can help us in life
@_garebear
@_garebear Рік тому
You can see the soul of this man. He doesn't want to hurt the feelings of 'a stranger' which speaks volumes to his character.
@dd61125
@dd61125 Рік тому
sorry to tell you the 'soul' you can see is most likely the effect of the extremely potent medication he is on.
@YaBoiJeffe
@YaBoiJeffe Рік тому
​@@dd61125 Nasty people can't hide it when their memory goes. This man is worried about hurting the feelings of a woman he doesn't know.
@G.GordonMidi
@G.GordonMidi Рік тому
@@dd61125 What medication is that?
@vincetaliaferro2777
@vincetaliaferro2777 Рік тому
The brain is a receiver/antenna, and the signal is consciousness.. for some reason this illness disrupts that signal. Once we understand consciousness we understand ourselves.
@G.GordonMidi
@G.GordonMidi Рік тому
@@dd61125 you think that guy is on coke? No shot
@GraveTypeBed
@GraveTypeBed 3 місяці тому
I Can only imagine the amazing childhood this man helped provide. Even as his mind fails him, he isn't forgetting the one thing that has ever mattered.
@user-ky5dp5wf5p
@user-ky5dp5wf5p Місяць тому
The daughter dealt with this perfectly, she is a gem. Her mom should be very proud. Tim M. 3-20-2024
@lmc2664
@lmc2664 Рік тому
Scott's so articulate and knows exactly how he feels. Who would have thought that he's with dementia?! More love for this father and daughter duo
@teresawelter7530
@teresawelter7530 Рік тому
Dementia comes in an infinite amount of forms. Fronto-temporal dementia can start relatively early and doesn't impact your speech and motor functions as much as your memory or your verbal filter. This gentleman reminds me of a patient of mine who suffered from FTD. We've had some great talks over the years and his insults were always the most colorful 😂❤
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit Рік тому
@@teresawelter7530 I don't have much knowledge about the different forms of dementia. But I find it fascinating how this man is trying to logically and intelligently work out what he's struggling to remember or understand. And with empathy and compassion as well. I loved this interaction!
@hardwired8084
@hardwired8084 11 місяців тому
Yeahhhhh … more vids please because it’s beautiful tho heartbreaking!!
@Nozylatten
@Nozylatten 10 місяців тому
heroin or alcoholism has froze his brain no dementia.. he has the aggresion to git it.
@orlandofurioso7329
@orlandofurioso7329 9 місяців тому
@@Bert_de_Wit Parts of the brain can try to compensate in some ways, obviously not in a perfect way, that's why blind people have an extraordinary sense of hearing and touch
@yvetterenee8256
@yvetterenee8256 Рік тому
She's a great daughter. She could've went with Dad, but respected her Dad's feelings more than her own.
@cestbonbon5961
@cestbonbon5961 11 місяців тому
No she’s not. Why is she putting this for the world to see. These people are scary. They cant even preserve their own parents dignity 🤮
@yvetterenee8256
@yvetterenee8256 11 місяців тому
@@cestbonbon5961 , Perhaps her father was an open person, and she takes after him. I understand your concern. But, on the flip side, too many people hide their loved ones like they're an outcast. She is giving him dignity by letting him share his emotions and not treating him like a child.
@khalilhannah4005
@khalilhannah4005 10 місяців тому
@@cestbonbon5961 she put it here for me , I needed it , so there's that
@ttop9445
@ttop9445 9 місяців тому
@@cestbonbon5961to show positivity with all the negative news. It’s really simple
@bonitobonita9263
@bonitobonita9263 9 місяців тому
@@cestbonbon5961she wanted to show the world it’s ok to struggle, ok to have dementia, ok to be forgotten by father, it’s nothing shameful but still can love each other. including for the people just like you
@shinyoshawott11
@shinyoshawott11 2 місяці тому
she’s so strong bc i’d be sobbing
@AshtonScripts
@AshtonScripts 17 днів тому
the fact he still knows that he loves her and tries not to hurt her feelings and he's still intelligent and logical about it despite the little information he has with his lost memory is honestly really cool
@BestOffer-ii9ny
@BestOffer-ii9ny 6 днів тому
These is so depressing 😢I suffered the borderline disorder for over 23 years. With so much anxiety Not until I came across psilocybin mushrooms treatmentPsilocybin treatment actually saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 6 днів тому
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
@ToniMonteroroman
@ToniMonteroroman 6 днів тому
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@DamsonIdris-rh6sx
@DamsonIdris-rh6sx 6 днів тому
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 6 днів тому
Is he on instagram?
@ToniMonteroroman
@ToniMonteroroman 6 днів тому
Yes, he is dr.porass.
@francescacostantini7000
@francescacostantini7000 4 місяці тому
"I'm obviously somebody because I have feelings for you!" That gives me chills.
@C-Jay_A113
@C-Jay_A113 3 місяці тому
Wdym?
@francescacostantini7000
@francescacostantini7000 3 місяці тому
@@C-Jay_A113 what do I mean? is that really that diffucult to understand what i wrote?
@C-Jay_A113
@C-Jay_A113 3 місяці тому
@@francescacostantini7000 nah I understand you just fine, but why would that give you chills?
@Depressed_until_dead
@Depressed_until_dead 2 місяці тому
@@C-Jay_A113 if it was your parent you'd probably understand, even if you were a stone lmao
@C-Jay_A113
@C-Jay_A113 2 місяці тому
@@Depressed_until_dead mb, I completely misunderstood what this person meant by this comment. Sorry bout that
@Nportiazulu
@Nportiazulu Рік тому
I think Bailey takes after her dad when it comes to straightforwardness and emotional intelligence. She knows how to deal with her Dad's personality
@DutchGuyMike
@DutchGuyMike Рік тому
Definitely!
@eckankar7756
@eckankar7756 Рік тому
His mind has forgotten her but his soul knows they are family. That closeness goes beyond the body to spirit. This was so beautiful
@judithrandall4690
@judithrandall4690 Рік тому
@@eckankar7756 His soul knows? What does that mean? Don't be mawkish. Think of something that actually means something honest and real.
@gideonob
@gideonob Рік тому
@@judithrandall4690 Oh stop being so superficial! You'd understand him if you tried a little harder.
@anamileascorbe3238
@anamileascorbe3238 Рік тому
@@judithrandall4690 what a buzzkiller!
@notmyopinion4981
@notmyopinion4981 25 днів тому
for him to go 'does that hurt your feelings' so much empathy for someone that must sound crazy to him... Such an amazing man...
@robappleby583
@robappleby583 3 місяці тому
I can’t imagine a more appalling fate than forgetting who my daughter is.
@timenloe3846
@timenloe3846 Рік тому
I work in dementia care. Peaks and valleys every day. Great job by the daughter to channel the discussion to a positive end. I wish this family nothing but happiness.
@23_Beans
@23_Beans Рік тому
I've had family members with dementia and their significant others or adult children will argue with them and constantly correct them. It didn't seem like a great way to handle the situation when their memories were faltering. I get wanting them to remember moments they'd shared in the past down to every detail, but what do the details and semantics matter? If the feelings they had are still there, isn't fostering those positive feelings the most important thing?
@crystalcutch5569
@crystalcutch5569 Рік тому
So, they can 'feel' connected to family/friends, but not remember the who or how?
@mortalclown3812
@mortalclown3812 Рік тому
@@crystalcutch5569... apparently. What's important may last longer than we realized.
@ShelbyFarrow
@ShelbyFarrow Рік тому
Do you know if patients with Frontotemporal Dementia like Bruce Willis lose their memory like in Alzheimer's Disease?
@lstruggy
@lstruggy Рік тому
Any step to prevent dementia? My parents 71 & 74 i takes care of them they’re fine atm but interested in preventative caring
@uskok4636
@uskok4636 Рік тому
I sobbed. This man is a beautiful soul to his core. His daughter is awesome, her love for him shows in how she talks to him.
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit Рік тому
I agree. The way he tried to be careful not to upset anyone is incredibly empathetic.
@rockscousteau
@rockscousteau Рік тому
You gotta get it together Usko.
@uskok4636
@uskok4636 Рік тому
@@rockscousteau its too close to home. My mother had dementia
@caroled3943
@caroled3943 11 місяців тому
Me too. Heartbreaking but the pure love is still there.
@spring9603
@spring9603 11 місяців тому
The moment you lose memory, you lose identity the only thing that remains is the core moral construct and character of you as a human. You can see one at that point if is a good person or not..
@conniejohnson3029
@conniejohnson3029 3 місяці тому
What a good man. Such a good heart and head. So thoughtful in his moment....of concern. Bless him and the wonderful daughter.
@frankstippel5988
@frankstippel5988 2 місяці тому
Even with the dementia, he is a real gentleman.
@kushaevtm
@kushaevtm 11 місяців тому
You can tell he is an amazing dad by the way he raised his daughter. She is firm, loving and mature person, capable to be strong enough to carry that weight as if its nothing. For her dad.
@RP-dy5mu
@RP-dy5mu 6 місяців тому
And you know all that about her from a 2 minute clip? No wonder there is a mental health epidemic when people trivialize other people's personalities. As if that can be condensed into such a short video.
@pOOkiNG79
@pOOkiNG79 6 місяців тому
She's so strong. She is incredible. But you can tell he was an amazing strong and emotional man as well.
@IntheMOMENT22173
@IntheMOMENT22173 6 місяців тому
Probably took some time to get to that point.
@aidanation562
@aidanation562 6 місяців тому
@@RP-dy5mu He complimented them and you think thats mean?
@Dope4life97
@Dope4life97 5 місяців тому
@@RP-dy5mushe finished his sentences but regardless
@weezy10able
@weezy10able Рік тому
Even though he can't remember her he still doesn't want to hurt her feelings and that is so amazing
@AlgaeEater09
@AlgaeEater09 Рік тому
He's seems very self aware of his dementia and that it could be impacting those around him. He doesn't know who she is, but he knows it's because of his disease. That level of selfishness is amazing
@NicoleFitnessYouTube
@NicoleFitnessYouTube Рік тому
It is truly amazing
@StoriesExplained
@StoriesExplained Рік тому
@@AlgaeEater09 i think you meant selflessness
@Whythis2628
@Whythis2628 Місяць тому
Lost my grandpa to dementia. An amazing human being , could not recognise most of us. But ask him multiplication table he would promptly answer. He slipped and broke his hip, I carried him to hospital in arms and this is when the memory somehow misplaced and He believed from his misplaced memory I dropped him that’s how his hi was broken.He was never mad even though he believed I dropped him. Rest in peace grandpa.
@AnatemaEterno
@AnatemaEterno Рік тому
This is heartbreaking, he's completely aware of his condition so imagine the way he must feel :(
@tzimiable
@tzimiable Рік тому
You cant miss what you cant remember. Thats a mercy at least.
@Forever.Remain.Nameless
@Forever.Remain.Nameless Рік тому
​@@tzimiable we'll have to agree to disagree 💔
@pcdispatch
@pcdispatch Рік тому
@@tzimiable , I suffered from emotional neglect from my childhood. So you are saying I never missed emotional connection because there were no memories of it? BS
@joshyc2006
@joshyc2006 11 місяців тому
Early stages are the toughest for the sufferer, when they're aware they're losing themselves. Then it progresses to a point where they aren't aware but the family are, and that's where it seems to get less difficult for the individual but harder on the family
@jemecalmesijeveux9440
@jemecalmesijeveux9440 7 місяців тому
Non ce n’est pas navrant ,c’est douloureux et émouvant .pas navrant
@richisgamin
@richisgamin 23 дні тому
I was a CNA in the past and felt with dementia patients and I can say she handled that beautifully as well…shout out to the both of them
@seanspartan2023
@seanspartan2023 Рік тому
Wow, he looks too young to be suffering from dementia. It sounds like he has some great care. Big props to his daughter for being so patient and caring.
@momokoblue8032
@momokoblue8032 Рік тому
If it’s prefrontal lobe dementia it can appears in adults in their 50s. It’s the same type Bruce Willis was just diagnosed with last week.
@driftersforge4962
@driftersforge4962 Рік тому
​@momokoblue that and it might be alcohol induced dementia (yes its possible if you drink too much alcohol)
@jameslovitt994
@jameslovitt994 Рік тому
My Dad had dementia in his late 40's, which progressed until he passed away at 55 in 1995
@driftersforge4962
@driftersforge4962 Рік тому
@james lovitt I know it's been almost 30 years but I'm so sorry for your loss
@Chino-Kafu
@Chino-Kafu Рік тому
Well sorry about the bad news but they recently just found a 18 year old with it so apparently age can't be the only factor
@aopLib19
@aopLib19 Рік тому
As a father who is older than the dad in this video, this is heartbreaking for me. Praying for him and his family
@TermlessHGW
@TermlessHGW Рік тому
I was just thinking, isn't this guy too young for dementia? My God.
@officialJOY1229
@officialJOY1229 Рік тому
In Jesus Name, Amen 🙏
@pandy__
@pandy__ Рік тому
Praying won’t do anything, specially when you don’t mean it.
@officialJOY1229
@officialJOY1229 Рік тому
@@pandy__ Praying is Powerful!!!!!! Don’t buy into a lie, it’ll cost you everything. Pray in Jesus Name!!!!!! I’m alive bc of prayer 🙏!!!!!
@Diaz23
@Diaz23 Рік тому
@@TermlessHGW my grandmother got dementia at age 52...she's 73 now and I believe it's caused by stress..but major stress..I won't get into details but mental health is everything! I love her to death and I'm glad she is still with us but it can be very hard sometimes..
@CherelleJaCole94
@CherelleJaCole94 3 місяці тому
“That’s just what I’ve always called you but I can call you something else if you want” 🥺❤️ awwww, such a sweet way to handle this!
@IAMSEYMOURMUSIC
@IAMSEYMOURMUSIC 3 місяці тому
This guy raised an absolute triple A grade daughter, what an amazing woman
@50KENT
@50KENT Рік тому
She handled it like a champ. I’m a grown man and I just broke down watching it. I’m also not sensitive either. I’m past 40 yrs old now and I wear my heart on my sleeve nowadays is all. Life’s to short! Give love! Show love! ✌🏼
@alexliebeskind1254
@alexliebeskind1254 Рік тому
right? I feel you there man.
@niqueness2988
@niqueness2988 Рік тому
Being sensitive gets a really bad rap because people typically only focus on the fact that sensitive people feel hurt deeply and easily but it also means that they feel love and all the other emotions deeply as well and are usually fine tuned to picking up energy that others give off and they can be very empathic. Being sensitive is not always "bad"
@elliotth3716
@elliotth3716 Рік тому
Don't fil bad I'm over 60 broke down right off the bat and you see this man's love by how his Daughter is interacting with him. That's love.✌️🙏😎
@waynehumphries6970
@waynehumphries6970 Рік тому
I’m not crying, we are crying 😢. The first thing I thought was they should both get a tiny tattoo on their little finger. There’s so many different ways dementia can affect memory
@martinware3557
@martinware3557 Рік тому
Me too brother x
@aky19832001
@aky19832001 Рік тому
I love this guy. You can tell he's got a heart of gold. He's worried about a person he doesn't know at the moment.
@DreamsOfFinland
@DreamsOfFinland Рік тому
YES. This person gets it. Thank you for saying this. Stop thinking we are blanks. My mother asked me to visit her friend from years before who had "dementia" and was put in a nursing home when her husband died. I brought her a small plant and sat with her, told her memories my Mom had of her friend helping her with first child during war. She was so happy. I didn't know she hadn't spoken in a couple years. I told her daughters at the husband's funeral and they looked at me like I was nuts. The woman died the next day. Dangerous to our lives to believe we have no thoughts or memories.
@iraeaglemind
@iraeaglemind 3 місяці тому
Lady you handled the situation with your dad to perfection.God Bless.
@yvetterodriguez102
@yvetterodriguez102 17 днів тому
This is the most beautiful thing i have seen 😢. My grandparents had dementia. The day abuela asked who I was, my heart broke. Alzheimers is one of the most difficult illnesses to deal with. Love your family. Enjoy them. Moments like these are treasured. Kudos to this daughter. It also says alot about who this man is as a person...not was.
@AlexZ-lc6nl
@AlexZ-lc6nl Рік тому
My grandfather had Alzheimer’s and towards the end of his life, he was always grumpy with adults but with us grandkids, he was always happy and he always loved us even though he didn’t remember our names. I loved him until his passing days in 2010. ❤️
@michaelmyyears4743
@michaelmyyears4743 Рік тому
Same Grandpa Esteban the 1st who was born in the late 40s and then his son Esteban the 2nd my dad born in the 60s! And in 2015 was the 3d Esteban to be Born! Hope this tradition keeps going
@BlackCheezit
@BlackCheezit Рік тому
@@michaelmyyears4743 what are you on about?
@michaelmyyears4743
@michaelmyyears4743 Рік тому
@@BlackCheezit the fact that when ur in a position where ur mind wonders u still have a sense of being humble to those you seem to feel safe around like kids because everyone knows kids dont have agendas in life just have fun and live life. While adults grow out of it and have priorities and goals and agendas in bettering there life out of the expense of others. So thats why everyone in any condition or state knows or has an automatic response to being nice to children and can be goofy around them but when near someone ur age or older u seem to compose urself because you feel eyes are on you just analyzing you. But my point is everyone has this deep connection to feeling who u can trust and talk to openly the way this father is to his unknown child! But you can feel he feels a connection of trust! There are some things in this world u cant explain in words but just feel it in ur bones or gut! Thats why
@michaelmyyears4743
@michaelmyyears4743 Рік тому
@@BlackCheezit the fact that in no matter what state we might be in we love family unconditionally so much that i named my kids after my grandpa and dad to keep there MEMORY ALIVE! Even if they dont remember themselves is where i was trying to go towards to. Hope this helps in understanding how i see this video speak to me!!
@breathej.4872
@breathej.4872 Рік тому
@Alex Z, I'm sorry for your loss.
@mrspalomares9075
@mrspalomares9075 Рік тому
What a kind, selfless daughter. This made me cry. I cannot imagine slowly losing someone you love mentally like this. But she handles it beautifully.
@SickandTired95
@SickandTired95 Рік тому
Yes! She also cares for her mom who has a traumatic brain injury. Two parents who aren’t fully there in the mind and also have health issues. Whew it’s a lot. On top of that, her father used to be abusive. So has a heart of gold.
@ChristinaFromYoutube
@ChristinaFromYoutube 9 місяців тому
​@@SickandTired95i actually thought i noticed a gleam of abusiveness when he said "how does that make you feel?" Im glad that my intuition was confirmed.
@BlackedOutDreams
@BlackedOutDreams 7 місяців тому
Selfless? All her conversation was revolved around her
@marilynmccormick3731
@marilynmccormick3731 2 місяці тому
Oh, that has to be so hard to do, but she's doing it out of love for him. What a daughter he has.
@lindacrouch9295
@lindacrouch9295 23 дні тому
You’re so kind to your dad. You’re doing great. I love how he still knows that he loves you and trusts you.❤
@lemondropzs
@lemondropzs Рік тому
You can tell what a pure soul he is from how he communicates even with someone he "doesn't know". True testament of his character.
@safespacebear
@safespacebear 8 місяців тому
gosh you can tell Dad has a VERY sharp mind and it's just so unfair that someone with the depth of perception that he does gets this horrid disease. His daughter is a gem too...i'm sure it takes a lot of grace and strength to see that happen to the man who was your protector as a child
@nickwolleat4451
@nickwolleat4451 17 днів тому
A whole life, a whole relationship of knowing Scott as your dad and calling him dad.. I'm so sorry. Refreshed by your graciousness with him and understanding that he just doesn't totally remember who he is.
@user-bi3oc2jt4t
@user-bi3oc2jt4t 24 дні тому
The daughter also handled This really well.
@c00mgoblin
@c00mgoblin Рік тому
Man he’s young for such a diagnosis. Both of them are very strong. ❤
@yasmeen7875
@yasmeen7875 Рік тому
I said the exact thing out loud, then read your comment. He seems so young.
@thevintaaagediaries
@thevintaaagediaries Рік тому
There are forms of dementia or Alzheimer’s you can get really young. the father of one of my best friends got it in his late 40s. It’s rare but it’s super scary. Can’t imagine the pain that comes with such an illness. just horrible 💔
@_ghoul3z
@_ghoul3z Рік тому
Bruce Willis’ diagnosis was surprising to me for this reason as well. It’s crazy how little is taught to us in school for example, when it comes to different types of dementia :/
@katmiller614
@katmiller614 Рік тому
I just can’t believe this disease is having such an effect on human beings. How the heck do we care this?
@sargentpepper8931
@sargentpepper8931 Рік тому
8 thousand of our military now have a dementia brain fog bad enough to be on leave from their job since they were forced to take the safe and effective .
@xgunnas32
@xgunnas32 Рік тому
"if i don't know who i am, i must be" that gives me goosebumps.
@Spohcsom
@Spohcsom Місяць тому
He raised his children well. Now they have his back forever.
@haillejackson3684
@haillejackson3684 2 місяці тому
The brain may forget, but the heart will always remember.
@machiavellisprince5986
@machiavellisprince5986 Рік тому
I'm a black guy and I'm 47 years old at the time that I'm writing this. I don't care about your race or age. I love you guys out there. I'm glad that I'm in the world with you. We've got a lot of things to fix... but you are all my family. Take care of yourself.
@bobbystillz222
@bobbystillz222 Рік тому
I agree. Watching something like this just goes to show how little color or any of that stuff matters. This guy can’t member what color he is who is his family but you can still tell he has a good soul. Individually our soul is what matters. Not our color. This is heartbreaking. She was with important in life.
@machiavellisprince5986
@machiavellisprince5986 Рік тому
@@bobbystillz222 My only point is that I'm black and HIS color doesn't matter to me. Color matters very much in this country and in this world because racists have made it so. They did hundreds of years of hard work to make it so and that won't be fixed in the 40 years that anyone has been doing anything about it. But I can tell that THIS man has a good soul. Maybe that's because he's not interacting as much with this country and all of it's racial problems. I wouldn't either if I didn't have to.
@machiavellisprince5986
@machiavellisprince5986 Рік тому
@@bobbystillz222 I mean like you said, "He can't remember what color he is." That automatically removes you from racism.
@CaboloNero
@CaboloNero Рік тому
Why bring it up then? Odd
@Lucailey
@Lucailey Рік тому
This video is so wholesome. The daughter was willing to meet her father on a level he could relate to. God bless the dad who was worried about hurting the daughter's feelings. She said all of the right things and dad was able to convey his love for his daughter. Dementia takes away so much from a person. They become a shell of the person they once were. I am glad daughter has this moment on video. She can look to it as things progress and know that she was always daddy's little girl
@lingling21100
@lingling21100 16 днів тому
Imagine having this conversation 20 times a day
@usernamedkjahstill5003
@usernamedkjahstill5003 3 місяці тому
JESUS! This is both heartbreaking and heartwarming.
@Forgemaster2.0
@Forgemaster2.0 8 місяців тому
My dad passed away with dementia... Breaks my heart see things like this, but remember always: No matter if he doesnt remember who you are. Remember always who he is. May god bless you.
@Maalik.
@Maalik. 7 місяців тому
- "He doesnt even know that you are his son!" - "But I know that he is my father."
@natscat4752
@natscat4752 4 місяці тому
So true
@jennij5773
@jennij5773 4 місяці тому
My grandpa had dementia and had been unable to remember any of us for a while. At one of his last birthday parties I came in wearing one of his old shirts and he said 'nice shirt' and everyone was in shock bc he had been unable to speak for quite a while. Later on I gave him a hug and he said 'Jenna Jen' (what he used to call me when I was a kid). I'll never forget it.
@soozkoozhooz5902
@soozkoozhooz5902 3 місяці тому
I flew cross country several times a year to see my mom. People asked why, because she didn't know me. I'd just reply that I know her. I miss her so much now...
@benbrown9053
@benbrown9053 3 місяці тому
​@soozkoozhooz5902 that comment slammed me with emotions
@JenniferC26
@JenniferC26 Рік тому
When she said “I love you, Scott” I cried. His brain may not remember her but his heart will never forget his love for her 😢
@Brahim0801
@Brahim0801 2 місяці тому
I love how he's trying to put himself in her shoes, he's like *"how does that make you feel ? Does it hurt ?"* And then shortly after, he decided to say what he thought could make her feel better *"i love you too, we're family"* Stuff like this just make me feel like he was always this nice.
@ANDunn-tf6xp
@ANDunn-tf6xp 3 місяці тому
That was so sweet and beautiful. The true strength of family and love.
@nicole8950
@nicole8950 Рік тому
The level of empathy and emotional intelligence is out of this world ❤️
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit Рік тому
"Emotional intelligence". Now that's the exact perfect way to describe his approach. 5/5! 😊
@nowayjose2082
@nowayjose2082 10 місяців тому
​@@Bert_de_Wit emotional inteligence Is not a real psychologycal construct like IQ por personality
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit 10 місяців тому
@@nowayjose2082 Thank you for your correct scientific observation. However, "emotional intelligence" is a figure of speech, and not a scientific analysis.
@nowayjose2082
@nowayjose2082 10 місяців тому
@@Bert_de_Witim glad mate, some people think its an actual psychologycal construct that you can measure
@coziigurl
@coziigurl 3 місяці тому
This is so beautiful. Such a patient daughter and beautiful emotional intelligence on both sides. He must be a great father
@gabifgt
@gabifgt 3 місяці тому
this is the sweetest and most heartbreaking thing i've ever seen.
@user-hi6uq9np1l
@user-hi6uq9np1l 6 місяців тому
“In my heart we are.” “And that’s what we are in my heart too. Family.” I felt that :) That’s nice to see that the father still feels love of his daughter.
@notflanders4967
@notflanders4967 3 місяці тому
this part broke me... He's conveying his love for his daughter but speaks like he's expressing that love towards a stranger. Either way, the love knows.
@mysteryexplorer556
@mysteryexplorer556 8 місяців тому
My extremely intelligent mom, developed dementia. As confused and forgetful as she got, and how destructive the disease was, she always greeted me with a smile and her last words were "I love you".
@truepeace3
@truepeace3 3 місяці тому
Heartbreaking and heartwarming, both at the same time. This could only be possible with a father who was a great father and taught his daughter well.
@gigigennaro3303
@gigigennaro3303 3 місяці тому
Awww. She handled that with so much love and grace. ❤
@Fearhumans
@Fearhumans Рік тому
Dementia or not, this is a good man. He was deeply worried about hurting her feelings and still felt a close bond despite not knowing their relationship.
@RM-xl1ed
@RM-xl1ed 7 місяців тому
That dude looks young af for having dementia that advanced. Damn.
@siekierkaKam
@siekierkaKam Місяць тому
Heartbreaking but at the same time its beautiful to see the love , respect and logic in this conversation
@libbyliberty2885
@libbyliberty2885 3 місяці тому
He explained it so well. What a kind man
@marquisgt
@marquisgt Місяць тому
That is so incredibly heartbreaking, but at the same time somewhat comforting.
@_Wingman
@_Wingman Рік тому
I am a 57 year old man, and I cried like a baby watching this ! My mom, who is 84 years young now, has this disease and it is TERRIBLE ! Your dad looks to be about my age and it really makes my heart hurt to see someone else going through this. Looks like you have a wonderful relationship with him and the way you handle the tough times is really remarkable ! I pray for you and him and just hope that maybe soon, before it's too late, they will find a cure...
@jcc4543
@jcc4543 Рік тому
Yuck
@GeorgeSupremu
@GeorgeSupremu Рік тому
​@@jcc4543why mean?
@jcc4543
@jcc4543 Рік тому
@@GeorgeSupremu I'm always mean so get lost.
@KaliYuger
@KaliYuger Рік тому
​ @GeorgeSupremu jcc4543 is a kid , he has videogames streaming, don't consider kiddies on grown up talks . i mean he goes "pew pew" on a screen . would you care for a chimp opinion? let the kid be mean in his room with his red face , rofl. watch us care about you being mean while we know how shy and polite you are out there in the street little mommaboy :D
@jcc4543
@jcc4543 Рік тому
@@KaliYugeraffected and mad xD and talks like a mad Karen, you need to take your medicine.
@blindfollower
@blindfollower Рік тому
My father passed last month, he also suffered from dementia, yet he always felt comfortable and safe around his family despite not recognizing them, he did feel scared of strangers, doctors and nurses in particular, he always called on to us even though he didn’t know who we were… may God bless you and your family. ❤
@saigonjohn
@saigonjohn Рік тому
Stay strong bud 💕🤴
@tac7826
@tac7826 Рік тому
Did he really have dementia or are you a body snatcher? You could be a double too. May he rest in peace.
@bradd5112
@bradd5112 Рік тому
So sorry, nothing else to say, I can't imagine your loss. Bless you and your family as well.
@razaalikhan6948
@razaalikhan6948 Рік тому
My condolences to you. You will heal and you will get better. Allow yourself to grieve, take all the time you need, but grieve and let it be. You will heal.
@chanceneck8072
@chanceneck8072 Рік тому
It's a horrible disease. The one that I'm scared of the most by far. Losing my mind. I am 37 right now and if we're lucky, we're not going to have to worry about anything like this when we reach that age. But it is still pretty sad for those who weren't that lucky...
@roxyfur
@roxyfur 3 місяці тому
What a sweet, lovely daughter and father. This really made me feel good.
@ScubaLovingLaura
@ScubaLovingLaura 3 місяці тому
Oh my goodness, the way his daughter handles this is so considerate and loving 😢. I just want to give her a hug ❤
@DuBstep115
@DuBstep115 3 місяці тому
Probably the 270th time they had this conversation
@antjonz
@antjonz Рік тому
He raised Bailey for a time such as this. Her understanding, love and compassion towards her father is pure and genuine. He raised an angel of a daughter.
@captainobvious6070
@captainobvious6070 Рік тому
You're forgetting the mother in this equation for some reason. They both raised her.
@vinchinzo594
@vinchinzo594 Рік тому
@@captainobvious6070 The reason is that the context of this situation is him and his daughter. That's why they left out the mother. Obviously, captain obvious.
@greysonG10
@greysonG10 Рік тому
You sure that's a girl behind the camera? Sounds like a guy
@SickandTired95
@SickandTired95 Рік тому
Actually no he didn’t. He was an abusive alcoholic. Yet she still cares for him in his time of need.
@SickandTired95
@SickandTired95 Рік тому
@@captainobvious6070 Her father was an abusive alcoholic. Mom raised her. She is also taking care of her mom who suffers from a TBI.
@carmenishere
@carmenishere 7 місяців тому
Him articulating his state so well AND empathizing is both wondrous and heartbreaking. Lost a couple of loved ones to Dementia. Cherish every moment 💜
@user-rb5ir2um3m
@user-rb5ir2um3m 3 місяці тому
Very well said.
@liddlekiddle1962
@liddlekiddle1962 7 днів тому
Most wholesome interaction ever. What a sweet man and his daughter is wonderful.
@mademoisellecocoon2605
@mademoisellecocoon2605 3 місяці тому
This is so beautiful. How amazing the way this daughter copes with this situation. I always thought it would be heartbreaking to see a parent with dementia not been able to recognize their child. But the way this daughter and her father communicate with eachother is truly wonderful and hope giving❤❤❤
@tangerinebabe1
@tangerinebabe1 Рік тому
So hard to watch. My mum thought I was her mum and kept asking me where her dad was 😥 Horrific disease. Living as full time carer of a loved one with Dementia is soul destroying. My mental health was obliterated into tiny fragments. I cried everyday for the whole 4 years she was absolutely stripped of everything she was, including her dignity. We desperately need a cure for this brain rotting disease. My heart goes out to this man's family. 💕
@fionaroberts1585
@fionaroberts1585 Рік тому
h f thank you for caring so much..... love from your Mum ❤ xx
@Lure-Benson
@Lure-Benson Рік тому
I am 63 years old now with a mother with dementia and she is mean and nasty to the core. I am like you now with wrecked nerve and have issues I cry out of no place it starts. The being called stupid and dumb, and I don't know anything, and I have lost my business's to be with my mother. but does that matter to her No! I have come to the point with my mother is she has lived her life now so if she passes way that is fine with me then I can get my life restarted buy selling the home and land then move back to Romania.
@jamiemckechnie3662
@jamiemckechnie3662 Рік тому
I have mums growing in my yard.
@ChadKakashi
@ChadKakashi Рік тому
@@Lure-Benson well I hope she dies peacefully then.
@Lure-Benson
@Lure-Benson Рік тому
@@ChadKakashi I keep thinking one morning when I come in the house, I find my mother has passed away. It has been 5 times because I stay with my mother, I've saved her from death. One accident my mother had she was working in a flower bed then got dizzy then fell over on Bamboo sticks with one of the sticks entering her face by the eye and coming out on the side of her ear.
@Babyvalkyie
@Babyvalkyie Рік тому
I just felt my heart breaking and being put back together in one fell swoop. Much love to this family
@Babyvalkyie
@Babyvalkyie Рік тому
And all the others in the comments experiencing something similar
@biscuitboi9478
@biscuitboi9478 3 місяці тому
His brain is dying but his heart is just as strong as ever. Kind of sweet in a weird way.
@tcconnection
@tcconnection 3 місяці тому
This is so beautiful, what matters is the love.
@thisis.michelletorres444
@thisis.michelletorres444 Рік тому
What an incredible daughter & human being! How did she not burst into tears?!! That got to me! ❤😢
@Chelle778
@Chelle778 Рік тому
He's so young to have dementia but seeing the support and love from his family, especially the understanding from his daughter is so heart-warming.
@posysdogovych2065
@posysdogovych2065 Рік тому
He was diagnosed with Wernicke's encephalopathy after years of battling alcoholism. That explains why he has dementia at a relatively young age. 😔
@alexthebeastxx
@alexthebeastxx Рік тому
@@posysdogovych2065 really?? Where’d you get that information?? Just curious !!
@maaaaaap
@maaaaaap Рік тому
@@alexthebeastxx you can see the original uploader's name in the video. if i had to guess she has more videos on her channel where you can get more information
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